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The sermons of Hazrat Musleh Maud (may Allah be pleased with him) are a priceless treasure of knowledge and wisdom, and they are a living testimony to the prophetic revelation: 'He will be filled with secular and spiritual knowledge.' His era of Khilafat spanned over half a century, which was a historic period. During this highly successful and long era, he played a vital role in the education and moral training of the community through his Friday sermons. He provided timely and accurate guidance on every issue that emerged on the political, social, and religious horizons. In short, these Friday sermons are an extremely valuable treasure and asset of the Ahmadiyya Muslim Community, which the Foundation has compiled and published in book form
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فرموده
Sayings of Mahmood
Hazrat Mirza Bashir-ud-Din Mahmud Ahmad
Second Successor of the Promised Messiah
Volume
Under Supervision
Khutubat-i-Mahmud
by Hazrat Mirza Bashir-ud-Din Mahmud Ahmad
Khalifatul Masih II
Published by:
Islam International Publications Ltd., Islamabad, Sheephatch Lane, Tilford, Surrey GU 102 AQ, U.K.
Printed by:
Raqeem Press, Islamabad, Tilford, Surrey.
Allah the Almighty has made a definite and certain prophecy about me that from my progeny, a person will be born who will resemble the Messiah in many aspects. He will descend from the heavens and make the ways of the earth straight. He will grant salvation to the captives and release those who are bound in the chains of doubts. A beloved, esteemed, and honorable son, the manifestation of truth and glory, as if Allah has descended from the heavens."
(Removal of Misconceptions, Part One, Page 80, Spiritual Treasures, Volume 3, Page 180)
In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful
By the grace of Allah, the Fazl Omar Foundation presents to the beloved members of the community the new edition of the Nikah Sermons of Hazrat Mirza Mahmood (from "Khutbat-i-Mahmud," Volume 3).
All praise is due to Allah for this.
These sermons were printed a few years ago, but were delayed in reaching the hands of the public. The members repeatedly demanded their re-publication, hence they are now being printed again with a new layout and adornment.
Allah the Almighty had granted extraordinary understanding and insight to Hazrat Fazl Omar. He was endowed with exceptional leadership qualities. These sermons of his lengthy period of Khilafat are not just a magnificent document on the philosophy of marriage, education, and upbringing, but they also hold a documented status in the history of Ahmadiyyat.
Because at various times, the companions of the Founder of the Ahmadiyya Community, peace be upon him, were connected through marriage relationships with the offspring and descendants of the family, the mention of the sincerity, loyalty, and splendid religious sacrifices of these families has been particularly highlighted in these sermons. You have drawn the attention of the scholars of the community to compile the biography and achievements of these companions of the Founder of the Ahmadiyya Community so that the coming generations may be aware of the dedication and loyalty of their forefathers and turn their pure example into a guiding light.
Our society is not only bound by the ties of relationship and marriage but its religion is also not distant from the nature. The ancient customs and specific traditions of the pre-Islamic era have
Hazrat Fazl Omar has elaborated in these sermons the philosophy of marriage in such a way that it highlights the signs of all these outdated repulsions. Furthermore, you have explained the rules, issues, and their wisdom in a very delightful manner, which manifests the greatness of the true religion. Moreover, in these sermons, the Islamic way of marriage, the rights and responsibilities of husband and wife, have been elucidated in the light of the Holy Quran, Prophetic traditions, and the guidance of Hazrat Mirza Ghulam Ahmad, peace be upon him.
Your style of expression presents a very beautiful and captivating image of Quranic verses and Prophetic traditions. Undoubtedly, the Khutbat-i-Mahmud are our intellectual, spiritual, and historical heritage that have spread over hundreds of pages and a long period. The printing of these sermons is ongoing. Volumes 11-12 are also in progress, which will be published in a few months. This work requires a lot of effort and resources. The work of references and footnotes also demands a lot of effort and time. Therefore, while checking the Nikah Sermons (Khutbat-i-Mahmud, Volume 3), it is being published with corrections and additional notes. This new edition consists of 150 Nikah sermons. A detailed mention of the parties is given at the beginning of each sermon. The table of contents for the Nikah sermons is provided at the beginning, and the list of parties is included at the end of the sermons. Proofreading also requires a lot of effort and time for such large and thick books. Reading the proofs of such large books at least four times is extremely difficult and time-consuming. Despite all possible precautions, the possibility of errors remains. Therefore, if any mistakes are noticed by friends during reading, please inform us. The department would be greatly thankful to you. Extraordinary care has been taken in the series of Quranic verses and Prophetic traditions. Therefore, diacritics have been added to all Arabic expressions so that friends can read them easily. And the verses of the Noble Quran and blessed Prophetic traditions can be read with correct pronunciation and diacritics.
In the process of preparing the new edition of this volume, many friends have assisted the department practically. The humble one expresses his gratitude to them and prays that may Allah the Almighty bestow blessings in their knowledge and virtues, and may He grace them with His blessings and mercy. Ameen. In this series, the humble one wishes to extend special thanks to the following friends and is grateful for their kindness. He is indebted to their generosity. Through the sincere cooperation of all these friends, we have been able to present this beautiful gift in the service of the community members. May Allah reward them with the best reward. "So Allah will reward them for what they said with the finest reward." These precious pearls are now in your hands. With their maximum dissemination, it will be easy to bring this work to completion for the department. They will prove to be very beneficial for the upbringing of the new generation as well. May Allah the Almighty enable us to fulfill this important responsibility excellently and grant the friends of the community the ability to benefit the most from these sermons. Ameen.
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29th January 1915
Marry for righteousness and pious offspring.
27th March 1915
Dealing with marriage and dowry matters with honesty and integrity.
27th June 1915
Polygamy is a recommended practice.
1st March 1916
The best solution to bitter aspects of family life.
13th May 1916
Marriage according to the Prophetic tradition.
8th August 1917
Considerations in marriage. Which marriage is blessed?
27th December 1917
Answer to a question about death.
28th December 1917
Avoiding entanglements of lineage.
22nd June 1918
An emblematic sign regarding the family of the Promised Messiah, peace be upon him.
4th September 1919
Listening attentively to preaching and advice.
29th December 1919
Guidance regarding announcements of marriage.
28th February 1920
Approach marriage matters with contemplation, fear, and prayers. Good people are born from righteousness.
11th November 1920
Adherence to the legal regulations concerning marriage.
20th November 1920
Preservation of progeny.
5th November 1920
Work with righteousness in marriage.
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Topic of the Sermon
31st December 1920
Seek help from Allah in marriage.
31st December 1920
How is Istikhara performed?
28th January 1921
The importance of rectifying the heart and tongue.
9th February 1921
The significance of the dowry and the announcement with the drum.
10th February 1921
The way to safeguard against trials.
14th March 1921
There should be practical differences between us and others. Differences in marriages of Ahmadis and non-Ahmadis.
19th March 1921
The purpose of marriage towards real survival should be emphasized.
25th October 1921
Islam and women's rights.
3rd November 1921
The way to achieve true happiness.
16th November 1921
Complete comfort lies in the relationship with Allah.
24th December 1921
Marriage is for the increase of human progeny.
3rd January 1922
The importance of staying truthful and upright.
9th January 1922
The purposes of marriage.
18th January 1922
Before a believer acts, he thinks.
25th April 1922
The fashion of life.
26th April 1922
The benefits of marriage.
21st July 1922
The highest purposes of marriage.
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29th July 1922 - The connection of marriage with the past, present, and future.
21st October 1922 - Always consider religion in marriage matters.
All praise is due to Allah for this.
24th October 1922 - Mention of a loyal friend.
29th December 1922 - Fundamental guidance regarding the announcement of marriage.
3rd July 1923 - Islamic rules regarding marriage and their benefits.
9th July 1923 - Marry with the intention of seeking pure objectives and good purposes.
15th May 1924 - The greatest purpose of marriage is the fear of Allah.
January 1925 - Both man and woman have equal responsibilities.
The purpose of marrying with Hazrat Sayyeda Sarah Begum
12th April 1925 - Mention of Hazrat Sayyeda Ummatul Hai's goodness
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1925
5th September 1925 - Important responsibilities of polygamy
The purpose of the marriage sermon
1925
29th December 1926 - Ahmadis women and writing content
25th October 1926 - The impact of marriage on religion, ethics, culture, and natural demands
The flame of spiritual and metaphorical love
15th April 1927 - Give complete freedom to women
24th December 1927 - The position of women in Islam
Correction of a cultural mistake
The era of women's freedom has come
14th March 1928
2nd January 1928
14th November 1928
Real couples are brought together by Allah
16th January 1929 - The importance of seeking Allah's help in marriage
29th January 1930 - Disputes arise due to the lack of clear statements
3rd February 1930 - Blessings of the recommended couples under Allah's guidance
Differences in marriages of Muslims and others
9th March 1930
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22nd March 1930 - The reason for giving a separate form to Islamic marriage
23rd March 1930 - Relationships of relatives do not lead to fights
13th April 1930 - Human needs point towards Allah. Self-accountability is the best care
2nd May 1930
12th May 1930 - The relationships of the Ahmadiyya community are a sign of Allah's pleasure. Absence of quarrels in the absence of parties. 1st March 1931
27th March 1931 - Demands from the girl's side are not correct. 29th March 1931 - The doors of mercy open by keeping Allah's pleasure in view. April 1931 - The purpose of teaching marriage
1931
Seeking help from Allah in marriage is an extravagance. 29th January 1933 - Marriage is a wide-reaching covenant. 28th March 1933 - The need for divine help in marriage
18th April 1933 - True faith's result is progress
What do you gather for everyone?
14th September 1933
19th October 1933 - A righteous family of Sialkot
11th June 1934 - Mention of some loyal ones. 29th June 1934 - The conditions of some companions of Hazrat Mirza Ghulam Ahmad
1st July 1934 - The important responsibilities of marriage
22nd April 1935 - The purpose of the marriage sermon
1925
29th December 1926 - Ahmadis women and writing content
25th October 1926 - The impact of marriage on religion, ethics, culture, and natural demands
The flame of spiritual and metaphorical love
15th April 1927 - Give complete freedom to women
24th December 1927 - The position of women in Islam
Correction of a cultural mistake
The era of women's freedom has come
14th March 1928
2nd January 1928
14th November 1928
Real couples are brought together by Allah
16th January 1929 - The importance of seeking Allah's help in marriage
29th January 1930 - Disputes arise due to the lack of clear statements
3rd February 1930 - Blessings of the recommended couples under Allah's guidance
Differences in marriages of Muslims and others
9th March 1930
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8th May 1936 - Important responsibilities of adopting Persian
20th May 1936 - The benefits of remembering Allah
Polygamy
28th September 1936
March 1937 - No compromise on religious matters
19th April 1937 - Strive to improve the future
18th June 1937 - Goodness and its natural consequences
25th June 1937 - Allah alone brings good results
20th July 1937 - The foundation of marital relations is based on trust
26th July 1937 - General Istikhara and specific Istikhara
26th August 1937 - Emphasize righteousness and choose words carefully
Seek Allah as the source of your hopes
3rd September 1937
15th December 1937 - Love grows with the results of marital relationships
7th September 1937 - The impact of marital relationships lasts for thousands of years
7th January 1938 - Knowledge of the results of marriage belongs to Allah alone
28th January 1938 - Always keep the quality of being a rival of Allah in mind
20th June 1938 - A fundamental guidance on marriage
26th December 1938 - Mention of the sincerity of Seth Muhammad Ghous Sahib
10th April 1939 - The Quranic law is extremely pure and holy
11th May 1939 - Assess the time and benefit from it
22nd March 1940 - Islam has disapproved of nudity
19th April 1940 - Fundamental guidance on blessings
7th September 1940 - Responsibilities increase with marriage
16th July 1941 - Mention of the goodness of Seth Abdullah Ilahi Din Sahib
15th September 1941 - The communities are like seeds
2nd September 1942 - Actions are the destiny of intentions. September 1942 - It is Allah's promise that Qadian will progress greatly
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13th October 1942 - Every person should see what they have sent for tomorrow.
10th April 1944 - The reality and greatness of endowments.
24th July 1944 - Sermon of Hazrat Sayyeda Mehr Apa.
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20th September 1944 - 14th December 1944
The work you have done in the past will bear fruit in the future.
29th December 1944 - We are witnessing a distant generation.
One day and four marriages for 30th March 1945.
28th June 1945 - Not preferred for the name. Emphasize prayers with humility and devotion on the occasion of marriage.
27th September 1946 - In the service of religion lies true honor.
The status of life-awareness.
26th April 1947
June 1947
2nd April 1948 - Produce your established offspring with good upbringing.
Pre-marriage announcement before Friday sermon on 23rd July 1948.
Announcement of the marriage of Chaudhry Saeed Ahmad Darwish.
10th April 1950
Announcement of some Darwishan Qadian marriages on 22nd May 1951.
26th June 1951 - Announcement of the marriage of a new Muslim girl.
No more than three days of mourning allowed except for the husband. Announcement of two marriages before the annual session on 26th December 1951.
Seek to become alive and obtain Allah's blessings on 14th July 1952.
26th December 1952 - A guidance on marriage before the annual session.
The life of the community is created by bravery.
Sincerity is more valuable than wealth on 1st November 1953.
14th December 1953
The greatness of Hazrat Khadijah, may Allah be pleased with her, on 25th January 1954.
29th December 1956 - Marriage announcements on the occasion of the annual session.
8th March 1956
28th December 1957
Mention of the goodness of Khan Muhammad Khan Sahib Kapoor Thalwi.
Mention of the sincerity of Makram Hafiz-ur-Rahman Sahib's family.
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All praise is due to Allah for this.
Seeking Help from Allah in Marriage
8th May 1936 - Important responsibilities of adopting Persian
20th May 1936 - The benefits of remembering Allah
Polygamy
28th September 1936
March 1937 - No compromise on religious matters
19th April 1937 - Strive to improve the future
18th June 1937 - Goodness and its natural consequences
25th June 1937 - Allah alone brings good results
20th July 1937 - The foundation of marital relations is based on trust
26th July 1937 - General Istikhara and specific Istikhara
26th August 1937 - Emphasize righteousness and choose words carefully
Seek Allah as the source of your hopes
3rd September 1937
15th December 1937 - Love grows with the results of marital relationships
7th September 1937 - The impact of marital relationships lasts for thousands of years
7th January 1938 - Knowledge of the results of marriage belongs to Allah alone
28th January 1938 - Always keep the quality of being a rival of Allah in mind
20th June 1938 - A fundamental guidance on marriage
26th December 1938 - Mention of the sincerity of Seth Muhammad Ghous Sahib
10th April 1939 - The Quranic law is extremely pure and holy
11th May 1939 - Assess the time and benefit from it
22nd March 1940 - Islam has disapproved of nudity
19th April 1940 - Fundamental guidance on blessings
7th September 1940 - Responsibilities increase with marriage
16th July 1941 - Mention of the goodness of Seth Abdullah Ilahi Din Sahib
15th September 1941 - The communities are like seeds
2nd September 1942 - Actions are the destiny of intentions. September 1942 - It is Allah's promise that Qadian will progress greatly
All praise is due to Allah for this.
Seeking Help from Allah in Marriage
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And especially in matters of relationships
Fear Allah and speak the truth.
O you who have believed, fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice.
He will [then] amend for you your deeds and forgive you your sins. And whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger has certainly attained a great attainment.
(Al-Ahzab: 33:70-71)
He will amend for you your deeds and forgive you your sins. And whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger has certainly attained a great attainment.
O you who have believed, fear Allah. And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow - and fear Allah. Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what you do.
(Al-Hashr: 59:18)
Fear Allah. Allah is well-acquainted with your deeds.
After this, advice is given in the appropriate language, and acceptance and approval are sought, followed by prayers.
Get married for piety and righteous offspring
(Delivered on 29th January 1915)
On 29th January 1915, after the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Peer Akbar Ali Sahib Wakil Ferozpur with the distinguished lady, the daughter of Mirza Naseer Ali Sahib Wakil, for ten thousand rupees. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
Marry with the intention of attaining piety. Raise Muslim children and manifest the glory of Allah. It is stipulated that children should be raised excellently. It depends on the religious education of wives. So, every man should not only read the Holy Quran with translation, learn the religion, but also teach his wife."
In the marriage sermon that His Holiness delivered, he also mentioned:
People either fix a dowry of 32 rupees, known as the Shariah dowry, or three mounds of gold, and so much silver, and so many villages. Both of these are frivolous matters. The dowry should be according to the status of both parties.
All praise is due to Allah for this.
Seeking Help from Allah in Marriage
27th March 1915 - Despite weakness and illness, the marriage sermon of Qazi Abdul Haq Sahib and Muhammad Bibi, daughter of Makram Jamal-ud-Din Sahib from Gujranwala, was recited by Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II after the Maghrib prayer. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
The Islamic tradition is to recite the sermon standing (His Holiness was sitting on a chair at that time), but I have been ill for a few days and cannot stand. Today, after many days, I am reciting this sermon standing. My throat is in pain. My voice is not loud. Perhaps Allah Almighty, by His grace, will grant such success that I recite these verses in marriage. Among the verses that those who used to recite include: "O you who have believed, fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice." People speak a lot of lies in marriage. Both parties should fulfill their intentions and definitely do not consider whether our statements are in line with our thoughts or not. One purpose is kept in mind. For its attainment, the kind of words that need to be said are said. The groom assures the bride's family that after this day, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. 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The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. 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The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line with our thoughts or not, we say what needs to be said. People often speak a lot of lies in marriage. The groom assures the bride's family that from this day onwards, I am your servant. Therefore, without looking at whether our words are in line
When it comes to marriage, the words that I accept my servitude, but what is written before marriage is that become a servant. On the day of marriage, when the girl is taken under control, instead of becoming a servant, one wants to become a master. What the girl's family desires, he wants to make them his servants and fulfill their desires. Here, the in-laws have been insulted, and this word has become a means of humiliation. Because a person needs someone to support him, a friend and a comforter, someone dear to him, considering these difficulties and looking at those times, he first assures his servitude and wants to make sure that he achieves success as quickly as possible in the supplication. And those who seem reluctant to achieve this supplication are encouraged. The girl's family also faces the same situation until the bride and groom meet each other, the girl's capability is emphasized, sometimes on beauty and charm, sometimes on knowledge and manners, sometimes on her good qualities. The purpose is to present the girl flawlessly in every way. But when the groom, after making this promise, marries the girl, then he is the same groom who says, "This girl has a flaw, what can we do?" Although there was so much praise before that there was no limit. There is no doubt that a person cannot change someone's character and appearance, but a person can control his tongue. So, speak only what is true. What is the need for indecent words? Allah Almighty says: "Speak a straight word." Choose righteousness and do not engage in deception to achieve your goals. Even if you achieve your goal by deceiving, it will lead to temporary success and many failures. Success lies in righteousness and piety. So, act with righteousness. Leave cunningness. Do not approach deception. If the real issue is resolved without any deception, then neither the girl's family nor the boy's family can complain because the promise was fulfilled. It is mentioned in a Hadith that a person built a building. He paid one dinar to the workers working until noon. Then he hired other laborers and made them work from noon to afternoon and paid them double wages. Then he hired more laborers and made them work until evening and gave them double wages. When the first laborers complained, they were told, "Did I not fulfill what I promised you?"
He said, "I have fulfilled it completely. So now there can be no complaints. If I give someone more than what is due to him,
then it is by my own will. The owner of the property is Allah, and the workers are Jewish, Christian, and Muslim. So, if Muslims receive double the reward, Jews and Christians cannot complain that they were not given what was promised to them. Similarly, if a person makes promises and takes responsibility for his rights and fulfills them, then there is no room for complaint. However, it should be remembered that a person who makes many promises of generosity, which are not demanded, and then fails to fulfill them, is in the wrong. It should also be noted that when Muslims sit in a gathering and perform a marriage ceremony according to Islamic customs, even if they do not verbally express it, the marriage is considered valid as long as they have taken all the responsibilities upon themselves. Now it is incumbent upon them to fulfill those rights that Islam has prescribed. If they fulfill them completely, then there is no reason for complaint because giving more is at their own discretion, whether they give or not. Remember, corruption arises when a person goes against his promise. For example, there is a person who does not want to marry a beautiful woman, but the girl's family praises her beauty, charm, knowledge, manners, or good qualities. They want to present the girl flawlessly in every way. But after marriage, the groom sees that what was praised before is not actually present, he will surely be distressed. Similarly, there is a cloth merchant who sells clothes to a person, and the merchant praises the cloth in front of the buyer, which is not actually present in that cloth, and neither was it the buyer's desire to have such cloth. As this statement indicates, if someone opposes this, the customer will surely be suspicious and distressed. Islam advises to "Speak a straight word." Choose righteousness, do not lie in marriage matters. In our time, lying has increased significantly, and whatever is based on sin will eventually lead to loss.
The River of Truth
First, when the architect lays the foundation, listen! The relationship between husband and wife is not for an hour or a lifetime. It is not just for a lifetime, but I say it is until the Day of Judgment because the impact of this relationship passes from generation to generation. So, this relationship is not for a day or two but until the Day of Judgment. Just as the seed is sown, so will the fruit be. An excellent seed that is sown is not just for this year but is the same seed that will be sown for the next year, and this cycle continues. Some regions have certain famous produce. For example, the dates of Arabia. Why? Because the seed was such, and its cultivation was done excellently. Now, its impact continues to this day. That is why even in marriage, religious considerations are taken into account that the girl is of the same faith, and the boy's morals are not corrupt. In Arabia, even the lineage of horses is considered. In Europe, precautions are taken regarding agriculture. This is the case with human generations. If the foundation of a marriage is based on truthfulness and righteousness, keeping Allah Almighty's pleasure in mind, then it is necessary that good fruits are arranged. Look at the marriage of Hazrat Ibrahim. The foundation of this marriage was on such noble lineage that from it, Prophet after Prophet was born. On one side, from Moses, Aaron, and Christ (peace be upon them) to the second generation, Ismail (peace be upon him), and then Hazrat Isa (Jesus) emerged, a great Prophet who surpasses all other Prophets. Consider, there was a page before whose impact continues to this day. So, a marriage based on truthfulness and righteousness will indeed spread much good. People pay very little attention to such matters and are more concerned about achieving their goals on time. Someone once suggested to Hazrat Sahib that if there is a register containing a list of boys and girls of the community, and their marriages are arranged based on Hazrat's knowledge, it would not only be convenient but also blessed. You accepted this request - "It so happened that if an Ahmadi's wife passed away, and you instructed the person who maintained that register to arrange a match, he started saying, 'This cannot happen, we are Mughal and they are Pathan.' Finally, he gave a non-Ahmadi girl to someone. After this incident, Hazrat Sahib left the register. There was another person who said, 'Hazrat! This is my daughter under your care.' You replied, 'Very well, let it be so.'
Get married. Just now you were saying that you are under my servitude. Now you are saying that you are old. He said, "Okay, get married to that person." After a few days, he said, "What kind of compromise have you made with that person? Get married to Ahmad Noor Pathan." He did not agree, and where he wanted, he got married. He did not even take the dowry for this marriage. Then I see that this series also continues with the caliphs. Even in the time of the first caliph, such incidents occurred, and Hazrat Maulvi Sahib mentioned such people. It is not known, maybe these people also consider the caliphs as barbers. Nowadays, some people oppose even the barbers. It seems that they also want to give the caliph the same position that if he wishes, he can get married. But it is unreasonable to give this excuse that where the caliph gets married, the result is not good. We say that there are hundreds of such examples where parents have researched a lot before marriage, and a dispute arose, or the outcome was not good. The husband and wife became incompatible, or something went wrong. So, this excuse is unreasonable. If they work with honesty and righteousness, then, God willing, such marriages will be very blessed. But people do not think and are disobedient. I see that now the third has begun, and in this too, such people are found who first say that this is our daughter, you can get her married wherever you want. But when it is said to get married at a specific place, they mention someone else's name and say that we have thought there, we do it with your permission. This is not about honesty and righteousness. The current marriage is exempt from this. This is Jamaluddin's writing, you can do whatever you want. I mentioned a person's name, and he said, "What do you ask me? I have already entrusted you." Similarly, when I asked about the dowry, they started saying, "I have already entrusted you." This is a good example of sincerity. It is not my intention that all marriages should be under my responsibility, but whoever tells me himself and hands over the matter to me, then he should remember that now whatever is said should be accepted. Look, this is not among the conditions of your allegiance that
Get married. Encourage marriages within the community. Insha'Allah, it will spread worldwide. Now, if it were also the responsibility of the caliphs to oversee all marriages, it would be a great burden. So, if someone marries without informing me, it does not affect faith. But if a person says that this matter is under your supervision and then when told to act accordingly and they hesitate, it is undesirable. Even if we participate in such a marriage, it will not be blessed; corruption will surely arise. Do not think that corruption will happen instantly. It is possible that the husband and wife may live in peace, but their offspring may turn out corrupt. The outcome will be tainted sooner or later, either in their lives or in their descendants, grandchildren. A marriage founded on truthfulness and righteousness will surely yield good results sooner or later. Understand that if all aspects of faith are not vibrant, there is a danger to complete faith. A tree that is half dried will eventually wither completely. I have now deliberately acted, and I wish to erase this falsehood because if all aspects of faith are not vibrant, there is a danger to complete faith. I see that some people are evil and corrupt, but from their lineage emerge righteous individuals like Abu Jahl and his son Akramah. No Muslim would like to have the name Abu Jahl and wish for a son like him. The intention will surely yield good or bad results. If all aspects of faith are not vibrant, there is a danger to complete faith. Look, I have now acted deliberately, and I want this lie to be erased because if all aspects of faith are not vibrant, there is a danger to complete faith. I see that in the community, there are still some shortcomings, no adherence to time, and a lack of courage to take the best actions. Two individuals may be very righteous, pious, and sincere, but sometimes I do not agree with their decisions. Look, now the series will continue. Besides their disputes, it is possible that even with the caliphs, there may be disagreements in worldly matters. If a person is appointed as a judge for Hajj, they should make decisions based on truth and justice and never think that on one side is the caliph. Look, during Hajj, God holds the highest position. Even a Prophet sometimes instructs someone in worldly matters. So, it is never permissible to assume that the Prophet is influenced by personal gain. The judge should only consider what is right and deliver a fair judgment. Sometimes, people get scared just by looking at someone's face. They may have great piety but have various branches of faith. One way or another.
Branches have flaws. Some people give accurate testimony in front of a prominent person, while others do not give the right decision, although Hajj should make decisions according to the testimonies. It is not the purpose of this decision to determine its impact on whom it falls and on whom it does not. I say that until this color does not appear in the community, do not think that it has come on a strong rock. If this evil remains, it will progress and ruin future generations. So, it is necessary to think about it from now on. For example, he is a caliph and engages in trade. It is possible that there may be a dispute in transactions. Now, whoever is appointed as a judge should make a decision based on testimonies. Some people have ethical weaknesses; they think that by making a decision against the caliph, they will prove him wrong. However, there is a difference between a mistake in calculation and a matter actually happening. For instance, Zaid took a hundred rupees from a person. Zaid says, "I have paid him everything." The person says, "I took ninety, so this is not necessarily a lie but a mistake in calculation. There are many such things that are correctable. Until such power is not generated that believers spend their time wisely and work courageously with honesty and righteousness, it is not about rudeness and courage. The expression of truth and insolence is also different. Sometimes courage turns into rudeness and weakness as well. For example, a person is asked for his opinion on a matter. Now, if he does not speak, it is actually rudeness. And there is another person who starts giving opinions without being asked, this is the courage turning into rudeness. The purpose is to express truthfulness and not insolence. Weakness and etiquette are not the same. Spend time wisely. Spending time wisely does not mean that a person is working twenty-four hours a day but that he works deliberately with time and achieves significant results in a short time. Those who have been granted leadership by God should maintain their etiquette and remember the occasion as I have explained. There are many such things that I intend to reform. If Allah wills, He can do it through me or someone else. The purpose is whatever He desires. My wish is for reform. Regarding your age, have some certainty.
When it comes to marriage, I do not accept servitude until I choose to serve in the cause of Allah. For this time, I am always present. There can be no objections at this time. When it comes to the desires and aspirations of the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), for the Promised Messiah, it is beneficial for me to take some action. Or bring someone to me. Whatever is done will be based on wisdom. Yes, I will never like our community members to deviate from truth and righteousness. Those who do so, I will hold them accountable. My connection with them will not remain. This marriage is exempt from those complaints, and this is why, despite illness and throat pain, and because of a wound, I myself read this marriage because my heart was content, and I liked this relationship. On one side, I openly took action based on truthfulness, and on the other side, I bear the burden on myself, so I am involved in this marriage and do not like to sit in this marriage and do not like to sit in this marriage. If I tell someone to read this marriage, I do not like it. Yes, I am involved in the marriage that I want to read because my nature is pleased and I am also pleased from the other side. But I want them to come to Qadian, work with diligence and honesty, with goodness and piety, and if they work with honesty and righteousness, then, God willing, they will be very beloved to me. There is a need for those who work at this time, but for those who work for Allah with sincerity. Being a BA, MA is not a matter of pride. Many BA, MA, LLB do not get a job of sixty seventy rupees. I myself receive many lines of BA, MA, LLB in which they write with great enthusiasm that our passage should be established. Pray. Look, there was a BA who worked with good intentions at one time, saved from being associated with Christ's hem, and became famous throughout the world. A great and noble nation gave him the government until at one time he said to the leaders of that nation, "I will collect alms from you with shoes." And everyone praised in silence.
The Impact Seemed to Be There. He said, "When I praised it, I said that this word will not be wasted; surely there will be consequences. Those who were always eager to hear his words raised objections. They did not listen. Misunderstandings arose among such people. God was forming a community and working through them. They understood what work was being done, and they were doing it. Therefore, God separated them. Now God will create such people who will come late. But when that time comes, soft horses will be under them, and they will not be able to control them. And now they have stubborn horses under them, but they are driven by the hands of the ignorant. As long as God wills, He will keep this garden in pure hands, and even if someone is completely ignorant, the work will continue to be done by his hands. But when the question arises that we do it and we are capable, we are qualified, we are eligible, we are the people of opinion, then at that time God will abandon. It will be an unfortunate time. Look, as long as a human is a child, Allah Almighty Himself provides food for him. He is unconscious and motionless, so the provider provides for him. But when the child says, "I will go by myself," he stumbles. So remember, no matter how much progress is made, no matter how much success is achieved, all this work was done by God, and God will do it. God does it, and whatever He does, He does. It is a lie to say, "I
The Challenge of Guidance
Guiding a person is difficult, and here, merely by His grace, communities are being formed. So, work in a way as if you are under the hands of God. If any flaw appears in the work, understand that it will be a flaw in God's work. So, work diligently. Act based on truth and support. Those who seek success should become for Allah. Allah Himself will provide everything to them. He first wants to see that a person does not compete with me. Until one can bear no pain, they cannot pass the test. So, those who seek comfort should be ready to endure hardship for the sake of Allah. Those who first entrust themselves to Allah never go astray. May Allah grant our community truthfulness and righteousness, reform their souls, remove their weaknesses, instill sincerity, piety, and moderation in them. Make them such that they do not act against His will. They should become like a child who trusts everything to the mother. Forgive their mistakes, bless their deeds, grant blessings in their hands, thoughts, and good intentions. We do not understand what is better for us; You do what is better. Let arrogance, self-centeredness, ancestors, self-love, all be reformed in every way. May Allah grant blessings in this relationship. Ameen.
Surah Al-Ahzab: Verse 30 (March 30 and April 1, 1915, Pages 11-14)
Trendy Proverbs: "The example of the son of Adam and his age."
History of Ahmadiyyat Volume 3, Page 20. There is a reference to Hazrat Mirza Ghulam Ahmad's book "Kitab al-Banin wal-Banat" directed towards Maulvi Muhammad Ali Sahib.
The Recommendation of Polygamy
Another marriage of Brother Ali Saheb Ferozepur with the daughter of Brother Sheikh Abdul Rahim Saheb was solemnized for a thousand rupees. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, it was stated:
It is desirable for the people of our community to counter the bad reputation that common Muslims have given to the practice of polygamy by demonstrating through their own fairness and good conduct that marrying two wives is entirely feasible and commendable. The misconduct of those Muslims who have maligned women with this beneficial and permissible permission has led to suspicions among men and such weaknesses and injustices that have even caused some ignorant and irreligious women to apostatize, to the extent that their weaknesses and injustices have led to the abandonment of the right religion and have tarnished the pure name of Islam. They will have to be accountable before God for their wrongdoings, as their misdeeds have weakened the cause of truth and brought disgrace upon the sacred name.
(Delivered on 1st March 1917)
On 1st March 1917, the marriage of Qazi Abdul Latif, a graduate student of Muballighin College, with the daughter of Qazi Habibullah Lahori, Amatul Qawthar, was solemnized for five hundred rupees. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, it was stated:
The progress of a person and his success in achieving his goals depend greatly on mutual assistance and support. If people in this world are not helpers and supporters of one another, many successes may remain unattained. Just as the life of animals is, so is the life of humans. The more a person is aware of significant goals, the greater adversities and difficulties he faces. Is there any doubt that a person who climbs a three-story building will be more tired than the one who stays on the ground floor? I have seen those who climb the pole of a well; they are strong, but they get tired. So, as one ascends to higher places, the need for high spirits, courage, and hard work increases. Since the purpose of human and animal life cannot be the same, there is a difference in their efforts and hard work. Allah Almighty has bestowed many virtues upon humans and for their progress, there are different paths.
The Elevation of Status
It has been greatly expanded and elevated to high levels, so much so that in comparison to the love of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), Allah Almighty says, "Say, 'If you love Allah, follow me; Allah will love you." So, a person's status is so high that not only is he beloved to God, but even those who serve him also become beloved. To achieve this elevation, one must face great efforts, sacrifices, risks, and contemplations. Just as during a great war, a general must remain vigilant, similarly in the battlefield of human life, one must be vigilant. If one is not vigilant, each step may slip like a slippery slope. Therefore, cooperation, assistance, and support are greatly needed, for if there is no sincerity in help, it cannot be of any use. Many desire friends for themselves, but they end up with enemies. Many consider some as friends, and they appear as friends outwardly, but in reality, they turn out to be enemies. Or if they do not show enmity from their side, they help in such a way that their friendship turns into enmity. Sometimes it happens that someone is considered a friend but turns out to be not a friend but an enemy, or initially, they are friends but separate in times of adversity. So why should I put myself in trouble during adversity or even be a friend during adversity and help as a friend, but instead of benefiting, it increases the adversity. Therefore, choosing a friend and helper is very difficult.
It is a fact that the difficulties that hinder human life cannot be overcome until one is supported and assisted by others. Therefore, it is essential to make someone a helper; otherwise, one cannot escape destruction. Since Allah Almighty is a being who knows the unseen and is aware of every aspect of human life, it is possible for Him to show a way to save a person from destruction. In Islam, the issue of marriage is one of those measures that save from destruction and make a person a true friend and loyal helper. The Quran mentions about the wife, "That you may find tranquility in her," meaning that when difficulties and responsibilities arise and a person is on the verge of losing hope, the wife becomes his supporter and source of comfort, and her presence boosts his morale. For this reason, God has ordained marriage for humans. It was possible that if these emotions were not created by God in the same color, many would have questioned the need for joining forces in the race of life. But God has made it necessary, so only a fool would say otherwise. In Islam, Allah Almighty has laid down such rules regarding marriage that if they are not followed, a person finds a true friend and loyal helper. There is no doubt that there are women who become a man's staunch enemies and ruin him, but there are also many women who are helpers and supporters of men. It is true that due to some mistakes and betrayals, husbands and wives may develop mistrust, but these are external issues and causes. Otherwise, the relationship between husband and wife is such that ninety percent of men
The relationships of women are good. One reason for this goodness is that I am discussing Islamic marriage, so I will only state what Islam has explained. Islam has united the benefits of men with the benefits of women and the benefits of women with the benefits of men in such a way that there can be nothing except friendship, love, and affection between them. The essence of all relationships and friendships is this. The Romans write, "I saw a crow and a dove sitting together in one place. I thought why they are sitting together. What is the reason for their unity? After sitting there for a while, it became clear that both were limping, as if the reason for their shared limp was the sharing of benefits. The more the sharing of benefits exists, the stronger their relationship becomes because the foundation of unity is based on the sharing of benefits. Allah Almighty has recommended the relationships between men and women to be better. It is so intertwined with such conditions that it cannot be separated. Allah has made men responsible for women and women responsible for men, and both share in each other's respect, status, wealth, comfort, and ease. As much as a man's rank and respect increase, so does the woman's increase, and as much as the woman's increase, so does the man's. One's progress is the progress of the other, and one's decline is the decline of the other. One's loss is the loss of the other, and the loss of the other is one's. For example, if a man is ill, the loss that will occur will not only be his but also his wife's. Similarly, if a woman is afflicted with a difficulty, the impact of that difficulty will also reach the man. Because the relationship and unity between a woman and a man are such that both their benefits and losses have become one, and this is an unbreakable unity that no one can break except for external causes and external influences. In fact, Allah Almighty has created such a sharing of benefits between men and women that they are forced to love each other. Yes, some external obstacles remain, but God has also provided measures to remove them. These verses that are recited on the occasion of marriage have mentioned those measures.
In India, one very bad thing that happens in marriages is that false dowries are fixed. Five rupees of income is not enough, but they bind fifteen lakhs, ten elephants, five cows, and so on. Then, before the marriage of the groom's side with the bride's side, a great welcome is extended, and they consider themselves slaves to them. Thus, the bride's side is told to take our son into your slavery, or the son says take me into your slavery. But when the marriage takes place, they are called derogatory names. It seems that when there was no marriage, he was a slave, but when the marriage happened, he became a derogatory person. He used to come first, but when the girl was married, he became the worst person. Why does this happen? Because they lie. Then the bride's side says our daughter is like the moon. There is no blemish in the moon, but not in our daughter; knowledge and wisdom are the means of livelihood. They say a lot of lies, but when the marriage happens, these things do not happen. The husband sees that there is no moon or sun, so his heart breaks. Because what he had imagined in his heart does not happen. It is a fact that when a person sets a plan in his heart, if it does not come true, even if that thing is good, it seems bad. Some people keep strange thoughts in their hearts about the residents of Qadian; they think that all the people there are like angels, do not work in the world, and are always engaged in worship. But when such people come here and do not find people as they imagined, they become very disappointed and say, "Are these Ahmadis also dissatisfied?" and leave dissatisfied. Because he had set some strange plan in his mind, he got into trouble with this ordinary thing. Regarding the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), the Quran says that Allah Almighty says, "Some people think that he eats and drinks and walks in the markets like us. Can he be a messenger?" They had imagined about the Messenger that he would not eat, drink, or walk like humans, so they had this thought about him.
The ability to recognize was not granted. So, the plan that is drawn, if not fulfilled completely, even the true essence of the thing is lost. Those who did not engrave the wrong plan of Allah in their hearts, when they saw you, their eyes opened, and involuntarily, they exclaimed Subhan Allah, but those who remained deprived of making a wrong plan. Understanding a wrong plan can cause great harm. Among the external causes that arise in the relationships of men and women, there is also falsehood. Regarding this, Allah says, "Speak a straight word." It is necessary to speak clearly and truthfully. If this is kept in mind, half of the conflicts related to marriage can be avoided. Moreover, many conflicts arise in this color that some people think they are superior and we are inferior. Initially, they establish a relationship, but later they start considering themselves as slaves to their family or empire, and thus, disputes and arguments begin. Regarding this, Allah Almighty says, "O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul and created from it its mate and dispersed from both of them many men and women." O people! Fear Allah. We have created all of you from one soul, so if someone has gained superiority due to some worldly or family aspect over their spouse, it is temporary. Similarly, if a wife is superior in some aspect, that too is temporary. In reality, both are the same. The more a husband holds a higher and noble position, the more the wife's status increases, and as much as the wife's status increases, so does the husband's. Understanding this fact prevents many evils. Then, a relationship is formed hastily, which brings out various flaws, regarding which Allah Almighty says, "And look to what your souls put forth for tomorrow." Think and understand what you are doing. After this, He says that if despite taking precautions for all these things, some shortcomings and strange things remain, then fear Allah. He knows your actions. If there are any shortcomings or strange things left despite taking precautions, then fear Allah. He knows your deeds, if there are any shortcomings or strange things left despite taking precautions, then fear Allah. He knows your deeds. If there are any shortcomings or strange things left despite taking precautions, then fear Allah. He knows your deeds.
If there is a deficiency, He will remove it. These are the teachings of Allah Almighty that by acting upon them, no discord or distress can arise in a household. Because the real claim and purpose of marriage is to create unity and to be supportive of each other's progress. Therefore, Allah has made man a helper of woman and woman a helper of man. And thus, He has provided the means for both spiritual and physical advancements. I have previously mentioned that no progress can be achieved without hard work, and no hard work can be done without sacrifices, and no one can be a true friend or helper without sharing benefits. It is impossible to have a true friend without sharing benefits. For this sharing of benefits, Allah Almighty has instilled emotions in men and women and made them dependent on each other. He has made man responsible for woman and woman responsible for man, and has intertwined their spiritual and physical advancements in such a way that it cannot be separated. Allah has established such a lofty law of human progress, but very few people adhere to it. Among non-Ahmadis, it happens that a cleric or a religious scholar recites verses and labels some words from the woman as if he does not understand what he is saying. Praise be to Allah that this does not happen in the Ahmadiyya Community. So, the Ahmadiyya Community should benefit from these sermons and work while keeping the true purpose of marriage in mind because when the purpose is lost, the deed turns into a punishment. May Allah grant our community the success to act in accordance with every action being in line with the teachings of the Quran and Sunnah for obtaining those benefits for which the command was given. Al-Fazl. (March 1916, Pages 3 to 5)
Sura Al-Imran: 32
Sura Ar-Rum: 22
Rumi's Tales, Page 80
Sura Al-Ahzab: 33
Sura An-Nisa: 2
Sura Al-Hashr: 19
(Delivered on May 13, 1916)
After the Maghrib prayer on May 1, 1916, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II performed the marriage ceremony of Maulvi Ghulam Muhammad to Munshi Habib Ahmad's daughter, Maimoona, residing in the Haripur district, for a dowry of fifty rupees. After the recitation of the marriage sermon, he said:
Marriage is meant for ease, comfort, tranquility, and the attainment of God-consciousness, but nowadays, Muslims have turned it into a source of distress through customs and innovations. High officials fix dowries of 32 rupees and give them un-Islamic names. Although this is unlawful for them, strangers set dowries of many thousands, which is a sin for them. In Qadian, the breath of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) carries a lot of blessings, and even the Ahmadis outside Qadian are to some extent protected. But I wish that the members of the Ahmadiyya Community strive and, by setting aside customs and innovations, strictly follow the Prophetic tradition in their marriages so that the real purpose of marriage is fulfilled."
Al-Fazl - May 16, 1916, Page 1
(Delivered on September 1917)
After the recitation of the marriage sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II performed the marriage ceremony of Mr. Gohar Ali to Sardar Begum, daughter of Mr. Shujaat Ali from the district of Multan, for a dowry of one hundred and twenty-five rupees. Emphasizing that man is a blessing for woman and woman is a blessing for man, he urged to be grateful to the Creator of this blessing and to become obedient and submissive.
Al-Fazl - September 1917, Page 1
(Delivered on August 8, 1917)
On August 8, 1917, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II conducted the marriage of Master Sher Alam Sahib, a teacher at Model School Kanjrah, residing in Golike, to Hamidah Begum, daughter of Hameera Babu Muhammad Hussain Sahib, a resident of Assistant Station Kala Khatai, for a dowry of five hundred rupees. After the recitation of the marriage sermon, he said:
Marriage is such a necessary and essential thing that even the wildest of nations do not exist without it. It is among those essential demands for which no need for any command is required because they are inherent in human nature, no need for any decree. But if someone gives a command except for those individuals who do not fulfill it for some reason or do not want to, then they are foolish. For example, if someone is eating and another commands them to eat, they will immediately say that you are crazy, can't you see that I am already eating. Similarly, marriage is a demand that is present in every human's heart except for those who have become hopeless or have been forced to the extent that they do not want to marry. It is necessary to make such individuals understand. But if there is no one with such thoughts, then telling them for marriage is like telling someone who is already eating to eat because this is a demand that arises on its own.
Al-Fazl - August 8, 1917
The command is given for marriage except for those individuals who do not wish to or cannot due to some obstacles, illnesses, or sorrows. Leaving aside such individuals and telling others is a futile act. Yes, if necessary, it should be explained why to marry, how to marry, and besides marriage, there is no need to command anyone just as there is no need to command someone to eat bread, but the need is to explain why to eat and how to eat. Many do not know why to eat and do not know how to eat. They understand so much about eating that they should eat and they eat to their fill that their stomachs are ruined by indigestion, and they die from indigestion or eat such harmful food that affects their enjoyment of life. Nature demands that you eat. They eat but do not know why to eat. So, there is no need to command them to eat. Yes, there is a need to explain how to eat. Therefore, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) commanded to eat with the right hand and to eat from the front. He showed this way. Similarly, it is not necessary to specify about marriage because human needs compel them. Yes, there is a need to explain what its need is. Why should one marry and how should one marry? These are the same things about marriage. Why should one marry? It is for piety. People have different desires, but your purpose should be piety, and the answer to how is that all matters should be conducted with truth and righteousness. So, Islam did not say to get married but it has explained why to marry. So, Allah Almighty makes Muslims aware and says that every action of yours should be under piety. People have different intentions, for example, a person leaves home to do business and says, "I am going to do business." On the way, he meets a friend, so he will also meet him. Now, meeting a friend is a secondary task. But if he intends to meet his friend on the way back and also do business in the market, by making this intention, he will not have to go through more trouble than before or search for new paths.
Government soldiers will not question the intentions behind it. However, a significant ethical change occurred due to the change in intention, and there was also a difference in reward. The intention of piety is not a trivial matter. Intentions have consequences. For example, if someone has a sword hanging around their neck or a snake sitting, if you touch it gently, it will bite, but if you strike it with force with the intention that your friend should not be harmed through it, then it will fall down lifeless instead of being unhappy. Therefore, it is said that your intention should be based on piety in this matter, and you should act with piety. Many lies are told on both sides in this matter. The boy's side boasts about things that are not actually in them and exaggerates their status, and the girl's side boasts about many skills of their daughter. It is said, "Act with honesty and straightforwardness, do not bring up hidden matters in between. I believe that if Muslims marry while following these two commands, then nothing will go wrong because marriages and unions are established under the demands of human desires and instincts, which is why corruption occurs. Always keep piety in mind. Do not resort to hidden measures, then no temptation will arise. May Allah grant our community success to follow these commands and obtain true pleasures. Ameen. Sahih al-Bukhari, Book of Foods, Chapter on Naming Food and Eating with the Right Hand - (Al-Fazl, September 18, 1917, Page 5)
(Delivered on December 27, 1917)
On December 27, 1917, during the annual gathering, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II conducted the following marriages:
After the recitation of the bewitched sermon, he said:
Many people in our community desire to have their marriages in Qadian, and in this era, especially after the demise of the first Khalifa, they wish for their marriages to be conducted by me. But all friends should remember that indeed, some places are particularly blessed, and whatever work is done there, Allah Almighty bestows blessings upon it. It is also correct that Allah Almighty, through His grace and mercy, blesses some individuals with insight, hospitality, and compassion, and by incorporating these qualities into their marriages, He bestows blessings. But it should also be remembered that
It is imperative that the true blessings lie in following the Holy Quran. Any act done against the commandments of the Holy Quran, whether performed at any place by any person, can never be blessed. Even if someone were to conduct a marriage against the directives of the Holy Quran, even if it were officiated by the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), it still would not be blessed because only those actions are blessed that align with the decrees and rules set by Allah Almighty. If someone deceives you and carries out a task in your name or makes a decision on your behalf, even that would not be blessed. And this is not my statement; rather, it is what the pure and immaculate human, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), says. He says, "Let not two persons among you bring a dispute to me, and let one of them be eloquent and clever in presenting their case before me, so that I may decide in their favor. Even if the right is not theirs, they should understand that I have come to take my share of the dispute. So, when the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) says about a decision made against the commandments of the Holy Quran, that it will not be blessed, it becomes clear that only that marriage can be blessed which is conducted under the decrees and rules set by Allah Almighty. I am a weak human being, and I consider my name appearing in the list of the servants of that person who was dear to Allah Almighty and was the beloved of all prophets, who could be the cause of goodness for both worlds. He says that if someone deceives me by going against the commandments of the Holy Quran and works with me, even that will not be blessed; instead, it will be a piece of misfortune and sorrow for him. So, our friends who insist that their marriages should be conducted in Qadian, and they wish for me to officiate their marriages, should also remember that indeed, some places are particularly blessed, and whatever work is done there, Allah Almighty bestows blessings upon it. It is also correct that Allah Almighty, through His grace and mercy, blesses some individuals with insight, hospitality, and compassion, and by incorporating these qualities into their marriages, He bestows blessings. The detailed explanation of those commandments of the Holy Quran related to marriage will not be given now because I have to deliver a speech, and that will remain pending. And these points have been elaborated many times before. However, one very important thing I mention:
(Delivered on December 27, 1917)
In this era, deceit, fraud, and deception are prevalent in the matter of marriage. The families of the bride and groom often lie for various purposes, leading to great corruption and turmoil. I often receive such lines, and many people verbally express that their sons and daughters are in great distress and suffering. Hearing such words pains my heart, and I feel troubled, but the solution is not in my hands. I pray that the Lord has mercy on them and alleviates their suffering, but it is the result of their own actions. Therefore, it should be remembered that there is no blessing in going against the commandments of the Holy Quran. It is false to claim that leaving the Holy Quran and separating from it can bring blessings. So, if you desire blessings in your marriages, build them according to the teachings of the Holy Quran. Allah Almighty has immense power, and His decisions cannot be altered. Decide accordingly so that all your times and troubles are alleviated. For a believer, this world will not become a hell. But a believer cannot exist without obeying the commandments of the Holy Quran, which are the highest degree of faith, meaning the obedient and the sent ones. We cannot estimate the paradise of those who were dear to Allah Almighty and were beloved by all prophets. He says that even if someone deceives me by going against the commandments of the Holy Quran and works with me, even that will not be blessed; instead, it will be a piece of misfortune and sorrow for him. So, our friends who insist that their marriages should be conducted in Qadian, and they wish for me to officiate their marriages, should also remember that indeed, some places are particularly blessed, and whatever work is done there, Allah Almighty bestows blessings upon it. It is also correct that Allah Almighty, through His grace and mercy, blesses some individuals with insight, hospitality, and compassion, and by incorporating these qualities into their marriages, He bestows blessings. The detailed explanation of those commandments of the Holy Quran related to marriage will not be given now because I have to deliver a speech, and that will remain pending. And these points have been elaborated many times before. However, one very important thing I mention:
In the present circumstances, women face difficulties in obtaining their rights. Many helpless women suffer from lifelong pain and suffering. Their oppressive husbands neither inform them nor grant them divorce. I intend that a government law be enacted for divorce. There is no objection in passing this law by the government, and an Islamic decree will be fulfilled. At this moment, I announce the marriages of a few individuals:
Islam has disapproved of such marriages where a person gives his daughter to another person's son on the condition that the other person also gives his daughter to his son in return. But as Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud (peace be upon him) has said, if the decisions of both parties are made at different times and not based on the condition of exchanging daughters, then there is no objection to such a marriage. Al-Fazl, January 15, 1918, Page 473 - Sahih al-Bukhari, Book of Judgments, Chapter on the Imam's Sermon to the Opponents
(Delivered on December 28, 1917)
On December 28, 1917, after the Friday prayers, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the following marriages:
After the recitation of the blessed sermon, he said:
At this moment, I will not be able to deliver a sermon. However, someone has asked a question. I will provide a brief answer. They inquire whether the dowry given by women is merely for display or is it necessary to fulfill it. Remember that the dowry is given to be fulfilled; Islam does not permit a show that leads to deception. Those who only bind large dowries for show and do not fulfill them are sinners, and those who bind less than their status are also sinners. It is evident from the practice of the companions that they used to fulfill it beforehand, so it should be done likewise. Yes, if someone can fulfill it at once, they may do so within a certain period, but it must be fulfilled. The terms immediate and deferred are later inventions. They have no connection with Islamic law. So
If possible, the dowry should be paid back first; otherwise, gradually. This is a debt that rests on the man from the woman's side. It is essential to repay it. (Al-Fazl, January 15, 1918, Page 473)
(Delivered on June 22, 1918)
The marriage of Syeda Nazrat Banu, the daughter of Syed Aziz-ur-Rahman Barelvi, to Dr. Ata-ud-Din Sahib, a Veterinary Graduate, for a dowry of five hundred rupees was solemnized by Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II.
After the recitation of the bewitched sermon, His Holiness directed the congregation towards understanding righteousness as the standard of nobility and striving to avoid complications of lineage as much as possible. He expressed satisfaction with the example set by Syed Sahib. Al-Fazl, July 30, 1918, Page 2
(Delivered on September 4, 1919)
On September 4, 1919, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II officiated the marriage of Mirza Ghulam Muhammad, son of Mirza Nazamuddin Sahib, to Raziyya Begum, daughter of Dr. Khalifa Rashid-ud-Din Sahib. After the recitation of the blessed sermon, he said:
When a child is born, how weak and helpless he is. He cannot express his needs, nor can he articulate his responsibilities or understand the thoughts of others. Ideas have not yet developed in him; he only has feelings. He cannot convey his feelings to others. A fool to a fool, an ignorant to an ignorant, a foolish woman who feeds him, whether she is his mother, sister, or maid, laughs at his actions. She shows mercy on his helplessness and admires his different states and qualities. Then as he grows up and people talk to him, he speaks in a child's language. They laugh and wonder at him. As he reaches an age to go to school, he starts going to school. Gradually, as he receives education, he reaches a point where he starts reading his book fluently. Then because
Reading the Holy Quran sparks a new interest in a person, and they learn new things. Therefore, when he comes home, he talks to those women relatives who used to laugh at his actions and now converse with them. He asks them questions like, "Which are the big cities in America?" They ask in extreme wonder and amazement, "What is America?" Then he asks, "Tell me, where are the sources of the rivers in Punjab?" They are amazed and find the word "source" very strange and peculiar because they know about Punjab and have seen or heard about the rivers, but the word "source" seems very strange to them because they wonder what a source is. Rivers just flow continuously. Then sometimes when he asks, "How wide are the rivers at the beginning?" He cannot understand how a river starts and how a small river becomes big. He inquires about the condition of the sea, how vast and deep it is. Their reaction is similar to the story of a frog in a well asking another frog. One frog in the well asked the other, "How big is your kingdom?" The other replied, "Very vast." The frog in the well jumped and asked, "Is it this big?" The other said, "No, much bigger." The frog in the well jumped again and asked, "Is it this big?" He said, "No, much bigger." The frog in the well jumped two or three times and asked, "Is it this big?" He said, "I said it's very big, why do you estimate it so foolishly?" (This is just a frog's story; in reality, it is a comparison of knowledgeable and ignorant people). Upon this, he got upset and sat down, saying, "You are big liars. I don't want to talk to you. This is just a story. I will tell you a true incident. Last year when we went to Bombay, there was a girl who used to play with us. One day we were going to see the sea, and she was with us. The sea had not yet come into view when she asked, "Where is the sea?" I said, "It will come soon when we reach the seashore." When we reached the seashore, I told her, "This is the sea." She looked and involuntarily said, "I thought it would be big and deep." That's spread out. I remember her words very well. According to her knowledge, when the child discovers different things, the same women who used to laugh at his actions
Women used to ask me, "What is the name of bread?" And when I called bread "bread," they used to laugh openly. They were amazed at my questions, saying, "You are so educated. What do we know about these things?" Then their children's knowledge expands so much that they understand everything. Once in childhood, when I used to study in school, I told a woman living in our house to remove the cream from the milk. When she started removing it, the hot milk splattered on her. Angered by this, she said to me, "You are so educated, why don't you remove the cream yourself?" It seems that even the method of removing cream was taught to us in school. So, the fear of women about children's knowledge becomes so great that logic becomes infamous. In reality, applying evidence to an incident is called logic, but ordinary people are so scared of it that Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I used to say, "A cleric told me that I don't want to talk to you because you have studied logic. If you wish, turn a wooden pillar into a golden one. This is just the misfortune of logic." Similarly, even more than that, the fear of children's knowledge impresses women, and the child who, some time ago, was extremely weak and helpless, becomes a subject of wonder and amazement for them. Then a small seed is sown, from which such thin and delicate plants emerge that a goat, a cow, a buffalo, or a horse comes and sniffs to see if it is edible or not. Most of the time, due to its small size, it is left with contempt, and sometimes a part of it is cut and eaten. Then after some time, when it grows taller, the animal becomes helpless to bite it, but it bites its leaves and branches. Then it grows completely and grows, and in this state, the animal plays with it. Sometimes it collides with its head, sometimes it kicks, sometimes it bites its body. Watching, it turns blue, on which one day an animal that was not prepared to bite it in contempt and left it with a delicate understanding, suddenly tied it up, and then the animal, even if it exerts all its strength, cannot harm it. Watching, the pattern completely changes, and it becomes astonished.
This is the state of the messengers and prophets of Allah when they come into the world. At that time, their status is like a stream that is flowing or like a child who is nurtured among ignorant and foolish women. People, due to their ignorance, ridicule their initial states and try to control their movements. But they do not realize that even if a child were a prophet, they would still ridicule his actions today. Tomorrow, they will ridicule his words even more. Similarly, the world does not know how great a teacher of spiritual knowledge appears to be just an ordinary person. How astonishing his words would be. But women readily admit their ignorance in front of children, saying, "You have learned, we are ignorant, what do we know about the things you speak of." Unfortunately, the old world says about the Prophet, "Because your words are above my intellect and understanding, they are lies and falsehoods," not admitting their ignorance. Whereas when a child learns to read, women readily admit their ignorance and foolishness in front of the child's words. Likewise, the world should have admitted its ignorance in front of the Prophet, but unfortunately, that did not happen. When a Prophet is born, at that time, because he is like a small seed, people consider him insignificant. On one side, they see his strength, power, possessions, and group, and on the other side, they see his weakness, poverty, and loneliness, so they say, "What is the need to pay attention to this insignificance?" Yes, just as ants crawl on even a small tree, but a buffalo passes by it with contempt, similarly, small people also start following the Prophet and call him despicable, but when that small seed turns into a tall tree, the buffalo, which used to pass by it with contempt, is now tied to it and cannot harm it even if it exerts all its strength. Yes, it needs eyes to see, ears to listen, and a heart to understand, and the entire life of the Prophet needs to be brought before the eyes.
When the Promised Messiah, peace be upon him, made his claim, what was his condition and state? Then, how those who were like insects and worms in status, i.e., those who had the status of oxen, buffaloes, and donkeys, looked at you with disdain. Initially, the insects and worms tried to destroy that plant, but it kept growing. Then the oxen and buffaloes exerted force against it, but the same plant that was seen with contempt kept sprouting branches to the extent that now we see if one branch is in England, another in Mauritius, one in China, another in Ceylon, one in Nigeria, and another in Egypt, one in Iran, and another in Afghanistan. We ask, besides Prophethood, which tree is there whose branches have spread so far and wide. Look, the shade of all trees is limited, and their branches spread only a little distance, but the branches of the tree of Prophethood emerge and reach far-off lands. Yes, in the beginning, those branches also face the same situation as that of a Prophet. Initially, those branches are so thin and delicate that under each one, two, three, four, ten, fifteen people can sit, and due to being too tall, they should appear thin and weak. For example, if a branch has reached a length of six thousand miles in England, it should appear thin due to its great length, but as we see, when the seed of Prophethood sprouted and spread, similarly, this branch also started thickening from the beginning and growing, and people are now just watching it as a spectacle and do not care about it, thinking it will burn itself under the shade of our fields and trees. But by the grace of Allah, a day will come when, spreading and spreading, it will spread to the extent that everyone's crops will burn in its comparison. The purpose is a strange spectacle, and there is no spectacle more strange in the world. We saw it in the life of the Promised Messiah, peace be upon him, and saw it just as it happened during the time of the prophets, indeed, even more than that, because the advent of the Promised Messiah is the second advent of the Messenger of the Holy Prophet. Then, considering that progress has been made in knowledge in this era, despite the era of the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, reaching the pinnacle of his spiritual power.
Opponents argue that the divine power of the Holy Prophet is a significant objection, and Allah did not intend for this power to remain within you. Therefore, He sent you in an era where all attributes had reached their peak, and it is a remarkable fact that all prophets were sent in such eras when both external and internal darkness prevailed. However, the second advent of the Holy Prophet occurred in an era where worldly sciences and intellect had reached their zenith. To eliminate this objection, Allah has now sent you, the servant of a prophet and the Holy Prophet, to show the world that in this era of progress in knowledge, even surpassing the era of the Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him.
This objection has been removed because in this era, Europe claims that it has advanced in knowledge. They were sent a prophet and the Holy Prophet's servant and showed the world that in front of this thin branch, large trees withered and fell. So, Allah has shown this special sign of greatness and glory, and it was shown in an era when the world is convinced that God does not have more significance than a dead being and is trying to take all powers into its own hands. Kingdoms are falling, and democracy is spreading, and the highest level of sovereignty is understood in such a way that a person is made a king in name only and told that apart from signing, you have no authority to interfere in anything. According to this, Allah's status has also been determined, and it is written that God has no role in the world's affairs. Such thoughts that He sends a prophet or shows miracles are ignorant. Allah has created the world and left it to provide for itself. For the destruction of these thoughts, Allah has sent the Promised Messiah and at this time...
While you had no status in the world, you proclaimed, "A Warner has come into the world, but the world did not accept him; however, God will accept him and will manifest his truth with great force and campaigns." You then revealed that God Almighty had informed you that, "I will spread your message to the corners of the earth." The most dangerous opposition in the world is from the closest associates and relatives. In Punjabi, it is famous, "The grain of partnership is bitter." So, the most severe opposition comes from loved ones and relatives because they cannot bear that one of them rises in the world and gains greatness and honor. Those who fight silently for the land, when can they accept that the whole world will come to him? Therefore, they exert all their might to suppress him. Even those who become helpless and cannot do anything try in some way to vent their anger. Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I used to say that when a woman from the chiefs of Shahpur was addressed as Khan Bahadur, a very poor woman in the same family named her son Khan Bahadur. When asked what she had done, she replied that she did not know what her child would become, but when people take his name, just as they call his partner Khan Bahadur, they will call him the same. So, whatever they cannot do, they just name it. Therefore, it is said that when the Promised Messiah, peace be upon him, made his claim, even a person among his relatives claimed to be an Imam, but they say, "Thought is destroyed by courage." Hazrat Masih Maud claimed that I have been sent as a command for the whole world and not just for the lower class, but also for the great kings to follow me. But the point was not to make the claim but to be the Imam of the poor. Here Hazrat Masih Maud made the claim that even the King of England is obligated to accept me. So, he himself wrote and sent the letter to the Queen who was the queen at that time. In contrast, the courage of the one claiming to be the Imam of the poor and the state of his community was such that when the magistrate asked him if he had made any claim, he said that he had not made any claim. Someone must have falsely reported it. So, the partnership...
The most significant opposition comes from relatives, just as the noble Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, faced severe opposition from his close relatives. Similarly, the Promised Messiah faced great opposition from his close relatives. People faced the biggest opposition from a person who was supposed to be a great supporter, but in reality, he was the chief tormentor. Besides, other relatives also opposed you. The reason was that they could not tolerate that one of them would rise in fame and honor more than them and gather followers. Compelled by this thought, they made efforts against you, trying to erase your name and legacy. But Allah had decreed that your name would never be erased. Those who are of your lineage will continue, or else they will perish and be ruined. Indeed, it is said, "The grain of partnership is bitter." When those remaining in that family entered the Ahmadiyya community, all other lineages were severed. At the time when the Promised Messiah made his claim, there were around seventy men in that family. But now, except for those who are his physical or spiritual progeny, not a single descendant remains from that seventy. Even though they tried their best to erase the name of the Promised Messiah and exerted all their efforts, the result was that they themselves were erased, and their lineages were cut off. This is also a grand sign of the truthfulness of the Promised Messiah.
It was inspired and shown that "This house near the blessed mosque is where we will enter in a beautiful way and in a graceful manner." Many people were astonished at the meaning of this inspiration. I myself heard from Hazrat Sahib that they used to say, "We do not know the meaning of this inspiration, but its meaning will be revealed in due time." One meaning could be that just as Hazrat Hasan and Husain entered, we will also enter and adopt their ways. Now, when we look at the ways of Hazrat Hasan and Husain, it becomes clear that the first meaning cannot be true because Hazrat Hasan chose the path of peace and left the caliphate, trying to eliminate discord and division through the sword, but he was not successful, and he was martyred. So, they were believers, so it cannot be said that the purpose for which they tried was not achieved. But apparently, the enemy prevailed over them. So, it cannot be that just as they entered, we will also enter. Rather, it will be that we will adopt their ways through some peace and some struggle. We will enter this house in a state of struggle and glory, so much so that a child left in that family was drawn into the chain. So, Allah Almighty manifested glory on that house in such a way that the house that was much more prosperous than our houses became so desolate and barren that it is there and is a reality. Then Allah Almighty took a child from among them and placed him in the refuge of the Promised Messiah. So, that inspiration was fulfilled on both sides. At that time, I have mentioned this sign at this ceremony that I am going to announce the marriage of Mirza Ghulam Muhammad. He is from the offspring of Mirza Nizam-ud-Din, and in that family, not only from that family but from other families who opposed the Promised Messiah, only this child remains, and no one else remains, and the same situation has also occurred in his protection that he has become associated with a chain that can save a person from the punishment of Allah.
Khutbas of Mahmud are mentioned on page 104 - Fourth Edition, page 312 - Fourth Edition, Al-Kawthar: 3, page 792 - Fourth Edition, Volume 100, Fazl, 7 - October 1919, pages 4 to 8.
(Delivered on September 5, 1919)
On September 5, 1919, after the Asr prayer on Friday, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II performed the marriage ceremony of the beloved daughter of Qazi Fazl Karim Sahib Bahraichi. Before the marriage sermon, His Holiness stated:
"At this moment, I am here to deliver a marriage sermon, but before that, I want to mention something that has just come to my mind. I have often stated that there is no particular benefit in listening to a sermon or advice until it is heard with the intention and purpose of deriving benefit from it. Many people listen, but in the end, they are in the same state as if they had not heard anything. Perhaps they consider it ordinary, but the Holy Quran deems it a dangerous disease and describes the characteristics of disbelievers and hypocrites. Therefore, it says that when they come out of the Messenger's gathering, they ask one another, 'What did he say?' even though they were sitting there themselves. The reason for this is that despite sitting and having their thoughts and attention focused, and whatever is being stated in the gathering, if they do not pay attention to it, it is a significant flaw that prevents such individuals from benefiting. Those who listen with attention and intention to derive benefit, even from the smallest detail, can benefit. But those who do not want to benefit, they cannot benefit from any truth, not even from the Prophets, let alone the angels."
One who seeks advice can benefit even from a child's words, but one who does not seek advice may listen to the words of the Prophet Adam's children but gain no benefit. Listening with attention brings benefit. Otherwise, a person may hear the same thing all his life without gaining any benefit. Look, Hazrat Masih Maud, at the time when he made his claim, did not produce any new evidence later to prove his truthfulness. The foundation of his claim was based on the removal of misconceptions. But many people who read it became Ahmadis. Afterward, more and more people became Ahmadis. The reason for this is that those who did not pay attention to what they heard initially did not benefit. But when they heard with attention and intention to benefit due to some goodness, they understood. It is also possible that initially, due to accepting the truth, they were deprived due to sins, but in any case, there is no doubt that those who became Ahmadis later and are becoming Ahmadis now are not because they found any new evidence of the truthfulness of Hazrat Masih Maud. The evidence is the same as before, but since they did not pay attention earlier, there was no benefit until one day when they thought and pondered, they found solace in the evidence. So, until a matter is not heard with attention, it cannot be acted upon, and until it is not acted upon, no benefit can be derived. Today, I advised you that this day holds a special virtue for the acceptance of prayers, so benefit from it. Whether it is my personal preference, the practice of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), or the ways of the predecessors, we do not interfere, but the one who was there, it was a necessary and practical matter that was conveyed to them. Whether they acted upon it or not was their choice or belief, or there may be some people who, due to habit, cannot sit for prayers for long or due to illness or some other reason cannot sit, but they should understand that the one who speaks will definitely act upon it and try to benefit from it. But it is regrettable that a little while ago, I received a note regarding a matter that neither has any religious nor worldly benefit. It was said that if you deliver a sermon at the time of Asr, it will be greatly appreciated. Apparently, the person who wrote the note had others in mind...
I advise you to make supplications at this time, but I start speaking on matters that bring no benefit to religion or the world. The writer who did not heed my advice in today's Friday sermon or did not understand the meaning I intended to convey should not write such pieces. So, I advise you all that if you wish to benefit from something, listen with attention and intention so that you can act upon it. I do not remember saying this in the Friday sermon today, but tonight is also very beneficial and blessed. There is a saying that the noble Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, used to revive this night, meaning he used to stay awake. During the Hajj pilgrimage in Muzdalifah, people stay awake all night, but even then, the noble Messenger used to stay awake, so this night holds a special status for the acceptance of prayers, so benefit from it. Since the marriage sermon contains advice that cleanses the heart, corrects actions, and has a special connection with life, I did not consider it against what you were asked to do, but I understood it as a task that involves the remembrance of Allah and His glorification, and attention is given to matters that purify the heart and soul and attract towards goodness. This is also a form of worship because it seeks forgiveness for sins and teaches obedience and submission to Allah. (Al-Fazl, September 12, 1919, page 9)
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In a marriage sermon, it was stated that all the marriages of Ahmadis are a great proof of the truthfulness of the Promised Messiah, whether they have any predictions within them or not. The purpose of the coming of prophets into the world was to present the existence of God before the people and to call them to the worship of the One God. In other words, to prove the unity of God and to persuade people. When a prophet comes, people of different beliefs and practices are present, and it is not necessary for them to verbally declare that there is only one God or three. Rather, they practically adopt such a separation that every nation, every family, every household, and every individual considers God separate. At the time when prophets come, people are so engrossed and honored that they consider every goodness and greatness specific to themselves and thus either make their nation or themselves a separate god. At such times, a prophet worships one God and practically affirms to people the oneness of God in such a way that everyone starts to consider themselves as creations of the same God.
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They leave behind all distinctions of nationality. Look at what the people of Mecca thought of the people of Medina during the time of the Noble Messenger (peace be upon him). Even Abu Jahl, at the time of his death, if he regretted anything, it was that the people of Medina had killed him. But the Noble Messenger (peace be upon him) united them in such a way that they were ready not only to go to each other for giving and shedding blood but actually did so, and such a unity and alliance were formed that the division disappeared. The same situation occurred at the time of the Promised Messiah when the people who were separate from each other and each nation's people considered themselves separate gods were united in such a way that since you are all creations of the same God, you all have equal status. So, when relationships are so deep and profound due to the reason of being created by the same God, it is without doubt that God Almighty has kept differences among people for the establishment of the world and for helping one another. But it is also without doubt that as much as people stand for the establishment of the unity of God through the Prophet, their relationships are stronger and deeper than the relationships of relatives. Look, those who study in the same school, work in the same office, or live in the same village, their relationships are stronger than those of brothers. At the time of the Noble Messenger (peace be upon him), the love among Muslims was such that it could be found in people who were born to different parents. Why? Because they knew that we all believe in one God who is far superior to parents. Let the Companions of the Noble Messenger (peace be upon him) know the love among them.
The incident of the Battle of Yarmouk was as unique as the love that existed. Seven wounded soldiers were present. When water was brought to one, he said, "Give it to the next." When taken to the next, he said, "Give it to the third." This continued until it reached the seventh, but he had already passed away. Upon returning, it was evident how deep and selfless their love and sacrifice for each other were. By accepting a prophet and considering oneself a creation of God, it becomes incumbent upon every individual to maintain sincere relationships and sacrifice for one another like brothers. This is why the Noble Messenger (peace be upon him) said that faith is sustained through sacrifice. He said, "A time will come when people will argue over trivial matters, but upon the arrival of a prophet, they will set aside all unnecessary disputes and establish unity and harmony among themselves, not considering any shame in forming relationships. The remaining matters are related to religiousness, piety, and worldly conditions, which must be taken into serious consideration, and this is necessary even among brothers. For instance, if one brother is wealthy and the other poor, and one assumes that his daughter, who is accustomed to comfort, will go there and face hardship, and they will have differences in temperament or knowledge, not considering these aspects will lead to a negative outcome. It is essential to consider such matters. Nationality and other factors do not matter because everyone stands for unity. By believing in one God, the proof of unity is found even during the time of the Noble Messenger (peace be upon him) and now in the Jama'at of Hazrat Masih Maud. People come from various places and different nations and form relationships with each other. In my opinion, one reason for the success of people from different places and nations entering Ahmadiyyat is that the barriers of nationality are broken, for if the entire nation becomes Ahmadi, they can form relationships and bond with each other just as the Rajputs have built roofs, doors, and verandas among themselves. Similarly, even upon becoming Ahmadis, they should continue to build such structures. However, now Allah Almighty has granted Ahmadiyyat to those under one roof.
Entering the fold of Ahmadiyyat leads people to form relationships and alliances with each other, transcending national boundaries. The unity and harmony established among Ahmadis due to their belief in the oneness of God exemplify the essence of piety and religious commitment. This unity serves as a practical proof of monotheism. Furthermore, it demonstrates that the members of our community act in a manner that upholds the principles of faith because when a person from one community gives a daughter to another community, it is done with the understanding that the receiving community lacks religious adherence. This attention to religious matters can potentially draw people towards faith. (Al-Fazl, October 11, 1919, page 25)
Surah Muhammad: 17
Hazrat Mirza Ghulam Ahmad Sahib's marriage sermon, which was read by His Holiness in September, mentioned the prophecy of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him): "And they say, 'None shall enter Paradise except he who is a Jew or a Christian.'" (Al-Baqarah: 112)
Al-Bidaya wal-Nihaya, Volume 4, Page 12, Printed in Beirut, 1922
On December 29, 1919, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II made the following announcements during the annual gathering:
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, it was stated:
"Allah Almighty has saved us from the customs that were destructive to people, and our marriages take place very easily. However, the series of marriages at the time of the gathering becomes so long that despite only announcements being made, a lot of time is spent. This gives the impression that perhaps a separate sermon will have to be held for marriages. It is the sincerity of these people that they conduct marriages during the gathering, but I suggest that they come at other times so that they can also be informed of the advice mentioned in the Quran and Hadith and what we cannot explain due to time constraints. (Al-Fazl, January 12, 1920, page 2)
(Al-Fazl, January 12, 1920, page 5)
February 28, 1920
On February 28, 1920, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Sheikh Ghulam Farid Sahib B.A. with Nawab Begum, the daughter of Sheikh Fazl Haq Buttalvi, with a dowry of one thousand rupees. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, it was stated:
"Marriage is a very common and ever-present affair, and among those events that have an impact for a few minutes or hours in terms of joy and celebration but then its effect apparently fades away. In my view, marriage is like those events that are shot like arrows or bullets. When an arrow is shot, it makes a movement, but when it reaches the target, it becomes silent. The movement towards hitting the target is unreal until it is known whether the arrow is still on target or has been lost. However, the time and distance between the arrow being shot and reaching the target are so short that its estimate is not possible, but it must happen. But when it hits, there is movement, and when it reaches its place, there is silence. This is the situation of marriage that until it does not have an apparent impact, there are preparations, invitations, but when the time comes for the fruits of marriage, there is silence everywhere. When husband and wife have disputes and quarrels or when their matters are in conflict, at that time, no one has knowledge.
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Marriage can be likened to death in a way. When a person's soul separates from the body, there is mourning among the family members, but when they bury the deceased, the accountability begins, which is a challenging time for them. People become silent at that time. It is mentioned in Hadith that the accountability of some individuals is taken after a few days. So, for those deceased individuals, when the time of distress arrives, people become silent. However, marriage is one of those events that begin with joy but people are unaware of its consequences. Common people are not aware of the significance of marriage. Although marriage is a building where a magnificent world is established. At that time, the population of the world is shown to be only as much as the descendants of Abraham. It is evident that the offspring of one person can populate a world. Therefore, this event is not a small event but a significant one. Hence, it requires great concern, fear, and prayers. Therefore, the Holy Prophet ﷺ selected the verses of the Quran that repeatedly command righteousness for this occasion. Happiness is something inherently beautiful, and few are those who remember God in their joy. God is remembered in distress, so since marriage is also an event of joy in the world and except for one island in the rest of all countries, joy is expressed on this occasion, therefore, the Quran emphasizes the fear of God and repeatedly draws attention to relying on God and making prayers to Him that may God produce good results and may this work be according to Your will. (Al-Fazl, March 8, 1920, page 2)
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On September 1920, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Syed Mehdi Hussain, son of Syed Waliat Ali Shah Sahib, with Rukaiya Begum, daughter of Dr. Syed Ghulam Hussain Sahib Hassar, with a dowry of one thousand rupees. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, it was stated:
The purpose of human birth and existence, and why and for what reason they are created in this particular form, is not only related to people of faith but to all humanity. This is indeed a question that is not only answered by the founders of religions but is related to every human being. There can be two types of people who answer this question. One is those who believe that neither have we been created by anyone nor is there any purpose in our creation. We came into being on our own and will depart from here in a few days. Such people do not adhere to any principles and do not recognize any law for themselves. They are not bound by any principle that comes to their minds, nor do they follow any law that enters their hearts. They are like a person who wakes up in the jungle while sleeping and opens his eyes there. There are many people who wake up and start doing many things while asleep, but they do not have knowledge of those actions.
People often recount their daily activities, such as waking up at night and leaving their homes. The purpose is when a person wakes up and ventures into the jungle, upon opening their eyes, they may think it's still night and decide to go back to sleep or meet a friend nearby or help a stranger in need. Or if of a malicious nature, they may consider committing a crime or causing harm to someone's crops. Whatever comes to their mind, they will act upon it. If they are honest, they will only carry out tasks assigned by their master. This distinction exists between people of faith and those without faith. People of faith believe they are here for a purpose and follow the laws set by God, while those without faith think there is no purpose to their existence. A Christian may believe they are created to accept faith in the son of God for salvation and to bring the world towards that belief. A Hindu may adhere to a religion to attain salvation from God. A Muslim believes they are created to worship God, seek His pleasure, and attain closeness to Him, and they hold the belief that by accepting Islam and abiding by its commandments, they will attain God's pleasure. Therefore, a true Muslim, claiming to be sincere, will tirelessly strive to spread Islam in the world limitlessly. But no religion will state that its purpose is to follow laws meant only for the world; instead, it will emphasize that by adhering to these laws, one attains God. This is the essence on which Islam has established the concept of marriage. Only when the good results of every action are expected from the beginning can there be hope for excellent outcomes when laying a solid foundation.
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For example, if a person desires a bountiful harvest from his fields, he will lay a good foundation from the very first day. He will plow well, provide ample water, and ensure protection, not allowing the seeds to be sown without a solid foundation. Islam has directed towards the purpose that marriage is conducted to bring forth humans who are good. Therefore, concerning marriage, Allah Almighty has already stated, "Fear Allah," choose the righteousness of Allah. If you choose righteousness, good humans will be born. This is a significant point that will prove highly beneficial if a person understands it. (Al-Fazl, April 12, 1920, page 6)
Surah Al-Ahzab: 33
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After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II stated:
Islam is a religion of nature, meaning a nature that is not opposed. Today, the Islam presented by people is such that if someone says to keep this religion to yourself, it is not wrong. There are imperfections in humans, but it is necessary for them to be healthy. No one will have a nose, ear, eye, tongue, teeth broken, or wounds on the body, but no one will be completely healthy. A person cannot imagine whose hearing, speaking, or seeing is impaired, hands are missing, or feet are absent. Such a person cannot even imagine, let alone hear, speak, or see. The present form of Islam has been made in such a way that imperfections are visible from head to toe. It is strange that even philosophers of the world bow down to honesty and truth, and eyes open. Today, except for those who consider it their ancestral religion and believe in it without understanding, such a terrifying image has been created that an ignorant person fears it.
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First and foremost, we delve into the existence of God. Nowadays, people present God in such a way that it instills fear instead of fostering love for Him. They discuss His attributes in a manner that brings laughter to some. They proclaim the Oneness of God, yet those called Muslims prostrate to others, offer vows to souls, and place idols in every nook and cranny. Among Muslims are those who present vows to the dead and become more polytheistic. They claim that Christ created animals. Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I used to narrate a dream of his teacher who resided in Bhopal. He saw a person lying near a bridge in a terrible state - lame, blind, and covered in wounds. He approached and asked, "Who are you?" The person replied, "I am God." He said, "We have been taught that you are free from all imperfections." The person said, "Indeed, I am flawless." But the people of Bhopal, those called and treated as God-like, have this state, and this is my status in Bhopal. They saw this status of God in Bhopal, but in reality, Muslims today have the same state concerning God. They have created such an image of God that instead of generating love and affection, it breeds aversion. After God, there are prophets (I leave the angels). Even though they did not leave the angels and only mentioned angels to prove human sinfulness, they also said about angels that two special angels fell in love with a fairy who is still being punished. They say the angels objected that humans become sinners in the world. Allah said, "You go there and see." So when they came to the world, they fell in love with a fairy, and to this day, they are being punished. And leaving the prophets, they did not treat their own prophet well. Everyone loves their teacher, but they did not treat their teacher well. When their enemies attributed filthy things against them in a hypocritical manner, they sanctified all those and included them in their books. Now if someone denies
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When someone denies the Hadiths among Muslims, they become deniers of the Hadiths. During the time of the Noble Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, the hypocrites who were called Muslims used to secretly accuse you of the vilest things related to your character and actions. This was also the case during the time of the Promised Messiah (as) when some who were called Ahmadis accused you of having an illicit relationship with your (paternal cousin) sister. Initially, people did not have the audacity to make such statements. But after some time, these statements became Hadiths and were recorded in books and are now considered part of their beliefs. Moving on to the issue of the Prophets and the teachers, they also faced objections. Similarly, there are many things written about you in books that are now being incorporated into their beliefs. Now, let's talk about actions. Even prayers are not taken into account; some people have turned prayer into a form of exercise. Then there is a type of prayer where, as the Promised Messiah (as) used to illustrate, it is like a rooster pecking. Or prayers are understood to the extent that when seated, they do not rise. There is a rosary in hand, and grains keep falling from it, and instead of remembering Allah, they recite abuses on the rosary. Then there is Zakat; first, they do not give it themselves, and when they do, they perform strange actions. In our country, there are people who give a lot of Zakat, and regarding them, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I used to narrate incidents in such a way that they would take out thousands of rupees as Zakat, put them in a horse's saddlebag, and place grains on top. They would then call a student from the mosque and feed him, saying, "Student, whatever is in this bag, we have taken from your country." When the student accepted, they would say, "Alright, where will you go now? Sell it to us, and we will buy it for two or four rupees." It is as if they become light-hearted about God's obligations and the money slips from their hands.
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In terms of outward actions, the situation is like this. Now let's talk about ethics. Their quality is such that as long as obscenities, foul language, and fatwas of disbelief are not spread, Muslims and clerics are not considered. The state of affairs in our country is such that prominent Muslims have written to the government that girls should not be considered heirs to our property. The government officials made them admit that they do not accept Islamic law. They wrote that they do not accept the Sharia but approve of customs, and they were made to put their fingerprints on it. How pure a transaction was marriage, and how much fear and dread were necessary in it, but Muslims have created such a bad image of it that has no limit, and when they become arbitrators, there are also absurdities. When their own matter is presented, there are also absurdities that they say that if this is not done, there will be discord among relatives. Even in marriages, there are absurdities. Just a few days ago, I read in a newspaper about a cleric who was also an imam of a mosque that he had asked for two factions for his son's marriage. The purpose should be seen from all angles. In Islam, only bad things have been created, and when such flaws are widespread, it becomes clear that a reformer was needed, and Ahmadis realize what they have gained by accepting the reformer. There are no useless customs in their marriages; there is no dowry, no fireworks, and no noisy celebrations. Instead, people gather in the mosque for the remembrance of Allah. They are told to stay put; an announcement of marriage will be made, then they are made to utter words in which they are told that this marriage you are about to enter into is not just for half a day but for a lifetime and not just for a lifetime but for the hereafter. So think well and purify your intentions. Then it is announced that so-and-so has married so-and-so. Where is this marriage and where is that marriage? If other matters are not considered, how great a service to Islam that Mirza Sahib has done. And if looked at carefully, it becomes clear that Hazrat Mirza Sahib presented a new philosophy of theology.
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Islam has not only rectified but eradicated all the imperfections that had emerged. It corrected beliefs, actions, dealings, and civilization. The purpose was to correct everything and beautify Islam in such a way as it was thirteen hundred years ago. Therefore, Ahmadis should be grateful to God because it is a promise of God that if we are grateful to Him, His blessings will increase for us. And if we show ingratitude, then His punishment is severe. So, we are being favored, for which we should be thankful. The river of truth that was flowing at that time had been buried under the sand, but Hazrat Mirza Sahib removed the sand and made the river flow for us. Now, if we abandon it, we will be ungrateful. The favor bestowed upon us through Hazrat Mirza Sahib is present in every matter of ours. For example, this is the matter of marriage, which is so simple through him and is not found elsewhere. The prevailing practice among other people is that old sermons are recited, which are in Persian, and they are recited. From this, it is evident that until five or six hundred years ago, the state of Muslims was good. They used to recite the traditional advice in their own language. But then such a change occurred that the real purpose of the advice was lost. Such clerics who have not read anything recite sermons in Persian and say, "Say, 'I accept it.'" It is famous that there was a person who was illiterate when his marriage took place. The cleric said to him, "Say, 'I accept it.'" He said, "I accept it." The cleric said, "Say it like this, 'I accept it.'" He said, "My marriage is happening; whom should I say it to?" Then there is the issue of the dowry. I also witnessed a marriage where the cleric said that the Islamic dowry had been fixed. I asked, "What is the Islamic dowry?" They said, "Whatever is customary." I said, "By which tradition is it proven?" They started saying, "I don't know." Although from the Holy Prophet to the Companions, there was a little or a lot of dowry. Even giving a ring or getting a chapter of the Quran memorized was considered a dowry. That is, if you were to give three thousand as a dowry, it was stipulated. Since the Holy Prophet was addressing the Arabs, therefore
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The verses that His Holiness used to recite, they understood them well, but our people, since they are unaware, need to be informed. I will take one of these verses and explain it to some extent. Allah the Almighty states:
"O you who have believed, fear Allah. And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow. And fear Allah. Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what you do." (Surah Al-Hashr: 18)
The matter of marriage, as I have mentioned, is not just for today but for life and then for the Hereafter. Therefore, you should consider the responsibilities that arise after marriage. What are the responsibilities on this woman and her relatives? Some people later say, "We didn't know she would be like this." But their duty was to investigate beforehand. Then some people get married. But when the need for expenses arises, they say, "Where should we bring it from?" Why didn't they think beforehand? Then some people lie and say, "The boy is like this or the girl is like this. There is so much property. We will give so much jewelry." But later when their lies are exposed, chaos ensues. They are commanded to act with righteousness. Some women are of such a nature that wherever they go, they insist, "Separate us." The Sharia says there should be a separate place. But some say, "Where the man's parents are, we cannot stay in that city." Then some women face such injustices that they are like orphans. They die in floods, afflicted with thousands of sorrows. So it was said, "Think first and then go somewhere for a proposal." Not that you do it first and then face disgrace from behind. The real thing is righteousness. If you are mindful of Allah, things will be set right. And it was said, "Remember, Allah is aware of every action you take." Through this means, clarity of intentions and purity in dealings were taught. And how excellent it was, but unfortunately, Muslims have corrupted it. (Al-Fazl, July 20, 1920, pages 7-9)
It was not possible to determine the date and the two parties. By 1935, the legal position was as follows:
"Priority was given to custom and local usages in preference to the Personal Laws of the parties."
Meaning that custom and local practices were given precedence over the Personal Laws of the parties. The following Acts were enforced in United India:
Reference to Section 5 of the Punjab Laws Act reveals that it does not mandate the application of custom, but it does state that if the existence of a custom is proven, it shall be the first rule of decision, and in its absence, personal law would continue to apply. The decision mentioned in the Act's Section was provided by the Supreme Court of Pakistan in the following cases:
Kitab al-Nikah, Book of Marriage, Chapter of Dowry with Iron Rings
Kitab al-Nikah, Book of Marriage, Chapter of Marriage on the Quran and Without a Dowry
June 25, 1920
Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the following marriages on June 25, 1920:
1. Amir Ghulam Hyder Sahib of Khairpur Mirs married An'ām-ul-Ha'i, daughter of Maulvi Ahmad Sahib of District Muzaffar Nagar, with a dowry of fifteen hundred rupees.
2. Miyan Anayatullah Sahib of Qadian married Ghulam Fatima, daughter of Hakim Abdullah Sahib of Thela Sahib, with a dowry of three hundred rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, the following sermon was delivered:
"For what purpose is marriage contracted and what intention should be kept in mind while contracting it? It is essential to understand this for the girl, the boy, the girl's parents, and the boy's parents because if someone does not understand the purpose of something, they cannot use it correctly. There are thousands of things that have been with people for ages but were not used because they did not have the knowledge of how to use them. It is not doubtful that knowledge alone is not sufficient, and mere knowledge cannot accomplish any task. Therefore, knowledge is an extremely beneficial thing without which one cannot proceed. How many things were there that were not known, but now some people from other countries have gained a lot of knowledge about them, and our countrymen have also gained some knowledge, so they have started benefiting from them. For example, bones and hides and other things that were not looked at with much value. When someone did not see the hides with some value, they could not use them. Therefore, knowledge is not only essential, but it is also necessary to benefit from it. For instance, bones and hides, etc., which were not considered of much value. When someone did not see the hides with some value, they could not use them. Therefore, knowledge is not only essential, but it is also necessary to benefit from it."
It was not possible to determine the price of a cow or buffalo at that time. But now, if the price of a buffalo rises, the landlords are not willing to give hides to the butchers; instead, they give them a little bit of money. Our countrymen still do not know the value of bones, but Europeans have gained so much knowledge about them that they even extract bones from cemeteries. I have seen cemeteries where the caretakers, after making a deal, extract bones and sell them to Europeans. The bone meal that people enjoy eating is made from bones. Bones are cleaned in such a way that all the dirt is removed, and phosphorus is extracted from them, which is a valuable substance. From bones, combs and other items are made. But those who do not know about them think that they are made of elephant tusks. Similarly, in our country, people think about China that it has a special soil from which it is made, although it is made from the same soil. They extract it using special methods. The purpose of all these is knowledge, from which people benefit, and those who do not know consider them ordinary. Similarly, if there is no knowledge about marriage, a person cannot benefit from it. Every thing that is known brings benefits. For example, what is the purpose of food? Those who do not know will say that when hungry, food is eaten. But those who have pondered have understood its benefits and have found remedies. For example, the treatment of diabetes is done by fasting in Europe. From this, medical knowledge is derived, and that is why our Sharia has imposed the restriction of halal and haram, so that a person eats what is beneficial and avoids harm. Similarly, the purpose of marriage is not just for lustful desires. Those who consider marriage only for lust make a mistake. Europeans, who have kept marriage solely for this desire, their top doctors say that our generations are weak because we are unaware of the purpose of marriage. Love is not just for the sake of affection because love is an immediate desire, anger is an immediate desire, lust is an immediate desire, in which a person does not think about wealth. For example, love is an immediate desire, anger is an immediate desire, lust is an immediate desire, in which a person does not think about wealth. For example, love is an immediate desire, anger is an immediate desire, lust is an immediate desire, in which a person does not think about wealth.
Marriages happen in excitement, but since the real purpose of marriage is not understood, when relationships grow, other issues arise. These emotions of love, anger, jealousy, etc., have such intoxicating elements that even though a person knows that this is wrong, they still get engrossed in it. Therefore, those who marry based on love, when that emotion fades, their lives are ruined. A person marries a beautiful woman for her beauty, but if her morals are not good, the household cannot be managed. The purpose of marriage should be the fear of Allah, protection of oneself, progeny, and the betterment and assistance in both religious and worldly matters. But Islam has understood and taught this. And since education is also necessary with upbringing because until there is no upbringing, knowledge cannot be beneficial, therefore Islam has kept this aspect of upbringing that when there is a disagreement between the husband and wife, then bring two elders from each side and listen to both statements, and if there is a mistake, reprimand it. Once, twice, and then if there is no improvement, separate. It is evident from the practice of the Holy Prophet that he used to advise his daughter and son-in-law. If the daughter made a mistake, she was scolded, and if Hazrat Ali made a mistake, he was explained because he had the status of a son, brother, and guide. Islam has kept this aspect of upbringing, but nowadays, this aspect is not present in India. When a woman comes, she demands that her husband be separated from his parents immediately. Although it is correct that there should be a separate place for the wife and husband because they are young. They also need simplicity. If they are confined all the time, how can they be happy? But some daughters-in-law go to the extent of leaving the city where the man's parents are. Although the husband and wife should definitely be separate, it is their right, but it is not that they should leave under the supervision of the elders. And then the boy's side educates the boy. The husband should slaughter the first day. That the woman should instill fear from the first day. But can upbringing be done in this way? This is not the Islamic way but the Islamic way is that which the Holy Prophet demonstrated through his actions.
Islam has defined the purpose of marriage as follows:
"And their purpose is to achieve the fear of Allah, protect themselves from His anger, and obtain His mercy. And to increase their progeny. And to fulfill the purpose that has been decreed for mankind." (Al-Fazl, August 2, 1920, page 6)
Surah An-Nisa: 36
(Delivered on September 27, 1920)
After the Maghrib prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II, following the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, announced the marriage of Master Nazir Ahmad to the daughter of Mirza Hussain Beg, Mazmul Begum, with a dowry of five hundred rupees. And in the sermon, he expressed joy over the fact that apart from the Rajputs, our community members are breaking the undesirable shackles of nationality by forming relationships with each other. (Al-Fazl, September 30, 1920, page 1)
After the Asr prayer on November 5, 1920, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced a marriage. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he stated:
"In some verses that I have read, Allah Almighty has said to Muslims that the greatest thing that can be useful and beneficial for them is Taqwa. At all times, humans either strive to obtain some things or to protect themselves from some things. On one hand, if one is busy saving oneself from a calamity, on the other hand, one is occupied with acquiring certain things. These are the meanings of Taqwa. In our language, Taqwa is understood as fear and dread. But from the perspective of the Arabic language, these meanings are not correct. Instead, they mean to protect oneself from things that lead to destruction and harm and to acquire things that save from destruction. The meaning of Taqwa is not to fear Allah in a terrifying and dreadful manner. Many people have been deceived by this fear, and Christians, by keeping this fear in mind, say that the Quran has presented Allah in an extremely terrifying and dreadful manner, although this is not correct. Fear does not come from terrifying things. Look, children fear their parents, but the meaning is that they fear the displeasure of their parents. It is not that parents are cruel, so children fear them. Children fear the dissatisfaction of their parents."
It often happens that to avoid it, children are confined in the laps of their parents. But since the word is common and is also used for something terrifying, it is also called fear. Therefore, the meaning of fear has deceived people, and they have understood that fearing God means that God is a terrifying thing. In reality, the essence of Taqwa is to gather those provisions that lead to progress and save from destruction. Keeping this in mind, the reality of Taqwa can be understood well. But when a person is always and at all times striving to obtain something or to understand something to save himself, then Allah says:
"O people! Read the Taqwa of your Lord, who created you."
"O people! Acquire the Taqwa that will close all the doors of calamities and open all the doors of success. When you strive for it and keep striving, why not say to God, 'Solve all our difficulties and make us successful in every task.' This success of obtaining and saving from destruction is the highest goal that when humans put themselves in the hands of the Almighty, they are completely safe. Teaching Taqwa is related to every situation, but especially on the occasion of marriage, these verses have been selected to be recited. The reason is that through marriage, many paths of difficulties are opened, and many successes are achieved. Instead of looking at them, it should be that hold onto God and say to Him, 'Lead us on the path of success and save us from the paths of calamities.' This is the path from which a person can achieve true happiness and can be saved from all kinds of difficulties and calamities. And every person entering into marriage should keep this theory in mind that marriage is a
The responsibility is immense, and if Allah's grace is not there, it creates many difficulties. (Al-Fazl, November 11, 1920, page 847)
The division of the two parties could not be determined. (Surah An-Nisa: 2)
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon on November 11, 1920, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II stated:
In marriages, people break the religious injunctions due to various reasons, and this issue remains prominent in every era and every country. In this era, we observe that in the matter of marriage, Ahmadis exhibit as many weaknesses as they do not exhibit in any other matter. That is, the weaknesses Ahmadis show in giving girls to non-Ahmadis are not shown in any other matter. But even if the question of Ahmadis and non-Ahmadis is set aside, many weaknesses are still evident in this matter, sometimes it becomes an excuse for conflict and honor, sometimes it is about nationality and ethnicity, sometimes wealth and happiness are considered. The purpose is several things that come up in this matter and then become the cause of weakness. Why do more people express their weaknesses in this matter compared to other matters? The reason is that this is a matter that almost everyone is involved in, and it presents itself to everyone. Other matters are such that they are related to some and not to others. So one reason and a very significant reason for violating the religious injunctions in the matter of marriage is that this matter presents itself to everyone except a small portion of people who abstain from it.
In India, this disease is very prevalent, the reason being that Muslims are connected to Hindus, and in Hindu customs related to marriage, such practices are found that marriage becomes a spectacle because they are so deeply rooted in them that without realizing whether they are beneficial or not, they are followed. For example, at the time of departure, it is considered necessary for the girl to cry no matter how happy she is. Then, strange and peculiar types of clothes are made for the occasion of marriage. Then it is necessary that when the groom's side comes, they should meet at a specific limit as if these matters are divine laws, and even if there is a change in divine laws, sometimes it rains and sometimes it doesn't, but there is no difference in these customs. And so much emphasis is placed on them that leaving the prayer is not a problem, but if there is a slight deviation, there is anger. It is bound that even noble women do not refrain from using foul language during the performance of marriage customs as if those acts become permissible for them which are impermissible on other days. In other days, if such words come out of someone's mouth, it is not known what to say, but at the time of marriage, they are considered necessary. Similarly, if someone's gaze falls on a garden, it is considered a great insult and dishonor, but when the groom arrives, even if he is not from the same neighborhood, women do not consider it necessary to cover themselves with a veil and say, "What is there to hide from him?" And not only do they not cover, but they also turn it into a joke and laugh. The purpose is many such things that in the matter of marriage, violations of Sharia are committed, although this is such a matter that required strict adherence to Sharia. Because in it, one does not have any choice, a non-mahram is not allowed to meet a non-woman and say, "Produce offspring and maintain your name." This is such a difficult and important matter that its impact not only goes far in this world but also reaches the Hereafter. This is why the Messenger of Allah ﷺ has given the command of Istikhara regarding it, and if necessary, he has also instructed to show the girl. But the condition of Muslims has become such that if someone is told
It is a common practice that when the Sharia allows something, people show disdain for it, yet they display all the neighborhood women to a person without any hesitation. I once said to someone that it is permissible to see the girl for the boy. He replied, "This is not a marriage; it has become a spectacle. No respectable person would like to hear such a thing. It is evident that the one who permits such actions that respectable people dislike, what will be thought of the one who disrespects the commands of Sharia in this manner. Thus, the commands of Sharia are disregarded in this way. Since the matter of marriage is extremely important, special attention should be paid to the commands of Sharia regarding it so that Allah Almighty may bring forth good and virtuous outcomes and protect from difficulties, calamities, and evil consequences. Therefore, the Messenger of Allah ﷺ made supplications for this matter, and the verses recommended for this occasion also draw attention towards obedience to the commands of Allah. As it is stated: "And whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger has certainly achieved a great attainment."
Now, those who, after deviating from the obedience to Allah and His Messenger, have entangled themselves in various customs, how much evil outcome are they witnessing. In marriages, they spend extravagantly to an extent that not only they but also those whose marriages are being solemnized fall under the burden of debt for a lifetime, and often discord arises between the bride and groom. Our community should ensure strict adherence to the Sharia laws in this matter so that their marriages result in high and good outcomes and they avoid the repugnant practices that burden others with difficulties. (Al-Fazl, November 18, 1920, page 5)
The division of the two parties could not be determined. (Surah Al-Ahzab: 73)
On November 20, 1920, after the Maghrib prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Syed Zain-ul-Abideen Wali Allah Shah with Mehr-un-Nisa Begum, daughter of Amir Muhammad Khan, for a dowry of one thousand rupees. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he stated:
Observing the universe reveals that the preservation of species is a natural demand of creatures, especially those beings that are prone to decay. Within them lie such forces and desires that keep them engaged in seeking means to ensure their existence in one form or another. We have not yet fully explored the subtle aspects of inanimate objects, nor does our current knowledge permit us to reject the possibility of any kind of sensations within them. Future research will reveal more about them. However, despite this scientific deficiency, we cannot deny that the chain of species preservation exists within them, and they possess forces that maintain their nature. No force leads them to extinction; instead, they transfer from one existence to another. Even in plants, we will witness this phenomenon. Each tree maintains its essence as a page
The Creator has endowed man with the hidden power to preserve his species and form, and in various ways, He has provided the means for this page to appear again in the shape of a tree. Current science has proven that even plants have sensations and reactions similar to animals. So, it is entirely justified to say that even in the nature of trees, there is a hidden desire to maintain themselves. We observe in animals, even in the smallest insects, a desire to preserve their species, and Allah has provided the means for their preservation. This general law of nature also exists in humans, where there is a desire in every human to transfer their essence to another existence in the world, whether someone perceives it or not. There is no human being devoid of the desire for the preservation of their lineage. Everyone wishes to see their essence transferred to another being in their lifetime, even if someone acknowledges it or not. No individual exists who does not desire the continuity of their lineage. Surely, everyone desires to witness their essence transferred to another existence in this world, and sometimes, to fulfill this desire, one has to sacrifice the highest for the lowest. It has been observed that when a child is in danger of death, parents put themselves in that danger to save the child. They may perish themselves but will never bear to see the child, who is the means of the continuity of their species, fall prey to death. Many incidents have been heard where mothers threw themselves into the river or fire to save their children. This shows how intense this desire is in humans. To the extent that to fulfill this desire, they are willing to sacrifice their own lives. We cannot say whether those children saved by sacrificing their parents will live a prosperous life or be superior and worthy after surviving. Sometimes, based on just a thought and hope, parents who were superior to their children in the current state sacrificed themselves. It is not always necessary that sacrifice is made for the higher; sometimes, it is the opposite. A higher thing
One has to sacrifice for the sake of something, sometimes it is not certain who is superior and who is inferior. And despite this, one has to choose a path that can bring hope for the survival of the species. Not only in humans do we see that they risk their lives for the preservation of the lineage and endure hardships, but even the lowest animals do not show any less determination than humans. Look at a hen, how fiercely it attacks a bird of prey or a beast to protect its chicks and, despite being extremely weak in comparison to the enemy, it spreads its feathers and fiercely attacks it, and often it becomes the prey itself in this struggle or cannot save its chicks from it, but it struggles for their safety and does not care about its own life. The purpose of such observations is to show us how strong the sense of the importance of preserving the species is in animals. Humans also share this instinct for the preservation of lineage, but there is a difference between them and animals in that animals transfer their offspring to their own kind by preserving their natural qualities, customs, and behaviors, and they fulfill their entrusted duty, which is mentioned in the Quran that the earth and the heavens refused to bear it and were afraid of it, and man betrayed it. Man betrayed it and did not fulfill it. All creatures are fulfilling their prescribed actions and duties according to their nature, and along with them, man, as far as his natural desires are concerned, understands his duties and fulfills them, but to fulfill the demands of desires in this way is not a virtue. This is a natural act that even a stone is performing, but where it is related to intellect, thought, ethics, and piety, there man does not fulfill that divine trust but betrays it, meaning he does not have absolute concern that the Almighty has given him the highest qualities of a nation that has been bestowed with knowledge and wisdom, and which has been made aware of noble ethics, and which has been taught the principles and rules of piety, should also make an effort to pass them on to their children. They should only
By satisfying his carnal desires, man overlooks the real purpose of life. It is a betrayal committed by man in various ways, corrupting his abilities and strengths by indulging in sinful acts, thus not transferring them fruitfully to his offspring. And if transferred, they are in a distorted and corrupt form. Even if we assume that the seeds of those abilities and noble traits are present and the essence of practical righteousness is preserved, the land chosen is imperfect, and even the seed decays in it. It is not sufficient for the father alone to safeguard the divine trust and transfer it; the mother also plays a crucial role in its preservation. Many times, we have seen that if a father scolds a child for neglecting prayers or for some moral wrong, the ignorant mother stares at him angrily, and when he goes out, she embraces the child, fills him with sighs, and begins to pamper him, using words that imprint on the innocent child's mind that his father is a great oppressor. The situation escalates to the point where on one side, the value of prayers diminishes in his heart, and on the other side, the desire for the father's obedience decreases until eventually, by neglecting the rights of parents, divine punishment ensues. Initially, it may seem like a trivial matter, but its consequence leads to the destruction of morals and piety. The child's simple nature inclines towards honesty, and if he has caused harm, he will readily admit it. But it is the mothers who teach him to deny any wrongdoing and thus educate him that denying events in the world is acceptable. Just as dangerous mistakes are made in choosing a wife, similar errors occur in choosing a husband, and a righteous and virtuous wife is ruined by being handed over to an evil person. The marriage of an Ahmadi woman to a non-Ahmadi was arranged by her parents.
Now, the issue arises that her husband detests religion to such an extent that if he sees her reading the Holy Quran, he snatches it in anger and throws it aside, saying, "What magic are you reading?" Many times, he interrupts her prayers and, seeing her, disrupts her prayer by turning her face here and there. Even worse is the condition of those righteous women who end up marrying wicked men. If these righteous women were married to righteous men, the divine plan for the preservation of progeny, which was related to the law of survival of the species, would have been fulfilled perfectly, and man, this time, would have been relieved of the burden of this trust that the divine will has entrusted to his nature. But people play recklessly in this matter, and their purpose is to fulfill external beauty and the lowest desires of nature, so they stumble and die a miserable death. Remember that the purposes of your life are not limited to your own self, and if any of you possess knowledge, virtue, ethics, and piety within yourselves, then it is incumbent upon you to carry out the protection and survival of this trust until you never ever forsake a life of comfort and ease. It is obligatory upon you to remain vigilant and restless until you do not hand over this sacred trust, which the divine will has bestowed upon your nature, to the next generation. Just like in a football game, you see when one defender wants to snatch the ball from another player, he makes every effort to keep it safe and runs after it from one side to another until he sees that its preservation is now not in his hands but in the hands of a clever boy from his own team where he will be safe from the enemy's clutches. Your situation should be like that defender, willing to sacrifice your life for the sake of the divine trust, and this time, the attack is on you to deliver the trust to your children and provide them with the proper means and proper tools - make yourself righteous and pious and choose the righteous tools you want to adopt, and if there is any deficiency, correct it, and produce fruits that, due to the gathering of social evils, are saved from spoiling and nurture them as required. If you have neglected even one thing among them
Surely, you should know that in the sight of Allah Almighty, you cannot be called trustworthy. People generally prioritize beauty, wealth, status, and lineage in the selection of spouses. However, our Master Muhammad (peace be upon him) has said: "Marry the religious woman so that your hands may be covered in dust."
Choosing a religious woman is a means through which a person can achieve complete piety. Only through religion can a person preserve his intellect, thoughts, knowledge, wisdom, abilities, qualities, and righteous deeds and transfer his essence to a higher form of existence. If a person lacks religious spirit, he lacks everything. Neither beauty, wealth, status, knowledge, virtue, ethics, nor a happy life is of any use. The issue of marriage is crucial, and making the right choice is very challenging. Human knowledge is very limited and incomplete. Sometimes a person lives with another person for years, yet his experience cannot accurately assess his morals and habits. Our Master Muhammad (peace be upon him) has shown us a way to make this difficulty easier. And that is through prayer because Allah Almighty has complete knowledge of every soul and nothing is hidden from His knowledge in the heavens and the earth. He knows best which couples are suitable and better for each other. Not only that, but He is also capable of, even after wrong choices, creating such situations through His mercy that lead to achieving the real purpose. Therefore, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has instructed us to seek guidance through Istikhara before marriage. So, pray sincerely to Allah Almighty that He, with His knowledge, mercy, and power, guides you towards a path that leads to the happiness of both parties and brings blessings from every aspect. The verses recited in the marriage sermon also lead to the same conclusion as I have explained. Thus, in one verse, Allah Almighty states: "And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow."
One should look at oneself and see what provisions have been made for tomorrow. Our community does not need individuals who only take up the sacred trust given by Hazrat Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, and your Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) and pass it on to others, but the need is greater for tomorrow. For tomorrow, one should lead a life that safeguards this trust within oneself and produces the fruits of a pure life. This is such a noble need that all today should sacrifice for tomorrow. Every Ahmadi parent should be so concerned that their care should remove all worries and doubts. Keeping this purpose in mind, today I announce the marriage of Syed Zain-ul-Abideen Wali Allah Shah with Mehr-un-Nisa Begum, the daughter of Amir Muhammad Khan, and Professor Ata-ur-Rahman's niece, with a dowry of one thousand rupees. I pray, and I urge all loved ones to pray, that God bless this marriage for the couple themselves, their families, and the entire community. Amen. Fazl, December 23, 1920. (Pages 11 to 14)
Also, Al-Hakam, Qadian, November 21, 1920. (Pages 9 to 11)
Al-Ahzab: 73
Sahih al-Bukhari, Book of Invocations, Chapter: Supplication for Guidance in Decision-Making
Surah Al-Hashr: 19
Seek help from Allah Almighty in marriage
(Delivered on December 31, 1920)
On December 31, 1920, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Dr. Syed Muhammad Hussain Shah with Safiya Begum (the younger sister of Khatun-e-Nisa Almiya Qazi Akmal Sahib) with a dowry of one thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the sermon, he said:
"The blessings and mercy of Allah Almighty have such a vast impact that it should not be said that they are limited. Whenever Allah Almighty bestows His grace upon someone, as long as the person does not deny it, Allah does not cut off this chain. If we look at His blessings, it is astonishing to see how many means He provides. Human help, human hatred are limited. Great kings rejoice over people in the world, but their joy does not reach the practical good of people. The blessings are so limited, and the results are so corrupt that nothing can be said. People join armies, celebrate, make sacrifices, but what is the result? What reward can the British government give to the hundreds of thousands who died? A very great appreciation was approved. The one who died is dead, now what work is this appreciation for? But those who belong to God, upon whom the blessings of God descend, they always
Actions are limited, but their consequences are unlimited. The ignorant questions why the results of limited actions are unlimited when he does not know that from limited actions, one receives unlimited rewards from the unlimited existence. The objector sees the giver, not the One who gives. When dealing with two individuals, the focus shifts towards the superior. So when dealing with God and man, the ignorant fails to see that God is the one dealing with man. He Himself is unlimited, and His blessings are also unlimited - there is no blessing that He has said He will not give. The distribution and limits from the kings of the world are limited, but from God, there are no limits; only that man should have the capability and eligibility. If there is a need for kingship, He grants it; if there is a need for knowledge, He grants it; if there is a need for the unseen, He refers to it at that moment. We see all models present. In the time of the Promised Messiah, how many people opposed, but what was the result of opposition? The success of the Promised One and the failure of the opponents. People stand against the Almighty, and He is called ignorant. God says if he is ignorant, we grant him knowledge from our treasures; now face him. So, he challenged the opponents, set rewards upon rewards, wrote books, and challenged them to bring the like of his book, but none of the opponents could match in knowledge. Some time has passed; here comes Margoliath. I asked him if observation is a big thing or reasoning. Observation. I said, "Miracles make you doubt; if you witness them, you will have to believe." He started saying, "Can the Quran be observed?" I said, "It can be." The miracle of the Quran is that no speech can match it. This miracle has been shown even in that era. So, the Promised Messiah made a claim and set rewards upon rewards, challenging to bring the like of his book. Hence, those books are still unparalleled. You also have the challenge of Arabic knowledge; you should also have the courage. So, this was a treasure; who can limit those treasures? Can any man grant knowledge to another man? He cannot even do it for himself. They send kings to colonels, and they die on the battlefield, but God Almighty
Allah sends His servant and declares that he will be saved. Despite the strong opposition and efforts of the opponents, the servant remains secure from their attacks. Molvi Umar Din, a member of our community and a very enthusiastic preacher, mentioned that he used to praise the Mullahs and was associated with Molvi Muhammad Hussain Batalvi. One day, Molvi Muhammad Hussain Batalvi and Abdul Rahman Sayyah were discussing what advice should be given to quiet Mirza Sahib. Abdul Rahman said, "I will tell him not to engage in discussions anymore. Challenge him to remember his words. If he agrees, remind him of his statement and make him regret not engaging in discussions. We only wanted to show the public that you are not true to your word, and if you refuse to discuss, we will announce that we are not interested in facing you. I (Umar Din) said, "Tell me, and I will go and confront him. The argument will end." Upon this, they said, "What do you know? We have made all these arrangements; nothing is working out." Hearing this, Molvi Umar Din said, "The truthfulness of Hazrat (Messiah Mahdi) has affected me. Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone is included among the people. People have not estimated the purpose of God's blessings. See, a human also desires that his words be accepted and gain popularity. But no human can impose his will on others in the world because control may be over the external body but not over hearts. So, God distinguishes His servants in this way. He says, "Who is the king of the world who can announce his preservation? But God challenges people through His servants, telling them to challenge each other and then collectively plan against me. Even if people in my own house turn against me, I will be saved. By Allah, everyone
Initially, there is denial, but eventually people accept it. For example, Sir Syed Ahmad Khan said that English should be studied. Initially, some people opposed it, but it was a matter that the circumstances of the time confirmed. When Muslims saw that by studying English, they were benefiting and employment was not possible without English, eventually Sir Syed's words were accepted. Now, this success is not a miracle but a sign. The one who achieves more success can be called a giver who has read the thoughts of the world beforehand. This is called a miracle from God that goes against people's thoughts and customs, and people are not prepared to receive it, and neither are the circumstances in its favor. For example, Hazrat Sahib (Messiah Mahdi) said that the series of revelations continues after the Holy Prophet's (peace be upon him) demise. This is something that even Muslims did not believe, and people of other religions had already stopped the series of revelations before this. Then the emphasis of Europe was so strong that they had thrown dust on the inspirations of the High Clergy and had made dreams and visions so unreliable that they showed dreams to some people and made them crazy. Despite these thoughts, Hazrat Sahib proved that the series of inspirations and revelations continues, and he is superior in intellect. The purpose of divine missions is that wherever the world goes, the divine missions continue. The death of the Messiah was not a big task, but making Christianity accepted was a difficult task that you achieved with a large group. Sometimes people say, "What great work did Mirza Sahib do?" Even Sir Syed believed in the death of the Messiah, and many of his like-minded people also believed. We say that the death of the Messiah was a minor obstacle in your path; making Christianity accepted was a great task. And what about the continuation of prophethood after him that you did? The purpose is that the mercy of Allah is very vast; there is no limit to His blessings, so in all matters, people should focus on God because everything is perishable, but God's treasures never run out. Some people are proud of their knowledge, some of their wealth, but who knows that a person is rich in the evening and poor in the morning. Now, a knowledgeable scholar is speaking, and the next day, he goes insane. In 1914, I saw in a dream that there is a great person whose appearance is like Molvi Syed Muhammad
Meeting with Huzoor Amrohi is enlightening and he became overwhelmed. In such situations, I have seen that Satan attacks. I repeatedly recite "La hawla wala quwwata illa billah" (There is no power nor strength except with Allah), and he retreats. So, who knew that Syed Muhammad Asan's condition would turn out like this? The purpose of knowledge and other things keeps changing. However, for those upon whom Allah's gaze falls, things do not happen the same way. Look, thousands of prophets have passed, none of them had strong senses. Because whatever they received was from Allah's treasures, and they always received a share from Allah's treasures. So, remember well that every task can be successful when Allah is focused upon. This is something preserved. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ is a perfect example for you. He taught before every task, "Bismillah" (In the name of Allah), and in the end, "Alhamdulillah" (All praise is due to Allah). People are heedless of two things in the world: one is the power of a nation, and the other is sleep. Remember, in marriage, there are three things. Your strengths are such that you are capable of marriage, and you can find comfort with that particular woman. The result of both coming together will be blessed. Now, who knows what the outcome will be at that time? A person thinks that he has taken care of everything, but the result turns out differently. Sometimes there is a misunderstanding compared to others, and sometimes compared to oneself. That is, a person thinks he is capable of comfort, but in reality, he is not. He thinks he can do this task, but he cannot do anything. Similarly, there are some women. They have the appearance and style, but after marriage, they become disabled.
Either there are flaws or discrepancies emerge between them. And sometimes it happens that the husband loves his wife, and the wife sacrifices for the husband, but the children become corrupt. What is the solution to this except seeking help from Allah and placing trust in Him, and fixing your gaze upon Him to eliminate all imperfections and bring out good results. Therefore, in these verses, the teaching is that in matters that may cause you concern, all three are in God's control. He created you from one soul and created from it its mate, and from them spread many men and women - so bow before that Creator, He will set everything right. This is the highest level of teaching that we received through the Holy Prophet. These verses may seem brief, but within them are hidden treasures that I have seen when I stand for the marriage sermon, a new point is understood. If there is a thoughtful person, this very miracle is a strong proof of the truth of Islam. The Holy Prophet recommended three verses, and the interpretation of these three verses cannot be concluded. After that, the acceptance and approval were granted. (Al-Fazl, January 17, 1921, page 65) Mention of January 10, 1920, page 220, Fourth Edition. Mention of Shah, page 104 - Fourth Edition. Surah An-Nisa: 2
How Istikhara is Performed
(Delivered on December 31, 1920)
On December 31, 1920, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Fazl Bibi, daughter of Molvi Amiruddin Sahib Shamlawi, to Abdul Hamid Ahmadi for a dowry of 2000 rupees. Also, the marriage of Khurshid Begum, daughter of Muhammad Al-Din Sahib, to Zahooruddin Dharamkoi for a dowry of 500 rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Huzoor said, "Regarding the instructions related to marriage, I will briefly mention them on different days. As it is now time for Friday prayers and friends need to return, I will draw their attention to those who have sons and daughters and then once again direct my congregation here so that you may correct the matters of marriage and take precautions for future correctness through Istikhara and deliberation so that love increases among you, our generations progress, and our offspring become righteous.
Do not make a decision before prayer; instead, separate your views and decisions when praying and performing Istikhara so that they are not mixed. If you pray and perform Istikhara after making a decision, it will not be blessed. Blessed will be the Istikhara and prayer in which your opinions and decisions have no part. Leave the matter to God, empty your heart and mind, and present yourself before Him, saying, 'O Allah, whatever comes from You...'
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It will be a source of blessings for us and will lead to our betterment. I emphasize this advice once again, especially at this time when there are two marriages. The marriage of Fazl Bibi, daughter of Molvi Amiruddin Sahib Shamlawi, with Abdul Hamid Ahmadi for a dowry of 2000 rupees. Also, the marriage of Khurshid Begum, daughter of Muhammad Al-Din Sahib, with Zahooruddin Dharamkoi for a dowry of 500 rupees. Molvi Amiruddin Sahib is very sincere and dedicated in his preaching efforts. Please pray especially for his daughter. (Al-Fazl, January 20, 1921, page 6)
(Delivered on January 28, 1921)
On January 28, 1921, after the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Dr. Muhammad Alim Sahib Veterinary Assistant with Feroza Begum, daughter of Babu Muhammad Umar Hayat Sahib, for a dowry of one thousand rupees. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said, "Allah has instructed the believer in the Holy Quran that he will fulfill his responsibility in every matter, and the rest will be taken care of by Allah Himself. In reality, the scope of human actions is so vast, and his knowledge is so weak that it is impossible to consider every aspect, and man has very little part in his actions. For example, we see that a part of a person's life is such that he has no control over his existence. For instance, in the state of sperm, he has no say before it or after it. He is unaware of his creation. Neither does anything come under his control, and at that time, his state of lifelessness becomes like that of a living being. For several years, this state of helplessness and weakness continues, and after two to three years, it can present its demands very briefly. For example, there is hunger, there is thirst, nothing more than that, and then it progresses. So, he starts to introduce some elements into the arrangement, but his introduction is not accepted. And then as he progresses, some things are fulfilled, and most of it is imposed on him by others, and he is
People have to adapt to the colors of others. If the average human life is considered sixty years, then fifteen years are spent in weakness and helplessness, and the remaining forty-five remain. Even fifteen are spent sleeping because people generally sleep for eight hours. The rest remains. When we ponder on these thirty years of life, it becomes clear that there are many earthly and heavenly influences affecting it. Many changes occur in the world, whether in any part, their impact reaches us, and we are not even aware. For example, this influenza was called Spanish influenza because it originated in Spain, but it came to our country, and sixty lakh deaths occurred. Initially, there was no involvement of India in it, but the changes that occurred in the world had such an impact here. So, there are many compulsions and many influences under which one has to run his life. Sometimes the conditions of the nation and the country affect, sometimes the influences of parents, sometimes of friends, sometimes of a job, and sometimes of marriage. A person thinks that he is doing something of his own will, but in reality, even in that, there is no involvement of his will; he has made his will under the influences of others, and he is happy about it. So, many times, the influence of those people also affects him from whom he did not seek advice. When we ponder on this part, we realize that a small part of life that does not exceed six months is in his control. That is why some have said that even a person's action is not by his will. They say that apparently, it seems that he acts by his will, but underneath the pressures of others, about which he has no knowledge, he acts. These people have completely denied the will, but this is their exaggeration, and this is their mistake. Yes, it is true that many parts of a person's life are not under his will, and the part in which his will is, does not exceed six months. But his desires for progress and his intentions are very high, and here his helplessness is so great. Then how can this hope of a person be fulfilled? For this, Allah Almighty says:
"It will be a source of blessings for us and will lead to our betterment."
"O you who have believed, fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice. He will [then] amend for you your deeds and forgive you." (Surah Al-Ahzab, 33:70)
"And whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger has certainly attained a great attainment." (Surah Al-Ahzab, 33:71)
It is said that a significant portion of a person's actions is not within his control. It is entangled in many compulsions, but there is one thing under his control, and that is his heart. It is for you to purify your heart and choose the fear of Allah. No compulsion can control the heart, no external force can enter the heart, nor can falsehood influence the heart. No one can force what he thinks into the heart. Therefore, it is said that your heart is in your control; rectify it because neither compulsion can control the heart, nor can idolatry enter the heart, nor can falsehood influence the heart. Neither can any government control it, nor can power control it to the extent that it can impose a death sentence. Some people can collectively influence a person to bow before an idol, but when his neck is bent, his heart opposes it. So, the first duty is to rectify the heart. The second rectification is of the tongue. After the heart, the tongue is significantly under control. A rope can be tied around the mouth, but no forced statement can be made. Therefore, it is said, speak the truth. First rectify the heart, then control the tongue, and always speak the truth. When you do these things, Allah Almighty says, "He will [then] amend for you your deeds." Allah Almighty will rectify your actions. This is the one through whom a person can shape his destiny. It is he who runs on the affairs of a person's religious and worldly matters. First, rectify your heart, then bring your tongue under control, and after this effort, God will rectify your actions. For example, as much as a person can rectify, let him do it, and the rest Allah Almighty will do. And Allah Almighty will make you successful in this endeavor. This is such an extensive subject that it encompasses every matter. Until a person adheres to this principle, success is impossible. Allah Almighty says that do what you can, and do not decrease in doing it, and the rest we will do. This is the one that the Holy Prophet ﷺ kept in view regarding the matter of marriage.
The sermon emphasizes that the matter of marriage is such that many aspects are beyond human control and grasp. Therefore, it is advised that whatever you can rectify from your end, do so, and the rest will be taken care of by Allah. Focus on those tasks and actions that are within your capacity. That is, perform what is in your control, and leave the rest to God. He will surely grant success. (Al-Fazl, February 3, 1921, page 76)
Surah Al-Ahzab: 33:71
(Delivered on February 9, 1921)
On February 9, 1921, after the morning prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Khan Muhammad Usaf Ali Khan Sahib, the Commander In Chief of the C.I.D, with Ummatullah Salima Begum, daughter of respected Molvi Zulfiqar Ali Khan Sahib Rampuri, an immigrant from Qadian, for a dowry of 8000 rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said, "The matter of marriage is a matter of great caution and fear because its conclusion does not come in a few years. People say it is for a lifetime, but this is not true. It is for many years, even beyond that because even after death, this relationship leaves its effects. Therefore, it is necessary for a person to work with great caution and focus on prayers and Istikhara under the cover of righteousness. But people generally do not work with prayers and precautions in this matter. It is commanded to speak the truth, but people often speak twisted words. It is commanded to act with righteousness, but it is heard that especially women curse and sing abusive songs at this time, which affects the hearts negatively. Thanks to Allah, this is not the case in our community."
He further said, "In this matter, Istikhara is necessary. The Holy Prophet emphasized it greatly. A Muslim
No work should be done without Istikhara. At least start with Bismillah and the method of Istikhara is to recite the Istikhara prayer. Generally, Sufis keep it for forty days. It has many blessings that a person who has no experience cannot understand. A person started a very profitable business deal. He sought advice from Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I. He said, "Do Istikhara." He said, "There is definite benefit in it." He did Istikhara with sincerity. When he started the deal, Allah Almighty created such a reason for him that he became aware in time and refrained from the deal, saving himself from a loss of thousands. So, there are many benefits in it; therefore, Istikhara should be done in this matter. Living among Hindus has affected Muslims in such a way that they sacrificed their Islamic simplicity that was in marriage. There is no need for any dowry for marriage. It is the right of the bride, which is based on the status of the man, that he gives it anyway. The rest, the question that arises from the bride's side to the groom's side, whether they will bring jewelry or clothes, and similarly from the groom's side that will they give to the bride, is a great destruction and humiliation. This practice has ruined the possessions of Muslims, and it is said that it does not remain. People ask, "What did the girl bring?" and similarly, from the groom's side, if nothing is given, the girl's side says, "Our nose is cut." Since this practice brings destruction, the community should be saved, and instead of girls with big things and boys bringing big jewelry, it should be seen that the girl who has come into the house is a Muslim and the boy is a Muslim; otherwise, big jewelry become a cause of destruction and ruin, and families are ruined, and religion is wasted, and people are afflicted in interest, ruining possessions, and one root of this is that people have a trend of showing jeans, etc., this custom should be abandoned. When people show, others ask. When the custom of showing stops, people will also stop asking. Always both sides should consider that this matter of our religion, our ethics, is such.
Will there be an impact? The matter of marriage is in the hands of humans. In the Quran, Allah Almighty states that children will be matched with a righteous father. Similarly, a righteous wife will be matched with her righteous husband, and a righteous husband will be matched with his righteous wife. Having children is not in anyone's control, but a righteous wife can choose herself. Similarly, the girl's family can choose a righteous and religious boy. The method of marriage is simple, no dowry, nothing else, just a bridegroom and two witnesses. If there is no bridegroom, a person can solemnize his marriage in the presence of witnesses or the girl's guardian can solemnize it. After marriage, distributing dates or any other thing is not obligatory. It is merely a preferred act and a proven Sunnah. It is permissible to announce the marriage with a drum, but today the world has progressed, and people do not like it, and the drums that people like are not permissible. Therefore, nature has also removed this. There is no need for it anymore. Because the purpose of the drum was an announcement, and the means of announcement through the drum also achieved a very high status, which is the newspaper where the announcement is made. The purpose of the drum was fulfilled in another form as well. (Al-Fazl, February 17, 1921, page 645)
Al-Fazl, February 14, 1921, page 1
"And those who believed and whose descendants followed them in faith - We will join with them their descendants, and We will not deprive them of anything of their deeds. Every person, for what he earned, is retained." (Surah At-Tur, 52:21)
(Delivered on February 10, 1921)
On February 10, 1921, after the Zuhr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Mr. Chiragh with Ummatullah Salima Begum, daughter of Mr. Muhammad Din, for a dowry of five hundred rupees. After reciting the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"In the matters of marriages, I have observed that many tribulations arise in our country because the adherence to the laws of Sharia is not maintained. If people adhere to the laws of Sharia, then tribulations do not arise. Our community, which is very small, needs unity and harmony because it is not a single nation but consists of diverse people. Due to the previous relationships and being from different nations and families, the strength and pressure that exist are not present here because these people have come from different nations, not from the same nation. Therefore, it is difficult for us to maintain unity. Each person is a stranger to the other. The Ahmadis who gather them all have a strong bond of sincerity and sacrifice. This is generally not so strong because it desires sincerity and seeks sacrifice. Sacrifices in previous relationships are usually made out of compulsion, but here, sacrifices are made out of faith and sincerity. Sometimes, there is a lack of faith and sincerity among people, and then the establishment of unity becomes difficult. And if a mistake occurs, then rectifying it becomes difficult. Some people appear to be good-natured, but when differences arise in matters like marriages, etc., conflicts emerge.
It is commanded to speak the truth, but people often speak twisted words. It is commanded to act with righteousness, but it is heard that especially women curse and sing abusive songs at this time, which affects the hearts negatively. Thanks to Allah, this is not the case in our community."
He further said, "In this matter, Istikhara is necessary. The Holy Prophet emphasized it greatly. A Muslim
When difficulties arise, some say they are leaving Ahmadiyyat. As long as the question of marriage did not arise, they were veiled, but when it arises, the veil is lifted, and their sincerity is revealed, giving people a chance to mock. For our community, it is essential to ponder over the matter of relationships to avoid tribulations. In our country, relatives are used against each other, with insults hurled from both sides. The boy's side is advised to instill fear in the boy as soon as he arrives, and the girl's side is convinced that their influence is already established. This lays the foundation for strife from both sides. Therefore, Islam teaches to consider righteousness in relationships to prevent discord. If new relationships break, it becomes challenging to mend the old ones. This matter is such that even old relationships shatter. If both sides adhere to the laws of Sharia at such times, they can safeguard themselves from tribulations. (Al-Fazl, February 21, 1921, page 5)
(Delivered on March 14, 1921)
On March 14, 1921, after the Zuhr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Muhammad Isma'il Sahib, son of Nazamuddin Sahib, with Mariam, daughter of Muhammad Abdullah Sahib, for a dowry of 300 rupees. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"Since this is the time of learning, I only wish to advise both parties that this is the era where the whole world is observing our community. People are looking at us and comparing what is the difference between us and others. There should be no doubt that if we claim to be followers of one of Allah's prophets but our steps do not follow in his footsteps, then we can be held accountable. If someone else claims and is truthful, but those who believe in him do not have good practical conditions, what benefit is it to them? If Allah guides us towards any delicate matter, then we cannot be attentive to it unless we are directed towards it. This is the situation regarding others that until people see a practical difference between us and others, they cannot pay attention. This is why our progress has not been made yet. Generally, people do not see any apparent difference between us and others. We are not distinguished from others, so until each of our tasks has a special color, we cannot progress. This is the situation of the matter of marriage. If people see that Ahmadi boys have their
How do we interact with relatives, the wife's relatives, and the relatives of an Ahmadi son-in-law, and how do good relationships exist among them? People can pay attention here, otherwise if there is no difference between us and others in this matter, people will not distinguish between us and others. If our relationships are good, we will live in peace and people will benefit from it. And in this way, the example of curd will come true that "One path, two destinations." (Al-Fazl, March 28, 1921, page 5)
How do we interact with relatives, the wife's relatives, and the relatives of an Ahmadi son-in-law, and how do good relationships exist among them? People can pay attention here, otherwise if there is no difference between us and others in this matter, people will not distinguish between us and others. If our relationships are good, we will live in peace and people will benefit from it. And in this way, the example of curd will come true that "One path, two destinations." (Al-Fazl, March 28, 1921, page 5)
(Delivered in 1921)
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"When people gather, a third thing emerges as a result of their gathering. Whether they gather things, a third thing will emerge as a result. Whether that third thing has a new and independent existence or not, it will definitely emerge. For example, if we mix two mangoes, a third new thing will not be created, but a form of a third thing will definitely emerge due to their separate existence. Gathering has importance because there is no gathering that does not result in a third thing or a third matter. Whether it is apparent or not. For example, in gatherings like Eid sermons, Friday sermons, or any other sermon or gathering, attention is drawn to matters where the praise of Allah is mentioned. The prayer starts with praise, and the sermon also begins with 'Alhamdulillah Nahmaduhu, wa nasta'inuhu.' Even if it is any sermon, attention is drawn towards praise because when a treasure is in front of someone, the person will take from it according to their need. If the treasure is not visible, even with the need, the hand cannot reach out. It will keep wandering aimlessly. If someone feels thirsty in the jungle, first, they will quench their thirst. When it becomes unbearable, they will run here and there. But if the location of a water reservoir is known, even with a little thirst, they will go and drink. When a person realizes that their need will be fulfilled, at that time, they also make an effort to take it. Therefore, Sharia has mentioned the praise of Allah and explained that all treasures of praise belong to Allah Almighty. And because the result of a gathering is inevitable, the needed thing will be sought after. This is why the praise of Allah is mentioned, and it is said that all praises belong to Allah Almighty. And since the result of a gathering is inevitable, the needed thing will be sought after."
From the treasure, only that can be obtained which is sought. When the opportunity arises, beneficial things come to hand. It is said that attention is drawn towards praise on the occasion of marriage, in which it is mentioned that Allah Almighty is the Praised One, and the two praises that can be sought are those that will come from the Praised One. Those praises not from Allah are false. It is advised to focus on the matter of marriage and seek praise from Allah, and it is within your control because the treasure of praises is with you. However, this fact and purpose are known to very few. People consider the sermon as a formality, although there is no verse directly related to marriage. Marriage is solemnized only through acceptance and announcement. If the verses are not recited, and only acceptance and announcement are made, marriage can still take place. This sermon merely informs the two parties of marriage about their rights concerning the husband's wife, the wife's husband, and the relatives of both. There is a difference between our marriages and non-Ahmadi marriages. Generally, their marriages are like a formality, and our marriages have a reality. Muslims have understood the marriage sermon as a formality, but we do not perceive it as a formality; we fulfill its purpose. Since they consider it a formality, they remain unaware of the treasures of praise, and we inform them that attention is drawn towards the treasures of praise, and you can obtain the blessings you need from it. Unfortunately, people have diverted their attention from here. It is our community's duty to fulfill these purposes. The essence of this is that Allah's treasures of praise are with Ahmad; ask from it what blessings you need. Then the result can never be bad. The date of marriage and the two parties' knowledge could not be obtained. (Al-Fazl, June 27, 1921, page 6)
(Delivered in 1921)
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"These verses and this expression that is established from the Holy Prophet ﷺ on the occasion of marriage explain the rules of marriage and its purpose. But at this time, I cannot explain in detail; I will be brief that Islam has laid the foundation of every task on righteousness, and righteousness is like a seed from which the tree of future life is prepared. In summary, it is necessary to keep righteousness in every task because giving a command regarding every matter is difficult and impossible because countless tasks present themselves in life. If it is said about every matter to do it this way, then it is impossible. For this, it is advised to adopt the righteousness of Allah. When a person adopts this righteousness, all their tasks will be correct. The righteousness of Allah is sincerity. There are hundreds of things that Sharia has not given a command about and Sharia has not detailed everything, but it has indicated to adopt the righteousness of Allah. Through righteousness, that spirit was created, and whatever work is done under it will be correct. Prayer, fasting, Hajj, Zakat, and other religious and worldly tasks that are done under it will be correct; nothing else. Righteousness is the name of that spirit under which a person, solely for the pleasure of Allah, works with fear of Him. And this is the way to the proximity of Allah, which was also mentioned in the marriage sermon. The date of marriage and the knowledge of the two parties could not be obtained. (Al-Fazl, June 27, 1921, page 76)
(Delivered on June 23, 1921)
On June 23, 1921, after the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II addressed the following:
"Due to the pain in my throat, I cannot speak much. Nevertheless, I draw attention to those subjects that were highlighted in the marriage sermon. What is marriage? This is a question that should arise in every person's heart. This is not just in humans but also in animals, where males are attracted to females and vice versa. Even as sciences progress, it becomes evident that this desire is not limited to animals but also exists in plants. The Holy Quran had mentioned this, but people did not understand it. Now, science is revealing things that were previously unknown, not that they did not exist but that people were unaware of their essence. Why is there this attraction and desire? This question should arise in every human's heart, why in every purpose, this desire is found. The means to understand this is to contemplate its consequences. When the consequences are considered, it becomes apparent why.
When people gather, a third thing emerges as a result of their gathering. Whether they gather things, a third thing will emerge as a result. Whether that third thing has a new and independent existence or not, it will definitely emerge. For example, if we mix two mangoes, a third new thing will not be created, but a form of a third thing will definitely emerge due to their separate existence. Gathering has importance because there is no gathering that does not result in a third thing or a third matter. Whether it is apparent or not. For example, in gatherings like Eid sermons, Friday sermons, or any other sermon or gathering, attention is drawn to matters where the praise of Allah is mentioned. The prayer starts with praise, and the sermon also begins with 'Alhamdulillah Nahmaduhu, wa nasta'inuhu.' Even if it is any sermon, attention is drawn towards praise because when a treasure is in front of someone, the person will take from it according to their need. If the treasure is not visible, even with the need, the hand cannot reach out. It will keep wandering aimlessly. If someone feels thirsty in the jungle, first, they will quench their thirst. When it becomes unbearable, they will run here and there. But if the location of a water reservoir is known, even with a little thirst, they will go and drink. When a person realizes that their need will be fulfilled, at that time, they also make an effort to take it. Therefore, Sharia has mentioned the praise of Allah and explained that all treasures of praise belong to Allah Almighty. And because the result of a gathering is inevitable, the needed thing will be sought after. This is why the praise of Allah is mentioned, and it is said that all praises belong to Allah Almighty. And since the result of a gathering is inevitable, the needed thing will be sought after."
(Delivered on July 18, 1921)
Every species desires continuity. If its result is not perpetuity, then the whole world would perish. Every entity desires to remain, and this desire is fulfilled when two entities unite. Every entity desires perpetuity and perpetuity is achieved through the union of two entities. This perpetuity makes a person realize that true continuity is attained. Then attention is drawn towards Allah. Someone may say that this desire is also present in disbelievers, but the purpose of their life ends with death, and the hardship and calamity for them is the distance from Allah. Therefore, attention is directed towards true perpetuity. In the amalgamation of the world, there is annihilation, and something is lost. But the union that is with Allah remains, and it stays forever. Both these matters were highlighted in the context of marriage. The date of marriage and the knowledge of the two parties could not be obtained. (Al-Fazl, July 18, 1921, page 6)
(Delivered on October 15, 1921)
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"In the path of Islam, there are great obstacles that neither non-Muslims have understood to this day nor have Muslim preachers fully explored. One of these issues is the rights and duties of women and men. In my view, no religion has achieved the status in the path of Islam, no matter how great it may be. The Aryan religion, due to its tumult, speed, and the affirmations of some European philosophers, has no effect other than some confirmations. Because it is based on no reality. The world always revolves around two things: material benefit and natural or spiritual benefits. But the question of the creation of spirit and matter is not such that it benefits the world materially or naturally. If it creates some warmth in the religious field of discussion, it does so only because a pundit speaks well or a cleric. But after that, it has no impact on worldly relationships, and besides being false, it has no importance in social principles of being false. It cannot gather many people around itself nor can it gather them for long. The religions that have succeeded in gathering the world around them are those that have presented something appealing to emotions in the world."
Whether it was true or false then, and even now, their presence is the reason for criticism and examination. For instance, in Christianity, there is one thing that attracts people, and it is the teaching that Christ sacrificed himself for the world. No matter how educated a person is, whether a philosopher, an M.A., or a top scientist, when events related to Christ are presented to them in this order, all their knowledge is veiled, and they do not ponder whether it could be so or not. They do not contemplate its legitimacy or illegitimacy and just cling to Christ's robe. Then, once love is established, detaching from it becomes difficult. A person finds solace in this thought, even if it is false. But they do not want to let go of this belief with the force of evidence. They just think that God's son came and sacrificed himself for humanity, and he also bore my sins. But this kind of thing is not found in the Aryan religion. However, there are religions that hold such beliefs, Christianity being one of them, as I mentioned. But even Christianity is not at risk because teachings and emotions that appeal are also present in Islam, but Muslims have been negligent in this regard. Now, Allah has revealed His Messiah and has provided evidence in the hands of Muslims and teachings that appeal to emotions. This is a double-edged sword that no one can compete with. Islam can offer comfort and observation, and it also provides evidence. So, how can Christianity compete with Islam? These two opposing religions are considered hostile. Hindus and Christians, but generally, the public does not enter this field; only Aryans are those who should be called the essence of religion. They have turmoil in India, and the rest of the world is showing enthusiasm for Christianity. But these two religions cannot stand against Islam religiously. But there is another power that is gradually sprouting like a small seed against Islam and it is the civilization of the world. The civilization of the world has changed in such a way that it was not present during the time of Islam but now it has happened, and people are coming here to take comfortable things.
(Delivered on October 15, 1921)
And leave the critic behind. The preachers of Islam are pleased that the world has now accepted the truth of the issue of divorce. It is a matter of joy that Christianity used to deny divorce, but now it has accepted the very issue of divorce that Islam presented, and its only meaning will be that Christianity has been defeated. But if the world opposes other injunctions of Islam and appears comfortable in its opposition, then there is no joy for us. We believe that Islam is beneficial, but reflect. When did the world accept the Islamic issue of divorce and realize its mistake? The world held beliefs against it for 1900 years, and it was only six hundred years ago that it was discarded. For thirteen hundred years, it was actively opposed. After such a long period, it has realized its mistake. Similarly, the other injunctions of Islam, which are actually beneficial, but the world considers them harmful and is thinking in the wrong direction, will we wait for the world to realize the truth of these matters after experiencing them, and in this way, Islam will succeed. One of these issues is also the question of women's rights, so it is the duty of our scholars and lecturers to study the world's trend because the world is changing. Wherever there is a mistake going on, it is our duty to correct it. Before the world falls into this error for centuries and we expect that after experiencing, the world will accept the truth of Islam. Because if we wait in the same way, there may be other events that can throw the world into other errors after coming out of these mistakes. Besides, when habits are formed, it is difficult to leave them. And if the power of God is not considered, or if God Almighty does not bring about a change according to His special discretion, then it becomes absolutely impossible. So Islam has given rights to women and given them with appropriateness, and in some teachings, Islam has differed from previous religions regarding women, for example, the veil. Before Islam, to the extent that there are religions, their history tells that there was no veil in them, or as it is in Islam, it was not like that. For example, Jews, Christians, Hindus, Buddhists, Zoroastrians, etc., the histories of nations tell that initially there was no veil among them. If it was there, it was not in this form. For example, in these nations, a veil of this kind is found that it is for the common people but not for the rulers. But in Islam, there is a certain restriction.
Islam shows that no deficiency in human rights has been made in the case of women; rather, equality has been maintained. No distinction has been made between men and women in all matters, but there are some relationships that arise in society beyond humanity. Every individual has equal rights, but for the establishment of the social system, some rights have been taken from women because when a row of people is arranged, the system wants someone to be first and someone to be last; otherwise, the row cannot be formed. Every individual has equality, but in the social context, there is a need for some to be first and others to be second. The world has now understood this, but Islam had understood it earlier. Unfortunately, Muslims have been negligent until now. Where there was a relationship of individual rights, they used to express it. But where there is deficiency or excess in the social context, they cannot understand its wisdom because the reality is that every individual, whether a man or a woman, holds equal rights, but when they come into the social context, one has to be first and the other second. Now this is the situation. And now that even women have become highly educated, they ask what special quality men have that they are superior. I read an article in the newspaper today that an examination was conducted where all major prizes were awarded to women. A priest pointed to the board on which names were written and said, "Those who consider women inferior to men should come and open their eyes. If I were there, I would have stood up and placed this board in front of him. It is a rule that the more something is suppressed, the more it rises. Women's eyes are now opening, and before them is a history of thousands of years showing that men have violated women's rights, which is why in their hearts, there is a growing resentment and contempt towards men. And when the fervor of resentment arises, reason is clouded, and the distinction between what is permissible and what is impermissible is blurred. It is often said up to this point that why we do not have the right to such and such a thing when in reality it is not their right.
If women come out and, as they are coming out of that humiliation, go beyond the limits that are correct, then bringing half of the world's population to moderation will be difficult. In my opinion, if we accept these things, the truth of Islam can be proven just like one plus one equals two. So, this civilization is obstructing the path of Islam. Where some matters are coming closer to Islam, there are others moving farther away because when a part of the world sees that its rights have been violated severely, they turn against it and go beyond the limits that are correct for them. If it is assumed that the world will come to the truth after experiencing it, then first, it will take 1900 years, and then it will also happen that in such a long period, mistakes will be made. So, these are the powers that we have to confront, but people do not understand it yet. Even in our community, educated women who read external books and newspapers ask what rights should be ours and sometimes their statements go against Islamic teachings. It is my habit to provoke my wife to study and delve into Islamic teachings so that the deficiencies in women's rights can be presented. So, they express and I break down their arguments one by one so that the teaching of Islam becomes firm in them. Therefore, people in our community also fall under the influence of the old times, which leads them to restrict women's legitimate rights, which cannot have a good outcome. Hazrat Sahib had understood this in the beginning. They were strolling with my mother on the platform of a station. Molvi Abdul Karim Sahib was there, whether he was a Molvi or not, but he was under the influence of the old times. Hazrat Molvi Sahib (Khalifatul Masih I) said to him, "Look, Hazrat Sahib walks like this, you will raise objections, our nose will be cut off, what should we answer, you go and cry. Hazrat Molvi Sahib said, "I won't go, you go yourself." So Molvi Abdul Karim went and called Hazrat Sahib, saying, "Hazrat, people will object to us, and what should we do, our nose will be cut off, what should we answer?"
"If our nose is cut off, we will walk away." Hazrat Sahib said, "Molvi Sahib, have you not read about the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) that he ran with Hazrat Aisha in front of the Companions? Come and say, if your nose is cut, then walk away." Molvi Sahib remained silent and left. Hazrat Molvi Sahib asked, "Tell me, what response did you get?" Molvi Sahib remained silent. Let all rights be given and the unlawful be stopped. If a few or hundreds of such examples are produced, then the world's attention will immediately shift here. Otherwise, European women come and see Eastern women covered, and they present it as a victory for Christianity, although it is not a teaching of Christianity but a result of civilization. Islam has granted equality in rights to women individually, but some rights have been taken from them for the establishment of the social system. Every person has the natural right to go wherever they want, but governments impose some restrictions for the formation of the system. This is the case. I have seen the miserable condition of women in Kashmir, which knows no bounds. Regarding veiling, it is so free here that even the chest is exposed, which European women do not do, and they wear long skirts that they cannot lift. They keep the collar long. They feed the child as if one calamity leads to another. In contrast, the slavery here is such that women do not have the choice of what to eat or drink. This situation is not seen in this country, but it is seen there. An Ahmadi came from a distant area and started to return quickly. When asked why he was leaving, he said he had brought rice and lentils home; if he didn't go, the family would starve. This is a common practice. If there is someone there who draws the attention of women to this situation, they can quickly abandon Islam, but if
Give women their rights according to Islam and enlighten informed individuals about this teaching so they can emerge from this slavery. Therefore, it is an important question that women should be given rights according to Sharia and prevented from unlawful freedom. There are other issues hindering the path of Islam, such as spiritualism and the socialist movement. But these are all related. Since marriage is the occasion, I draw my community's attention to it. The determination of both parties could not be made. From Abu Dawood's book Al-Jihad, Chapter: The Superiority of Men Over Women, November 7, 1921, pages 6 to 8.
(Delivered on November 3, 1921)
After the Asr prayer on November 3, 1921, before announcing several marriages, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II delivered the following guidance. The verses recited on the occasion of marriage emphasize the importance of piety. The issue of marriage is one that involves a heartfelt connection. Those who do not consider this but focus on superficial matters suffer losses because external matters cannot bring real comfort and peace. We often see that many wives are beautiful, but their husbands dislike them, and many wives are unattractive, but their husbands are devoted to them. Similarly, we see that many wives are in love with their unattractive husbands, and many wives detest their handsome husbands. Wealth is considered a great thing in the world, and people desire it, but can hundreds, thousands, or even millions of examples be found where the women of wealthy and prestigious families cannot control the hearts of their poor husbands? Then we see that not hundreds but thousands of husbands are such who are wealthy, affluent, of high status and honor, and their homes receive wives from poor families who find good homes, have access to good food, wear good clothes, and have more comfort and
An impoverished and unattractive woman finds favor with her husband, and an unattractive and blind husband becomes beloved to his wife. Contrary to appearances, virtues in practical life are lost, and the purpose of marriage cannot be achieved. A woman's heart is inclined towards her husband, not due to his external beauty or wealth, but due to his inner qualities. Conversely, it is observed that beautiful and affluent women are despised by their husbands, and wealthy and handsome husbands are detested by their wives. It becomes evident that there is a deeper and hidden connection of hearts, and until that connection is established, neither the husband nor the wife can find peace and contentment. Therefore, the emphasis is on piety because material wealth and status cannot create peace and unity between husband and wife. Dignity and virtue cannot provide a peaceful and content life for the husband and wife. Beauty and charm cannot sustain a relationship because we see that these things are acquired, but still, discord arises between husband and wife. It is often seen that a beautiful and wealthy woman cannot win the affection of her poor husband, and vice versa. This is a very delicate secret that the world may or may not discover in the future. So far, it has not been understood, and the reason behind why an unattractive woman attracts people's interest or why a beautiful woman fails to attract anyone remains unknown. This intricate mystery may or may not be unraveled by the world in the future, but so far, it has not been comprehended, and the underlying cause has not been identified as to why some are drawn to one another while others are not.
An individual divorces a woman because he finds her extremely repulsive, and a woman separates from her husband because he does not even want to look at her. However, when this same man marries another woman or this same woman marries another man, they view each other with affection. It is evident from such instances that there are hidden secrets that connect hearts, and humans are unaware of them. Due to this lack of knowledge, if one desires to cultivate love and affection through effort and struggle and attain a life of peace and contentment, it would be foolishness. There is only one way for this, and that is for a person to adopt piety and trust in Allah Almighty, then despite thousands of weaknesses and flaws, the situation will be such that the husband will love his wife and the wife will love her husband. Their life will be filled with utmost comfort and contentment, so this aspect should be given special consideration. (Al-Fazl, November 10, 1921, page 6) The determination of both parties could not be made.
(Delivered on November 16, 1921)
After the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II stated:
Within human creation, Allah Almighty has hidden secrets that draw attention towards His essence. One of these secrets is affection and love that Allah has bestowed upon the human heart. No matter how hard-hearted a person may be, love is still concealed in their heart. Even robbers, murderers, and unjust rulers have been seen to have love due to certain existences. This love, created in the human heart by Allah, diverts attention towards Him and ignites a fire in the human heart so that it becomes known that true comfort lies in Allah Almighty. Love for a man in a woman's heart, for a woman in a man's heart, and for children is placed, and he enjoys and is delighted by these affections. However, after enjoying these affections, another fire is ignited in his heart. Just as a sore festers, a person picks at it and finds pleasure in picking at it, but he realizes that his sore is healing well, and at that moment, he estimates how much comfort he will have when his sore completely heals. But this game alone does not lead to the extreme happiness. Similarly, the love in a person's heart, which he feels for certain things, makes him realize that his comfort is not complete. He loves his wife, he loves his children,
Love arises, but complete happiness is not attained from this love; rather, despite these comforts, the heart feels that there is still a lack in my comfort and my comfort is in something other than these. Because the comfort derived from these loves is like the scratching of a sore, and a comfort is obtained from it. If this comfort is not achieved, then all these comforts become painful. The purpose of all these relationships is that human attention turns towards Allah Almighty, and therefore, in the matter of marriage, attention is drawn towards the piety of Allah, which is explained that you should not be like the insane person who does not treat the sore because he finds comfort in scratching it because the real comfort is in complete health that comes afterwards. Therefore, a person feels that his comfort is not complete until he has a relationship with Allah Almighty. The relationships between husband and wife are similar to easing a sore; there is comfort in them, but despite these comforts, a person feels that I am not completely comfortable because where he finds comfort in those relationships, there are many responsibilities placed on him. Children bring comfort, but if they are sick, then their medicine, care, worries about their food and drink, worries about their education, the difficulties of their upbringing, all become painful in comparison to comfort. Comfort is felt from the wife, but the burden of her rights also falls on the person. In this situation, his attention turns towards Allah Almighty. And he says that my complete comfort is in Allah Almighty and these relationships are to draw attention towards Allah. Getting stuck in these relationships and considering your comfort limited and restricted in them is a mistake. Therefore, Allah Almighty has repeatedly said, "Fear Allah, Fear Allah, Fear Allah - Choose the piety of Allah. Choose the piety of Allah. Choose the piety of Allah." Meaning, do not get stuck in these relationships, but choose your complete comfort, that is, choose the piety of Allah. The determination of both parties could not be made. (Al-Fazl, January 16, 1922, page 76)
Delivered on December 4, 1921, after the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II stated:
Within humans, there is a desire (and this desire exists in other creatures as well) to establish their existence in the world. Humans, animals, plants, no creature wants its existence to cease. Due to the development of the human brain, if it is separated, this fact is found in other creatures. We observe animals that after spending a period of childhood, they desire to have offspring. This desire is also present in plants; they also want to propagate their species. We know about the world of plants that they are intertwined in ways that promote their species because complete research has not been done on inanimate objects, nothing can be said about them, but there is no reason to deny this fact that they also want to grow. So, in plants, there is a desire to propagate their species, and in animals, this desire is more evident because their active power is greater than that of plants, and this desire progresses in humans to the extent that some people steal the offspring of others, and some adopt children to fulfill their desire. Animals do not steal to fulfill their desire, but it is seen that some animals nurture the offspring of other animals when they do not have their own offspring.
Humans, animals, and plants all share the desire for growth and continuation of their species. This desire is inherent in all creation, indicating its significance in natural inclinations. This desire is not limited to humans and animals but extends to plants, while we remain unaware of the desires of inanimate objects. Despite the natural and common nature of this desire, humans lack a means to fulfill it. Even the wealthiest individuals spend vast sums on treatments but fail to fulfill this desire. Some may offer millions, yet the desire remains unmet. For instance, a wealthy American donated two and a half million rupees for the treatment of tuberculosis after his only son died from the disease. His grief led him to donate to save others from the same fate. If he believed that spending two and a half million or more would bring him a child, he would have spent it. However, despite advancements in Europe and America, fulfilling the desire for offspring remains unattainable. This desire, possibly present in animals, is unknown in plants but is evident in humans, as they seek to have children. This desire should be exclusive to humans because of their civil nature, leading people to resort to various rituals, superstitions, and significant expenditures to fulfill it, with ancient texts being written on the subject. Hindu scriptures, including some with indecent content, delve into the process of childbirth, some of which have been partially integrated into religion. Yet, no definitive conclusion has been reached. These are all speculative matters, and speculations are not reliable. Producing offspring according to one's desire is a significant matter, especially when the gender of the child cannot be accurately determined until it is in the mother's womb. The purpose is the fulfillment of this human desire. Towards this end, humans resort to superstitions and
One of the verses I have read that draws attention to this is:
"O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul and created from it its mate and dispersed from both of them many men and women. And fear Allah, through whom you ask one another, and the wombs. Indeed Allah is ever, over you, an Observer." (Quran, 4:1)
You get married so that your name remains, your child is born, and from that your lineage continues. But none of you have the choice to be successful in your desires, and then there is the desire for a righteous child. In this also, you do not have the choice to be successful, but there is another authority in front of you to fulfill these desires. Who is that? Your Lord who created you. See how much He has led the progeny of one man. He has filled the world of 25 thousand miles with the offspring of that one person. His progeny has progressed so far that people say the world has grown so much that we will eat it. So, the desire for offspring is a natural desire, but humans do not have a way to be successful in it except by choosing the piety of Allah, who has increased and spread the progeny from a single Adam because you have experienced that there is power in this God that He can increase the progeny of whom He wishes. If He is left, then there is no worldly thing that fulfills this desire. Along with this, there is another desire that occurs after the birth of children, that the children are good and righteous. If the son becomes an enemy of religion, then there is a flaw. If he is caught in theft, robbery, murder, or any other evil, when the police catch him, the name of the parents will also be defamed. Therefore, it was said, "And fear Allah, through whom you ask one another, and the wombs." Choose the piety of Allah. Because the relationships you are starting and the result of that will be children. If that is corrupted, then your old age will be corrupted and you will be corrupted. Therefore, it was said that when you choose piety, then the piety of Allah will be created because it is famous.
It is you who have children and then precisely the right children are born by Allah Almighty. This is not the only example, but there are many examples where Allah Almighty has multiplied the offspring of a person. For example, look at Hazrat Ibrahim, to whom it was said that I will give you offspring to the extent that they will be as numerous as the stars in the sky. Now see how the progeny of Ibrahim has spread in different countries, among different nations. Similarly, look at the Sayyids, who are the descendants of Hazrat Fatimah, the daughter of the Prophet ﷺ, and Hazrat Ali. Which country is there where there are no Sayyids? Then there are individuals who do not have any offspring, but there are many large populations that are considered to be descendants of these individuals. However, the point here is that Allah wanted to increase and He did increase the progeny. There are many strong individuals who do not have any offspring, but when Allah wishes for someone, they have offspring. Hazrat Khalifah I used to say that a whole family of Sayyids was destroyed by Sikhs, leaving only a woman who was wealthy. She intended that if Allah wills, this family will continue. She started investigating to find a male in that family. Eventually, it was discovered that there is a person in India from that lineage who is completely recognizable; his limbs are lost. The woman went there and married him. Hazrat Khalifah I used to say that now there is a large family from this lineage, so see what provisions Allah made for him. A completely unrecognizable person got married, and a wealthy woman went. Allah had to keep this family, so this relationship was formed, and their wish was fulfilled. So whoever engages in this relationship and relies on the grace of Allah will receive fruits that will be sweet. The determination of both parties could not be made. (Al-Fazl, February 19, 1922, page 847)
(Delivered on December 10, 1921)
On December 10, 1921, after the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II read the marriage sermon of Dr. Muhammad Abdullah's daughter Fatima to Ahmadullah Khan Walad Qudratullah Khan. After the Sunnah sermon, he stated:
The matter of marriage, as delicate and important as it is, worldly matters are so delicate. Marriage places a heavy responsibility on both man and woman, but I see that people do not perceive it as much as it truly is because what they perceive is very minimal. In reality, it is much greater. What is it? We see that throughout the world, a hidden intent is at work that can be described in the words of repetition as a power. We will not delve into this discussion at the moment whether it is a power or intent or what else. In any case, there is a source that cannot be denied that establishes human life. Whether it is said like Christians that this chain has been going on for six thousand years or like Europeans that it can be said that after hundreds of thousands of years, this state has gradually occurred, just as our Sufis have said that progress and growth are gradual. The mention in the Holy Quran of those days is not what we understand but are those that are hundreds of thousands of years. Thus, concerning a change, Hazrat Syed Abdul Kareem Jilani writes in his Kashf that the change occurred in three hundred thousand years.
It happened in three hundred thousand years when humans reached this level, and in this long period, no change is visible in humans. It is known that the progress of the world has ended on humans. The rule is that when the claim is fulfilled, work is stopped, so if a higher level of human had to be created, this change would have been evident. But since the change did not occur in this long period, it became clear that this purpose has been fulfilled. However, it can be thought that waiting should be done for a change, but after a long period. We say that because the Word of Allah Almighty has been revealed with its full glory, we have come to know that there will be no further change. Now, the same purpose of creation of human offspring is being carried out as it should be. The movements of the sun, moon, and stars, the movement of the air, the changes of seasons, the effects of the earth, the birth of millions of birds, the existence of plants and inanimate objects, all these are for the purpose that humans are born and continue to exist. There were two forms: 1. Completion of Shariah 2. Establishment of Humans - Shariah has been completed, and now when the decision is not made to erase humans, this is the will of nature to keep humans alive. This is the heart of man, the throne of Allah Almighty, on which His Word descends. Now see what marriage is. This change that occurred over hundreds of thousands of years and countless lives, millions upon millions, billions upon billions, in which the counting of time is necessary, after the destruction of so many lives, humans were born. The purpose of marriage is to carry forward the offspring of humans who were born after such a great and important change. How was man born first? There is no need for this discussion. Now the means of human birth is marriage, that is, the union of a man and a woman from which children are born. Apparently, marriage seems like a trivial matter, but in reality, it is for the establishment of humans after the creation of hundreds of thousands of years and the increase of human offspring. For this, women and men come together to fulfill this purpose, and marriage is for the imposition of this purpose, and it is so important that after the relationship with Allah, it fulfills it at the second number and protects it. Shariah has two rights, the rights of Allah and the rights of servants - as if marriage holds the status of the second foot. Shariah considers it so important
Many fail to grasp the importance of marriage and miss out on the benefits it holds. They are like a naive child who receives a precious diamond but remains unaware of its worth. Even if offered a rupee for it, they would readily give it away, not realizing its true value. If they were aware, they wouldn't part with it even for ten thousand rupees. Since the significance of marriage eludes many, they are unable to reap the rewards it offers. It is essential for our community members to understand the meaning of marriage and strive to fulfill its purpose.
"Al-Fazl - February 16, 1922, page 807"
"Al-Yawaqit Wal-Jawahir, Volume 1, page 9, Printed Marginal Note, Egypt 51321"
(Delivered on December 24, 1921)
After the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II read the marriage sermon and then stated:
In this world, we observe that humans derive a particular pleasure from social interactions, whether it be with friends, siblings, or parents and children. The essence of all humans coming together brings a joy, even if it goes unnoticed. Imagine a person walking alone in the jungle. When they unexpectedly meet someone, despite being strangers and speaking different languages, they find joy in the encounter. An Indian who knows Pashto and a Pathan unfamiliar with Urdu, when they meet in the jungle, will experience happiness. It becomes evident that humans find joy in connecting with other humans, even if it is hidden. Just as the pleasure of the eye and ear is concealed, humans feel this joy. When the eyes are tired and the power of vision is lost, but then restored, the happiness and relief experienced are immense. If the eye is sick, the doctor advises not to remove the bandage, but a thief removes it stealthily. In this situation, even if the eye is lost, the joy is still found. When light appears at that moment, the happiness and pleasure are immense. Even if the ears cannot hear, but with the removal of wax or after completing a medical treatment, there is relief, and the person feels great joy. If the sense of smell is lost, and then restored after treatment or recovery from illness, how happy the person becomes. Even if the nose loses its sense and then regains it, the joy is immense.
Even if the smell is pleasant, happiness is experienced when comforts are not known, but it is estimated when it is assumed that the strengths have been lost and then regained. And the fact that pleasure is derived from social interactions guides us towards the joy experienced when connections are made, and there is comfort in meeting and union, and there is joy and comfort in connecting with Allah. Marriage also falls under this principle. I do not say that small matters are guides for big matters, but I give an example of it. There is no modesty in religion. In our sermons, we also have children; we cannot stop them, nor do we want to keep them unaware of these things. Therefore, I tell you how attention is drawn from small matters to big matters and how the union of man and woman guides towards the connection with Allah. The purpose of human birth is to continue the lineage. The survival of human species is in personal survival, meaning the first purpose is that the child remains alive. Who teaches the child to drink milk? It cannot speak. Nature has placed the power of reproduction in it and especially increased it in the chest and tongue. When the child takes the mother's breast and sucks, it feels pleasure. And with it, milk flows into its stomach, which makes its personal survival. It seems as if God had placed his life and survival in this pleasure. Now, after passing through childhood to youth, who teaches them those special things except the elders? All others are taught by nature and the law of God. But what is its form? It should be understood that nature has placed that power and pleasure near those instruments that are related to urine and others. Man washes off dirt and thus learns the pleasure and feels it and realizes that this is the thing given to him for the survival of the human species. This is a very delicate and long discussion, but I have briefly stated how attention is drawn from small matters to big matters. See how the survival of the human species is obtained from small pleasures.
And in the same way, there is a purpose in the pleasure derived from social interactions that one should feel that their connection should be with Allah. If I find Him in it, then just as through the union of man and woman, human progeny gains survival, similarly, when a person unites with Allah, eternal life, delight, and an unbroken chain of life are bestowed upon them. Attention is drawn towards this chain through marriage. The purpose should be kept in mind in it. Generally, the pleasure in meeting is kept in view. Similarly, the real purpose of connection with Allah, which was connected with humans, is forgotten, and only the meeting remains. (Al-Fazl, February 23, 1922, page 76)
The knowledge of both parties could not be ascertained.
(Delivered on January 30, 1922)
On January 3, 1922, the marriage of Malik Ahmad Hussain, son of Malik Ghulam Hussain, resident of Qadian, took place with Niaz Begum, daughter of Babu Abdul Rahim, an Ahmadi resident of Khurram Gilgit, Rawalpindi, for a dowry of seven hundred rupees. Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II read the marriage sermon.
There are various types of goodness in the world, some of which are directly rewarded, such as prayer. It is not entered into the law of nature that one who performs prayer will necessarily be rewarded visibly. However, its reward is predetermined if prayer is offered with all the conditions fulfilled. Allah Almighty rewards it in a certain way, sometimes under the attribute of sustenance, sometimes under the attribute of ownership, sometimes under some other attribute. But the necessary result does not emerge in the form of the law of nature, rather Allah bestows a reward under His power, whether it is in the form of a gift or a fast, its result does not come out in a specific form. However, if fasting is accepted by Allah, then its reward will be given in a different form. But some matters are such that their necessary result occurs in a natural form. For example, one who sows wheat will reap wheat. It is not the wisdom of God that if wheat is sown, chickpeas should grow. In the same way, some moral virtues have specific consequences. For example, speaking the truth. Not stealing has specific consequences. Those who speak the truth are trusted. Those who do not steal
No honorable person will ever lie or steal, as they believe that if they lie, their trust will be lost, and if they steal, they will be caught. These are virtues, but because their natural consequences are determined, it is not necessary for a person to believe in God but not lie and refrain from stealing. The act of murder is also a natural consequence besides being a sin in Shariah, so it is not necessary for a murderer to not believe in God because society rejects the murderer. Presenting oneself with ethics, trustworthiness, and honesty is a consequence not only in the apparent pleasure of Allah Almighty's approval but also in the worldly sense. It is possible that a person may not believe in God but present themselves with ethics, love, honesty, and trustworthiness towards others. Therefore, some matters have predetermined consequences naturally, while others remain hidden, and there are also differences in degrees. Some consequences are hidden or more hidden, and some are apparent or more apparent, and the level of goodness determines its consequences in the same way. For example, theft is a vice, and its immediate consequence is known. Truthfulness is a virtue, and its immediate consequence is known. But prayer is a virtue, and its ultimate consequence, which is the highest, is hidden. The one who abandons it will also not face an apparent punishment. There are two types of rewards; one is for worldly deeds, and the other is for Allah and the Prophet, which are for worldly deeds. Its reward is immediately received. For example, if truthfulness is practiced with the intention of seeking Allah's approval, then its reward increases. Regarding this, Allah Almighty has said, "O you who have believed, fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice." Those who act on both aspects of truthful speech, meaning it is good for truthfulness and also for seeking Allah's approval, receive abundant rewards. Europeans are close to this, but their business dealings are based on truthfulness and justice. Ask them for millions, and they won't suspect any deception. Therefore, their business flourishes. If there is a defect in a product, they will write that it is defective, so we have reduced the price. If you don't like it, you can return it, and our expense. They don't even think about the loss, but others are not bound by this principle in business, so their business is failing. Europeans do not consider God's pleasure in this principle.
Allah Almighty says, "O you who have believed, fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice.
It will be better for you in your deeds and will forgive your sins. And whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger has certainly achieved a great attainment."
O Muslims! It is not necessary to tell you to speak the truth because you act upon it, and every honorable person appreciates straightforwardness. The natural consequences of speaking the truth are evident, but we emphasize that you should also consider the fear of Allah. Saying the truth is good, but it is even better when done with the fear of Allah. He will rectify your deeds. This is the result of acting upon righteousness. But if it is done with the intention of seeking Allah's approval, then the result will be greater. He will forgive your sins. Your actions will be rectified. This is the consequence of speaking the truth. But if it is done with the fear of Allah, then the rewards will be even greater. It will manifest the attributes of Allah upon you. If you act upon straightforwardness and also consider the fear of Allah, you will receive abundant rewards. It seems that those who act upon straightforwardness have faith in the natural consequences. It appears that acting upon straightforwardness has a natural consequence, and acting upon the fear of Allah also brings a reward in Shariah. If you act upon straightforwardness with the fear of Allah, the success will be much greater than those who only act upon straightforwardness, as they have faith in the natural consequences of truthfulness. It seems that acting upon straightforwardness has a natural consequence, and acting upon the fear of Allah also brings a reward in Shariah. In the marriage sermon, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) read this verse to draw attention to the importance of adherence to straightforwardness and the fear of Allah. It is regrettable that those who were told to act upon straightforwardness have failed to do so. Especially in marriages, adherence to straightforwardness is not enforced. It is said that now the matter should be kept hidden, but it will eventually be revealed. Besides the worldly losses, accountability will be demanded in the presence of Allah Almighty. If this person is considered, then one can attain many rewards. January 23, 1922, page 2
Surah Al-Ahzab: 33:70
Al-Fazl, March 1922, page 65(Delivered on January 6, 1922)
After the recitation of the marriage sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II stated:
In matters of marriage, the necessary guidance and the correct path for establishing peace are continuously explained, but despite that, people fail to understand. In reality, people are accustomed to working without a purpose, which inevitably leads to failure. If a purpose is kept in mind and work is done accordingly, no shortcomings arise. Consider when a person leaves home for a task, they do not linger on the way but complete the task. This is the same case with marriage; people do not comprehend its purpose and objective. Islam has set a grand and lofty purpose for marriage, but generally, if someone pays attention to the objectives, benefits can be reaped. Worldly objectives fulfill desires or obtain offspring. If these objectives are fulfilled, peace is established to some extent, indicating that when a task is done with a purpose, it leads to peace. However, those who do not consider these objectives, their peace is disrupted. Disputes arise later, for example, there is a flaw in the girl's appearance or she did not bring along wealth. Who does not desire good things? But it is essential to think first and set a purpose. For instance, those students who pass but cannot solve a single question do not lose heart.
(Delivered on March 9, 1922)
They could have passed, but those whose purpose is not achieved will leave the examination room without solving a single question. The purpose of marriage is to establish righteousness. If worldly objectives are also considered, some peace can be attained. The determination of the two parties in marriage could not be made. (Al-Fazl, March 9, 1922, page 54)
(Delivered on January 7, 1922)
After the Asr prayer on January 7, 1922, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II read the marriage sermon of Sheikh Yaqub Ali's son, Thalith Sheikh Yusuf Ali, with Nawab Bibi, daughter of Miyan Ghulam Haider.
The purpose of marriage and drawing the attention of both parties towards the fear of Allah and understanding the reality of life is always emphasized. It should be remembered that life is a four-day journey, and death is inevitable. If this is understood, all disputes are resolved. People argue with each other, but if someone dies, they say, "What was the fight for these four days of life?" If someone has the right of another at the time of death, they say, "Did I keep someone's right for this day?" So, the difference between a believer and a non-believer is that a believer thinks ahead, and a non-believer thinks later. It seems that there is a difference of hours, days, and even years in thinking between a believer and a non-believer. A believer thinks ahead of time, while a non-believer says, "If it had been like this, it would have been like this." I have explained the difference between a believer and a non-believer because it is necessary to consider every matter beforehand. (Al-Fazl, March 9, 1922, page 7)
(Delivered on January 12, 1922)
After the recitation of the marriage sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II stated:
In human relationships, ruin arises from two things, and these two things are related to one word, which is competition. Development or ruin occurs in relationships due to competition. When a person thinks that others are casting a glance on his inner self or pays attention to finding faults in others, it leads to ruin. The concept of competition creates disruptions or rectifications. Allah Almighty is also a competitor. He knows the state of humans. Although His knowledge is not acquired but intrinsic. His example is like a mirror; whatever is in front of it, its reflection falls upon it. God does not need to spy because His knowledge is eternal and without intention. For humans, spying is necessary. This competition also leads to disputes between husband and wife; they get involved in each other's actions. Mistakes also happen among people. When suspicion arises, one will be labeled a criminal, corruption will occur, and mutual trust will be lost. When trust is lost, love will also diminish. Competition can also be beneficial. The thought that someone is not watching leads to rectification, and when faults are removed, love also grows. If it is known and believed that people are watching my
People spy on each other, but my Guardian, Protector, and Competitor are amazing. So, humans do not care about such people because when they see that the non-observer cannot spoil me, but Allah, who is my Guardian, can also punish me, so He also rectifies my condition. In the verses recited at the occasion of marriage, one verse also states: "Indeed, Allah is ever, over you, an Observer.
If the fear of Allah Almighty is present in every glance, and obedience to His commands is done for His pleasure, then there remains no fear of competition. Because when Allah Almighty is watching over, there is no need to spy on anyone. For example, when two people are fighting, and someone appears who scares both, then both will leave their fight. Similarly, the spying between husband and wife is useless because Allah Almighty's gaze is on both, and He can punish both. The fight between two people happens when they feel safe from your powerful gaze, but when it is known that a third observer has arrived, the fight between both ends. It is a known fact that the fight between husband and wife happens due to competition. Even the competition was present among the wives of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him). It was thought why the Holy Prophet stayed longer with the second wife. The rule of the Holy Prophet was that besides the turn, he used to visit all wives in case someone needed something. One wife belonged to a tribe where excellent honey was available. You liked honey. She used to prepare honey drink for you. In this arrangement, there was also a delay. The other wives found this delay unpleasant. There is a kind of sweetness in honey no matter how pure it is. The wives advised that when you come, you should be told that there is a smell from your mouth. So when the Holy Prophet drank the honey drink and came, all the wives at their respective places said the same thing that there is a smell from your mouth. Their intention was not to refrain from honey but to stop the competition of sitting there. Therefore, Allah Almighty rebuked and said that if you do not refrain, you will be replaced, and the wives of the Holy Prophet will be given to you. So, do not indulge in spying but
(Delivered on May 22, 1922)
When the fear of Allah Almighty is kept in the heart and the intention is to rectify oneself, then no disputes can arise. (Al-Fazl, May 22, 1922, page 7)
The determination of the two parties in marriage could not be made. (Surah An-Nisa: 2)
Sahih Bukhari, Book of Divorce, Chapter: What Allah Has Made Lawful for You(Delivered on January 25, 1922)
On January 25, 1922, the marriage sermon of Syed Sadiq Ali, son of Syed Imadad Ali, residing in Ambetha, Saharanpur District, with Salma, daughter of Syed Mahboob Alam, residing in the area of Lur Sa, District Gya, a clerk at the Canal Office, was read by Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II. The marriage sermon was recited, and it was stated that humans witness the powers of Allah Almighty daily, yet they become anxious. A person with power and a strong hand sees, but the thought does not arise in his heart that his difficulties can also be resolved, and he becomes anxious, wondering what will happen. In this way, he cuts off the divine help that is granted by Allah. What is the miracle of the power of Allah Almighty? For this, we take the example of the Prophets. In what state did they come, and what power and strength did they have, but what was the outcome? When the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) was born, his parents had passed away, and there was a difference in the inheritance left for him. One writes a camel, the other writes a goat. If it is a goat, then it requires a feed for up to eight days, and if it is a camel, in an area where there is no civilization, it is of no greater benefit. In today's era, if the owner of a camel wants to work for the government, he can, but where there is neither trade nor agriculture, nor industry and profession, if someone wants to work
If a unique and rare find is discovered, it is found; otherwise, it is not. The value of a camel was so high that when a guest arrived, it was either slaughtered or a lottery was drawn, and people would sit together to eat and drink. Trade was ordinary, and caravans traveled once or twice a year. The price of a camel was moderate, and people's lives were ordinary. Hazrat Allah belonged to a noble family, but it is essential to see what your status was within that family. Ranks are not merely determined by the family but can also be achieved by a particular elevation within the family. For example, the respect among Muslims for the descendants of the Holy Prophet is because they are from the lineage of the Prophet, but merely being from the descendants does not bring honor. Just as the Brahmans among Hindus are only engaged in cooking, but if there is a knowledgeable scholar, then the scholar's honor is greater. Similarly, if a Sayyid is a scholar, their honor is greater. So, you, O Messenger of Allah, were from a noble family, but you were not considered great within that family; instead, you were counted among the youth. If there was respect within that family, it was with Abu Talib because he was the elder in that family. Then, your family did not achieve any political eminence; you came in your old age. Once, someone asked your uncle if you were older or Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah. He replied that Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, was older, but he was born before him. So, you were younger in age. But God elevated you to the highest honor. Your family had a religious status. However, that also came from the idols of the Kaaba. But during the time of conflict and war, your family had no position; instead, it was held by the families of Abu Sufyan and Abu Jahl. When people came, according to the rules of addressing the respected class of Arabs, they did not call you by saying, "O uncle! O father!" but they called you by saying "O child" because you were the Hadith al-Sunnah. Then, respect is gained through education. There was no tradition of education in this country. Even if you knew a little, you were considered great, but you did not know how to read and write. So, you did not gain political respect, nor did you achieve a high position within the family, nor did you have wealth. In such a situation, you made a claim and what a significant claim you made. It is a rule that when a person goes on a journey of one or two days, they prepare according to it.
If a long journey is to be undertaken, preparations are made accordingly for food, travel, etc. So, the claim you made was so grand that it required so much more in terms of these four means: 1. Wealth, 2. Family honor - that is to be from a respected family and to be prominent within that family, and 3. Knowledge. Hazrat Mirza Ghulam Ahmad also belonged to a respected family but was not prominent within that family. In such a situation, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) claimed that he had come to conquer the whole world. The situation was such that no external resources were available, and the claim was so vast that it encompassed all the needs of the world. It seemed as if there was nothing, yet the claim was that everything had to be achieved. At that time, what could have been thought about the possibility of success? Therefore, some called him mad, some cunning, and some said that due to some action of his, calamity had befallen him. These were the three decisions that people could make based on apparent circumstances, and they made them. But there was another perspective, and that was spiritual. Firstly, his conduct should be observed. Was his first action such that calamity befell him? Then you call him mad, but are his actions fruitless and baseless? The first life of the third claimant should be examined. Does it become apparent from his actions that he can lie? Then the current actions should be observed. Is it the madness of fools? When the three results are wrong, then the perspective regarding him must change. When we look at his initial actions, we realize that his actions were the best actions, so how could a bad result come from them? "Wheat is separated from chaff." So, what he said was not from himself but from a powerful existence that was calling him. Therefore, what he said in that state of insignificance proved correct, and the world had to accept his words. How impossible things seemed that became possible. A companion said that there was a time when I had so much aversion towards him that I did not even want to look at him, but then a time came when I found no one more beautiful than him. And then, with awe and love, I could not look towards him. So, now the situation is such that if someone asks me about your conduct, I would not reveal it.
You were given so much knowledge that in that era, the poet was considered the greatest. It is a joke that a more powerful magician becomes a fairy, and above that, a poet. Because this magic affects both groups and fairies. So, in that era, the rank of a poet was considered great, and in that era, the greatest poet was Labid and was considered advanced among predecessors and successors. The seventh suspended poem was his. He became a Muslim and lived until the time of Hazrat Umar. Hazrat Umar had affection for poetry. You sent a governor to him to send poems. There were two poets, Labid and another, and the governor called both. The second poet brought a poem, but when Labid was asked to present a poem, he recited: "Alif Lam Mim. This is the Book about which there is no doubt
" and the same happened a couple of times. The governor expressed dissatisfaction and reduced his stipend, and Hazrat Umar was sent for and said that Labid did this, and I have reduced his stipend as a punishment. Hazrat Umar was displeased and said that he speaks the truth, and my intention is that after the revelation of the Quran, what poem should I recite? So, the words revealed upon you were of such dignity that the great linguists forgot their language and started considering their knowledge as ignorance. Then either your property was at most a camel or the time came when thousands placed their necks in front of you, for surely a knife would fall on them. You were small in the family, but then the time came when the family made you great and one of the elders said that indeed, you are the greatest, yes, born first. It seemed as if the plan had reversed. Everyone who sees this spectacle will feel that it was the grace of God, and this grace was not limited. The same happened in the time of Hazrat Sahib, and everyone can witness this spectacle. People also get anxious about marriage issues because it is the occasion of marriage, so I take the same example. When there is a delay in marriage, people get anxious about how the marriage will happen. And when it happens, worries arise about when the children will be born. Then when children are born, worries arise about their upbringing. Allah Almighty says in the Quran: "O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul and created from it its mate and dispersed from both of them many men and women. And fear Allah, through whom you ask one another
."
You ask about it and the relatives, indeed, Allah is ever, over you, an Observer. Muslims! Why do you worry just because the relationship is not found? If piety is considered, then see, Allah had created a wife for Adam. Adam was alone, so the need for a woman arose. If you are pious, then why can't Allah provide you with the women created for you? If you become righteous, you can choose from the women created for you. So, develop piety within you and do not worry. If you become pious, Allah can provide you with the women. This is absolutely correct because in such a state, Allah provides help and support in such a way that a person becomes amazed. At the time of the announcement of the marriage of two friends, one is Syed Ahmad Noor, who is sincere and a compatriot of the late Syed Abdul Latif, and they are also beloved because they used to be present for sacrifices during Hazrat's time. Therefore, due to some illnesses, there was difficulty in their relationship. The other relationship is also of a Syed. They are also sincere. They were also worried that where they tried, they failed, and as they continued to leave, they became distressed. But Allah provided both with their provisions. (Al-Fazl, May 29 - June 1, 1922, page 908)
Al-Fazl, February 2, 1932, page 2 Al-Isti'ab fi Ma'rifatil As'hab, Chapter: The Letter 'Ain, Volume 3, pages 266-270, Beirut, 1995 Al-Isti'ab fi Ma'rifatil As'hab, Chapter: The Letter Islam, Volume 3, page 394, Beirut, 1995Surah An-Nisa: 2
(Delivered on February 8, 1923)
Syed Muhammad Yousuf Sahib from the area of Naulis Hissar to between Molvi Syed Ahmad Hussain Sahib residing in Mazaffar Nagar, the marriage with the bride Umme Hafiza, daughter of Molvi Allah Ditta, late, residing in Jammu, was solemnized with a dowry of seven hundred rupees by Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II on February 8, 1922.
After the recitation of the marriage sermon, it was stated: The purpose of the marriage sermon is primarily to impart advice to the girl and boy's families. However, some of our marriages are such that neither the girl's side nor the boy's side are present. Their absence makes their marriage read in Qadian. From this, it is inferred that at this blessed place where Allah Almighty has promised that whatever work is done here will be blessed, and there will be people here who have dedicated their lives to serve, they will pray. This desire is good in its essence, but in my opinion, giving advice regarding marriage in such a situation is unnecessary. Therefore, I will say something about the purpose for which this is done. Regarding marriage, we see that it is an occasion of joy, and in joyous occasions, no one wants to be excluded. If someone's relatives are far away, they write, "Complete the marriage before our arrival." Although there is no burden to bear, where their help is needed
It is essential that the occasion of joy is witnessed by all. Sometimes, happiness is not preferred, but there are occasions when one can tolerate being happy. In our community, there are marriages every year where either the bride's or groom's family is absent. This does not mean that they lack emotions; they experience both joy and sorrow. It is a fact that in some situations, being happy is acceptable. When a person is in a foreign land, they send their children back to their homeland. They tolerate happiness because the marriage is in their homeland. People say that death does not occur in paradise. Do people not bury their dead there, or when buried in their homeland, do they attain paradise? Even if death occurs in the homeland, after two or three generations, no one knows. But the happiness of being present at one's homeland is appreciated. This sentiment is expressed in the Quranic verses: "O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul and created from it its mate and dispersed from both of them many men and women. And fear Allah, through whom you ask one another
." This is a proof of the blessings of Hazrat Mirza Masroor Ahmad, the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him). You are also Adam, and Allah has promised to elevate your progeny and spread them to the ends of the earth. Therefore, wherever an Ahmadi may be, Qadian is their homeland. This is a matter of the heart and a testament to the truthfulness of Hazrat Mirza Sahib that Allah created you as Adam and the world accepted your homeland as its own. People sacrifice their happiness for their homeland. This grand attraction proves that the claim of Hazrat Sahib is true, and you are indeed Adam the Second. Because...
People consider their homelands as their own, forgetting their own homelands. Such marriages draw our attention to this point; otherwise, the purpose of the marriage sermon is to advise the families of the bride and groom. (Al-Fazl, June 22, 1922, p. 76) (Al-Fazl, February 13, 1922, p. 2) (Surah An-Nisa: 2)
(Delivered on February 9, 1922)
After the recitation of the marriage sermon, Hazrat Fazl Omar, Khalifatul Masih II, said: "Due to the pain in my throat and head, I cannot elaborate further on the subject. However, what is found objectionable and disliked by the Shariah, I draw the attention of the Jamaat towards it. Our Jamaat is established by Allah, and the place of respect it holds, see what Allah Almighty does in the world and how He honors it. Why does He do this? Is it because of our power? No, but He bestows His favors upon us in advance. This means that He desires something from us because those who make advances demand respect from others, but in our Jamaat established by Allah, there is also found a matter of regret, and that disease is that the people of this country consider personal benefits in marriages. The Shariah has given the guardianship of the girl to her father, brother, or some other close relative so that they may consider the girl's interests. It is understood that the girl is naive and cannot understand her benefits. The father or brother is her guardian and will protect her rights. But in our country, this guardianship is misused. It is not seen where the girl will find guidance, but people generally see where they will get money from and they unjustly use their rights."
It is like a person appointing someone as their lawyer in a case, but instead of pursuing the case, the appointed party takes money from the opposing party and supports them, just as a lawyer who engages in such actions is wicked. Similarly, a guardian who misuses guardianship for personal gain is also wicked. It is a common practice that when a girl is given in marriage, they also bind the groom's or relative's side. When a father neglects the girl's benefits and prioritizes his own, it is a grave wrongdoing. Such relationships are termed as forced relationships, and this is against Shariah. It is permissible for a girl to be married in one place and then for the girl's side to marry the boy's side. But manipulating and misusing guardianship is unjust and a misuse of power of attorney, and this has not yet been eradicated from our community. Until people realize that we will not corrupt our power of attorney, this practice cannot be abolished. (Al-Fazl, June 22, 1922, p. 7)
The determination of the two parties could not be made by Al-Fazl.
(Delivered on February 18, 1922)
Babu Anayat Elahi Sahib, a servant at the post office, son of Chiragh Din, late, from Naulis Hissar, married Hamidah Begum, daughter of Amir Khan Sahib, late, from Qadian, with a dowry of five hundred rupees by Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II on February 18, 1922.
After the recitation of the marriage sermon, it was stated: I have been feeling the effects of weakness since this morning, and perhaps it will continue till tomorrow evening, so I cannot speak much. However, let me briefly tell you that this marriage is specifically related to the verses of the marriage sermon. Mian Nazam-ud-Din Sahib, a former employee of the Post Office, are old Ahmadis. They wrote me a note two days ago that they have a close relative. Anayat Elahi found his match among close relatives. When they went for the marriage, people asked, "Are you Ahmadi?" They replied, "Yes." They said, "Ahmadis do not give girls to non-Ahmadis." According to this rule, a non-Ahmadi girl cannot be given to an Ahmadi. Leave Ahmadiyyat, and the relationship will be established. They said, "This cannot happen." Sometimes two years pass here, and the relationship is not formed, but as stated in the Quranic verses of this sermon, "O you who have believed, fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice. He will [then] amend for you your deeds and forgive you your sins." If you remain truthful, we will rectify your affairs ourselves, so Allah Almighty has arranged this provision that if you remain truthful...
Within a day, all the preparations for their marriage were completed. It is by the grace of Allah that He promises and fulfills. Humans make mistakes, and attribute them to God. However, if one remains steadfast on the truth, then Allah corrects them and takes charge Himself. This alone is sufficient. If a believer acts upon this for the sake of reformation, Allah Almighty rectifies their affairs and takes care of them. (Al-Fazl, July 24, 1922, p. 7) (Al-Fazl, February 27, 1922, p. 15) (Surah Al-Ahzab: 72)
(Delivered on April 25, 1922)
After the recitation of the marriage sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said: "Human nature is influenced by the things around them and often chooses paths that lead them astray from the true path. For instance, a person leaves home for an essential task, but someone else misguides them and they follow behind, losing sight of their original purpose. Similarly, some people stray far from the path of life. The revelation of Hazrat Sahib, 'They stray far from the fashion of life,' refers to the meaning of fashion. It signifies the path and way of living. It is evident that there are certain individuals who determine the path. Men and women in Europe are fond of fashion, especially Paris is the center of fashion worship. I read in a newspaper that a woman went to a shop and said to the shopkeeper that she needed the latest fashion hat. The impact of fashion is more pronounced on hats. She bought a hat and wore it outside. As soon as she stepped out, some women saw her, among whom was one who also followed fashion trends and was considered an example and authority. This woman immediately took off the hat and ran back into the shop, saying to the shopkeeper, 'You have humiliated me severely. If that woman had seen me, what would she have said?'"
It is acknowledged that their way should be followed, and such people are not more than five or six. It is noted about them that they read old historical accounts all year round and observe what kind of clothing was worn in those times. They gather different pieces of clothing and suggest that such a cap could be made or such a strange gown could be made, those who decide. People follow them. But it is strange that those whose lives have been ruined by being engrossed in creating and seeking this fashion throughout their lives are not paid attention to by those who deserve their words to be acted upon. I have mentioned how just as there are a few people who determine the fashion of external clothing, there are also a few people who determine the fashion of spiritual life. It is a misconception that fashion is the name of common people's trends. Rather, the creators of fashion are not common people. Similarly, in spiritual life, the followers are not many but are some and they are the prophets, messengers, and saints. It is astonishing that in clothing, fashion is followed. For example, at one time, women used to wear veils, but if someone wears it now, other women would criticize her. Or there are many hats in India. Their fashion is not prevalent in Punjab. If someone wears them, people make fun of them. The purpose is that in clothing, the creators of fashion are looked upon, but in spirituality, it is not done so. Instead, the followers of ignorance are followed. For example, in the matter of marriage, if it is seen what Allah and His Messenger and saints have prescribed, then they are saved from the calamities of life. But people do not adhere to it. It is mentioned in the Holy Quran:
O you who have believed, fear Allah and let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow.
If people today object that someone did not do this in the marriage and that in the marriage, then do not worry about it but safeguard your tomorrow. If someone laughs today and cries tomorrow, then such laughter cannot affect them nor is there any loss to them. So, a believer should look upon those people who determine the fashion of life for guidance.
They are experts in art and knowledgeable individuals, and they are the prophets, messengers, and saints who, instead of following the ignorant, lead those skilled in arts to suffer. Life is blessed and peaceful only when there is a need for them, otherwise there are disputes with them in separation. The determination of the two parties could not be made by Al-Fazl. (Surah Al-Hashr: 19) (Al-Fazl, July 24, 1922, p. 7)
(Delivered on April 26, 1922)
On April 26, 1922, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Ataullah, son of Maulvi Muhammad Abdullah, an Ahmadi employee of the River Men's Post Office, with Fatima, daughter of Fazl Din, an Ahmadi military officer, from Peshawar, with a dowry of one hundred rupees.
After the recitation of the marriage sermon, it was stated: "The foundation of human relationships lies in marriage. The relationships like mother, father, husband, wife, uncle, aunt are all outcomes of marriage. Even in-laws are a result of marriage. There is no relationship that exists without marriage. Apparently, it may seem that relationships are varied, but in reality, marriage is the central point around which everything revolves. A significant relationship is one of love, and it maintains a connection with marriage. Therefore, it can be said that if the world is running smoothly, it is due to marriage, and if the household is functioning, it is due to marriage. This proves that marriage is not an ordinary matter but rather the world revolves around marriage. In all desires, the greatest desire is to elevate relatives. If there is a desire for respect, wealth, and status, it is for all relatives. If someone has no children, they are sad. All honors and wealth are intertwined. It is as if just as the essence of spiritual life revolves around the essence of Allah Almighty, similarly, the essence of worldly life revolves around marriage. Comfort lies in it, honor lies in it."
If family ties are severed, no one would prefer to live in this world. If someone is told that everything will be provided to them, every comfort will be offered, and all your desires will be fulfilled if you agree to sever all your family ties, then that person would consider those comforts and luxuries as a curse in exchange for that sacrifice. Marriage is a very important matter, but people generally do not ponder over its significance and perceive limited objectives. Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I used to say that people claim that they enter into marriage because no one in the house cooks. This does not mean that there are no objectives in marriage; there are objectives, but they are very trivial. Therefore, the person who considers it a major objective remains deprived of those major objectives that are within marriage. Because one can get food cooked by a servant, can eat in a club. But marriage has objectives that can only be fulfilled through it. It is evident from people's attention that they consider such a significant matter as a minor concern, and therefore, they cannot obtain the benefits hidden within marriage because it is a rule that a person unfamiliar with the importance of something cannot obtain its benefits. For example, the tea produced in India, people were unaware of its benefits. They did not pay attention to it; the plant used to dry up in the jungle. The English understood its benefits and its importance in trade with the Chinese, and immediately bought those areas at cheap prices where tea was produced. Now all the tea gardens in India belong to the English. They did not forcibly take them but bought them at a price. Yes, they benefited from their knowledge. Now, from this same tea, the English earn millions of rupees annually in India. They take rupees from India but not through the government, through such means. Then in India, bamboo used to grow. Indians only understood the purpose of bamboo that it was cut and made into sticks, so the bamboo forests were useless for them. But the English understood its benefits and turned it into paper worth millions of rupees. Similarly, people are also unaware of the importance of marriage and therefore unaware of its benefits. When I went to Bombay, an incident occurred there...
Did a child find a penny that fell from a merchant's pocket and, considering it an ordinary piece of glass, sold it for four pennies? Boys play marbles. One person saw his child with it and recognized it. He took it to a jeweler who quoted a high price for the gems it had. He informed the police. The person whose child had the diamond was asked. He told everything. Finally, it was found that the boys found it. Now see, these boys only knew that these were glass pieces to play with. If they knew its value, they would not have sold it for four pennies. This is the situation of marriage; if one's life can be peaceful, it is through marriage. If one knows its value, they can obtain great benefits from it. Allah Almighty states in the Holy Quran:
O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul and created from it its mate and dispersed from both of them many men and women. And fear Allah, through whom you ask one another, and the wombs. Indeed Allah is ever, over you, an Observer.
People are unaware of its benefits. When I went to Bombay, an incident occurred there...
(Delivered on July 21, 1922)
On July 21, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Sheikh Ghulam Ahmad's daughter with Dr. Shams-ud-Din. After the recitation of the marriage sermon, he said:
"I had stopped reading marriage sermons for the past month due to a controversy related to a marriage. A question arose that could have led me to court. It made me realize that such controversies could arise in the future as well, and if one of the parties denies, it could hinder my main work. The controversy subsided, but it drew my attention towards ensuring protection against such controversies in the future. I generally avoid reading marriage sermons unless there is a possibility of controversy. For example, there are people who are not at risk of controversy, and if there is a disagreement among them, they prefer to settle it themselves rather than going to court. I have mentioned this to emphasize the importance of understanding the reasons behind my decision to stop reading sermons. Today, I am standing here for the announcement of a marriage, which is the marriage of Sheikh Ghulam Ahmad's daughter with Dr. Shams-ud-Din. They are new individuals with whom this girl's marriage has been arranged."
How much progress will be made in the series, only Allah Almighty knows, but Sheikh Sahib and the nine new Muslims are on it. First, they accepted Islam by name. Then they entered the series, and they entered the series at a time when there was a strong opposition. So, I liked that they came forward and others liked it too. Therefore, I decided to read the marriage sermon myself. The first question about marriage is what is the purpose of it. If the companionship of a woman and a man is for this purpose, it is not a big deal because even in animals, when there is a passion for mating, the male meets the female and the female meets the male. So, if only passion is considered, what is the need for marriage? Animals fulfill it without marriage. Then if the announcement is considered, what is the need for the sermon? But a woman, a man, or some women and a man who are brought together have another purpose, as is evident from the Holy Quran. Allah Almighty says:
O you who have believed, fear Allah and let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow. And fear Allah. Indeed, Allah is aware of what you do.
There is no doubt that this verse does not mention marriage, but the Holy Prophet used to recite this verse in the marriage sermon, which proves that the wisdom of marriage is explained in it. This verse indicates that one should fear Allah and consider what they are preparing for the future. Now we see what is necessary for the future. A special quality has been placed in humans that they are civilized by nature. Others are not like that. Animals do not have permanent relationships, but humans desire permanent relationships. It is natural for animals that they do not have a specific relationship with a particular animal. Except for the mating period when they form a pair, and they will not be more than one percent. But their situation is also such that their offspring do not have this situation. Another point is that if a female dies, the male creates a relationship with her offspring. Or if a female dies, the child meets its mother. This difference in situation shows that humans need civilization, not other animals. And the need for civilization keeps humans away from the same state as animals. If this does not happen, the protection of generations cannot be ensured. Humans want the protection of their offspring and their thoughts. The continuation of their offspring...
Those who attain power desire to remove every obstacle in their path and wish to preserve their thoughts even amidst chaos. This desire is also found in people who, if faced with religious discussions, say, "We cannot understand because these matters are difficult, what do you say?" It also happens to them that they form a consensus with two, three, four, five, or more people in their lives. A landlord who is not familiar with religion also makes his children adopt his religion. A fool who has no understanding, his children also learn the same religion and thoughts as his parents. And then they become so mature that they come to the prophets and are taught by them, but they do not accept their words. The purpose is such a mature desire and a constant wish that it is found even in the ignorant, but no human is always the same or his thoughts always remain the same. For this, Allah Almighty says, Let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow.
The purpose of marriage is that humans desire continuity, and for this reason, in every community, the custom of marriage exists. But only continuity is not a good thing; along with it, there is something else that humans desire continuity and appreciation with. No human wants to be remembered or have their children remembered by people as deceitful, cunning, or deceptive, but their desire is that they are understood well by people and are represented well. So, a believer's task is to see what they are leaving for tomorrow. Whether people remember them or see their children, they should remember them with goodness and say that as these children are cursed, so will their father be cursed, or see them and see their actions and say that they are good parents. If they are bad, then you have not left a good thing for tomorrow. A good thing that can be left for tomorrow can be worth leaving. And the way to produce good offspring is to have good relationships between husband and wife. If their relationships are not good, then a good impact cannot be made on the children. If there is righteousness in the husband and wife, then their children, who are born...
And they will be righteous, and this is the purpose of marriage, that their mention continues and they receive continuity. And their offspring, who maintain their mention and their continuity, should be righteous and inherit their thoughts. (Al-Hashr: 19)
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Delivered on July 29, 1922
After reciting the marriage sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II stated:
Every matter that occurs in the world is connected to three periods: the past, the present, and the future. Whatever work is done will be a result of some past work, and even now, it has some effect. And in the future, its consequences will also be seen. Among all matters, the most important is the issue of marriage, which is related to all three periods because attention has been drawn to all three periods in it. Attention is drawn to the past in this verse:
O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul and created from it its mate and dispersed from both of them many men and women. And fear Allah, through whom you ask one another, and the wombs. Indeed Allah is ever, over you, an Observer.
This past is so long that it was said, "Look from the time of Adam and gradually reach your time." Then attention is drawn to the present in this verse:
O you who have believed, fear Allah and let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow. And fear Allah. Indeed, Allah is aware of what you do.
Your present condition should be that you speak the right word. Then attention is drawn to the future in this verse:
O you who have believed, fear Allah and let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow. And fear Allah. Indeed, Allah is aware of what you do.
These three verses are recited in the marriage sermon, and all three verses are related to all three periods. One tells you about your beginning...
Looking at the beginning, how from one couple thousands of people were born, and it is also evident that calamities and difficulties occur, but benefits are also obtained from them. From this verse, the need for marriage became known, and it also became evident that some marriages are of such a kind that the world is populated from their offspring just as humanity spread from a single soul. Reflecting on the past era, the third point becomes clear that relationships lead to progress. We would not exist if there were no relationships; a person falls ill, the wife takes care of warmth and cold, arranges suitable clothing, and provides food and medicine at the right time. If there were no wives, many people would die in sickness due to lack of warmth or cold and no one to give them water. Then children are born, if there were no parents, they would die while growing up. Then there are brothers and friends who help in times of illness, and friends also count in relationships. If these relationships did not exist, what would be the fate of humans? Many people are of such a kind that they do not have even a grain to eat, but their relatives help them, so there are thousands of families that have survived due to relationships. This proves that the present world is a result of relationships. We plant trees, we eat their fruits, and when we plant trees, our future generations will eat their fruits. It is famous that an old landlord was planting a tree. The king passed by and asked why do you plant this tree, what benefit do you get from it, it will bear fruit later, and you will not be there at that time. The landlord said, "O King, greetings. We are eating the fruits of the trees we planted, and we will plant trees whose fruits our future generations will eat." The king said "Zah" which meant he liked this statement and rewarded him. The treasurer gave him a reward of four thousand dirhams. The landlord said, "O King, see, I was just planting a tree, and it has already borne fruit for me." The king again said "Zah," and the treasurer gave four thousand dirhams again. Then he said, "O King, healthy people's trees bear fruit once a year, but my trees have borne fruit twice in a short time."
Given a reward for this as well, the king said, "From here, go ahead, this wax will deceive us." The point is that the aspects from which we are reaching comfort have brought difficulties. There are creators who create with great effort, but others benefit from it. Creators are not only in Europe and America. There are thousands of people who are busy creating all the time, but people do not even know their names. It is a point that we are benefiting from the sacrifices of the past. And it is the duty of every person to consider the comfort of future generations, otherwise, people will be considered salt thieves from the people of the past. If we consider our own comfort and neglect the benefits of future generations, then the people of the past will curse us. If we take care of our own souls and neglect the benefits of future generations, then the people of the past will curse us. The purpose is that you should be concerned about the present. And that you should speak a straight word - take action. Allah Almighty says to choose a straight word. That is, there should be harmony in your words and actions. There should be no crookedness in your state, but it should be full of truth. It should not be a word that contains flaws but should be something that is free from flaws. The meaning of the word is also in actions. For example, in the Hadith, it is mentioned that the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said in the context of performing ablution that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said with his hand, and saying with the hand means that he poured water with his hand. So according to the Arabic language, the meaning of "Quloo Qawlan Sadeeda" is also that "I'maloo 'Amalan Sadeeda" and "Qawl" means speech because it is a material thing and people generally pay less attention to it and some things are taken out of their mouths that are not in their hearts. That is why it is said that when you create support in your speech, righteousness will automatically be created in your actions. In fact, the word "Qawl" also comes for the heart because what is born in the heart is called "Qawl," so first correct the heart.
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Similarly, benefit from your present situation and work in a way that benefits future generations. Learn a lesson from these three things and three periods. These three aspects related to marriage are important. If the families of the bride or groom create discord, the outcome cannot be good. The efforts of the groom's family are to prevent the bride from meeting her relatives. And the bride's family is concerned about separating the groom from his parents. However, the thought process should be that if they had been doing the same things in the past and creating conflicts between the bride and groom every day, how would they have come into existence? So when we are the result of past relationships, why should we engage in activities that cause difficulties for future generations? If you keep your relationships pure and away from conflicts, excellent results can be achieved for future generations. The purpose of marriage is to produce good offspring, and this can only be achieved through good relationships. People in Europe marry without thinking about having children, but they do not consider that if their parents also had the same mindset, how would they have come into existence? So continue this chain and do not become a hindrance to it. (September 21, 1922 - Page 65)
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Regarding marriage, always keep religion in mind. (October 21, 1922)
On October 21, 1922, after the Asr prayer at Masjid Al-Aqsa, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II conducted the marriage of Miyan Abdul Salam, the son-in-law of Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I, with Chaudhry Abu Al-Hashim Sahib, M.A. Inspector of Schools, Bengal, for a dowry of one thousand rupees. After reciting the Sunnah marriage sermon, he said:
Marriages and wedding ceremonies always take place, and if there were no marriages, the state of the world would not be the same. Yet, the happiness and comfort of every individual are affected differently. A marriage creates an impact in one person's heart and in another's feelings, and a thief who has caused turmoil and chaos in the country and heated up the market of loot and plunder everywhere, when he dies, people rejoice and say, "Good, he's gone." But in the eyes of his family members, he is not seen as a thief but as a means of livelihood, and they mourn his death because he was their source of sustenance and comfort. Similarly, a person who is considered honorable by a community and whose progress and decline are dependent on the community, his death causes mourning in that community. But for those who do not have any connection with that community, his death does not hold any importance or impact. This is the situation of marriage: when a marriage takes place, it becomes the cause of many relationships and comforts for the people involved. Therefore, when he dies, grief engulfs them.
Similarly, a person who is considered honorable by a community and whose progress and decline are dependent on the community, his death causes mourning in that community. But for those who do not have any connection with that community, his death does not hold any importance or impact. This is the situation of marriage: when a marriage takes place, it becomes the cause of many relationships and comforts for the people involved. Therefore, when he dies, grief engulfs them.
People celebrate joy and it has been observed that many people burn their homes in wedding preparations. If they don't have money, they take loans and spend it. But others have no knowledge of it, and this joy does not affect their hearts. However, if someone is involved, they understand that there is nothing more than a wedding. The purpose is that this strange chain of emotions has a peculiar quality. For one, it is a moment of happiness and comfort, but for another, it has the impact of mourning. And many are such that they are not part of anyone's happiness or sorrow. This topic was taught to me by Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud (peace be upon him) in a sentence. Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud used to read the newspaper regularly. One day in 1907, while reading the newspaper, I heard a voice saying, "Mahmud." The voice was such that it seemed like an urgent task. When I arrived, you informed me that a person (whose name I don't remember at the moment) had passed away. I burst into laughter, and I asked, "So what?" Hazrat Sahib said, "In his house, there will be mourning, and you ask, 'So what?' What is the reason for this? The reason is that if there is no connection, there is no effect of his grief. He must be a big man that his mention was made in the newspaper or at least he had some connection with the newspaper, only then his mention was made in the newspaper. Whatever it may be, his death will have an impact on his wife, children, and relatives, and they will mourn his death, but for others, it had no impact. Similarly, a person cannot feel the happiness or sorrow of others. So the feeling of happiness and sorrow is only through relationships. Therefore, the Sharia has kept this lesson in fasting that a person should endure hunger so that he can also feel the hunger of others. Today, I am standing for the announcement of a marriage. This announcement is related to the emotions, and it has an impact accordingly. Today, I am here for the marriage announcement of Miyan Abdul Salam, who is the son of Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I. What work will they do in their future life and what opportunities for serving the religion will they get, we do not know. Yes, we pray for them.
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But since their connection is with a being whose marriage and grief are related to us, despite the fact that no work has been done with them yet, due to their association with Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I, whose happiness is equivalent to our happiness and in some cases even surpasses our own, their joy is our joy. By realizing that natural emotions seek this joy, we can understand how Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I, if he were alive, would celebrate. How much he prayed and how much he encouraged others to pray. By considering this, we can see how this occasion stirs our delicate emotions and how the wave of joy spreads from our feet to our heads. I have mentioned that marriages take place, and this is understood from ordinary events. However, some events have their own characteristics, and a person's attention is completely drawn towards them. We went for a walk in a mountain village. We had to stop at one place. We lit a stove and started cooking vegetables on it. The village was small, there might be ten to fifteen houses. The villagers gathered around to see the stove, and they started giving their opinions. One of them was more peculiar to me, which I remember. He said that I understood what kind of stove it is that is causing the fire. For the villagers, because this kind of stove was a completely strange thing, they were amazed, but God's sun rises every day, but people definitely do not pay attention to it. People pay attention to a lamp that does not even have the brightness of a single ray of the sun, but they do not pay attention to the lamp that God has lit. If there is an area where generation after generation the sun did not rise, and when the sun rises there, thousands of people die, we see that when powerful stars appear, many people commit suicide. In Europe, many people commit suicide with the thought that their result will be harmful to us. So when a powerful star rises,...
People commit suicide. If even the rising of the sun is extraordinary for them, what would be the state of people? I think many would die, and many would prostrate, saying, "This is indeed God." Although marriages take place in every home, and their impact is well understood, when a bride arrives and some sweets are distributed, the real event is that the effects of marriage are immense. The world can be ruined or prosper as a result of marriages. A significant example is when the Prophet's father got married, no special feature was apparent. The Prophet's father was the youngest among his brothers. There was no apparent glory in his marriage, but who knew at that time that a son would be born to him who would change the course of the world. Today, there is chaos in the world and wars are raging. This is also due to the marriage of Abdullah and Amina. If Europeans were not so opposed to Turks, if they had not accepted the teachings of Hazrat La, would they have been so opposed to Turks? If Indians were not so sympathetic to Turks, if Hazrat La had not connected them to Turks, would they have been so sympathetic to Turks? Can it not be said that this chaos is the result of the marriage of Abdullah and Amina? But who could have known that the child born as a result of our marriage would be linked to the spiritual developments of all time. The salvation of this world and the reliance on the hereafter will be based on his acceptance or rejection of punishment. The idea of becoming the highest deputy...
The deputy will visit their home, but where was it known that this boy would be blessed by God, not only by the king but also by his clothes. And what is the status of Ranjit Singh that even kings will consider themselves fortunate to receive blessings from his clothes. And how much is the degree of Ranjit Singh that even kings will consider themselves fortunate to receive blessings from his clothes. Then, how could it be known to them that the world would come to him. Look at this gathering now, someone is from Kabul, someone from Madras, someone from Bengal, someone from Hyderabad, and someone from somewhere else. At that time, how would Hazrat Sahib's father know that there is also the United States. They would not know about Australia, and they would certainly not know about Mauritius. Then how could they think that they would sacrifice their lives for this child who will not rule the earth but will rule over hearts, and people will be willing to sacrifice their wealth, lives, and honor for his proximity. This thought could not enter their minds. Similarly, near Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud, there was also Maulvi Muhammad Hussain Sahib Batalvi, whose father got married when if they had known about Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud's status and realized that their son would act like Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) in terms of solutions and challenges, then he would have cut off his lineage and not gone to his wife. No, its effects and consequences can be good or bad. The effects and consequences that will arise later cannot be encompassed by a human because their grandeur and deep effects shake the heart. A similar incident is that a king appointed a person as the Chief Justice or High Court judge. 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Paths can be shown, but who will explain the destination? Two persons will come to me. One claimant says, "I have taken ten rupees from so and so, make him pay me back." Now, he knows whether he actually took the money or not, and the accused comes and says, "I did not give him any money," which is a lie. Both persons know what the incident is, but the decision has been entrusted to me, of which I have no idea what the incident is. I cry because how can I make a decision in this state, as the correctness of my decision is very difficult, and it may cause harm to many people. Their sin will be on my neck. This was just a taste for them, but the occasion of marriage is such that one has to strike in the dark, whether pearls come in hand or a snake. Islam has based marriage on piety and removed worldly motives. A beautiful wife is not necessary to be comfortable, but an ugly one can be comfortable. She can teach us the woman who is compassionate. If she wants, she can free a man from domestic thoughts and if she wants, she can imprison a man and degrade his honor. And if she wants, she can enjoy peace, comfort, and goodness. In this marriage matter, Chaudhry Abul Hashim Khan Sahib M.A. has felt the conditions. They have a spirit that should be born in our community. They write, "Indeed, Miyan Abdul Salam is the son of a great father and therefore deserves our utmost respect, but I do not want to give my daughter to anyone's son, but I want to give it to a man. I want my son-in-law to fight for Islam, to give his life in the war of Islam, to be a servant and soldier of Islam, and to dedicate his life to the purpose of Islam. And not only in my son-in-law should this be the case, but I want my...
Children should be beneficial for the work of Islam. When I see Abdul Salam's enthusiasm, I say if these qualities are found in Miyan Abdul Salam, then you should solemnize the marriage with my daughter; otherwise, I would prefer a person of lesser status who possesses these qualities. This spirit should be born in our community, individuals who are willing to spend their lives, wealth, and possessions in the path of Islam without any conditions, dedicating everything for the cause of Islam. If such individuals emerge within the community and we consider these aspects in our relationships, then generations will be born who can serve Islam greatly. It is necessary that every heart among us desires to dedicate themselves and their children to the service of Islam, especially when there is no provision for the protection of the faith and the faith is in a vulnerable state as Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud stated. Shad Deen Ahmad is unknown to the eyes of the world at this time. The community's duty is to serve Islam and instill the zeal and fervor for service in their children, ensuring that future generations uphold the destruction of Satan. I announce a marriage here, and it is a great favor of Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I upon all of us. Even if someone gives a small amount like one or two rupees, their gaze remains lowered. Each one of us has been taught by him, so we all owe him gratitude. If he were present at this moment, we should imagine what prayers he would offer. Therefore, it is our duty to feel the gratitude for the favors of Khalifatul Masih I and pray that Allah bestows a pure life upon Abdul Salam and his brothers, a life that aligns with his desires, engages his servants in the faith, and fulfills his purpose in life. May he grant them a long life, bless their marital relationship, and bless them with righteous offspring. Amen. Following this, Chaudhry Abul Hashim Khan Sahib M.A. announces the marriage of his daughter, Mahmooda, to Miyan Abdul Salam with a dowry of one thousand rupees through his letter.
(The following was in English, and the presence read a section aloud) I have been given the choice to accept it. Prayers continued for a while after acceptance. Al-Fadl, November 2, 1923, pages 5 to 7. Al-Fadl, October 23, 1922, page 1. In the Persian script, page 147, printed at the Bar-e-Awqaf Press, first edition.
(October 24, 1922)
Miyan Muhammad Zahoor Sahib residing in Patiala, brother of Dr. Hashmatullah Khan Sahib, got married on October 24, 1922, to Sakina, daughter of Miyan Abdul Haq Sahib residing in Badomali, with a dowry of five hundred rupees including jewelry.
After the sermon, it was stated:
The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) concluded the marriage sermon, meaning the content that is deduced from those verses which are read in the marriage sermon based on the actions of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) is Sunnah. He expressed in this phrase - "Alhamdulillah nahmaduhu, wa nasta'inuhu wa nastaghfiruhu," which is also concise but...
Like the various themes that emerge from the Quranic verses, other issues related to gatherings and marriages also emerge, and there are precise teachings in the Quranic verses, but the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has extracted from those verses a conclusion that is so relevant to marriage. In this conclusion, it is mentioned that all praise is for Allah, and only God can truly praise someone and describe the attributes of someone. See how concise this sentence is, but how impactful it is in the matter of marriage. Many marriages do not succeed because people are hopeful of qualities that they do not find later. People want to marry a wealthy, high-status, and beautiful woman thinking that a wealthy, rich, and high-status woman can provide comfort. They think that a compassionate woman can teach them. If she wishes, she can free a man from domestic thoughts, and if she wishes, she can imprison a man and degrade his honor. And if she wishes, she can enjoy peace, comfort, and goodness. In this matter of marriage, Chaudhry Abul Hashim Khan Sahib M.A. has felt the conditions. They have a spirit that should be born in our community. They write, "Indeed, Miyan Abdul Salam is the son of a great father and therefore deserves our utmost respect, but I do not want to give my daughter to anyone's son, but I want to give it to a man. I want my son-in-law to fight for Islam, to give his life in the war of Islam, to be a servant and soldier of Islam, and to dedicate his life to the purpose of Islam. And not only in my son-in-law should this be the case, but I want my...
If a righteous woman enters into marriage, then through her, we also gain wealth, honor, and respect. Similarly, this applies to boys as well. However, sometimes expectations are not met, leading to complaints. Therefore, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "All praise is for Allah alone." It is wrong to search for perfection in individuals because humans are flawed by nature. Then, "All praise is for Allah" is also heard, indicating that Allah alone deserves to praise someone correctly. This is because humans often propose expectations that are not fulfilled later. Parents of the girl say that the girl is beautiful, and the boy's relatives and friends say that the boy has a pleasant personality, but the point is that their flaws are not visible. It is famous that a king once conducted an experiment by giving a golden cap to a slave of the court. Many boys were playing, and he gestured to place the cap on the head of the most beautiful boy among them. Among those boys was the son of that slave who had red eyes, a running nose, and thick lips. The slave advanced without hesitation and placed the cap on his son's head. The king said, "I told you to place it on the head of the most beautiful child." The slave replied, "I have placed it on the head of the one who is most beautiful in my eyes." So the real point is that one's own flaws are not visible, and it is a natural tendency that humans do not see the flaws of their own except for those spiritual individuals who have achieved great excellence in spirituality; otherwise, love and attachment blind the human eye. They do not speak falsely; rather, they do so sincerely, and these are the feelings in their hearts.
And then the criteria for preference also vary. Some prefer more salt, while others prefer less. Some like white color, while others prefer a lively nature. So if the girl's family says that...
If a girl is very good, they say according to their standards and nature, and if the boy's side also praises their son as good, they say according to their preferences and emotions. It's not like they consider others' standards when praising. And it is assumed in the other's mind that he did not work with integrity. So he said, "All praise is for Allah alone." We praise, and the one deserving of all praise is Allah alone. He can tell who deserves praise and who is good. Some hidden flaws exist that no one can know, but Allah knows them too. Who else can tell about them? The remedies for these are mentioned in the next sections, which I have explained several times. In short, a person should seek forgiveness, seek refuge in Allah, and then Allah puts blessings in that matter. Al-Fadl, November 2, 1923, page 2. Al-Fadl, November 9, 1922, page 6.
Kitab al-Nikah, Sunan Abi Hanifa, and its historical name Masnad al-Imam al-Azam
(Stated on December 22, 1922)
On December 22, 1922, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Miyan Abdul Rahim, son of Miyan Ghulam Muhammad Sahib of Amritsari. After the recitation of the marriage sermon, it was stated:
"Before the Friday sermon, I want to announce a marriage. This marriage is of a girl from Sheikh Muhammad Hussain Sahib Mansoora Zira, Ferozepur, who is associated with the community since the time of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud, to a boy from Miyan Abdul Rahim Sahib of Amritsari, who is employed in Gurdaspur. As I have mentioned that I do not usually announce marriages, but on this occasion, I felt it appropriate to recite the marriage sermon myself. Sheikh Sahib is sincere, and Ghulam Muhammad Sahib is also an old Ahmadi, but the reason for me reciting this marriage is Babu Abdul Rahim Sahib. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said praising someone is the cause of their destruction. However, my intention is not this, and therefore I have heard this saying that wonders should not happen among them. But in this new era and in those circumstances where people come forward living in foreign lands, this dear one has shown a good example and made great efforts to support the Baghdad community. Loved ones should pray for his sincerity and enthusiasm. Al-Fadl, January 8, 1923, page 8.
Kitab al-Adab from Bukhari, Kitab al-Adab al-Mufrad
(Stated on December 29, 1922)
On December 29, 1922, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the following three marriages:
After the recitation of the marriage sermon, it was stated:
"Before the Friday sermon, I want to announce a few marriages. However, I want to clarify that despite the announcement in Al-Fadl, many are unaware that I have not stopped reading marriage announcements. I have come across two to three incidents related to marriages that made me apprehensive about being called as a witness, and one of them is still pending. I cannot announce marriages in the gathering and then later when friends come, read their marriages, and then appear as a witness in courts. This would create a severe inconvenience in religious matters. Therefore, I announce that except for those individuals whom I personally know, I will not read anyone's marriage, even if they suffer any loss, they will not go to court because I do not want to go to court, and the girl's side should prefer bearing the loss."
They will go, but they will not go to court so that I do not have to go to court. Except for such people, I will not announce anyone's marriage. Many papers have come, but I have selected three papers to announce. The first marriage is among the children of those few families who have had the opportunity of the Bai'at of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud. I personally had a connection with this family, and it was a connection that could not exist without the love for Allah. They are the descendants of Miyan Chiragh Din, may Allah have mercy on him, from Lahore. Miyan Chiragh Din was a person who had a connection with Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud even before the Bai'at when he started writing articles in support of Islam. They were from the Ahmadi community of accountants, all of whom turned apostates, but they remained steadfast together. They did not let go of the cloak of Masih-e-Ma'ud. They remained steadfast before the Bai'at, and they remained steadfast during the claimant's time. It is the marriage of their son and daughter. I will pray for this family after the marriage. After the demise of Miyan Chiragh Din, some financial difficulties are looming over this family. Prayers should also be made for them that Allah may remove them. After that, Hazrat announced the marriage of Sharif Ahmad, son of Miyan Abdul Aziz, with Rashida, daughter of Miyan Abdul Rashid, with a dowry of one thousand rupees. Nasir Ahmad, son of Miyan Nooruddin, a draftsman from Rawalpindi, married Zubaida, daughter of Hakim Ghulam Ghaus of Amritsari. Miyan Abdul Rahim married Duransamin Shumla, accompanied by Sardar Begum, daughter of Muhammad Ismail.
Before the Friday sermon, I want to announce a few marriages. However, I want to clarify that despite the announcement in Al-Fadl, many are unaware that I have not stopped reading marriage announcements. I have come across two to three incidents related to marriages that made me apprehensive about being called as a witness, and one of them is still pending. I cannot announce marriages in the gathering and then later when friends come, read their marriages, and then appear as a witness in courts. This would create a severe inconvenience in religious matters. Therefore, I announce that except for those individuals whom I personally know, I will not read anyone's marriage, even if they suffer any loss, they will not go to court because I do not want to go to court, and the girl's side should prefer bearing the loss.
(Stated on July 3, 1923)
Before announcing the marriages after the Asr prayer on July 30, 1923, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II delivered the following marriage sermon:
After the recitation of the prescribed sermon, it was stated: Marriage is such a significant matter that the foundation of many worldly affairs is based on it. In reality, the progress and decline of a nation depend on it. No nation can survive, no nation can succeed, and no nation can achieve its claim and purpose unless an infinite chain of offspring continues behind. No matter how much an individual progresses and advances, if there is no one to continue his work afterwards, all his efforts and hard work go in vain, and his existence becomes equal to non-existence. No matter how much an individual progresses, if there is no one to carry forward his progress, what benefit can the world and the nation derive from it? Because the future work is carried on by the offspring, which becomes the established position of the past, and Allah has established such a chain for it that the coming together of man and woman results in offspring. It has never happened that children are born only from a man, and if a child is born from a woman without a man, it is a miracle and a punishment, as in the case of the birth of Hazrat Isa (Jesus), and there are a few more examples.
Marriage is a significant matter that cannot be legislated. Some matters are exceptional, but they are still prevalent. For example, stammering is exceptional because not everyone stammers, yet there will be millions of people who stammer. Similarly, it is an exception for only a woman to give birth, but within this exception, there are very few examples, and there is no example of a man giving birth. It is evident that the progress of every nation depends on marriage. I have pondered many times on this matter that if people only decide on marriage, it is marriage. Sharia has laid down rules regarding divorce that family members should understand and strive for reconciliation because divorce affects the nation. I have thought many times, and it has come to my mind that the nation should have the right to speak about marriage because it is possible that a person marries a woman that leads to the destruction of the nation. That woman raises children in a way that causes the downfall of the nation because the mothers were unaware of Islam. The Abbasid dynasty was ruined because the children of those kings had no connection with Islam as much as the generations of Europe have with Christianity. In their courts, Islam was ridiculed and mocked, and if anyone spoke against it, they were labeled as uncivilized and blasphemous and expelled from the court. This resulted from the fact that kings married women who were unaware of Islam. But if it were established that the nation had the right to speak about their marriages, this would not have happened. In Europe, a law exists for kings that is a very good law. For example, in England, there is a law that royal families or related boys are not allowed to marry on their own. So, Europeans say that a significant cause of the destruction of Asians is this.
They do not allow a woman to marry freely, but royal families have imposed this restriction on themselves that they cannot marry. Similarly, the daughters of royal families and related families cannot marry on their own. First, the king and council will present the matter, and if permission is granted, they will proceed. Otherwise, whether the girl loves someone or the boy loves someone, they cannot marry without permission. Similarly, sometimes a husband and wife's life becomes bitter, but the corruptions that lead to the destruction of the nation are stopped. Sometimes a person wants to marry a woman, but it is prevented because it poses a threat to the nation. In another place, the marriage is arranged, but where he wants to do it, if he does it there, the rights and privileges that he receives in the national context are snatched away from him, and he is deprived of those rights in the future. So, Europeans have imposed this restriction on royal families. In my opinion, in every marriage, it should be seen what impact this marriage has on the nation. Our Sharia has put the matter of marriage on the will of the man and woman, but conditions have been imposed that if they are considered, no harm can be done. For example, they should marry for the pleasure of Allah and to please their relatives, not for their own desires. And whoever does so will also consider the national benefits because it is also necessary for the pleasure of Allah. In the marriage sermon, the verses recited guide that when getting married, you should fear Allah and consider the relatives. When the wife comes, she will also have relations with the husband's relatives. And the husband's wife will also have relations with her relatives, but if the marriage is such that it ruins the relationships of relatives, then through it, where will progress be made in the nation? So, when getting married, it is necessary to see how the arrival of the woman affects her relatives and his relatives. This should be seen by the girl and the one who is going to marry. Sometimes the boy holds enmity with the girl's family, but the girl is beautiful, so he becomes prepared for marriage. If the girl marries him, then she will bring beauty to her family.
It is necessary to be separated from the family, and various abominations will emerge. Similarly, it has been instructed that marriage should be finalized with a firm commitment. Deception, deceit, or any other unlawful thoughts should not be there. When marriage is conducted in this manner, no corruption will occur. Corruption occurs because some people marry a girl to distress her family and ruin the girl through marriage. But the Quran says, "Speak a straight word" - the one who acts upon it will never say such things. Sometimes false promises are made, for example, the boy's side promises to give a certain amount of jewelry and clothes, but when they bring them, they bring them according to others' demands. Similarly, the girl's side says they will give a certain dowry, and they say this so that the girl settles in a good place, but when the time comes, they do not fulfill their promise, which leads to corruption. Islam says to speak clearly and truthfully. Or sometimes the boy's side says the boy is suitable, but he is not. Or the girl's side says the girl is beautiful and well-mannered, although she is not. Such statements are also prohibited. The purpose is that by following this command, all the reasons for corruption are eliminated. Then corruption occurs because future considerations are not made. A man sees that a woman is beautiful, and he does not care about anything else. But Allah says, "And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow" - consider the consequences of marriage. The one who follows this will never marry solely for the beauty and charm of a woman because that is temporary, and what remains and comes again is piety and righteousness, so it is essential to consider it. The purpose of these verses is that by following these commands, corruption cannot occur. Similarly, these verses also prohibit the customs performed at the time of marriage. For example, people take loans and indulge in extravagance, leading to destruction. Allah says, "And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow" - today you are spending money; see what its impact will be tomorrow. The one who considers this will never incur a loss by taking an interest-based loan for marriage because the Quran says, "Do not look at what marriage you have today, but see what will happen tomorrow."
Are you rejoicing today? Tomorrow you may be mourning. If someone celebrates with a dowry today, surely they will have to mourn tomorrow when all appears as debt. And even then, the debt will not be repaid. In our community, marriages take place where happiness is not apparent. For instance, here neither the groom's side nor the bride's side are present, yet permission has been granted from both sides, and the marriage is being solemnized. From our country's perspective, it seems like this marriage is not taking place, but those who forsake worldly matters for the sake of Allah, for them, such marriages become eternal. Those who take loans, play music, and make announcements, if they are happy on the wedding day, they may be mourning a month later when the debt increases, the land and property are lost. The one who spends extravagantly on the wedding does not spread joy but rather announces mourning and ruin. However, by following Islamic injunctions, a person can avoid all these pitfalls. Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I used to say that once a person came to me and said, "I need help for a girl's marriage." I was surprised that what expense is necessary for an Islamic marriage that this person has come here for. I said, "I will give you as much as the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) spent on the marriage of Hazrat Fatimah." After remaining silent for a while, he said, "Do you want me to cut my nose?" The Maulvi Sahib said, "If the Holy Prophet did not cut his nose, your wedding will be ruined." In reality, the nose is not cut in this way. Yes, the one who asks questions and spends extravagantly on the wedding or takes a loan for marriage, his nose is cut off. Because the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) prohibited asking questions and stated that destruction and ruin come from loans. People gather on the wedding day to enjoy the feast, but when the groom asks for something, not only will they not help but they will say why did he commit such foolishness. If he had not done something extravagant, then everyone would have started praising him later because he had money. So, people are ruined by violating Islamic injunctions. Although the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him)...
At this moment, words have been selected that by keeping them in mind, no sorrow can arise. See how our community members abide by these injunctions and live in comfort. Previously, they used to give several rupees, but now either I or another cleric stand and read the marriage sermon. Some sweets are distributed among the attendees, but if someone cannot bring anything, not even a loaf of bread or a piece of bread, then he is a guest of honor because marriages take place here in such a way that no debt arises from his mouth. It is a mark of distinction because marriages take place here, and he never emerges from the burden of debt because he acted upon the injunctions of Islam. Countless blessings be upon the Messenger of Allah, through whom people consider us imprisoned. But even in his servitude, we are free because imprisonment is what is entangled in customs and traditions and does not think about the future. And the one who is imprisoned is the one who is bound by customs and traditions and does not think about the future. (Al-Fadl, July 1923, pages 5-7)
It was not possible to determine the preference of the two parties. Surah Al-Ahzab: 19 Surah Al-Hashr: 19
Cited from the Muslim book of Zakat, Chapter: Explanation that the upper hand is better than the lower hand.
(Stated on July 9, 1923)
On July 9, 1923, during a marriage sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II delivered the following discourse after the recitation of the prescribed sermon:
Human endeavor is entirely focused on achieving success. Sometimes, individuals engage in activities that do not lead to their good but rather to sorrow, not to their honor but to disgrace, not to their progress but to regression. They are driven under the guise of understanding and restraining by a wise and knowledgeable person who explains and tries to hold them back, but it has been observed many times that a person who chooses a trivial purpose is also influenced by the words of the understanding person and says, "What you said is right, but I cannot leave it. This is my purpose and claim; let me fulfill it, then I will be cautious." Such a person seeks various excuses to please himself or deceive others. Sometimes he says, "If I abandon this task, what will people say? I have invested my time and money in it; let me complete it first, then I will be cautious." Such a person searches for various excuses to please himself or deceive others. He sometimes says, "What will people say if I abandon this task? I have spent my time and money on it; let me complete it first, then I will be cautious."
He creates various excuses and shows that he is ready to leave it, but for me, they are necessities. Even if someone mistakenly buys poison, will he thank the seller for spending his money on it? Certainly not, but he who points out that it is poison will thank him and reward him. The real point is that when a person sets a purpose, he does not leave it. This is why Islam emphasizes purposes, not just saying do this or don't do that, but it says set this purpose and don't set that. Because whatever a person does, he does it based on the purpose that arises in his heart. Just as light is not something but the name of burning gas, just as fever is not something but the name of intense heat, similarly, an action is not something but the result of the intention that arises in a person's heart. That is why if someone kills a person, he is called a tyrant. But if a person who did not intend to kill someone accidentally breaks a bone, no one blames him, and if someone hits him with a normal push, he is blamed. The point is that the result of an action is not seen, but the intention is seen. Therefore, the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) said, "Actions are judged by intentions," meaning that as a person intends, so will the reality of the action be. People have debated whether if someone intends to perform ablution but does not, will ablution be valid or not. But the meaning of the guidance of the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) is not that if someone intends to perform ablution but does not, his hands and mouth will not be clean, and the result of an action for which no intention is made will not come out. The result will come out, but according to the intention, he will receive either reward or punishment, and it will be valued or devalued according to his intentions. Many people get married in the world, but their intention is not to serve religion, but sometimes it happens that a good and religious wife is found, or a good and religious husband is found...
Be pious. It benefits them, but they will not be rewarded for serving the religion. They got married. Contrary to this, a person tries to get married with this intention, but a bad wife is found, so he will be rewarded. In the first case, whether the husband is good or the wife is good and they get the opportunity to serve the religion, but getting married is not considered a good deed. Because their intention was not to serve the religion through marriage, and in the second case, because the intention was good, even if a mistake occurred, they will be deserving of reward. Actions are judged by intentions. If the intention was good, the results of actions are based on intentions, and many intentions result in good outcomes. Because the intention has a significant impact. I have read books on mysticism and have also observed through practice that a good person says how he falls asleep. But he falls asleep when he intends to sleep normally, and when he pays attention to his intention, he also starts thinking what the person who is acting thinks. So, some things are so strong that they walk as they want. If the person intends to marry a good wife, even if a bad wife is found, she will become good. Or if the husband is bad, he will become good. And if there is no change in them, they will surely be deserving of reward for getting married. Then, as the inner impact is shown outwardly, when the inner is corrected, meaning the intention is good and correct, then the outward also becomes correct. Many people have false thoughts, but when they correct their thoughts, they also become good outwardly. Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) used to hear that a person thought that he would adopt such a path that people would consider him a great pious and abstinent person. With this intention, he started worshiping. Here he made such arrangements that his intention became stable, now there was simplicity and brightness in it. When he came out, even children started saying that he is a great and abstinent person. Similarly, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I used to hear. A person's correction was such that his one
He was happy to take it with him and he became a saint. Wherever he went, his companions started telling his miracles, and people brought offerings. One day, seeing the day's income in the evening, he was laughing at his pure intention. At that moment, he thought how beneficial it is to make a false relationship with God. If a true relationship is formed, how much will it be. This thought came to him, his state changed, and he was reformed. Sometimes a person builds with good intentions, but it is reformed. Islamic law has also prescribed in marriage that make a good intention. If someone even builds with a fabricated intention, it will adopt the color of reality. Our law has commanded to consider piety during marriage. The Holy Prophet said, "Someone marries for beauty, wealth, or status, but O believer, now find a religious woman and see, it is not necessary that the one you think is beautiful is not wealthy or from a noble family. It may be that a woman is religious and wealthy, or religious and beautiful, or religious and from a noble family. And all these things can be gathered in one place. If the one getting married makes a pious intention, then the purpose he desires will also be fulfilled, and he will also receive the reward of the intention he wants. For example, someone wants to marry for lust, but if he makes the intention to marry a religious wife, his lust will also be fulfilled. The law has declared such a person who does not marry as a fool. If there was no law of marriage, it would have been said that no equipment for fulfilling lust has been provided, but when the law has made marriage necessary, then what harm can there be in reforming the intention. Similarly, some people say they want to marry for the protection of the house or to cook food and raise children. But if they make a religious intention, will his wife not protect the wealth, not cook food, not raise children? Making a good intention is actually a free thing and becoming a magnet for God's grace and deserving of reward because with this intention, the marriage will fulfill lust, protect wealth, and raise children. The purpose that a wife does, she will also do, but the extra thing will be that the reward will be obtained, and the one who makes the intention, God will also fulfill his intention, and in the fulfillment of that purpose, there will be blessings.
So, when our community members get married, they should remember this and make their intentions pure so that the outcomes are righteous. (Al-Fadl, July 24, 1923, page 675)
The preference of the two parties could not be determined. (Bukhari, Book of Faith, Chapter: How the Revelation Began to the Messenger of Allah)
Cited from Bukhari, Book of Marriage, Chapter: Competence in Religion
(Stated on May 15, 1924)
During the marriage ceremony of Hazrat Mirza Bashir Ahmad Sahib's daughter, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II, in a gathering at Masjid Aqsa, announced this marriage:
After the recitation of the prescribed marriage sermon, it was stated: The marriage sermon, as I have explained many times, is the declaration of the principles that are incumbent upon the husband, wife, and relatives after marriage and to draw attention to those principles that are essential for the husband, wife, and other relatives. But unfortunately, where Muslims have distorted Islam in many matters, they have also distorted this. Nowadays, a prescribed expression is recited during the marriage sermon, and specific words are recited that convey obligations and acceptance. But this is not the marriage sermon because if the same words are repeated to emphasize the prescribed words, Hazrat Umar used to say that when I stand for the marriage sermon, I get anxious about what to say. Could Hazrat Umar not remember the prescribed words? The point is that the verses chosen for the occasion are those that are related to marriage. Explaining them
It is essential because every individual cannot comprehend the responsibilities and duties that are imposed by Islam after marriage, as people are generally unaware of them, so they are made aware. The greatest purpose of marriage should be God-consciousness. Islam takes pride in the fact that it directs all matters towards God. Whether it is a small matter or a big one, Islam ultimately leads it towards God. Just as Islam commands to recite "Bismillah" before eating and "Alhamdulillah" after finishing, meaning to start and end while remembering God. Similarly, there are separate prayers for wearing clothes, walking, and even going to sleep. Even at the time of earning, it is said that remembering God may bring profit even at night. The purpose is that Islam has directed our attention towards God in every action. Similarly, in marriage, the Holy Prophet has directed our attention towards God-consciousness, that in marriage, keep God in mind. There are many purposes in marriages. Some marry for worldly reasons, but a Muslim has only one purpose, to attain God-consciousness. They also get married. Both have children, but still, there is a significant difference between the two. A believer's life is solely for God, while a disbeliever's is for their own self. Not only at the time of marriage, but there is also a command to remember God-consciousness at specific times. The Holy Prophet also said that a Muslim should seek supplication. It is said even at this time that do not forget God in your zeal and pray to God to protect us and our children from Satan. The purpose of Islam is the unique purpose of God-consciousness, and a believer should also keep this purpose in mind in marriage. There are various types of marriages in the world. Some marry for beauty, some for wealth, some for status. But the Holy Prophet said, "Marry the one who possesses religion."
O seeker! I guide you to search for a woman of faith. Leave her beauty and qualities aside. This means that God-consciousness should be observed. The worldly desires that people seek all fade away, except one that remains, and that is the consciousness of Allah. The tales of the beauty of Hazrat Yusuf (peace be upon him) are famous among people. Many great books have been written, but in the eyes of his brothers, he was not considered beautiful. People have passed in this world with great wealth, yet no one respects them. Look at Napoleon, despite his achievements, when he stands in the market, people openly criticize him, but a Muslim is ready to die for the Prophet. He was an ordinary companion, but by narrating the sayings and traditions of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), he gained honor. If he were not a companion of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), no one would remember him historically. He gained this honor by narrating the sayings of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him). Then why did Hazrat Abu Huraira gain such honor that when someone speaks ill of him, it arouses the anger of a Muslim? Shia-Sunni conflicts continue until laws were enacted due to frequent disturbances and fights in Lucknow.
Then why did Hazrat Ibrahim (peace be upon him) gain such honor that even today, millions of people recite "O Allah, send blessings upon Muhammad and upon the family of Muhammad as You sent blessings upon Ibrahim and upon the family of Ibrahim. Surely, You are Praiseworthy, Glorious"? So, when a Muslim remembers, he first thinks of Hazrat Ibrahim, then supplicates, and then regarding Hazrat Adam, they say that six thousand years have passed since our Adam, you may have passed, but the human race of Adam is remembered with reverence. In comparison, no one remembers great kings in such a way. Egypt, Syria, India, and other countries have seen many great kings, but today, no one remembers them. Look at Qadian, the world was waiting for the Promised Messiah to come in Arabia from the lineage of Sayyids, but see, this honor was bestowed upon a village in India. Today, in this gathering...
Seated are the noble descendants of great families, whose servitude others used to boast about, but they are boasting about being servants of the Promised Messiah. People who were so powerful that no one could sit equal to them have acknowledged the servitude of a person sitting in a corner. This is solely due to the relationship with Allah. If it were not for God-consciousness, I say, what special quality was there that could make us bow to the great people of the world. A Hindu narrated that Mirza Sahib was very noble. What doubt is there in his nobility? When we go outside and people find out that we are from Qadian, they bring us into their homes with great respect and honor. This is because we are residents of Qadian, not only do they respect Hazrat Sahib but also the villagers, showing respect to people of other religions. This is purely piety and the result of the relationship with Allah. If there were no God-consciousness, then I say that which quality was there that could make us bow to the great people of the world. A marriage took place in the near past. One was the marriage of Abdullah and the other of Abu Jahl's father. The joys would have been on the marriage of Abu Jahl's father. But who could have said at that time that a boy born out of one marriage would become an extremely noble person and change civilization and the world of knowledge. And from the other marriage, a boy would be born who would always be cursed and among the children of darkness, he would be the worst in taking part in darkness. If Abu Jahl's father had known that such a boy would be born as a result of his marriage, I think he would have remained unmarried all his life and never married. In contrast, if people of the world had known that a person of such great stature would be born as a result of Abdullah's marriage, they would have presented their daughters, but who knows at the time of marriage what the result will be. It has been proven that the impact of a marriage does not last just a few days but can last for hundreds and thousands of years. It has been proven that human thoughts can be preserved for thousands of years. It has recently been proven in America that as great as the kings of America were, they are all one
Some were connected to noble families, and all oppressors and wicked people were from one lineage. Research has shown that two individuals migrated from England to America. From the offspring of one, there are around 1300 people at present, and from the other, there are about 1200 individuals. Among the first person's descendants, there are 1195 individuals who are graduates and excel in various fields. Some are principals of colleges, many are officers of major banks, and some are ministers, while only 100 individuals are of ordinary status. However, in the second lineage where there was a mental deficiency, except for ten individuals, all others are either imprisoned or in poorhouses. Some are thieves, some are fraudsters. Similarly, it has been found that in one family, there were around 400 to 500 individuals, and all of them were criminals by profession. Now, due to this, a question arises whether they should be allowed to marry in the future. It can be understood how far the impact of a marriage reaches. Therefore, it is the duty of every believer to pay great attention to God-consciousness in such matters. This is the first lesson that Islam has taught regarding marriage. As human relationships expand after marriage, it is essential to respect those relationships and strive to enhance them. It is also necessary for a believer to maintain the dignity of relationships of mercy and make efforts to ensure that mutual relationships are more pleasant. However, in India, it is common for the girl's family to try to separate the boy from his parents, leading to many disputes. I also face many disputes even though the conduct of the parents is exceptional. The sacrifices made by parents for their children cannot be repaid. Therefore, the second lesson that Islam gives to a believer in marriage is to maintain the dignity of relationships.
Do not burden the groom, and do not burden the families of the bride and groom. Instead, let them both live in mutual love and progress. The dear one who is getting married today is from a household that always listens to advice, so it is hoped that he will strive to act upon that advice. The marriage of dear Rashid Ahmad is arranged with the daughter of dear Mirza Bashir Ahmad Sahib, who become connected in the same lineage. Since dear Rashid Ahmad has always been among us and is inclined towards religious fulfillment and Ahmadiyyat, I hope that they will fulfill the obligations of marriage. Dear Mirza Bashir Ahmad Sahib has entrusted this matter to me. He had left this task according to my opinion from the beginning, and I have approved this relationship. Therefore, I will still speak on his behalf and accept it. Our only concern is that we want our children and our son-in-law to dedicate their lives solely to God. People have various things in mind in the world, but for a Muslim, there is only one purpose, and that is to dedicate their lives to God. We hope that dear Rashid Ahmad will fulfill our good expectations. I know that the current trend is such that everyone desires worldly progress, and I do not oppose it. But we say that worldly progress should also be under the umbrella of religion, and our purpose should also be religion. Dear Umme-Tul-Salam is the daughter of my brother, but I will also like the same for my daughter, that if there is no religious person in the world and there is a simple Muslim who is beloved by God, then I will prefer him over a hundred degrees and absolutely not care that I come from a noble family, have a connection with knowledgeable families, and they are from a lower community. I will only consider the goodness of remembering God as the greatest goodness. Some people stand up to eliminate the differences between communities. For example, they say that the status of Rajputs should be elevated. But when their situation is observed, it becomes clear that they themselves belong to a lower community, and their purpose in trying to eliminate community distinctions is to get their daughters into prominent families. Many such people have come to me and said to eliminate this distinction. I said until you yourselves do not make the right effort and while keeping your daughters purely religious, do not give them to people of lower status than you, until then you should not eliminate this distinction.
Our family is honorable, but when we are descendants of Adam, there is nothing except religious status that can make someone proud. We hope that dear Rashid Ahmad will dedicate his life solely to religion. He is the one who came to bring about a great change in the world, and that change has begun and will continue. Great kings, nations, and governments cannot stop this change. Scholars, rulers cannot stop this change; it will happen and continue. But how unfortunate it would be if we are not part of it and Muhammad is involved in it, but we remain deprived. It is like a person sitting by the spring, and others come, fill their flasks, and get intoxicated. They draw out channels and flood their fields, but that person does not even moisten his throat. Dear Rashid Ahmad should understand that he has many responsibilities. He does not need to look at the example of Zaid and Bakr because there is an example in his house. He should remember that he is from the progeny of the Promised Messiah and that the great example of the Promised Messiah is present for him not because the Promised Messiah is his grandfather but because Allah has destined him for the world. I scientifically state that I did not agree to be a father. When I was around eleven years old, I had made a firm intention that if my research turned out to be false, I would leave home, but I understood their truthfulness, and my faith grew until when you passed away, my faith increased, and I understood that now the work has grown. I was nineteen years old at that time. I stood by your corpse and made a covenant, "O Allah, I bear witness and say that even if the whole world dies, I will continue your mission." These were my emotions at that time when I stood by your bier and made this covenant. I have not broken this covenant to this day, and I hope that Allah will not let me forget and practically give me the success He will grant.
The gratitude will be for this. Hazrat Sahib did not bring a new religion nor did he bring a modern religion. But there is no doubt that people nowadays present Islam in such a filled manner that no intelligent person can reject it. If the interpretation and explanation are written, it can be said that you did not bring anything new, you brought what the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) showed to the world. So, it is our duty to spread what he brought. And I hope that dear Rashid Ahmad will also dedicate his life solely to this work. Until we do not spend our lives on this work, we will not succeed. At this time, we are not as opposed to any nation as we are to our opponents. We are in between like teeth of a comb. Then the tongue is between thirty-two teeth, but we are between hundreds of teeth. Therefore, Hazrat Sahib said:
Karbala is not a journey for every Imam,
A hundred Husayns are in my lap.
Until each one of us does not bear the hunger and thirst of this Karbala throughout our lives, we cannot succeed. And our purpose should be singular. Certainly, work in the world, but keep one work in mind, that we make Islam prevail over the world. As Allah Almighty addresses the Holy Prophet in the Quran, "And from wherever you go out [for prayer], turn your face toward al-Masjid al-Haram." Whether you go out for Badr, Uhud, or Khaybar, in every battle, keep in mind the conquest of Masjid al-Haram that it should be conquered. Similarly, whatever work we do, our purpose should be singular that we have to spread Islam throughout the world, our children, our wives, our children, our deeds, our honor should all be sacrificed in this cause without any hesitation. May Allah grant us success. Amen. At this time, I announce the marriage of dear Rashid Ahmad, which is arranged with a dowry of five thousand rupees to the dear daughter of dear Umme-Tul-Salam, who is the elder daughter of dear Mirza Bashir Ahmad Sahib. I approve from the girl's side.
I now pray that may Allah grant them the ability to act upon the guidance I have indicated, and now in their families, there is still one existence that has not yet accepted the guidance brought by Hazrat Promised Messiah (peace be upon him). Let us also pray for them that may Allah guide them. People differentiate between stepbrothers, but I do not perceive any difference. An Englishman asked me, "Is Mirza Sultan Ahmad Sahib our real brother?" Since I consider them real brothers, I replied, "Yes, they are real brothers." Later, it occurred to me that he might not understand my terminology and might think that I am giving him a false impression. Since I have regained consciousness, I have been continuously praying for them that may Allah guide them. They contemplate Ahmadiyyat as the path of guidance, but there is an obstacle that needs to be removed. Let us pray for the removal of that obstacle. Amen. (Al-Fazl, June 6, 1924, pages 6 to 9) - Al-Hakam, Volume 26, Number 21, dated June 7, 1924, page 1
The trend of marriage chapters: What has been mentioned about those who are armed and on three qualities is in the Muslim book of prayer, the chapter on sending blessings upon the Prophet after Tashahhud. (Al-Baqarah: 150) Hazrat Mirza Sultan Ahmad Sahib announced Ahmadiyyat in October 1928. (Al-Fazl, October 1928) and took the formal pledge in December. (Al-Fazl - December 1930)
(January 1925)
In January 1925, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of respected Miss Salima Begum Sahiba, the daughter of Hazrat Maulana Syed Muhammad Sarwar Shah Sahib, with Mr. Abdul Rahim Khan Hazarvi for a dowry of three thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, it was stated that there is no doubt that men have a virtue and authority, as proven by the Holy Quran and the teachings of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him). It is also evident that men have superiority over women, but this superiority does not solely indicate that women were created only for men and have no rights. Because even among men, there are two types of individuals: one type is specifically for men, and their purpose is to always remain under men. Just as animals have their purpose under men, horses, donkeys, cows, goats, etc., their purpose is to serve and provide comfort and ease to humans. God has made them subservient to humans and said, "We have created them for your service, and we have given you the power to rule over them." A horse, a donkey, or a chicken and other animals were not created under humans because their intelligence is less, but solely for the benefit, comfort, and ease of humans. God has made them subservient to humans and said, "We have created them for your service, and we have given you the power to rule over them."
If animals are subservient and possess intellect, it is because their intellect and subservience benefit humans. However, subordination is not the ultimate goal because without it, success cannot be achieved. Subordination serves as a remedy, not as the ultimate goal, just as the upbringing of children cannot be achieved without children. As long as parents do not fully devote themselves to the upbringing of children, the purpose of children's upbringing cannot be achieved. Now, the subordination of children is not like the subordination of animals to humans because the subordination of children is not for the benefit of parents but for the benefit of children. Similarly, for proper organization, civilization, and the establishment of mutual good social relations, if there is no president or ruler, peace and social relations cannot be correct and proper. Now, the presidency does not mean that their rights exceed those of others. No, they are only given a higher status in administrative matters. But their personal rights do not exceed those of others, for example, a president of a commercial company. Their opinion is given precedence in administrative matters, but their personal rights do not exceed those of others. Certainly, their opinion will be considered, but they do not have the right to take control over the share of others because their presidency and the subordination of others are for the establishment of cooperation and mutual participation, not for taking advantage of others. This subordination is what has been prescribed for the husband by the wife. Where there are more men, the decision is also based on the majority opinion. But even between husband and wife, the question of majority opinion arises because ninety percent of men are those who cannot have more than one wife because if considered, the number of men and women is almost equal. One reason is that the reasonable number of men is such that they cannot sustain the burden of marriage, but women, despite their weakness, can enter into marriage. Then among five percent of men who can have more than one wife, there will be some who can have more than one, and some who can have only four. The law
God Almighty has set a limit in the matter of polygamy. A lady in England once asked me if without restrictions, everyone would start marrying multiple times. I replied that if there are so many women in a country that each person can marry more than once, then it is everyone's duty to do so to prevent the country's resources from being wasted. However, the fact is that God Himself has set a limit through the law of nature that cannot be exceeded. This system of authority and subordination between husband and wife is established so that both can cooperate without any resentment. The authority of the man does not mean that women's rights are increased because God has said, "And fear Allah, to whom you will be gathered." The real focus is towards the source, which is human beings. What is a man and what is a woman? It is not said in the Holy Quran that man was created for authority and woman for subordination. If anything is mentioned, it is for both. God says, "That you may dwell in tranquility with them and He has put love and mercy between your hearts." Show kindness to your wife, and your wife should show kindness to you. Men are not created solely for women, but men are also created for the benefit of women. "They are clothing for you, and you are clothing for them." Men are not just clothing for women; men are also clothing for women, and the responsibilities are equal for both. Yes, there is a difference in ranks, just as a president and a leader are given a position for the sake of maintaining cooperation and collaboration. Even if there is benefit for the highest person, it is that their opinion is given more weight. They cannot gain any extra benefit in rights. "Indeed, Allah is ever, over you, an Observer." God says that you will not understand this issue and if you do not act with righteousness, you will not protect the rights of women. So remember, there is another entity watching over you as well. Today, the people of Europe say that they give rights to women, although they say that they give rights to women, but they do not understand that there is another entity watching over them. They say that they give rights to women, whereas they should protect the rights of women with righteousness. If they do not do so, then remember that there is another entity watching over them. (January 1925)
Women have not taken their rights but have been snatched from them. However, Islam has granted rights to women with utmost happiness, and it grants them at a time when women were not even demanding their rights. Islam has given them rights at a time when women did not even understand their rights and their lives were spent like servants, slaves, or animals. So, before women demanded their rights from men, men should give them their rights so that Allah's will is fulfilled without disputes and corruptions, and we become those who fulfill His will, which includes the dignity of Islam. (Al-Fazl, January 1925, page 5)
(Al-Fazl, June 22, 1925, page 1)
Surah Al-Hashr: 19
Surah Ar-Rum: 22
Surah Al-Baqarah: 188
Surah An-Nisa: 2
(April 12, 1925)
On April 12, 1925, after the Maghrib prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of respected Miss Sarah Begum Sahiba, the daughter of respected Maulvi Abdul Majid Sahib Bhagalpuri. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, it was narrated:
A narrative is written that a king made a pilgrimage site for someone. When his friends and acquaintances heard this news, they joyfully rushed to his house and upon reaching, they congratulated him and asked him to disclose something because he had performed the pilgrimage. However, upon seeing their surprise, his eyes welled up with tears, and uncontrollably, he began to sob. His friends asked, "What occasion is this for crying? This is a place of joy that your honor has increased, and your rank has risen." He replied, "For me, what occasion is there for joy? I will sit for pilgrimage, and two people will come quarreling." The claimant will know what the truth is, and the defendant will also know what the reality is. But I, who do not know anything about this matter, will write the verdict. It is as if I will sit as a blind person among two hundred people. Is this a matter of joy for me?
Marriage and Nikah are indispensable for a believer, as mentioned by the elders. Worldly pleasures and joys undoubtedly veil many people's intellects and assign them future responsibilities. Various types of desires and animalistic inclinations present themselves before their eyes, and they dance joyfully and happily without restraint. However, what doubt is there that marriage is a great trial and test for a person? I am always amazed by the fact that when the marriage of Abu Al-Hakam took place, which was later demonstrated by his actions, and now the whole world says that his family was in a very comfortable state. How much joy must have been celebrated at his father's wedding, how much singing and dancing must have taken place, how recklessly wine must have been poured according to the customs of that time, how many musical instruments must have played, and how happy the families of the bride and groom must have been. At that time, they did not know that as a result of this joy, such a mourning would arise that would defame their families forever, and what they consider as the moon of Eid will turn into a message of death for them. And not only for the husband and wife but for all their families and for all time, a stain will be placed on their reputation. In contrast, consider the marriage of the parents of Muhammad (peace be upon him). Their family situation was such that even a full meal was not affordable, and your parents were the seventh son in that poor family. In such circumstances, how simple would their wedding have been, and how simple would the husband and wife have been? Perhaps at that time, there were also regrets in their hearts that if only they were rich, had wealth, they would celebrate and invite, but with silence and solemnity, burying their hopes and aspirations in their hearts, the young man and woman would unite. At that time, they did not know that today they are sowing a seed for the progress and prosperity of the world, which will keep the whole world lush and vibrant forever, and a tree will grow that will never wither, and it will produce so many plants that will fill the world with gardens. This simple marriage, which was accompanied by various types of melancholy
Marriage was a great transformation for the world, a seed of dignity and improvement. In contrast, the marriages filled with joys and heartful celebrations brought devastating consequences to the world. These are the consequences for future generations born out of marriages, but marriages themselves are significant trials for individuals. It is astonishing that while celebrating Abu Al-Hakam's marriage, which later led to disastrous outcomes, the world praised the comfort in his family. The festivities, music, and revelry at his father's wedding, the pouring of wine as per customs of that time, all unknowing of the impending mourning that would stain their families' reputation forever. On the contrary, reflect on the marriage of Prophet Muhammad's parents, who were economically deprived, yet their simple union sowed seeds for global progress and prosperity. Their modest wedding, amidst various sorrows,
signified a message of life rather than death. Their union was a foundation for a prosperous future, unlike the joyous but ill-fated celebrations. Marriages can engulf individuals in grief and trials, even though they revel in happiness and peace. The darkness that follows such marriages brings forth divine punishments, personal afflictions, and societal calamities, leaving no room for redemption. Sometimes, before marriage, men and women are burdened with worries and responsibilities, devoid of joy and filled with hardships. Yet, what a blessed union it is when their hearts, once laden with sorrow and grief, blossom with joy and radiance, filling their homes with peace and tranquility. Their neighborhood, even their city, benefits from them, not just their family but their nation and their country. It seems as though their marriage is not just a union of two individuals but a union of a nation and a country. Reflect on these circumstances to understand the blessed nature of marriage and the profound impact it has. This is why, for a believer, every stage of marriage is a test and a challenge. Undoubtedly, in one aspect, there is joy because Allah has ordained this act as a joyful one. By setting up invitations and ceremonies, it has been indicated that this is a moment of joy. However, on the other hand, there is anxiety because the unknown future holds hidden secrets, especially for individuals like me, whose state cannot be fathomed. For them, this act does not bring the usual joy experienced by people. An unmarried youth, filled with carnal desires, if he were to contemplate on the consequences of marriage, would
It can be understood by a person who cannot suppress his carnal desires that marriage is not an event of great significance from a philosophical point of view. However, one who is not in such a state knows that I am shouldering a particular responsibility under certain circumstances. This is my current state. The ceremony for which I stand today is of utmost importance to me. A few months ago, I did not even think of marrying again. In fact, I had no intention of marrying again. I even told a friend that I am completely incapable in terms of circumstances, but I cannot comprehend what Allah Almighty has ordained for the future. If the responsibilities that fall upon me as the Imam of the community were not motivating me, and the objectives of the community were not driving me, then I would never have dared to stand on the pulpit for this ceremony today because I have become weary of weddings and celebrations. Now, there is no joy for me in this act, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not find any physical comfort in it except that which Allah may provide. Not much time has passed. A few days ago, while giving a lecture in the same mosque, I announced that I cannot understand if I am capable of marrying again. I do not experience any physical comfort in it, and I do not
As I look back, I express my contentment with the place where the decision of marriage has been made now. Allah's will prevails, and no human can reach the depths of His pleasure. If His wisdom and will did not decree that I should not separate from the Ahmadiyya community, I understand that even a Muslim has permission for a fourth marriage, but I am not prepared for it in my current circumstances. I do not understand what state my heart will be in the future, but I know that no situation has passed over me that I have forgotten the loss and have not prayed for the deceased of the Ahmadi community. When I think of the Holy Prophet ﷺ, I find his morals extremely endearing, never forgetting Khadijah. It is mentioned in a Hadith that ten years have passed since the demise of Hazrat Khadijah (may Allah be pleased with her). This is not an ordinary time. People forget their dear ones after a short while, but years pass. The companions write, "People bring gifts to the Holy Prophet ﷺ, and upon seeing them, tears fill his eyes, and he says, 'Take this gift to that woman who was a friend of my Khadijah. Take it to that woman who loved my Khadijah.' Once a woman came to meet you, you stood up upon seeing her, spread your cloak for her to sit. The companions asked, 'Who is she?' You replied, 'Khadijah loved her.' A foolish person considers this as polytheism and a weakness of the heart, whereas for years and years, to remember a deceased person or to keep a promise is not polytheism but loyalty. Generally, people have a love for being seen. When someone is out of sight, they are forgotten, but I have pondered many times. And every time, I have found this desire in my heart that if I leave someone behind who remembers me in the same way, with the same love and prayers for me as my heart is filled with for the Ahmadiyya community, then I would consider that I have done a great deed. Who are those who remember the deceased? When they see their desires fulfilled,
When people pursue the means of their pleasures, they forget men, and only a rare person keeps the memory of the departed fresh in their heart. But in me, a sense of loyalty and fidelity has been instilled to such an extent that I have felt it since my childhood. In that era, when a friend used to ask me what affects me the most, I would reply that if I read an incident of loyalty in a book, my eyes would fill with tears. For me, to remember the separation of someone and to always remember that separation in terms of this world is a pleasant pain, a grief that brings joy, and a comfort better than a thousand joys. The pain of love is not pain but a remedy. The blow of loyalty is not a blow but a crucible that purifies the heart and the soul of man ascends to a lofty place where the air is extremely pure and clean. If I were not entrusted with the leadership of a community, if the foolishness or shrewdness of a community's progress did not concern me, in reality, getting married now would have been a cause of injury and pain to my wounded heart. But I am hopeful of Allah's mercy, and I have never been hopeless of His mercy. The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Souls are like conscripted soldiers; those whom they recognize, they get along with, and those whom they do not, they will not." I understand that my soul had a connection with the soul of the Promised Messiah. I am always amazed, and sometimes I would mention this to the deceased that when I got married, I did it out of gratitude, thinking that I should fulfill the desire of the first Caliph of the Messiah to establish a blood relationship between your family and the family of the Promised Messiah. But I did not know that fulfilling this good intention and the desire of my teacher and master would bring such high rewards for me and provide me with such comforts. I have experienced many marriages. I have had several marriages myself, and being the Imam of a community, I am connected to thousands of marriages, and thousands of events reach me, but I have never achieved such a successful and happy
I have never seen a marriage like the one I had. I am not a fan of appearances. The deceased did not have a good physical appearance. The appearances of other wives were much better, but they had a faith, a belief, very few women possess. I found in them a certainty and trust in all matters related to the community's work. Then, a husband's flaws and weaknesses are most evident in the wife. Despite the weaknesses I find in them and despite the neglect that is apparent in me, I have always found their faith in the Caliphate so strong, something very rare in men. Their love for the religion, their love for the Promised Messiah, peace be upon him, their faith that was so rare among the women of other branches of faith, deeply affected my sensitive heart. And I am proud that their marriage happened to me at such a time when they were young and I got the opportunity to educate and train them, and it was a great blessing. But I also know that if there is no acceptance, no one can progress. Sometimes, how much anger and enthusiasm they had, their mention would affect me. I have seen their nature change after mentioning a reasonable mention. Women are generally seen and some men too, that when they are in a state of anger, they cannot immediately stop the anger. Slowly, their nature will improve, but I have seen them. If they made a mistake and were told that this is how it is in religion, their anger would subside immediately, and in this way, their nature would calm down as something collides with a mountain and stops. I am generally ill, and the first Caliph used to say that anger increases in the sick. I do not get angry without reason, but if there is a reasonable cause, I express my anger. Because of this, there have been occasions when I became dissatisfied with them, but except for once, I have never seen displeasure on their faces. Even though they were in such a state of pain and injury, when they saw my face, they would make their face happy so that the one who is very concerned about me, who is always worried about me, would not see the signs of their grief on their face. On the mentioned occasion, due to a reasonable cause, they were dissatisfied, and I felt that I saw traces of resentment on their faces. I asked, 'Have I ever seen your face till today?'
Never before have I seen the effects that are present today. What is the reason behind them? Then they revealed the matter which they had misunderstood. I dispelled their misunderstanding, and at that moment, I told them something that God had fulfilled, but seeing their happiness was not destined for them. A fool considers it as polytheism or his own grandeur. But what I said was this: let go of the complaint, it is unnecessary, and hear this good news that you will have a son who will be very popular. Previously, daughters were born to them, but in the same month as this conversation took place, a pregnancy occurred, and a son was born, named Khalil Ahmad. I had made a promise to them and what God had revealed on my tongue was very significant. I do not wish to express it. However, I will say this much that he will be a Christian soul and will have a deep resemblance to the Promised Messiah. I do not know what his life will be like. Knowledge has been given to me regarding his nature. If our negligence and shortcomings do not hinder, as God has informed me, he will be a Christian soul. In essence, for the progress of a community, if there is no negligence and only one purpose drives it, and that purpose is only the benefit of the community's compassion and continuity. I have weighed my heart many times and seen its every corner, and I have observed it very carefully, and besides this, I have not seen any other desire in it. But still, because man is weak, I pray that if there is any other desire in a corner of my heart than his, may God change it. I have prayed and sought guidance for this marriage at least three hundred times, but now I
I pray that if my prayers have not been accepted due to my spiritual weakness, may Allah now accept them. And may no such branch emerge that becomes a cause of sorrow and anxiety. I understand the responsibilities and duties of marriage. I have informed twelve people about the purposes of marriage, and today, addressing myself, I say the same things that I have been saying to others till now, to ponder over those matters. But still, I pray that the purposes that Allah and the Holy Prophet have mentioned regarding marriage may be granted the ability to live by them. My heart has become unfamiliar with true worldly happiness due to certain reasons. Now, no happiness in the world appeals to me. But this does not mean that I am not happy. When my Lord wants to make me happy, I am pleased with His grace and His benevolence. But at this moment, my state is like that of Jesus Christ on the night he was to be crucified. He had said, "My heart is willing, but the body is not." Similarly, I say that spiritually, opportunities for happiness come, but the physical heart is contracted. If my heart did not ache to see progress. If I did not hope to prepare my life to seek forgiveness for my sins, then in this world, there would be no interest for me, but despite this, I do not reject the blessings of Allah but seek them. If I can serve in the world, if I can be of assistance in the progress of Islam, if I can spend a moment in the pleasure of Allah, then for me, there is no sorrow but this life is paradise, and it is the paradise of the highest degree. I used to say in the moments of my foolishness, "My Lord!! For what purpose have you kept me in this world?" But I understand that these are moments of foolishness. The world is a place of action. If a moment like this is available where the pleasure of Allah can be achieved, then this is paradise. What is paradise? Are the rivers of milk and honey paradise? Are the lush gardens paradise? Paradise is the pleasure of Allah. If His pleasure is achieved in this world, then this is paradise, and if it is achieved in the next world, then that is paradise. Since this world is a place of action and the foundation of attaining the pleasure of Allah lies here, I also value the worldly blessings of Allah and while acknowledging my weaknesses, I express regret for my shortcomings.
Regarding this new responsibility that I have undertaken, it is solely for the pleasure of Allah Almighty, and I understand that it is not a source of joy for the other party. A man who is weak in health, financially weak, whose heart is devoid of worldly happiness, and who already has two wives cannot have high hopes of having a son. Women desire to lead a happy life. Parents wish for their daughters to be with a man who is cheerful, financially stable, and has not been married before, but I do not find any of these qualities in myself. Therefore, I consider it a sacrifice on their part, and I pray that Allah grants them its good consequences. And if there is any deficiency in their intention and sincerity, may they be saved from its consequences. And when this marriage is being carried out merely for the progress of a community, I also pray to Allah that He blesses this marriage for me and for the family of this girl who belongs to that weak and neglected class of women whose rights have been trampled for centuries. May Allah grant His mercy to men and women alike before my death, showing me that Islam is prevailing everywhere in the world. Children are filled with faith and sincerity; scholars and ignorant, men and women, all are thieves in the intoxication of God's love. Allah is pleased with them, and they are pleased with Allah. If I pass away while participating in this purpose and prayer, then I believe that no one is luckier than me. I announce this marriage myself. Generally, it is against custom for the one getting married to announce it. But my sorrows compelled me to stand up and announce it myself and express those emotions and thoughts that no one else could. But this is not something strange. Those great personalities who do not even have the ability to sweep their shoes have announced their own marriages. I, following the example of those great souls and seeking their blessings and approval, with the hope that Allah Almighty will bless this marriage.
I announce this marriage myself. The girl's family is not present here, but they have given written permission, which has been sent to Mufti Muhammad Sadiq Sahib for registration, and he has appointed you as my representative. Mufti Sahib, you have approved the marriage of Saray Begum, daughter of Maulvi Abdul Majid Sahib of Bhagalpuri, for a thousand rupees. Mufti Sahib has acknowledged your approval. After this, His Holiness offered a lengthy prayer. (Al-Fazl, April 14, 1925, Page 1, Bukhari, Book of the Beginning of Creation, Chapter of Souls as Gathered Armies. Al-Fazl, April 18, 1925, Pages 2-6)
(September 5, 1925)
After the Maghrib prayer on September 5, 1925, His Holiness Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the second marriage of Hafiz Roshan Ali Sahib with Saray Begum, daughter of Maulvi Abdul Majid Sahib of Wazirabad, for one hundred rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"Being the Imam of a community is a source of many blessings for a person, but sometimes it entangles him in some complicated knots. During the time of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him), there was a disagreement between two individuals in Qadian. Friends tried to reconcile them, but they thought our decision cannot be other than the decision of the British court. Each had ill thoughts about the other and believed that if they agreed, it would benefit the other. So, they both complained against each other in the British court. Then, on the day of their case hearing, they themselves or their representative asked Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (peace be upon him) to pray. Hazrat Masih-e-Maud laughed and said, 'Both are my disciples, and I am connected to both. Whom should I pray for to lose and whom should I pray for to win? We pray that the one who is truthful wins and gets his right.'
Then the Promised Messiah, peace be upon him, used to give an example of a gardener. He would say that there were two daughters in a gardener's house. Whenever a cloud would appear, one woman would become anxious and restless. People would ask her what happened. She would reply, "I don't have a son." If it rained, the gardener's house, where the daughters lived, did not receive any rain. And if it didn't rain, the house of the rich did not receive any rain. Because if it doesn't rain, the crops won't grow, and if it does rain, the gardener's utensils will be ruined. I have thought that our situation is often like this, especially during the time of the second marriage. Such a marriage is for one party, but women feel the opposition due to respect for the law and their dignity. The Holy Prophet, peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, has spoken about this, and we see every day that it is found in women. This feeling that opposes the second marriage is due to respect for the law and their dignity, but in reality, a spark is burning in their hearts, and even if no smoke is coming out, the fire is burning underneath, and the woman feels it. So, if they say that the second marriage is bad, they become like disbelievers because there is a way for them, and it is their desire that if the second marriage did not happen, it would have been better. I know very well that a man's second marriage definitely creates depression in the first wife. Here, a person's second marriage took place. Since people generally know, I did not take the name, but I should have been involved in this marriage, but despite this, I did not get involved. I had such relations with them that there was more verbal communication between us, but I did not get involved in the matter of marriage. But after the marriage, I saw that their first wife remained dissatisfied with me for five years. She did not say that the second marriage was
The marriage has been solemnized, although in terms of relationships, I should have done it, but I did not intervene. The first wife did not even greet me for five years after the marriage. These are the incidents that make our situation similar to the gardener's. But since it is cowardice to abandon one's duties due to people's thoughts and opinions, I do not care about it. Today, two individuals asked me if I would conduct the marriage myself. One of them deserved respect from me, so I answered him with respect that yes, I will conduct it, but I told the other person that I will not conduct it. In reality, their question was a test to see why you put yourself in difficult situations, but it is a severe mistake for a person to be afraid of such things. It is their duty to fulfill their responsibilities correctly and with good intentions. Then, if someone feels unjustly dissatisfied with it, do not worry about it. The rest of our example is similar to the gardener's who wishes for both his daughters to prosper. Our wish is also that both parties remain content. But if any compulsion arises that is from Allah Almighty, then one should accept it. Friends know about the second marriage. My opinion remains the same as before, but looking at the conditions of men, I have reached the conclusion that many cannot do justice to women. Here, my opinion is the same as before, but after observing the conditions of men, I have come to the conclusion that many cannot do justice to women. Here, the situation should be such that women should be just and patient, but in such a situation, if a person cannot solve these problems and regarding the community, my experience tells me that most people cannot do it, then I will say this: for the protection of faith, the faith of one's wife, and the faith of other people, marry only one wife. Perhaps the reason is that due to increased education, emotions have weakened, and the strength that was found in people before is no longer there. But whatever happens, it seems that men cannot control emotions and feelings completely, and women do not have the patience that every believer should have.
Small matters and trivial issues are often exaggerated to the extent that it bewilders people. Here, men cannot control their natural disposition, resulting in pointing fingers at others and giving enemies an opportunity to criticize. Homes become centers of turmoil and corruption instead of places where people enjoy the blessings of paradise. Hell is created in homes when a person, due to his recklessness regarding second marriage or misjudging his own self or misjudging the women he has to live with, turns his home into a hell. Such a person can spend a more comfortable life among two bad-tempered and uncontrolled women than those who are dignified and patient. And it is better for such a person to remain unmarried rather than giving people an opportunity to point fingers and malign Islam. However, it is not foolishness greater than abandoning one's duties due to people's opinions. It cannot be said that God has commanded a person to marry more than one woman. Situations arise where a person cannot do justice between two women or cannot find wives who can live with dignity. In such cases, it is better for that person not to engage in a second marriage, and if he does, he is a sinner. Similarly, a person who enjoys second marriage during times of national, civilizational, or religious need is, in my view, equally sinful. Moving forward, what happens in such situations can be understood by reflecting on each individual, and the greatest judge in this regard is the person himself. Others can decide about a person after his marriage, but many individuals can make decisions about themselves before marriage. So, if there is any personal matter after Allah Almighty, it is one's own self. No rules can be laid down for it. The solution to the puzzle that confronts a person is left to himself when it is presented to him that he should
Then if he corrects himself, it is for his own soul; and if he errs, it is against it. Indeed, by accepting Islamic injunctions, if a person strives for justice, then a second marriage should be avoided in such a way that it does not become a source of trouble for him, as is generally the case, because a person creates difficulties for himself and prepares hell for himself. There is no need for others' criticism because criticism arises from one's own self and hell is created from one's own home. There is no need for fire from the sky or flames from outside, but if a self-worshipper expels one wife like a fly and starts enjoying life with another, if he tries to escape from hell, where can he run? If one escapes from a small hell, a bigger one is prepared for him. Yes, the one who, feeling his mistake, jumps into this hell, saves himself from a severe hell, but the one who does not do so, for him and a very severe hell is prepared, and it is known from the saying of the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) that such a person will be raised on the Day of Judgment. And it is known from the Holy Quran that the one who is raised will be raised as half. Therefore, the question of a second marriage is very important and delicate, which I present again for the attention of friends, not that this sermon I am reading has a special connection with this marriage, but a ceremony is required for every matter. Someone said, "A ceremony requires some form of meeting." It is the rule of politicians that when they want to say something, they invite those people who are concerned with it, and then they express it at that occasion. Since the best time to say something about marriage is marriage itself, and the best time to say something about a second marriage is the occasion of another marriage. Therefore, I want to present this question at this time that there are many people who, when they get married a second time, make the first wife a puppet and do not treat her well. Or it happens that the first or previous wife prepares such a hell for the husband that the door of love is closed. The second person considers these things very ordinary, and they are very trivial.
Small matters often break hearts into pieces in such a way that they cannot be mended. I have heard a story from Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (peace be upon him) that was crafted for advice.
It is said that a person was friendly with a bear. He would bring the bear to his house daily and treated it with humility. One day, the man's wife reproached him, saying, "Is there any friendship that you have made?" Hearing this, the man said, "Even animals can talk. Strike me on my forehead." She refused, so the man said, "If you don't, our friendship will not remain." Finally, he struck himself on the forehead, causing the bear to be injured and leave. After a long time, he returned and said, "Look, there is no mark of the strike anywhere. But, oh woman! The thing you said is still imprinted on my heart." Sometimes, small matters occur, but their wounds always remain. Others cannot estimate such matters. These things sometimes happen from the man's side and sometimes from the woman's side, resulting in turning the home into hell. Therefore, it is necessary for our community friends that if the need for a second marriage arises, they should explain to themselves so that they can bear it and even if they bear it with difficulty, they should arrange the home in such a way that it does not become a hell for them and does not give others an opportunity to object. And if any issue arises, suppress it with wisdom. Thus, fights used to occur even among the wives of the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), but you used to resolve them with wisdom and forbearance in such a way that there was no room for objection from anyone. At this moment, I am standing to announce the second marriage of Hafiz Roshan Ali Sahib. Pray that may Allah Almighty bless their marriage. They have children, but not sons, so pray that Allah Almighty bless them with sons and bless both wives. (Al-Fazl, October 6, 1925, Page 796) Al-Fazl, September 10, 1925, Page 1
Al-Baqarah: 287 Sahih al-Tirmidhi, Book of Marriage, Chapter: What is Mentioned About Resolving Conflicts
(Delivered in 1925)
Miss Rahima Sahibah, daughter of Brother Abdul Rahim Sahib Qadiani, had her marriage solemnized by His Holiness the Khalifatul Masih II, with the supervision of Mr. Barkat Ali Sahib from Sipraoizan. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"Since today is a day of illness and I also have a cough, I cannot speak much, but I consider it necessary to say this much that the marriage sermon was prescribed by the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) so that Muslims may pay attention to the purposes and objectives that are related to marriage. Every action that a person undertakes has three aspects: the purpose of doing that action, then the reason for doing that action, and then the result or fruit of that action. Along with these, there is also the responsibility that arises from doing that action. And unless all these aspects are considered, no action can be called a complete action, nor can success be achieved through that action. So, when a person thinks about all three aspects of doing a task, that is, its purpose, its reason, and its result, then a special enthusiasm and passion is generated in him for doing that task, and then the results of such tasks also turn out well. But if they are not considered and the task is not done with
Prior to not considering, neither do good results emerge, nor does learning or comfort come from that work. It is impossible for a person to be aware of the purpose of a task, be cautious because of it, and then not have a good outcome from doing that task. Therefore, a person should carefully consider the aspects and dimensions of a task before undertaking it. If one carefully considers and then performs that task, not only physical benefits will be obtained, but spiritual outcomes will also be achieved. This is also the case with marriage. It has three aspects as well. If all three aspects are taken into consideration, it can be fruitful and beneficial, and excellent results and outcomes can be obtained. The purpose of the marriage sermon that is recited at the occasion of marriage is also to draw the attention of the couple to these three matters. It should not be considered a mere formality that the relationships of a boy and a girl are established. Our community should not consider it a formality; it is the command of Islam and it is the pleasure of Allah. It is not a formality because people have established it themselves, but marriage is not established by people themselves; it is the command of Allah, and through it, some responsibilities are imposed on the boy and the girl that they have to fulfill in their future lives. In reality, it is a school in which they are enrolled through marriage. If they know why they have been enrolled in this school and what is the purpose, and if they are aware of the need and responsibilities, then if these purposes, needs, and responsibilities are correct and proper, then excellent results can be achieved, and marriage becomes a blessed institution. If a person carefully considers the outcomes beforehand, there are two benefits. The first is that if the outcomes become apparent, a person can assess their responsibilities and then can estimate whether they can do that task or not. If they understand that they can do it, then they accept it, and if difficulties arise, they do not panic. Knowing the purpose of responsibilities is so essential in every task that a person cannot do any task until they understand the responsibilities. It is evident from the Quran that the purpose of marriage is the fear of Allah, and this purpose is actually a responsibility that if understood beforehand, a person can enroll in this school
After reading, a person chooses the straight path. Allah Almighty says: O you who have believed, fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice. He will [then] amend for you your deeds and forgive you your sins. And whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger has certainly attained a great attainment.
It means that with marriage, both men and women will have responsibilities. If they do not fulfill them, they will be called unfaithful besides bearing losses. So, since responsibilities are associated with marriage, and husbands and wives understand that they have to fulfill them. Here, through marriage, they become united for a common purpose, and the commitment to fulfill those responsibilities arises, which is born from speaking words of appropriate justice. These are the responsibilities that are incumbent upon the man towards the woman and upon the woman towards the man, which they have united and shared. But along with this, responsibilities also come from the religion. It is a duty of upbringing and a responsibility from the Shariah that has been mentioned not to take it lightly, and also the result has been stated that if you do not take it lightly and raise children in an excellent manner, you will certainly attain a great attainment. What doubt remains? The impact reaches future generations. Most of the impact falls on children, and if a person himself does not, then through children, he can influence the hearts of good people. So, one important responsibility among the responsibilities is to obtain excellent and good children, and if indeed someone obtains excellent and good children and fulfills their responsibility of upbringing, then through that, he can influence the hearts of people concerning upbringing.
The outcome of marriage becomes excellent and fruitful if a person becomes virtuous and righteous. In reality, the results and fruits of marriage turn out well if a person becomes virtuous and righteous. And if not, then it means that he undertook the essential task of marriage without considering its purpose, without pondering over its reasons, and without keeping in mind its outcomes and fruits. If a person does not leave behind virtuous and excellent children and his offspring turn out to be bad, then he seeks refuge even from his enemies. Therefore, a person should indeed think about all these matters beforehand, reflect on them properly, and always keep them in mind so that all his actions lead to happiness. (Al-Fazl, April 13, 1926, Page 5) Al-Fazl, No date available
Al-Ahzab: 72 Al-Hashr(Delivered in 1925)
Basharat Khatoon, daughter of Brother Abdul Aziz Sahib of Rasiniyar Gujranwala, had her marriage solemnized by His Holiness the Khalifatul Masih II, with the supervision of Mr. Barkat Ali Sahib. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"At this moment, when I am standing to read the marriage sermon, it is personal for me as well. Around a year ago, I read an article in the women's magazine 'Tahzeeb Niswan' in Lahore, which seemed to be written by an Ahmadi woman. Her name was not mentioned below the article, but my reference was given in that article, so I understood that it might be written by an Ahmadi woman. Later, I read an article in the same magazine in which my article was written in her own words. This made me think that the woman writing the articles is an Ahmadi. Since men have their own newspapers, they keep writing articles in them, but due to the absence of women's newspapers or due to their scarcity, very few women write articles. For this reason, I was pleased that an Ahmadi woman has started writing articles. I asked several friends coming from Lahore, 'Who is the Ahmadi woman writing articles in 'Tahzeeb Niswan'? But they expressed ignorance. Now I have come to know that she was the same Ahmadi woman whom I am now going to read the marriage sermon for."
Writing essays by women has become a common practice due to tradition and lack of courage, and it is very difficult if there is no attention towards it. In such a situation, if a woman pays attention to it, it shows more courage and bravery and more dedication and love from her class. In my opinion, it is also cowardice not to be able to dominate tradition, and I consider a person who suppresses tradition and performs a task to be more courageous and brave compared to others. It should be the duty of those husbands whose wives have a passion for writing articles and can dare to express their intellectual taste not to suppress it but to encourage them to develop it. At this time, the lack of essays by our women is not due to the lack of knowledge but due to lack of courage. There are many men who have very little intellectual ability compared to some women but they write essays, and there are many women who have more knowledge than thousands of men. They have read and understood the Quran and Hadith and their religious capability is also complete, but despite this, they do not write any essays. The reason is that when men see each other, they develop courage and start writing well because women do not have any peer and due to lack of courage, they do not have the courage to do that task. If some women come out who set an example, then many more women will start writing essays. Therefore, those women who are queens of essay writing should increase their courage and should be helped. At this moment, I announce the marriage of Basharat Khatoon, daughter of Brother Abdul Aziz Sahib of Rasiniyar Gujranwala, with the supervision of Mr. Barkat Ali Sahib. Sheikh Maula Bakhsh Sahib is an old and sincere Ahmadi, and their elder son, Mia Mirza Isma'il Sahib, is present. Sheikh Sahib has written to me about the dowry and other matters. Since later issues arise, I announce that besides jewelry worth about two thousand, there will be a dowry of one thousand rupees. The date could not be determined. (Al-Fazl, April 23, 1926, Page 8)
(Delivered on October 25, 1926, after the Asr prayer at Masjid Mubarak, Qadian)
On October 25, 1926, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of two couples. Syed Wazarat Hussain Sahib accompanied Sahibra Sahibah, daughter of Maulvi Muniruddin Sahib, with a dowry of three thousand rupees. Abdul Aziz, son of Mukarram Umar Din Sahib, accompanied Masooda Begum Sahibah, daughter of Maulvi Muhammad Ali Sahib, with a dowry of twelve hundred rupees. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
Marriage is one of the necessities of life that are related to three branches of human actions. Some tasks are related to only one branch in the world, some to two, and some to three, and marriage, in terms of its importance, is related to those three branches that are three in number. That is, religious, ethical, and civilizational. It is related to all three branches. Indeed, if a special quality is given to the civilizational branch and a specific concept is derived from it, then these branches become four, and the fourth branch is the natural branch. So, marriage is related to these four branches. It is also related to religion in that through marriage, a person rectifies his religious condition. It is related to ethics in that through marriage, a person safeguards his ethics. It is related to civilization in that through it, relationships grow among people. Naturally
The relationship of marriage is also related to fulfilling a person's natural demands. So, when marriage is related to these four branches, it is also evident that its impact is felt on human actions, and it is also evident that its harms can affect these four branches. So, just as the good impact of marriage is felt on a person's religion, ethics, civilization, and natural demands, its harmful effects can also affect these four branches. Therefore, if through marriage a person's religion becomes correct, if through marriage a person's ethics become right, if through marriage good qualities are produced in a person's civilization, then through marriage, these can also deteriorate. Sometimes it happens that a person gets attacked on his religion after marriage. Sometimes a person's ethics improve through marriage, but they also deteriorate. Sometimes the purpose of marriage is to progress civilization, but instead, it gets harmed, and this is also the case with natural demands. A person gets married, but sometimes his natural demands get neglected. Examples of all these situations are present in the world, and we see every day that sometimes a person benefits in religion, ethics, civilization, and natural demands through marriage, and sometimes all four are wasted, and sometimes each of these is wasted. Sometimes religion benefits, and ethics deteriorate. Sometimes ethics and religion benefit, and civilization deteriorates. Similarly, sometimes natural demands suffer losses. This is the state of the benefits of marriage. Sometimes it benefits one branch, and sometimes another, and sometimes all four branches benefit. The best example of this is the marriages of the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him). You have performed many marriages, and you have been given all the benefits of marriage. You received civilizational benefits, religion also improved for you, ethics were a model for your world, and by forming relationships, you benefited. Your physical strength was such that women did not develop any kind of illness by marrying you. The purpose of marriage was to benefit from every aspect through marriage.
Sometimes people are aware but do not have loving relationships, while sometimes they are not even aware. They do not experience sorrow or joy with each other, but sometimes, after marriage, they become one soul. Relationships are established, and civilization flourishes. The relationship between a boy and a girl exists, but love is born among hundreds. Then sometimes their disagreements and sorrows also disappear, and their hearts become one. Those who were not aware of each other or if they were aware, did not have a relationship, or if they had a relationship, they were experiencing sorrows, after the marriage of the boy and the girl, they sit together and start loving each other. This is the state of natural benefits. When marriage does not take place, some diseases occur, but if marriage is done, they can be protected from such sins and thus benefit from a religious point of view and from natural demands. Where there are religious benefits of marriage, there are also religious harms. Sometimes a man gets hit by a woman's religion after marriage, and sometimes a woman suffers damage from a man's religion. And the harm that a woman suffers from a man's religion is the example of the wives of the enemies of the Prophets who do not investigate their own essence and follow the religions of their husbands. Now that woman whose marriage has taken place with an enemy of a Prophet, religion will also build itself which is of her husband, so in this case, consider how religion has harmed that woman. Ethically, the situation is the same; some women marry such husbands who are good and virtuous, but after marriage, they are deceived and fall into various immoralities and lose their ethics. Similarly, this harm also reaches the woman from the man. Naturally, it has also been seen that sometimes by marrying and losing all their abilities, a person becomes lost.
The outcome is initially good and beneficial, but after marriage, animosity arises, leading to the loss of all capabilities, the effects of which are extremely negative. Along with benefits, a chain of losses also follows. Therefore, marriage is such an important matter that its impact is felt on religion, ethics, civilization, and natural demands, so great caution must be exercised in it. Hence, it is advised to seek guidance through Istikhara and offer fervent prayers before marriage because a person does not know what impact it will have, and if a mistake occurs, a person is left wandering from one place to another, so great prayers are necessary. Many people have apostatized due to such mistakes, some have died due to the marriages they entered into. Then civilization deteriorates, conflicts arise, and these conflicts sometimes become very dangerous and harmful. Here civilization deteriorates, ethics deteriorate. For example, someone's wife is quarrelsome and argumentative, or there is some other flaw or deficiency in her, so people from the family or the neighborhood complain about her. Some say, "Your wife did this," some say, "Your wife caused this harm," and the person fears to confront people to hide his weakness. Similarly, there are those whose natural demands are lost. There are also those whose religion is harmed. There are also those whose religion suffers damage. So caution should be exercised in marriage. This is why the command for piety has been given and the need for prayers and Istikhara is emphasized. Before marriage, many kinds of benefits are considered, but they may not be achieved later. Then when marriage takes place, the demands of love attack honesty, trustworthiness, religion, civilization, and ethics, and this is also a detrimental thing. Therefore, efforts should be made to avoid this harm. At this moment, I am standing to announce the marriage of two couples. The first announcement is for the marriage of my niece, Sabira, the daughter of Maulvi Abdul Majid Bhagalpuri and the daughter of the late Maulvi Muniruddin. Her marriage with a dowry of three thousand rupees has been arranged with Mr. Wazarat Hussain Sahib.
The second announcement is for the marriage of Masooda Begum, daughter of Maulvi Muhammad Ali Sahib, with Abdul Aziz, son of respected Umar Din Sahib, residing in Sarih (father of Khan Sahib Munshi Farzand Ali Sahib), with a dowry of seven hundred rupees. (Al-Fazl, November 5, 1926, Page 65)
(Delivered on December 29, 1926)
On December 29, 1926, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Ms. Zahurn Sahibah, daughter of respected Munshi Muhammad Mustaqim Sahib of Samanwai, with a dowry of one hundred rupees, and the marriage of Ms. Rashidun Sahibah, daughter of respected Munshi Nizam Sahib of Samanwai, with a dowry of two hundred and fifty rupees. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
In these verses, Allah has used the word "Raqqib." The meaning of Raqqib is caretaker, but in Arabic, there is another word, Shaheed. Thus, in all languages, it is considered as a key that each word is specific to a certain meaning, and in that language, there is no other word for that meaning, but in Arabic, this fact is explicitly proven. So, the meaning of Raqqib cannot be just caretaker, it means witness, i.e., one who testifies to the consequences of an action. Shaheed is used for one who is concerned about the fundamentals of actions in a way that the doer follows a particular path and does not deviate from it. The use of the word Raqqib in Urdu sheds light on these meanings. In Urdu, Raqqib is used for two lovers because each lover is constantly vigilant about the relationship with the other, thinking that their love should not be with anyone else but me.
Allah Almighty says, "I am Raqqib." Allah has instilled two flames of love in human nature. One flame is the spiritual love whose purpose is to keep a yearning in the heart of a person until a complete relationship is established with the perfect existence. This is as if it is the flame of love. The other flame is the metaphorical love whose purpose is for a person to love his wife so that progeny continues. And the lovers of Allah Almighty continue to be born in the world. At the time of marriage, since the demand of metaphorical love is fulfilled, this flame tends to cool down, so there is fear that the other flame, i.e., the flame of divine love, may also become cold. Hence, Allah Almighty informs the husband and wife and their relatives that He is Raqqib. He seems to say to the husband that your wife was not created only for your love but her main claim is my love. Similarly, to the woman (in whom the element of jealousy has been given more), Allah Almighty gives that I am Raqqib of both of you, not that you should be lost in someone else's love other than mine, and not even that your desire should be only related to your husband, but his love should be only for you, and he is also our servant, and he should also be only our lover. (Al-Fazl, December 31, 1926, Page 15; Al-Fazl, February 4, 1927, Page 7)
(Delivered on April 15, 1927, after the Zuhr prayer)
On April 15, 1927, after the Zuhr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Chaudhry Sardar Khan, son of Asalat Khan Sahib, with Aisha Begum, daughter of Chaudhry Chiragh Din Sahib. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
It is difficult for me to speak due to a sore throat, but since there have been some disagreements in the recent marriages, I will briefly draw attention to some responsibilities of men and women. Just as men have rights, women also have rights; there is no difference between them in the sight of Allah. Just as a man is a servant of God, so is a woman; just as a man is a slave of God, so is a woman. Just as a man is free and responsible, so is a woman. Both have rights. A woman is not like a cow or a buffalo to be taken and tied. From a human perspective, a woman is just like a man - freedom is a precious thing that Allah has given to women just as He has given it to men, and both have certain responsibilities and duties. Some men do not understand this issue; they think that men are in charge of women, whereas they have been given the responsibility. Men are the protectors and maintainers of women - for Allah has given one more portion than the other - but freedom is different from guardianship.
It is not enough to be just vigilant. A king is vigilant, a caliph is vigilant, and similarly, a ruler of the time is vigilant, but does any command or law allow them to do as they please? Vigilance means that one should act according to the rights granted to them by the Sharia, not that they do whatever they desire. Vigilance means that one should follow the Sharia, but here, the concept is taken as doing whatever one desires. Some people are not willing to give women their rights. They consider them like cows or buffaloes and want to rule over women, although even God does not do that. He says, "Say what your conscience tells you." Then God does not punish without complete evidence. Despite being the owner, why don't women have the freedom of conscience compared to men?
On the other hand, the second limit is also dangerous, which is from the side of women. The term "Qawwamun" is also ultimately based on some wisdom. This law is created by God, who is neither male nor female, and no bias can be attributed to Him. So, the laws of such a being can be just. Generally, a woman is biased towards women, and a man towards men, but God is not biased towards either. He is the Creator. He knows the powers He has given to men and has given them the authority to use them. Qawwamun cannot be sacrificed, nor can its existence be doubted. It should be seen as a protector. I will give an example related to this. The Sharia commands that a woman should not go out without her husband's permission. But despite this, a man cannot stop a woman from meeting her parents. If a man does so, it could be a sufficient reason for divorce. Meeting parents is a woman's right, but determining the time and permission is the man's right. For example, a husband can say that he will not meet in the evening but in the morning or send her parents to his house or send her to her parents' house. But just as a man meets his parents, similarly, a woman also has the right except in cases where mutual agreement is reached. For example, when there is a fear of corruption or danger of discord. A man usually separates first. But a woman should not go against her husband's will.
If a husband commits injustice, the wife can complain to the judge, but if the husband prevents her and does not allow her to go out of the house, then she can go out without permission from the house, but it is her duty to present the case before the judge promptly so that the judge can see if there are sufficient reasons for her to go out or not. Then the judge can allow her to stay outside or order her to return home. So if the husband commits injustice, restricts her rights, and prevents her from going to court, then the wife can go out without the husband's permission, but the condition is that she raises her voice against him in the shortest possible time (for example, within 24 hours or as soon as a court case is generally filed).
In our country, it is entirely wrong that a woman, after quarreling with her husband, goes to her parents' house and stays there. The parents favor her unjustly, and discord increases. Both parties should act according to Sharia. A woman, as a human being, is just like a man. She is established in her faith, belief, and freedom just like you. For example, I mention some beliefs where respect for a woman's religion is necessary. Some jurists believe that if a man touches a prohibited woman in a state of ablution, the ablution is not broken, but some believe that the ablution is broken. Now, if a woman holds the belief that ablution is broken if touched before ablution, then it is the husband's duty not to touch her in that state, and he has no right to interfere in her beliefs or religion. So, a woman must be given complete freedom in her beliefs. Yes, we will not be concerned with matters of intellect or heart. For example, if a woman says that my intellect says or my heart desires that a certain thing should not be done this way, then respect is not necessary. When God does not care about these things, why should we? So, these principles are only related to the beliefs of Sharia. Similarly, there is a difference among Muslims regarding menstruation because some believe that after becoming pure from menstruation, intimacy before bathing is permissible. But according to some, intimacy is permissible after bathing. If a woman believes that intimacy is not allowed before bathing, then it is the man's duty not to approach her before bathing just as it is the woman's duty to respect the man's religion.
Similarly, it is the duty of a man to consider a woman's beliefs. Therefore, a woman has the right to obtain freedom. If you suppress her, she will demand a freedom that Sharia has not given them. If you want to receive God's blessings, correct your affairs, grant women complete freedom, and fulfill their rights. (Al-Fazl, April 22, 1927, Page 5)
"Men are the protectors and maintainers of women." (Quran, 4:35)
(Delivered on December 24, 1927)
On December 24, 1927, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Khan Niamat Khan Sahib's daughter, Iqbal Begum, with a dowry of one thousand rupees, and read the Sunnah sermon. He said:
The responsibilities of men and women entering into marriage are explained in these verses, but it is extremely surprising that Muslims, who have been provided with the best measures, precious guidance, and clear instructions regarding marriage, are the ones causing the most disturbances at the time of marriage. Men and women's relationships, based on interests and hidden purposes, which are being discovered based on experience and observation, are creating more problems than those nations to whom these precious instructions, which have not been given to Muslims, are being discovered based on their experience and observation. However, the state of women in Muslims is extremely deplorable. It will not be found in the world or in any nation. Muslims should look at the condition of Hindu women, which is better than Muslim women. The situation of Christian women is much better than Muslim women; they have reached a point where they can be called human beings. But the state of Muslim women, mashallah, is not inferior to that. They are at a level where they can be called humans.
Feeding, drinking, and raising children do not hold much significance. They certainly do not understand that they were created for the pleasure of Allah Almighty and to seek His nearness. They only understand that they were created for the husbands. However, this was the theory of the high that was written that God, seeing Adam's loneliness, created Eve for his comfort, or the theory of Hindus that women were created merely for the comfort and service of men. But these nations whose foundation was based on these things have abandoned them, and they have realized that if women are not for the nearness of God, then they were created for the progress of their nation. Since all the people of these nations are not believers in the existence of Allah Almighty. Therefore, they do not say that women were created for seeking the nearness of God, but they do say that their role in the progress of the world is the same as that of men. However, this realization has not yet dawned among Muslims. And until all Muslim women are not focused on improving their condition, success cannot be achieved. Writing books will not lead to this realization; words can be learned from books, but the essence cannot be learned. The essence is obtained through companionship and action, which educated women cannot instill in other women. Therefore, there is no benefit in them gaining education. Until it is not the case that every educated woman considers other women as her mothers and sisters and strives to improve their condition, success cannot be achieved. It is essential for our community to make efforts to awaken and sensitize women and to inform them that their life is not just for their husbands but their purpose is to strive, together with their husbands, to manifest the glory of Allah Almighty. I have to say with regret that despite repeatedly drawing attention to this, very little attention has been paid in this direction, and the condition of women is still very degraded. Although there is a difference in the condition of our community's women and other women, and I acknowledge that the pace at which they are progressing is very encouraging. Regarding a woman, many women and men have repeatedly conveyed to me that she does not write articles herself, but a man writes and gives them. But this woman
Today, a letter has come to me in the same style of writing as its contents. The passion, the expression of meaning is the same. By the grace of Allah, there are such elements in our community that women are inclined towards progress and this is the result of them beginning to understand themselves as the pillar of religion. If this trend continues, the women of our community will progress very soon. However, it is necessary for men to assist them. It is the duty of every father to help his daughter progress. It is the duty of every husband to arrange for his wife's progress. It is the duty of every brother to assist his sister. Even every son has the duty to uplift his mother. If all the people of the community start helping women, progress can be achieved very quickly. Allah Almighty has shown the path of progress in those verses that are recited at the time of marriage. When people start working, despite making every effort from their side, sometimes they cannot correct it. If we look at it from a different perspective and think locally, it becomes clear that sometimes a person who expresses his compulsion turns out to be correct and many times in reality, he is compelled. Sometimes it happens that someone is asked to leave an inappropriate matter, and he says, "Where should I go? I can't leave it." Similarly, a person wants to leave a matter himself, but when the opportunity arises, he does it. Many crimes happen in such a way that avoiding their commission is in the hands of the person.
Actions are of two types: those that are within human control and those that are not. No other religious book in the world besides the Holy Quran has made this distinction. I can state that if any divine book shows this distinction between actions, one being voluntary and the other involuntary. Even in voluntary actions, there is an element of involuntariness. This is mentioned in the context of marriage. The Quran states, "O you who have believed, fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice. He will [then] amend for you your deeds and forgive you your sins." Speaking the truth is an action in itself. But Allah will correct your deeds because of it. It means that there are some actions that you cannot correct, and there are actions that are not in your control, and you are helpless. What should you do then? Perform the actions that are within your control and we will take care of those that are beyond your control. Many people come to Hazrat Masih Maud (as) and say, "We do not find pleasure in prayer. What should we do?" He says, "Just recite the prayer." Praying is within your control. Allah will take care of His part of the work. So it was said, "O you who have believed, fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice, He will [then] amend for you your deeds." Your actions are of two types: those you can do and those you cannot. For example, the spread of thoughts or actions that become a habit for a person. So it was said, "Perform the part that is within your control, and we will take care of the part that is beyond your control." It is evident that the Quran has accepted two types of actions and then it is said that if you do what you can, we will send down powers from the heavens that will make them right. In marriage, there are discussions and matters that a person can correct by observing them, but some are such
There are actions that are not within human control, and their consequences can be negative. Generally, external appearances and similarities can be observed, and the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) has also permitted this. Similarly, human habits can also be understood through women, but despite that, there are many things that cannot be explained. Sometimes I receive cases where I ask about the reason for a disagreement, and people say they don't know the reason but they just don't feel like it. This shows that there are also subtle emotions and thoughts that a person can feel but cannot express. These feelings affect relationships. Allah Almighty says, "When you marry, speak openly. Your words should not be complicated. Do not be deceitful. Do not intend to take revenge or seek unlawful benefits from marriage. Rather, keep piety in mind. Marriage should be for the sake of Allah's pleasure. Then the things that are not in your control, Allah will rectify them. So, we see that there are events where people, by keeping piety in mind, marry and Allah provides such provisions in them that despite some shortcomings, there is such love that people are amazed. When we look at the marriages of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), we are amazed. At one time, you had nine wives, and the burden of the whole world was on your shoulders, and you did not even get a moment's respite, but your marriages were not for faith and sincerity, which were for the sake of the Prophet's wives being with you, but they were filled with boundless love from the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him). Reflect on what was that thing that instilled so much love for the Prophet (peace be upon him) in the hearts of your wives. It was indeed the piety of Allah Almighty. The marriage of Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) took place when she was twelve years old, and she became a widow at the age of twenty-one. In this situation, it can be said from a worldly perspective that your life was purposeless and without a claim. But let the religious sincerity prevail, and the sincerity that is apparent in the relationship between husband and wife is also unparalleled. A woman narrates that once I expressed my love for the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) to his wives, it was also unparalleled. An
When I went to Aisha, she was eating and crying at the same time. I asked her what was the matter, and she said, "Seeing this good flour for making bread, I am reminded that during the time of the Holy Prophet, the flour was not good, and it used to be coarse. If the Holy Prophet were here, I would have cooked this bread for him." Generally, women cry over the death of their husbands, saying that if the husband were alive, this sorrow would not have come. Or they cry over the trouble of eating and drinking, saying if the husband were here, this trouble would not have been there. But Aisha cried in times of joy, not because if the Holy Prophet were here, he would bring food or provide clothing, but because this comfort that I am experiencing would not have reached me alone, it would have reached you too. The food that could have been a source of pleasure became a cause of grief and trouble for Hazrat Aisha because her beloved was not included in it. When Allah Almighty deals with hearts, this is the state. Therefore, marriage should be done keeping piety in mind. When this is done, Allah Almighty, by His grace, changes those hidden flaws that human sight cannot reach or those that cannot be corrected by human choice. It is necessary to marry with piety in mind. When this is done, Allah Almighty, by His grace, changes those hidden flaws that human sight cannot reach or those that cannot be corrected by human choice. At this time, I announce the marriage of Khan Niamat Khan Sahib's daughter, Iqbal Begum, with a dowry of one thousand rupees, and the Sunnah sermon read by Osaf Ali Khan Sahib. (Al-Fazl Newspaper, January 17, 1928, Page 76)
Al-Bukhari, Book of Dress, Chapter: What has been mentioned about the Prophet's living and his family's living Sahih Muslim, Book of Virtues, Chapter: The Prophet's Household(Delivered on January 2, 1928)
On January 2, 1928, the marriage of Chaudhry Fath Muhammad Sahib Sial's daughter, Saadiqah Begum Sahiba, was announced with a dowry of one thousand rupees by Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II. The Sunnah sermon was recited. He said:
Al-Bukhari, Book of Dress, Chapter: What has been mentioned about the Prophet's living and his family's living Sahih Muslim, Book of Virtues, Chapter: The Prophet's HouseholdIn this world, Allah Almighty has created such provisions that a person's state is never constant. Sometimes one is passing through joy, and sometimes through sorrow. At times, things of joy are being created, and at other times, things of sorrow. Sometimes a person is compelled to be overwhelmed by joy, and sometimes compelled to be overwhelmed by sorrow. All these provisions are placed by the wisdom of Allah Almighty because He guides humans towards the path of progress, and joy and sorrow always draw a person. Joy says, "Stay a while, taste my delight," and sorrow says, "Pause a bit, taste my pleasure." Both are attracting towards themselves. But Allah Almighty attracts the person towards Himself. For this, He has set these provisions that joy and sorrow are given together, which are so intertwined with each other that when joy is pulling with all its might and power, it weakens the power of sorrow by creating such provisions that break the strength of sorrow. And when sorrow is pulling towards itself, it produces such elements of joy that weaken the power of sorrow. Then the middle path is formed.
When Allah Almighty deals with hearts, this is the state. Therefore, marriage should be done keeping piety in mind. When this is done, Allah Almighty, by His grace, changes those hidden flaws that human sight cannot reach or those that cannot be corrected by human choice. It is necessary to marry with piety in mind. When this is done, Allah Almighty, by His grace, changes those hidden flaws that human sight cannot reach or those that cannot be corrected by human choice. At this time, I announce the marriage of Chaudhry Fath Muhammad Sahib Sial's daughter, Saadiqah Begum Sahiba, with a dowry of one thousand rupees, and the Sunnah sermon read by Osaf Ali Khan Sahib.
Through which a person reaches Allah Almighty, it is He alone who appears before him. I stand here today for the announcement of a marriage. This is also an example of such a state. Just a few days have passed. Not even a month has gone by when suddenly Chaudhry Fath Muhammad Sahib's wife passed away. Due to her personal qualities, her righteousness, and the honor of her family, and because she was the granddaughter of the First Khalifa, Chaudhry Fath Muhammad Sahib should have been affected by her death, and he was. In such situations, people feel that the state of this grief should be prolonged, and sometimes people start objecting, saying, "How heartless is that man, his wife's death is forgotten so quickly, and he has remarried." Especially women make such objections that such a man has remarried so quickly after his wife's death. If we reflect on the reality that I have explained and look at the necessities that are for the benefit of women, sometimes a man, by compelling himself and suppressing his emotions, prepares himself for another marriage. His emotions and feelings desire to experience the joy of this grief, but for the benefit and welfare of the children who are left behind due to the upbringing and care that men have to do for other tasks outside the home, he cannot do it. But if the man were to be left to his own state, he would not be ready for remarriage so quickly. However, for the upbringing of those children for whom the upbringing of the deceased wife was the first and most important duty, he compels himself to bring such a person into the house who would strive to keep the house prosperous. Since the habit of reflecting on reality is not prevalent in our country, and this whole result is due to this fact.
It is said that people no longer have governance. Therefore, they start objecting to such matters, and it is possible that some people may object at this time as well. But the marriage that I am announcing, Chaudhry Sahib's intentions and desires are not the driving force behind it, but it is within himself. Perhaps during these days, the idea of a second marriage came to his mind or not, but on the second or third day of his wife's death, it occurred to me that Chaudhry Sahib's biggest duty is the upbringing of his deceased wife's children, one of whom is as old as the days that have passed since the wife's death because she died a few days after giving birth. Another child is two years old, and the rest are older than that. Therefore, I thought that Chaudhry Sahib should, by suppressing his emotions, quickly remarry and I have been thinking about this since that day, that if there is a suitable opportunity, action should be taken so that the upbringing and prosperity of the children can be ensured. Now, Chaudhry Sahib has shown readiness for marriage. I felt the need to explain this sermon because people generally object to why the marriage happened so quickly. In this way, they speculate about the love and relationships of the husband with his deceased wife. There is no doubt that there are also people who are selfish and do not care about their deceased wives, but sometimes it happens that a man, by sacrificing and truly sacrificing himself, prepares himself for another marriage. He desires to prolong the moments of his grief but for the sake of the children left behind, for whom the upbringing and care are his duty, he has to arrange for another person to come into the house who would strive to keep the household prosperous. Since the habit of reflecting on reality is not prevalent in our country, and this whole result is due to this fact.
They have also arranged marriages for their nieces in another community and for their two daughters, not in the Mughal community, and they are also not intending for the third daughter to marry into the Mughal community. I announce the marriage of Mirza Sahib's daughter, Saadiqah Begum, with a dowry of one thousand rupees from Chaudhry Fath Muhammad Sahib Sial. (Al-Fazl Newspaper, January 10, 1928, Page 9)
(Delivered on March 14, 1928)
On March 14, 1928, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of respected Sufi Ghulam Muhammad Sahib BA's former missionary, Marishus, with Saani Fatimah Begum Sahiba for five hundred rupees:
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"One of the most important questions in the world today is about the relationship between women and men. On one side, let's take the light that emerged in Arabia over thirteen hundred years ago and tried to create this thought and idea in human minds that a woman is also a human being. And on the other side, look at the customs and traditions of millions, even billions of years, where it was believed that a woman could never have equal rights to a man. A woman was created solely for the service of man, and even after the emergence of natural or unnatural differences between man and woman, it is the duty of the woman to stick to his name. For a while, that light that did not bring about the change in human thoughts that it wanted, but slowly and gradually continued its work until the idea that did not go beneath the surface of hearts began to take place in human hearts. The question of the rights of women and men arose during the time of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), but at that time, human minds and thoughts were not capable of understanding its wisdom, so it was merely understood as a command and its reality was not understood. Just like a child calls his mother 'mother' even if she is bitter, the mother is called 'mother.'
The Quran addresses men regarding women, "And due to the wives is similar to what is expected of them, according to what is reasonable." This small sentence was profound in its consequences. Against this, there were centuries-old customs and traditions. At each step, they were halted, but the denial of this truth could not be done because when Allah Almighty raised this voice, human customs and traditions came against it, but no one could stop it. Those thoughts whose importance was not immediately apparent, these voices were among those voices that were related to the time of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him). Just as the Perfect Man, whom the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) presented to the world, or like the issue of the Finality of Prophethood, which the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) presented in its true form before the world. The term "Seal of the Prophets" was taken by Muslims, but its reality was not understood, that through it, how much superiority the Messenger of Allah achieved. They considered it merely as an address of honor and did not seek the reality. The long concealment of these revelations indicates their importance. That era was a time of bearing the burden of these issues, and now it is the time of their birth, and until reaching maturity, the extent of their revelations is not known. The issue of the relationship between men and women is an extremely important issue that required thirteen centuries to bear, and now it has taken a form that the world is astonished at what will happen next. Now, women have realized that the era of their freedom has arrived. Men who considered women as servants or slaves and who took all kinds of services from their wives for their honor are astonished at how our lives will now unfold. The life of Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, is hidden from their view, and before them is the same feeling that they have inherited and they are astonished at what will happen now. A change has occurred in Europe, and there, men are moving from their place, and women are moving from their place, which is why both have been shaken from their positions and are standing
Pain always arises. Comfort will be attained only when the rights of men and women as prescribed by Islam are considered. It saddens me that those who brought this voice of Islam are the ones lagging behind in acting upon it. The question of women's freedom has emerged among others, but the wrong treatment of it has not yet dawned upon Muslims. They say it is a shameless act if a widow or divorced woman remarries. It seems as if they believe a woman is worse than an animal. An animal can be sold to another, meaning it can move from one hand to another, but a woman, once separated from one husband, cannot go to another. But when an idea is born, it grows and progresses, so the life of women who are bound by the thoughts of men is still a few days left. The same things are emerging among Muslim women that are present in other communities. But it is unfortunate that instead of seeking the remedy from the Holy Quran, they are adopting the European way, hence the same restlessness that exists in Europe is also emerging among them. It will be difficult to confront the customs and traditions by acting upon the Holy Quran, but its outcome will be good. A revolution regarding the rights of women and men is emerging in the world, but it is necessary that this change be according to the Quran. If the rights of women as prescribed in the Holy Quran are not given, they will demand and take the rights of Europe. And there, the situation is such that women only take the name of men so that they can associate themselves with it, so that no one calls them vagabonds. Therefore, for a good outcome, it is necessary that the rights of women, including widows and divorced women, be granted the permission to marry. And these are just the initial rights from which women have been deprived so far. I have seen that when a widow remarries, the whole house turns into a place of mourning, and expressions of sympathy are shown with her family, considering them oppressed, as if a woman has no rights in their eyes. At this time, I announce the marriage of Sufi Ghulam Muhammad Sahib's former missionary, Marishus, with Saani Fatimah Begum for five hundred rupees. (Al-Baqarah: 229 - Al-Fazl, April 1928, Page 807)
(Delivered on September 14, 1928)
On September 14, 1928, after the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of respected Mian Abdul Salam Sahib, son of Hazrat Khalifa Al-Masih I, with Sa'idah Begum Sahiba for one thousand rupees:
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"Allah Almighty has created human nature in such a way that for the completion of their tasks, they need other things. In fact, human nature is not just that everything needs another for its completion, but everything is created in such a way that it needs another for its completion. The sun needs the planets for its light to spread in the world, the eye needs the light that shows it, the ear needs the air that brings the sound, the tongue needs taste for the expression of its powers. In essence, it is a common marriage that is seen in the world and whose denial no one can make grand. Besides this, there is another marriage that is unique, just as almonds come out of their shells, and if they are joined, they can become one, but if two other pairs are joined, they can never unite. Similarly, in souls, such a connection has been established that even if the pairs are joined, they can become one. The search for these pairs is higher than human power, which is free from error in the eternal and perfect knowledge of Allah.
Angels and the prophets of God are aware of unseen connections that exist between a man and a woman, between a man and another man, and between women as well. At times, people pass away from this world claiming they couldn't find their match, lamenting the lack of loyalty in the world. This statement is erroneous. In reality, they couldn't accept their destined match. They can say they didn't find loyalty in the world, but they cannot claim that loyalty doesn't exist in the world. The truth is that they couldn't find the match that was created for them. We see loyalty existing even among thieves and robbers; sometimes a thief sacrifices his life to save his partner. A rebel hangs for the sake of another. If loyalty didn't exist in the world, why do we witness such scenes? So, we cannot say loyalty doesn't exist in the world; we can only say we were unsuccessful in finding our match. They complain about not finding a good spouse, which is also a misconception. They didn't find their match and ended up with a servant created for them by Allah Almighty. Just as two almonds cannot fit into each other's shells, similarly, they cannot fit into each other's souls. They endure pain because they are unable to fit together. Similarly, many husbands complain about not finding a good wife, although a good wife can be found in the world. But they remain unsuccessful in finding their match and end up with someone who is, in reality, someone else's match. Just as one person's shoe cannot fit another person's foot, similarly, the pair created by God cannot fit anywhere else. Therefore, finding the right match is essential for a peaceful life in the world, and paradise is named after this connection. Regarding this, Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) received revelations that allude to this connection. In one revelation, Allah Almighty says, "I will bring your match to you after searching for it, and you and your match will dwell in paradise and live a peaceful life." This is the work of Allah Almighty to unite a person with their match. Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I used to say, "You are the noble of Tunis."
One day, someone asked a mystic, "Why do you keep wandering?" He replied, "I am searching for my prey. Finally, one day, he saw a young man, caught him, and said, 'I was searching for you.' Allah Almighty must have shown him in a dream that this man is your match. So, when he saw him, he caught him, and then he became his spiritual guide. This is why the disciple of Allah comes to him and does not deviate from his guide. They run towards self-made guides. They run away when the trial comes to them. The pair created by Allah is always correct, and when the trial comes, they separate. The pair is the thing that establishes paradise in the world. Allah Almighty says in the Quran, "So that you may find peace with them." People say they couldn't find comfort and peace, which indicates they didn't find the right match. But where the fact is that the right pair is brought together by Allah Almighty, there are also some people to whom Allah Almighty gives a kind of creativity. Just as a carpenter corrects and fixes the misfit pieces of wood, similarly, some people are given the spiritual power and insight by Allah to correct and make a suitable pair for themselves. This is the best creation that the prophets find their pairs. Since the prophets always soar towards heights, they also create pairs among people by instilling bird-like qualities in them. Initially, Allah indeed searches for their pairs, but when the time of the influx comes, they themselves prepare their pairs. Certainly, there are also some wicked ones upon whom Allah Almighty imposes a seal that they cannot become a pair, but such people are very few. So, the establishment of true peace and comfort is dependent on whether a person finds their match. And if they don't find it, there will be only corruption. Whether it is through marriage, spiritual discipleship, or friendship, it is based on the fact that a person finds their match. And if they don't find it, there will only be unrest. Some kings...
People have passed in this world, labeled as oppressors, but those who came later, upon reading their circumstances, said that their deeds were good, and they were unjustly slain. It became apparent that those who were not found by the people had actually come into existence much earlier. Allah Almighty knows best where their match is. Sometimes a husband belongs to one region and a wife to another, but there is such love between them that people envy. The world also becomes dissatisfied with them, and they also quarrel with others, but the pair that is made cannot be separated by anything in the world, and this is the pair that God has brought together. For the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), Allah Almighty searched for pairs. Regarding Hazrat Aisha, Allah Almighty showed her that this is your match. It is known from the incidents related to Hazrat Khadijah that the match was sought by Allah Almighty. Where desires and others do not meet, but the situations are such that going to trade for Khadijah and receiving a marriage proposal from her, and then despite being fifteen years older, accepting it, shows that the right pair was found. Then Hazrat Safiyyah expressed that in childhood, she had seen in a dream that the moon was in her lap, and when she told her father, he slapped her on the face, asking if she wanted to marry the king of Arabia. Then Hazrat Aisha became a widow in her youth, and in such a situation, women are generally angry with their husbands for why they married at this age, but in the beautiful river of the world, the face of the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) is visible, from which it became clear that the pair was well matched. Indeed, Allah Almighty brings together the pairs. Therefore, seeking guidance from Allah Almighty is necessary to find the right pair and make good arrangements. The Holy Quran states, "Perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you, and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you." Many things appear good outwardly but are not good in the sight of God. Similarly, things may not seem good outwardly, but in reality, they are very beneficial. Therefore, a person should entrust themselves to God.
Whatever Allah gives will be good because what He will give will be good. Always entrust your affairs to Allah Almighty to find the real pair. And when the pair is found, all kinds of comfort are achieved, and paradise is attained. Paradise, in reality, is of two types: one worldly and one hereafter. The hereafter paradise is only attainable by Muslims, but the worldly paradise can be enjoyed by non-Muslims as well. So, a believer should leave their matters to Allah Almighty and should minimize their desires. (Al-Fazl, October 26, 1928, Page 1009)
From Al-Fazl, September 6, 1928, Page 70. Fourth Edition
Surah Ar-Rum: 22
Surah Al-Baqarah: 217
(Delivered on January 16, 1929)
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"The matter of marriage is closely related to human nature. Perhaps the more distant the worldly affairs are from human life, the more they are entrusted to people, and the more closely related they are, the more people prefer to keep them in their hands. A cloth lasts not just for six months, not a year, not two years, not three years, not four years, but five years and then tears. But parents will allow and even prefer that boys and girls choose their own clothes. Although their choice does not determine the course of their lives. Whatever the purpose of the cloth, whether it is to cover shame, it will be fulfilled. If it is to protect from cold, it will also be fulfilled. Even if the eyes do not find it pleasing and joy does not arise in the heart, but they say let the girl and boy choose for themselves, but the thing in which their preference and satisfaction without purpose cannot be fulfilled is not allowed, and that is the matter of marriage."
If a boy and a girl do not match each other's temperament and do not like each other, their relationships do not prosper, and their entire lives are ruined. Sometimes, marriages occur in certain families just because parents had agreed in childhood that a boy would marry a girl, and they fulfill that agreement. When such agreements are made, neither the boy nor the girl are conscious, and sometimes, a boy or a girl is not even born, but efforts are made to fulfill the agreement, even though it is not a conscious decision. Do parents live until the marriage of a boy and a girl, or do they live long enough after the marriage that the impact of whether their relationship is good or bad affects them? Those upon whom this agreement is to be made, i.e., the boy and the girl, are not even asked. It is very strange that things that do not have a significant impact on life are left to choice, but those that have a profound impact are not left to choice. This is a great folly. Islam has granted freedom to boys and girls in marriage, but alongside this, a peculiar thing has been established that whether a boy or a girl, they should marry with the consent of their parents. If they marry without consent, parents have the authority to give them a divorce, and the boy should implement it. Yes, he is bound to seek advice from his parents, but if the parents stop him without indicating any flaw or danger, he can marry. Yes, it is the wisdom that parents look at this relationship from a different perspective, and the boy and girl look at it from a different perspective. In front of the boy, there are beauty, emotions, desires, and other matters. But in the parents' view, the boy's comfort and benefit are considered. Therefore, the Shariah has placed the requirement of seeking advice from parents in this matter so that useful aspects are presented to them that they could not perceive due to their emotions, but if they find it beneficial for themselves, then the parents' advice should be followed.
One can also marry without consent. In the case of a girl, Islamic law has granted parents the right of veto. This means if a girl wishes to marry someone, and the parents do not consider it suitable, they can refuse, but this right is limited to two refusals. If they refuse a third time, the girl has the right to seek a verdict that her parents are obstructing her marriage for their own benefits or purposes. If the judge sees this as correct, he can allow the girl to marry, even if she chooses to marry at the same place where her parents had initially objected. This would be a valid marriage. Similarly, Islamic law has emphasized that marriage should be done after careful consideration, whether it is a man or a woman. Therefore, Allah says, "And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow." It is not said to look at what the relatives think or to leave the decision in their hands. So, both boys and girls should take marriage matters seriously, a right granted to them by Islam, even if these discussions are just dreams for now, and interpretations of these dreams will come in the future. However, it is our duty to pay attention to them, whether that time comes soon or late. (Al-Fazl, January 1929, Page 9)
This sermon on marriage was delivered by Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II at the residence of Chaudhry Muhammad Zafrullah Khan during his visit to Lahore. (Al-Fazl, January 1939)
Surah Al-Hashr: 19
(Delivered on December 1929)
In December 1929, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II conducted the marriage ceremony of Sheikh Dr. Ahmad Sahib, son of Sheikh Yaqub Ali Sahib, with Bilqis Begum, daughter of Babu Feroz Ali Sahib. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"My nature does not allow me to deliver long sermons on this occasion, but there is one thing that cannot be left out on this occasion. Allah Almighty states in the Holy Quran, 'It may be that you dislike a thing while it is good for you, and it may be that you love a thing while it is bad for you.' For believers and disbelievers, every help is provided by Him. I paid attention to this verse on this occasion because I became aware of several proposals regarding Babu Feroz Ali Sahib's daughter, and some of them I informed him about. Many of them were good, but Babu Sahib said that since I have come to Qadian, I wish my daughter to be married in Qadian. Perhaps they had excuses and reasons, but they made it clear to me. It was this month when one day the thought came to me that Babu Sahib desires his daughter's marriage to take place in Qadian. One of their daughters is already married to Sheikh Mahmood Ahmad Sahib. Why not have the other daughter married to their younger brother? But then I forgot this thought. When the thought came back, my intention was to find out the consent of the two parties regarding this relationship, but then I forgot. Within 10-15 days...
Some thoughts emerge in such a way that their existence comes under the plan of Allah Almighty. It is not doubtful that in divine connections, the foundation of many things is spiritual rather than material, but many people, due to not understanding this, stumble and fall. Sometimes a person faces difficulties and falls into various troubles, but one who maintains a spiritual connection finds a way out of those difficulties sooner or later. Allah has established various means for His works, some of which are worldly, and some are related to the hereafter. If a person places themselves at the door of Allah Almighty and does not move until their difficulties are resolved, then it is said that through apparent hardships and trials, a path will eventually open up for them. In this relationship where a proposal has been made, Allah Almighty creates a more comfortable and peaceful situation in the future. However, considering the current circumstances, the relationships that seemed more suitable were those that were based on employment and received reasonable wages. But I understand that the fruit of Babu Sahib's love for Qadian was that they kept rejecting proposals, but since they had decided to have the relationship in Qadian, this relationship was accepted. One of Babu Sahib's daughters had already been engaged in the same family, so there were relations between both families, the girl was in front of them, and the boy as well. But regarding the proposal of the relationship, Allah Almighty made them wait for some time, and then it happened. Although this is a common occurrence, a very significant lesson is learned from it, that when someone intends with sincerity and love, not laziness and negligence, they can strive, but they do not act relying on Allah Almighty and say that if they seek from God, then God will fulfill their wish, whether it's today, tomorrow, the day after, or the day after that, He will fulfill their desire.
A believer should also choose a color in their actions just as a person has to eat various foods for physical development. They consume meat, vegetables, fruits, and dry fruits, and thus the body develops. Similarly, Allah Almighty has devised some worldly measures for spiritual development, some for religious, and some for the hereafter. So, whatever a believer does in religion and worldly affairs, these three aspects are included. For example, when a person wants to do a worldly task, they take practical measures. These are worldly measures. Then they intend, "If I benefit from this, I will serve in the cause of religion." This becomes a religious aspect, and then they pray, "This will happen tomorrow." So, these three aspects are included in every work. Similarly, when someone plans for the future, they also plan within that circle. So, these three aspects are included in every task, but in some tasks, the worldly aspect is dominant, in some the religious, and in some the hereafter. For a believer, it becomes a great blessing that they manifest these three colors prominently, meaning they should do tasks where the worldly aspect is predominant. They should also do tasks where the religious aspect is emphasized and tasks where the reward of the hereafter is significant. Thus, their spiritual body becomes complete, which cannot be achieved by choosing only the worldly, religious, or hereafter aspect. When all three aspects are chosen, the spiritual body becomes complete. (Al-Fazl, December 1929, Page 7)
Surah Bani Isra'il: 21
(Delivered on January 16, 1930)
On January 12, 1930, after the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced a marriage. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"Although I cannot speak well due to a severe cough, it is essential to say something on this occasion because marriage, being one of the most important and worldly matters, cannot be overlooked. It surprises me that despite the importance of marriage, attention is not paid to it according to the prescribed rules of Allah Almighty, and instead, it is left to personal connections and psychological desires to conclude it. Our Shariah has prescribed ways to conclude not only marriage but every matter in such a manner that if a person acts upon them, they can avoid all kinds of troubles. In the Holy Quran, Allah Almighty mentions 'the path of those upon whom You have bestowed favor, not of those who have evoked [Your] anger or of those who are astray.' This indicates that even after finding the right path, a person can still go astray. Similarly, it is entirely possible that a person's marriage may initially bring blessings but later become a cause of sorrow or calamity. However, it is still necessary to ensure that the foundation is correct. In this world, we see some children born very healthy and remain in good health for a while, but later deteriorate. Similarly, some children are born sick and remain ill for some time, but then...
However, later their health improves significantly, and they become robust and healthy. But the general rule should always be followed, exceptions are not considered. Sometimes we see that strong young people die immediately, and the chronically ill live a long life. Those who are more cautious always remain ill, and those who are not cautious remain healthy. Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) used to say that a funeral arrived, and at that time, the plague was common. Upon seeing the funeral, a young man with excellent health remarked, "People are overly cautious and fall ill. I only eat one bread, so I have no fear of the plague." But this is an exception. The general rule is that those who are cautious suffer very few illnesses and live a good natural life, and a person who walks on a path takes the next step on the same path. Similarly, it is also a general rule that if a person marries according to Islam, generally the outcome is good. Although it is also possible that after marrying according to Islam, some flaw may arise later, or a marriage whose foundation was faulty may be rectified later. But these are exceptions, just as sometimes sick people become healthy, and healthy people die. So, it is the duty of a Muslim to try to walk on the right path. In marriage matters, Islam has introduced Istikhara, and Istikhara should be done to the extent that the heart leans towards one side and then continue to pray even after that because the possibility of joining the favored and the lost remains even after joining the path of those upon whom You have bestowed favor. Therefore, one should continue to pray until the known day arrives. It is proven by Hadith that for a believer, there is a known day when their spiritual resurrection occurs, and Satan does not have control over them. But until that day arrives, one should engage in continuous prayers. (Al-Fazl, January 24, 1930, Page 7)
Surah Al-Fatihah: 2
(Delivered on January 29, 1930)
Marriage of Molvi Ali Muhammad to Molvi Fazil's (Ajmeri) daughter Ayesha Begum with a dowry of seven hundred rupees was conducted by Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II on January 29, 1930, after the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"In this world, the extent of trials and disputes arises because if they are pondered upon, the lack of truthful speech is the root cause. In this world, we often see people afflicted with the disease of lying. Then there are those who, although do not lie habitually, under certain circumstances end up speaking falsehood due to their weak nature that blurts out wrong words in moments of fear. This fear also varies in its nature. Some are fearful of incurring losses due to remaining unsuccessful in their purpose, and some are not afraid of losses but fear being led by the hand of benefit. They speak lies in hopes of gaining benefits, and then there are also those who have no hope of any benefit but merely speak lies for the sake of every pleasure, meaning they agree to whatever is lacking in front of them. These people believe in the voice of the world and its opinion, and they do not have the courage to express their personal opinion of truth. And among them, there is no courage to express their personal opinion of truth.
In gatherings, people often express their thoughts openly, even if they feel negative about it. Then there are those who are truthful in their speech, what they say is not necessarily a lie, but there is a difference between truthful and straightforward speech. In Arabic, there is a distinction between straightforward and truthful speech. Other religions only teach to speak the truth, but Islam teaches that your speech should be truthful and straightforward. It is entirely possible that a statement is truthful but not straightforward, but a straightforward statement is always truthful. The meaning of straightforward speech is that it should not contain any deception, and it should not only be true in words but also in hidden thoughts that a person keeps in their heart while speaking. It should not be that what is said is true, but the listener perceives something else and wants to convey a different meaning. This was evident a few years ago in South Africa when the question arose about the rights of Indians there. Some Englishmen said that Indians should go to East Africa. However, later, the English also took control there. When objections were raised, they said, "We told you to go, but you didn't. If you had agreed, we wouldn't have taken control. So, some statements are truthful, but not straightforward. But Islam teaches that one should always be straightforward because many disputes and conflicts arise due to lack of straightforward speech, especially in marital disputes. Some people speak in such a hidden manner that to them, the meaning is clear, but the listener understands differently. Diplomatic words are used to create two interpretations. A boy keeps giving money to his parents, which makes them very happy, but after some time when he wants to claim property, conflicts arise. There is no explanation regarding the money, but the parents do not understand that in terms of children, this money is given as a gift, and when he wants to claim property in return, they refuse, and a conflict begins. The sole reason for this is the lack of straightforward speech if...
When giving or taking money or making decisions, if one expresses their thoughts clearly, then conflicts can be minimized. Based on my experience, many disputes and arguments arise because initially conversations are not held openly and clearly. One person understands one thing, and another understands something else. And when the time of decision-making arrives, the real issue becomes apparent, leading to arguments. However, if both parties communicate clearly, it is possible that some disagreements or minor misunderstandings may arise at the moment, but they will learn forever. When dealing with marriage matters, if all conditions are clearly stated in plain words and complete clarity is maintained without leaving any room for misunderstanding, then the likelihood of future conflicts can be significantly reduced. Even if straightforward speech can be delivered in a gentle manner, the essence of ethics lies in how a person chooses to communicate. The issue of ethics is closely related to humanity. Some matters are related to humanity. Then it becomes necessary to polish the habits and ethics. For example, if someone hits another person, if I were to explain the delicate philosophy of ethics, I would say that this is not humane because this matter is related to humanity that one should not harm others. But when speaking, if etiquette is not observed and the language becomes harsh, then it becomes an ethical issue. So, straightforward speech does not mean that whatever comes to mind is blurted out but it should also be kept within certain limits of ethics. And a person should consider the emotions of others and also see how their words will affect others. If both of these aspects are noted, and straightforward speech is practiced with ethics, then it will not lead to any disputes, and no dissatisfaction will arise. An example can be given as follows: we want to invite a friend, but we say, "Come if you want, if not, it's okay." Now, this is straightforward speech, but it will surely hurt the other person's feelings. If a person always speaks in a way that conveys the same meaning both explicitly and implicitly and presents it in such a way that it does not have a negative impact on others, then such peace can be established that ensures eternal love and affection between individuals. However, keeping something in the heart and doing something else always leads to turmoil. A person adorns their wife with jewelry, and the wife wears it.
However, some time later when he wants to sell it and build a house, a dispute arises. The wife says, "He gave it to me, and I am its owner. He has no right to take it back." But the husband says, "I gave it to her so she could wear it, and I derive pleasure from seeing her adornment. My intention was never to transfer all the jewelry into her ownership. Now both are children, but the dispute is solely due to ambiguous words. If the clarification had been made before time, this outcome would never have occurred. It should be kept in mind that most disputes arise from matters that, even though not lies, have a hidden aspect within them. Therefore, Islam teaches to always speak in a way that leaves no room for doubt and to say not that my statement is true but that you can say my statement is straightforward and contains no twist. (Al-Fazl, February 14, 1930, Page 6)
(Al-Fazl, February 4, 1930, Page 1)
(Delivered on February 2, 1930)
On February 2, 1930, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Mirza Aziz Ahmad with Nasira Begum, daughter of Hazrat Mir Muhammad Ishaq, with a dowry of five thousand rupees in Masjid Aqsa, Qadian. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"In this world, uncertainty and restlessness arise from the pursuit of something that is not attainable. When a person searches for something and it is not within reach, restlessness and uncertainty develop in their heart. However, when something becomes available to a person and is easily attainable, then negligence and laziness set in, and they do not experience restlessness or uncertainty. A Muslim and a non-Muslim differ in this aspect that all religions' followers strive for their respective purposes. A Hindu strives for spiritual reform, a Christian strives for spiritual attainment, a Jew strives to become close to God, but in comparison to a Muslim, there is a difference in their efforts. One is concerned about how they will obtain something, and the other is concerned about what they will obtain. But for a Muslim, the decision has been made thirteen hundred years ago that a certain thing will be obtained, so now the effort lies in how to obtain it. Therefore, the effort for a Muslim is to ensure that the thing is obtained. Hence, the effort remains to acquire the thing. For a Muslim, the decision has already been made thirteen hundred years ago that a certain thing will be obtained, so now the effort lies in how to obtain it. Therefore, the effort for a Muslim is to ensure that the thing is obtained. Hence, the effort remains to acquire the thing. There is a difference between the efforts of a Hindu, a Christian, and a Jew in comparison to a Muslim. One is concerned about how they will obtain something, and the other is concerned about what they will obtain. But for a Muslim, the decision has been made thirteen hundred years ago that a certain thing will be obtained, so now the effort lies in how to obtain it. Therefore, the effort for a Muslim is to ensure that the thing is obtained. Hence, the effort remains to acquire the thing. For a Muslim, the decision has already been made thirteen hundred years ago that a certain thing will be obtained, so now the effort lies in how to obtain it. Therefore, the effort for a Muslim is to ensure that the thing is obtained. Hence, the effort remains to acquire the thing."
A Muslim who understands Islam cannot be uncertain in any way. There is no restlessness or uncertainty in their heart because the search has been completed, and the path has become clear and easy for them to follow. Now their only task is to walk on that path and act upon it. While others may feel restlessness and uncertainty due to being engrossed in initial searches, a Muslim remains content. The name of a believer is synonymous with contentment. Allah Almighty says, "O reassured soul, return to your Lord, well-pleased and pleasing [to Him]" (Quran, Surah Al-Fajr: 27-28). Therefore, when a person brings Islam correctly and chooses to adhere to the obligations of Islam, there is no need for further searching. Muhammad (peace be upon him) has already paved the way for all our actions and movements. I mention a significant matter related to this, which is the issue of marriage. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) selected certain verses to guide us on marriage and laid down essential regulations. These verses show a path that, if followed, can lead to a blessed and beneficial marriage. We do not need to search for a way to make marriage blessed; we simply need to act upon this path. It is possible that...
Someone may know the path but does not walk on it. It is also possible that they walk but are hindered. It is even possible that there is no hindrance, but there is no strength to walk on it. All these scenarios are possible, but the first difficulty and the first effort are to know the correct path. Regarding marriage, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) derived from the Quran and stated in this verse:
"O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul and created from it its mate and dispersed from both of them many men and women. And fear Allah, through whom you ask one another, and the wombs. Indeed Allah is ever, over you, an Observer" (Quran, Surah An-Nisa: 1).
In the name of Allah, when you read at the time of eating, it means that I start eating in the name of Allah. When you read the Quran, it is considered reading the Quran. Similarly, when you read at the time of marriage, it means that we want success and blessings in marriage. The best way to achieve success and blessings in marriage is to fear your Lord who created you. This Lord and Nurturer can be a means of salvation and success for you. Why do you not make Him a means of salvation and success who created you? Many times, things necessary for life exist, but the needy person is unaware of them. Like a person who goes to someone's house as a guest but is unaware of their needs.
How to fulfill necessities. The means to find comfort is that one should inquire from the homeowner about the necessities or if one goes to a hotel, they should inquire from the hotel staff. If someone is at the railway station, they should inquire from the station staff because the one who initiates a task should be asked where the things related to it can be obtained. "Fear your Lord, who created you" means that there may be things that you are unaware of, but it is not possible that your needs are not met and the means to fulfill them are not provided. Fear your Lord who created you. Why do you not make Him a means of salvation and success who created you? Many times, things necessary for life exist, but the needy person is unaware of them. Like a person who goes to someone's house as a guest but is unaware of their needs.
"Your Lord is He who created you from one soul" - He created you from one soul. Here it was not emphasized that the beginning of man was from one or two, or a thousand. This is not related to science or religion. Science tells how man was created, and religion tells for what purpose he was created. So when it is said here that "He created you from one soul," it does not mean that Allah wants to draw attention to the fact that man was created from one person but rather He wants to draw attention to the fact that a common measure is found in all human beings because the things that come from one will be found in all. If a grain of barley yields a thousand grains, the taste will be the same in all. Similarly, in different types of grains, there will be differences in size and effects. But still, they will have something in common. And when we say a certain type of seed, it means that...
There is a difference in morals, habits, and abilities among humans, yet there is a commonality and a union of a certain kind where all humans share. "He created you from one soul" points towards this commonality. Furthermore, "and created from it its mate" directs attention to the fact that to make life successful and peaceful, there is a need to unite with others. Completion cannot be achieved without a union as Allah Almighty has also said that everything is paired. Therefore, it is necessary for a pair to have some differences and distinctions so that one complements the other. When one lacks, the other has surplus, and where one has surplus, the other lacks. It is this union that completes. That is why Allah created various types of men and similarly created women of various kinds. However, human capabilities are so limited that a person cannot find the right match through their intellect alone. Sometimes, a person becomes more focused on external appearances, wealth, and status while searching for a partner, neglecting ethics and refined habits. This often leads to deception. In Europe, such incidents are frequent where a stranger stays in a hotel in a luxurious manner. By deceiving through appearances, a woman falls into his trap and suffers severe consequences. Since a woman is usually dependent, she falls into the trap after being deceived by appearances. But generally, parents search for a relationship for their daughter, so they take precautions regarding matters that could later become a cause of calamity for the girl. Allah Almighty says, "We have created every soul in pairs, and no soul is there for which a mate has not been created." The Sufis have written that souls keep searching for their pairs, and when they find the pair, they find solace. The Sufis were experts in spiritual knowledge, so they expressed this reality about the soul. Nowadays...
Psychologists believe that when a marriage is successful, it is because it is a proper match. Conversely, when a marriage fails, it is because it is not the right match. People form relationships due to temporary passion and desire. This is a common experience in Europe where they say that when love develops between two people, a kind of spiritual connection is established. However, both parties begin to feel that they cannot remain united due to their mistake. True unity is established when the right match is found. The purpose of Allah Almighty creating pairs for everyone cannot be understood by human intellect alone. There is only one means, and that is to "Fear your Lord, who created you." Pray that you find the right match. Inspirational pairs are extremely blessed. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) saw in a dream that he would marry Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her). Apparently, there was a point of contention as a marriage proposal was made for a young man with an older woman, and it could be understood that there would be no blessing in it. Nowadays, the entire responsibility of a successful marriage is said to lie in the fact that it is recommended not to marry a young girl to an older man. The Shar'ah Act has set the condition that the girl must be young so that when she becomes mature, she can refuse to marry an older man. However, all marriages where there is no unpleasant age difference, where they occurred in youth, where wealth, comfort, and all the amenities of life were available, was there any among them that could be compared to the marriage of Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) and the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him)? Is there any marriage where the love and devotion found between Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) and the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) were present? Despite the lack of age difference in their choices, and the love they had for each other from the beginning, the marriages did not have blessings. However, the marriage of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) and Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) had such blessings that no one else could attain. Therefore, Allah Almighty showed in the dream of His Messenger to remove his thoughts and to help him in his purpose by showing the right match, and then the world saw how...
The love and virtues that existed between the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) and Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) were due to their goodness, righteousness, and piety, not merely based on outward appearances. Once Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) had a headache, and the Prophet (peace be upon him) expressed his love by saying that if she were to pass away due to this headache, he would seek forgiveness for her. In response, Hazrat Aisha also expressed her love by saying, "Do you wish me to die? If a woman dies, another can take her place." The Prophet (peace be upon him) replied, "No, I am troubled by this headache and wish to appoint Abu Bakr as a guardian." Reflect on the fact that at the time of the Prophet's (peace be upon him) passing, Hazrat Aisha was 19 or 21 years old. This age is considered youthful for a woman to marry in Europe. At that time, Hazrat Aisha became a widow. A woman who knows that she has married someone close to death and then realizes that she will have to spend her entire life with him can feel endless resentment and hatred. This could lead not only to marrying at an older age but also to a marriage where the woman cannot remarry. This could have caused boundless animosity and hatred in her heart. Look at Hindu women who, due to being prevented from remarrying by their families and relatives, develop so much animosity that they leave behind their homes and everything to marry Muslims. When you look at Hazrat Aisha, you realize that she spent her entire life in remembrance of the Prophet (peace be upon him) and in love for him. It is narrated that she never ate anything good without remembering the Prophet (peace be upon him) and shedding tears from her eyes. Once, when she started eating bread, tears began to flow from her eyes. When asked why, she replied, "Tears came because the thought crossed my mind that during the time of the Prophet (peace be upon him), this type of bread was not available."
In the past, we did not have the luxury of cutting coats to make bread and serving the same bread to the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him). Today, if you were alive, we would serve you such bread. It is as if Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) was a source of delight in her remaining life, and that delight was mentioning the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him). Throughout her life, she desired to sacrifice for the comfort and pleasure of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him). Similarly, a blessed couple was chosen for Hazrat Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) by Allah the Almighty. Prior to their marriage, an indication of the blessed nature of this union was given through revelation. The news of the blessedness of this family was revealed, and then it was said, "Enter, you and your wives, Paradise." This was an indication towards the success of this marriage. It was mentioned that just as Adam was expelled from Paradise after marriage, similarly, for you, Paradise awaits. However, this expulsion of Adam was not a punishment but rather a means of delight. I vividly remember that at that time, it felt unpleasant, but now, through my increased knowledge, it brings joy. At that time, I was very young, but it was Allah's grace that despite my lack of attention towards reading and learning, there was complete faith and belief in Hazrat Promised Messiah (peace be upon him). If at that time, Hazrat Amma Jan (may Allah be pleased with her) had done something that did not befit the status of Hazrat Promised Messiah (peace be upon him), I would not have seen their relationship as that of husband and wife, but rather as that of a spiritual guide and disciple. Even then, I did not ask for anything from Hazrat Promised Messiah (peace be upon him). Hazrat Amma Jan took care of all my needs. Despite that, if something was said by Hazrat Amma Jan, it would trouble me. For example, if there was a mention of any blessing from Allah, Hazrat Amma Jan would say, "This blessing came down upon my arrival." I heard this sentence at least seven to eight times from Hazrat Amma Jan's mouth, and whenever I heard it, it troubled me. I used to consider it a disrespect towards Hazrat Promised Messiah (peace be upon him). But now, it is understood correctly, and even Hazrat Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) used to derive pleasure from this sentence because the blessing was under the same revelation that stated, "Enter, you and your wives, Paradise" - Adam was expelled from Paradise after marriage, but the people of that time...
Marriage has been made the cause of paradise. Therefore, after marriage, the series of your mission continued. Allah Almighty made grand prophecies and brought light to the world through you, and thus your paradise expanded. The reason for this difference is that the first Adam was chosen only in physical terms, but the Adam chosen now is also spiritual. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "Souls are like conscripted soldiers; those whom they recognize, they get along with." When such souls unite, their pairs are blessed. Therefore, a believer should trust and rely on Allah and not depend on their own opinion. Who knows that what they consider good is actually bad, and what seems bad to them is actually good. Today, my attention is drawn to this sermon because I want to tell you about a couple chosen by Allah. The announcement of their marriage was made when the boy and girl are related to those families that Allah had chosen. What poet has said, "Enter, you and your wives, Paradise." It is not about being taken out from there but rather being taken out from there is an honor. If a statue removed from the Kaaba can take pride in its relation to the Kaaba, then surely one removed from there has the right to take pride, and when the relation is coincidental, the boy is related to the family to whom Allah called Adam, and the girl is related to the family to whom Allah appointed Eve. Therefore, considering them a blessed pair, we should have hope in Allah that He will bless this marriage. He will grant this couple a life of paradise. At the time of the announcement of the marriage of Mirza Aziz Ahmad, who is the daughter of Mir Muhammad Ishaq Sahib, I stand here. Mirza Aziz Ahmad Sahib rarely visited Qadian, and when he did, he met very few people. Not that he did not meet me, but he met very few people from the rest of the community except for his few close friends. However, all the people of the community are aware of him, and they believe that he will bless this marriage. And He will grant this couple a life of paradise. At the time of the announcement of the marriage of Mirza Aziz Ahmad, who is the daughter of Mir Muhammad Ishaq Sahib, I stand here. Mirza Aziz Ahmad Sahib rarely visited Qadian, and when he did, he met very few people. Not that he did not meet me, but he met very few people from the rest of the community except for his few close friends. However, all the people of the community are aware of him, and they believe that he will bless this marriage. And He will grant this couple a life of paradise.
They are the grandchildren, and they have achieved a distinction. When our elder brother Mirza Sultan Ahmad Sahib did not get the opportunity to express his thoughts about the series, he took the oath at that time. Although there was a lot of involvement of teachers in his oath at that time, and I was also involved. Through me, the message of his oath was also sent to Hazrat Promised Messiah (peace be upon him), and I vividly remember that Hazrat Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) was very pleased to hear about his oath. Hazrat Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) had a lot of love for his mother. When there was a lot of opposition in the family and the coming and going was restricted, Hazrat Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) used to say that the mother of Aziz Ahmad comes many times and cries that people have created such a division in the family that we cannot even meet each other. It is a two-headed family that the whole Qadian is aware of. Qadian is aware of Mir Sahib as well, but I have mentioned it so that they correct this flaw. I hope that friends will pray for the blessings of this marriage. I announce the marriage with a dowry of five thousand rupees. Al-Fazl, March 7, 1930, pages 8 to 11.
Al-Fazl: February 1930, page.
Al-Fajr: 3528
Surah An-Nisa: 2
Musnad Ahmad bin Fadil, Volume 6, page 228
Randi Abuab Al-Zuhd, Chapter: What Came in the Living of the Prophet and His Family
Tadhkirah, page 70, 4th Edition
Sahih Bukhari, Book of the Beginning of Creation, Chapter: The Souls are like Recruits
Delivered on 9th March 1930
After the Asr prayer on March 9, 1930, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Molvi Ghulam Muhammad Khan Sahib, a senior teacher at Government High School Khuroor Pakka, District Multan, with Umme Al-Aziz Begum, daughter of Qazi Abdul Rahim Bhatti Qadian, with a dowry of two thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the sermon, he said:
The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has brought about a change in the world, which Allah Almighty has expressed in these words: "O you who have believed, respond to Allah and to the Messenger when he calls you to that which gives you life." This means that you came to the world for life. There is a life that comes from Allah. A person has no choice in it. He cannot give that life without Allah's permission. Some ignorant people take the permission of Allah to hide their polytheism and to conceal their idolatry, but it is far from the dignity of Allah to grant this life to someone else. So, it can also be said that Allah can make a son, daughter, or wife for Himself with His permission. But just as we do not consider these things permissible, it is also impermissible for Him to give His attributes to someone else, which would imply a division in His unity. Therefore, He cannot give that life to anyone else. However, there is another life that a human can give to non-humans. A poet in his student's poetry...
When a poet composes a verse, it captivates the understanding and enlivens the expressions. The connoisseurs immediately recognize the change in structure and the vigor in metaphors. So, when they say, "He infused life into the verse," it means that the mundane became meaningful and purposeful. When we say, "The teacher breathed life into that particular poem," it implies that the poem did not previously touch the depths of our hearts and did not stir the strings of our minds, but now, upon hearing it, a movement is born within us. This is the essence of infusing life into the verse, making it engaging, and leading the mind into new realms of thought. Similarly, Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, also brought life to everything that was either meaningless or given meaning, thus infusing it with vitality. The world takes on a new light when Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, intervenes, and upon his touch, it seems as if life has been infused into it. Take any worldly matter that Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, entered or touched, and you will see that upon his touch, it appears as if life has been breathed into it. Take the example of charity and almsgiving; people used to give charity and alms even before, but it did not seem to have life in it. It was only a means for the poor to receive help. However, when Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, intervened, life was infused into it. He revealed that every person's earnings include a share for others. No individual can earn alone. Everything in the world is for all humans. The land under my control is not just for me but was created for all of humanity. It was not that I, out of pity for the poor, would give something to them as an act of kindness upon seeing their poverty, but my possession of the land was predetermined since eternity for the entire human race. What if in some circumstances...
A few moments passed, and the land came under my possession. If I bought it from someone, where did the right of the seller come from? If they had also bought it from someone else, where did the right of that seller come from? And in this way, searching, one will find a possessor who acquired it empty and beautifully. But proving the non-ownership of others is impossible. This administrative aspect prevents us from intervening while accepting the current division; otherwise, God Almighty has created everything for everyone. Understanding this point, Hazrat A brought life into charity and almsgiving. Thus, those words that commanded you to take charity and alms - "خُذْ مِنْ اَمْوَالِهِمْ صَدَقَةً تُطَهِّرُهُمْ وَ ُتزَكِّيهِمُ بِهَا" - take charity from them and thus purify them. This purification means that their wealth includes a share for others, and they were accused of consuming the share of others. Therefore, by collecting a portion as a religious tax from them and giving it to those who do not have, their wealth is purified. This sermon is about marriage, so I cannot elaborate on this topic; I will just give an example of marriage. In Hindu weddings, a few rounds are taken. What a meaningless and dead tradition it is. Similarly, in Christian weddings, a ring is given or the woman is called to serve the man forever. In this, the rights of women have been trampled upon. But Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, brought life into marriage. Apparently, if a man and a woman like each other, there remains no fear regarding living together, but the Noble Messenger of Allah placed a necessary announcement at the time of marriage, which included the recitation of specific verses and the preaching of the responsibilities of the husband and wife. It was made clear to the man and woman that by accepting these conditions, you are entering into a covenant, and you cannot be free from these conditions because they are natural. No person can make a pledge that they will not eat but cannot be free from hunger as the stomach will demand food regardless, and by verbally accepting not to eat, a person will not escape hunger. Therefore, no person can be free from natural responsibilities, so the limitation of these relationships has been set.
These are the natural conditions that you must adhere to in any case. Apart from these conditions, consider the conditions and agreements suitable for yourselves. Lower or raise the dowry, but consider the mutual living conditions suitable for the marriage agreement. However, the conditions mentioned in these verses that must be recited at the time of marriage are essential, and you cannot be free from them in any way. I cannot elaborate on them at this time as they have been explained many times before. At this moment, I only draw attention to the fact that our community members are well aware of them. Responsibilities have been placed on both the man and the woman in these verses, and if they are neglected, then just like other marriages, an Islamic marriage will also become lifeless. The common Muslims have made it lifeless. They recite these verses first and then a Persian sermon that neither the one reciting the marriage nor the boy or girl or their relatives can understand. When our dear one got married, the Molvi Sahib said, "I accept." They knew some Persian. They said, "I accept." Molvi Sahib said, "No, say it! I accept." They said, "Molvi Sahib, this marriage is mine, not yours." But Molvi Sahib said, "If you don't say this, the marriage will not be valid." Look at what a lifeless thing has been created. Similarly, they strangled prayer, fasting, pilgrimage, and almsgiving. But the favor of Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, and his era's appointed one is that he then showed his Christianity and by expressing the glory of "By the permission of Allah," he once again infused life into us. The ignorant say that "By the permission of Allah" means reviving the dead, while the mention of giving life in the Quran is what Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, gave to the world and what all the other prophets continued to give in their times. And such life-giving was also done by Prophet Jesus, peace be upon him, but there is a difference that all other prophets' giving of life was limited to birds and animals only. Certainly, they brought life and awakening, but it was in a way that the reality was not known. A dog follows its owner, but it is not aware of its reality. It walks behind its owner like a bird flies, but it is not aware of its truth. A dog walks behind its owner, but it is not aware of its truth. It walks behind its owner like a bird flies, but it is not aware of its truth.
Animals cannot comprehend realities and knowledge. However, humans understand the purpose of their actions. Certainly, the prophets brought life, but they were not fully aware of the reality. The Noble Prophet (peace be upon him) bestowed life upon humanity, surpassing even the life of birds. If even after this life-giving, the members of our community remain lifeless, what a place of regret it would be. Therefore, contemplate every truth and strive to internalize it. If not, the coming of the Messiah's era is equivalent to not coming for you. Hence, if we understand that Islam can benefit from the Messiah's advent, it is essential to drink from the cup that descended through the Messiah.
Al-Fazl, March 25, 1930, page 76
Al-Fajr: March 25, 1930, page 2
Surah At-Tawbah: 103
Delivered on March 22, 1930, after the Asr prayer
After the recitation of the sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said, "The boy standing here for the announcement of his marriage, even though he is not present here, his parents are present, so they should advise their son that along with Islamic marriage, some responsibilities also fall on a person, and until they accept and act upon them, the Islamic marriage becomes void in a way. Only by adhering to the conditions that Islam sets for marriage, which make it a branch of one's faith and lineage, can marriage be considered a part of Islam; otherwise, like in other religions, marriages take place among non-Muslims and used to happen before Islam. If Islam had not mentioned anything extra, then there would have been no need for Muslims to differentiate themselves from others in marriage matters. Just like Hindus or Christians, their marriages could have taken place. But Islam, by giving Islamic marriage a distinct form, has shown that there is a difference between it and the marriages of other religions, and that difference lies in the responsibilities that Islam has placed on the boy and the girl. The distinction between the two cannot be determined by external factors.
Al-Fazl, April 1, 1930, page 6
Delivered on March 23, 1930, after the Asr prayer
On March 23, 1930, after the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II, while announcing a marriage, stated the following:
There are certain responsibilities attached to humans that even if one wishes to avoid, they cannot. Essentially, Allah Almighty has created humans in a way that they are compelled to turn to others. Other animals can live solitary lives, but if a human desires to be human, they cannot remain alone. It is undeniable that people try to avoid the obligations imposed on them by Allah. However, their situation is similar to someone trying to beautify their bad actions. Europeans, despite acknowledging the harms of alcohol, praise its evils. Their doctors present twenty reasons against consuming pork, yet they still say that they cannot avoid it due to Europe's climate. So, every individual tries to beautify their ugly actions, and those who wish to avoid their responsibilities also say that they separate themselves from the world for the sake of divine worship. And in this context...
Although one may think or feel upon the publication of the sermon that "The nights are long," separating from the world for worship does not accuse the cowardice or fleeing from the battlefield. Otherwise, the objection would also be directed towards the Noble Messenger, peace be upon him, but such a statement would be mere ignorance and foolishness. To separate oneself from the world and abandon responsibilities, sitting in a corner of solitude, is one thing, and sometimes performing worship and fulfilling human responsibilities is another. The Noble Prophet, peace be upon him, did not completely separate from the world; he spent some days in the Cave of Hira and some in Mecca. So, when the divine revelation descended upon him, and he reached the agitated home, Hazrat Khadijah, may Allah be pleased with her, consoled him with these words:
"Nay! By Allah, Allah will never disgrace you. Indeed, you acquire the lost and bear the burden and help the destitute."
It means that you continue to uphold these virtues. Those who have been lost to the world, you inform them. You are hospitable to strangers. Therefore, Allah Almighty will not disgrace you. The mention of those days that you spent with them. It was not said that you used to entertain guests and inform strangers at that time, etc. Rather, it was said that now you do, which indicates that you used to fulfill your responsibilities even in worship days. Yes, you would separate for a few days to worship, to gain knowledge through the worship of Allah, and then, by generating new strength and power within yourself, engage in serving the creation. It seems that your separation was to take up your responsibilities more seriously and not to avoid them. The example of this is like a soldier who practices and exercises during leisure times to be able to confront the enemy with more strength. This is not to avoid responsibilities but to take them upon oneself. So, the objection on the Noble Prophet, peace be upon him, that he had completely separated from the world...
Humans cannot escape these responsibilities because Allah has created them in a way that their completion depends on fulfilling these responsibilities. If one avoids them, it is disliked in Islam. Other religions have deemed it permissible, but the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "There is no monasticism in Islam," and the Quran states, "They invented it themselves." Islam has eradicated this innovation and emphasized that living together is necessary for humans. The first step is the husband and wife, the second is children, and this series continues to expand. The verse recited at the time of marriage beautifully explains that these relationships are essential for maintaining humanity. If people consider that all are descendants of one man, how close can relatives become? "O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul and created from it its mate and dispersed from both of them many men and women. And fear Allah, through whom you ask one another, and the wombs. Indeed Allah is ever, over you, an Observer." This verse implies that through relationships, humans attain piety. Piety has various forms. An example of the lowest form of piety related to relationships is found in the time of Hazrat Umar. Once, there was a severe drought, and people asked Hazrat Umar's wife to pray. She prayed, and in this way, a means of acceptance was created. By this means, people also become a source of salvation. Through relationships, humans attain piety instead of becoming a cause of punishment and turmoil. If people maintain the thought that we all descend from one man and uphold relationships, then conflicts and separations would not arise, and different nations would not form. If everyone maintains...
In the past, the whole world used to be considered one family. When a tribe from Afghanistan migrated to India, the Afghans improved the situation. If this memory was retained, both countries would have maintained familial ties, respected each other, and even now, if the world focused on fostering relationships instead of division, the world would soon unite in familial bonds. There is a famous anecdote that a resident of Meerut went to the Deputy Commissioner and said, "I am a close relative of a prominent person, so arrange my employment." He was asked, "What relationship do you have with him?" He replied, "Very close." And when he was further questioned, he said, "I am a close relative of my wife's aunt's brother." Even today, the need for fostering relationships is emphasized, and people, instead of uniting others, continue to separate their own. The principle is still beneficial for the English. Therefore, when a storm of opposition arose from Hindus towards the English a few days ago, Mr. Baldwin spoke in Parliament, stating that we and the Hindus are from the same lineage, so why should we be enemies to them. Those who benefit from such principles still benefit, but those who do not benefit treat these matters as a joke. The distinction between the two groups could not be determined.
Al-Fazl, April 1, 1930, page 706
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Delivered on April 1, 1930
On April 1, 1930, after the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of respected Muhammad Faqirullah Khan, the Inspector of Schools, with the blessed lady Begum, daughter of Dr. Zafar Hasan, with a dowry of one thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
Human needs and necessities surround them from all sides, as if every moment and every hour, they are being directed towards their real Owner and Creator. But despite this, even though the needs for turning towards Allah Almighty are presented the most to humans, if any being rebels against Allah, then it is a human. Except for humans, there is no being that claims to be Allah or denies the existence of Allah. Humans are the only beings who sometimes claim their divinity and sometimes do not proclaim it, but by participating in divine powers with the whole world throughout the day, they only eliminate the being that truly deserves divinity and acknowledge the powers of Allah in everything else. It seems that they have to acknowledge someone as Allah. Therefore, whoever denies Allah distributes His powers throughout the world. Such a person believes that a man cannot live without a woman, and a woman cannot live without a man. Similarly, he also believes...
Without food, without drink, without air, without water, without stars, without land, without seas, without mountains, the world cannot exist. But only that existence which cannot exist without it is said to be non-existent. It acknowledges God and establishes godliness but in reality assigns the place of divinity to something else. What does it mean to acknowledge God? It means the existence that cannot be without which the world cannot exist. Every human acknowledges such powers. But the difference between one who acknowledges God and one who denies Him is that the denier denies the existence of the true entity and attributes it to other things. He says he can survive without certain things. But if observed closely, everything indicates that they are in need of something. And that something. The chain of needs is so extensive that it becomes hidden from sight but the need remains. So when every thing's need is apparent, saying that there is no existence behind it that sustains it is a fallacy. Marriage is also one of these needs without which a person cannot survive. Men say to women that they do not need them, and women say to men that they do not need them, but this is a false statement that results from deception, egotism, and arrogance. When the Creator has established the need of men for women and women for men, when the Creator who created everything has split one thing into separate pieces and placed them in different places, and they move towards each other so that when they unite, who can then say that men do not need women or women do not need men. It is like the example of a man and a woman, like the example of magnets. When they come in front of each other, one cannot say that they do not need each other. They are naturally drawn towards each other. This is the situation of men and women, not just men and women but all those things...
Humans and food are in a marital relationship. Humans and air are a pair, humans and water are a pair, humans and light are a pair. The meaning of a pair is two things that, when combined, form a complete existence. Food is for humans and humans are for food, air is for humans and humans are for air, water is for humans and humans are for water. Then everything has its separate pair; steam is for the boiler, the boiler is not affected by steam, but when everything is combined with steam, a result is produced. The purpose is that humans are in need in every direction, right, left, forward, backward, and below, but despite this, it is humans who deny Allah the most. Even a buffalo needs a pair, and a horse too, but less than humans. Their needs are limited to sensual purposes only. But humans need civilization, politics, and religion. Besides humans, nothing needs these things. Similarly, donkeys and horses do not need books, accounts, history, philosophy, or jurisprudence, nor do they need creation or Shariah, but humans need all of these. The purpose is that humans need Allah more than all these things, so they present evidence of acknowledging Allah more because humans are the only beings who can deny Allah. For this reason, Allah has attached more needs to humans because there was material for denial in them, but it is surprising that the more humans need, the more they deny Allah.
A wealthy person becomes a denier of God, a great scholar denies the existence of Allah Almighty, even though
The meaning of being wealthy is being in dire need of others, and the meaning of being a great scholar is having greater need of others.
Among the human needs, one of the responsibilities of marriage is crucial. Male and female animals
also unite, but they do not have the same needs as humans, which are much greater. A pigeon and a female pigeon are together,
but the pigeon is not responsible for the food of the female pigeon. Similarly, the female pigeon is not responsible for the pigeon's shelter and food preparation. It has also been observed that if one pigeon dies, the pigeon does not accept another female pigeon. This indicates that even animals have love and affection, but it does not mean that they have the responsibilities that humans have. The reason is that their marriage is only for the survival of the offspring, but the tasks of humans are so vast and
so widespread that one alone cannot fulfill them in the world. Marriage is also a means of directing towards God, but it becomes a means of distraction from Him. Therefore, when mentioning marriage, the command to maintain prayers was given so that
the same thing that Allah Almighty created to draw humans towards Himself, when humans act in negligence, they distance themselves from Allah. Therefore, humans need civilization, preaching,
advice, and reprimand. If humans ponder over their relationships, they can realize
how much they are in need of others. The love of others, the sympathy of others, and the children's
constant need are essential for them. If someone does not inquire about someone, they regret that they were not asked, even though asking does not reduce their illness, but humanity desires that they sympathize with them. These are all human needs. Similarly, men and women have
needs related to each other, and humans can realize that only one Being is rich and self-sufficient, and
by uniting with Him, they can be free from needs. Look, a wealthy man marries a woman and becomes wealthy, and by marrying a king,
a woman becomes a queen. This relationship of marriage has taught that from the rich, a connection of marriage is formed
By becoming rich, a person can also become a denier of God, and by establishing the bond of marriage, a person can also become a leader. One should not be surprised by this. From a spiritual perspective, humans have a relationship of marriage with Allah Almighty, and from a mystical perspective, humans are the spouse of God. Just as this relationship establishes spirituality in the same way that a man's sperm is the cause of progeny. In the same sense, Sufis have written that it is necessary for a perfect human to have Mary-like qualities, meaning that the person can claim to have directly received grace from Allah Almighty. Here, by directly, I do not mean what Hazrat Messiah Maud (peace be upon him) has stated, but it means that a person should progress in spirituality not by their own virtues but by the grace of Allah Almighty. (Al-Fazl, April 22, 1930, page 706)
(Al-Fazl, May 16, 1930, page 2)
Similarly, Allama Zamakhshari wrote in his commentary Kashaf, Volume 1, page 426 (printed in Lebanon). The meaning is "Every newborn is touched by Satan except Mary and her son... and likewise, every child who has their qualities is saved from Satan." So, every child who possesses the qualities of Mary and her son is saved from Satan.
Delivered on May 2, 1930
On May 2, 1930, after the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Khawaja Ali Sahib Qazi Amir Sahib Mohaddis's daughter, named Bashri Begum Sahiba, with a dowry of one thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
The human nature is always in need, and until a person attains the highest level of perfection, they are always dependent on someone else's care. That's why in the world, as much work is done, caretakers are appointed for the workers of every class. For example, there is a supervisor above the laborers who takes care of them, but looking at the supervisor, no one can say that the person who has been entrusted with the responsibility of overseeing the workers will take care of them, as caretakers are also appointed for the supervisors. Let's take the example of a building. There are laborers for construction, and supervisors are appointed over them. Now, is there no need for the supervision of supervisors? Rather, divisional officers are appointed over them, and then it is not considered that the supervision of the supervisors is sufficient; above them are the executive engineers, and for supervision, there is a chief engineer. This is the case of other departments as well. In the revenue department, there are clerks, and above them are inspectors, and then deputy commissioners...
Even a graduate, a graduate, a revenue officer, a deputy commissioner, a commissioner, a governor, and then a governor-general are not considered self-sufficient. It is not thought that they are self-caring. There is no need for their care because
it is inherent in human nature that they can take care of others well but become negligent in their own care. And this is a clear proof that a human needs a guardian who is perfect in their own right and not accountable to anyone. If a person can manage care without such a guardian, then there was no need to appoint so many guardians. It could have been sufficient to appoint one guardian. But doubts persist that perhaps appointing that person as a guardian may not be appropriate, so it is necessary to appoint another guardian. And this doubt is just like saying that one makes an intention for prayer and then doubts arise. Maybe the intention was not made correctly. For an Ahmadi, this matter is not more time-consuming than a hobby because their intention becomes correct after pledging allegiance. But for others,
doubts persist whether the intention was made or not. Their intention is not made by conscious thought like every believer's but it is made under a specific habit and they express it in specific words. That is, when someone makes the intention for the obligatory prayer, "I intend to pray behind this Imam," they feel that people are standing in front of them. Perhaps the intention was not made correctly, so he moves to the next row. Then he says in the same way, but the thought arises and people are still standing. Maybe the intention was not correct. He moves to the front row and points with his finger saying, "I intend to pray behind this Imam." But then the thought arises that maybe the gesture was not correct and his finger has bent, so he touches the back of the Imam's head saying, then he thinks maybe my hand did not touch correctly. Then he hits forcefully until the hitting starts. We criticize that person and say he was crazy. Although the reality is that this madness
is evident in every action of ours. We appoint a guardian for every task, to the extent that our confusion is exhausted and we do not close the agreement with other guardians not because we do not understand their need but because we cannot appoint them, and this impulse is proof of the need for a perfect guardian who is self-sufficient
A person who is in need of care, upon whom the stars do not shine, and whose qualities continue for the benefit of others. This human nature is a witness to the existence of Allah Almighty. Yes, when a person colors themselves in the colors of the Almighty, to some extent, they also achieve perfection, and for such people, the term "witness" is used in the Holy Quran. It means they become caretakers and true witnesses. They do not become caretakers like everyone else and are not accountable to anyone. Therefore, Allah Almighty has stated in the Holy Quran, "And We did not send any messenger except to be obeyed by the permission of Allah." They are not sent as messengers to obey someone but to create obedience. They are manifestations of the attributes of Allah, so there is no need for them to be caretakers. They work like machines from Allah Almighty. They do not work for the sake of being seen by Allah Almighty but work under the notion that Allah Almighty has created them for this purpose. They are called "mubashshir" and they understand that Allah Almighty has created them for the guidance of creation. Their actions are a thanksgiving for the blessings. The Holy Prophet (PBUH) said, "O Messenger of Allah! Have not all your past and future sins been forgiven, then why do you strive so hard in worship?" He replied, "Should I not be a thankful servant?" So, a Prophet and a Messenger are perfect witnesses or guardians. And then descending below the Prophets and Messengers, the best care is self-reflection. A person can be negligent in the protection and care of others' wealth but cannot be negligent in the protection of their own money. Their personal interests force them to take full care of their rights and pay full attention to them. Allah Almighty says, "And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow." Keep accounting for your soul and keep feeling your responsibilities. A person should never be negligent of self-reflection. It is a pity that some friends of our community, according to the saying "Sumer is a witness,"
Let's assume that while other members of the community are working, our duty is also being fulfilled or that the Khalifa is present and will work himself, although this assumption is incorrect. It is the duty of every individual to feel their responsibilities and never be negligent in self-accountability. The best way possible is for a person to continuously carry out the self-assessment of their own soul and the best care is self-reflection. Or then there are the personalities of the prophets who instill in people such a level of capability through their fresh signs that the power of self-accountability is automatically generated within them and by witnessing the fresh revelations of Allah, they develop such strength in faith that cannot be achieved through the preaching, advice, or sermons of others. It is relatively easy to acquire this strength during the time of the prophets, but after the demise of the prophets, humans need to strive much harder. When Hazrat Amr bin Aas was close to death, he cried profusely. His son said, "You have served Islam greatly, and Allah will surely reward you. Then what is the reason for crying?" He replied, "There was a time when I was extremely opposed to the Holy Prophet (PBUH) and had such animosity and hatred towards him that no one was more enraged against him on the face of the earth than me, and I never liked to look at your face. But when Allah opened my eyes and I embraced faith, my love for you increased so much that due to awe and reverence, I could not see your face as if throughout my life, I had never seen your face to my heart's content. Initially, due to enmity and hatred, and then due to love and affection, I could not see. Until your demise, and if someone had asked me about your blessed features, I could not have described them. Only at that moment, if I had passed away, it would have been good because now, due to distance and time, it is not known to what extent we have erred. Shah, this is the condition of those people who benefited from the company of the Holy Prophet, then what will be the condition of those who were born later, lived on, and spent their lives after the appearance of those individuals.
That they should create within themselves the successors of the Prophet and act upon the divine guidance of "And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow." The world worships stone idols, even though there is no divine guidance for them from Allah Almighty. Then how regretful it will be that despite Allah Almighty providing us with a living accountability, we did not benefit from it, even though this is the very thing that can keep a person on the right path and is essential for human salvation. There is a great need for accountability in married life. On the other hand, to draw attention, this verse is recited on such occasions, as I have mentioned. (Al-Fazl, May 9, 1930, page 645)
(Al-Fazl, May 6, 1930, page 1)
It is narrated in Sahih Bukhari, Book of Interpretation, under the chapter "Allah forgives what has preceded of your sins and what will follow," the words of this Hadith are: "Should I not then be a thankful servant?" (Al-Hashr: 19) It is also narrated in Sahih Muslim, Book of Faith, under the chapter "Islam destroys what came before it," and also about pilgrimage and migration.
(Delivered on May 12, 1930)
On May 12, 1930, the marriage of Prince Muhammad Azam, son of Hakim Muhammad Hussain Sahib Qureshi of Lahore, with Aziz-un-Nisa Begum took place, who was a former servant of Hazrat Messiah Promised (peace be upon him) Seth Muhammad Ghous Sahib residing in Hyderabad.
After the recitation of the sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
Whatever matter is attributed to Allah Almighty and whatever He decrees, every part and aspect of it is a sign of Allah Almighty. Those people to whom Allah Almighty has granted spiritual eyes, they see signs everywhere, but some signs remain hidden and do not manifest in a way that everyone can benefit from them. And those who strive to reach the truth can indeed benefit from them. People whose vision is apparent, they can benefit from the laws of nature, but Allah Almighty, after mentioning various worldly matters in the Holy Quran, has stated, "Indeed in that are signs for those of vision." So, one should not just sit by observing the apparent rules because in mountains, in seas, in rivers, those who walk
In ships, one can see the signs of Allah Almighty in everything. Those who strive to reach the truth ponder on what benefits the rivers bring, why a wooden ship floats on water, what benefits mountains, seas, humans, and all creations bring, and why they were created before humans. Reflecting on these matters, one understands that every particle in the universe is a sign. When every aspect of the material world carries a sign within itself, why do spiritual aspects not show signs that can be beneficial to everyone? If the material sun, moon, seas, mountains, wood, iron, earth, and sky are all signs, then how significant will be the spiritual earth, sky, spiritual moon, sun, and more significant signs be? However, not everyone's vision is broad enough, and not everyone can perceive the truth. Just as the wealth of the material world cannot be gathered in one hand, so is the state of spiritual wealth. Even the greatest kings of the world are not owners of all things; they are owners of some and caretakers of others. People are owners of their homes, lands, and wells. This is the state of spiritual sciences; no human, no matter how great, can be the owner of all spiritual wealth. Hazrat Messiah Promised (peace be upon him) said that there are some prophecies in the Holy Quran that were not even revealed to the Holy Prophet (PBUH). Some ignorant people consider this as disrespect and blasphemy, which is wrong. The proof of this can be found by reflecting on the worldly and spiritual realms together. Just as a worldly king can be the owner of some things but beyond that, ownership is in ownership, but still, the king remains the owner because when he is the owner of all the subjects, he will also be the owner of their possessions. The purpose is direct ownership and ownership with possession. Ownership with possession is obtained by the one in whose account it is recorded, and he has the right to buy and sell concerning it. The land of India belongs to the government, but despite that, the English cannot take their lands from the Indians. Although the king
From the perspective of ownership, they are the owners. Similarly, in terms of spirituality, it is a chain. In terms of kingship, all spiritual wealth belongs to the era's Prophet, but according to the circumstances of the future, the part that is administered by someone becomes their ownership. For example, if someone interprets a particular verse of the Holy Quran differently or explains a new meaning of a Hadith, we cannot say that these meanings were also clear to the Holy Prophet (PBUH). You are the true owner of all realities and knowledge, and through your grace, others benefit from these blessings. The signs that come from Allah are divided into different categories, which are essentially related to the prophets, but those who believe in them, their children, relatives, and wives, all become signs related to them from the perspective of kingship, but in terms of administration, they are attributed to the person to whom they are assigned. The purpose is that just as every particle in the world signifies something, similarly, every individual who is connected to the commands of Allah becomes a sign, and I firmly believe that even the weakest Ahmadi, let alone a hypocritical Ahmadi or a more deviant Ahmadi, is not someone who does not bear the mark of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him). Because what is touched by fire once, even if separated later, still retains its effect for a while. In this same context, I see the marriages of the Ahmadiyya community as a sign of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him). People have made an example that, although it may be for derogatory purposes, in the time of the Prophet, it becomes a sign. They say, "The brick of one place, the mortar of another, and the wall built in yet another place." Blood relationships are a magnificent thing that makes a person willing to sacrifice everything for them. But when such a spirit is born during the time of the prophets, nations, countries, morals, civilization, unity, relationships, language, and so on, all boundaries are broken, and people from different places come together. Some people are amazed while others marvel at the unity. They do not see the apparent thing that they have said. "Our Lord, we have heard a caller calling to faith, 'Believe in your Lord,' and we have believed. Our Lord, forgive us our sins and remove from us our misdeeds and cause us to die with the righteous."
They all gather in the "no" of Chanda Menoo and then form relationships. The Almighty Allah's decree, the likes of which cannot be found, and they live with each other with great love and affection. The marriage of a European woman with an Indian noble is understood, and Europeans also do not prefer marriage with Indian women. But in our community, this distinction is not there. Then neither does a Punjabi consider an Indian inferior nor does an Indian Punjabi consider a Punjabi inferior; there is only this connection that they have united to this extent, and hence a relationship is established. The relationships in our community are also a sign and proof of the truthfulness of Hazrat Messiah Promised (peace be upon him). A staunch opponent came to Hazrat Messiah Promised (peace be upon him) during his time and jokingly said, "You should mark me." Hazrat replied, "You are the mark of my truthfulness. When someone who did not even know me and Qadian came to me, Allah Almighty informed me that people will come to you from far and you have come to me, so you are my sign. In fact, attention is drawn only by being in the colors of opposition by the grace of Allah. Molvi Yar Muhammad always writes to me why you do not pay attention to me, and neither do you write anything in favor. But the severe opposition to Hazrat Messiah Promised (peace be upon him) happened, and this is also proof of your truthfulness. If a person opens their eyes and looks, every single thing related to them is a sign. I wrote. There, a Molvi Abdul Kareem was a staunch opponent of the chain, but after my departure, he started a special chain of opposition. He started giving regular lectures. In one lecture, he said that Mirza Sahib, when he came to Delhi, I, disguised as an Inspector of Police, went to his place and said, "I want to meet Mirza Sahib immediately." Someone said he is having food at the moment. I said, "I don't care; I am an Inspector of Police and want to meet him immediately." Mirza Sahib heard this and came running barefoot and due to the hurry to descend quickly, his foot slipped and he fell. By recounting this incident, he wanted to
It is quite amusing that this person mocked, saying, "He is a prophet." But it is the amazing wisdom of Allah Almighty that on the same night, he slipped from the roof and fell, and if he had died, he would have reached the end. So, the color in which he mocked became a sign of your truthfulness. Everything related to the messengers of Allah becomes a sign of Allah Almighty, and what is used by enemies to humiliate them becomes a sign of their truthfulness. From this, we can learn that if a person's heart yearns to see a sign of Allah Almighty and to rejuvenate their faith, the way is to establish deep connections with the messengers of the time. After that, a person's own self, their wife, children, their food and drink, sitting and standing, everything becomes a sign. The announcement of the marriage that took place that night is also a sign because the groom is from Hyderabad, Deccan, and the bride is from Lahore. They do not share the same language, customs, civilization, yet they have united in faith, and based on this connection, an apparent relationship is forming. And if one has insight, this is also a sign of the truthfulness of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him). The purpose of the coming of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) was to unite the world, and the first step of this chain is to establish family ties, then progress further to achieve complete unity and harmony in everything. Seth Muhammad Ghous Sahib, who is a sincere and old servant of Hyderabad and often visits Qadian, even though such business people generally cannot come here. His son Muhammad Azam's marriage was arranged with the daughter of Hakim Muhammad Hussain Sahib Qureshi (Lahore), who is also an old acquaintance of Seth Sahib and among the first companions of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him).
(Al-Fazl, May 26, 1930, page 2)
(Loh-e-Mehfooz: 45)
Al-Nur: 4
Al-Zala Ohama Part One, page 207
Ruhani Khazain Volume 3, page 307
(Al-Fazl, May 27, 1930, page 645)
(Al-Umran: 194)
Tazkira, page 20 - Fourth Edition
(Delivered on March 1, 1931)
On March 1, 1931, after the Zuhr prayer in the blessed mosque, Hazrat Taliqua Al-Bai' Al-Thani solemnized the marriage of Hakim Khalil Ahmad Sahib Mongeri with Zubaida Khatoon, daughter of Khan Zulfiqar Ali Khan, for a dowry of two thousand rupees. After the recitation of the sermon, he said:
"I stand here to announce a marriage between Khan Sahib Zulfiqar Ali Khan's daughter, Zubaida Khatoon, and Hakim Khalil Ahmad Sahib Mongeri. Since neither party opposes this union, there is no need for a sermon that draws both parties' attention to their responsibilities. I am announcing this marriage in accordance with the wishes of both families, hoping that this announcement of marriage in the blessed mosque will bring goodness and blessings. The dowry is set at two thousand rupees. Let us pray that Allah Almighty blesses this marriage."
(Al-Fazl, March 17, 1931, page 5)
(Delivered on March 27, 1931)
On March 27, 1931, after standing for the Friday sermon in the blessed mosque, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"Before starting the sermon, I want to announce a marriage. However, I also want to draw the attention of my community towards an issue that even if some customs are removed, they are replaced by others. At the time of marriages, decisions were initially made about how much jewelry and clothing would be provided, then gradually such conditions started appearing in agreements, and then they started being presented before me as well. Shariah has only prescribed a limit, beyond which demanding jewelry and clothing from the girl's side is immodest, and apart from selling the girl, it has no other meaning to me. It is the husband's duty to bring appropriate gifts for his wife, which he deems suitable. Forcing her to accept gifts is like someone grabbing someone by the neck and hitting them on the face, saying, 'Kiss me.' There is no love in such forced actions. Similarly, what gift is it that, by coercion and saying that if these things are not given, the girl will not be given, is not a gift but a ransom that cannot increase love."
(Al-Fazl, March 27, 1931, page 5)
(Delivered on March 1, 1931)
For the future, I announce that if I become aware of any conditions regarding jewelry and clothing for a marriage or if the girl's family has initiated such actions, I will not announce such a marriage. If you have truly accepted Islam and wish to reform yourselves, adopt the correct terminology. On one hand, reaching out with immodesty and on the other side, establishing clarity is not appropriate. Useless customs become chains around the community's necks, dragging them into the pit of disgrace and arrogance. Islam prohibits such actions and teaches moderation. And where one expresses hatred and contempt for those who consider it inappropriate to demand gifts for their daughters because gifts and dowries are means of affection and love, they also look at those who, by coercion, receive gifts and presents with disdain. If it is inappropriate to demand gifts and dowries for weddings and reject them when offered, then it is also inappropriate to force someone to accept gifts. These are both against Sharia. Islam is a moderate community that is commanded to choose a middle path in all matters. A poor man can slowly fulfill his obligations, but he will have to take a loan for jewelry and clothing. If this custom continues, the result will be that either people will be forced to confine girls to their homes, risking their moral decline, or the community's civilization will deteriorate due to borrowing. Who could be more foolish than someone who gives his daughter to a debtor husband, who is consumed day and night by the worry of repaying the debt? What comfort and ease can he provide his wife? The children of such a debtor will also be bent, weak, lacking courage, and perpetually ill. Sharia desires that every person be free, and a debtor is not free. His courage and bravery are not present. When loans are not available elsewhere, one will have to go to Hindus and take usurious loans. Perhaps someone may say that there are wealthy people as well, but Sharia has set a dowry according to their status. The rest of the jewelry and clothing are for love, so the husband will give them according to his own will. Forcing someone does not create love. Without any indication, bring gifts worth ten crores in your happiness, but when it is decided that so much jewelry and clothing must be brought, it becomes a deal that cannot increase love.
Happiness and expansion will not arise, but rather conflict will emerge. Therefore, in the future, such matters should definitely not occur in our community. The first announcement I make now is that if there is any indication from the girl's side regarding jewelry and clothing, I will not announce such a marriage unless I am informed. If this chain is not broken and the custom continues, then I will take further steps to stop it. Keep the dowry according to Sharia and keep it to the extent that it does not burden the husband. After that, leave it to the woman's discretion to accept as a gift whatever she deems appropriate, whether it's jewelry worth hundreds of thousands or not even a penny. If there is love, she will naturally bring something according to her status as a gift. Because the Holy Prophet (PBUH) said, "Affection increases with gifts," and who in this world is so noble that they do not desire love from their spouse. If there is no love between them, how can one expect comfort from someone who is not willing to bring happiness? Such a person is miserly. And if one is forced to spend money on someone who is not willing, they become even more distressed. So, whoever has the means and the desire will bring something, and if there is no desire but the means are there, forcing them to take something is laying the foundation of corruption. Then, those who do not have the means and the desire, and those who do not have wealth, forcing them to take something from each other is foolishness and putting them in trouble. Then, those who have neither the means nor the wealth, making them debtors to each other and causing distress is foolishness. Therefore, whoever has the means and the desire will naturally bring something, and whoever has the means but not the desire should not be forced to take something, as it is the basis of corruption. And whoever does not have the means and the wealth, forcing them to take something from each other is ignorance, as it will not bring comfort to their daughters. The agreement of the two parties could not be established.
(Al-Fazl, April 7, 1931, page 5)
(Delivered on March 29, 1931)
On March 29, 1931, after the Zuhr prayer in the blessed mosque, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced a marriage solemnization. After the recitation of the sermon, he said:
"It is quite amazing that most people in this world, while making noise, appear to lack freedom, and it is understood that they are deprived of their sovereignty, their nation, their group, their society, their school or college, their factory, their business, or their trade by the rule of one person, two, or three, and the rest are deprived of it, and the meaning of freedom is understood as if a person cannot act according to their own will. But if we ponder over the truth and look at the events, it becomes clear that in reality, one person has very little control over another; generally, a person is under the rule of their own self. So, whenever a person is submitting to the rule of another, at that time, they are also obeying and following their own commands, and then the number of matters in which they are obeying, if we consider them against the matters in which they are working according to their own will, is very few. Firstly, a person obeys their own commands, but the number of matters in which they think they are working according to their own will is very few. Firstly, a person obeys their own commands, but the number of matters in which they think they are working according to their own will is very few. When a person is accepting the rule of another, at that time, they are also obeying and following their own commands, and then the number of matters in which they are obeying, if we consider them against the matters in which they are working according to their own will, is very few. Firstly, a person obeys their own commands, but the number of matters in which they think they are working according to their own will is very few."
(Al-Fazl, March 29, 1931, page 5)
Most people in this world, while appearing to obey others, are actually under very limited and narrow obedience. It is understood that they are engaged in tasks that are not under anyone's control. It becomes clear that in reality, obedience and submission to others are very limited; generally, people act according to their own will. When most people are seen to be outside true obedience, they do not experience obedience. If they truly obeyed, they would not consider themselves slaves. True obedience, which is under the command of Allah, cannot make a person a slave. Such obedience leads to freedom, liberty, and guidance towards the right path. Hazrat Ibrahim (AS), who was testified by Allah in the Quran, said, "Aslamtu lirabbi al-'alamin" (I have submitted to the Lord of the worlds). He understood the true meaning of obedience, which leads to guidance, not slavery. Obedience and leadership both come from Allah. "Yudillu man yasha'u wa yahdi man yasha'" (He misleads whom He wills and guides whom He wills) - effort is required, but success is from Allah. Possessions also come from Allah and results are also connected to Him. If a person ponders over this, they will involuntarily say, "Alhamdulillah" (Praise be to Allah), because perfect obedience leads to the perfect Muhammad (PBUH). Since true praise can only be for Allah Almighty, and since true rewards come from Him, true obedience is also His. This is why "Alhamdu lillahi rabbil 'alamin" (Praise be to Allah, Lord of all the worlds) is said, as this leads to the conclusion that "Iyyaka na'budu wa iyyaka nasta'in" (You alone we worship, and You alone we ask for help) - complete servitude cannot be to any entity that cannot provide true guidance. So, true obedience is for the one for whom true praise is due, and that is Allah Almighty.
It is evident that obedience to the prophets, caliphs, and others is also necessary, as Allah Almighty says:
"And whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger has certainly attained a great attainment." (Quran, 33:71)
Thus, in response to praise, Allah has placed servitude, and in response to obedience, He has bestowed success. Complete obedience leads to the perfection of Muhammad (PBUH), and in return, divine blessings continue to descend. People will praise and thank, and Allah's favors will increase. Therefore, true success lies in obedience, and when this obedience is not for Allah, corruption arises because it is directed towards things that do not allow obedience. If a person thinks they are obeying but no results are produced, then understand that true obedience is absent. A wise person gave an example that a girl fell ill, and her mother thought, "I love her dearly," and prayed that if the Angel of Death came to take her soul, it should take hers instead. The mother did not say anything to the girl. One night, the girl's cow got loose in the courtyard. It kept moving around, dipping its head into pots. Its head got stuck in one pot, causing panic. The girl's mother, awakened by the noise, saw a large object and a big pot in front of her daughter's face. Frightened, she thought the Angel of Death had come to take her life. When death became apparent, she, uncontrollably, said, "The Angel of Death is not here; it is the sick girl." Sometimes, a person thinks they love someone immensely, but true love is absent. Similarly, if a person is obeying but feels a lack within, thinking they are heading towards servitude, then either they are not truly obeying or they are obeying Satan. Otherwise, how can it be that Allah's words are not fulfilled? Allah Almighty has said:
"And whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger has certainly attained a great attainment." (Quran, 33:71)
So, whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger achieves great success, and those who achieve success
One who truly obeys never complains. In the context of marriage, the verses chosen by the Holy Prophet (PBUH) also imply that there is obedience in marriage. Men often complain that women do not serve them, and women complain that men oppress and transgress against them. Allah Almighty says, "If you strive for pleasing one another for Allah's sake rather than for your own pleasure, the result will be very pleasing. If a husband obeys his wife and the wife obeys her husband for the sake of Allah, the outcome will be good. There are matters where the husband must obey the wife, and there are matters where the wife must obey the husband. No husband who does not obey his wife, and no wife who does not obey her husband, can claim to be truly loving. Whether they are obeying wrongly or rightly, if they are trying to please each other, obedience is necessary. These verses indicate that for the pleasure of Allah, there should be mutual obedience, and the result will be good. It cannot be that a person works for the pleasure of Allah, follows His commands, and then suffers consequences that destroy them. What is a human being? Allah Almighty is the entity that can destroy the earth and the heavens in a single moment, and no human being is beyond His grasp and control. Once, the king of Iran wrote to his governor in Yemen that he had heard someone in Arabia claiming prophethood, and he ordered that as soon as that person arrives, he should be arrested and sent to him. The governor sent his soldiers, and when they reached the Holy Prophet (PBUH) and mentioned the message from the king of Iran, you said, "Wait, I will respond in the morning." In the morning, you said, "Your God has destroyed my God last night." The governor was astonished to hear this response and said, "Only a brave person can give such a response." In any case, he said, "I will wait and see how this matter unfolds." After a few days...
After the name of Shah Iran, a letter arrived from Gaur Nariman, and upon seeing it, he understood that it contained something significant. Since the deceased king was his father, when he opened the letter, it was from the son of the previous king. In it, he had written, "I have killed my father due to his injustices, and now I am the king in his place. All the officials should acknowledge my authority. It was revealed at that moment that on the same date, the king of Iran was assassinated, the same date that the Holy Prophet (PBUH) had foretold. In the same letter, he also wrote that his father had issued many oppressive decrees, including one regarding an Arab claiming prophethood, which I also annul. From that time, the light of Islam began to spread in the regions of Yemen. So, when a person becomes of God, it is impossible for them to suffer loss. However, temporary losses certainly occur. So, if spouses keep the pleasure of God in mind in their relationships and deal with each other solely for the sake of Allah Almighty, then Allah opens the doors of His mercy for them. But whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger and does not achieve success, let them understand that either Allah's word is false or their soul is false, and what they consider obedience is not obedience. Who can declare God's command as false? Every person will say that it is an error of their soul, otherwise what Allah and His Messenger have decreed is absolutely true. (Al-Fazl, April 1931, page 625)
Knowledge could not be attained by both parties
Surah Al-Imran: 3
Surah Al-Baqarah: 132
Surah Al-Furqan: 75
Surah Al-Baqarah: 125
Surah An-Nahl: 94
Surah Al-Fatihah: 2
Surah Al-Fatihah: 5
Surah Al-Ahzab: 72
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(Delivered on April 8, 1931, at the Blessed Mosque in Qadian)
After the Asr prayer on April 8, 1931, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the solemnization of two marriages. After the recitation of the sermon, he said:
"I want to announce two marriages at this time, but due to a sore throat, I cannot deliver a lengthy sermon. All the points that I have just read in the verses have been elaborated upon, which must be kept in mind. The main purpose of conducting marriages in this blessed mosque, which is the place where Allah's revelation is placed, is to make the marriage a source of goodness and blessings. It is also intended that the people residing in this place, which is the center of a spiritual chain and a place of authority, should pray for Allah to bless the marriages. Therefore, I announce the solemnization of two marriages at this mosque. (Al-Fazl, April 14, 1931, page 6)
The agreement of the two parties could not be established.
(Al-Fazl, Page 352906, Fourth Edition)
(Delivered in 1931)
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"Nowadays, people spend beyond their means on adornments and other decorations, but this does not lead to the desired happiness. Sharia has only prescribed moderation. People have limited cash on hand. A person can fulfill their needs by spending a little, but for adornments and such, they have to borrow from Hindus. Our community is already weak financially, so they should not exceed their capacity in spending. If someone has a lot of money, they can spend as they wish, but one who does not have cash on hand should not turn happiness into sorrow by borrowing. Spending beyond capacity is considered extravagance, and in this way, a person's limbs are cut off. What use is a nose that is cut off, feet that are cut off, and a body that is cut off? Our community is already weak financially, so by continuing these customs, bankruptcy and poverty should not increase. True happiness is the one that leads to actual happiness. Those who become indebted and fall into a state of slavery can never be happy, and when will a girl be happy going to the house of a debtor? The agreement of the two parties could not be established."
(Al-Fazl, June 16, 1931, page 5)
(Delivered on January 29, 1933)
After the Asr prayer on January 29, 1933, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II, despite a hoarse voice, went to the home of Hakim Fazlur Rahman Sahib to solemnize his daughter's marriage. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"Marriage, like any other contract in the world, has a separate status. A person goes to a fruit vendor's shop and buys some fruits. The impact of what is bought and sold finishes within a few hours. Whether the fruit is good or bad, tasty or tasteless, healthy or harmful, its impact is limited. If the question is about pleasure or illness, its effect also vanishes within a short period. If someone buys a piece of cloth, its impact will be more than the fruit. It will take an hour, an hour and a half, two hours to weave that cloth, then the relationship will continue until it is worn and digested. Then, whoever buys a house, the relationship with that house will last for fifty, sixty, a hundred years. But marriage is an act whose impact lasts for a lifetime and is vast. Apparently, it seems that...
A relationship between husband and wife is established, but it is not limited to just the husband and wife; rather, the parents of the husband and wife are also part of this relationship. Their siblings and other relatives are included, and then friends and others are also included. Hazrat Messiah-e-Maud (peace be upon him) used to narrate a story in which the mention is of an animal, but it was presented as an example for advice. It is said that a man had a friendly relationship with a bear. His wife would often praise or scold him for his friendship with the bear. Once, the bear said to his friend, "Hit me on the head with an axe." He said, "How can that be? I consider you my friend." The bear insisted, "No, I say hit me." Eventually, he did as told, and the bear, wounded, left. Some time later, he went to his friend and said, "Look at my wound." It was evident that the wound had healed. The bear said, "See, the wound is gone, but the words your wife said are still the same." This is a story from ancient times when people, out of fear of kings and rulers, used to name things after animals instead of their names. The purpose of marriage also affects friends. There are wives who create discord among friends or bring them together. Then the impact of marriage is felt on the neighborhood. A woman comes to the neighborhood causing everyone to feel uncomfortable, and another comes making everyone happy. Then in terms of children, the effects are extensive. Some children are good, and some are bad, some honor their parents' name, and some bring shame to them. I always think that when Abu Jahl's parents got married, it must have been a grand affair because their family was considered prestigious in terms of lineage. The tenth part of this grand affair would not have happened at the marriage of the parents of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) because his family was esteemed religiously. Worldly-wise, Abu Jahl's family did not have as much impact. At that time, no one knew what the result of Abu Jahl's parents' marriage would be and what the result of the marriage of the parents of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) would be. So, even in the future, marriages have vast effects.
The subject of marriage is as vast as the treaties between religions and governments, but the matters that occur within households, like marriage, cannot be compared to anything else. This is why Sharia has provided guidance on these matters. The means to avoid dangers and attain benefits have been explained. There is not enough time to elaborate on these points in various sermons, and this subject remains evergreen. The Quran has also taken up the same subject, making it boundless and never-ending. This is also a proof of the truthfulness of Islam because it is evident that boundless things can emerge from a boundless source. In any case, Islam has emphasized trust in marriage. Generally, people do not understand its true meaning; they think it means to fear, but its true meaning is that a person reaches a point where they entrust all their affairs to Allah Almighty's hands. Just as Hazrat Messiah-e-Maud (peace be upon him) said, "I entrusted myself to the idol, but my self was destroyed." In this state, a person completely surrenders themselves before Allah Almighty and considers themselves completely dead. Hazrat Messiah-e-Maud (peace be upon him) used to say that even if a person falls in front of an animal, the animal does not attack. Then why would an attack be made in front of Allah Almighty? Falling before Allah Almighty is true piety. When a person reaches this state, Allah Almighty Himself protects them. Hazrat Messiah-e-Maud (peace be upon him) used to say that even if a person falls in front of an animal, the animal does not attack. Then why would an attack be made in front of Allah Almighty? Falling before Allah Almighty is true piety. When a person reaches this state, Allah Almighty Himself protects them. Hazrat Messiah-e-Maud (peace be upon him) used to narrate a story in which the mention is of an animal, but it was presented as an example for advice. It is said that a man had a friendly relationship with a bear. His wife would often praise or scold him for his friendship with the bear. Once, the bear said to his friend, "Hit me on the head with an axe." He said, "How can that be? I consider you my friend." The bear insisted, "No, I say hit me." Eventually, he did as told, and the bear, wounded, left. Some time later, he went to his friend and said, "Look at my wound." It was evident that the wound had healed. The bear said, "See, the wound is gone, but the words your wife said are still the same." This is a story from ancient times when people, out of fear of kings and rulers, used to name things after animals instead of their names. The purpose of marriage also affects friends. There are wives who create discord among friends or bring them together. Then the impact of marriage is felt on the neighborhood. A woman comes to the neighborhood causing everyone to feel uncomfortable, and another comes making everyone happy. Then in terms of children, the effects are extensive. Some children are good, and some are bad, some honor their parents' name, and some bring shame to them. I always think that when Abu Jahl's parents got married, it must have been a grand affair because their family was considered prestigious in terms of lineage. The tenth part of this grand affair would not have happened at the marriage of the parents of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) because his family was esteemed religiously. Worldly-wise, Abu Jahl's family did not have as much impact. At that time, no one knew what the result of Abu Jahl's parents' marriage would be and what the result of the marriage of the parents of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) would be. So, even in the future, marriages have vast effects.
(Delivered on March 28, 1933)
After the Zuhr prayer on March 28, 1933, Chaudhry Fath Muhammad Sahib M.A. read the marriage sermon for the marriage of Chaudhry Noor Muhammad Sahib's daughter, Zainab, with Maulvi Ghulam Rasool Sahib, a deceased resident of Ojla. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"Human actions are akin to a person searching for a lost item in a dark forest, hitting his hand repeatedly in search of his lost item. Every moment he is in danger, not that he might find his lost item, but that a snake, scorpion, or some other venomous creature might bite him, and instead of finding his lost item, he loses his life. Similarly, all human actions retain this essence. Whether the actions are good or bad, it is not only the bad deeds and sins that lead a person towards danger, but sometimes even good deeds lead a person close to the pit of destruction. The Noble Prophet (PBUH) said that a person, while performing good deeds, reaches near Paradise and is about to enter it, but then a shock hits him, and he falls into Hell. Indeed, the Quran states: 'So woe to those who pray [But] who are heedless of their prayer - Those who make show [of their deeds] And withhold [simple assistance].'"
Until human actions are not in accordance with the pleasure and obedience of Allah Almighty, and a person does not attain light from God, they are never capable of certainty and trust. Sometimes, while a person keeps their faith and trust in mind, they think that their actions are not significant, but in the dark corners of their soul, impurity and filth accumulate, which, when stirred, take away all their goodness from one place to another. Similarly, a person who appears to be Satan and shows the most impure existence in terms of actions, hidden in a corner of their heart is a seed of goodness. Sometimes situations that are not in a person's control bring forth that seed, and the thorns of evil and wickedness, which had grown in the heart, wither away, dry up, and the seed of goodness gradually leads them to paradise. Every nation of a Prophet and their companions have such examples. A person from the nation of Hazrat Musa (peace be upon him) is considered so impure that he is told, "Wherever you go, you bring closeness and development from outside." The Divine scribe and close companion of the Holy Prophet (PBUH) is rebuked and scolded for such a thing that a child cannot even bear, but some outsiders come and bring closeness and development. Abu Sufyan and Hind, who spent their entire lives in severe opposition to the Holy Prophet (PBUH), committed such heinous acts that not even an enemy could like them, and mentioning them is also burdensome for humanity. But a goodness hidden in their heart makes them Muslims and not just sincere Muslims, but Muslims who find opportunities for serving the faith, opportunities that elevate them to the highest positions of closeness. So, the thing that leads a person to real salvation and is beyond their knowledge, like a person's physical health is dependent on fine particles, such fine particles that not even a microscope can see. Sometimes when their effects become apparent, people seek treatment, but sometimes the effects are so hidden that even a doctor stumbles upon them...
People become exhausted and unable to do anything. This is the state of spirituality. Some spiritual ailments become apparent and visible, but sometimes they are so hidden that the decision of death is not made until they are revealed. So, what a person's salvation relies on is the help and support of Allah Almighty, who pulls them out of darkness and places them on the tower of light. When a person's actions are so thick and visible, then understanding them is impossible. And sometimes even in ten or fifteen years, some things cannot be understood. Then suddenly becoming aware of them is possible. In women and men, there are such examples where their habits and inclinations are not known until many years later. If someone's help can bring this matter to a conclusion, then it is Allah alone. No one can become Muhammad or a helper except through Allah. This is why the Holy Prophet (PBUH) selected verses for the occasion of marriage that emphasize the importance of piety. I have mentioned many times that piety means seeking refuge and protection. But this does not mean distancing from Allah Almighty; rather, it means creating a shield against great things through Allah Almighty. A believer waits for the meeting with Allah Almighty, not to escape from it. The Quran describes a believer as one who seeks the meeting with Allah, meaning they hope to meet Allah. If the essence of piety is to be preserved, it means to create a shield against evil. One verse that points towards this purpose is recited on this occasion:
"O you who have believed, fear Allah. And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow - and fear Allah. Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what you do." (Quran, Surah Al-Hashr, 59:18)
Then it is said that human actions are burdensome and intricate. Then the consequences within them are something that cannot be understood. And sometimes, even in ten to fifteen years, some things cannot be understood. Then suddenly becoming aware of them is possible. In women and men, there are such examples where their habits and inclinations are not known until many years later. In such a situation, if someone's help can bring this matter to a conclusion, then it is Allah alone. No one can become Muhammad or a helper except through Allah. This is why the Holy Prophet (PBUH) selected verses for the occasion of marriage that emphasize the importance of piety. I have mentioned many times that piety means seeking refuge and protection. But this does not mean distancing from Allah Almighty; rather, it means creating a shield against great things through Allah Almighty. A believer waits for the meeting with Allah Almighty, not to escape from it. Falling before Allah Almighty is true piety. When a person reaches this state, Allah Almighty Himself protects them.
Humans cannot even know their own intentions, so how can they know the consequences of their actions that emerge in the future? Sometimes a child's action in childhood results in consequences after ten, twenty, forty, or fifty years. A child playing hits a stone, and he does not care much. The stone becomes a thorn in his foot after ten, twenty years. He limps for ten to fifteen years. The essence of human actions' consequences emerges so late that even when performing the actions, one cannot comprehend them. Therefore, when Allah Almighty said, "And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow," it was about creating responsibility that is not ordinary. He said, "Fear Allah. Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what you do." You arranged for tomorrow, but because what you can do and what is beyond your reach will also happen. What will be done is known only to Allah. He will protect you from significant consequences. Humans are in dire need of Allah's help in every matter, but in some matters, the need is so apparent that even an ordinary mind can understand it. One of these matters is marriage. Neither does the man know the state of the wife's heart nor does the wife know the state of the man's heart. Therefore, the day of marriage is actually a day of great anxiety and tears. The heart condition of the husband and wife should be like that of the elderly person whom the king appointed as the Chief Hajj. When the news reached their friends, they went to congratulate them on receiving such a significant responsibility, but they saw them sitting in sorrow. They said, "We did not understand the reason for your tears. This is a day of joy for you, not of tears, because you have gained such great honor." They replied, "This honor has been bestowed upon me that I have been given a task that claimants and defendants who come to me will both know what the truth is. But deciding will be my duty. What is unknown to me is like appointing two blind people to show the way. This is...
Marriage is a day of apparent joy, but in reality, it is a time when the husband and wife take steps into the unknown, not knowing where they will be led. Therefore, on the occasion of marriage, remembrance of Allah and seeking His special help and assistance is essential because no one besides Allah can bring about good outcomes. People marry with great happiness and express joy, but their offspring turn out so filthy that they weep throughout their lives. Many good and noble families are ruined. I always ponder how grand the celebration must have been when Abu Jahl's parents got married because they were a wealthy family, so sacrifices were made, celebrations were grand, but who knew that from this marriage would emerge a snake that would bring destruction to the entire family and a being that would remove the veil of curse between parents and the world. The purpose of marriage is known only to Allah Almighty, so seeking His help on this occasion is crucial. (Tirmidhi, Book of Decrees, Chapter: What is Mentioned Regarding Deeds Being Sealed with Their Consequences, Hadith: 5, Surah Al-Fajr: 98, Surah Al-Ankabut: 6, Surah Al-Hashr: 19, April 4, 1933, Page 105)
(Delivered on April 18, 1933)
On April 18, 1933, after the Zuhr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II read the marriage sermon for the marriage of Nasira Begum, daughter of Gurdaspur, with Syed Karam Shah Sahib. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"Humans observe that in their pursuit of success, they often resort to illegitimate means when they do not achieve their goals through permissible ways. Contrary to the beliefs of some religions that worldly progress and comfort are unnecessary, and one should remain in sorrow and suffering, Islam has refuted this notion. Islam states that worldly blessings are also from God's grace, and their attainment is not contrary to goodness. However, Islam also asserts that success is not what a person perceives through their limited and imperfect knowledge. Islam reveals that many situations appear successful to individuals, but in reality, they lead to failure and ruin. True success lies in the outcome being good. Intermediate and immediate success is not real success. After this limitation, Islam says if you understand this well and bring about reform within yourself...
It is our responsibility to ensure the success of a true believer in their purpose. If someone perceives success as intermediate and temporary happiness, then because it is not true success, we cannot support them in it. Just as a wise and noble friend stops their friend from harm through improper actions and if they do not stop, they do not support them themselves. Similarly, Allah Almighty says that desires that bring temporary pleasure but do not lead to good outcomes, we cannot support you in those. Yes, if you desire to achieve true success, to attain eternal happiness, and do not consider intermediate states as your purpose, then not only do we permit it, but we take the responsibility to ensure your success. Towards this, Allah Almighty has indicated in this verse:
"And whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger has certainly attained a great attainment." (Quran, Surah Al-Ahzab, 33:71)
I say your purposes should not be contrary to what Allah and His Messenger have ordained. If they are in accordance, then we do not stop you from seeking worldly pleasures but indeed you have achieved a great success, not ordinary success. This is the difference of Islam from other religions. Some religions have said that human desires without limits are the purpose of human life, but Islam says no. Human desires within limits are good, and for them to be within limits means that those desires which are in accordance with the commands of Allah and His Messenger are good. Then some religions have said that killing human desires, sorrow, and suffering, eating a lot, and ruining oneself are human perfection. Islam says no. The limitation we have set is to fulfill human desires within it and not suppress them is perfection. By doing so, elevation of spirit will be achieved, and our help will be included in it. Islam has proved this point with what dignity and clarity. Look at the time when the Noble Prophet arrived, how much the courage of the Muslims increased and how elevated their intentions became. In initial states, what will Muslims understand about the changes they bring in the world.
It is necessary to make arrangements in one's country that establish peace. These may be grand ideas for prominent individuals, but common people may not even think about them. Then when Allah Almighty granted expansiveness to the Muslims because they were working in accordance with His will, at that time their influence reached Syria and Egypt. At that time, they did not even know what Spain and China were and where they were located. A Muslim who traveled ended up in other countries and then those Muslims settled there and through the propagation of Islam, the number of Muslims increased so much that no part of the world remained where Muslims did not reach. Recent research is also proving that Muslims reached America during the time of Hazrat Umar and due to the deficiency in the means of sea travel, they could not maintain relations with other Muslims and were cut off. Nevertheless, signs of old mosques are found where the English go. It is clear that even in America, Muslims went. The purpose of Allah Almighty for a believer is that such progressions occur that they cannot even imagine them. Allah Almighty has also designated worldly blessings as part of paradise. He says, "And besides these two, there are two paradises." For a believer, there is one paradise in this life and another in the hereafter. And regarding paradise, the Holy Prophet said: "No eye has seen, no ear has heard, and it has not even occurred to a human heart." Therefore, it is necessary to find such progressions that are beyond what their eyes have seen, ears have heard, and hearts have conceived. In this way, they can be similar to paradise. The meeting of such progressions is essential as a result of true faith. These progressions are in the control of Allah Almighty, and these national promises that are fulfilled regarding the Muslims are based on the qualities of the heart that even humans themselves are not aware of. The foundation of these national promises, which are fulfilled concerning the believers, is based on the qualities of the heart that even humans themselves are not aware of. The Holy Prophet mentioned about Hazrat Abu Bakr...
The rank they hold is not due to prayers but because of what is in their hearts that matters. The matter of a believer with Allah Almighty is based on the quality of their heart. A believer should keep in mind the origin of Allah and His Messenger in every task so that they may attain the help of Allah Almighty. (Al-Fadl, April 25, 1933, Page 645)
Surah Al-Ahzab: 73
Related Hadith: Bukhari, Book of the Beginning of Creation, Chapter: What is Mentioned Regarding the Description of Paradise and That It is Created
(Delivered on September 14, 1933)
On September 14, 1933, after the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II read the marriage sermon for the marriage of Fazlur Rahman, son of Maulvi Fazlul Haq, with Hafiza Begum, daughter of Kallanur, with Syed Mahmood Shah Sahib. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"Humans always think about the future, consider the future. Indeed, there are also people in the world who do not think about the future, but it is evident that the majority of people do think about the future. Whether they are Muslims, Hindus, Christians, Sikhs, or anyone, it is clear from observing the nature of human beings that most do not think about the future. In such a situation, merely advising to think about the future is not enough. Generally, when a person is advised to think about the future, they respond that they do think about the future. This is why the Quran Majid has advised about thinking about the future and also said that a person should see what they have planned for the future. Because just planning is not enough. Despite planning for the future, a person faces difficulties and losses. So, a Muslim does not see whether they have thought about the future or not, but they see what they have planned for the future, meaning whether what they have planned for the future can be implemented or not. Some people take care of their health by eating and drinking well instead of accumulating wealth. If they gather money and have thousands of rupees in their homes but neglect their health...
If health is not good, then what use are those rupees? On the other hand, even if health is good and a rupee is spent, people still manage to work. Similarly, people spend money on their children's education, thinking about the future that their children will earn. And when we are not earning, they spend their earnings on their children's education and upbringing instead of just depositing money in the bank. But generally, people think about the future, not realizing that spending on health, educating and raising their children, and investing in the progress of their nation is also thinking about the future. What needs to be considered in this regard is whether what is being planned for the future will come to fruition. A person accumulates lakhs of rupees and buries them in the jungle, not even knowing what purpose they serve. He accumulates money in a bank, and if the bank fails, what will he gain? He spends on educating children but they do not become capable of doing anything or serving their parents. Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I used to narrate a story about a Hindu. He sold all his property to educate his son. At that time, the post of an AC was considered significant, and this post was given to his son. Once his father went to him in such a state that he was sitting on a chair draped with a wet cloth, as was the custom at that time. People used to sit for leisure in open places. Similarly, this Hindu's son was sitting there, and some friends were gathered. His father went there and sat on the chair. Seeing his apparent condition, some were surprised as to who this person was sitting here. When he heard that he had sold his property to educate him, he felt ashamed and said, "This is my father." Hearing this, he got very angry and started saying, "He is not my father; he is my old servant." Hearing this, he got very angry and started saying, "He is not my father; he is my old servant." So much so that human morals can deteriorate to the extent that serving the father becomes separate, attributing oneself to him becomes a matter of shame, and the parents who expect their children to benefit them sometimes even dislike their children being associated with them.
Education does not always bring benefits. Sometimes, even those who seek education are deprived of its benefits. Their minds deteriorate, they go mad, their health deteriorates. The Quran Majid has not said, "Look at what you have prepared for tomorrow" but rather, "Look at what you have prepared for tomorrow." It is a natural thing to prepare something for tomorrow, found in animals, insects, and other creatures. Ants and bees gather food for the future, and other animals also store provisions for the future. So, the question for humans is not whether they have prepared for the future or not, as this is a trivial and ordinary question that is not related to religion. This question is about what and where they have prepared for the future. Hazrat Isa (Jesus) said a wonderful thing, "Gather your wealth where there is no risk of theft." This means, "And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow." If you have gathered something good in a good place, that thing will also be good. Therefore, the real question is where you have gathered it. That thing which poses no risk can be that which is gathered before Allah Almighty. And Allah Almighty says, "We do not wrong people." If a person starts an important task, then along with it, some goodness should also be done. This is the way of the righteous and the prophets. Since humans make mistakes, when they do some good along with a task, that goodness becomes a charm. It is not the charm that is worn around the neck but the charm that Allah Almighty has ordained. Even a disbeliever can do such goodness and still receive its reward. The result of Abu Jahl's good deeds was Akrimah. When Abu Jahl was about to enter hell, Allah Almighty did not like that his good deeds should also go to waste in this world, so He transformed those good deeds into Akrimah and put the bad deeds into hell. So, when a person does a task, some goodness should also be done along with it. Istikhara, meaning seeking goodness, also means that when a person does good, then the angels of Allah Almighty protect his intentions for the task he wants to do. (Al-Fadl, October 3, 1933, Page 65)
Gather your wealth in heaven where neither insects spoil it nor thieves break in and steal. (Matthew Chapter 6, Verse 20, Bible Society of Lahore, 1994)
Surah Al-Hashr: 19
(Delivered on October 19, 1933)
On October 19, 1933, due to illness, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II conducted the marriage sermon for the marriage of Abdul Jalil's son, Mir Hameed Shah Sahib, with Raziya Begum, daughter of Syed Habibullah Shah Sahib. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"The details of marriage as prescribed by Islam are difficult to explain briefly in my current state of health. However, keeping in mind the significance of the marriage I am conducting at this moment, it is related to two families that hold importance both in terms of personal relationships and community ties. I would like to mention the significance of the dear one getting married, who is the son of Mir Hameed Shah Sahib, with very ancient connections to Hazrat Masih Maud (as). The other family has a personal connection with me, meaning that my marriage took place in this family, so despite the difficulty in speaking due to my health issues, I will say something. Besides maintaining the importance in Mir Hameed Shah Sahib's community, his father, Hakim Husamuddin Sahib, had a connection with Hazrat Masih Maud (as) at the time when you, due to repeated demands from your father, got tired and came to Sialkot for employment.
He stayed there for several years in a small job of a scavenger. During those days, he developed relations with Hakim Husamuddin Sahib, and these relations continued until the end. These relations were not only with him but also with his family. After him, Mir Hameed Shah Sahib continued to be counted among special people in the lineage of Hazrat Masih Maud (as). However, the uniqueness of Hakim Husamuddin Sahib is evident from the example that once after an invitation from Hazrat Masih Maud (as), he was taken to Sialkot. Hakim Husamuddin Sahib was very pleased to be invited by you. He arranged for him to stay in a place, but the place where he was accommodated was not satisfactory. When it became known that the roof of his accommodation was not adequate, Hazrat Masih Maud (as) intended to return to Sialkot and at that time, through me, informed the men outside to leave for Qadian the next day. He also mentioned that this place was not suitable because the roof was inadequate. Regarding the place, it is possible to arrange for any place that is liked in the entire city. As for returning, were you here to leave immediately and have my reputation tarnished among the people? He expressed this in such a gentle and polite manner, and with such emphasis, that Hazrat Masih Maud (as) fell completely silent and finally said, "Alright, we won't go." After this, Mir Hameed Shah Sahib showed an excellent example of Ahmadiyyat and remained extremely sincere until the end. In the beginning of the second Khilafat, for some time, he did not pledge allegiance. The purpose of this statement was that those people who were more inclined towards formalities should be brought towards this side, but when they saw that they had exceeded the limit, they themselves felt extreme helplessness and
I have accepted the pledge of allegiance with humility and have established an affectionate relationship with them. Although my connection with their descendants is not based on worldly ties, it is within the grasp of Allah Almighty to grant them the ability to walk in the footsteps of their ancestors. If each of them intends to do something for the service of religion and demonstrates independence in it, it is not unlikely that significant and excellent results will be produced. The question is about intention. I pray to Allah Almighty to grant them success by His grace. At this moment, the announcement of the marriage is between the dear Abdul Jalil's son, Mir Hameed Shah Sahib, with Raziya Begum, daughter of Syed Habibullah Shah Sahib. My friendly relations with Syed Habibullah Shah Sahib date back to childhood, and these relations have always been good, except for a minor disagreement that arose from gratitude and joy. He is currently the superintendent of the jail in Rawalpindi. I have received his approval and have also confirmed the girl. Therefore, I approve this marriage with a dowry of three thousand rupees from dear Raziya Begum. Syed Abdul Jalil Sahib, I also approve this marriage with a dowry of three thousand rupees for you! After the acceptance of the consent, a lengthy prayer was offered. (Al-Fadl, December 24, 1933, Page 5)
(Mentioned on June 11, 1934)
After the Asr prayer on June 11, 1934, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II conducted the marriage sermon for the marriage of Chaudhry Barkat Ali Khan Sahib's daughter, Hamidah Begum, with Muhammad Ismail Sahib's son. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"Due to throat discomfort, I cannot speak much, and I had agreed to announce this marriage myself because in my view, both parties are sincere Ahmadis. Chaudhry Barkat Ali Sahib, whose daughter's marriage is taking place, came to Qadian in childhood, and among the few individuals who work with love, effort, and sincerity, and once they undertake a task, they do not need reminders. One of these individuals was the late Abdul Rahim Sahib Mallir Kotlawi, who was a close companion of mine. Nawab Muhammad Ali Khan Sahib brought two boys to Qadian upon his arrival, and he was one of them. My consistent experience with him has been that whatever task he undertakes, he does it with enthusiasm and dedication, such that even his own work is done by few. Some people become organizers and work diligently in tasks related to marriage or public affairs. Another person who works in this spirit is Sheikh Abdul Rahman Sahib Qadiani. He works with great enthusiasm, independence, and passion in public welfare tasks. While I have not seen Chaudhry Barkat Ali Sahib in public affairs, my personal experience with the tasks he has been assigned has shown me his dedication and
It is not necessary for a king to be a guardian, but it is necessary for a caliph to be a guardian. Similarly, a ruler of the time is a guardian, but does any law or rule permit them to do as they please? A guardian is one who acts according to the rights granted to them by the Sharia, not that they do whatever they wish. A guardian is understood to act within the framework of the Sharia, but in our context, it is understood as doing whatever they wish. Some people are not willing to give women their rights. They consider them like cattle and want to rule over women by force, although even God does not do that. He says, "Say what your conscience dictates." Then God does not punish without completing the argument. Yet, even though He is the Master, why does He not grant women the freedom of conscience? Against this, another dangerous limit is from the side of women. The term "qawwamun" is also under some wisdom. This law is established by God, who is neither male nor female, and no one can accuse Him of bias. Thus, the laws of such an existence can be beneficial. Women are generally biased towards women, and men towards men - but God does not favor either. He is the Creator. He knows the powers He has given to men and has given them the authority to use them. The head of "qawwamun" has some meaning that does not invalidate women's freedom and conscience. For this, women's actions, intentions, and their religion cannot be sacrificed, but "qawwamun" cannot be sacrificed either. Nor can its existence be such that "qawwamun" should be seen. I will explain this with an example. Sharia dictates that a woman should not go out without her husband's permission. But despite this, a man cannot prevent a woman from meeting her parents. If a man does so, it could be a sufficient reason for divorce. Meeting parents is a woman's right, but the determination of time and permission is the man's right. For example, a husband can say not to meet in the evening but in the morning, or send her parents to his house or send her to her parents' house. But just as a man meets his parents, similarly, it is also the right of a woman, except in cases where both parties agree. For example, when there is a fear of corruption or a fear of turmoil. The man separates first. But the woman should not go against the husband's will.
(Delivered on June 29, 1934)
On June 29, 1934, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II conducted the marriage sermon for the marriage of Malik Saeed Ahmad Sahib, son of Malik Maula Bakhsh Sahib, with Syeda Mahmooda Khatoon Sahiba, daughter of Syed Ghulam Hussain Sahib, for a dowry of one thousand rupees. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
Just as every tree thrives in a particular land, so do friendships maintain certain connections with some individuals, and those individuals are so closely tied to those friendships that it cannot be said that they are just friendships, nor can it be said that they are separate from those friendships. There is no doubt that Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was the bearer of the revelation that descended upon him, but Abu Bakr, Umar, Uthman, Ali, and other special companions could not be separated from the Quranic friendships, and the Quran Majid could not be separated from them. The angel who brought Islam from Allah Almighty brought it for the Holy Prophet, but the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) placed it in the vessels of special companions. Just as the Holy Prophet received Islam from Gabriel, the companions received it from the Holy Prophet. Then there were their own ranks which Abu Bakr attained, which others did not. During the time of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), there arose a disagreement between Hazrat Abu Bakr and Hazrat Umar over a matter. The disagreement took the form of a dispute.
I have made a decision and it has become swift. The more accurate statement is that Hazrat Umar became agitated and in his zeal, he raised his hand to strike Hazrat Abu Bakr, not understanding it as an act of violence. Hazrat Abu Bakr, in anger, went to the Holy Prophet's presence. In the meantime, Hazrat Umar also realized that he had made a mistake. If the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) had been displeased, they would have both been upset. He also went to the Holy Prophet's presence and explained the matter. It is mentioned in the traditions that signs of anger appeared on their faces, and you said, "You do not leave me and Abu Bakr." At a time when the whole world was opposing me, he supported me. It is mentioned in the traditions that the Holy Prophet used to say, "O Allah! Keep Abu Bakr with me." The Quran testifies to this relationship with the words "Inna Allaha Ma'ana" (Verily, Allah is with us). This relationship was due to their prior faith. Then, descending from them, other companions like Hazrat Umar, Hazrat Uthman, Hazrat Ali, and others came. They were like the land where Islam's seed was sown and those who came later came at the time when the fruit had ripened. The early ones were those who came when Islam's plant was being sown, and when the whole world was mocking it, it cannot be said that those who came later came to eat the fruit, but they came at a time when the fruit had ripened. This is the condition of the companions of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him). Some people accepted faith at a time when associating with me was dangerous. Such people were like Abu Bakr, Umar, Uthman, and Ali. They presented their hearts so that the seed of Ahmadiyyat could be sown in them, and the plant of Ahmadiyyat could grow. Then people came, but those people cannot be equal to the earlier ones unless they progress so much in righteousness that the burden of their hearts becomes heavier than the worldly burdens after them. Among the early comers was also Syed Qazi Amir Hussain Sahib, who was among those people who, at a time when the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) was explaining the words of the Prophet and the Hadith, used to say that the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) is a Prophet. They used to say this to others and even to the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) himself. Initially, they came to Qadian for seven rupees a month, now they do not even get that salary. Their nature was very quick; they would get angry quickly. In front of Khalifatul Masih I, the expression of anger also
They would start giving the call to prayer, but they always remained polite in front of Hazrat Masih Maud (as). I remember a humorous incident. There was an Afghan immigrant here who used to call the prayer in the mosque. His voice was loud. One day, the judge called him to sit with him out of affection. He said, "I thought they were rewarding me for something, but after sitting with them, he said, 'Look, when you call the prayer, Allah and His angels curse you.' Even today, there are such muezzins in both our mosques that they cannot be called muezzins. The muezzin of this mosque gives the call to prayer as if someone sitting in a corner is speaking. Giving the call to prayer is a great act of reward, and great men used to give the call to prayer. Hazrat Umar used to say if I were not the Caliph, I would give the call to prayer. Here, Molvi Abdul Karim Sahib also used to give the call to prayer. We were enthusiastic. Some individuals used to give the call to prayer with great zeal, to the extent that sometimes if one had given the call to prayer, the other would also do so. Sometimes, three calls to prayer would be made for the prayer in this mosque. I remember Molvi Abdul Karim Sahib was scolded once. I have seen Molvi Abdul Karim Sahib and even the first Caliph giving the call to prayer. Now it is understood that the call to prayer should also be given where trees and other things are to be cut. The call to prayer is not heard by some shopkeepers. At the time of Fajr when people are still in a state of sleep, such a call to prayer does not make sense. Although I sleep nearby, sometimes I also wake up with difficulty. I think if Qazi Amir Hussain Sahib were alive at this time, how many curses such a muezzin would receive. Qazi Sahib had zeal, but when he realized his mistake, he would suppress it. Once during my Khilafat, the school boys beat his son. He came knocking loudly at my door at night. I came out and asked, "Qazi Sahib, is everything okay?" He said, "Yes, if Brother Abdul Rahim Sahib were not here, the headmaster would have beaten my son completely." I said, "After all, where is that boy and in what condition?" He said, "My son was not here, he ran away." I said, "Well, at least he wasn't beaten to death. The one who ran away, he must not have been beaten much, but who told you that he was beaten?" He said, "A boy told me." I said, "Boys sometimes tell lies." He started saying, "There was no need to lie."
You are the Khalifa, and the Khalifa has great responsibilities; you should manage them. I said, "Alright, I will call Brother Abdul Rahim and investigate." So, that night, Brother Abdul Rahim was called. When he arrived, he was asked, "Has the headmaster beaten the boy?" He replied, "The headmaster had given him a punishment of three dozen lashes. Two dozen had already been administered." By that time, he was still smiling. Then I said, "The headmaster let him go." When this was heard, Qazi Sahib burst into tears and said, "I didn't know; a boy had told me." Qazi Sahib was a peculiar character. His brother, Syed Ghulam Hussain Sahib, is also one of those old Ahmadis. I have mentioned Qazi Sahib for the reason that among those people, there was a color of love, but nowadays, among the youth, there is merely a philosophical color. Molvi Abdul Karim Sahib was also among those people who, in the hot days, used to fetch water from Masjid Aqsa. Water was brought in mud pitchers; they used to sit in Masjid Mubarak. When the water came, they would step forward and say, "When water comes for me, I step forward and get closer to it, then I take the water and say Alhamdulillah." This was the color that gave them uniqueness. We used to enjoy in childhood, and we also drank water in the same way and said Alhamdulillah. Faith is born out of love, the kind of love that ignites and sets a fire. Just as a child thinks he has received everything by taking a toy, it cannot affect a person who talks nonsense. A person who talks nonsense cannot affect anyone. Hazrat Masih Maud (as) used to remain polite in front of them. I remember a funny incident. There was an Afghan immigrant here who used to call the prayer in the mosque. His voice was loud. One day, the judge called him to sit with him out of affection. He said, "I thought they were rewarding me for something, but after sitting with them, he said, 'Look, when you call the prayer, Allah and His angels curse you.' Even today, there are such muezzins in both our mosques that they cannot be called muezzins. The muezzin of this mosque gives the call to prayer as if someone sitting in a corner is speaking. Giving the call to prayer is a great act of reward, and great men used to give the call to prayer. Hazrat Umar used to say if I were not the Caliph, I would give the call to prayer. Here, Molvi Abdul Karim Sahib also used to give the call to prayer. We were enthusiastic. Some individuals used to give the call to prayer with great zeal, to the extent that sometimes if one had given the call to prayer, the other would also do so. Sometimes, three calls to prayer would be made for the prayer in this mosque. I remember Molvi Abdul Karim Sahib was scolded once. I have seen Molvi Abdul Karim Sahib and even the first Caliph giving the call to prayer. Now it is understood that the call to prayer should also be given where trees and other things are to be cut. The call to prayer is not heard by some shopkeepers. At the time of Fajr when people are still in a state of sleep, such a call to prayer does not make sense. Although I sleep nearby, sometimes I also wake up with difficulty. I think if Qazi Amir Hussain Sahib were alive at this time, how many curses such a muezzin would receive. Qazi Sahib had zeal, but when he realized his mistake, he would suppress it. Once during my Khilafat, the school boys beat his son. He came knocking loudly at my door at night. I came out and asked, "Qazi Sahib, is everything okay?" He said, "Yes, if Brother Abdul Rahim Sahib were not here, the headmaster would have beaten my son completely." I said, "After all, where is that boy and in what condition?" He said, "My son was not here, he ran away." I said, "Well, at least he wasn't beaten to death. The one who ran away, he must not have been beaten much, but who told you that he was beaten?" He said, "A boy told me." I said, "Boys sometimes tell lies." He started saying, "There was no need to lie."
I met someone, but after a short distance, I realized that this person was against me. He did not speak untruth, and I stood up and started saying, "Do you want to harm me?" Our destinies met where Hazrat Masih Maud (as) arrived. But he said, "They have come, you should go." I ran again. The purpose was to do this two or three times. I did it with such enthusiasm that Hazrat Masih Maud (as) noticed. Once, I heard a lecture by Molvi Sanaullah Sahib, and another person who was with him asked, "What is the response to these points?" He said, "These points can affect those people who have not seen Hazrat Mirza Sahib. We have seen him and know that his face is not deceptive. There was a color of love among those people. Qazi Amir Hussain Sahib was also a peculiar character. He thought that sitting when a gathering was held was not permissible. When asked about it, Hazrat Masih Maud (as) said, "Those who stand with love and affection are allowed, but not with pretense." Hazrat Aisha (may Allah be pleased with her) also hit her mouth with her hand when the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) passed away. During my Khilafat, I saw that when I arrived, they stood up. I asked, "Why?" They started saying, "What was I doing? I did not know." This was a color of love. Syed Ghulam Hussain Sahib, whose daughter's marriage is taking place, is Qazi Amir Hussain Sahib's brother and an old Ahmadi. Malik Maula Bakhsh Sahib, whom I met after a long time, is sincere. As far as I think, they continued to progress in sincerity. Their son, whose name is also Saeed, is indeed fortunate. I, on behalf of the bride, announce the marriage of Syeda Mahmooda Khatoon with Saeed Ahmad Sahib for a dowry of one thousand rupees. (July 24, 1934, page 25)
Al-Bukhari, Book of Virtues, Chapter: The Prophet's Saying, "If I were to take a Khalil..."From Tafsir Durr-e-Mansoor, Volume 3, Page 242
Surah At-Tawbah: 40
(Delivered on July 2, 1934)
On July 2, 1934, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II conducted the marriage sermon for the marriage of Prince Mirza Naseer Ahmad Sahib, son of Nawab Muhammad Ali Khan Sahib, with Lady Mansoora Begum Sahiba, daughter of Mirza Sharif Ahmad Sahib, and Prince Mansoor Ahmad Sahib, son of Hazrat Mirza Sharif Ahmad Sahib, with his Lady Naseera Begum Sahiba.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
Allah the Almighty states in the Noble Quran, "And I did not create the jinn and mankind except to worship Me" (Surah Adh-Dhariyat, 56). This means I have created jinn and humans solely for the purpose of worshipping Me. They should internalize the attributes of Allah and become perfect manifestations of Him, as if each person, despite being a servant, is the shadow of Allah walking on the surface of the earth. Such individuals who do not have faith in the essence of Allah, ask, "Where is God? Show us." Many believers, astonished, ask for the answer to this question, even though if they were believers in essence, they would become the answer themselves because Allah states, "I have created every human to become their own tomorrow." Therefore, every perfect believer is the representative of Allah. While being the Khalifa of Allah, no one can ask, "Show me Allah," because in His presence, this question is entirely meaningless. When the sun is up, who would say, "Show me"? When a perfect believer is present, who would ask, "Show me Allah?" Because in His presence, this question is entirely meaningless. When the sun is up, who would say, "Show me"? When a perfect believer is present, who would ask, "Show me Allah?"
Who can say, "Show me the river" when every person can see it? So, if a person is a manifestation of "وَمَا خَلَقْتُ الْجِنَّ وَالْإِنسَ إِلَّا لِيَعْبُدُونِ" (Surah Adh-Dhariyat, 56), then no one can ask to show God because their existence reflects the attributes of Allah, becoming perfect embodiments of Him, as if each person, while being a servant, is the shadow of Allah walking on earth. Those individuals who lack faith in the essence of Allah ask, "Where is God? Show us." Many believers, astonished, seek an answer to this question, even though if they truly believed, they would embody the answer themselves because Allah states, "I have created every human to become their own tomorrow." Therefore, every perfect believer is Allah's representative. In the presence of a perfect believer, no one can ask, "Show me Allah," because in His presence, this question is entirely meaningless. Just as when the sun is up, who would say, "Show me"? When a perfect believer is present, who would ask, "Show me Allah?"
Passing through these, all Muslims are aware, and in front of our community, this issue comes in various colors. You were the last light that appeared; after you, no light came that was not illuminated by your light. Similarly, your guidance book was the final guidance book, meaning no guidance book was to come in the world that would be against your guidance book, but it was destined that after you, people deprived of the light you brought would also be deprived of the light, then Satan would raise his head, then misguidance would spread in the world, and then such a trial would appear that would endanger your teachings and goodness. It was destined that a trial would appear that could not be found in the world. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "The period between Adam's creation and the Hour is more difficult than all other times." This means a trial of deception is coming that from Adam's creation to the Day of Judgment, no greater trial will come. Just as the presence of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) was greater than all other existences, just as your teachings were complete, similarly, after you, such a trial appeared that was greater than all trials. It seemed as if a trial was raised against your spiritual offspring and your disciples, one person from among them who had brought danger to faith should be beheaded. We see today no trial and no mischief that was not found in ancient times. If today atheism and denial of God's essence are found among philosophers, Greeks, Indians, and Egyptians, and religiously, denial of God's essence was found among Greeks, Indians, and Egyptians, and religiously, denial of God's essence was found in almost every country and every era, and such people were found who said that the denial of God's essence is not proven. 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There were people before who did not accept divine revelations, there were people before who were afflicted in sin and immorality. And there were people before who showed indifference to religion and engaged in immoral acts. So, what is the trial of deception that the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "The period between Adam's creation and the Hour is more difficult than all other times"? There must be something in this trial that was not present in the world before. When we ponder on this fact, we notice two things that were not present in previous trials. Firstly, the trials that occurred in the past were localized, for example, the trial of India was distinct from the Iranian trial, and the Iranian trial was distinct from the Greek trial, just as the Egyptian trial was distinct from the Greek and Iranian trials. Due to this, there was no coordinated attack on faith in those trials; rather, their impact was limited to specific regions, resembling a scenario where robbers are looting in one country while attackers are coming from another side. The peace of a country is indeed at risk from robbers, but the government does not collapse; it is organized powers that bring about its downfall. The difference between past trials and the current trial is that this trial is spreading its influence under an organized movement. Japan is not Christian, but its ideologies are influenced by Europe; China is not Christian, but its ideologies are influenced by Europe. Similarly, Iran, India, Turkestan, and Arabia are not Christian countries, but their ideologies are influenced by Europe. The purpose of the current era is that all movements appear to be originating from one country and are seen under one system, which has exacerbated the calamity of this trial. In the past, if someone said that the Iranians or Greeks believed in something, it could have been assumed that the listener's heart would not be perturbed, and practically, the same would have occurred, meaning at one time, all evil would not have spread throughout the world. If there was evil in one country, there was none in another. If there was a prevalence of polytheism in India, there was a prevalence of immorality in Iran, a prevalence of philosophy in Greece, and a prevalence of idolatrous beliefs in Egypt. Therefore, there was no uniformity in their objections, and no organized opposition was found. However, in this era, all ideologies are...
There is a single country under which every movement arises with the aim of distancing the world from God. This phenomenon has never been seen in the world before. Another distinctive aspect is that the previous attacks were philosophical in nature, and all their foundations were based on speculation. However, the current attacks are based on scientific observation, and the foundation of science is observation. In response to philosophical objections, a person can confidently say that these are mere conjectures and thoughts of the mind, but when faced with a question based on observation, providing an answer becomes difficult. Saying, "This world is a place of enjoyment; after death, whatever happens, no one has seen it," is a philosophical notion, and upon hearing it, a person may be moved, but another can also say that this is a fabricated statement with no basis in reality. However, when considering the creation of the universe based on observations and demonstrating that every particle of the world operates under a system that functions automatically, it raises a new color that was not present before. Previously, only philosophers stood against the existence of God, but now psychologists, engineers, scientists, geologists, and all other sciences stand against it. The purpose of all these sciences collectively presents a conclusion, and this attack is much more severe than before. Previously, it was understood that a philosopher denied the existence of God, and it was uncertain whether his statement held any truth. But now it is said that whatever perspective you look from, the conclusion will be the same, that there is no God. Whether you look from the perspective of geology, the conclusion will be the same, that there is no God; whether you look from the perspective of biology, the conclusion will be the same, that there is no God; whether you look from the perspective of geology, the conclusion will be the same, that there is no God. Similarly, if you want to know God through psychology, the same result will be that there is no God; if you want to know God through engineering, the same result will be that there is no God. If you want to know God through the study of life, the same result will be that there is no God; if you want to know God through the study of the layers of the earth, the same result will be that there is no God. In the same way, if you want to know God through the study of psychology, the same result will be that there is no God; if you want to know God through the study of engineering, the same result will be that there is no God. 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Even then, it will be evident that there is no God, if you look through the lens of chemistry, it will still be evident that there is no God. The purpose of all sciences has converged to one side, as Allah the Almighty states in the Quran, "Whichever way you turn, there is the face of Allah." Similarly, today, from wherever disbelief arises, it comes with the same thought and the same voice, that the world does not need any God; we are free. All those sciences through which the existence of Allah the Almighty is proven, today, through them, the denial of Allah the Almighty is done, and this denial is based on science. For example, dreams and revelations are evidence of the existence of Allah the Almighty. Previously, this objection was raised that what language does Allah the Almighty speak? This question could have been easily answered, or people could have said that these are just human thoughts. This objection could have been easily refuted. But today, human sciences related to dreams have been researched so much that it makes people anxious. It has been proven through the construction of the human brain that even without the will of the person, the human brain sees many dreams, and then those dreams are fulfilled in due time. So, even if all dreams are fulfilled, it cannot prove that there is a God of the world because through observations, they have proven it to be false. Even those revelations that were the last resort of religion have also been attempted to be proven false through evidence. The purpose today is that disbelief is using all its weapons, and this attack is unparalleled in its quantity and quality. In the past attacks, people were few, and they attacked in a scattered manner. Iran attacked in one way, and Japan in another, but now the whole world attacks in a coordinated manner and fights on the same front. Then, in the past attacks, the attacks were limited to philosophy, but now attacks are made under the banner of economics, under the banner of biology, under the banner of psychology. The purpose is that all prevalent sciences are used. So, there is no doubt that there is no trial in the world equivalent to this trial. When the Noble Messenger discovered about this great trial, that O Messenger of Allah, what will be its remedy, and who will be those people who will face this unparalleled trial, who will then turn the attention of people towards Allah the Almighty, then establish faith anew in the world, then connect the creation with its Creator, so the Noble Messenger...
Salman al-Farsi placed his hand on the back of Salman al-Farsi and said, "Even if faith is hanging on the Pleiades, there will be among us a man from these people - some places the words of the men of Persia come, meaning that even if faith is suspended from the Pleiades, there will still be some people from the people of Persia who will establish faith in the world. Mentioning this great trial, which when heard, the Companions were astonished, and they were so distressed that once the Noble Messenger mentioned the Antichrist and described his trials, and then you went home and after several hours when you returned, you saw that the Companions were pale and sitting in great distress. You said, "What has happened to you that you are so agitated?" They said, "O Messenger of Allah! Your words have terrified us. We cannot comprehend what will be the state of faith after such a great trial." The Noble Messenger said, "When the Antichrist comes, if I am alive at that time, I will debate with him, and if I am not alive, then every believer will fight him in his own way." What he said that if I am alive at that time, I will debate with him, in essence, means the same as what is meant by the verse of Surah Al-Jumu'ah, "And others of them who have not yet joined them." That is, the complete mission of the Noble Messenger. Your meaning was that if at that time such a person has been appointed who can do what I have said, then he will confront this Antichrist. Otherwise, there will be no other way than for Muslims to fight and die against this Antichrist. For the confrontation of this great trial, the Noble Messenger has made this prediction, or it should be said that it is an appeal that I hope that when this great trial arises, then some people from the people of Persia will stand up who, enduring all kinds of dangers and calamities, will then establish faith in the world. I understand this is not an empty prediction, but rather a desire of the Noble Messenger, a wish, and these words indicate what God's Messenger wants from the sons of Persia. In terms of dangers, this trial is very less, in terms of consequences, very less, in terms of time and effects, very less, even in the time of the Noble Messenger, there was a trial.
The example shown by the Companions at that time is written in history books to this day. After the conquest of Mecca, those people who had become Muslims and whose faith had not yet been firmly established in their hearts, they came to the Noble Messenger and said, "O Messenger of Allah! Allow us to join the army that is going to face the Hawazin." The Noble Messenger initially prevented them from joining, but when they insisted, he granted them permission. The army of ten thousand was the one that conquered Mecca, and two thousand of these people were among them. It was as if a ten thousand strong army marched into the battlefield. When they reached near Hawazin, there was a valley surrounded by the tribes of Ta'if, and skilled archers were positioned on both sides of the road. The ten thousand army was the one where each individual had faced many disbelievers, so facing Hawazin was not difficult for them. However, now two thousand weak in faith individuals had also joined them. These were the people who had arrogance and pride in their hearts and were looking at each other saying, "Should we fight the people of Medina?" Then they signaled to their companions, saying, "O people of Mecca! Today is the day to show courage and bravery." In this state of arrogance and pride, as soon as they reached the range of the archers, the experienced archers of Hawazin began a relentless rain of arrows on them. Seeing this, all their bravery vanished, and they fled in fear from the battlefield. Passing through the ranks of two thousand horses was not an ordinary matter; the result was that the remaining ten thousand men's horses also got scared and started running away without control. Only twelve men remained with the Noble Messenger. The Islamic army did not flee from the battlefield due to cowardice but fled because the two thousand horses running scared frightened their horses, and they couldn't stand in the field. One companion's account is that we tried to stop our horses by pulling their reins with such force that their necks became crooked, but as soon as the reins loosened, they ran away again. We were astonished at what to do. At that moment, the Noble Messenger spurred his horse and advanced towards the enemy...
Started at that time, some companions held the reins of your horse and said, "O Messenger of Allah! This is a time of danger; it is not appropriate for you to advance further." But the Noble Messenger replied, "Leave me, I do not retreat." Then you loudly proclaimed, "I am the Prophet, there is no lie in it, I am the son of Abdul Muttalib." Then you said, "Abbas, call out loudly, O Ansar! The Messenger of Allah calls you." Abbas's voice was very loud when he said, "O Ansar! The Messenger of Allah calls you." The companions were in such a state that they were turning their horses, but the horses were not turning back. When this loud voice reached their ears, they did not care about anything. If someone's horse stopped, they climbed back on it; otherwise, pulling the necks of their horses and camels, within a few minutes, they crowded around the Noble Messenger. This was the voice that the Messenger of Allah gave. And Ansar showed such respect for this voice that when this voice reached their ears, they did not care about anything. If someone's horse stopped, they climbed back on it; otherwise, pulling the necks of their horses and camels, within a few minutes, they crowded around the Noble Messenger. With more dignity than this voice, with more certainty than this voice, with more confidence than this voice, with more love than this voice, with more hope than this voice, the Messenger of Allah said thirteen hundred years ago, "Even if faith is hanging on the Pleiades, there will be among us a man from these people - some places the words of the men of Persia come, meaning that even if faith is suspended from the Pleiades, there will still be some people from the people of Persia who will establish faith in the world."
An individual will become a believer, and in the morning, a disbeliever; in the morning, a believer, and in the evening, a disbeliever. At this time, I hope that some people from among the Persians will rise who will respond to the call raised by me and bring faith back to its zenith. In these words, the Noble Messenger did not say an empty word but rather indicated the responsibility of spreading Islam will not end on a Persian man alone but will also be incumbent upon his offspring, and the Noble Messenger hopes the same from the sons of Persia. This is the voice that the Messenger of Allah, after portraying the despair, when the Companions were shaken, and their hearts trembled, raised to instill courage in their hearts and this is the hope and trust that you expressed regarding the offspring of Persia. Today, I fulfill this trust and responsibility, and today, I convey this message to all those individuals who are from the offspring of a Persian man. The Noble Messenger has expressed hope during the time of the destruction of the Muslim Ummah that "Men from Persia" and certainty have been expressed that the promised offspring of this Persian lineage, leaving behind the temptations, ambitions, and progress of the world, will dedicate themselves solely to one task, raising the banner of Islam in the world, bringing faith back to its zenith, and guiding the creation back to its Creator. This hope is what the Messenger of Allah desires. Now I leave them and see what response they give. Whether it be my offspring or my brothers, let them ponder over their hearts and discover through their nature what responsibilities fall upon them after this call. There is no doubt that at this time, the world is stripping itself of all its beauties, and there is no doubt that at this time, Allah the Almighty's state, seeking refuge in Allah, is like a discarded thing thrown out of the house. Today, there is no one to support the faith. Hazrat Masih Maud (on whom be peace) said, "Sell the religion of Ahmad, it is of no use, every case is like this." And the work of Ahmad is not of any benefit.
Everywhere there is disbelief, just as the armies of Yazid are active. The true religion is sick and helpless like Zain al-Abidin.
In these circumstances, what responsibilities fall upon them and what kind of feelings should be in their hearts, each person can understand according to their capacity. I admit that when a weak person sees someone at a high position, when he looks at the wealth of a wealthy person and the position of a responsible person, it comes to his mind, and he says why shouldn't I be like that. I admit that such things happen, but all these things were also present when the Companions were facing the Hawazin. In front of them were their wives and children, and in front of them was the thought that if they faced the arrows of Hawazin, their chests would be pierced, and they would be covered in dust and blood within a few minutes. But despite all these things, they listened to the call of the Noble Messenger and directed their wives and children towards the same direction where the Messenger of Allah was calling. Today, I do not need to draw a picture of the trial of the Antichrist in which the world is dominant. Nothing of Islam remains today, neither civil laws are established, nor political laws, nor personal laws are established, every aspect has changed today. Until we do not remove every bit of it, we cannot sleep in peace and tranquility. Those who admire Europe, who flow in the stream of Westernization, can never succeed. We should be cautious and ignite a fire in our bodies by looking at everything they have to offer because we and Westernization cannot coexist or either we will survive or Westernization will survive. Do not think that we are friends of the English, then why do I have such thoughts about Westernization because there is a difference between the English and Westernization. The English are human beings, and such human beings...
It is as if we and the guidance of England can coexist, but Westernization cannot be accommodated. It is the weapon of Satan, and until it is broken, peace cannot be established in the world. And if a person from the offspring of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) harbors even a particle of Westernization within, he cannot be called the true son of Masih Maud because he did not heed the call that Hazrat Masih Maud was sent to spread. So, I convey this message with clarity to them and alert everyone that I am disgusted with any thought or any person who carries even a speck of Westernization within them and is not prepared to serve the religion, whether they are my son or a loved one. But I have always prayed and repeatedly prayed that if the destined offspring who are willing to serve the religion are not mine, then I do not need offspring, and I pray that Allah the Almighty grants me success in this prayer until my last breath. Before us is a trial so great that there is no trial like it in the world, and if we do not stand up to complete this task, and if we do not feel the need for this trial in our hearts, then I cannot understand how we can deserve even a bit of respect in the world. In front of us are the flags of Islam raised so high that until all these flags are at the masthead, until the flag of Tawheed is at the masthead, until the flag of the Prophet's way is at the masthead, until the flag of worship of the One God is at the masthead, until all flags other than Islam are at the masthead, until the cries of Takbir are raised high in the world, we cannot consider ourselves fulfillers of our duties. This is the thing that I present today, and although I have presented it before, a force has been compelling me for a few days to present this matter clearly again. Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) received a revelation from Allah the Almighty: "Salutations upon Ibrahim, what we saw of him and saved him from grief - We chose that, so take the station of Ibrahim as a place of prayer."
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Chapter: The Station of Ibrahim for Prayer
Oh people! Make the station of Ibrahim a place of prayer. What is this station? The Quran has revealed it in these words: "Our Lord, I have settled some of my descendants in an uncultivated valley near Your sacred House, our Lord, that they may establish prayer. So make hearts among the people incline toward them and provide for them from the fruits that they might be grateful." (Surah Ibrahim, 14:37)
Prophet Ibrahim (peace be upon him) prayed, "O my Lord! I have settled some of my descendants in an uncultivated valley near Your sacred House, our Lord, that they may establish prayer. So make hearts among the people incline toward them and provide for them from the fruits that they might be grateful." This valley is not barren in the physical sense but spiritually it still exists. What is a barren valley? It is where people engage in servitude and strive for worldly gains. But when a person abandons the deeds that earn worldly gains and moves to the uncultivated valley, the station of Ibrahim, and dedicates themselves solely to the spread of faith, then Allah will fulfill His promise that He will draw people towards them and provide them sustenance. This is the station where Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) was established and where the hope was placed in your offspring that they would separate themselves from worldly temptations and solely dedicate themselves to spreading the faith. Then Allah will bring people towards them and provide them sustenance. It is incumbent upon them to always remain steadfast, to come forward whenever the need of the faith arises, leaving everything aside for the service of religion. Then Allah will fulfill His promise that He will bring people towards them and provide them sustenance.
Those exempted from my statement are those who work for the necessities of life, but they must prove with their sincerity that they are accepting for the sake of Allah, not for their own selves. They should always be ready so that when the need of the faith arises, they leave everything aside and come forward for the service of religion. The ignorant say that working for the English provides sustenance, whereas the truth is that...
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Chapter: The Dignity of Service
Working provides sustenance to a person. But even if we assume that serving the religion brings humiliation, have we not made a covenant with Allah's Messenger that if we have to endure humiliation for the sake of religion, we will endure it? Serving the religion does not bring disgrace; disgrace lies in worldly occupations, not in the service of Allah. A Sikh from near Qadian once told me that Mirza Sahib once called us and said, "Go and explain to Ghulam Ahmad that if he does not work, he will have to rely on his elder brother's pieces after my death." He went and said to Mirza Sahib's father, "He is always dissatisfied. Why doesn't he work?". Mirza Sahib's father laughed upon hearing this and said, "I had to be what I was destined to be." Despite hearing this, they let out a sigh and said, "If he says that I have become a servant, then it is true. It was destined to be so." Despite these worldly thoughts, they let out a sigh and said, "If he says that I have become a servant, then it is true. It was destined to be so." In terms of being from the progeny of Ibrahim, it is the duty of the offspring of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) to live as if Dadi is living in uncultivated land and dedicate themselves solely to the service of religion. Every task comes with preparation. If we desire to do a task that is merciful, our manner should be as if we are living in uncultivated land and have dedicated ourselves solely to the service of religion. But how can we succeed if we desire to do a task that is satanic? The world is currently immersed in empires and governments, engulfed in complexities, and is being charmed by Western civilization. If we move towards these civilizations and governments, how can blessings be in our intentions? The world is currently dominated by empires and governments, immersed in complexities, and is being charmed by Western civilization. If we desire to do the work that is merciful, our manner should be as if we are living in uncultivated land and have dedicated ourselves solely to the service of religion. The weapon of Satan is broken by the hands of mercy, not by satanic hands. So until a person is stripped of the desires that lead to disgrace, how can they be considered capable of the work of faith? Islam succeeded in the world because it established love and affection and eliminated the privileges of empires and poverty. If we move towards the civilization and empires, how can blessings be in our intentions? And if a person from the offspring of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) harbors even a particle of Westernization within, he cannot be called the true son of Masih Maud because he did not heed the call that Hazrat Masih Maud was sent to spread. So, I convey this message with clarity to them and alert everyone that I am disgusted with any thought or any person who carries even a speck of Westernization within them and is not prepared to serve the religion, whether they are my son or a loved one. But I have always prayed and repeatedly prayed that if the destined offspring who are willing to serve the religion are not mine, then I do not need offspring, and I pray that Allah the Almighty grants me success in this prayer until my last breath. Before us is a trial so great that there is no trial like it in the world, and if we do not stand up to complete this task, and if we do not feel the need for this trial in our hearts, then I cannot understand how we can deserve even a bit of respect in the world. In front of us are the flags of Islam raised so high that until all these flags are at the masthead, until the flag of Tawheed is at the masthead, until the flag of the Prophet's way is at the masthead, until the flag of worship of the One God is at the masthead, until all flags other than Islam are at the masthead, until the cries of Takbir are raised high in the world, we cannot consider ourselves fulfillers of our duties. This is the thing that I present today, and although I have presented it before, a force has been compelling me for a few days to present this matter clearly again. Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) received a revelation from Allah the Almighty: "Salutations upon Ibrahim, what we saw of him and saved him from grief - We chose that, so take the station of Ibrahim as a place of prayer."
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When a person harbors thoughts of nobility within, when they cannot prepare themselves for servitude, then I cannot understand how they can succeed. Yes, if Allah Almighty places a person at a certain position, then it is a different matter. Sayyid Abdul Qadir Jilani says sometimes Allah Almighty tells me, "O Abdul Qadir! Wear the best clothes," and I wear them. Sometimes He says, "O Abdul Qadir Jilani! Eat the best food," and I eat it. This is the station where Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) was placed. You too have been called by Allah Almighty as Abdul Qadir and your name has been mentioned in a dream. This means that if Allah says eat well, it is our duty to eat well, and if He says wear good clothes, it is our duty to wear good clothes. Similarly, if He says wear ordinary clothes, it is also our duty to obey that command. Our complete obedience is for Allah. If He says sit in the sky, we should sit there; if He says walk on the ground, we should walk there. It is our duty to keep this matter in front of us at all times, and when He wants us to be at a certain place, we should be content with that, whether it is a high place or a low place. This is the thing that we should always keep in front of us, and until our children do not keep this purpose in front of them, they cannot obtain the blessings destined for the offspring of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him). There is no doubt that even apparent offspring feel a sense of pride, but that pride is only valid until
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It happens when a person remains steadfast on the path of faith. Once, the Companions asked the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), "Who are the greatest among the Arab tribes?" He replied, "Those who were great in disbelief are still great provided they embrace goodness and have accepted Islam. Certainly, family greatness is also present, but it is conditional on goodness and piety. If they do not care for this matter and if they fall on the world like worms and dogs, then they become more deserving of punishment than others. There is no doubt. This is the work of Allah, and if we do not do this work, others will be appointed. But that day will be the worst day when Allah says, 'Men from Persia have turned away from spreading faith. Come, let us give this task to others.' This is a matter of honor for us to be questioned for the sake of Allah and His religion. It is an honor for us that He is taking work from us. But I regret that I have seen some who sacrifice for themselves and say, 'Come, let's make this sacrifice.' Even if in front of someone there is a feast of rice, kebabs, and cooked chicken, and there is lentil soup as well, what does that person say?
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It may be assumed that by sacrificing, we are feeding chickens today. If someone says this, there are only two possibilities: either they are deluded or insane because either they are insane to consider sacrificing like feeding chickens, or they are deluded by not understanding the essence. If religion holds any value, if it is a precious thing, then when Allah Almighty calls out, "Come and gather for the sake of Allah's religion," the one who responds with "Labbayk" does not consider it a sacrifice but partakes in Allah's grace and favor. If they even think for a minute that they are making a sacrifice, then they are hypocrites. So, if you think that serving the religion brings disgrace, consider it honor; if the world deems it humiliation, consider it work; and if they consider it a sacrifice, reward them. Then you can truly be called believers. Would a colonel who achieved victory with German hands think that becoming a colonel and sacrificing is the same thing? If worldly colonels do not understand the value of standing firm and working, they are more deserving of punishment. Certainly, this is the work of Allah, and if we do not fulfill this work, others will be appointed. But the worst day will come when Allah says, "Men from Persia have turned away from spreading faith. Come, let us give this task to others." It is an honor for us to be questioned for the sake of Allah and His religion. It is an honor that He is taking work from us. But I regret that I have seen some who sacrifice for themselves and say, "Come, let's make this sacrifice." Even if in front of someone there is a feast of rice, kebabs, and cooked chicken, and there is lentil soup as well, what does that person say?
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Oh people! It is hoped that you will not let thoughts of pride and vanity arise within you. Instead, despite all these tasks, it is hoped that you will consider your services as a lowly and paltry sum and say that you gave Allah Almighty a paltry sum but He gave you boundless wealth. This is the voice that was given to you by Muhammad (peace be upon him), and this is the voice that was given by the Promised Messiah. If even after the call of God, His Messenger, and the Promised Messiah, the voice of "Labbayk" does not rise from anyone's heart, then they are a dead heart, no matter how well-dressed they may be. What a delicate example Hazrat Buddha showed. Buddha's sons were the only sons of their father. When the yearning of God Almighty arose in their hearts, they left their homes and for years worshipped in jungles and deserts. Finally, God Almighty revealed to them and elevated them to the station of prophethood for the reform of the world. In those times, you instructed your followers not to earn the world but to work for the whole day and even beg when hungry. When their fame spread throughout India, even their father, who was in the spring, was also called, and he too entered their discipleship. When Buddha saw that they would not sit on the throne, he called his grandson and, dressing him in humble clothes and handing him a begging bowl, said, "Go to your father and tell him that I have also come to claim my right." It was as if he meant to transfer his right to me. Buddha's way was that when they included someone in their lineage, they would shave their head. When the son came to them, they said, "Have you come to beg from me too?" He said, "Yes." They said, "Well, I give whatever I have to you." Saying this, they called one of their disciples and said, "Shave his head and make him a beggar." The meaning of this was that kingship had departed from their family. When the father heard this
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When it was heard, they wept, and a covenant was taken from them that they would not make anyone a beggar in the future. So, the work related to the religion of Allah Almighty that is our responsibility is so grand and our responsibility is so vast that I regret that our hearts have not yet estimated it. I see those who also serve the religion but think as if they have sacrificed, whereas sacrifice always denotes something noble. If working for the religion is considered a sacrifice, then it seems as if the religion is lowly, but in reality, its status is higher. If this feeling lingers even for a moment within us that we are sacrificing by working for the religion, then we are truly blind and ignorant of faith. So, first, I address those who, upon hearing the call of God's Messenger, said, "We are men from Persia," and understood their responsibilities and duties. This is a great task for them. The honors and greatness of the world are nothing; the slavery to the court of Allah is the most honorable thing. If you earn the world and achieve everything, can your respect increase in the eyes of Muhammad (peace be upon him)? Look at the signs that enlightened the blind of Europe and America. If you do not benefit from the light of Allah Almighty, then how regrettable it would be. So, first, I address the physical offspring of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him), but since every person who pledges allegiance to Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) and adheres to your commands is spiritually included in the offspring of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him), I say to all the spiritual offspring of Ahmad that understand your responsibilities. How long will these slogans continue, how long will death be reflected on your faces, how long will the religion of Allah Almighty be seen with disdain and humiliation, and you remain silent, how long will you consider your humble services as sacrifices, how long will the day come when you will be restless for the sake of religion, and when the day comes when you will stand up with determination for the task for which Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) was sent to the world? So, I also say to them that a voice of God has risen, rise and listen to that voice, say what was said to you before by the open arms, thirteen hundred years ago, "Our Lord, we have heard a caller calling..."
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For faith, believe in your Lord, so forgive us our sins and remove our misdeeds and let us die with the righteous. Our Lord, grant us what You promised us through Your messengers and do not disgrace us on the Day of Resurrection. Indeed, this teaching has been instilled in your hearts by the teachings of the Quran, so much so that every particle of this teaching should respond with "Labbayk." Then instill this teaching in the ears of your children so that they also instill this teaching in the ears of their children, and no voice other than the voice of Allah echoes in our ears, and no light other than His light touches our eyes. Until this state is not achieved, we are like clay idols claiming to do great deeds, dead men who claim to revive the world. After this, I announce these marriages that have been arranged. Apparently, there seems to be no connection of these marriages with the sermon, but in reality, there is a deep connection with the institution of marriage in the court of Allah Almighty because the mention of prayers in the context of marriages is a special mention. If we are ready to accept the relationship of marriage in the world, there is no reason why we should not remain immersed in the love and obedience of Allah and His Messenger. If we earn the world and achieve everything, can our respect increase in the eyes of Muhammad (peace be upon him)? Look at the signs that enlightened the blind of Europe and America. If you do not benefit from the light of Allah Almighty, then how regrettable it would be. So, first, I address the physical offspring of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him), but since every person who pledges allegiance to Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) and adheres to your commands is spiritually included in the offspring of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him), I say to all the spiritual offspring of Ahmad that understand your responsibilities. How long will these slogans continue, how long will death be reflected on your faces, how long will the religion of Allah Almighty be seen with disdain and humiliation, and you remain silent, how long will you consider your humble services as sacrifices, how long will the day come when you will be restless for the sake of religion, and when the day comes when you will stand up with determination for the task for which Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) was sent to the world? So, I also say to them that a voice of God has risen, rise and listen to that voice, say what was said to you before by the open arms, thirteen hundred years ago, "Our Lord, we have heard a caller calling..."
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Aisha was the one who taught the world half of faith. Aisha was the beloved wife of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him). Her example is a pure model for us. What love she had in her heart! She could not even eat a piece of bread separately from the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), and tears would fill her eyes while eating. Should we not let our eyes shed tears upon seeing the greatest blessings of this world? Until our condition in this world is like that of Aisha, how far we are from true knowledge. If Allah dresses us well, we should indeed wear it; if He feeds us well, we should indeed eat it. But there should be a pain in our hearts that the world is a deceiver. If we have the strength, we should dedicate everything for Muhammad (peace be upon him) and his companions. Surely, Allah gives us good things to eat or wear, but we should swallow them in our throats and have a yearning in our hearts that until every morsel given to others is not given by a Muslim, and the ANALOGENDANTANA of Allah, the Messenger of Allah, is not read, we cannot sleep in peace, contentment, and comfort. At the time of eating those meals and wearing those clothes, there should be a fire in our hearts, a yearning that every blessing, whether religious or worldly, should be dedicated for Muhammad (peace be upon him) and his companions. This thing should be produced within us. If we can produce it, it will bless our minds and our understanding. Otherwise, it is a natural thing that more sorrow is produced at the time of happiness. When a believer receives happiness, they think whether Muhammad (peace be upon him) and the Promised Messiah are partners in this happiness or not. If they are partners, it is happiness for us, and if they are not, then the happiness becomes a source of sorrow and gloom in our hearts. A husband whose wife has passed away or a woman whose husband has passed away, when they arrange marriages for their children, they are happy, but at the same time, tears flow from their eyes, and they say, "If only the mother or father of these children were alive." This is the state of a believer when they receive happiness; along with happiness, they experience sorrow, and they say, "I wish the mother or father of these children were alive." This is the condition of a believer when they receive happiness; along with happiness, they experience sorrow, and they say, "I wish the mother or father of these children were alive."
Whether they are included in these joys or not, if they do not participate in the real joy, it is merely a formal celebration. Hence, this disjointed sermon is not unrelated but has a profound connection with the institution of marriage in the court of Allah Almighty. After clarifying the reality of all responsibilities being encompassed in this, I announce these marriages that have been arranged. Following this, a lengthy prayer was made, including the assembly. (Al-Fazl, 26th August 1934, Page 3)
For faith, believe in your Lord, so forgive us our sins and remove our misdeeds and let us die with the righteous. Our Lord, grant us what You promised us through Your messengers and do not disgrace us on the Day of Resurrection. Indeed, this teaching has been instilled in your hearts by the teachings of the Quran, so much so that every particle of this teaching should respond with "Labbayk." Then instill this teaching in the ears of your children so that they also instill this teaching in the ears of their children, and no voice other than the voice of Allah echoes in our ears, and no light other than His light touches our eyes. Until this state is not achieved, we are like clay idols claiming to do great deeds, dead men who claim to revive the world. After this, I announce these marriages that have been arranged. Apparently, there seems to be no connection of these marriages with the sermon, but in reality, there is a deep connection with the institution of marriage in the court of Allah Almighty because the mention of prayers in the context of marriages is a special mention. If we are ready to accept the relationship of marriage in the world, there is no reason why we should not remain immersed in the love and obedience of Allah and His Messenger. If we earn the world and achieve everything, can our respect increase in the eyes of Muhammad (peace be upon him)? Look at the signs that enlightened the blind of Europe and America. If you do not benefit from the light of Allah Almighty, then how regrettable it would be. So, first, I address the physical offspring of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him), but since every person who pledges allegiance to Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) and adheres to your commands is spiritually included in the offspring of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him), I say to all the spiritual offspring of Ahmad that understand your responsibilities. How long will these slogans continue, how long will death be reflected on your faces, how long will the religion of Allah Almighty be seen with disdain and humiliation, and you remain silent, how long will you consider your humble services as sacrifices, how long will the day come when you will be restless for the sake of religion, and when the day comes when you will stand up with determination for the task for which Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) was sent to the world? So, I also say to them that a voice of God has risen, rise and listen to that voice, say what was said to you before by the open arms, thirteen hundred years ago, "Our Lord, we have heard a caller calling..."
(Uttered on August 1, 1934)
After the afternoon prayer on August 1, 1934, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Babu Muhammad Ismail Sahib of Qadian to the daughter of Iqbal Begum. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has selected certain verses for the occasion of marriage, emphasizing the qualities of justice and truth. It is stressed that truth is essential on every occasion, and without it, no work can proceed. If family members living together, such as fathers, sons, daughters, and other relatives, do not deal with truth in their relationships, how much corruption can arise. But in the matter of husband and wife, truth is also necessary, otherwise great trials arise. The Sharia has emphasized truth in the matter of marriage with specificity, but unfortunately, in our country, the most lies are spoken about marriage to the extent that lies have become jokes. It is said that there was a person whose son could not find a match anywhere. Finally, without showing the boy, he arranged the marriage. When the marriage took place, the boy's side said, "May we be well, may our unfortunate son get married." Upon this, the girl's side said,
"We are fine, may our unfortunate daughter get married."
It has been mentioned that the groom's family also resorts to deception and the bride's family as well, and they do not consider that this deception will soon be exposed, and at that time, a great trial will ensue. We see where there is hope, there is also complaint and regret, and where there is no hope, there is no sorrow. A person goes to someone's house with no hope of being treated with respect, so he will not complain but will be happy that he did not say anything unpleasant. On such occasions, the absence of evil is considered a cause for joy, but a person who goes to a friend and if the friend does not humble himself properly, he becomes dissatisfied. Where there is hope, there is also complaint. Not speaking to each other with clarity after the marriage creates complaints, and then it leads to significant trials. Therefore, it is essential to deal with truth on the occasion of marriage just as prayer is essential in worship. If a person abandons it, he cannot remain a Muslim. Similarly, in the matter of marriage, a person who abandons truth gathers all the misfortunes of his life. (Al-Fazl, 14th August 1934, Page 5)
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Worldly things are not useless
(Uttered on April 22, 1935)
On April 22, 1935, after the Asr prayer in the blessed mosque, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Mr. Dari Fath Muhammad to Rukaiya Begum, daughter of Mr. Syed Mahmood Allah Shah, with a dowry of two thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
This is the sermon that the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) used to deliver on the occasion of marriage. It draws our attention towards the fact that every particle of this world is praising Allah Almighty and we acknowledge these praises. Many things that seem useless and purposeless in the world become essential at their time and place that a person cannot pass by without acknowledging them. Allah Almighty states in the Quran, "And whatever good [of bounty] you have - it is from Allah." Every beneficial thing is established in the world because it benefits people. Every harmful thing is removed from the world, but as long as it holds some benefit within, Allah Almighty sustains it in the world. According to this divine law, every person is alive in the world; these animals and birds are alive, and everything that is established in its current state holds some benefit within. When a person dies, they fulfill their tasks, but their bones mix with the soil, and
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Color provides benefit. Phosphorus, salt, and many elements are obtained from bones. Then, they also help in the preparation of fields. So, the only change in the deceased is in appearance; otherwise, some parts of them are not destroyed because they are still beneficial. Destruction is something that becomes useless, and it is known from the Noble Quran that everything in the world is beneficial. Allah Almighty has said, "We have created the heavens and the earth and everything in between for the benefit of mankind." So, it becomes clear that nothing in the world is useless; the bricks, clay, and grass that we consider useless, it is known from the words of Allah that they also have a purpose and benefit within them. Otherwise, why would Allah Almighty create them and if their purpose and benefit were to end, why would He keep them alive? I once pondered on this matter and estimated the age of the world. I saw that grass and herbs grow on the mountain caves and peaks, thousands of tons of water fall from the sky, from which a small portion benefits humans, and the rest flows into the sea. There is a long chain of mountains with thousands of caves that have merged with the surface of the earth. I observed all these things and pondered why this is happening. Doesn't anyone object to Allah Almighty that He has created so many useless things, and those who object also object. There are thousands of philosophers in the world who object that grass growing on mountain peaks, insects dying in the corners of houses, and thousands of types of birds that never benefit humans, why did Allah Almighty create them? I pondered on this matter and reached the conclusion that the religion that has given that human food is common with all things, only that religion can solve this knot. The religion that only recommends animal food or plant food cannot solve it. The religion that says that souls fall from the sky cannot solve it either.
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Then the religion that says that man comes to the world once, sometimes as an animal, sometimes as a bird, and sometimes in another form cannot solve it. To solve it, a religion is needed that claims that man comes to the world only once and his food is a combination of all things. So, I pondered over the powers of the earth and understood why thousands of types of grass, fruits, animals, and birds exist in the world, why grass grows continuously on mountain peaks, why water drips from the eyes, why various types of animals are born. They are waiting for that moment when man absorbs them in his existence so that they can attain eternal life. Every particle is coming out restlessly, saying, "Look at me, human." So, these things are not useless. A secret is being revealed. Man cannot use everything at once. One by one, everything comes before his eyes, and the particle is absorbed into his being, and the particle included in the soul comes under the eternal mercy of Allah, and until every particle of the universe is absorbed into the human soul, the world will not end. Until the particle does not attain eternity and until it is included in the human soul, and when every particle attains eternity, understand that the world has achieved its purpose. This world is established as long as man exists. See, "Alhamdulillah, we praise." How our attention has been turned towards it that you cannot say about anything in the world that it is not a means of praising Allah. Take the worst of men. Take Abu Jahl. You will say how angry he was and why Allah created him. No Muslim of his time could estimate what his birth meant, but forty years later when his existence appeared in Akramah, it became clear how necessary his existence was. If Allah had made Abu Jahl a Fatah, where would Akramah come from? So, Abu Jahl was just a post office, and due to the dirty thing in between, the excellent thing coming ahead did not do anything. Even if it is dirty, but if pure water is coming out of it, it is not rejected, and no human race can be such that it remains dirty from Adam to the Day of Judgment. Then how can someone be called futile and useless? Abu Jahl is
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He was filthy, but in his essence, there was something so pure that was worthy of preservation, and when Allah Almighty was ready to destroy Abu Jahl, the spirit of Akramah was ready to depart, questioning why I was being destroyed. This is just an example. Various kinds of spirits are moving within every human according to their recognition, so that they can understand it according to their recognition, otherwise, Allah Almighty did not create anything in the world without benefit. When something becomes useless, we throw it out like excrement, which is used as manure and produces crops. It seems that when it became useless, it was removed from there, but because it was still beneficial in the world, it was not eliminated but then the grass and freshness are produced from it, which we leave our homes to see a couple of miles away. We are pleased to see it but at that time, we do not even think that it was produced from that dirty excrement. So, there is nothing in the world that is not a proof of praising Allah. Praise is placed first and gratitude later in this sermon, and the reason is that every particle of the world is praising Allah and we are doing a little. Our praise is like a bird taking water from the sea. So when it became clear that every particle of the universe holds benefits within it, we cannot call anything insignificant and cannot be ready to destroy it because we do not know how many benefits Allah Almighty has placed in it. The disbelievers seek punishment, but Allah Almighty says that this Prophet of ours, no matter how great his status, why should we not destroy him, we have kept him in our grip because who knows that he may kill someone whom we want to keep alive. So, the fights of the world, the disputes we see among fathers, sons, husbands, wives, brothers, relatives, and neighbors, all these are the result of lack of intellect. What we see as a flaw, if it were also in the sight of Allah Almighty, it would certainly be eliminated because Allah Almighty has said in the Noble Quran that we will not let the flaw remain and as long as something is established in the world, it means that there is some goodness and virtue within it. If our eyes do not see it, then it's another matter. If a person is corrupt, then surely he is, but if he is useless in one aspect, then in another aspect, he will definitely be useful. I have given the example of excrement which is discarded from the body
Separating things, but still, it is not useless and purposeless, and it is not that there is no goodness in it. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) had a comprehensive view of every aspect, and that is why he said, "Do not think well of anything." There is some goodness in everything, and if we understand this point, many disputes happening in the world will end, many bitter lives will become pleasant, and many ruined homes will become prosperous. All these corruptions and disputes are only there as long as we consider ourselves as God and also want to see God in others. The complete essence is only of Allah, other things are beneficial for someone and harmful for someone, beneficial for someone and harmful for someone else - complete perfection is only of Allah. If we look at the things of the world with the eye given by Allah, then the world becomes peaceful. Look at the free people. They are the cause of physical pain for us due to their abuses, but we are satisfied that Allah has created them for some purpose. Establishing peace in the world is only possible by understanding this point. Everything that we see as a flaw, if we change our perspective, we can benefit from it, or at least we can understand that it is not beneficial for us because it is being used incorrectly, or it may also happen that it is being used wrongly, so it cannot be beneficial. If a person wears pajamas around his neck, he cannot benefit from it because it is being used incorrectly, and benefit can only be derived from using it correctly. Al-Fazl, April 24, 1935, Page 1
Al-Musnad al-Imam al-Azam (Sunan Abi Hanifah) Kitab al-Nikah
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(Uttered on 26th July 1935)
On 26th July 1935, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Chaudhry Sardar Ahmad. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
The world has been likened to a field in Arabic terminology, and there is no doubt that by contemplating on human nature, we inevitably reach the conclusion that man has many similarities with a field or garden. A good farmer or a good person never sows bad seeds in the field, gives water, but when a little fire comes, he tries to find a good screw. Every farmer or gardener who strives for the cultivation of good seeds and good land can produce good results through hard work and effort. Just as good seeds and good land are necessary for a visible field, in the matter of marriage, the selection of a good man and a good woman should always be preferred. Once a person expressed his intention to marry in the presence of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him). He said, "Some marry for wealth, and some for beauty and lineage, but I say, 'Choose the one with religion.'
(Uttered on 26th July 1935)
When soil touches your hands, marry for the sake of religion. "Turbat yada g" is not a bad phrase but an Arabic idiom used in the context of love. Every person desires that their and their spouse's beauty remains intact, although they know that beauty is temporary. Another reason for marriage is wealth. Wealth is meant for spending, and the value of wealth is actually what it is spent on. If wealth is not spent, it has no value. The third aspect is lineage; this is also a burden, as it is famous that when jackals gather, one says, "My father was a king," and all the other jackals start saying, "Tracha tracha." So, being from a noble family is a burden only because people say that this person is from a noble lineage. A person always thinks about maintaining their position, and due to this, their expenses increase. The thing that is beneficial for the present and the future, only that is religion. Religion is the state that arises in a person's heart, the burning, the melting, the humility that arises in the heart, indeed, that is religion. If prayer does not produce goodness and piety, then it is not true prayer. Similarly, fasting that does not create compassion and sympathy in a person's heart towards creatures does not bring them closer to Allah but the thing behind it is the real religion. Likewise, Hajj is not true religion if it is only intended to be called a pilgrim, but Hajj done with the intention of carrying the pure amulets in the heart is true religion. This is the state of Zakat. The intention and desire with which a person does good and kindness to others are called religion. All the religions of the world start a person's upbringing when they reach maturity, but Islam starts a person's reform and upbringing even before their birth. Just as the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "Alayka bi zatil deen" - Marry for the sake of religion. Religion is the raw desire and piety that brings a person close to Allah. The condition of "bi zatil deen" is for both men and women, not just for women. When both the woman and the man are like this, it is as if good seed and good land have come together. Islam has based the relationship between husband and wife on religion, so the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "When a man goes to a woman, this prayer should be recited:
'بِسْمِ اللَّهِ، اللَّهُمَّ جَنِّبْنَا الشَّيْطَانَ وَجَنِّبِ الشَّيْطَانَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا.' - 'In the name of Allah. O Allah, keep us away from Satan and keep Satan away from what You provide us.'
اللهم جَيْبُنَا الشَّيْطَنَ وَجَنْبِ الشَّيْنَ مَا رَزَقْتَنَا.
This is a prayer that instills fear and creates piety, and through it, a person can maintain their state of happiness. After the child is born, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) ordered to recite the call to prayer in the child's ear. Although the child does not understand what is being done, hidden within him is the power to speak, just as the power to speak is hidden in the bamboo flute, but its expression comes later when it is cut (made into a flute). Similarly, the child also has the ability to speak, but its manifestation occurs later. The potential and acceptance of the child are both present. The acceptance materializes like the daily light. Based on this, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) emphasized giving the call to prayer in the child's ear and then emphasized the child's upbringing when they grow up. Thus, the Prophet (peace be upon him) once instructed in the upbringing of Imam Hussain. When eating, just as children have the habit of eating from here and there, Imam Hussain also started picking up food from different places. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said, كُلُّ بِيَمِينِكَ وَ كُلُّ مِمَّا يَلِيْكَ
- "Eat with your right hand and eat what is in front of you." Once, dates for charity arrived, and Imam Hussain picked up a date and put it in his mouth. At that moment, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) inserted his finger into his mouth and took out the date.
There are many such examples that prove that it was considered necessary to educate children from childhood. Then, when the child grows a little and learns to convey things, the emphasis was on teaching prayers. Education was also given importance. Thus, a hadith mentions that the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "The person who educates his two daughters and teaches them manners, for him, a house is built in paradise." People generally do not provide education to girls; that's why the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) mentioned it. This does not mean that boys should not be educated; there is no harm in not educating boys. Then when the child progresses and grows up, they are taught the laws of Shariah and noble ethics, and this is the only thing through which true goodness can be established.
Efforts should be made to find a good girl for the boy and a good boy for the girl, then both should unite with good intentions and good intentions. When children are born, their upbringing should be started with care so that it is not possible for the child to be corrupt, or at least so much goodness is instilled in the child that the impact of evil is not felt. Even if someone's child turns out to be corrupt, it cannot harm the community as a whole. Just like if a tree in a garden of noble fruits bears bad fruit, or a field of excellence yields a bad crop, the reputation of the garden or field cannot be harmed due to the corruption of one or two. Remember! This is the same path through which real benefit can be achieved.
Al-Tirmidhi, Book of Marriage, Chapter: What is mentioned about marrying for three qualities
Al-Bukhari, Book of Beginnings of Creation, Chapter: Description of Satan and his troops
Al-Fazl, August 28, 1935, Page 3
Al-Bukhari, Book of Foods, Chapter: Naming the Food and Eating with the Right Hand
Al-Bukhari, Book of Zakat, Chapter: Mention of Charity for the Prophet (peace be upon him) and his family
Mention of Imam Hasan in Ibn Majah, Book of Etiquette, Chapter: Being Kind to Parents and Showing Kindness to Daughters
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After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
Islam has felt this important need more than any other religion, in fact, it should be said that only Islam has perceived it, no other religion has paid attention to it. A human can bear all kinds of pain, but he does not give as much time individually to all his tasks as he gives to his home. Although the time of the house is less in terms of the day, if a person goes to the times of other tasks, he will realize that the time of the house is more than the times of other tasks. He will meet a man from outside the house, then from others, he will meet scholars and relatives, and also meet neighborhood people, but in the house, his relationship and interaction will be only with one personality, and his qualities or flaws will be noticed. The weakness of a person looking at flaws is due to his weakness. When a weakness develops in a person, his focus shifts more towards flaws and less towards qualities. Once Hazrat Isa (peace be upon him) and his disciples were passing through a place, a bad smell was perceived. Hazrat Isa (peace be upon him) asked his disciples about it.
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It is coming, but Hazrat Isa (peace be upon him) said, "Look how clean and shiny his teeth are." It seems that even regarding the teeth of a dead dog, his focus was on beauty. So, spirituality and goodness direct a person towards virtues, but a person lacking religious goodness focuses on flaws. Thus, if a weak person looks at the flaws of his wife and does not see her virtues, it will be a calamity that will haunt him day and night. On one side, if the husband says that the food at home is not cooked well, the utensils are not clean, on the other side, the wife complains that she is not given enough expenses to manage the household, then disputes will continue from both sides. Some people, when they feel constrained, show negligence and indifference towards the flaws of their wives, and some people pull back from the necessities of the house and children's upbringing. Both these situations are harmful and detrimental, and to prevent them, Islam has provided a means, that is, to be obedient and follow the command of Allah and His Messenger. Now the question arises, what has Allah and the Messenger instructed? It is that the foundation of the relationship between husband and wife should be based on piety. A poet said:
"The first brick may be crooked, the mason may be unskilled, but if a person follows the teachings of the Noble Messenger (peace be upon him), he can turn his house into paradise."
Good children are also born to good parents. Alhamdulillah. And if the relationship between husband and wife is based on piety, the result will always be good. Another point is that the Shariah has instructed to entrust the matter to Allah besides one's intellect, and entrusting it to Allah always yields a good result. For example, Istikhara is necessary for this, that a person must pledge that if Allah does not make a certain relationship easy, they will not pursue it. If this pledge is not made, Istikhara cannot be called Istikhara. Many Hindus and Sikhs come to me and ask for a strategy that easily reveals the truthfulness of Islam. I tell them that the strategy that is easy is Istikhara.
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If you find the truthfulness of Islam through Istikhara, then you must indeed accept Islam. However, if you feel in your heart that you do not want to accept Islam, then Istikhara becomes a futile act, and Allah does not pay attention to futile acts. Allah guides the one who performs Istikhara, provided that they have the determination that if Allah wills, they will do a certain task, otherwise not. Then, the Shariah has advised to proceed with forgiveness. Mistakes can occur in men and women. In such a situation, Allah has commanded to proceed with forgiveness and overlook. Remember, there is a difference between forgiveness and negligence. A forgiving person detests something from the heart, but a negligent person does not detest it from the heart, and thus, indifference is developed. The purpose is that by following the instructions prescribed for husband and wife in Islam, domestic life can become extremely pleasant and comfortable. The determination of the two parties could not be made.
Al-Tirmidhi, Book of Marriage, Chapter: Marrying for Three Qualities
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After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
Marriage is one of the essential human needs, and there was no need to say anything about it, but human nature is such that it can extract good even from bad things. Indeed, Allah has given humans the abilities and strengths to turn bad into good. There are people in this world who can extract good even from bad things. In our country, 80% of the landowners are illiterate. Generally, they are ignorant of sciences, but they are the landowners who only invest in things that sustain human life. In reality, the person who works with the powers given by Allah can turn even bad things into good. However, those who do not utilize the powers given by Allah turn good into bad. Some people in this world make even filth useful for human necessities, and some people are found who turn prayers and fasts into means of Satanism, and Allah Almighty mentions about them in the Noble Quran: "So woe to those who pray." Some of these prayer performers bring destruction instead of benefit.
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It should not be assumed that marriage is an essential thing; it can have a downside. Despite being an essential aspect of life, a means for the progress of the world, and a way to raise future generations, there is a group in the world that has deemed it bad. They either refrain from marriage and spend their entire lives in monasticism or become monks to deceive the world. On one hand, where there are people who emphasize not getting married, on the other hand, there are those who marry numerous women just to have them serve food. However, a woman is not just meant to serve food; she has needs that cannot be limited. Indeed, where one natural demand is restricted, on the other hand, it becomes unlimited. If a man sacrifices religion and faith for the sake of his wife, and the wife sacrifices religion and faith for the husband, then there are women who sever their ties with their in-laws and men who sever their ties with their in-laws and even dislike looking at each other. The reason for this is that where the angels of Allah instill good movements in the heart, there Satan's offspring incite evil movements. A believer should start every task he wishes to undertake with prayer and not think that there is no negative aspect to the work he is beginning because every good thing has a negative aspect as well. Therefore, a believer should rely on piety for every task and should always proceed with patience and caution in good deeds.
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After the Asr prayer on January 11, 1936, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II called upon Maulvi Ghulam Rasool to solemnize the marriage of two princesses, Safiya Begum and Zainab Bibi, with a dowry of five hundred rupees each. The marriage ceremony was conducted for Ghulam Muhammad, son of Miyan Mahtab Din, and Ahmad Khan, son of Hakeem Muhammad Ismail, residents of Haye Pir Kot, district Gujranwala.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
Marriage is the foundation of love, and the love between husband and wife is truly a reflection of the love of Allah. Marriage is a school where the lesson of divine love is taught by Allah Almighty. Some Sufis have distorted the essence of love by associating it with metaphorical love, exaggerating it, and corrupting its true form. Some statements made by certain individuals have darkened their position. The love presented in legends is so artificial and repulsive that portraying it as true love is against reason. However, I believe that the relationship between parents and children and between husband and wife is a school where the true lesson of Allah's love is imparted. When the provisions created by Allah that present the lesson of permissible and natural love are available, then creating any other form that is impermissible is against reason.
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What is its necessity? The love of parents for their children and the love between husband and wife in a pure form is a reflection of the love of God. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) equated the love of a mother with the love of God and the foundation of the relationship between husband and wife, based on that love, is also evident from the actions and words of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him). So, what is the need to create something that is already present? It is foolishness to use in a way that poses risks what Allah has created as a means of meeting Him. It is mentioned in the traditions of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) that a person who feeds his wife with the intention that Allah is pleased with me, receives rewards. He feeds his wife, which produces healthy blood in her body, brings happiness to her face, and results in healthy children. Indeed, the wife feeds him, the husband feeds her, and healthy children are born, but Allah is pleased. Because this is also a charity and it is also a cause of reward. It is mentioned in the traditions of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) that sometimes for the sake of the affection of their wives, some husbands used to drink water from the same place where their wives drank. Once, a person with a corrupt nature compiled such traditions and wrote a book. I have also written a response to a part of it. In his imagination, he saw a woman and a man, both afflicted with sensual thoughts, deviating from the right path. In fact, this person did not understand human nature and did not see the initial stage of divine love. He only saw the relationship between husband and wife but did not see why they love and what they see in it. Hazrat Nizamuddin Auliya was passing through the market once when he saw a beautiful child. He moved forward and kissed the child. His disciples also kissed the child, but a person who later became his caliph did not kiss the child. Others thought he was arrogant for not following the path of the spiritual guide, but when he moved forward, there was a potter's kiln burning, and Hazrat Nizamuddin Auliya moved forward and kissed the flame. Upon this, you
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The disciple also kissed the flame that the child had kissed, although no one else had kissed the flame. Then he said to others, "If you had love for the guide, why did you not kiss this flame?" Hazrat Nizamuddin Sahib had seen the manifestation of Allah in the child due to some reason and kissed it, but I did not see that manifestation in it, so I did not kiss it. Now, here, they saw the manifestation of Allah in the flame, and I also saw the manifestation of Allah in it, so I kissed it. Perhaps the child was the son of noble parents who had kissed him out of respect for them, and coincidentally, he was also beautiful. But even if he had been ugly, they would have kissed him out of respect for his noble parents. However, superficial observers thought that the child was kissed because of his beauty, whereas it is not a condition that the child of a good person must be beautiful. It is possible that he was the child of a teacher, a saint, or a person who manifests the signs of Allah. For this reason, they saw the manifestation of Allah, but observers only saw the child and his kissing. Prophets (peace be upon them) who love their wives, some unworthy individuals who do not understand the truth, look at it superficially. They only see the relationship between husband and wife, whereas Allah has designated the relationship between husband and wife as a sign of His love. The purpose of a mother's love is a shadow of the love of Allah, the love of a wife is also a shadow of the love of Allah, and the love of children is also a shadow of the love of Allah. From the past perspective, a mother's love is a successor to the love of Allah, from the present perspective, the love between husband and wife is a successor to the love of Allah, and from the future perspective, the love of children is a successor to the love of Allah. It seems that all three are schools where a person learns the lesson of the love of Allah and teaches it to others. Hazrat Maulvi Abdul Karim Sahib once spoke harshly to his wife, and Allah liked this command. Allah inspired Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) that the Muslim leader should tell Abdul Karim that this way is not good. In reality, the dishonor of the shadow is also the dishonor of the reality. A sincere guest had come from outside and is still here. Once, he spoke harshly to a servant of the inn, and Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) said
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He (peace be upon him) is our representative, and with him, endurance is with us. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) also said, "Whoever abuses me, indeed, abuses Allah, and whoever disobeys me, indeed, disobeys Allah." Disobedience to shadows is also disobedience to reality. The community of prophets appears extremely perfect in these three loves, which are indeed shadows of the love of Allah. In the traditions of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) about the love of parents, although your parents were not present, your wet nurse was there, and when she came, you would run to her quickly and say, "Mother, mother," and she would wrap you in her shawl. Regarding the conduct with wives, I have mentioned that to the extent that when wives drink water by putting their mouths on the same spot, you also put your mouth on the same spot and drink. There is an incident related to Hazrat Aisha that once she had a headache, and when the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) came home, she said, "I have a headache." He said, "It's a common thing; Insha'Allah, it will be fine." Hazrat Aisha said, "If I die, you will marry someone else." He said, "Aisha, no. I will die, and you will live." So, the demise of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) occurred before yours. Then Hazrat Aisha said, "Whenever I recall this incident, I am always saddened by why I spoke at that time. Similarly, the conduct related to the love of children also appears extremely perfect in the way of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him). In reality, the prophets see that the love of children is a shadow of the love of Allah, which Allah has created for the future generations. The tradition of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) regarding the love of children was not about the love of older children, but there were daughters and grandsons, and with them, you always showed the conduct of love and affection, which indicates how much love you had for them. Sometimes a young child would climb on you during prayer, but you would remain in prostration until the child got up by himself. Then you said, "Respect your children. Since they have the shadow of Allah's love, they are worthy of respect." So, in all these loves, there is a lesson that if a person wants to learn, he should see and understand the love of his parents and realize that this is actually the love of Allah speaking to me through this medium.
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He (peace be upon him) is our representative, and with him, endurance is with us. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) also said, "Whoever abuses me, indeed, abuses Allah, and whoever disobeys me, indeed, disobeys Allah." Disobedience to shadows is also disobedience to reality. The community of prophets appears extremely perfect in these three loves, which are indeed shadows of the love of Allah. In the traditions of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) about the love of parents, although your parents were not present, your wet nurse was there, and when she came, you would run to her quickly and say, "Mother, mother," and she would wrap you in her shawl. Regarding the conduct with wives, I have mentioned that to the extent that when wives drink water by putting their mouths on the same spot, you also put your mouth on the same spot and drink. There is an incident related to Hazrat Aisha that once she had a headache, and when the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) came home, she said, "I have a headache." He said, "It's a common thing; Insha'Allah, it will be fine." Hazrat Aisha said, "If I die, you will marry someone else." He said, "Aisha, no. I will die, and you will live." So, the demise of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) occurred before yours. Then Hazrat Aisha said, "Whenever I recall this incident, I am always saddened by why I spoke at that time. Similarly, the conduct related to the love of children also appears extremely perfect in the way of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him). In reality, the prophets see that the love of children is a shadow of the love of Allah, which Allah has created for the future generations. The tradition of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) regarding the love of children was not about the love of older children, but there were daughters and grandsons, and with them, you always showed the conduct of love and affection, which indicates how much love you had for them. Sometimes a young child would climb on you during prayer, but you would remain in prostration until the child got up by himself. Then you said, "Respect your children. Since they have the shadow of Allah's love, they are worthy of respect." So, in all these loves, there is a lesson that if a person wants to learn, he should see and understand the love of his parents and realize that this is actually the love of Allah speaking to me through this medium.
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Musnad Ahmad ibn Hanbal, Volume 1, Page 172
Al-Mawahib al-Ladunniyah, Part One, Page 296, Printed in Egypt, 1326/6190 AH
This book was written by a Shia, Mirza Sultan Ahmad, about the pure wives of the Prophet and the Rightly Guided Caliphs. Hazrat Mirza responded to its allegations in his book "Haqiqat-ul-Yaqeen Fi Rad-e-Hifz al-Munafiqeen" in 1926. The note on page 396 in the fourth edition reads, "This way is not good. The Muslim leader Abdul Karim should be advised against it."
Sahih Bukhari, Book of Judgments, Chapter: Obey Allah and Obey the Messenger and those in authority among you
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In May 1936, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Ghulam Muhammad, son of Miyan Mahtab Din, with Syeda Umme Hamid Begum, the daughter of Nawab Muhammad Ali Khan, with a dowry of fifteen thousand rupees. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, it was stated:
On one hand, we see that human life has been given such importance that Allah Almighty states in the Holy Quran that monasticism is an innovation introduced by Christians, and the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said that there is no monasticism in Islam. On the other hand, we see that the state of human beings is becoming so dreadful and dangerous that, for example, it is evident from the sayings of some elders that even animals seek refuge from them. Allah Almighty also mentions some people in the Quran. "They are like cattle; nay, they are worse - these are the heedless ones." So, on one hand, describing the state of humans as worse than animals, labeling them as the worst creatures, and commanding the elders
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Some human beings will seek refuge with jungle animals, and on the other hand, there is an emphasis on getting married. Whoever does not marry makes life futile. Apparently, it seems like a puzzle. On one hand, there is so much emphasis on marriage, but on the other hand, there is so much disdain for the consequences of marriage. If the result of marriage brought forth such evil creatures, then the command to stop such marriages should have been given. Perhaps this is why the Christians came up with the idea that not marrying is better than marrying because eradicating evil and mischief as quickly as possible is good. We need to ponder on the fact that the solution to this logical problem lies in the two powers that Allah has created within humans: one is actual, and the other is potential. Indeed, harsh words have been used about the current era, and before the advent of every prophet, such eras exist. Harsh words are also found in the time of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), as he said, "Corruption has appeared in the land and the sea - because of what the hands of people have earned." Books have been corrupted, and even the People of the Book. Hazrat Masih (peace be upon him) also said that the people of this era are like cattle, nay, they are worse - these are the heedless ones. So, these three eras are before us, and the speeches about the people of those times are also within our knowledge. The speeches about the time of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) and the present time are found in the Quran, and the speeches about Hazrat Masih (peace be upon him) are found in the Bible, where it is mentioned that he labeled his contemporaries as swine, dogs, snakes, snake's offspring, and sinners. And when humans are told to procreate, we see the wisdom in it that Allah has endowed humans with such capabilities that if used correctly and guided on the right path, they can change the world. The harsh words used and the evil speeches remembered are an expression of the current situation, but what
The command to marry implies that through the birth of new offspring, this state can be corrected. Just as if there is excess salt in a dish, it indicates the current state, and we pour more water into it to correct it. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "Every child is born on the Islamic nature; it is later that others make them impure." It is known from this that the correction of the world can be achieved through the offspring of the new generation. Goodness can be established in the world through the future generations, not through the present generation. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has explained this point. He said, "When a child is born, the call to prayer should be recited in their ear, then he said, 'Every child is born on the Islamic nature.'"
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It is undeniable that the community of the prophets is better than the communities to come, but this does not contradict the issue I have raised. It is a common psychological issue that the reform of the world can be achieved in two ways: through education and upbringing, and through conversion. Conversion means that an earthquake occurs within a person that transforms them instantly, leading their heart to become like a mirror, as if an earthquake occurs inside a person that reshapes them. This transformation is so rare that most philosophers deny it because they have not experienced it themselves. It always happens through the prophets. When the prophets come, they create a new earth and a new heaven. They have batteries of electrical power in their palms, and whoever touches them seems to have an internal part that becomes loose. Besides, the person who stands for the reform of the world will have to achieve the world's reform through the offspring of future generations. The essence of the heart is only related to the prophet and the era near the prophet. The era of the prophet is a special era that does not end immediately but continues for a period even after the prophet's demise. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "The best era is mine, then the era near me, and then the era near them." It means some will be good, and some will be bad. I present the era of the prophets as a spiritual creation era. "I have created you from clay like the potter's clay." Leaving aside their era or the era near them for the world's reform can only be achieved through the offspring of future generations. But if the chain of marriage is stopped, it means that the only means of the world's reform has been stopped because there is a gap in the chain of the arrival of the prophets, and no prophet comes for many centuries. Therefore, the only way left for the world's reform is to continue the chain of marriage and produce offspring for future generations. The nation that accepts monasticism hinders the path of the world's reform. Therefore, for the nation that wants to reform the world, it is essential to keep the chain of marriage ongoing, which the first generation cannot fulfill, perhaps the second generation will.
I do not mention the person here who marries under the impulse of animality, but
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Reflecting on whether one should marry or not. The purpose of marriage for such a person is solely to establish the human species on righteousness. Therefore, when the intention of marriage is this, one should also consider this aspect in marriages and have the intention and determination to fulfill this purpose, even though the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) did not allow the cessation of this chain despite the bad consequences of marriage coming forth. Because who knows that from their offspring, a person may emerge who can reform the world. This is similar to how a diver searches for pearls in the sea, and valuable pearls are found in the depths, so the command is to dive, perhaps the pearl that can save the world is in your hands. Fourteen hundred years ago in Mecca, when a man named Abdullah married a woman named Amina, who could have said that this diver would bring forth a pearl that would change the fate of the world. But it was also a marriage, and it was in the same color that the diver and the pearl were found. Therefore, strive and bring forth the pearl that can reform the world, and for this purpose, one must stand at the station of certainty after passing through coincidence and follow the way shown by the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) that can make us stand at the station of certainty, and that is to continue making prayers and keep the intention of marriage. Thus, you said that when a man and a woman come together, they should pray, "O Allah, keep us away from Satan and keep Satan away from what You provide us." Then it means to keep us safe from Satan and also our offspring that will be born.
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It is possible that the meaning of this prayer is that a person develops enmity towards Satan in their heart and
thus, they will be particularly mindful that Satan does not approach their child because
the person who prays that "O Allah, keep my child safe from the plague," will never allow them to sit in the lap of a plague patient. Instead, they will take their child away from such a patient. So, when the Noble Messenger ﷺ said that whoever prays that their child remains safe from the influence of Satan, it means that such a person will also make an effort to ensure
that Satan does not come near their child. And if they ever see that their child has reached Satan, they will pull them back. How can it be possible that a person who prays before the birth of their child to keep them safe from Satan, and when their child reaches Satan, they pull them back? If they do not do so, they are a liar, and their prayer is not from the heart but merely from the tongue. So, we should reflect on how many of us protect our children from Satan. Is it not a fact that we ourselves make our children liars, deceitful, cunning, heedless, irreligious, immoral, and thieves? Does even one percent of us do such things? Children have no knowledge, so the one who makes them Satan is their father who used to pray before their birth that Satan should not come near their child, but he himself makes them Satan, rather, he makes them worse than Satan. What is the concept of Satan while Allah Almighty has assigned him a task. The toilet may stink, but it is not bad like Abu Jahl. Abu Jahl, who used to do wrong, used to do bad things. The action of Satan is a natural demand, but if a child develops Satanic habits, whatever they do will be wrong, so they will do bad things, so they should be considered Satan's descendants. I am deeply saddened that people pray with their mouths to protect their children from Satan, but in reality, they make them liars, heedless, lazy, abandoners of prayers, and keep them away from religious education, righteousness, and purity. They hide their lies, they cover up their theft, so their saying that they had prayed is a lie and deceit from which there will be no more lies and deceit. Their prayer holds no truth. If in their hearts, there is indeed such real hatred towards Satan that they practically develop such aversion that they cannot even sit with their wife, who is
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Before departing, pray that Allah grants them a generation protected from the influence of Satan.
After the child is born, they become so deluded that they fear Satan coming near them,
and they push them away with rebukes, but what do they do? They place the child in the lap of Satan,
until they themselves become Satan, or even the teacher of Satan. So, the Shariah's command to marry and produce offspring means
that efforts should be made to compensate for past mistakes. When we have a dispute with a friend,
our visit to their house should not be with the intention of escalating the argument but
with the intention of reconciliation. Similarly, despite the bad outcomes of marriage, when the command is to marry,
it means to compensate for past mistakes and strive to produce a generation that can crush Satan and his powers. And the person who marries with this intention and then
strives to fulfill it completely turns the world from hell into heaven. But it is necessary to understand this point that
despite the existence of such a filthy world, the command is to marry. It is just like when a potter makes something and
it has a flaw, they keep trying until they succeed. So, each one of you should strive to atone for past sins, and until you walk this line,
the purpose of marriage cannot be fulfilled. So, in this gathering, I address the community in general and the individuals of that family specifically whom Allah
has chosen for this purpose of establishing Islam in the world. When the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said that when faith reaches its peak,
some individuals from the Sons of Persia will bring it back, it was not just a prophecy but an appeal to the Sons of Persia that when
such a day comes, it will be your duty to bring back Islam. So, in response to this appeal, the duty of the Sons of Persia is to establish Islam in the world through prayers, efforts,
by killing their emotions, by any means possible, and by striving to establish Islam in the world. The Quran states that if the people of the house do good deeds, they will have double reward, but in negligence,
they will have double punishment. Therefore, in the present era, the disorder in the Islamic system that has emerged
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The responsibility for correctness falls on the descendants of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him). They are rewarded doubly for it, but they are also punished doubly. If they fulfill their purpose, they are rewarded more than others, but if they lack sacrifice within themselves for the betterment of the world, then they are punished more than others because they saw the light up close and remained deprived.
So, in this gathering, I want to say to those young people who are getting married or producing offspring, especially to the descendants of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him), what benefit can they bring to Allah Almighty through their marriages and the birth of children, and how can their rule be strengthened by it? He does not say it for his own betterment but just as a teacher tells a student who makes a mistake in writing a letter to try again, not to lose heart. In the same way, Allah Almighty raises human morale and directs us to benefit from it and strive to produce a generation that can eliminate hatred, malice, greed, ambition, love for the world, lies, deceit, trickery, and other such things from the world and bring forth people who love and are connected to the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) and the religion, who can eradicate worldliness and irreligiosity. Satan attacks us today mostly through our children. Our children go and, influenced by Western education, become thorns in the sides of their fathers and grandfathers. But if we take action with attention and intelligence, can we not cut off Satan's head through our children? Certainly, we can, and very easily because they are not others but ourselves, and we can influence them so easily. So, understanding this point, educate your future generations and then see how the world changes so easily. But if you yourself neglect them in prayers, prevent them from sacrifices, and if ever the opportunity arises, become an obstacle in their path, then the purpose that the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) placed in this prayer and the prayer of such a person who does not make any effort will be in vain. On May 14, 1936
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After the Asr prayer on May 20, 1936, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced a marriage. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"No matter how perfect human actions are and how cautiously they are performed, there will always be some flaw and some house will surely remain empty. It is only Allah Almighty's essence that fills those voids and closes those holes from which flaws emerge."
Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I used to narrate an incident that in Ram Pura, there was a poor Pathan who couldn't find employment and was willing to work as a laborer, but people were not willing to hire him. In his distressed state, he met the Prime Minister and expressed his difficulties and pain to him. The Prime Minister was moved by his words and offered him a job. Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I stated that the transformed state of that man had such an impact that he denied the existence of Allah Almighty and would tell people that there is no God except ours (pointing towards the Prime Minister). This amusing incident continued for a while, and whenever he was asked about the existence of Allah Almighty, he would refer to the Prime Minister as God. Once, there was a suggestion from the Nawab to distribute sweets, and the Prime Minister started distributing sweets, which the Pathan used to call God. While distributing sweets, he went into the crowd of people's homes, and upon this
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To stop the crowd, Sapper moved his stick to push the crowd back. Coincidentally, the Pathan was present there. When he saw the Prime Minister being harassed, he felt outraged and drew his knife to attack. It is possible that he drew the knife with the intention of attacking, and it is also possible that he drew it out of fear. Then it is also possible that he attacked and only wounds were inflicted, he did not die. But he struck with such force that the knife hit the Prime Minister's stomach, causing intestines to spill out. At that moment, someone said, "Look, your God has fallen." So, human actions and human desires are never perfect. Complete measures are only in the essence of Allah Almighty or after establishing a relationship with Allah Almighty, human measures become successful. So, in every matter, whether small or large, attention should be paid to Allah Almighty, and success should be relied upon in that. When a person aligns their measures with the decree of Allah Almighty, those measures are no longer measures but become decrees. It should not be understood that after placing trust, it is impossible for a person to make a mistake. Even after placing trust, mistakes happen, but those mistakes also happen for a special wisdom, so it should be said that those mistakes are under destiny and in no way independent. Whatever work is done under the wisdom of Allah Almighty, even if it does not seem good outwardly, in terms of results, that work turns out to be good. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) used to say that when a person aligns their measures with the decree of Allah Almighty, those measures are not measures but become decrees. It is necessary that a person does not rely on themselves but relies on the attributes of Allah Almighty and keeps in mind His grace and mercy. When a person places trust in Allah Almighty and comes under His protection, at that time, human measures become decrees, and all the shortcomings that can occur in human measures are fulfilled. Just as a student takes his written tablet to the teacher, and the teacher corrects it. Similarly, when a person takes their written tablet, that is, their measures, in front of Allah Almighty, He corrects them. After correction by Him, those measures cannot be called harsh but become decrees of destiny. It should not be understood that after placing trust, it is impossible for a person to make a mistake. Even after placing trust, mistakes happen, but those mistakes also happen for a special wisdom, so it should be said that those mistakes are under destiny and in no way independent. The work done under the wisdom of Allah Almighty, even if it does not seem good outwardly, in terms of results, that work turns out to be good. On May 24, 1936
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Hazrat Zaid married his paternal cousin's daughter. We cannot say that the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) did not seek guidance, did not pray, did not rely on Allah Almighty; all these things were done by the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him). You wanted to convey that lineage is not the real thing; righteousness is. To prove this point, there were thousands of people present. In the past centuries, millions of Muslims have established this example, and millions and billions more will come who will overlook nationality, overlook ranks, and only focus on righteousness. The purpose that thousands of Muslims have fulfilled and the millions and billions who will come later, the special Messenger of Allah Almighty has fulfilled through Hazrat Zainab's marriage incident. Allah Almighty revealed through this incident that children are what the law of nature dictates. Children born according to the law of nature are real children, whether they follow the law of the land or not. The children following the law of the land are not real children, and the laws set by religion for real children apply to others. The only way to establish this point was for Zaid to marry the Prophet's (peace be upon him) niece. Allah Almighty did not allow the separation of Zaid and his wife. Despite the fact that the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) sought guidance, prayed, relied on Allah Almighty, made efforts, the divine wisdom was that Zaid should divorce his wife and she should marry the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) to prove that children according to the law of the land are not like children according to the law of nature. Apart from this example, the thought prevalent among the people of that time could not be eradicated. So, in this example, the divine wisdom prevailed over the wisdom of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him). Otherwise, only overlooking nationality and worldly ranks and creating relationships could be seen in many examples and will continue to be seen.
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The purpose of those who have undertaken tasks through Istikhara and prayers, and raised questions to Allah Almighty, will surely yield good results. Even if there appear to be difficulties and hardships on the surface, they will be for the betterment according to divine wisdom. Just as the separation between Zaid and his wife, because it was more beneficial and produced a very important outcome, it could not have been otherwise because this separation was better than connection. Therefore, the results of Istikhara, prayers, and reliance are indeed good. A believer should seek Istikhara in all matters, especially in marriage, make prayers, and place reliance on Allah Almighty.
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After the Asr prayer on September 28, 1936, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Molvi Abdul Salam, the son of Khalifatul Masih I, with Sagheeri Begum, the daughter of Hazrat Mir Umme Saeed Sahib Hyderabadi, for a dowry of one thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"Due to a cough, I cannot speak much, and the current state of my throat, and also from the perspective of the impact of Friday sermons on my nature and the weakness that arises, it is not fully resolved until the next Friday, which necessitates the need for the Friday sermon. It is difficult for me to speak, but I want to mention a few beneficial points related to marriage. The marriage for which I am standing here is the second marriage, meaning the second wedding, and in our society, people consider second marriages a sin. Therefore, when a person starts to become a perpetrator of this act, he tries to provide many reasons for it and says that these are the reasons that necessitate the need for a second marriage. Or his friends, other friends, mention it, as how in UP, when someone goes to buy goat meat, his acquaintances start asking him why
Goodness is there, is there no one sick at home? Similarly, when people discuss someone's second marriage, some smile, and those who oppose it come up with various arguments, which believers start presenting the proofs of permission and start stating that these are the reasons that necessitate the need for a second marriage. As far as I understand, there is no such thing in the Holy Quran for which a Muslim needs to apologize. In reality, evil is what Allah Almighty deems evil, and goodness is what Allah Almighty deems good. Who are we to declare an act evil for ourselves and good for others, and that too because some Westerners call it evil and object to it. I remember that once when my attention was drawn to the verse "Then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four" (Quran, Surah An-Nisa: 3), at that time, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I, Hafiz Roshan Ali Sahib, used to read it to Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I. We were not advanced; we were beginners, but we used to gather on some occasions, especially for the study of the Holy Quran and Bukhari. Sometimes we used to discuss matters related to Quranic verses. I remember that when we used to discuss this verse, we understood that two, three, or four marriages are the real essence, meaning that two, three, or four marriages should be done, and if you fear that you cannot do justice, then marry only one. That is, the real essence is to do more marriages, and then the command is that if you cannot do more, then do one according to the law. Why should we leave this and understand it just because there are more exceptional circumstances in the present time? For example, the law has given the command for Hajj, but along with it, the conditions set allow only one out of a hundred (100) people to perform Hajj. Then considering the distance and similar matters, out of thousands, only one person can go for Hajj. If we look at these kinds of things, then out of millions, one person can go, and out of a hundred thousand, one can go, and out of eighty million, only eighty thousand can go. But now the number of people who go for Hajj is not that much. The average number of Hajj pilgrims is usually eight or ten thousand, but how many
When Hajj becomes obligatory on people, but they do not go for Hajj, and those who go for Hajj, usually only two percent of them are obligated to perform Hajj. If those on whom Hajj is obligatory go for Hajj and the average lifespan of people is considered to be thirty years, then fifteen years are spent in childhood and old age. If the remaining fifteen years are divided into tasks, then a period of five to six years is available in which they can go for Hajj. If those on whom Hajj is obligatory go for Hajj and those Muslims are exempted who keep asking for delays and keep procrastinating, then the number of pilgrims remains the same. If the country's financial situation improves and one person out of a hundred starts going for Hajj, then out of eighty million, eighty thousand will go. And if a generation is considered to last fifty years, then in fifty years, eighty thousand will go. But it is evident that the obligation of Hajj on one out of a hundred does not weaken the obligation of Hajj. This is because there are more exemptions. The meaning of the command does not become that there are fewer exemptions. People just consider the majority of exemptions and think that this is not a command or this is not a good deed. This is not a reference like the example I gave of Hajj; this is the same nowadays with Jihad. The command of Jihad with swords has completely disappeared nowadays. Those people who had swords in their hands have thrown away their swords. This does not mean that the command of Jihad has been abrogated forever. The reason is that people are afraid of European objections, and objections to polygamy are especially supported by women. Even in our community, such examples are found. Even in Qadian, such examples exist. People greet each other, hug each other, help each other in all matters. But they do not look in the direction where a person, by being unjust to two wives, leaving righteousness, is going on the path of sin, and attention is not drawn towards reforming him. If women remain silent about the injustice towards women, then opposition to polygamy will continue on its own. And I understand that half the attack of the enemy becomes invalid when women keep silent about injustice towards women, and it continues to attack in the nineties. But as long as a woman keeps crying for help and is considered oppressed, until then, suppressing opposition to polygamy is difficult. But this does not mean that there is a flaw in the permission for polygamy, but these are
It is a shortcoming in those who act upon it. Which Islamic command has not been attacked by Europeans and no objections have been raised on it? They have attacked, but there is no reason for us to hide an Islamic command out of fear or consider it impractical. I was mentioning that discussions used to take place with Hafiz Roshan Ali Sahib about this verse. It was a light-hearted conversation, and he used to object mostly to clarify the matter, and we used to have conversations standing on the stairs with railings on the roof of the mosque. He would object, and I would respond. Our conversation would end on this sentence so that you understand the concept and act upon it. I say, when the law has allowed polygamy for us, and where marriage is mentioned in the Holy Quran, preference has been given to multiple marriages in one color. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) had multiple marriages, but he never presented any reasons. These are the reasons we present today, while the ignorant object to your marriages. Otherwise, it is the greatest wisdom for us that our Shariah has commanded it. People extract meanings, but that is a secondary thing, not the real purpose. The real purpose of marriage is that believers increase in number, and when we increase in offspring through polygamy and provide for their upbringing, the Muslim community grows. So, if we have ten generations or even more generations and we increase in offspring and provide for their upbringing, then these generations enhance the Muslim community. Thus, if we increase ten generations or even more generations and provide for their upbringing, these generations enhance the Muslim community. Therefore, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "Marry those who are loving and fertile," meaning marry women who are loving and bear many children. When the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) recommended our marriages, the first question asked was how many children does so-and-so have, how many brothers does he have, and how many children does he have?
Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) received the revelation about the number of children in a family. When it became known that there were seven sons, Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) and all others deliberated on the matter before issuing the command that it is very good. Let the marriage take place. The recommendation for my marriage and that of Mirza Bashir Ahmad Sahib was made together. At the time of our marriage, Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) inquired about the number of children in the family. Where relationships were recommended, the focus was on how many children they had. So, when an important purpose of marriage is to have children and through multiple marriages, there is an increase in offspring, then objections can be raised on this. The real thing that needs to be emphasized is justice. If justice is maintained in multiple marriages and there are no forced exceptions, then most certainly, multiple marriages should be conducted. People say, where will so many girls come from, but their misconception is wrong. Even if there are fewer girls in your family, they come from other countries. Many times, I have seen that people write letters for marriage and keep searching for relationships for two years, and complaints arise that no relationship is found. But during this time, some other people come and arrange a marriage, which means that the arrangement is not proper. One side is slack, and the other side is negligent, otherwise, relationships are available that are not explored. I have advised the officials that inspectors of the treasury and preachers who travel extensively can easily handle this work. If there are difficulties of this kind, it is merely a deficiency in the arrangement; otherwise, this is the law of nature, and things are automatically provided in such a way that there is a proper balance between boys and girls. When the balance is not maintained, there is an increase in the number of women, and Islam has also provided a solution for this by recommending multiple marriages. Recently, our preachers in Hungary were discussing the issue of multiple marriages in a gathering of women.
And they were saying, "Tell us how many wives you have. If you act upon the teachings of Islam, your life can be rectified." They said, "Even though we do not admit it verbally, we feel that by acting on the Islamic teaching of polygamy, our lives can be rectified. And if this law is enforced in the country, countless flaws can be eradicated.
In the third volume, I have stated many times that not a single Caliph, including Hazrat Abu Bakr, Hazrat Umar, Hazrat Uthman, and Hazrat Ali, had only one wife. The fifth Caliph, whose caliphate is doubtful and is not considered a caliph, and if he were actually a caliph, he would not have been automatically removed from the caliphate. It is said about him that he had many marriages. Once someone told me that Molvi Muhammad Ali Sahib objected to one of my marriages, saying that the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) did not have children, so he had multiple marriages. I said, "Did Hazrat Abu Bakr and Hazrat Uthman also not have children, yet they had multiple marriages?" Then some people say about Hazrat Imam Hasan that he was a caliph, even though he himself renounced the caliphate. If he had actually been a caliph, so many marriages are mentioned for him that many reasons are presented for his caliphate. Hazrat Khalifatul Awwal thought that more than four marriages could be allowed. Once Mir Muhammad Ishaq Sahib came running to me. His manner of coming was such that it seemed as if he had come after winning a battle. I asked, "What's the matter?" They started saying that it has been proven that more than four marriages can be allowed, and a Hadith was mentioned. So, there was a book of Hadith in their arms, and there was a paper as a mark in it, which contained the mention of many marriages of Hazrat Imam Hasan. At that time, we did not have much knowledge to discuss this Hadith. I must have been fifteen or sixteen years old. I said, "Does Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) not have knowledge of Hadiths?" Because you say that at one time more than four wives cannot be allowed. This Hadith should be presented to you. On this, Mir Muhammad Ishaq Sahib took the book and presented it in the service of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him), but after a while
When I returned, I saw what was written below, and the effort is to see if I can avoid it, then avoid it. Because I was standing there waiting to see what response Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) gives. I ran to him and asked, "What did Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) say?" They said, "Where is it written that all these wives were alive at the same time? The purpose is one exceptional marriage, and multiple marriages are a law. Certainly, in our country, there is poverty, but even in poverty, multiple marriages can be done, and a peaceful life can be achieved. But the difficulty is that lives are adopting Western ways, and incomes are low. Maulana Rumi wrote that when a person goes to his friends' place and the friend tells him to eat, he says, "What should I eat? My nose is full." I have just had a meal. Look, the fat is still on my mustache. Sometimes he says, "I have just eaten tandoori," and see, the oil has not come off my lips. For some time, he kept talking like this. One day, such an incident happened that his friends were gathered in his room, and his son came running and said, "Father, the fat that you used to collect on your mustache has been taken away by the ants." The whole pot broke. The situation is the same here. People's lives are following Western ways, and old thoughts prevail. Their feet are in both boats, and that is why problems are arising. Otherwise, nature has not created any problems. In some Islamic regions, for example, Tibet and others, it is generally said that so-and-so person is very wealthy because there is a lot of a particular gender in his house, he has so many buffaloes, so many goats. The purpose there is to consider these things as wealth. In some other regions, for example, on the border of Afghanistan, it is said that so-and-so person is very wealthy because he has four wives. In some regions, wives are also considered wealth because they also work in farming and other jobs, and thus income increases. Yes, those who are non-Muslims also keep more than one wife under the influence of Muslims and even exceed four. And in India, among nobles and kings, there is no restriction on the number of wives. The real thing is that every country
With the differences in civilizations, problems arise; otherwise, in reality, there is no reason for difficulties even in poverty due to the multiplicity of marriages. (Al-Fazl, 2nd October 1936, pages 4-6)
(Al-Fazl, 30th September 1937)
(Surah An-Nisa: 4)
Musnad Ahmad ibn Hanbal, Volume 3, page 158, Beirut Print 61978
Masnavi Rumi, translated by Maulana Ferozuddin, Book Three, pages 76-77, printed in 1929
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On religious matters, there can be no compromise.
(March 1937)
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II (may Allah be pleased with him) said:
"Allah the Almighty has emphasized piety in the Holy Quran, and the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has gathered verses specifically on piety on the occasion of marriage. The meaning of this is that piety is good in all circumstances, but in social situations, it is particularly necessary. The main point is that when a person leaves Allah the Almighty, either for the love of human beings or out of fear of humans, Allah has mentioned piety in those verses. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has also specifically drawn attention to piety on the occasion of marriage because when a man unites with a woman and one family meets another family, sometimes due to each other, religion is compromised. Since on this occasion, a man unites with a woman and one family meets another family, therefore, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has specifically emphasized piety that you should keep piety in your marriages and gatherings. Such unions cannot harm the religion of Allah the Almighty at any time. Even when people make mistakes in such situations, they cannot spoil anything of Allah the Almighty, but because mistakes can occur from humans, Allah the Almighty has drawn special attention to piety on the occasion of unions."
1.1
On religious matters, there can be no compromise.
(March 1937)
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II (may Allah be pleased with him) said:
"Allah the Almighty has emphasized piety in the Holy Quran, and the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has gathered verses specifically on piety on the occasion of marriage. The meaning of this is that piety is good in all circumstances, but in social situations, it is particularly necessary. The main point is that when a person leaves Allah the Almighty, either for the love of human beings or out of fear of humans, Allah has mentioned piety in those verses. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has also specifically drawn attention to piety on the occasion of marriage because when a man unites with a woman and one family meets another family, sometimes due to each other, religion is compromised. Since on this occasion, a man unites with a woman and one family meets another family, therefore, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has specifically emphasized piety that you should keep piety in your marriages and gatherings. Such unions cannot harm the religion of Allah the Almighty at any time. Even when people make mistakes in such situations, they cannot spoil anything of Allah the Almighty, but because mistakes can occur from humans, Allah the Almighty has drawn special attention to piety on the occasion of unions."
1.1
On religious matters, there can be no compromise.
(March 1937)
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II (may Allah be pleased with him) said:
"Allah the Almighty has emphasized piety in the Holy Quran, and the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has gathered verses specifically on piety on the occasion of marriage. The meaning of this is that piety is good in all circumstances, but in social situations, it is particularly necessary. The main point is that when a person leaves Allah the Almighty, either for the love of human beings or out of fear of humans, Allah has mentioned piety in those verses. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has also specifically drawn attention to piety on the occasion of marriage because when a man unites with a woman and one family meets another family, sometimes due to each other, religion is compromised. Since on this occasion, a man unites with a woman and one family meets another family, therefore, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has specifically emphasized piety that you should keep piety in your marriages and gatherings. Such unions cannot harm the religion of Allah the Almighty at any time. Even when people make mistakes in such situations, they cannot spoil anything of Allah the Almighty, but because mistakes can occur from humans, Allah the Almighty has drawn special attention to piety on the occasion of unions."
One may come up with their own invention, but it is an extremely impure suggestion. This person should consider that if someone comes to sell their religion, will he accept Maulvi Muhammad Ali Sahib and his companions? What power does he bring with him? Does he have the strength to save disobedient people from the punishment of Allah the Almighty? Will this person understand that after committing a great sin, a new spiritual life will be granted to him? But there is no one who has received such a rank from Allah the Almighty. It would be foolish to abandon religion for such a person. Every person who accepts the truth receives the blessings of Allah the Almighty, not the other way around. The person who enters this series and accepts Ahmadiyyat and believes in Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) does not do us any favor but comes for his own satisfaction and to please his God. But the person who imposes the condition that he is willing to leave any religious matter for us, he is either very gullible or deceitful, disbelieving, and committing bad suspicions. Such a person's status is not loose but equal to a rotten egg. What can be his status against religion that he is willing to abandon it for us? Can we erase the countless blessings that Allah the Almighty has shown us? Can they forget the day when Allah the Almighty bestowed upon me the mantle of Khilafat, can I forget that day when weak people came and said that Maulvi Muhammad Ali Sahib is going to Qadian very soon and there is not a single penny in the treasury, what will happen now? The big people will leave, and there will be no belongings, then how will the series continue? And can I forget that day when some non-Ahmadi people used to say that here Aryans and Christians will take over. So, Mirza Yaqub Beg Sahib, while leaving from here, pointed towards the Islam High School and said that the day is near when Christians will take over here, but the observer can see what happened and what Allah the Almighty has shown them. This is the only sign.
For them, what is less that Allah the Almighty reduced them from 98% to 2% or even less, and we who were 2% became 98%. Initially, when we were few, these people used to say that with us, the companions of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) were in the majority at 98%, and with Miyan Mahmood, it was 2%. It seemed as if they considered their majority as a criterion of their success. But now when Allah the Almighty reduced them and we increased, they started saying more that it is mentioned in the Holy Quran, "And most of them are defiantly disobedient." When they were more, they were not defiant but successful according to them. But now when we have become more than them, all the companions have become defiant. What reason can there be for their enmity? What power did they have that they did not spend against us? They threatened us with lawsuits, took away our belongings, took the translation of the Holy Quran, which was a trust of the community, with them, and took many books with them, the value of which amounts to thousands of rupees. Their aim was to harm us in every way, wielded all kinds of weapons against us, complained to the government against us, incited the public against us, and called us disbelievers. But Allah the Almighty showed them down at every turn. Their worldly powers were spent against us and tried to show various sorrows, but what reality do worldly powers hold against the power of Allah the Almighty? Once the people of Mecca came to the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) and requested him to stop speaking ill of their idols. Their meaning was also to change the religion and join us, but the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) replied at that time that even if you place the sun in my right hand and the moon in my left hand, still I cannot change my belief because this is the word of God, and in the word of God, there can be no change. When the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) did not have the power to change the word of Allah the Almighty, then how can weak beings like us have the choice to change the commands of Allah the Almighty for the satisfaction of Maulvi Muhammad Ali Sahib and his companions? And if we seek refuge in Allah from that, if we change the word of Allah the Almighty, then what worldly power is there that can change the word of Allah the Almighty?
Allah the Almighty can save us from punishment. We can change our words, but when it comes to the words of God, only God can make changes. Even if a Maulvi Muhammad Ali Sahib comes and asks us to change our beliefs, we cannot change our beliefs because we have no authority over it. A slave cannot change the king's command, so what power does a disgraced creature have to change the unshared words of God? I do not think a noble person would utter such a statement without feeling ashamed. Can anyone engage in a deal with those who want us to change our beliefs? Even if most people have changed their beliefs, it is mentioned in the Holy Quran, "And most of them are defiantly disobedient." It has been proven from the Holy Quran that people have changed their beliefs before and considered it a trivial matter. God Almighty mentions about them, "They believe in some of the books and disbelieve in others." Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) is not a non-bearer in the sight of Allah the Almighty, not a promised Messiah, but indeed a reformer, not a renewer, but a saint. But can anyone make deals on behalf of a believer and attribute them to God? Have there been any revelations or dreams of a believer before Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) that were dealt with in such a way? And if not, then why are such deals made regarding the revelations of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him)? These people have been ruining themselves with their self-interest and are becoming increasingly unfamiliar with the truth. Where can such people see the light of Allah the Almighty who engage in deals with the words of Allah the Almighty? As far as I remember from the life of the first Caliph, around 1911 or a little before or after, when Khwaja Kamal-ud-Din Sahib had not yet left for the UK and soon...
Sheikh Yaqub Ali came to me and said that a form of peace had emerged. Conversations had taken place with Khwaja Kamal-ud-Din, and if you soften up, peace will be established. I said to Sheikh Sahib that if our opposition is related to worldly possessions, I will sign it on paper and there will be no conditions from my side like Khwaja Kamal-ud-Din. And if this is not about worldly possessions but a matter of religion, then even if there are ten thousand Khwaja Kamal-ud-Dins, I cannot abandon the truth for them. I have doubts about the humanity of those who think in this manner. Perhaps due to repetition, this thought has arisen in their hearts, otherwise, even an ordinary person cannot have such thoughts about the words of Allah the Almighty. Certainly, humans can falter, but slipping occurs when a person gets caught up in emotions, falls into greed, and many mistakes arise from it, but one should not engage in business with the words of Allah the Almighty. If their intention is to test us and compare our beliefs, can changing beliefs in a matter of disbelief be considered a test? Has anyone seen such tests in the life of believers before Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him)? And if not, then why are such tests being conducted regarding the revelations of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him)? These people are ruining themselves with their self-interest and are becoming increasingly unfamiliar with the truth. Where can such people see the light of Allah the Almighty who engage in deals with the words of Allah the Almighty? As far as I remember from the life of the first Caliph, around 1911 or a little before or after, when Khwaja Kamal-ud-Din Sahib had not yet left for the UK and soon...
What benefit will I derive, and what benefit will they derive from my allegiance? Understand that compromise can be made in worldly matters, in civil issues, in political matters, in economic matters, but there can be no compromise in matters of religion. A compromise that is permissible is one that can be accepted or rejected. We see that even the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) did not allow those matters to be compromised that were permissible. Such an incident is mentioned in the Hadiths that once you had eaten honey and returned home, your two wives said that your breath smells. You said that you would not consume it again. Upon this, Allah Almighty said, "Why do you make forbidden what Allah has made lawful for you?" So, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) did not allow compromise in matters of changing beliefs. Our opposing party has actually abandoned the previous beliefs. It is not a trivial matter for them to say to others to change their beliefs. This thought has arisen in them due to their unfamiliarity with faith, and not even a believer can do such a thing. A person came to Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) and said that you have made a mistake in presenting before the Maulvis that Islam is in danger due to the belief in the life of Hazrat Isa (peace be upon him). Muslims are decreasing day by day, and Christians are increasing, tell us the solution to this. Then you told them that the death of Hazrat Isa (peace be upon him) is proven from the Holy Quran. All the Maulvis said that you have thought very well. Then another person presented before the Maulvis that there is mention in the Hadiths of the signs of the coming of Isa, if non-Muslim nations object to it, what will be the response? At that time, the Maulvis also said that you tell us the answer. You replied that by Isa, it does not mean the Isa who came once in the world but it means a similar Isa. Then the third person presented that the signs mentioned in the Hadiths about the time of Isa, what will be the response to that? At that time, the Maulvis said that you tell us the answer. You replied that the Isa referred to in the Hadiths is not the Isa who came once in the world but it means a similar Isa.
Some individuals from that era come to mind, so why not mention one person from the scholars of the community that he is the like of Masih? So, all the scholars agreed on this point and said that this is absolutely correct, and you are more deserving of this claim. After this, you made the claim. Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) heard this and said, "Certainly, if it were a human plan, I would have done the same. This is my answer. It should be remembered that this issue is not of my making. I am a weak and sinful being, whether I live or die, gain honor or disgrace, rise or fall, these matters are part of the teachings of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him). No weakness can reach them. Our progress is not from human hands but from the hands of God Almighty. So, neither have they benefited from my service nor can they be eliminated by my abandonment. If I want to eliminate these issues, I will perish, these issues will not perish. This is solely the grace of Allah Almighty. In this matter, He has taken service from me, and hoping for His grace, I seek from Him to keep me steadfast on the truth and save me from supporting falsehood because this cannot happen without His grace. Unity is a good thing but only if it is for the sake of God and an assembly in which the honor of Allah Almighty is preserved. When a man and a woman's assembly, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has emphasized piety to such an extent. How can the gatherings of nations be overlooked in the question of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him)? The determination of history and the two parties could not be made. (March 21, 1937, pages 3 to 6)
Al-Bukhari, Kitab al-Maghazi, Bab wa Qad Bani Hanifa, and Hadith Thumamah ibn Athal Al-Imran: "..." Sirat Ibn Hisham, Volume 1, pages 285, 284, printed in Egypt 1936 Al-Baqarah: 82 Al-Tahrim:Future Endeavors (April 19, 1937)
After the Maghrib prayer on April 19, 1937, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Muhammad Abdul Salam Sahib, son of Maulvi Muhammad Abdul Subhan Sahib, Inspector (Bengal), with Muslima Khatoon, daughter of Khan Bahadur Chaudhry Abu Al-Hashim Khan Sahib, retired Inspector of Schools, with a dowry of one thousand rupees.
Human actions have two shares, one of the past and one of the future. The present is a name of an imaginary thing that is impossible to determine for human power. For example, when a person says that I am doing this work, at the time this sentence ends and meanings are formed according to grammarians, at that time, the meaning of this sentence becomes meaningless. Because the phrase "I am working" refers to the present, but when the noon of "am" ends, it becomes the past. So when the person's words become meaningful, their meaning becomes meaningless as if the present is a completely indefinite thing that is related to the human and is his past and future, but the past is what has passed from his hands and its correctness is not in his control. The present has no determination that can be seized upon. Apparently, the past is a bird that has flown away and cannot be caught, and the present is like an airy castle that cannot be seized upon.
Now only the future remains, but the least thought a person has is for the future, and dedicates all his actions to the past. For example, he says, "What did my ancestors and forefathers do? I should also do the same so that their fame increases, as if he is always concerned about increasing the fame of his ancestors, whether it be good or bad, and strives to increase it. Similarly, if he is a Muslim, he prays because his parents prayed, if he goes to the mosque, it is because his forefathers went to the mosque, if he goes to the temple, it is because his forefathers went to the temple. His intention in everything he does is for the past, and the foundation of his actions is not based on a reality that can be achieved in the future. Apparently, a person who does something is like having a trust, for example, when a person works for Zaid, his labor is accumulated for Zaid. It is mentioned in a Hadith, "Whoever migrates for Allah and His Messenger, his migration is for Allah and His Messenger." Now, it is strange that a person goes towards Allah but deposits the trust in a bank in Europe. If a fool goes to Japan and deposits his checks in European banks, he will realize in Singapore and Hong Kong that he cannot get a rupee. So, a noble person takes checks to those banks that come in his way of travel, but when we look towards human actions, it becomes clear that generally, a person has no concern for the future; he is engrossed in thoughts of the past. It's as if he is depositing money in banks that have already closed their doors and forgotten the banks whose branches can be useful in the next journey. Who can be more foolish than such people? Even a child would laugh at the example of such a person, but we see that in the actions of a noble, countless examples of such foolishness are found that he is concerned about the past.
He remains engrossed in the past and overlooks the future. He cannot know what has passed and has not sent ahead what is to come. Who will be wise enough to guide him? Hazrat Masih (peace be upon him) gave an excellent example when he said, "Send your treasures to the bank of God where no worm can eat them." The meaning is that nothing is lost there. Perhaps, in an inspired manner, Hazrat Masih (peace be upon him) was told this, and the bank of his community has been presented before him in such a revealing way that your community will issue treasures in which there will be paper coins instead of gold and silver that worms can eat. Humans should be concerned about the future. Jannah has everything that will not perish. Therefore, Allah Almighty said, "And look at what you have sent ahead for tomorrow." This example signifies that you should think about your upcoming journey. You cannot make any transactions with the past, but you can treat the future. In reality, the most reasonable way is for a person to think about the future. Those who are engrossed in the past remain unsuccessful, and those who are caught up in the present also fail. A successful person is one who thinks about the future and surely strives for something that is within his control and indeed the protection of something can only be ensured by blocking its path ahead. In ancient times, a picture was painted of a person grabbing the hair on his forehead from ahead, which meant that time is caught from the future. So, Allah Almighty said, "And look at what you have sent ahead for tomorrow," indicating that believers should leave behind the thoughts of the past when doing any work so that their efforts and endeavors do not go in vain. I remember when the missionary work started in the country, at that time due to apostasy...
A commotion arose among the Muslims, but wherever they went, they faced failure and were defeated. When I started the preaching work, I conducted a survey and sent Chaudhry Fath Muhammad Sahib to study the situation and report back on how effective preaching could be done. He sent a report from there suggesting a reasonable proposal. He wrote that the reason for the failure of Muslims is that when Aryans go to villages, Muslims also follow them there. But since Aryans have already brought people under their control and incited them against Muslims, when Muslims go there, they are beaten and their words are not even heard. Chaudhry Sahib wrote, "Permission should be given to leave those areas where the influence of Aryans has been established completely and focus on areas where Aryans have not yet reached, so that they can prepare the people there thoroughly against them. This suggestion was very reasonable, so I immediately issued orders to act upon it. As a result, two types of fortresses were built there. One was the fortresses where Aryans had control, but the other fortresses were under our people's control. The people there did not allow Aryans to enter their villages or come near them. In this way, the paths of Aryans were blocked, and their progress was halted. But if we, like other clerics, had gone after Aryans, it is evident that the same defeat that they faced would have befallen us as well. So, Allah Almighty has told us to think about the future, as a person does not suffer losses when moving forward and thinking about the future... If you run towards the dangers of the past, you will not benefit, and if your present is dreadful and you get engrossed in its thoughts, it will destroy all your strengths. Therefore, it is necessary to overcome the entanglement of the past and present and strive to improve your future. A few days ago, a Sikh came to me and said...
A person faces a great challenge, struggling with himself, he loses in the comparison and sits in evil. I mentioned that a situation that arises after many pasts, how can it be corrected? As long as the strength of good intentions is not behind it, forget the present and intend goodness for the future so that your fortresses built against the enemy's fortresses, which are strong, will continue to strengthen in the future and a time will come when you will triumph over the enemy. Furthermore, Allah Almighty has said, "And fear Allah. Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what you do." It means that actions should be done for the sake of Allah, not for the sake of humans. When you do so, Allah Almighty will become your shield, and when Allah becomes your shield, He will be pleased to protect you from all harm and save you from all evils because Allah is fully aware of human actions. Humans can only correct their intentions, so correct your intentions and He will correct your actions, thus your future will be splendid, and your steps will be firm. Marriage is also one of those actions that impact a person's future, so the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) chose this verse for marriage, the purpose of which is to entrust intentions to God even in this action so that your future is extremely glorious as a result of your actions. So, if as a result of marriage, offspring of high status are born, how happy the marrying man and woman would be if they are alive. And if they pass away at that time, how delighted would they be in their response. The parents living in Makkah, when they are informed of how much of a great blessing the world received through the Holy Prophet and his companions, how much joy and pride they would feel. The husband's soul would say to the wife's soul, "See how blessed our union has proven to be."
The wife's soul will be advising the husband's soul on how splendid the outcome of our union has been. After reading this sermon, Hazrat announced the marriage and stated that a condition has been set between the two parties that in case of a change in beliefs of Ahmadis, Maulvi Abdul Salam Sahib or his non-adherence to religion or his failure to fulfill the rights of his wife, Muslima Khatoon, the Khalifa at that time will have the authority to annul the marriage. (April 22, 1937, page 1, April 23, 1937, page 574)
"Actions are judged by intentions, and everyone will have what they intended." (Al-Bukhari, Book of Faith, Chapter: Actions are Judged by Intentions, and Everyone Will Have What They Intended) Surah Al-Hashr: 19
"Gather for yourselves treasures in heaven where no worm destroys." (Matthew, Chapter 6, Verse 20, Bible Society of Lahore, printed (1994) Surah As-Saff: 13, Surah Al-Hashr: 19)
On June 18, 1937, after the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of two individuals.
After the recitation of the sermon, Hazrat mentioned:
There are two types of thoughts prevalent in the world regarding goodness. One thought is that goodness should be done for the sake of goodness, and the question of reward should never come to mind; otherwise, that goodness is ruined. The other thought is that presenting a reward for goodness, having hope for a reward, or instilling hope for a reward is not a big deal but is permissible and correct. Both these thoughts come under discussion regarding goodness in this era. European philosophers always ask this question that presenting a reward for goodness, having hope for a reward, or instilling hope for a reward creates greed in humans and makes them eager. Meaning, a person who does goodness while keeping the reward in mind is greedy and eager, and a person who instills hope for a reward in exchange for goodness is as if he instills greed and eagerness in that person. Taking this philosophical thought, Christian priests attack Islam and say that the praise of goodness mentioned in Islam creates greed in humans and the principles that Islam has presented regarding goodness instill greed in humans or bring matters that lead to greed. Generally, it is seen that Muslim youth are influenced by this thought and believe that...
Our religion is weak, but if we look closely, this idea appears completely baseless and false. Those who have presented this philosophy praise goodness as that which benefits more existence. Philosophers, as they do not believe in the existence of God but rely mostly on nature and materialism, consider the praise of goodness to be very low. In English, goodness is called GOOD, and they define goodness as the deed that brings the most benefit to more existences. Now, if one looks at one definition and the other thought that European philosophers present regarding goodness, it becomes evident how foolish and ignorant this thought is. They define goodness as that which benefits more existence, but the philosophy they present about goodness in relation to reward is as if they present a foolish and ignorant idea. They say that if goodness is done with the expectation of a reward, then it is not goodness. These two statements are contradictory. Under this thought, when a person decides to do good, inevitably the question of reward will arise. This philosophy is exactly like the one prevalent in our country where people, while informing about the job, say that whatever you wish will happen, but at the same time, remember not to think about the monkey during the job. When he goes to do the job, he inevitably thinks about the monkey, and he understands that since the monkey's thought had come, the job did not have an effect. Then he does the job, and then the thought of the monkey comes, and he remains caught in this cycle, and his wish is never fulfilled. This is the situation of European philosophers who, on one hand, define goodness as that which benefits more existence, but on the other hand, they say that presenting a reward for goodness, having hope for a reward, or instilling hope for a reward creates greed in humans. Generally, it is seen that Muslim youth are influenced by this thought and believe that if...
It is believed that Islam has explained the levels of goodness. For example, it is mentioned in the Holy Quran:
"They give food, despite their love for it, to the needy, the orphan, and the captive." (Surah Al-Insan: 8)
Meaning that a believer feeds the needy, orphans, and captives even when they themselves need that food. That is, at that moment, the inclination towards these emotions becomes dominant in them to deal with them. We see daily that sometimes a person faces a situation where he forgets everything and is only focused on one matter. For example, if a child is drowning in water, the parents will forget everything, even whether they know how to swim or not, and jump into the water. At that moment, only this emotion prevails that our child should survive. Sometimes it happens that a child is drowning, and the parents, under the influence of their emotions, jump into the water and drown themselves, but others manage to save the child. This situation is involuntary and forces a person to act, and the action taken in this state becomes inevitable. An example of this is that once the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) entrusted a guest to a companion and said, "Take him home and feed him." The companion took the guest home (at that time, conquests had not yet happened, and Muslims were in a state of extreme poverty). The companion said to his wife, "I have brought a guest today; prepare food for him." The wife replied, "There is only enough food for one person in the house today." I thought that we both will not eat and will feed this food to our children. Hearing this, the companion was deeply hurt because at that moment, only the emotion prevailed that the guest should not remain hungry, forgetting all other emotions. When the wife saw this situation, she said, "I will distract the children, and they will serve the food to the guest." The companion said, "When the guest starts eating and sees the children, he will...
A summons will be issued to them, and thus our veil will be lifted. Upon this, the wife said, "I will gather the children." Then the companion said, "Now another difficulty arises, and that is when he starts eating, he will ask both of us to eat as well." (At that time, the command of the veil had not been revealed yet). The wife said, "I have also thought of a solution for this. I will keep a small lamp ready. When the food is placed in front of the guest, and he invites us to eat, you tell me to put it up instead of down. At that time, instead of putting it up and down, I will put it down and up, and in this way, the lamp will be extinguished. And we will say that it is time for dinner, it is difficult to light a fire in the darkness. Then when the guest starts eating, we will just keep moving our mouths and not eat." So, they distracted the children, kept moving their mouths, and the guest ate to his fill. The next morning, the companion presented himself in the service of the Holy Prophet, and upon seeing him, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) smiled and said, "Your action last night made even Allah Almighty laugh. So why shouldn't I laugh?" Then the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "Allah Almighty had informed me of your entire situation through revelation that night. Here, the intention is not that Allah Almighty laughed, but the meaning is that Allah Almighty was pleased with the action of this companion that he did that night. And for the expression of this quality, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) used the word 'laugh.'
Another example of this is that during the Battle of Uhud, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) sent some companions to the battlefield to look after the wounded and help those who could be helped. One companion was tending to the wounded when he saw an Ansari who was severely wounded. And it was his last moments. The companion said, "You have no hope of surviving. If you have any message to deliver, tell me, and I will deliver it." The Ansari said, "Promise me that you will truly deliver my message." The companion promised, and he delivered this message to my relatives and loved ones: that the Messenger of Allah is an entrusted one among us by Allah Almighty. As long as we are alive, we sacrifice our lives to protect Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah. Now that we are leaving, we entrust him to you, and it is your duty to sacrifice everything for him.
There was a situation where most people worry about their wealth, their wives worry about their children, but that Ansari forgot at that moment about his widowhood, forgot at that moment about his children being orphans, and forgot about the protection of his money and wealth, at that moment, he was only concerned about the protection of Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, and this emotion dominated all his emotions. "They give food, despite their love for it, to the needy, the orphan, and the captive." - This means that sometimes a person feeds out of love and sometimes out of habit, and this action becomes dominant in him to the extent that it becomes a habit, and habits greatly influence a person's behavior. There is an incident of a Hindu who became a Muslim once. He was sitting in a gathering where everyone started saying "Allah, Allah," but he started saying "Ram, Ram." His companions realized that he had become a Muslim, yet why was he saying "Ram, Ram"? He replied, "When 'Allah, Allah' enters, 'Ram, Ram' will exit." So, a person starts acting out of habit, and if that habit is accompanied by good intentions, he will deserve a reward, and if it is accompanied by bad intentions, he will deserve punishment. This quality is produced through effort and striving, so it cannot be that he does not receive the reward for his effort. Whenever he acts out of habit, he will be rewarded if his intention is good, and he will be punished if his intention is bad. Habit does not deprive a person of reward. For example, a person prays with the intention that through it, he will attain spiritual advancements and protect himself from evils. He will continue to receive rewards for praying with that intention he has become accustomed to, and he will not be deprived of the reward of even a single prayer. However, on the contrary, a person prays with the intention of not being embarrassed in front of the people of the neighborhood. So, this prayer will not benefit him but will harm him and make him deserving of punishment. The purpose is that good intentions accompanying an action result in good rewards, and bad intentions accompanying an action result in punishment.
Intentions, whether good or bad, determine the reward. However, a person who acts without the knowledge of evil, but does so upon seeing his parents, and it becomes a habit for him, cannot be deserving of punishment. For example, a Hindu and a Christian who are habitual drinkers will not be punished. Yes, they will be punished for not believing in the Oneness of God. But a Muslim who drinks will definitely be punished because in Islam, alcohol is prohibited. "They give food, despite their love for it, to the needy, the orphan, and the captive." Some believers become so immersed and colorful in the love and affection of Allah that the qualities that are in Allah begin to manifest in them. Once, a person complained to Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud (as) that he does not keep a beard. Hazrat replied, "We have come to reform people's hearts. When their love for us becomes complete, they will do the same things we do and will keep a beard like us." Sometimes temporary love also brings about a visible change in a person. For example, a magistrate became an Ahmadi and said to me, "I should measure your coat. In the future, I will wear a coat like yours." This was temporary love because later he turned away from Ahmadiyyat. But permanent love creates a great revolution. Believers acquire the attributes of Allah such as the Concealer, the Expander, the Most Merciful, the Trustworthy, the All-Encompassing, etc., and reach the highest levels of love. The highest level of goodness that European philosophers talk about is the initial stage of Islam. Islam has also explained the natural consequences of goodness. For example, regarding prayer, Allah says, "Verily, prayer restrains from shameful and unjust deeds." So, refraining from shameful and unjust acts is a natural consequence of prayer. Similarly, the natural consequence of obeying Allah and His Messenger is expressed as a great success, as mentioned in the verses recited on this occasion and those emphasizing piety. One verse is, "And whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger shall indeed achieve a great success." This means that whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger and acts according to their commands will achieve a great success. The purpose is to draw the believer towards a higher level and to achieve a great success by obeying and following the noble Messenger ﷺ.
A person can attain a certain level, but the station of the Messenger will surely be higher than that, and it is a station where a person becomes perfect, so he will not remain in need of great triumph; rather, it is such an elevated station that it elevates two individuals to the station of great triumph.
The determination of the two groups could not be made.
(Al-Dahr: 9)
June 24, 1937
Pages 4 to 6
(Al-Fadl)
Al-Bukhari, Book of Virtues, Chapter: Those Who Prefer Others Over Themselves, Hadith: Even if They Have a Need
Al-Isti'ab fi Ma'rifat al-Ashab - Badr al-Sin - Volume 2, Page 156, Printed in Beirut, 1995
(Al-Ankabut: 46)
(Al-Ahzab: 72)
God Almighty brings forth good results.
(June 25, 1937)
After the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Miss Zainab, daughter of Seth Abdullah Ilah Deen of Sikandarabad, with Mahmud-ul-Hasan Sahib for a dowry of seven thousand rupees. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
Human life is very delicate and full of secrets, and one of the matters in reality that is the cause of happiness or sorrow in human life is marriage. Indeed, a wife is the most influential worldly thing that becomes the cause of joy or sorrow for the body and soul in human life and either becomes the cause of respect and honor for a man after his death or leads to constant turmoil and grief. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said that paradise lies under the feet of mothers, meaning that paradise is attained through the good upbringing of mothers, and if a mother does not provide good upbringing, does not reform the child's character, and is not familiar with religion, then the child's condition deteriorates, and certainly, paradise is not under the feet of such a mother. Undoubtedly, a father is responsible, valuable, and caring, but he mostly remains outside the house in the worry of livelihood, and he gets very little time to stay at home, and in that short period, he cannot fully take care of the children. The age of the child in which he is impressionable and learns...
At the age of five or six, neither the father can reform and take care of him, nor can he go to a teacher or a mentor who can teach him morals. Only the mother, who is always there for him, can take care of him. If the mother lies in front of the child, the child will learn to lie, and if the mother steals, the child will learn to steal, and if the mother is negligent and ignorant of religion, then the child will also become negligent and ignorant of religion. But if the mother speaks the truth in front of him, the child will also become accustomed to speaking the truth. If the mother presents good morals in front of others, the child will also develop good morals. If the mother shows mercy to the poor and needy, the child will also develop a sense of mercy. If the mother is religious and pious, the child will also become religious and pious. The future of the child depends on the mother's upbringing, and the guidance of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) that paradise lies under the feet of mothers means that in this world, there are many mothers who do not provide good upbringing to their children but instead ruin them by neglecting religion. Certainly, a father is responsible, valuable, and caring, but he mostly remains outside the house in the worry of livelihood, and he gets very little time to stay at home, and in that short period, he cannot fully take care of the children. The age of the child in which he is impressionable and learns...
European authors call marriage a comfort, but divorce is so prevalent among them that we are amazed. Many times I have had the opportunity to discuss this issue with the English. They say that marriage brings peace to the heart of a person, and true peace can be achieved when a man and a woman become familiar with each other before marriage according to Islamic teachings. The ways Islam has described regarding marriage are based on knowledge. When it is true that marriage is for comfort, then we need to see where real comfort is found, in the marriages of European people or in marriages based on Islamic teachings. And if there is comfort in marrying according to Islamic teachings, then what does it matter if that comfort is in ignorance? We mean real comfort. The wise parents who consult before the marriage of their son and daughter and act with reason are shown the right path by Allah Almighty. The father advises the son and informs him about the necessary conditions according to Islamic teachings, so since no one is more benevolent than the father, the happy son accepts the father's words and likes the father's choice. Because the consequences of marriage are seen later and the events that happen later are based on past situations, so the matter of marriage becomes very complex and difficult. But its solution is present in the Holy Quran, and the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has chosen the verses for the occasion of marriage. In them, it is stated, "Indeed, Allah is Knowing of what you do." Allah Almighty says that the future conditions of a person are the result of past conditions, and since I am generally aware of those conditions, I can correct them and produce good results. A person does something ten years ago, but the result comes out after ten years. Napoleon was still Napoleon when he was a child, but the consequences of his abilities came out when he became an adult. There is a famous saying in our country, "They give food, despite their love for it, to the needy, the orphan, and the captive." Training is given to something when it comes to its original state. The coin of a writer sits when he completes an invention, but training starts from his childhood so that when he grows up, he becomes a capable human being. European philosophers have discussed the point that
The effects of childhood on youth and old age have an impact. There are two types of effects: good effects and bad effects, which result in diseases that manifest after a long period. The way to eliminate these bad effects is to examine the magnetic sleep and understand the subconscious mind that is affecting the person and, while keeping them in mind, treat these diseases. However, the effects that have influenced him in the past and are affecting him in the future are not reduced to a certain extent by reducing their effects through psychoanalysis or disturbing the senses. Although the knowledge obtained through psychoanalysis about these effects is not certain, Allah Almighty is All-Knowing and has certain knowledge of all past conditions. So, instead of going to Freud or his disciples, why not bow down to Allah and pray to Him to save us from the consequences of past actions. Therefore, we should bow towards Him and seek His help to save us from the consequences of the past. The purpose is to bow towards Him and seek assistance from Him to save us from the consequences of the past. The occasion of marriage is to consider "Indeed, Allah is Knowing of what you do" because Allah is aware of all past actions and their consequences. So, instead of going to Freud or his disciples, why not bow down to Allah and pray to Him to save us from the consequences of past actions. The reality is that when marriage is done according to Islamic teachings, it brings comfort to a person, and the best results of marriage can be achieved. (Kanz al-Ummal, Volume 16, Page 461, Hadith Number 45439, Printed in Halab, 1977)
(Al-Hashr: 19)
(Al-Fadl 30 - June 1937, Page 574)
Sigmund Freud (1856-1939), Austrian, a specialist in the field of psychology
Marriage is based on trust between husband and wife.
(July 20, 1937)
On July 20, 1937, Molvi Muhammad Azam Sahib, son of Molvi Fazil, married Muslima Ummatul Hafiz Sahibah, daughter of Pir Muhammad Abdullah Sahib Qureshi, for a dowry of four hundred rupees. Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II recited:
In matters of marriage, the Sharia has emphasized the fear of Allah. This is because marriage is based on trust. A man trusts a woman, and a woman trusts a man. Their possessions are in each other's possession, and their honor is in each other's hands. They bring comfort to each other and if they wish, they can also harm each other. The purpose is that in this world, this is the only relationship that is governing lawlessness. There are laws in Islam regarding this matter, but they are related to initial intentions or to corruptions, not to the middle period of the relationship. The middle period of the relationship is based on complete trust. In all worldly affairs, there are conditions, in employment, in some officers and subordinates, and in education, that is, between teacher and student, but there are no conditions. Neither from the husband's side, nor from the wife's side, nor are there restrictions on time, nor are there restrictions on services...
Thus, unconditionally, this relationship becomes a source of love. But if it is bound by conditions, then this relationship turns into torment. The reason is that it has no conditions, and it can also cause harm to each other if trust and purity of heart are not present. Similarly, the relationship between an Imam and a follower, a spiritual guide and a disciple, has no prescribed limits. As long as trust exists, the relationship exists; when trust is broken, the relationship ceases to exist. Many ignorant and foolish people say that they have objections to the personality of the Khalifa, and they cannot stay in the community. I say that this relationship is also based on trust. If this trust is removed, then allegiance cannot remain because it is not a matter of employment where after six hours, the employee has the right to rest. Can a wife say that now that she has worked for so many hours, the crying children should be silenced by the husband as her work time has passed? A trustworthy relationship is one in which there are no morning or evening restrictions, no restrictions on either side, and no time-bound or service-bound restrictions. Similarly, the relationship between an Imam and a follower, a Khalifa and a Bai'at taker, is based on trust. As long as trust exists, this relationship exists; if trust is broken, then to say that this relationship exists verbally is entirely wrong. Doubts arise in a person's heart, but keeping them within limits of doubt is a matter of self-control. If one cannot keep doubts in check, and if one does not propagate these doubts among people, then who knows what doubts lie within his heart. So, this will not spread turmoil because only Allah has the knowledge of what is in one's heart, and Allah Almighty will make the decision on the Day of Judgment. But when that person reveals it to others, it goes beyond the limits of doubt and enters the realm of propaganda, and in that case, to say that I am loyal to the allegiance is simply deceitful, and the clear meaning of this is that I defame the one to whom I have pledged allegiance, whether I defame them a little or a lot. They say that someone asked a scholar if a little air goes out, does it break the ablution? He said,
"When it goes beyond the limit of doubt, a person, no matter how slightly contrary propaganda he makes, will call him insane. They say that someone had discovered that if a little air goes out, does it break the ablution? He said,
Yes. Then the person asked again, "What if a little air is expelled?" He said, "It still breaks the ablution." Then he demonstrated with his two fingers and said, "Even if a tiny bit of air is expelled, does the ablution break?" On this, Mullah replied jokingly, "If someone like you passes gas, does it not break the ablution?" So when doubts reach the level of objection, and then a person says that he is part of the allegiance, it is sheer folly. One can be part of the allegiance until the point of doubt, but when it reaches the point of objection, then no matter if there are minor objections or major ones, it is possible. On the same day, I learned about a person who propagates some objections among people, for which I appointed a commission. When the commission asked him to explain, he said that since the relationship established through allegiance to the Khalifa is delicate, he is not willing to state it in front of others. He told me that this person says that if someone takes the oath of allegiance through a letter, he can only respond through a letter. When there are complaints about him propagating contrary views in front of others, if indeed he considered the delicacy of that relationship, he should have expressed those views in front of me. In this case, it could have been understood that he was mindful of the delicacy of that relationship. But when he himself breaks that relationship, can he not now speak in front of my chosen individuals? Was it his folly or was there a defect in his mind? In any case, the allegiance relationship is indeed delicate, but the one who breaks its delicacy is responsible. Once a person mentioned to the Holy Prophet that doubts arise in his heart, but he suppresses them, and then they reappear, so he suppresses them again. The Prophet said, "This is faith." So, there is no objection in suppressing doubts. To manifest means that he propagates them, and it is as if he shoots arrows at the same tree he had sworn to protect. If someone does this and says, "My faith is still intact," he is insane. As someone who does this and says, "My faith is still intact," is insane. Just as a financial...
Cutting down the trees in your garden and then saying, "There is no difference in my faith," will be considered madness. The same applies to the relationship between husband and wife. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has given instructions that when a woman talks about her husband's love affairs with her friends, angels curse her. Even if what she says is true, angels still curse her. The point is that the relationships between husband and wife are very important, but they should not be based on conditions. People usually impose conditions like how much will be spent on death, how much will be spent on expenses, but these conditions do not maintain relationships properly. Similarly, in Bai'at (allegiance), inappropriate conditions are set, and if someone imposes conditions, their allegiance cannot be called true. (Al-Fadl, August 28, 1937, Page 54)
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General Istikhara and Specific Istikhara
(July 26, 1937)
On July 26, 1937, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II officiated the marriage of Miyan Muhammad Hanif, son of Dr. Muhammad Ibrahim, resident of Sutrowah, district Hoshiarpur, with respected Hajiya Begum, daughter of Maulvi Abu al-Ata, resident of Jalandhari, for a dowry of 500 rupees. After reciting the Sunnah sermon, he said:
The phrases of marriage that are Sunnah and that the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) always recited on the occasion of marriage have such vast implications as the consequences of marriages are vast. Apparently, marriage is a small matter. A man comes and takes a woman from another house through a legitimate means. But if we look closely, some marriages acquire so much importance that their significance becomes intertwined with the most important events in the world. There are different nations in the world who take pride in their lineage, for example, the Sayyids. This is a result of a marriage. When a person says that he is a Sayyid, in reality, he is referring to a marriage that took place a long time ago and saying that he is from the offspring of the person who married the daughter of Hazrat Fatimah, may Allah be pleased with her. Similarly, when someone claims to be from the Quraish tribe, he is also alluding to a marriage. Then, besides nations, we see that the honors and ranks of families are also based on marriages. Some
Men possess superior qualities and abilities, and when they marry women with superior qualities and abilities, the children born to them inherit the same qualities, traits, submissiveness, and intelligence as their parents. These children, when they grow up and enter the field, become role models for others. When they enter the political arena, people are amazed by their abilities. When they engage in trade and craftsmanship, they impress others with their skills. They preserve histories and people praise them, and all this is the result of marriage. Therefore, one should be very cautious in dealing with the matter of marriage. Most men do not pay special attention to matters that require attention in marriage. Some people only look at appearances, whereas the impact of appearance does not matter in the future. A woman's grandchildren cannot guess what our grandmother looked like. There is a famous joke in France about a boy who used to take some things from his grandmother's room. One day, by chance, the boy found a small picture that he liked very much. He took it and after that, he reduced his visits home, stopped playing with the boys, and went alone into the jungle, spending the whole day there. When the father saw his son's condition, he became concerned about what had happened to his child. Finally, he took the boy to a doctor...
A doctor was called to see him, and he said that there was some weight on his nature. The father started his treatment, but there was no benefit. One day, the boy's grandmother needed that picture; she kept searching for it but couldn't find it. Finally, the boy saw that picture in his hand and said, "You are very unworthy to have brought my picture." He forcefully grabbed the boy's hand and said, "Give me this picture." As soon as he pressed the boy's hand, he fainted, and the rest of the people were trying to bring him back to consciousness, but the grandmother was twisting his hand so that the picture would not be lost. Seeing this condition, the boy's mother said to him, "The child has fainted; this is a common thing. What happened if he has it?" The boy's grandmother said, "This picture is from my youth. Can I become young again by holding this picture in his hand?" The boy was coming to his senses at that time when he heard this sentence from his grandmother's mouth that this is a picture of my youth, he threw away the picture and in astonishment said, "Is this yours?" In reality, he did not know that the picture belonged to his grandmother, but this idea was planted in his mind that it was the picture of a beautiful girl he wanted to marry. There was a big difference between the picture of his grandmother and her old age. Her face had sunk in, her hair turned white, and she had become bald, but in his mind, he estimated that he would marry a beautiful young girl. Appearance is nothing; it changes after a while. Grandchildren are unaware of the initial appearances of their grandparents. Children actually think that our parents' appearances are the same from the beginning. They cannot understand that our parents' appearances were different before and have changed now, and they do not understand that as they grow up, their parents' appearances will also change. The purpose is that appearance is nothing to be given importance in the matter of marriage. Similarly, knowledge also does not hold importance in the matter of marriage. There have been thousands of scholars whose children had no knowledge, and there have also been some scholars who were very famous due to their knowledge, but their children were completely ignorant. Some ignorant parents have also been seen whose
Men possess superior qualities and abilities, and when they marry women with superior qualities and abilities, the children born to them inherit the same qualities, traits, submissiveness, and intelligence as their parents. These children, when they grow up and enter the field, become role models for others. When they enter the political arena, people are amazed by their abilities. When they engage in trade and craftsmanship, they impress others with their skills. They preserve histories and people praise them, and all this is the result of marriage. Therefore, one should be very cautious in dealing with the matter of marriage. Most men do not pay special attention to matters that require attention in marriage. Some people only look at appearances, whereas the impact of appearance does not matter in the future. A woman's grandchildren cannot guess what our grandmother looked like. There is a famous joke in France about a boy who used to take some things from his grandmother's room. One day, by chance, the boy found a small picture that he liked very much. He took it and after that, he reduced his visits home, stopped playing with the boys, and went alone into the jungle, spending the whole day there. When the father saw his son's condition, he became concerned about what had happened to his child. Finally, he took the boy to a doctor...
A doctor was called to see him, and he said that there was some weight on his nature. The father started his treatment, but there was no benefit. One day, the boy's grandmother needed that picture; she kept searching for it but couldn't find it. Finally, the boy saw that picture in his hand and said, "You are very unworthy to have brought my picture." He forcefully grabbed the boy's hand and said, "Give me this picture." As soon as he pressed the boy's hand, he fainted, and the rest of the people were trying to bring him back to consciousness, but the grandmother was twisting his hand so that the picture would not be lost. Seeing this condition, the boy's mother said to him, "The child has fainted; this is a common thing. What happened if he has it?" The boy's grandmother said, "This picture is from my youth. Can I become young again by holding this picture in his hand?" The boy was coming to his senses at that time when he heard this sentence from his grandmother's mouth that this is a picture of my youth, he threw away the picture and in astonishment said, "Is this yours?" In reality, he did not know that the picture belonged to his grandmother, but this idea was planted in his mind that it was the picture of a beautiful girl he wanted to marry. There was a big difference between the picture of his grandmother and her old age. Her face had sunk in, her hair turned white, and she had become bald, but in his mind, he estimated that he would marry a beautiful young girl. Appearance is nothing; it changes after a while. Grandchildren are unaware of the initial appearances of their grandparents. Children actually think that our parents' appearances are the same from the beginning. They cannot understand that our parents' appearances were different before and have changed now, and they do not understand that as they grow up, their parents' appearances will also change. The purpose is that appearance is nothing to be given importance in the matter of marriage. Similarly, knowledge also does not hold importance in the matter of marriage. There have been thousands of scholars whose children had no knowledge, and there have also been some scholars who were very famous due to their knowledge, but their children were completely ignorant. Some ignorant parents have also been seen whose
There will be no result because being of the same gender and sharing with each other is necessary for a bond. Similarly, in the matter of marriage, it should happen, but since sharing and being of the same gender is not known to humans, only the means of obtaining it has been mentioned by Allah:
"Whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger will be in the company of those whom Allah has blessed: the prophets, the truthful, the martyrs, and the righteous. What excellent companions these are!"
So, before marriage, Istikhara should be done. Istikhara is of two types: general Istikhara is done first, and specific Istikhara is done later. But some people are such that they first like a woman and then do Istikhara. In such Istikhara, the effect of thoughts is felt, and they start to understand that the Istikhara was correct. But if their inclination is not there, they start to understand under their thoughts that the Istikhara has gone wrong, although Istikhara does not go straight or wrong, but their thought goes straight and wrong, from which they draw the wrong conclusion. Istikhara means that a specific personality is prayed for, "O Allah, provide us with a pair that is like the enlisted soldiers." Two types of Istikhara are done: one is done when the opportunity arises, and the name is taken and Istikhara is done. In this way, Istikhara general becomes the protector of Istikhara specific. Some people do the first Istikhara but do not do the second, and some do the second but not the first. Both Istikharas should be done; in this case, the correct result is written. In this way, by getting married, sixty out of a hundred benefit. And if there is no benefit to sixty, but less than that, up to ten percent benefit, according to me, ninety percent reduction will be fulfilled by children, and that ten percent benefit will become a means of protection for ninety. (Al-Fadl, August 12, 1937, Page 54)
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Sahih al-Bukhari, Book of the Beginning of Creation, Chapter of Souls as Enlisted Soldiers
(Given on August 26, 1937)
On August 26, 1937, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced two marriages:
After reciting the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"When a person reaches the pinnacle of understanding, wisdom, and maturity, his thoughts are limited to two circles: one is about the future, and the other is about the past. In a person's heart, there are some hopes that he wants to fulfill and some failures that he wants to eliminate. Some things are in the distant future that he sees according to his aspirations, and some are in confinement that pulls him towards past times and slows down his progress. These two things either lead a person towards progress and heights or throw him into difficulties and keep him away from advancements. Here, a person thinks about the future and starts to rectify himself, but there the thought of the past hinders his rectification. The purpose is that when a person looks at the future and wants to elevate his life, but as soon as his thought is transferred to past conditions, he forgets about the future temptations and gets trapped in the entanglements of the past. As a result, his future also starts deteriorating. Assume a forty-year-old sinner is granted success in repentance and rectification, he also remembers the forty years of sin, which
When a person strives for progress and aims to make the future better and is attentive towards his future rectification, he is hindered by his dark past. A surrounding is created that obstructs his progress and keeps him entangled, hindering his steps towards advancement. Some habits are ordinary but require a lot of time for rectification. When individuals want to abandon bad habits, they face great difficulties. Some people have the habit of shaking their shoulders while speaking, moving their hands, or moving their entire body. These habits develop from the beginning in them, and when they intend to leave them, these habits do not disappear quickly; it takes a lot of time to abandon such habits. There was a famous lecturer in England who used to shake his shoulder while giving a lecture, which distracted the audience from the speech. Finally, he decided to abandon this habit. Consequently, he hung two swords on the ceiling of his room, one on the right and one on the left, and entered the room alone to start the practice of giving lectures. During the lecture, whenever he shook his shoulder, the sword on his shoulder would touch him. When he moved his right shoulder, the sword on the right side touched him, and when he moved his left shoulder, the sword on the left side touched him. After a while of practicing in this manner, his habit continued. When small habits like these are difficult to eliminate, how much time will be required to abandon big habits? The purpose is that many difficulties arise in a person's path to correct the future. On one side, a person is focused on correcting his actions and desires progress on the path of the future, but on the other side, his habits ruin his future. These two situations are presented to every individual, but they become apparent at the time of marriage. An individual is inclined towards improving his future through marriage, but when his past habits and past situations hinder his intentions, he becomes anxious.
However, the solution to this is present in the Holy Quran. The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) has advised reciting on such occasions. Therefore, Allah says:
"O you who have believed, fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice. He will [then] amend for you your deeds and forgive you your sins. And whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger has certainly attained a great attainment."
So, when you embark on marriage to rectify your future, but past situations hinder you, we provide you with two ways to address this. If you act upon them, the result will be that "He will [then] amend for you your deeds and forgive you your sins." Allah will rectify your past situations and your future deeds. I have explained that He will rectify your future. That is, your future deeds will become good. These are two paths, one of the future and one of the past. The path of the past is beyond human control and is covered by a veil that a person cannot remove, but the path of the future is within human control. Therefore, Allah has advised to fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice to overcome the difficulties of the past and seek forgiveness for past sins. Fear Allah and make your shield against the past situations. When Allah becomes your shield, the effects of past consequences will continue. Thus, He also advises to speak words of appropriate justice to rectify the future. In this verse, Allah has presented "He will [then] amend for you your deeds and forgive you your sins" first, which means addressing the aspect of rectifying the future. And "O you who have believed, fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice" is presented to advance the aspect of rectifying the future. In this verse, "He will [then] amend for you your deeds and forgive you your sins" is placed before, meaning addressing the aspect of rectifying the future. And "O you who have believed, fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice" is placed after to avoid the consequences of the past. Therefore, speak words of appropriate justice to rectify the future. Allah has advanced the aspect of rectifying the future in this verse.
Human training necessitates rectifying the past for your benefit and forgiveness of your sins. The words "Fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice" have been mentioned because when a person intends to correct the future, past situations come to his mind later. Therefore, the mention of righteous deeds and forgiveness of sins has been advanced. In treatment, the disease is first eradicated, and then medicine is given to strengthen the weak. Except for the disease that is so dominant in its nature that it leads the patient to the brink of death. Hence, Allah has placed "Fear Allah" for forgiveness because it is the arrangement of Allah to fear Him, meaning to make Allah a shield against sins. When Allah becomes your shield, the effects of past consequences will continue. Similarly, He advises to speak words of appropriate justice to rectify the future. In this verse, Allah has placed "He will amend for you your deeds and forgive you your sins" first, addressing the aspect of rectifying the future. And "O you who have believed, fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice" is mentioned later to address the consequences of the past. Therefore, speak words of appropriate justice to rectify the future. Allah has advanced the aspect of rectifying the future in this verse.
A person came and said, "O Messenger of Allah! When a person speaks the truth about someone, how does it turn into a sin?" The Noble Prophet (peace be upon him) replied, "If what is said is true, then it will be the truth, but if it involves backbiting, then it will be a sin. We can say that someone who backbites speaks the truth, but at the same time, we can also say that they are committing a sin. About a person who jokes, we can say that they speak the truth, but we can also say that they are committing a sin because backbiting and joking are not righteous deeds, and righteous deeds are done through truthful speech. So, there is a significant difference between truthful speech and righteousness. Truthful speech is called a good deed, but such a good deed that is done at the right time and through the right means. For example, praying is a good deed, but because praying at the time of the sunrise or sunset is an untimely act, it will not be called a righteous deed. Righteous deeds are actions done at the right time and through the right means. As they say, "The shoe fits." Righteous deeds are those good deeds that fit the occasion. Therefore, backbiting and joking are not included in righteous deeds because backbiting and joking are included in truthful speech, but since both of these are untimely, they cannot be included in righteous deeds. Allah has not commanded to choose the truth but has commanded to choose truthful speech. Through truth, a person cannot correct their future, but through truthful speech, the future can be corrected. Therefore, to avoid the losses of the past, Allah has provided a remedy in this verse: "Fear Allah and speak words of appropriate justice" to correct the future.
Allah has decreed the following: "Whoever obeys Allah and His Messenger will be in the company of those whom Allah has blessed: the prophets, the truthful, the martyrs, and the righteous. What excellent companions these are!" This is because humans do not have control over the dangers of the past; only Allah's control prevails. To avoid these dangers, Allah has instructed obedience and love for Him. The other aspect is rectifying the future, which is under human control. Therefore, Allah has made obedience to the Holy Prophet necessary to keep the future on the right path. To avoid the dangers of the past, Allah has prescribed the remedy of fearing Allah and obeying Him, and emphasized speaking truthful words and obeying the Holy Prophet. The distinction between the two groups could not be determined. Al-Ahzab: 72 Sahih Muslim, Book of Good Manners, Chapter on Prohibition of Backbiting (Al-Fadl, September 1, 1937, Page 504)
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Mukarram Malik Abdul Rahman Sahib, Khadim B.A. LL.B, the representative of Gujrat, solemnized the marriage known as Zimani Begum, the daughter of Khan Bahadur Asif Zaman Khan Sahib, Collector (late) of Sakeena Pale Bhait, with a dowry of ten thousand rupees. Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II recited the sermon on September 3, 1937, after the Asr prayer in the blessed mosque. After reciting the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"At the time of marriage, many responsibilities fall upon a person. If both parties understand these responsibilities, then marriage can indeed prove to be a great mercy and blessing. The Noble Prophet (peace be upon him) has advised us that perfect praise is only for Allah Almighty, and I believe that if this same principle is kept in mind at all times, people will have very few opportunities to complain against each other, and if they do, it will be very minimal. When I go to the mountains for a change of air, many things that seem essential at home are not available there. Generally, Afghans are my companions who have the habit of drinking tea and taking a ride. This habit continues on the mountain or during the journey, or at least to a great extent diminishes because they have the habit of taking a ride after half an hour. This is because they already have the thought that these things will not be available there, so they do not get tea cups or rides there, but
There is never any complaint in their nature because they do not expect those things to happen, and they know that these things will not be available to them. But if they do not find these things at home, complaints will arise because they hope that these things will become available. Similarly, if a person goes to someone's house and they do not do anything for him, not even ask for water, then he will not complain because he did not have any expectations from that person. But if the same person goes to a friend's house and they do something for him but do not fulfill all his desires and only fulfill some of his wishes, then he will complain. Person: There is no doubt that a person has hopes for others due to love, but all hopes can only be fulfilled through Allah, not through humans. However, some people forget this principle and place their hopes on humans, and as a result, they feel pain and distress. In marriage, husband and wife place hopes on each other. The man thinks about his wife that she will surpass even the fairy of beauty, and no woman in the world can match her beauty. Regarding her character, he estimates that her character will be so high that the world will be deprived of her example, and she will come here and teach everyone character. About her cooking, he thinks that she will cook such an excellent and exquisite meal that all the chefs in the world will be sold in her comparison. Regarding her excellent arrangement, he believes that where a hundred rupees are spent, she will spend ten rupees with her excellent arrangement. About her good conduct, he estimates that when she comes home, she will do such magic that my parents will start loving her very much, and in my affairs, she will be so obedient and obedient that I will forget everyone in her comparison. Here, the wife also places hopes in the same way. She thinks that as soon as she steps into her husband's house, he will become my slave, and where I will need ten rupees, he will give me a hundred rupees, and there will be no one in the world like such a person with good character. Then the husband wishes that my
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Mukarram Swam, may Allah bless him, should serve his parents and not cause them any trouble, but the thought comes to him that when he goes home, he will dismiss his parents. These contradictory thoughts that arise before the husband and wife come together are only due to the fact that they are following a wrong principle from which nothing but corruption and nothing good can come. The kind of comfort a husband expects from his wife, the exact opposite the wife expects from her husband. The husband's comfort lies in serving his parents and spending ten rupees instead of a hundred, but the woman believes that her comfort lies in dismissing her husband's parents from home and spending a hundred rupees instead of ten. In such a household, neither the husband nor the wife will find peace because their principles are such that lead to corruption. Countless blessings are upon our Noble Prophet (peace be upon him) who has drawn our attention to a law that if we keep it in front of us and then marry, no disputes will arise. The Noble Prophet (peace be upon him) has advised us that perfect praise is only for Allah Almighty. We have no goodness; we are full of faults. Only Allah's essence is free from faults, and we seek His help. A believing man and a believing woman say at the time of marriage, "Perfect praise is only for Allah Almighty." We have no goodness; we are full of faults. Only Allah's essence is free from faults, and we seek His help. The husband says that all my hopes are connected with Allah Almighty; the wife can do nothing. Similarly, the wife says that all my hopes are connected with Allah Almighty; the husband can do nothing. And we seek forgiveness. Then the believing man and woman say, "O Allah, cover our sins; we are great sinners. Only Your essence is pure from mistakes." And we believe that our faith is only in Allah Almighty; He will fulfill all our hopes. Because our faith and conviction are that no human can help us all the time. When a believing man and woman acknowledge their weaknesses and helplessness in this way, then
After saying "We rely on Allah," it means that we place our trust in Allah Almighty, connecting all our hopes with His essence, and thus, no corruption or immorality arises in them, which usually arises when this principle is overlooked. This principle is the foundation for marriage. Those who act upon it will find no discord in their domestic affairs. A believing man and a believing woman do not place their hopes in anyone but Allah; they rely solely on Him, leading to success. Al-Ahzab: 72 Sahih Muslim, Book of Marriage, Chapter on the Sermon of Marriage (Al-Fadl, September 10, 1937, Page 4)
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On December 15, 1937, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced two marriages. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
Allah has made marriages a means of advancement in human civilization. In our country, it is a well-known concept that 'milk and sugar have mixed,' meaning that just as sugar is dissolved in milk and later cannot be recognized, so do people come together and become like milk and sugar. In this world, there are many things that come together, and many that do not. Some things do not come together in appearance, some do not come together in function, some do not come together in color, but some liquid things do come together. For example, some dry things mix with liquid things. For example, milk is a liquid thing, and sugar is not liquid but a dry thing. These two mix together. However, some liquid things do not mix with each other. For example, water and oil are both liquid things but do not mix with each other. If they are mixed, they will separate, water will separate, and oil will separate. Then there is a distinction in particles, a distinction in weights, a distinction in liquid things.
Sometimes the weight of dry things differs; in some cases, one substance has less power, and the other has more power. Then some dry things are mixed with each other, and their existence becomes intertwined, while some things do not mix with each other, and doctors add things to dissolve them. When material objects are in this state, humans should be more united because humans are called social beings, meaning they are the most united beings, but apparently, humans cannot unite with each other. However, by creating a value between two humans, they will apparently unite, but both will perish. There is no danger in water not mixing with other substances, sugar and milk not mixing with each other, but there is a danger if humans do not unite, and they do not care for each other. Bloodshed and fights will begin, nations will start wars against each other, and divisions will occur. So, what is that thing that unites humans with each other? Apparently, humans cannot unite with each other because humans are called social beings. Those two material things that cannot unite, Allah has created something to unite them. Then what Allah has created to unite those who apparently cannot unite, and nations that apparently cannot unite? Gratitude and milk are not always present together; their union is temporary. But because humans are beings that remain, Allah has created a means for their relationships, and that is the marriage of man and woman. Through this means, humans unite with each other, one nation unites with another nation, one country unites with another country. Then Allah Almighty continues a generation through this relationship. There are grandchildren and granddaughters of a family, and there are descendants of a family, and both see their own forms in it. Relationships are formed in grandsons and granddaughters, love is born, and sharing is created. So apparently, one human cannot unite with another human, but Allah Almighty has through marriage made one human unite with another human, nations with nations, and countries with countries.
Allah Almighty brings two different nations together in one existence. When a family that was completely separate merges with another family, Allah strengthens this relationship to the extent that the child's paternal grandparents and maternal grandparents say, "He belongs to our family," and the paternal and maternal grandparents see their own forms in him. The purpose is that through one existence, two separate families unite, nations unite, countries unite, and languages unite. In Islam, a Muslim man can marry a Hindu or Jewish girl, though this practice is not common today. If a Muslim man marries a Hindu or Jewish girl and expresses love for her, on the other side, a Hindu man also expresses love for her. By choosing this path, religious differences will fade away, as well as differences in colors and languages, and all obstacles hindering relationships will disappear. Just as Allah Almighty showers rain widely during the rainy season, spreading water throughout the world, not just in specific places but also in rivers, seas, barren lands, lush gardens, dirty drains, temples, mosques, fields, and populated areas. The purpose of Allah Almighty is to spread rain as widely as possible. Then humans gather it for their needs. Just as women comb and tie their hair, initially the hair is spread out, but then it is combed and tied together. Similarly, the lineage of a person becomes limited compared to the lineage of his paternal and maternal grandparents. To restrict it, marriages are arranged. The purpose is on one side the lineage expands, and on the other side, through marriages, it is restricted. Allah Almighty not only expands human relationships but also restricts them through marriages, creating bonds of gratitude and love.
Sometimes due to temporary restrictions, girls are not allowed to go out, as nowadays our community faces many restrictions. However, the divine purpose is to broaden relationships through marriage. Many people nowadays impose limitations. For example, they say they will not marry outside the country. Then some people, especially, say they will not marry outside a particular family. These people are like those who were praying behind the Imam and doubted whether their intention was correct. They gestured with their fingers, still unsure about their intention. Eventually, they moved forward and tried to signal to the Imam, but still, their doubt persisted. Finally, they touched the Imam's finger to confirm their intention. However, people caught them and expelled them from the mosque. People who impose restrictions in marriages, such as saying only nobles or Sayyids like Bukhari or Tirmidhi should marry, end up with a lineage that stops after five or ten generations. Just a few days ago, I received a letter stating that our lineage is decreasing. I replied that this is solely because you do not marry outside. When marriages are conducted outside, the lineage expands. It seems like Hindus follow this philosophy in marriages. They leave at least two castes and marry in the third caste. It is no doubt that a Brahmin does not marry a Khatri, but a Brahmin cannot even marry close relatives. They can marry in the third caste by leaving two castes. It appears that Hindus do not marry within their families but outside. The purpose of spreading marriages is to expand the lineage. Allah Almighty through this process turns two families into one entity, making them like milk and sugar, where "I become you, and you become me." One family calls the same entity a grandson, while the other calls it a descendant, creating a shared identity. Allah Almighty unites two families through marriage, creating bonds of gratitude and love.
Sometimes the one who restricts also expands through marriage and generates offspring.
Then through marriages, the one who restricts also expands, and offspring are born.
So, the one who restricts and expands families, Allah spreads them and restricts them.
In Islam, marriage is a means to broaden human civilization and also a means to restrict it. Broad in a way that when two families are brought together through marriage, offspring are produced. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they become strangers to each other. Then, to restrict them, marriages are arranged, and they become close relatives. So, in Islam, marriage serves the purpose of both expansion and restriction. When marriages bring two families together and offspring are born, they
(Delivered on 17th December 1937)
On 17th December 1937, after the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Syed Manzoor Ali Shah Sahib, the son of Hazrat Syed Muhammad Ali Shah Sahib Qadiyani, with Masooda Begum, with an amount of eight thousand rupees as Mehr. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
Regarding marriage, the guidance given by our Sharia and our Holy Prophet ﷺ is so complete and comprehensive that a person who acts upon it can avoid all kinds of difficulties. Indeed, the truth is that the verses chosen for this occasion by His Holiness contain within them such guidance that if even one guidance is taken from them, it can pave the way for a successful life in this world. For example, one of these verses, rather a part of a verse, is: "And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow - and fear Allah. Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what you do." This verse contains extremely delicate and comprehensive guidance. In this world, there are some tasks that end immediately, but even in those, a person exercises caution. For example, some fruits spoil quickly and cannot last for more than a few hours. The wild berries, meaning the round berries, are such that they can only last for a few hours. If plucked in the morning from the tree, by evening, their taste changes. However,
When buying something, one should not overlook the importance of caution, even if the item appears to be of good quality, fresh, or new. It is essential for a person to exercise caution even in matters that may last for a few hours or days. For example, there are fruits that can only last for a few days. Bananas and grapes, when they arrive in the market, can last for five to ten days. Even when purchasing such items, one should be cautious and ensure they are in good condition. Moving on to items that may last for a longer period, such as utensils or clothes for six months or a year, if someone buys a promissory note, they assess its stability. Then there are structures that last for years, where caution becomes crucial. For instance, when constructing a building, one consults an engineer, selects good materials, and hires skilled workers, emphasizing the need for quality. However, the lifespan of a building varies. The Taj Mahal and the Qutub Minar are magnificent structures, but the Qutub Minar has recently undergone repairs, and concerns exist about the Taj Mahal's maintenance. These are structures that cost millions and were commissioned by kings but required maintenance within a few hundred years. When caution is exercised in every aspect, the need for caution in matters with long-lasting effects becomes evident. These include human generations and marital relationships. Some marriages last only a generation or two. This does not mean their lineage ends but rather that they forget their ancestors. Some families continue for seven or eight generations. However, some relationships can endure for centuries. While sturdy structures may deteriorate after hundreds of years, there are buildings that are memorable for ages.
The impact of marital relationships can last for thousands of years. The descendants of Hazrat Ibrahim (peace be upon him) are still present today, but is there any building that has endured for such a long time? Hazrat Ibrahim and his wife Hajar on one side, and his other wife Sarah on the other, constructed buildings. While the world has seen destructions, governments change, and religions evolve, there are still people who confidently claim to be from the lineage of Hazrat Ibrahim. Thus, while all humans are descendants of Hazrat Adam, this is a fundamental fact. Some believe that their lineage traces back to Hazrat Ibrahim, presenting it in a different light. However, the presence of Hazrat Ibrahim's descendants is a historical fact that cannot be denied. Similarly, in Hindu communities, there are lineages and tribes that have been preserved for two thousand years, unlike the Ibrahimic lineage, which has no proven historical lineage. Now, consider where the survival of this lineage originated. It is essential to note that the attribution of a lineage to a person is due to the high status of their marital relationships. If the marriage of Hazrat Ibrahim with Hajar had not occurred, their lineage would not have lasted this long. Similarly, if Hazrat Sarah had not been part of Hazrat Ibrahim's marriage, their descendants would not have survived to this extent. Therefore, the construction of this building involves the contribution of both Hazrat Hajar and Hazrat Sarah; otherwise, even though Hazrat Ibrahim had other wives, the lineage of their descendants would be uncertain. Just as a husband has a relationship, so does a wife, and this relationship is one that lasts for hundreds and thousands of years. For instance, in terms of time, the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) is close to fourteen hundred years, and Hazrat Ibrahim (peace be upon him) is close to five thousand years. If this world continues for another two hundred thousand years, your descendants will continue until then. Since the reign of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) will last until the Day of Judgment, in the next world, whether it lasts for ten trillion years, the descendants of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) will remain Sayyids. Similarly, the Ibrahimic lineage will continue. The purpose of the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) selecting this verse for the occasion of marriage was to emphasize the significance of marital relationships, which endure for long periods.
Attention has been drawn towards the point of knowledge. It is stated that the upcoming marriage is not a mere game. As you display good morals, perform good deeds, instill the fear of Allah in your hearts, to that extent will your offspring be elevated, and your good name will endure in the world. However, if you commit evil deeds, forget Allah, disregard His commands, then your lineage will endure, but people will take your name in a negative light. So, it is said, "O husband, as you embark on this marriage, the impact of your small actions will last for hundreds of years. If you perform good deeds, they will have a positive effect, and if you commit evil deeds, they will have a negative impact. Indeed, Allah is Aware of what you do. Allah has decreed that the deeds a person forgets, Allah remembers them and brings forth their consequences. Whoever performs good deeds, his progeny will be good, and whoever commits evil deeds, his will be evil. Then when a great person is born, people start associating the lineage with him. Similarly, when a great evil person is born, people start associating the lineage with him. They say someone was a shroud thief. Everyone remembered him in bad terms. He had a son who asked how the stain of disgrace could be removed. He was told that when someone greater is born, people forget the previous disgrace and start considering it good. Upon this, he himself started stealing shrouds, and furthermore, it is said that a corpse was thrown out of the grave. This caused an uproar, and people prayed for God's mercy. The first shroud thief used to bury the corpse, but now someone is lifting the corpse outside. So when people stopped mentioning the first shroud thief, he also stopped stealing shrouds. The essence of this is a small part of a verse that contains many other topics. It provides such great guidance that the foundation of husband-wife relationships should be so strong that offspring and lineage are virtuous. For this, prayers should be uttered by people, and the family's good name should be established. At this time, the marriage of Syed Manzoor Ali Shah's daughter is taking place. Their parents passed away several years ago. They entered into the Bai'at a few years before the demise of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace and blessings be upon him).
The Bai'at had been taken, but permission for its public declaration was not granted. Then when the First Khalifa took the Bai'at, Shah Sahib asked, "Until when should I keep the Bai'at hidden?" Upon this, he was granted permission to publicly announce the Bai'at, and when he took the Bai'at, they were sitting right in front of me. Then the girl's grandmother was also present at the Bai'at ceremony. She was extremely virtuous and sincere in her Ahmadiyyat, so the marriage of the granddaughter of an old friend of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace and blessings be upon him) is a matter of great attention and interest. Then, in this regard, as the girl's grandmother was a highly virtuous and sincere Ahmadi lady, there is a strong connection. Syed Manzoor Ali Shah Sahib's father was well acquainted with Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace and blessings be upon him) in the early days, and their ties with Malik Ghulam Muhammad Sahib's father were very deep. This is why Malik Sahib is also present at this time. Shah Sahib used to work as a servant in Lahore during his youth, and when Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace and blessings be upon him) would visit Lahore, he would stay with him. Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace and blessings be upon him) has mentioned an incident of losing a case in which their mention is made. You had gone to Lahore to hear the decision of the case and used to go to the Chief Court daily. One day when you happily returned, Shah Sahib asked, "Was the case won?" You replied, "The case was not won, but a good judgment was given because it was difficult to offer prayers there." At that time, Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace and blessings be upon him) had not yet made the claim. Shah Sahib, expressing his anger, said, "Your father has suffered such a huge loss, and you are happy." It is evident that from the very early days, Shah Sahib had connections with Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace and blessings be upon him) and held great affection for him. Today, his granddaughter's marriage is taking place. (Al-Fazl, 24th December 1937, page 54)
Al-Hashr: 19
(Delivered on 7th January 1938)
On 7th January 1938, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Dr. Hashmatullah's niece, Nasira Begum, with Muhammad Rafiq, son of Sheikh Muhammad Ibrahim from Kanpur. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
Human life and human capabilities are limited things that do not hold any significance in themselves. A poet has said, "Man is like a bubble of water." In reality, in comparison to the vastness of the sea, the status of a human is not significant. A human's life lasts a maximum of a hundred years. Then there are times of happiness in it, and sometimes the moments of sorrow outweigh the moments of joy. The moments of sorrow seem long, and the moments of joy short. Naturally, a human desires that only moments of joy come to him, and not moments of sorrow. Then a significant part of life, a human spends in mere conversations. Some people sit in one place and start talking, getting so engrossed that they waste the whole day in it. And when they are informed, they say, "Oh, so much time has passed, the heart still desires to hear and tell more stories." During the rainy days, people in houses
When people engage in conversations, they become so engrossed that they lose track of time passing. Another person, when informed that it is already noon, responds, "We had just started working, and the day has passed by." Some individuals have a habit of telling stories, and some enjoy listening to them. Once a story begins, they lose track of how many nights have passed. People in the house remind them that it's already midnight and ask why they aren't sleeping, yet they are unconcerned about sleeping and are unaware of how much time has elapsed. The moments of joy seem short, and the moments of sorrow seem long. I have a personal experience where someone placed a plaster on one eye of my uncle, Mir Muhammad Ismail Sahib, and then mentioned that if one eye undergoes surgery, the other will also need it. After the operation, due to pain and discomfort, I suffered greatly. This incident occurred during the early days of the First Khalifa's caliphate. You visited me to inquire about my condition, and the evening call to prayer was announced. The operation took place in the afternoon, and when the call to prayer was made, I asked, "Is it already morning?" You replied, "It's the evening call to prayer." Due to the pain, it felt like I had been awake the whole night. The moments of pain and discomfort seem lengthy even though they are brief. Human desires comfort and perceives their life as short. If a person's life spans a hundred years, in times of comfort, they may feel as if they have only lived for ten years. However, if ten years are filled with suffering and affliction, it may seem like ten thousand years have passed. This is why in the Noble Quran, regarding those who enjoyed a life of comfort and prosperity, it is mentioned: "They will say, 'We remained a day or part of a day.'"
Al-Hashr: 19
Allah's day is equivalent to a thousand years, and if a human's life is extended to a hundred years, it will be like a few hours. Even if it is a period of comfort, it will seem like a minute. Allah has beautifully expressed that every person should consider what they are sending forth for tomorrow. As I have previously mentioned, a day in the sight of Allah is equivalent to a thousand years in human terms. By tomorrow, it means Allah's decree, not human tomorrow. In human life, a day is at least fifteen hundred years long. In this context, Allah has advised to reflect on marriage today and even after two and a half thousand years. There is a famous anecdote about a man who used to say that wearing more silk than a pillow is not permissible. There was a wealthy man who had a fondness for silk and was an army officer. The man who used to serve him brought a piece of cloth with silk edges. The poor man had never used such a piece of cloth before and was delighted to see it, so he put it on. People started objecting to this, saying that the man had previously stated that wearing more silk than a pillow is not allowed, and now he himself is wearing a silk-bordered cloth. Someone even mentioned this. The man turned very red and yellow and said, "When did I say that wearing more silk than a pillow is not allowed? This is a pillow of Hazrat Umar, referring to a silk-bordered cloth, and declared it permissible to wear. This story is amusing, but it also holds a truth. So, Allah's decree and human's decree are separate. Allah advises humans to have a long-term view and consider the consequences of marriage until the next generations. Human life lasts at most a hundred years, and what does one know about the events of the day and the next day. The Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "In the world, do deeds as if you will never die." This does not mean that a person does not die by doing deeds but rather that one should do deeds in the world that will have a lasting impact. Here too, by tomorrow, it means to marry in a way that its effects will not cease.
As mentioned in the Noble Quran, Allah's day is equivalent to a thousand years, and it is also stated that it could be fifty thousand years. The Quran is a book of wisdom, and each of its verses contains numerous wisdom. If Allah's day can be fifty thousand years, it could even be fifty billion years or more than that. It is so indefinite that humans cannot estimate it. How can humans estimate it? They will die within that day. Islamic teachings instruct that when a person turns their attention towards Allah, they should consider that they are about to die and when engaged in worldly affairs and focused on their surroundings, they should understand that they will never die. The future impacts of marriage are not known to humans, so Allah has resolved it with "Indeed, Allah is Aware of what you do," that humans keep doing deeds, and it is our job to create impacts, and we know what consequences will be revealed. Some people marry women of different races, and generations pass by without any impact until the seventh or eighth generation when the effects become apparent. Some people turn black like the Abyssinians, and at that time, the current generation is unaware that their ancestors ever married Abyssinian women. Sometimes a child is affected by seeing an image. Once in Europe, a child was born with hair and features resembling an Abyssinian. The man who served him brought a piece of cloth with silk edges. The poor man had never used such a piece of cloth before and was delighted to see it, so he put it on. People started objecting to this, saying that the man had previously stated that wearing more silk than a pillow is not allowed, and now he himself is wearing a silk-bordered cloth. Someone even mentioned this. The man turned very red and yellow and said, "When did I say that wearing more silk than a pillow is not allowed? This is a pillow of Hazrat Umar," referring to a silk-bordered cloth, "and declared it permissible to wear." This story is amusing, but it also holds a truth. The knowledge of good and evil belongs only to Allah. Nowadays, through microscopes, research has been conducted that some particles are hidden in human genes.
Generations continue and become apparent in later generations. A person may be generous, but later, a trace of generosity appears in his descendants. Going back to the seventh or eighth generation, that trace progresses and then a person in that lineage becomes generous. Thus, human ethics and advancements are minute particles that become apparent in many generations. Initially, they remain hidden and then become evident after many generations. They are like hidden seeds that continue through many generations but do not fully manifest. If the soil is excellent but the seed is not good, then growth does not occur. If the seed is good, but the soil is not fertile, then the growth does not happen properly. Only when both the soil and seed are excellent, growth flourishes. "Indeed, Allah is Aware of what you do," meaning that the effects are apparent, but humans are unaware of them. Only Allah knows best how and when the effects of this marriage will manifest. Therefore, one should consider the decrees of Allah. (Al-Fazl, 15th January 1938, page 475)
Al-Kahf: 20
Al-Hajj: 38
Al-Hashr: 19
(Delivered on 28th January 1938)
On 28th January 1938, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Miyan Abdul Wahab, son of Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I, with Umme Latif Begum, daughter of Mufti Fazlur Rahman Sahib Hakim, for a dowry of one and a half thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"O people! Fear your Lord, who created you from a single soul and created from it its mate and dispersed from both of them many men and women. And fear Allah, through whom you ask one another, and the wombs. Indeed Allah is ever, over you, an Observer." (Al-Nisa: 1)
In this verse, Allah has created man as His manifestation in the world. In terms of manifestation and display, He has placed within him the power of some of His attributes that have a connection with the system and with creation. Allah has placed within him the power to manifest lordship, to manifest mercy, to manifest compassion, to manifest ownership of the Day of Judgment, similarly to be All-Hearing, All-Seeing, Forgiving, Appreciative, Concealer of faults, All-Powerful, Subduer, Compeller, Trustworthy, Believer, and to manifest other attributes as if the image of Allah and His attributes are reflected in this world.
The purpose for which humans have been entrusted was that all these powers should be within them. Thus, Allah has given humans the power to hear and see, to create, and to give birth. When a husband and wife come together, under this power, children are born to them. Similarly, the power to visualize is given, and one creates designs of grand buildings and makes images. The power to heal is given, and one holds knowledge of intricate medical treatments and revives the near-death patients. The power to kill is given, and one apprehends a criminal and executes them as a punishment. All these attributes have been placed within humans by Allah so that they become a manifestation of Allah in the world. In terms of manifestation and display, He has placed within humans the power of some of His attributes that have a connection with the system and with creation. Allah has placed within humans the power to manifest lordship, to manifest mercy, to manifest compassion, to manifest ownership of the Day of Judgment, similarly to be All-Hearing, All-Seeing, Forgiving, Appreciative, Concealer of faults, All-Powerful, Subduer, Compeller, Trustworthy, Believer, and to manifest other attributes as if the image of Allah and His attributes are reflected in this world.
Al-Nisa: 1
As time goes by, I keep talking. So, when the question was about taking, he kept moving forward, but when the question was about giving, he stepped back. This is the state of humans. When a person is told that he reflects the attributes of Allah, he feels delighted and says, "This is a great thing." Thus, while laying the foundation on this matter, he starts saying, "Allah is the Owner, so I am also an owner; Allah is the Compeller, so I am also a compeller; Allah is the All-Powerful, so I am also powerful." But when he is told that Allah is the Lord, the Most Merciful, the Most Compassionate, the All-Hearing, the All-Seeing, the Forgiving, the Appreciative, the Concealer of faults, the All-Powerful, the Subduer, the Compeller, the Trustworthy, the Believer, and other attributes, he turns red and yellow and says, "Why should I become a reflection of these attributes? Isn't there anyone among you who can become one?" It seems that when it comes to ownership, compulsion, and dominance, he says, "I am the one who reflects the attributes of Allah, so why should anyone else?" But when the questions of mercy, compassion, being the Concealer of faults, and being the Forgiving arise, he says while turning away, "It is evident that why don't most people become a reflection of these attributes. Allah has placed within humans those attributes that humans mistakenly use and those that they should manifest. One of those attributes is being a Watcher, and in the verse recited at the occasion of marriage, attention is drawn. Allah says, "Remember, I am the Watcher." Meaning that Allah is the one who observes people's actions, then makes a judgment about them, whether they are good or bad. Then He becomes a Watcher of tomorrow and makes a decision about their actions, whether they are good or bad. So, Allah is the Watcher, and since Allah has given humans the power to manifest these attributes within themselves, most people are eager to become observers of others, whether they believe in God or not. Most people want to become observers of the world, most people want to become powerful, most people want to become compellers, most people want to become dominant, most people want to become All-Powerful, most people want to become Subduers, most people want to become Compellers, most people want to become Trustworthy, most people want to become Believers. Whether someone accepts the manifestation of divine attributes in humans or not, they should acknowledge this fact. Whatever comes in the Torah that Allah has created humans in His image, still practically
He seems to want to throw all the people of the world down and stand over them, somewhere he wants to appear as a tyrant, and God is in the sense of tyranny, but that tyranny is created in the sense of oppression, then he becomes a king and says, "The whole world is mine." Somewhere he becomes a king and wants everyone to obey him, so much so that if someone answers him, he says, "You are unreasonable, you do not know who we are." Although he is not providing him with sustenance, nor is he his officer, nor is he giving him clothes, nor is he giving him food, the only difference is that his salary is a hundred rupees and the other's is ten. But on this small matter, he calls him unreasonable, or the only fault of the other is that he is not a Sayyid, Mughal, Rajput, or Brahmin but belongs to another community, and the one who is from an elite community speaks to the other and says, "Shame on you, you lowly person." Although the lowly person is the one who establishes his rule over others and violates their rights. So just because he thinks he has some superiority, he thinks why should anyone interfere in my affairs, why should anyone advise me, why should anyone answer me, even if he is saying something very unreasonable. If they are nations, this is their way; if they are individuals, this is their color. And it is surprising that just because Allah has placed within humans the powers of ownership, compulsion, and dominance, they start misusing those powers. Although Allah has placed these powers within humans so that they become a little Lord, a little Merciful, a little Forgiving, a little Appreciative, a little All-Hearing, a little All-Seeing, a little Compeller, a little Dominant, a little Trustworthy, a little Believer. But what does he do? He takes the attributes of his meaning and says, "I am the owner in the whole kingdom, I am the tyrant in the whole tyranny, and I am all in the sense of mercy, and forgiving and grateful and concealer of faults and all-powerful and subduer and compeller and trustworthy and believer." But what does he do? He takes the attributes of his meaning and says, "I am the owner in the whole kingdom, I am the tyrant in the whole tyranny, and I am all in the sense of mercy, and forgiving and grateful and concealer of faults and all-powerful and subduer and compeller and trustworthy and believer." Whether someone accepts the manifestation of divine attributes in humans or not, they should acknowledge this fact. Whatever comes in the Torah that Allah has created humans in His image, still practically
He took the lower part, and you take the upper part. A decision was made, and he sold the melons. The result was that when the time for division came, he took the melons and gave the leaves to the other person.
Secondly, he shared again and asked, "Now which part will you take?" He thought that earlier he was being deceived by taking the upper part, so now he would take the lower part. He started saying, "I will take the lower part, and you take the upper part." He gave the wheat grains, and the result was that grain by grain, he came, and Dantil had to take it. Seeing this bitter experience, he said, "Now we come together in the fields, but the condition is that I will take the upper part, and you take the lower part. You understand that if now he had sold the melons, then would there still be a benefit for me? And if the wheat had sprouted, there would still be a benefit, but he planted maize, and when the time came to harvest, he had to take the upper and lower parts and bring the grains home. This is the state of humans. God wanted them to take some ownership, some dominance, some tyranny, some stars, some forgiver, some merciful, some generous, some forgiving, some appreciative, some all-hearing, some all-seeing, some compeller, some dominant, some trustworthy, some believer. And in this way, a little bit of all of Allah's attributes should be distributed among all humans, and every human should become a complete model of my attributes and an image of all His attributes should be reflected in them. But humans want to divide Allah's attributes as if the meat of a goat is divided. There is no doubt that the reflection of Allah's attributes is also divided, but wherever it goes, it goes whole, not in pieces. Put a mirror in front of a person. His image will appear in every mirror. It will not be that in one, his nose appears, in another, his head, in another, his hand, and in another, his foot, but in a thousand mirrors, a thousand complete images of a person will appear. And if instead of a thousand, you put a lakh or a crore mirrors, it will not be that in one, his head appears, and in another, his legs, but in each of them, the complete form of a human will appear. The purpose of Allah is to make humans a showcase of His attributes, meaning that He wants them to reflect His attributes, not to analyze and divide them. But instead of showing a complete reflection of Allah's attributes, humans have started dividing His attributes as if the liver of a goat and its meat are divided.
Volume Wax is 66. And since the analysis of Allah cannot be done. If there is an analysis, it will be of blessings, so they do not receive divine blessings because blessings will be complete wherever they go, and whenever they are divided, nothing of them remains. Just as if someone wants to take a glass of water, it is necessary that he also picks up the glass so that he gets water. If he wants to catch water with his fingers, it will flow. Similarly, the state of divine light is like this, and water is still flowing, but despite that, it is a dirty thing. Allah's light is very delicate. If someone wants to bring it down into their hearts, it has only one form, and that is that they stand in front of it and take it. It cannot be that they strike this light with their hands and a part of it comes into their hands. If he does this kind of foolishness, it will be such an example. As they say, if someone comes to a heritage house at night, they searched a lot but found nothing. Coincidentally, in the same search, he entered a room where the heir was sleeping. Startled, the heir opened his eyes and realized that a thief had entered, but he remained silent and smiled involuntarily. After a while, he saw a white thing in a corner of the room. In fact, it was dark in that room, and the moonlight was coming in through a hole in the door. The thief thought it was flour lying there. So, he decided to pick up the flour, but when he struck the light with his hand, the heir's laughter burst out involuntarily, and he said, "Why bother me, nothing is found here, and nights can be spent here." This example also applies to that person. He also wants to catch Allah's light with his hands, although it comes in the eyes, it comes in the mind, it comes in the heart, it does not come in the hands of any human, and whenever it comes, it comes complete, and if he wants to catch all the light by striking a part of it with his hand, it will flow away. Before me right now is a humorous incident from Egypt (Al-Sayyid Abdul Hamid Afandi Khurshid Af Qahira). When I saw them, I remembered a joke from Egypt. Once when I went to Egypt, we were traveling in a train from an outside location, and it was time for food. We were coming in the train's compartment
In our country, the custom of a specific meal for guests is not common, but in Egypt, Europeans often come. Many Europeans were sitting there, and some of us Indians went there. In Egypt, there is a meal called macaroni, which are Italian noodles and are quite long. The rule about them is that they are first boiled, then cut into small pieces, each piece is pierced with a fork, wrapped around it, and put into the mouth. One of those Englishmen who had probably recently arrived in Egypt and had never eaten macaroni. Since we had gone on an Italian ship and knew how to eat macaroni, we had no difficulty, but this Englishman faced a tough time, especially since the noodles were particularly long. He would pick up the noodles with the fork and slowly bring them towards his mouth, and it seemed as if he had caught a snake, but because they were very long, when he tried to put them in his mouth, they would slip and fall. He would then pick up the macaroni again with the fork, bring it up slowly, but when he reached near the mouth, they would slip and fall on the other side. Seeing this, he felt extreme embarrassment and did not look up, and with his head bowed, four or five times he tried to put the macaroni in his mouth, but since he did not know how to eat it, he kept slipping and falling, and others kept watching him in amusement. This is the state of humans. They also want to take all the attributes of Allah Almighty, all the tyranny, all the dominance, and all the power and think that they have taken the attributes of lordship, tyranny, and power of Allah Almighty. However, the attributes of tyranny, dominance, and ownership belong to Satan. So when he thinks he has taken the attributes of Allah Almighty, in reality, he has become a manifestation of the attributes of Satan, and the light of Allah Almighty has departed from his heart. Because dividing the attributes of Allah is the work of Satan. That is why Allah Almighty mentions in the Quran about the disbelievers that they have made the Quran into parts. So, whoever starts dividing the attributes of Allah into parts becomes a disbeliever.
It is said about the disbelievers in relation to Allah Almighty that they say, "We believe in some and disbelieve in some." So when a person analyzes and divides the attributes of Allah in his mind and feels delighted thinking that he has become a manifestation of divine attributes, in reality, he has come close to Satan. For the unique and singular Allah, how can there be an analysis that can be done? That analysis can only be done for Satan. Therefore, it is stated, "O people, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul and created from it its mate and dispersed from both of them many men and women. And fear Allah, through whom you ask one another, and the wombs. Indeed Allah is ever, over you, an Observer." You desire to become the overseer of the world and it never occurs to you that there is also an overseer and observer over you. So why do you want to make yourselves gods and why don't you understand that Allah Almighty has placed these attributes and powers within you for His reflection and manifestation. Imagine if you have an image and it is given the power of speech, and it starts saying, "I am the real human being," how much will you consider it insignificant and laugh at its action? In this way, a paper-thin, weak, unreal, and humiliated human rises and, taking the attributes of Allah that give him the opportunity for arrogance, starts saying, "I am the overseer, I am the owner, I am the powerful," and forgets that where Allah is Powerful, Dominant, Compeller, there He is also the Star, the Forgiver, the Merciful, the Grateful, the Forgiving, the All-Hearing, the All-Seeing. Despite having these extraordinary powers and magnificent powers, he chooses humiliation, then produces thousands of items for human service, then stands in front of a humble friend and says, "Let me serve you, let me provide you with such and such items for your comfort." So he does not understand that the powers he has received from Him, when he chooses the path of love, serves his servants, and produces thousands of items for their service, then how can I be independent of those attributes of Allah Almighty? But those parts of Allah's attributes that point to arrogance and greatness, when a person manifests them within himself, he thinks that he has taken those powers from the one who gave him the power of love, chose the path of love, and produced thousands of items for his servants' service. So I, who am an image of Him, how can I be self-sufficient from those attributes of Allah Almighty? But those parts of Allah's attributes that point to arrogance and greatness, when a person manifests them within himself, he thinks that he has taken those powers from the one who gave him the power of love, chose the path of love, and produced thousands of items for his servants' service. So I, who am an image of Him, how can I be self-sufficient from those attributes of Allah Almighty? Whether someone accepts the manifestation of divine attributes in humans or not, they should acknowledge this fact. Whatever comes in the Torah that Allah has created humans in His image, still practically
He became the deputy of God, although he is not the deputy of God but rather the deputy of Satan. Because the one who analyzes God Almighty is Satan, and concerning Satan, God Almighty says that he is arrogant, while a believer also shows arrogance but where he shows arrogance, he also bows his head in prostration. So the difference between the arrogance of a believer and the arrogance of Satan is that a believer does not analyze, meaning he becomes a manifestation of all attributes, but Satan only takes those attributes that indicate arrogance and greatness and ignores the rest. When we say "Adopt the attributes of Allah," it means that, "O people! Develop within yourselves the attributes of Allah," so why do we call Satan arrogant due to arrogance but not a believer? If a believer is not arrogant, then we will say that he is not a complete manifestation of divine attributes. This is because a believer manifests all attributes and where he displays greatness, he also chooses humility and demonstrates the attributes of lordship, mercy, and forgiveness that are related to service. This is why even an angel can sometimes be arrogant. Therefore, where obedience to Satan is questioned, he denies it, but when obedience to Allah Almighty is questioned, he humbly submits. So the person who becomes a complete manifestation of all divine attributes can truly be called a believer, but the one who accepts one part and denies another part is a manifestation of Satan. Simply put, Allah Almighty says, "Indeed, Allah is ever, over you, an Observer." Look, after marriage, you will have relationships with each other, and you will want to become each other's overseer, forgetting that you are a reflection and an image, and the real overseer is not you but God. When a small child is playing with his peers, he boasts of his greatness, but as soon as he sees an adult, he becomes frightened and silent. God Almighty says that you should always keep that Great One in front of you, indeed, you are overseers, but you are reflective overseers and not the real overseer.
Even a picture may seem good, but there is no relationship between the picture and the reality. A brave person with a dagger in hand can confront a lion at any time and can strike the lion with his dagger, but if there is an image of this person showing a dagger in his hand, it will not hold any truth; instead, a mouse might scare him away. So, in an image, there may be beauty and attractiveness, but there is not enough power to confront a mouse. The real human, on the other hand, can strike the lion with the dagger. So, remember, always keep your gaze upwards. Undoubtedly, some may receive ranks due to family connections, and some may be placed below, but understand that the real commander is God, and your ranks are merely a show. A famous Russian king, Peter the Great, once passed incognito. His habit was to disguise himself to observe the conditions of his subjects in cities and villages. Once, while passing through a place, he saw a sergeant standing in front of the door of his quarters, smoking a pipe. Villagers consider even a sergeant a big man, so when a sergeant becomes a sergeant-major, he is seen with special respect. The king asked, "Which way does the master go?" The sergeant, without paying attention to the king, turned his face the other way and disdainfully said, "Go up." The king asked, "Where are you going?" He replied arrogantly, "Go up." The king inquired, "Are you the corporal?" He replied, "Go up." The king asked, "Are you the sergeant?" With a smile, he said, "Yes, now you understand what my rank is." After asking, the king moved forward. The sergeant also found some interest due to these conversations, so he said, "Master, are you also in the army?" He replied with a smile, "Yes, now you understand what my rank is."
It is said that a person becomes a king, but in reality, he is just a sergeant. When asked, "Are you a second lieutenant?" He somewhat politely replied and said, "Go up." The king inquired, "Are you a captain?" He replied, "Go up." The king asked, "Are you a major?" and this made him quite nervous. The king said, "Go up." He nervously asked, "Are you a colonel?" The king said, "Go up." Then he became extremely flustered and asked, "Are you a general?" The king said, "Go up." He then asked, "Are you a commander?" The king said, "Go up." Hearing this, he stumbled and fell at the feet of the king, acknowledging his true position. This is the state of humans. They always look down, assess their status, and say, "I have also become something." Allah says, "Indeed, Allah is ever, over you, an Observer." Look up, so you remember your place and realize that your status is not more than changing shoes, where one is taken off and another is put on. What a subtle advice at such a moment. It is said, "Now you are becoming a king, but also look a bit higher." Even the Messenger of Allah, peace be upon him, said, "Each one of you is a shepherd and each one will be questioned about his flock." It's as if the king's words boosted his morale and he started feeling that he is someone. But then, by saying, "And each one is responsible for his flock," he was brought back to his original position and was told that you have many responsibilities, and the higher king will question you about how much you fulfilled your responsibilities. It's as if Islam suddenly raised a person's head and then, by saying, "And each one is responsible for his flock," brought him back to his true position and told him that you have many responsibilities, and the higher king will question you about how much you fulfilled your responsibilities.
Along with that, he also adorned it with goodness and piety. So, the Noble Messenger ﷺ, hinting towards this matter, said, "Each one of you is a shepherd, and each one will be questioned about his flock." You may be a king, but there is another king as well. You should keep this in mind in your dealings, as indeed, "Allah is ever, over you, an Observer." What I had expressed was translated by the Noble Messenger ﷺ in his own words. So, this verse that is recited on the occasion of marriage has explained in its first part that sometimes you become great, and your relatives become small, and you treat them with arrogance, saying, "Where are we, and where are you?" But behold, this situation can change, and the big become small, and the small become big. Therefore, it is better to maintain peace and clarity. Once, a friend narrated a humorous incident. They were members of the council in Lahore at that time, not just council members but held a much higher position. During the Punjab elections, when there was a strong emphasis on votes, a landlord sought my special assistance, and with the votes of hundreds of people, he convinced me. I thought he had sought my vote because he believed I cared about serving in the council, not for any other purpose. They are not accustomed to requesting votes from anyone. Instead, they say they work in this field. If you want me to look after your rights, then give me your vote. From his perspective of happiness, he told me that he also considered me a patriot and voted for me. However, when the election ended, and I was successful, one day he came to me and started saying, "The Deputy Commissioner of such and such place is under your influence. There is a question of the numberdarship of such and such village, and some others are also hopeful. Please recommend me." I told him that I adhere to my principles, and it is my habit that I am not prepared to request in cases where there is a form of litigation. Therefore, I regret that I cannot fulfill your request. He started saying, "You are afraid of defamation. You will fear it. Do not worry about it. Write a letter and give it to me. I will read it to the gentleman and take it back immediately." I said, "It's a matter of principle, not defamation." When I am not accustomed to requesting in such cases.
He did not say anything about it and left quietly. I thought he did not like my response, but I said, "Alright, I am also compelled." Some time passed over this incident, and in between, he never mentioned it to me. But when the time for the election came again, friends reported to me that the person who had specially sought my help in the previous election was now in trouble. You should go to him and convince him to vote. They said he and some esteemed friends went to his place. He was sitting in his courtyard, but turned his face the other way and started the game of arrogance. Friends said to him, "Mr. Chaudhry, we are here at your service because the election is happening, move your people to vote for him." They said he did not pay attention to us and continued with the game of arrogance, saying, "What do we want from him? They are very worthy people. Vote for them." Hearing this, he did not respond and kept turning his face the other way. In the end, I said, "The real issue is that they came to me for a task that I could not do. It seems that this aspect of his nature still has an impact. Friends said, "What's the big deal?" But he still did not turn his face and continued saying, "I am their servant." They said, hearing this, we stood up from there and left. This is what Allah has stated in that place, saying, "And fear Allah, through whom you ask one another, and the wombs. Indeed Allah is ever, over you, an Observer."
And also the other point that Allah Almighty has stated, "Indeed, Allah is ever, over you, an Observer." Then peace becomes peace, and conflict and corruption are eradicated. Al-Fadl, January 30, 1938, page 2. Surah An-Nisa: 2. Surah Al-Hijr: 93. Surah An-Nisa: 151. Al-Fadl, February 3, 1938, pages 4 to 9.
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PETER The Great (1672 - 1725): Czar of Russia, showed great ability and energy in the reorganization of his Army and Navy. (Longman's English Larousse)
Hadith Reference: Bukhari, Book of Marriage, Chapter: A woman is the guardian of her husband's house.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said on June 20, 1938:
"In our country, there is a misconception about marriages that where men are not guardians, women are declared guardians. Similarly, the same mistake has been made in the form that the girl's mother is considered the guardian. This is merely a terminological error because in any case, in our Sharia, the guardian is appointed as the man. It is mentioned in the Hadith that when an woman came to the service of the Holy Prophet ﷺ to arrange her marriage, he appointed a guardian for her son who was mostly eleven years old. This proves that men are the rightful guardians. Since there was no other male guardian available for this woman, the Holy Prophet ﷺ deemed it necessary for the boy to be appointed as the guardian. It is an Islamic rule that if a woman has no male guardian, the responsibility of guardianship falls on the government, whether it is political or religious. It is her duty to appoint a guardian for the girl who does not have a male guardian. Yes, it is necessary to consult the girl's mother and other relatives, but the final decision lies with the government, and it has the right to appoint a guardian for the girl who does not have a male guardian. Consultation with other relatives is also important, but the ultimate decision rests with the government, and it has the right to appoint a guardian for the girl who does not have a male guardian."
If you notice any fault in the boy, reject the proposal and decline their advice. Sharia has appointed the man as the guardian because he can better understand the conditions and emotions of the woman compared to a woman. He can see if the man will not deceive or if there is any flaw in him. It is essential that the guardian is a man as compared to a woman who may not be aware of the man's conditions. The form I have at the moment contains this terminological error, but the girl's mother is already aware of the man's conditions because she already has a relationship, although this is rare. The rule is generally applied. Ninety-five percent of women are such that they cannot understand the man's conditions. The remaining five percent remain, and this number is very low. The rule is always based on generality. Sharia has appointed the man as the guardian so that he can see if the boy has any flaws or faults. It is Allah's will that some women may know, but the issue is that the guardian should be a man, and if there is no guardian, the government becomes the guardian, whether it is a worldly or religious government. It is the duty to appoint a guardian for the girl who has become a guardian in such situations, which are rare among thousands. The man looks at the one marrying with his own eyes, and sometimes a person is judged just by looking at him. The man assesses his character, observes his way of speaking, keeps an eye on his buying and selling to see if there is any deception. Indeed, he observes his sitting, standing, walking, and speaking and determines what kind of person he is. The woman, however, cannot understand these conditions. Sharia has given this right to the man as the guardian. In exceptional cases, it may happen that there is no need to see the person's character, for example, at the time of the Prophet's marriage, there was no need to see the character because it was a matter of prophethood. This issue does not break the Sharia, but remains intact because there is only one Prophet, and he
Out of billions of people, there is a rule, however, exceptional circumstances may arise for the Prophet. The example of this rule is just like our Shariah says that when you make a decision, put it in writing. Despite having such a rule, there are some individuals who, no matter how much trust is placed in them, can be approached whenever needed. When it comes to business dealings, shopkeepers give credit without any written agreement because they are confident that they will not deceive. In such situations, the rule cannot be changed by the writer. The rule remains the same as before. So, only a male guardian can be appointed. The first right of guardianship belongs to the father. If he is not available, then the brothers become guardians. If they are also not available, then the woman's brothers become guardians. And if there is no male guardian, then the government becomes the guardian, whether it is a political or religious government. However, it is essential for the government to consult the girl's mother. If such relationships come to us, we only proceed with the relationship after consulting the girl's mother, and sometimes her consent is given priority. Generally, the mother's consent is considered, but representation and guardianship cannot be done by a woman. So, in such cases where the girl has no guardian, the Khalifa or his representative becomes her guardian. A question was asked to me by the scholars today, and it is related to marriage, so I want to express my thoughts on this occasion. A few days ago, one of our scholars intended to remarry, and some other scholars objected. In response, this scholar said that the decision of the Khalifa of the Messiah is that multiple marriages should be allowed, and according to the Quranic perspective, having more than one marriage is good in the sight of the Khalifa of the Messiah. The objecting scholars came to me and asked about this issue. I told them that according to me, it is proven from the Quran that multiple marriages should be allowed, and the Quran has also emphasized abundance first and then mentioned one marriage later (upon which the Prophet said, "If someone has the Quran, a friend has the Quran, then one friend said to the Quran
When you fear that you will not be able to deal justly with the orphans, then marry those that please you of [other] women, two or three or four. But if you fear that you will not be just, then [marry only] one or those your right hand possesses. In this matter, I have also presented to these friends that the Shariah has presented it first, and I also present it later. The Quran does not say marry one and if needed, then marry more. Rather, the Quran has placed two, three, and four first and then said that if you fear you cannot be just with them, then marry only one. The permission for one marriage is when a person is afraid. Another point I presented to them is that the Holy Prophet ﷺ is our excellent example, and his example is before us. Today, another friend also raised a question that if every man starts marrying four wives, where will so many women come from? I told them that this misconception arises because people do not understand the delicacies and wisdom in the Quran. Some people misunderstand the delicacies and wisdom of the Quran's words. Allah Almighty says, "And if you fear that you will not deal justly with the orphan girls..." Here, justice means fairness, but people mistakenly interpret it as if you cannot be fair among them, then stick to one marriage. Although this interpretation is incorrect, Allah Almighty has only stated that if you cannot be fair, then the permission is for one marriage. There are different forms of fairness, for example, a man who has nothing to eat or only gives two breads to his wife for eating. Now, if he marries another woman, he will still give both his wives only one bread each. If he says that he has been fair to both, this is not fairness but fairness means giving enough bread to satisfy hunger. If a woman needs two breads and she is given only one, this is not fairness.
For example, a person gives clothes to his wives, one becomes a shirt and the other becomes trousers, or both become shirts or trousers, and the husband says, "I have been fair." This is not fairness. The Quran does not say give one a shirt and then give another if needed. Rather, the Quran states to give plural clothes to women. In another scenario, if the man's financial strength is weak and he cannot fulfill the rights of the woman, for instance, a person has relations with one wife once a year and then thinks that justice is to have relations with the other wife once a year as well, this is not justice but considered as injustice. The Quran guides us towards justice, Allah Almighty states in another place, "Indeed, Allah orders justice." The meaning of justice is not to give equal portions to two individuals, but it means to give each person their right. If giving equal portions is considered justice, then who can stand before Allah's command of justice? In the matter of Allah, justice means to understand it in its uniqueness. There are not two Gods to share in His uniqueness. If someone gives women their respective rights, it is justice. People have this misconception because they do not understand the meaning of "And if you fear that you will not deal justly with the orphan girls..." Here, justice means fairness, but people mistakenly interpret it as if you cannot be fair among them, then stick to one marriage. Although this interpretation is incorrect, Allah Almighty has only stated that if you cannot be fair, then the permission is for one marriage. There are different forms of fairness, for example, a man who has nothing to eat or only gives two breads to his wife for eating. Now, if he marries another woman, he will still give both his wives only one bread each. If he says that he has been fair to both, this is not fairness but fairness means giving enough bread to satisfy hunger. If a woman needs two breads and she is given only one, this is not fairness.
Out of a hundred individuals, there may be someone who can marry more than one. This friend also mentioned that the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "In times of financial difficulty, marriage alleviates the situation." This is also a misconception. I explained to them that the intention of the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was not for every person who marries again to increase his wealth. We have seen many people who marry again and then fall into financial distress, and they start calling the woman cursed. There are many examples of such cases, where a person lost his job after marrying again, or faced losses in business, or some other trouble befell him. In our common parlance, it is also used that if a person marries again, his situation deteriorates. In reality, the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) may have been informed through revelation or a vision that the person's situation would improve after marriage. So when he came to the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and presented his situation after marriage, the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) instructed him to marry again. When he married for the second time and his situation did not improve, he again went to the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and presented his case. The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) then said, "Marry again." So he married for the third time, but his situation did not improve. He again went to the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and presented his case. The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said, "Marry." So he did. After some time, he came to the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) and said that now his financial difficulties had ended, and he was at ease. Sometimes, even without revelation or a vision, a believer says something based on his own intuition, and it comes true. Here, a person brought a non-Ahmadi woman for marriage, and he brought her to me. I used to sit in a round room and tell him to preach to her. At that time, I felt that our souls were clashing. I felt as if something was coming out of my body and clashing with her. I realized that this woman would not find guidance. So she stayed here for a while and did not become an Ahmadi. Once, to obtain some of her rights, she also expressed Ahmadiyya, but she did not become an Ahmadi. Once, to obtain some of her rights, she also expressed Ahmadiyya, but she did not become an Ahmadi.
But then she returned to her initial state. The Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was informed or inspired about a specific situation, and it is mentioned, "And if you fear that you will not deal justly..." This is another matter. In my previous Friday sermon, I mentioned that people consider Tuesdays as unlucky, giving the example that Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (on whom be peace) did not consider Tuesdays as good, although this is incorrect. If a person learns that a particular day is not good for them, it does not mean that day is bad for everyone. For some people, Sundays are unlucky, and for some, Fridays are also considered unlucky. If a person's father passes away on May, will it be a bad month? But when this month comes, we remember the demise of Hazrat Rasool-e-Kareem (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) and we feel sorrow and pain. Polygamy is favored in Islam, and if the meaning of "And if you fear that you will not deal justly" that I have taken is considered, then there is no objection. Before that, Allah Almighty says, "And if you fear that you will not deal justly..." Now, along with this justice, "And if you fear that you will not deal justly" must also be observed. For example, if a man treats his first wife's relatives kindly and treats the second wife's relatives unkindly, this would be against justice. And if a man treats the relatives of one wife kindly and does not treat the relatives of the other wife kindly, then he is not being just. He should divorce that wife if he wants justice, and if he desires justice, he should treat the relatives of both wives kindly. Where can a wife tolerate that her husband sits with her for an hour, but when her brother comes to her, she slaps him twice? She will not be happy with his one-hour sitting until her brother and other relatives are treated kindly.
Not treating well is the desire that just as the husband loves and respects me, he should also love and respect my brothers and parents. The meaning of "And if you fear that you will not be able to deal justly" is vast within itself. Some people cannot deal justly in clothes, some cannot in food, and some cannot in housing. So, for men, it is commanded to marry only one. As a friend asked, if every man starts marrying four wives, where will so many women come from? This misconception is dispelled when we delve into the meaning of "And if you fear that you will not deal justly." If this interpretation is considered, then there is no objection. Before that, Allah Almighty says, "And if you fear that you will not deal justly..." Now, along with this justice, "And if you fear that you will not deal justly" must also be observed. For example, if a man treats his first wife's relatives kindly and treats the second wife's relatives unkindly, this would be against justice. And if a man treats the relatives of one wife kindly and does not treat the relatives of the other wife kindly, then he is not being just. He should divorce that wife if he wants justice, and if he desires justice, he should treat the relatives of both wives kindly. Where can a wife tolerate that her husband sits with her for an hour, but when her brother comes to her, she slaps him twice? She will not be happy with his one-hour sitting until her brother and other relatives are treated kindly.
And if there is no way to pass through a narrow path and we are forced to step on one of them, then we will not place the burden on the child because he cannot bear it, and we will step on the strong one because he can bear the burden. Justice also dictates that when a person is forced to marry more, even if the rights of women are compromised, because in such a situation, justice will be to consider the conditions of two, three, and four instead of the condition of a single woman. European authors have written that according to the circumstances of the Arabs at that time, polygamy was very necessary because of the customs and the abundance of women, they were forced to marry more than one, and this was their national duty. This statement is minimal but with evidence. In another era when there is an abundance of women, action can be taken on it, at that time the condition of being single will not remain. So if the meaning of the verse I have explained is understood, there is no objection. The determination of the two parties could not be made. The female book of marriage, the chapter of marrying the son's mother, the title: 4 The Bee 91:
(Delivered on December 26, 1938)
On December 26, 1938, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II led the congregational prayers of Zuhr and Asr at Masjid Noor and after the prayers, delivered a sermon on marriage. Following the sermon, an announcement was made that (the son) Mirza Muzaffar Ahmad Sahib A.C.S, son of Hazrat Mirza Bashir Ahmad Sahib M.A., is married to (the daughter) Ummatul Qayyum, who is the daughter of my wife Syeda Ummatul Hafeez Begum Sahiba, for an agreed dowry of eleven hundred rupees. And the second marriage is of my son Mirza Mubarak Ahmad with Tayyiba Begum, who is the daughter of Miyan Abdullah Khan Sahib, as if my younger sister Umm-e-Shaheera, who is the daughter of Ummatul Hafeez Begum Sahiba, for an agreed dowry of eleven hundred rupees."
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"It has been 32 years since I, in the beginning, collaborated with some friends to publish the booklet 'Tashheez-ul-Azhan.' When this publication was released, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I praised it in the presence of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (on whom be peace) and suggested that this content should be read. Consequently, Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood requested that the booklet be brought to the blessed house, and most likely, it was read and praised by Molvi Muhammad Ali Sahib. However, after that, when I met Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I, he said, 'Your content was very good, but...'
My heart was not pleased, and he said, "There is a famous saying in our country, 'The camel walks and the frog claps,' and you did not complete this saying. I did not know Punjabi so well that I could understand its meaning, so seeing the signs of amazement on my face, you said, 'Perhaps you did not understand its meaning.' This is an example from our region: a person was selling a camel, and there was also a frog with it, which is called 'toda' in this region. When someone asked about the price, he said the camel costs forty rupees but the 'toda' costs forty-five rupees. He realized what this meant, so he said, 'What is this?' He said, 'The 'toda' is also part of the camel.' Similarly, the book of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him), Barahin-e-Ahmadiyya, was present before you. When you read this book, there was no Islamic literature present before you, but this was present before you, and it was hoped that you would bring something better than this. No one can bring more knowledge than the trustees, except that they keep presenting their hidden treasures. The intention of Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I was that the future generations should continue to elevate the foundation laid before and this is such a matter that if the future generations keep it in their minds, they can also attain blessings and grace and this will be a means of progress for the community. Therefore, the youth of the family of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) should consider this that they have dual responsibilities, one as Ahmadis and the other as members of the family of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him), and it is because of these dual responsibilities that Allah Almighty has said regarding the wives of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) that if they commit a mistake, they will receive double punishment, and if they do good, they will also receive double reward, and keeping this double punishment is not injustice. The Quran states that whoever sets a good example for someone, they will also have a share in their goodness, and whoever sets a bad example for someone, and they see it and do evil...
When someone inclines towards something, they also get a share of its consequences. It is stated:
"Whoever intercedes for a good cause will have a share in it, and whoever intercedes for an evil cause will have a share in it."
So when a famous figure emerges, the members of their family bear a double responsibility. People observe and estimate what they have gained from that person's mission. If their example is good, people assume that the source from which it emanated is also good. Conversely, if it is bad, it is not necessary that the source is bad, but the general perception leads to people being misled. Therefore, it should also be noted that the descendants of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) have a greater faith in his prophecies. They witness the places where revelations descended and these revelations are visible to them. The effects of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) always surround them, and hence, they should always be confident that all the blessings of the world are in the fulfillment of those prophecies. No landholding or trade in the world can match even the smallest of revelations of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him). The promises made by Allah Almighty to Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) are so precious that no worldly kingdom can stand before them. If a member of your family aspires towards the world while having these revelations, it means they lack faith. If your revelations are true and their hearts are not in it, then they lack faith. If your revelations are true and their hearts are not in it, then they lack faith. If your revelations are true and their hearts are not in it, then they lack faith. If your revelations are true and their hearts are not in it, then they lack faith. If your revelations are true and their hearts are not in it, then they lack faith. If your revelations are true and their hearts are not in it, then they lack faith.
When someone inclines towards something, they also get a share of its consequences. It is stated:
"Whoever intercedes for a good cause will have a share in it, and whoever intercedes for an evil cause will have a share in it."
So when a famous figure emerges, the members of their family bear a double responsibility. People observe and estimate what they have gained from that person's mission. If their example is good, people assume that the source from which it emanated is also good. Conversely, if it is bad, it is not necessary that the source is bad, but the general perception leads to people being misled. Therefore, it should also be noted that the descendants of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) have a greater faith in his prophecies. They witness the places where revelations descended and these revelations are visible to them. The effects of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) always surround them, and hence, they should always be confident that all the blessings of the world are in the fulfillment of those prophecies. No landholding or trade in the world can match even the smallest of revelations of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him). The promises made by Allah Almighty to Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) are so precious that no worldly kingdom can stand before them. If a member of your family aspires towards the world while having these revelations, it means they lack faith. If your revelations are true and their hearts are not in it, then they lack faith. If your revelations are true and their hearts are not in it, then they lack faith. If your revelations are true and their hearts are not in it, then they lack faith. If your revelations are true and their hearts are not in it, then they lack faith. If your revelations are true and their hearts are not in it, then they lack faith. If your revelations are true and their hearts are not in it, then they lack faith.
The real time of happiness is when we meet Allah and His beloved Prophet and meet in such a way that they are pleased with us. Our marriages, our unity, and connection are all devoid of reality if we do not attain the comfort that Allah has destined for those who have the union of Allah and the Prophet. The world has moved far away from Islam and its teachings. Today, ignorant people are building on Islam and its teachings, and in that era, Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) raised his voice that salvation is associated with the establishment of this teaching in the world, and it is our duty to establish Islam in the world according to your guidance. All customs, traditions, and civilization should be abandoned so that the Islamic atmosphere that Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) wanted to establish in the world becomes established. Remember that Western civilization and culture and fashion will not remain, but will be erased, and in their place, the Islamic civilization will be established in the world. The fire that is in my heart about this, the day it flares up, whether it flares up in my life or after me, whenever it flares up, it will destroy the world. Its estimate I can make or my God and not in vain. If it is so intense in my heart, then how intense will it be in the heart of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) and then in the hearts of his followers. Allah Almighty ignites the fire of His love in His servants, even though they may be burning in hell, but that is actually a real paradise. Remember well that it is impossible for the things standing in the way of Islam to survive; they will surely be destroyed, and those who choose them will also be destroyed, and for those who have believed in Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) and are apparently very simple landowners who bind themselves with traditions and do not know how to talk properly, through them, Allah Almighty will carry out His work of destruction, and the present civilization will be erased from their hands, and the guidance of the world will come into their hands. Today, no one can say how these people will manage the world, but have they not heard the Punjabi proverb, "The camel walks and the frog claps," when Allah Almighty grants superiority, then wisdom automatically comes. Nadir Shah was a shepherd, but Allah Almighty gave him rule, and he came to attack Delhi and conquered it. The king of Delhi wanted to make fun of him, which was his purpose in calling him, and asked him, "How did you...?"
What was the name of the father and what did he do? The gathering was in progress, and each person was mentioning his father's name and praising him. Finally, it was Nadir Shah's turn to mention his father's name and praise him. He placed his hand on the hilt of his sword and said, "My father's name is this. You are asking me to humiliate myself and praise your fathers. But you do not see that at this moment, I am your master, and if I wish, I can sever your neck immediately." Similarly, a delegation of companions once went to the king of Iran. He said to them, "Take the money and go back. I will give each soldier one pound and each officer two pounds. Take this money and leave." He also assessed their worth and said to them, "You are the eaters, drinkers, and fighters all the time. What connection do you have with the government? Take this money and go back." The head of the delegation replied, "Certainly, it is true that our situation was like that, but those were the times when we had not accepted Islam. Now we have embraced Islam, and now we have to rule the whole world. Hearing this, the king became angry and signaled to his servants to bring the mud pot for humiliation and placed it on the head of the delegation and said, "Go, nothing can be given to you except this mud pot." But those people who were considered ignorant and drinkers of camel's milk were given limitless intelligence by Allah Almighty as trustees of Islam. They knew that the idolater is misled, so when the mud pot was placed on their heads, they said to their companions, "Come, let's run." They all ran, and said that the king of Iran has handed over the land of Iran to us. At that time, the riders were ordered to chase and catch them, but by then, they had gone far away. Similarly, the world today thinks that this community belongs to the poor and ignorant. It is better to mix with other societies, and respect can be gained by joining them. But remember, all of them are disappearing, to the extent that tears will flow by looking at their homes. Today, we certainly appear weak, and Islam seems defeated, but the day is not far when the poor and ignorant will be respected. But remember, all of them are disappearing, to the extent that tears will flow by looking at their homes. Today, we certainly appear weak, and Islam seems defeated, but the day is not far when the poor and ignorant will be respected.
Big priests will go to the door of even the smallest Muslim and ask questions. Allah Almighty has made us their prey. Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) said, "I am like David and Goliath is my prey. Goliath was a king, and Hazrat David was a shepherd. Similarly, Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) says that people consider me insignificant, and indeed I am so, but David was also considered insignificant. But Allah Almighty made Goliath his prey. In the same way, Allah Almighty will shatter the rule of Satan through me. So remember that all our progress and comforts are associated with the community that does not understand this point will not be able to obtain blessings from Allah Almighty. Indeed, the gatherings of the world seem more vibrant, and their lights are more visible, but the reality is that they are like the flickering light of a candle that brightens as it nears its end. Surely, the child born will have more strength than the old man, but who can say that the child is weak and the old man is strong. Surely, the child will grow in strength, and the old man's strength will diminish day by day. So, it should be remembered by the friends of the community and the members of the family of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) that all honors are associated with the series. Devote all your abilities and capabilities to the progress and prosperity of the series. Whoever forgets this, Allah Almighty also forgets them. Surely, forget your worldly prosperity, but understand in it that the real prosperity lies in understanding the connection with the series. Dedicate all your talents and abilities to the progress and welfare of the series. Whoever forgets this, Allah Almighty also forgets them. So, surely keep in mind your worldly welfare, but understand in it that the real welfare lies in understanding that the messages brought by Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) are connected with it, and we should continue to be associated with it and set a good example for others. Then those who seek guidance through us should serve them. (Al-Fadl, August 3, 1920, Pages 2-4)
Imam Tirmidhi, Book of Knowledge, Chapter on the one who invites to guidance and follows:
"So the questioner went to the shepherd and said, 'Send me with your son David who grazes the sheep with you.'" (1 Samuel 19:19, Bible Society of Lahore, 1994)
"And David used to go back and forth from Saul to feed his father's sheep at Bethlehem." (1 Samuel 17:15, Bible Society of Lahore, 1994)
(Stated on April 10, 1939)
On April 10, 1939, after the Asr prayer at the blessed mosque, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Chaudhry Khalil Ahmad Nasir BA to Umme Hafiza Begum Sahiba, daughter of Seth Muhammad Ghaus Sahib from Hyderabad, Deccan, saying:
After the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"Khalil Ahmad Sahib and Nasir are aware of life; their life is dedicated to the service of the community."
"In this respect, I also have a connection with this relationship. Then Seth Muhammad Ghaus Sahib is an old Ahmadi; his relationships with me are very sincere. The relationships of his children are also based on utmost sincerity. The relationships of his daughters are very deep with my daughters. The purpose is that the relationships of their family with our family are such that it seems as if they are part of our own family. I consider his daughters as my own daughters, so this marriage seems as if it is within our own family. Seth Sahib has appointed me as the guardian, and I have proposed this marriage with a dowry of one thousand rupees. May Allah Almighty bless this marriage. (Al-Fadl, April 13, 1939, Page 2)
(Al-Fadl, April 15, 1939, Page 2)
The Quranic law is extremely pure and holy.
(Stated on April 15, 1939)
On April 15, after the Asr prayer at Masjid Al-Aqsa, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Umme Hafiza Begum Sahiba, daughter of Mir Muhammad Ismail Sahib, to Chaudhry Salauddin Sahib BA, with a dowry of one and a half thousand rupees. After the Sunnah sermon, he said:
There was a time in Arabia when people were so bound by customs and traditions that they were like prisoners. The only difference was that today's prisoners are not confined within four walls, but their captivity is more severe. Because today's prisoners, who are locked in rooms, eventually have walls that are only a few yards away from them, but those who were imprisoned in their bodies, their captivity was more severe, and the chains and bonds that had reached their extremes were broken by the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), and he freed them from slavery and the captivity that had consumed their legitimate freedom, and suddenly a new law came upon them that was suitable for human emotions and provided complete freedom.
Some restrictions are also present. When we call someone a captive or a slave, it does not mean that there are only some restrictions on that person, and when we call someone free, they are free from all kinds of restrictions. In reality, both have some restrictions, and both are free from some restrictions. But nowadays, a slave is called one who is under some common restrictions, and a free person is one who is not under any forced common restrictions, meaning a prisoner is called a prisoner because, for example, he committed a crime or something similar, so the government imprisoned him as a punishment. If he is released, he will immediately run away. But what about a mother who is at home and her only son is seriously ill and lying on the bed, and she is sitting by his side due to his illness. Is she not a captive? She is also a captive, but she is in a more severe form of captivity than the previous captive, yet we do not call her a captive because she did not commit any crime or sin for which she is imprisoned but sits by her child's side out of love. In such situations, if a prisoner is told to run away and he can run away, he will definitely run away, and even if there is no possibility for him to escape, his desire to run away is always present in his heart. But a mother who sits by her only sick child's bed, she does not even have the desire to run away. If you tell her to run away, she will be displeased and say that you are an enemy of my son and me. Then some people are imprisoned for three to four months, and some are imprisoned for a lifetime. But look, is such a captivity also imposed on some pregnant women or not? Many pregnant women are like that who, according to doctors' advice, stop walking after three, four, five months, and sometimes even six, seven, eight, nine months, meaning throughout the pregnancy, doctors prohibit women from walking and emphasize that it is extremely harmful for this patient, and she must lie on the bed for such a long time and cannot even change sides. But no one calls her a captive, and nor do those people who constantly call for freedom oppose this restriction of women. Why? Because this captivity is not imposed by any government or forcibly, but just as the government imposed some individuals...
Restrictions have been imposed in the divine law. Similarly, Allah Almighty has placed some restrictions on women, one of which is that they bear children. Therefore, pregnant women are required to lie down according to doctors' instructions in some situations. So, what we call freedom is, in reality, also bound by some restrictions, and what we call slavery or captivity is also free from some restrictions. For example, when thieves are imprisoned, despite being in captivity, their souls are free, and they keep thinking that as soon as they are released from that place, they will complete their theft and then leave. Or those who are caught with the intention of murder and have not yet completed the act of murder, they make a pledge in their hearts that if they escape from this captivity, they will complete the murder. Such a person is indeed free, and a "mother" or "father" is also free, but in reality, no honorable person will call them free, nor will they describe their way as freedom. But a person who is sitting at home and is not even thinking about committing any crime of theft or murder, and if a normal thought comes to him, he immediately reproaches himself. So, apparently, what kind of captivity is there that makes him do so? So, slavery and captivity are relative matters. Sometimes a free person is in captivity, and sometimes a captive is free in some matters. Islam has not granted such freedom that people can do as they please. Rather, Islam has imposed some restrictions on certain matters, saying, "Do not do this," and some matters that were for the welfare of the people were given freedom, so only the difference of relationship has emerged. For example, they used to spend their wealth before as well, but now it is said that before Islam, you used to spend your wealth on the poor and needy, but now this restriction is imposed that you can spend money but not on evil deeds like drinking alcohol, etc. So, the previous restrictions that were unjustly imposed on them were removed by Islam, and some new restrictions that were beneficial for them were imposed, and this is not against freedom. Everyone has some restrictions, whether they are religious, ethical, or mental.
The return is to those people who are the advocates of freedom, that is, "freedom of conscience" and "freedom of actions." Can any of them be willing to beat their father with shoes or catch their mother by the hair to strike her? Neither can they do it themselves nor would you approve of such an action. Instead, you would impose a mental restraint on them and say that complete freedom does not mean that a person is free to beat their parents. Similarly, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) came into the world as a messenger and granted people a great freedom. But this does not mean that now people are free in their actions, or as Christians say, that the law is a curse. God forbid, we have also become free from the commandments of the law, but it means that whatever I instruct you to do, do it, and refrain from what I prohibit you from, as it is for your benefit. So, some restrictions and prohibitions are good, and some restrictions and prohibitions are bad. The good restrictions that were there, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) imposed on people, and the bad customs were removed from them. The restrictions on their children were imposed, and these were not new things for the people. Eventually, they used to impose restrictions on some matters and were bound in some matters. But after a while, people rejected the restrictions imposed by the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) and, by turning their backs, made themselves fond of wrong "freedom" and this is just like God Almighty has placed the sun, which rises from millions of miles, lifting vapors from foul places, ponds, lakes, drains, rivers, seas, etc., and then purifies that water to bring it back. But man, after purifying this clean water, turns it into urine, sweat, phlegm, etc., and throws it away. Similarly, when God Almighty grants man a very pure and holy law, man defiles it and it starts to look bad. By the means of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), God had removed Muslims from thousands of types of filth, but today, Muslims are once again trapped in the chains of the same restrictions from which the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) had freed them. Despite the purity and clarity of Islamic law, Muslims themselves have made it a bad stain for others. For example, when they are told to pray, they say,
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A great calamity has befallen, as thousands of types of restrictions that they have imposed upon themselves will continue to bind them. For example, Islam did not impose the restriction of Haq; rather, Muslims have imposed it upon themselves. Now, where Haq is mentioned, ten people will gather around it to drink Haq, but they will not go for the prayer. During the time of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud (peace and blessings be upon him), a person came to Qadian and stayed for a day and then left. Those who had sent him thought he would go to Qadian and stay there for a while, listen to the words of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud (peace and blessings be upon him), and that the influence of Ahmadiyyat would have an effect on him. But when he left after just one day, those who had sent him asked why he had come back so soon. He replied, 'Oh, it's a place for decent people to stay. They thought maybe he had not seen a good example that would have affected him. They asked what had happened that he returned so quickly. In those days, how did they travel between Qadian and Batala? He said, 'I reached Qadian in the morning, was hosted in the guest house, and was treated with humility. We said, 'We have come from Sindh, and on the way, there was no opportunity to drink Haq. Now, we will sit comfortably and drink Haq. Just then, someone said, 'The food is ready. Let's eat first.' We said, 'Okay, after eating, we will drink Haq with satisfaction.' Just as we were about to sit after eating, someone said, 'The call to prayer has been made.' We said, 'Now that we have come, let's go and pray the Zuhr prayer.' After offering the Zuhr prayer, when we returned, Mirza Sahib sat down, and the conversation began. We said, 'Let's also listen to Mirza Sahib's conversation and then go for Haq.' After listening to the conversation, we returned, relieved after using the washroom, and sat down with satisfaction. Haq was served, and now we are free from all sides, now we drink Haq with contentment. But two sips of Haq had not been taken when someone said, 'The call to prayer has been made. Pray now.' Haq was...
Leaving aside, we went for the Asr prayer. After offering the Asr prayer, it was thought that now until evening, there would be freedom to drink Haq. Someone said, "The senior clerics have gone to Masjid Al-Aqsa, and there will be a lesson from the Holy Quran." We understood that now there would be an opportunity to drink Haq until evening, but no, we have just arrived, and now there is a lesson from the Holy Quran. We went to the big mosque, listened to the lesson, and upon returning, the Maghrib call to prayer was made, and Haq continued to beckon. We went for the Maghrib prayer. After offering the prayer, Mirza Sahib sat down, and we also sat down, compelled to listen to Mirza Sahib's words. Finally, when we returned, we thought that now perhaps there would be an opportunity to drink Haq, but dinner was served, and they said, "Let's eat first, then drink Haq." After dinner, we thought, "Now we will sit comfortably and drink Haq with satisfaction." Just as we were about to sit after eating, someone said, "The call to Zuhr prayer has been made." We said, "Now that we have come, let's go and pray the Zuhr prayer." After offering the Zuhr prayer, when we returned, Mirza Sahib sat down, and the conversation began. We thought, "Let's also listen to Mirza Sahib's conversation and then go for Haq." After listening to the conversation, we returned, relieved after using the washroom, and sat down with satisfaction. Dinner was served, and now we are free from all sides, now we drink Haq with contentment. But Haq had just been served when someone said, "The call to Asr prayer has been made. Pray now." Haq was...
Imposing the law of the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) on oneself is not like imposing it on others. Similarly, Zakat is obligatory. People spend money but do not extract Zakat from it. In our country, the situation is such that people do not even have enough money, and when they do have some money, it is spent on unnecessary things. When a rupee comes to a house and is spent on unnecessary things, how will Zakat fit in there? Despite this, people gather some money on certain occasions, for example, weddings, and when the wealth reaches the Zakat threshold, Zakat becomes obligatory. But people will not give Zakat from it and will spend all the money on weddings. So, they spend money on weddings, but when it comes to Zakat, they do not give from it. Certainly, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) imposed many restrictions, but the restrictions that Muslims have imposed on themselves today are excessive, and they are destroying all their wealth. Recently, I read an incident in the newspapers about Ferozepur where a person had taken sixty rupees on loan and now it has turned into ninety thousand rupees in interest. Islam has also imposed restrictions, but it says, "We will burden you only as much as you can bear." However, we have burdened ourselves beyond our capacity, and when we are told to spend for the sake of God's religion, we say, "Where will we get it from? We don't even get enough for food." Similarly, weddings are common among Christians, Hindus, Muslims, and others, and they all spend money on weddings like water flows, but since Muslims keep spending from the Hindus to the end, the entire earnings of those who earn are spent on the house, and what little they save also goes into the famous saying, "Earnings for weddings or houses." They spend everything on weddings. So, all the money of the Bengalis is taken by the groom's side on the occasion of the wedding, and this is so common that when they go for the wedding, they ask the bride's side, "Tell us, what will you give?" So, this is the common practice towards Bengal.
Big people, even those who hold leadership positions in the country or deliver speeches at high levels, will also go somewhere and ask, "What will you give?" Sometimes, the boy demands what he is passionate about, and he insists on it. For example, if he is passionate about a motorbike, he will say, "Get me a motorbike," or whatever the girl's family provides, he accepts it. Even if the poor boy is not capable, and if he says he cannot fulfill the demand, the girl's family will say, "If you can't, then we are not ready to take your daughter. Go and give the girl to someone else." Sometimes, extremely distressing situations arise, and on many occasions, girls commit suicide due to such things. Bengum Peter Ji, a Bengali author, has written many such incidents, and the reality is that the people who work in such a way that they ruin their wealth according to their worldly desires will not follow what every religion's wise people have presented. Similarly, the situation of our Muslims is such that on occasions like weddings, money is spent with great pain, whereas Islam had given a very simple command for weddings. Look at the simplicity of the Holy Prophet's (peace be upon him) own daughter's wedding. The companions are gathered in the mosque, and the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) arrives and announces the marriage of his daughter Hazrat Fatimah to Hazrat Ali. Then some women come to take the bride to bring her, you ask for a cup of milk, serve your daughter and son-in-law, pray, and then send off the bride. This does not mean that girls should not be given anything; rather, the real point is that at that time, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) could not give anything. In fact, in this, you have taught us the lesson that as your situation allows, deal accordingly. Nowadays, people are treated with great pomp and show, even though they cannot bear the burden of such expenses. Look, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has given us the command for such occasions; you say, "Give a little, and if you cannot, then you cannot." Indeed, we have burdened ourselves beyond our capacity, and when we are told to spend for the sake of God's religion, we say, "Where will we get it from? We don't even get enough for food." Similarly, weddings are common among Christians, Hindus, Muslims, and others, and they all spend money on weddings like water flows, but since Muslims keep spending from the Hindus to the end, the entire earnings of those who earn are spent on the house, and what little they save also goes into the famous saying, "Earnings for weddings or houses." They spend everything on weddings. So, all the money of the Bengalis is taken by the groom's side on the occasion of the wedding, and this is so common that when they go for the wedding, they ask the bride's side, "Tell us, what will you give?" So, this is the common practice towards Bengal.
Similarly, people now impose exorbitant dowries upon themselves. In our country, dowries amounting to hundreds of thousands are given. However, these are merely given without any intention of fulfilling them. I remember a marriage ceremony where the groom's father, Peer Akbar Ali, had set a dowry of ten thousand rupees. When the marriage ceremony began, I advised him, "If your intention is to pay this dowry, then be so kind, otherwise reduce it." He stood up and said, "I now intend to pay this dowry." Perhaps due to his intention and good will at that moment, later circumstances led him to pay the ten thousand rupees as the dowry. But people tie such heavy dowries that they themselves become destitute and cannot even afford food at home. Sometimes, when a couple is about to get married, they bring loans. I have not personally heard of such an incident, but Maulvi Nazir Ahmad Dehlvi writes about a scenario where the dowry included so many parrots, elephants, horses, and so on, as if it was a display of grandeur, and the thought was that after our daughter's wedding, the house would be filled with parrots and eggs of various animals. But look at the simplicity of the marriage of the daughter of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), Hazrat Fatimah, to Hazrat Ali. The companions gathered in the mosque, and the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) announced the marriage. Then some women came to take the bride, and they asked for a cup of milk, served the couple, prayed, and sent off the bride. This doesn't mean that girls should not be given anything; rather, the essence is that at that time, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) could not afford much. In fact, this teaches us to act according to our means. Nowadays, people are celebrated extravagantly, even though they cannot bear the burden of such expenses. Look, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has given us guidance for such occasions; he said, "Give what you can, and if you cannot, then you cannot." Indeed, we have burdened ourselves beyond our capacity, and when we are told to spend for the sake of God's religion, we say, "Where will we get it from? We don't even get enough for food." Similarly, weddings are common among Christians, Hindus, Muslims, and others, and they all spend money on weddings like water flows. However, Muslims, from the beginning to the end, spend all their earnings on weddings, and what little they save also goes into the famous saying, "Earnings for weddings or houses." They spend everything on weddings. So, all the money of the Bengalis is taken by the groom's side on the occasion of the wedding, and this is so common that when they go for the wedding, they ask the bride's side, "Tell us, what will you give?" This is the common practice in Bengal.
However, there are also needs that a woman cannot express to her husband. So, she can fulfill those necessities through her right to dowry. Therefore, Islam has prescribed a woman's right through dowry, and it should be kept according to the husband's status. But people impose such heavy dowries that sometimes even after giving all the husband's property, the dowry is not fulfilled, and this leads to disputes. Now, the courts settle these disputes by giving half of the woman's dowry. Some magistrates even give the husband's property in such cases. This leads to the ruin of the husband's property and reputation. Sometimes, when a couple is about to get married, they bring loans. I have not personally heard of such an incident, but Maulvi Nazir Ahmad Dehlvi writes about a scenario where the dowry included so many parrots, elephants, horses, and so on, as if it was a display of grandeur, and the thought was that after our daughter's wedding, the house would be filled with parrots and eggs of various animals. But look at the simplicity of the marriage of the daughter of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), Hazrat Fatimah, to Hazrat Ali. The companions gathered in the mosque, and the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) announced the marriage. Then some women came to take the bride, and they asked for a cup of milk, served the couple, prayed, and sent off the bride. This doesn't mean that girls should not be given anything; rather, the essence is that at that time, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) could not afford much. In fact, this teaches us to act according to our means. Nowadays, people are celebrated extravagantly, even though they cannot bear the burden of such expenses. Look, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has given us guidance for such occasions; he said, "Give what you can, and if you cannot, then you cannot." Indeed, we have burdened ourselves beyond our capacity, and when we are told to spend for the sake of God's religion, we say, "Where will we get it from? We don't even get enough for food." Similarly, weddings are common among Christians, Hindus, Muslims, and others, and they all spend money on weddings like water flows. However, Muslims, from the beginning to the end, spend all their earnings on weddings, and what little they save also goes into the famous saying, "Earnings for weddings or houses." They spend everything on weddings. So, all the money of the Bengalis is taken by the groom's side on the occasion of the wedding, and this is so common that when they go for the wedding, they ask the bride's side, "Tell us, what will you give?" This is the common practice in Bengal.
Estimating from this, what can be inferred is that by not completing this section, are we deteriorating or improving, and then not acting on the remaining parts? In this case, we will be considered more guilty before Allah, and Allah may say to us that when you saw the sweet and fruitful results of some parts of My commands, then why did you not act on all those commands. Surely, every person will be in some kind of confinement, whether they impose the restrictions of the Sharia on themselves or they confine themselves in the customs and traditions, but no one can be free like "free parents" in relation to themselves. So when each one of us has to impose some kind of restriction on ourselves and each one of us has to serve in some way, then why not choose the servitude of Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him), and why not impose the restrictions of the commands given by him on ourselves? Even big people, those who hold high positions, can go somewhere and become subordinate. For example, there is a district officer; surely a district officer is a big person in his place, but can he go to the Deputy Commissioner's place? Then see, the Deputy Commissioner can go to where the Commissioner can go, but the Deputy Commissioner cannot go to many places, but the Commissioner's place can also be reached by the Deputy Commissioner. Similarly, only the Commissioner's place can be reached where the Commissioner can go. But in many places, even the Commissioner cannot go, but the Governor's place can be reached by the Commissioner. So, the servitude of the elders also makes a person great, and when every person is under some kind of confinement, then why not choose to confine ourselves to the commands of the Noble Prophet (peace be upon him) and choose his servitude, through which we will also gain respect and through which we will also gain greatness in the presence of Allah. (Al-Fazl, August 31, 1960, pages 2-5)
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Al-Fazl, April 18, 1939, Page 2
"And the Messiah, who became a curse for us, rescued us from the curse of the law by becoming a curse for us." - Galatians Chapter 3, Verse 13
Bail Society Press, Lahore (1994)
Al-Bukhari, Book of Marriage, Chapter of the Wedding Feast even with a Sheep
Al-Bukhari, Book of Marriage, Chapter of a Woman Offering Herself to a Righteous Man
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Al-Fazl, May 11, 1939
"Value this time and benefit from it." - (Stated on May 1, 1939)
On May 1, 1939, after the Asr prayer in Masjid Aqsa, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Sahibzada Mirza Zafar Ahmad Sahib BA, son of Hazrat Mirza Sharif Ahmad Sahib, with Syeda Nasira Begum, daughter of respected Mirza Aziz Ahmad Sahib MA, in the presence of Hazrat Mirza Sultan Ahmad Sahib, with a dowry of one thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"Allah has created this world in such colors that sometimes a person thinks he is progressing, he feels he is achieving elevation, he believes he is moving forward step by step. But not much time passes before he begins to feel that what he thought was his ascent was actually the beginning of his decline, what he perceived as the steps of his progress were actually the indications of his downfall, and what he thought he was advancing towards was actually a retreat. His heart was feeling joy from the notion that he was going straight, he was walking on a road where there was no sorrow. But when he reaches the age of reflection and consciousness, an age where a person contemplates and derives various conclusions, suddenly he feels that he is not moving forward but actually retracing his steps backward. Whatever estimate is made of his youth, and these estimates vary, someone's youth is forty
Life progresses; someone's youth lasts fifty years, someone's sixty, someone's seventy. Regardless of how one estimates their youth, a person keeps walking until a certain age, feeling like they are on the path of youth. But suddenly, they realize that what they thought was progress was actually a return. The road seems straight, showing no curves, but the reality is the opposite, and the person finds themselves retracing their steps. However, Allah has woven a kind of magic in human life that the return is not apparent. The road seems straight, and there is no feeling of deviation. The person appears to be moving forward on the road of youth. But as they continue, one day it becomes clear that what they thought was walking straight was actually a return. The road may seem straight after fifty, but fifty-one comes, not forty-nine, and after eighty, ninety comes, not eighty-one, but it seems to be saying that it is actually forty-eight. Similarly, after eighty, ninety never comes, but ninety-three comes, and it establishes its position in seventy. Similarly, after one hundred, one hundred ten comes, not one hundred one, but one hundred ten comes. Sometimes, indeed, one hundred twenty equals one hundred, and sometimes it equals one. So, some people who reach the age of one hundred appear like children of one or two years old. They are always crawling on all fours, and their grandchildren carry them from one place to another, feeding them milk and other things. At this time, although their age seems to be one hundred years, in reality, they are as young as one or two years old, and they continue to crawl straight, and everyone appears to be moving forward, but in reality, they are retracing their steps. The purpose is that Allah has continued this strange and amazing series, which is beyond human understanding. Today, the boy whose marriage I am solemnizing is a younger brother of even the youngest brother to me, and the girl whose marriage is taking place is not very young either, but she had a brother who was even older than her, who has passed away. At this moment, the era has come before my eyes when we were not delivering sermons, not listening to sermons, and if we were listening to sermons, we could not understand. I remember
I was coming towards the school from a street through which we pass to reach the mosque. In front of me, a boy, almost my own age, was passing by. At that time, Sheikh Yaqub Ali Sahib or probably someone else was with me. They pointed towards the boy and said, "Your nephew has come." Considering the boy's age, I didn't understand. I remember hearing these words, and I immediately ran home. For me, this sentence was as embarrassing as if someone had said to me that you accidentally came naked to the gathering. Upon hearing this sentence, I also ran, but they tried to catch me and bring us together, but I wasn't caught. After a few days, Sheikh Yaqub Ali Sahib, Irfaani, and probably Qazi Amir Hussain Sahib made efforts and brought us together. Until that time, due to the difference between Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) and Mirza Sultan Ahmad Sahib and because Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) and Mirza Sultan Ahmad Sahib were not on good terms, we had never been together. Although we were close to each other at home, Mirza Sultan Ahmad Sahib was a government employee and his children also lived outside with him, so this was the first time for me to see his nephew. They brought us together, and even after that, they kept bringing us together. After that, they started whispering in my ears that tell your father that this boy wants to get engaged. When I mentioned this to Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as), he asked the boy what he wanted to get engaged for. He had no idea what Ahmadiyyat was and why we were sent for what purpose, but still, he kept following me and kept telling me to go and say that he wants to get engaged. Finally, Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) gave me permission and said, "Go and bring him home." So, I took him to my house. As far as I remember, Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) was composing something at that time. He saw the boy, patted his head, said something that I don't remember at that time, and then we left. This meant that it seemed like they had received the passport to come to our house. Then I grew up, and they also grew up. They pledged allegiance to Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as). Then, by the grace of God, they settled in Ali Garh. In 1907 AD.
Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) became very displeased with this and announced their expulsion in Badr and Ahkam. Later, their fathers told them to go and seek forgiveness. Consequently, they sought forgiveness, and Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) pardoned them. These were the changes that occurred one after another. I also remember the day when nowadays Marza Gul Muhammad Sahib's shops are there, a pigeon used to perch. People used to sit it there. Marza Nazam-ud-Din Sahib and his brothers also used to sit there, and some Ahmadis also sat there occasionally. We children used to play there. I was about seven or eight years old at that time, playing there when a little girl, who must have been four or five years old, came playing. Someone said to me that this girl is your nephew's daughter (at that time, perhaps I had not yet met Marza Aziz Ahmad Sahib). I didn't understand because even nowadays children might have such feelings or not, but at that time, this statement felt very embarrassing to me. I started sweating, and I said, "She's a granddaughter." I understand from this that this matter had been decided in childhood. Then we grew up, got married, and had children. Then those children were small at first, then they grew up, and now it's time for their marriages. Perhaps these times have also come upon them; perhaps these jokes have also passed through them. They know best whether these situations have passed over them or not, but in any case, they have come upon us, and now the time has come for our children to be eligible for marriage, and the responsibilities that fall on us will also fall on them. Allah knows best how they will fulfill these responsibilities, but in any case, the joys of marriages have colors within them that evoke feelings of happiness in every nation. But some joys have within them feelings of sorrow, and a person cannot perceive it. It cannot be distinguished where sorrow begins and where happiness ends. If looked at from one side, it says, "I am very happy," and if looked at from another perspective, it thinks, "I am very sad." It is such a gathering of opposites that its example is found very rarely in the world. White and black do not gather in one place, light and darkness do not gather in one place, but the gathering of happiness and sorrow is such that it is rarely found in very few things in the world. It is a gathering of opposites that is beyond human understanding. Today, the boy whose marriage I am solemnizing is a younger brother of even the youngest brother to me, and the girl whose marriage is taking place is not very young either, but she had a brother who was even older than her, who has passed away. At this moment, the era has come before my eyes when we were not delivering sermons, not listening to sermons, and if we were listening to sermons, we could not understand. I remember
Sometimes, a gathering is so strange that upon seeing it, a person becomes amazed and stunned. At the same time, a person feels very happy and very sad. For example, the weddings that are happening in our families these days are just like that. Even my daughter's wedding was like that. Today, the girl whose wedding is taking place is also like that, meaning the mothers of these girls passed away in their childhood. Nasira Begum, whose wedding is today, her mother also passed away in childhood, as I mentioned earlier when she came playing to me, and someone said to me that she is your nephew's daughter, and the mother of Imtiaz-ul-Qayyum, who is my daughter, also passed away. In such moments of joy, the human mind naturally inclines towards those situations, and these become a strange mixture of emotions. Sometimes a person brings those thoughts to mind that if the girl's mother were alive, how happy she would be, and sometimes the human mind goes towards what thoughts might come to the girl's heart that if her mother were alive, how happy she would be. And sometimes the human mind thinks about the most painful thing that happened to the girl, which is more painful than the death of her mother, and nothing can be more painful. The human mind fears that the girl's future should not be sad. The purpose is that strange and amazing emotions become mixed. On one side, there is a wedding, and on the other side, the human mind brings various thoughts to the fore. Look at the example of someone else, look at how the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) was nurtured in painful situations. Your father had passed away before your birth, and your mother passed away some time after your birth, and you came into a complete state of orphanhood. After that, you stayed with your grandfather Hazrat Abdul Muttalib for some time, and when he passed away, you came under the care of your uncle Abu Talib. There is no doubt that they treated you with great love and affection and took care of all your emotions and feelings in every way, but your own
The quality was such that when food was being distributed at your uncle's house, the dates reveal that you never asked for food from your aunt; rather, you stood silently in a corner. Other children made noise and clamored for things from their mothers, but you quietly stood in a corner. It seemed as if you thought, "What right do these people have to feed me? In reality, they are doing me a favor, otherwise, I have no right to ask them for anything." You spent your childhood in extremely difficult circumstances, and then when you grew up, the people of Mecca made you a target of their injustices. But then came a day when the same person who considered you an orphan, who did not consider himself entitled to anything even in his uncle's house, and who was also not considered to have any right in his uncle's house, entered Mecca triumphantly and addressed the Quraysh saying, "Tell me, how should you be treated now?" They replied, "You should treat us as Joseph treated his brothers." Then you said, "There shall be no reproach against you today; I forgive you." Although the treatment meted out to you by the people of Mecca was so unjust that even today, reading about those events sends shivers down the spine. However, "There shall be no reproach against you today" did not mean that the status attained by those who accepted faith in the early days was achieved. "There shall be no reproach against you today" only meant that I have forgiven you. Otherwise, the status attained by those who accepted faith in the early days was not achieved by the people of Mecca. The people of Mecca had such a quality that when the revelation came to the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) to warn people of the divine punishment and he gathered all the people and said to them, "God has sent me for your guidance as well. If you want to be saved from the divine punishment, listen to my voice and become worshippers of the One God." Everyone called you crazy and a liar and dispersed, paying no attention to what you said. In contrast, the situation of Hazrat Abu Bakr was that when the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) claimed prophethood, at that time, he was out of town for trade. When you returned to Mecca and came back at noon,
For a little while, a girl ran to your side and said, "Oh, your friend has gone mad today." Hazrat Abu Bakr's daughter asked, "Which friend?" She replied, "Muhammad." Abu Bakr also did not say, "How do you know he has gone mad?" She said, "Today he announced in the community that angels come to him and talk to him." Abu Bakr was lying down listening to this. When you stood up, you adjusted your cloak. In our country, when weddings take place, the Arabs also wrap themselves around their shoulders and make one part into a turban and the other part they wrap around. They quickly fixed their cloak, put on their shoes, and reached the door of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him). When the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) came out, you said, "O my friend! Is it true that angels come to you and talk to you?" The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) wanted to make sure that they understood the matter before answering so that they would not be offended. So, you said, "Abu Bakr, look, the point is this." Hazrat Abu Bakr said, "I have asked you a question. Your duty is only to answer my question, don't tell me anything else. I have only asked you this question, is it true that angels come to you and talk to you?" The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) wanted to make sure that they understood the matter before answering so that they would not be offended. So, you said, "Abu Bakr, look, the point is this." Hazrat Abu Bakr said, "I swear by God, I say to you, yes or no, answer me." The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) had no choice but to answer, so he said, "Abu Bakr, the point is this, and with this thought, a sadness arose in your heart that Abu Bakr was my old friend, he was also taken away from me." But when you said, "Abu Bakr, the point is this," and along with that, a sadness arose in your heart that Abu Bakr was my old friend, he was also taken away from me. But when you said, "Abu Bakr, the point is this," and along with that, a sadness arose in your heart that Abu Bakr was my old friend, he was also taken away from me. But when you said, "Abu Bakr, the point is this," and along with that, a sadness arose in your heart that Abu Bakr was my old friend, he was also taken away from me. But when you said, "Abu Bakr, the point is this," and along with that, a sadness arose in your heart that Abu Bakr was my old friend, he was also taken away from me. But when you said, "Abu Bakr, the point is this," and along with that, a sadness arose in your heart that Abu Bakr was my old friend, he was also taken away from me. But when you said, "Abu Bakr, the point is this," and along with that, a sadness arose in your heart that Abu Bakr was my old friend, he was also taken away from me. But when you said, "Abu Bakr, the point is this," and along with that, a sadness arose in your heart that Abu Bakr was my old friend, he was also taken away from me. 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Now, how was it possible for Abu Bakr and those people to be equal to those who accepted faith at the time of the conquest of Mecca? Certainly, the status of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) was vast; indeed, you said to them, "There shall be no reproach against you today." But "There shall be no reproach against you today" did not mean that they achieved the status of those who accepted faith in the early days. "There shall be no reproach against you today" only meant that I have forgiven you. Otherwise, the status attained by those who accepted faith in the early days was not achieved by the people of Mecca. In the early days, those who accepted faith can be estimated by this incident: once, there was an argument between Hazrat Abu Bakr and Hazrat Umar. At that time, Hazrat Umar had put his hand on Hazrat Abu Bakr, and his cloak tore. Hazrat Umar was in a state of extreme tenderness and humility, saying, "O Messenger of Allah, this was my fault." In the meantime, Hazrat Abu Bakr also stepped forward, and he knelt before the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) with both knees and said, "O Messenger of Allah, it was not Umar's fault, it was my fault." Reflect on these events, how could it have been possible that Allah Almighty would forgive the sacrifices of those people and remove their necks from being cut, but how could they have attained the honor that those people had who accepted faith in the early days of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him)? Many years passed by this incident.
After the demise of the Noble Messenger (peace be upon him), Hazrat Abu Bakr became the Caliph, then he passed away, and Hazrat Umar became the Caliph. Many years passed during his caliphate. At that time, Hazrat Umar went for Hajj. It was not a time when the Arabs who grazed camels considered themselves knowledgeable; rather, it was a time when the emperors and kings would humble themselves before them and seek forgiveness, saying, "Forgive us." So, what was the status of the Arab leaders who would boast about sitting at the feet of great kings and today, the status of Umar was not ordinary; indeed, it was like the rule of a powerful king in the world. Delegations were coming from all sides and presenting their needs for your service. The prominent leaders of Mecca who had opposed the Noble Prophet till the end and to whom the Noble Prophet (peace be upon him) had declared, "There shall be no reproach against you today," they were also present today, and the status of Umar was not ordinary today; rather, it was considered the most significant matter. So, the Arab leaders came, and Hazrat Umar sat beside the well-wisher. A poor Muslim, who did not even have full clothes on his body, came and said, "Assalamu Alaikum, O Amir al-Mu'minin." You replied, "Wa Alaikum Assalam." Then you asked the leaders to move back and made space for him on your right. They moved back, and you also made the poor companion sit close to you. Similarly, after that companion, another companion came and went. Those companions who were severely troubled by the leaders of Mecca, among whom were those who were dragged on stones, those who were beaten on their heads with shoes, those whose eyes were gouged out. One after another, the second after the first, and the third after the second companion came, and Hazrat Umar kept seating them near him and kept telling the leaders to move back. The right row of companions got filled with the Sahaba, then the left row started filling up, and they also sat down.
They sat in the place meant for shoes. The leaders came and sat down, then got up and walked towards the milk pot, looking at each other. "Who are these people?" they asked. They themselves said, "These are the most humiliated people of Mecca who used to serve us." Then they said, "Have you seen what treatment we received today?" One by one, poor and destitute people were seated in front, and Umar gave them preference. To the extent that they had to sit in the shoes. Could there be any greater humiliation for us? Among them was one who was of a noble disposition and had spirituality within him. He said, "It is absolutely correct that this humiliation is unbearable for us, but are we not responsible for this humiliation ourselves?" We competed with Muhammad, and you showed the believers, but were we and they equal? Those who were with you from the beginning and those who came later, how could our status be compared to theirs? The most understanding among them then spoke and said, "The treatment should be sought from Umar." So, they sought permission, went to serve you, and started saying, "We have come to discuss what treatment we received today. We have come to discuss what treatment we received today." Hazrat Umar was also very famous for remembering the Arab genealogy of Allah's family, and you knew the greatness of these people in terms of lineage. When they said this, tears welled up in your eyes, and you said, "I understand, but I am helpless. You know these are the people who are companions of the Noble Prophet, and that's why it was my duty to put them forward. They said, "We understand this, but we now want to ask you if there is no way to remove this ugly mark from us." Hazrat Umar was also very tender-hearted; upon hearing this, tears came to your eyes, and in front of your eyes, all the scenes appeared of how these people used to sit with long turbans and say in front of them, holding their hands, "You are our king and leader." And then how
This leadership and arrogance caused difficulties for the Muslims. These scenes appeared one after another before your eyes, and you were so moved that words could not come out of your mouth. You tried to respond to their words, but due to the overwhelming emotion, you couldn't. You just raised your hand and gestured towards the direction where battles were being fought, saying, "There. This is the only remedy for your humiliation. Go from here and join the jihad that is being waged in Syria and be martyred there." So, they rose silently and said, "We are grateful that you gave us this advice. We will now act on this advice and leave." So, a group of six young men left from there, and not a single one of them returned from Mecca. 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When a guest would arrive and ask for food to be prepared for your guests, they would send word that there was no food with them for your guests. Finally, Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud (as) would open his own food and fast. Sometimes when someone would say, "Madam, you are the owner of half the property, why do you behave like this?" They would reply, "This whole day is spent sitting in the mosque. What connection does my property have with it?" This is a Punjabi idiom that implies that when a person does not share with their brothers, their property does not have any connection with them. Now, what a state it was when Qadian was considered a heretic place that no one knew about, and what a state it was when Allah Almighty made Qadian the center of all the advancements of the faith and the future Islam. Those who will be prepared to leave after seeing these living miracles of Allah Almighty, will leave. I remember when we were young, Tai Sahiba used to say after seeing us, "He is just like his father, a troublemaker." Because Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud (as) used to stay separate from those who opposed him, they did not consider you good and they used to complain that you did not greet them. So, the worldly positions and government positions of the British could not accomplish anything, only obedience did, which came into your work because the oath of a big brother to a younger brother, which is equal to his children, is not an ordinary sacrifice. It was a bitter pill to swallow, but this bitterness beautified their life forever.
During the past few days, when the Chief Justice visited here, he started saying to me in conversation, "Do you think if your father were alive, he would have pledged allegiance to you?" I told him, "My fathers were the founders of the lineage, and I am the second Khalifa. So, there is no question of their allegiance. However, I can tell you that when I became Khalifa, my grandfathers were alive, and they pledged allegiance to me. Similarly, my mother pledged allegiance to me, and then my elder brother pledged allegiance to me." Hearing these words, they expressed great astonishment and said, "This is a great sacrifice." So, becoming wholly Allah's is a significant matter. Allah Almighty has specifically created Qadian for the service of Islam, especially for the descendants of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud (as), to serve the religion of Islam with honor and elevate the status of the faith. It is not created for them to earn worldly gains and remain occupied throughout their lives. This honor and respect are the reason why even the least significant individual from the descendants of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud (as) holds more respect than the most significant person in the world. Today, this respect is still present, but since those who show respect are mostly ordinary people, respect does not seem very apparent. In any case, God has decided to grant progress to this lineage. So, when God says, "Kings will seek blessings from your garments," it means that while garments can be obtained for a short while, when God blesses them, why wouldn't people show respect to those who are from the descendants of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud (as)? Therefore, the descendants of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud (as) will always dedicate their lives for the sake of religion.
People seek blessings from them because they have obtained blessings from Allah. If they become heirs to those blessings and absorb the favors of Allah, there are many divine promises in their favor. However, if they do not dedicate their lives for the sake of religion, then Allah will not care for them; He is self-sufficient. He will raise their spiritual virtues. Indeed, the world will also honor them for a while because when a family rises once, people are compelled to honor them for a long time, but in the sight of Allah, they will have no honor. Just as today there are many nobles, but they are worse than the nine Muslims, yet they call them "Your Excellency." Although in the sight of Allah, a person who acts upon the commands of Islam is more respected than such nobles. External greatness is nothing; true greatness is achieved in spiritual colors. External greatness will continue with the favors of Allah upon our family because when a family becomes prominent, even if its members later fall in spiritual and moral aspects, the world still treats them with respect, but in any case, at that time, their status resembles ancient relics. Just as sometimes an old torn shoe is picked up cautiously and said to be Timur's torn shoe, even though in its time, this torn shoe had no significance. Similarly, if the members of a prominent family deteriorate later, they are considered with some respect due to ancient relics, but that is not real respect. Real respect is only achieved when accompanied by the living support of Allah. And if someone is not accompanied by the living support of Allah, no matter how much people look at him with respect, he is rejected and spiritually dead, and certainly not deserving to be called alive. Indeed, he appears alive to people, but in the sight of Allah, he is dead because his spiritual powers are dead and useless. Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ud once predicted about Abdullah Atham that if he did not desist from speaking ill of Islam, he would perish within fifteen months, and Atham, influenced by the fear of this prediction, changed his behavior and avoided destruction. Upon this, the opponents created a lot of noise and said that Mirza Sahib's prediction turned out to be false. At that time, there were Nawab Sahib Bahawalpur and someone named Subh-i-Bahar Sadiq or something else. One day, in their gathering, too,
The mention of a prophecy came up, and people started saying that Mirza Sahib of Qadian's prophecy turned out to be false, and the courtiers started taking things lightly. Laughter and jokes were going on when Nawab Sahib also joined in and said, "Yes, you people make prophecies and try to present yourselves as godly, but when the prophecy is not fulfilled, their true colors are revealed, and it becomes apparent that they were not the owners of any spirituality. Nawab Sahib's ancestors, who were noble, were also present in this gathering. As long as people kept joking, they remained silent, but when Nawab Sahib also joined in, as he was the elder of the family and used to rebuke them, they became enthusiastic and addressing Nawab Sahib said, "What do you know about prophecies and why do you interfere in such matters? You say you are alive, but I see your corpse in front of me." The truth is also the same. Atham was not spiritually alive at that time but had perished because when he was told that what you say about Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) that he seeks refuge from Allah and is a deceiver, if you do not desist from your mischief and do not abandon using such words about the Prophet, then within fifteen months, you will be buried in your grave, so he, upon hearing the prophecy, touched his ears and said, "I will never utter such words again." So, he had not become dead but had perished first, and now a new Atham had emerged. This same thing was also said by the noble ancestors who were present, they also said to someone else that you speak falsely that you are alive, but I see your corpse in front of me. So, many people appear alive outwardly but are actually dead and many appear honorable outwardly but are actually disgraced. Honor is what comes from Allah Almighty and life is what is distributed by Him. For the descendants of Hazrat Masih Ma'ud and your followers, Allah Almighty has opened the doors of blessings, so they should not make the attainment of worldly honors their goal but should refrain from putting religion on the line and earning bread on oaths.
Remaining occupied is prohibited. The task of a believer is only to spend as much time for the world until he gets bread, and to spend more time than that only for the sake of God's religion. But competing in the world's progress is something that God does not like for those people for whom He has destined spiritual and necessary honors. And if those people become engrossed in earning in this direction, then He forgives them. But if those people are attentive to those for whom He has promised honors from the religious side, then He never forgives them. The purpose was being mentioned that in our country, the marriages of fatherless children also lead to distress and various emotions arise as if today our example is exactly what is written by Mahi al-Din Sahib Ibn Arabi in Futuhat Makkiyya... He writes that once I was going and saw a crow and a pigeon sitting on a tree. They sat and sat, and I kept thinking in my heart what connection there is between a crow and a pigeon, but I could not figure it out, but I decided that I would find out its wisdom. So, I sat there and sat for quite some time. Finally, I realized that both of them are lame, and because of this reason, they are sitting in one place. It is their union of a crow and a pigeon that seemed like a pair, but here two marriages of a family have taken place in which both girls are fatherless. Meaning my daughter Imtiaz Begum's mother has also passed away, and Nasira Begum's mother has also passed away. Thinking about these marriages, my mind went in that direction that undoubtedly this is something that expresses emotions and creates an excitement in thoughts, but this power of overcoming grief can also be produced by looking at the example of the Prophet. And that in this way, our daughters are indeed their mother's, but the mother of Muhammad (peace be upon him) had also passed away in childhood, and his father had also passed away, and in this way, he was without a father and mother. Then those who nurture you are not found like those who nurture our daughters. Saying something about your lineage shows a defect, but I understand that I have kept my daughter's care to the extent that a father can care for his daughter. Similarly, I know that
Mirza Aziz Ahmad also took great care of his daughter, but the one who nurtured Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, was his uncle, and the nephew thinks that if he nurtures me, he is doing me a favor. He considers his right over his mother and father, but when he asks something from someone else, he feels a barrier, thinking, "Why should I ask him for anything when I have no right over him?" The condition that was of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), and the helplessness that is apparent from this matter, that the Holy Prophet used to stand alone in a corner and if he found something to eat, he would take it. Otherwise, he would remain silent. The condition of our daughters was much better than this. But then the condition of the Holy Prophet changed, and such a significant and magnificent change occurred in him that you became the owner of the world, and the whole world fell at your feet. Similarly, it is up to these daughters and those related to them that if they wish, they can progress and achieve much respect and honor. If they become Allah's, they can also gain respect, and their sorrows and pains can turn into happiness. The remaining separation of those who die is indeed a temporary separation. Hearing the news of death, Islam has instructed to say the word that "We belong to Allah, and to Him we shall return." No doubt, the separations of the world can be painful, but the separation of death, if a person stands firm on faith, cannot be very painful because in "We belong to Allah, and to Him we shall return," Allah has promised a meeting. The need is for a person to understand the greatness of Allah's promises and His words. A trend is going on where a person who walks in accordance with Allah's trend moves forward with speed towards progress, but the one who walks against Allah's trend falls and then stabilizes, falls again, and then stabilizes until the last time he falls so much that he falls forever. (Al-Fazl, May 3, 1961, pages 2 to 7)
He also said that Abdullah Atham's death is due to Mirza Sahib's prayer. (References Faridi Page 1463 Printed in Useful Press)
Surah Al-Baqarah: 157 Volume Three
(Delivered on March 22, 1940)
On March 22, 1940, before the Friday sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriages of his two daughters, Umme Rashid Begum and Umme Aziz Begum, with a dowry of one thousand rupees each. After the recitation of the Friday sermon, he said:
"I want to announce the marriages of two daughters before starting the Friday sermon, but before that, I want to express my regret to the organizers that they did not make arrangements for the veiling of women. They know that our women are sufficiently conscious due to the grace of Allah Almighty, and they do not allow any occasion of a gathering or sermon to go unattended. Forgetting these arrangements due to their sincerity and enthusiasm is a matter of great regret. They cannot even leave the opportunity due to their dedication and zeal, and the absence of arrangements causes them distress. Even in such situations, not having suitable arrangements for the honorable women of the Ahmadiyya community to sit is embarrassing in front of our own and others. Our community has been established for fifty years, and during this period, this experience has occurred fifty times, but still forgetting it is beyond my understanding and reason. So, our honorable women come every Friday, especially when there is a gathering, they surely arrive at the occasion, so if there are no arrangements, then at least curtains should be hung in front."
They did not appear in front of me, so I now turn my attention towards the sermon of marriage. Allah Almighty has not only acknowledged the need for marriage for the believers but has also made it essential. The distinction between Islam and other religions is that in almost all other religions, celibacy has been given virtue in marriage. Some have considered marriage a sin, some have praised celibacy greatly, and some have shown celibacy as better than marriage. Only in Islam is marriage considered a part of religion while celibacy is deemed against religion. The most consistent form of celibacy is found in Christians, and it is also found among Buddhists. Both these religions have organized systems to maintain celibacy; even Hindus have a system for ascetics and others, but there is no formal system for celibacy among them. In Christians and Buddhists, those who dedicate their lives gather there, and it is decreed for them not to marry, and it is considered as a high virtue. In Jews, celibacy was also preferred, and as is evident from the Holy Quran, they also used to practice it. Hazrat Maryam was initially dedicated, but later, by the will of Allah Almighty, celibacy was broken. So, in Jews too, celibacy was preferred over marriage, and those who practiced it received words of praise and were considered good and virtuous. Women were also dedicated, and it was considered virtuous. These are the major religions in the world, Christians, Hindus, Buddhists, and Jews, and in all of them, celibacy is preferred. Below them is the Zoroastrian religion, and as far as I understand, celibacy is also preferred in them. Although exemplary celibates are not found among them, celibacy is still preferred. Just as those who work in their cemeteries are celibate and this is considered proof of their goodness, meaning that celibacy is considered virtuous among them. But Islam's teaching against all of them is that marriage is necessary and
Opposition to not getting married has been expressed. It seems that both sides are only chosen by Islam, meaning that celibacy is disliked and deemed bad, while marriage is not only preferred but also essential. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said that a person who dies in a state of celibacy is a sinner, as if he wasted his life and did not fulfill the purpose of his birth. The real point is that the difference between humans and animals is that since an animal is for temporary life, the question of its marriage or union is not there, but for a human, because Allah Almighty has given him a permanent life and this permanent life desires and is desired to be established and it has been desired that he maintains goodness in the world. Allah Almighty also covers him with His Lordship and it is not about anything that he always remains, neither about the earth nor about the heavens. If it is for someone, it is only for humans, which means that a quality has been placed in humans that can be maintained forever and when this situation occurs, permission can be given for his demise in this world. If it is true that there is life after death, then the logical consequence is that the descendants of humans should also remain. Even a person of ordinary intellect and understanding does not do such a thing that he wastes excellent grain, keeps the healthy young and lets the sick ones remain. Always good offspring is maintained, and if it is true that the best human is among humans, if it is true that some are better among humans, then it is also necessary that the offspring of the best human should remain more than others. All religions, namely Hindus, Buddhists, Christians, and Zoroastrians, believe that the soul remains after death. The belief in reincarnation can only be established when the permanence of the soul is accepted after death. It seems that all religions agree on the soul's continued existence and progress after a person's death, which means that this is the best thing and such a thing should be saved from perishing in the world. And it is clear that celibacy leads to perishing. If celibacy is a good thing, then it should be established as much as possible among people.
But the consequence of doing so is evident, meaning that the human race will disappear, and the righteous and pure people will remain childless, and only the offspring of the wicked will survive. So, if marriage is a good thing and righteousness is not to get married, then the lineage of the righteous will vanish from the world, and only the lineage of the wicked will remain. And if celibacy is a good thing, then it will be accepted that humans should be eradicated from existence, and if they are not fit to be maintained in this world, then there is no wisdom left for their existence in the next world. And if the best and superior human is considered the one who does not marry, then it means that the lineage of the righteous will perish in the world, and the lineage of the wicked will continue. Although such a thing is not done even by ordinary worldly people. Even worldly governments make arrangements in a way that good breeds like cattle are maintained so that excellent animals can be provided. The offspring of rejects and sick animals are not preserved but rather high-quality breeds are kept. Similarly, seeds and others are also kept of high quality, not inferior. Then how is it possible that Allah Almighty's will is that the righteous disappear from the world and only the lineage of the wicked continues? It seems that all religions agree on the continued existence and progress of the soul after a person's death. If it is true that there is life after death, then the logical consequence is that the descendants of humans should also remain. Even a person of ordinary intellect and understanding does not do such a thing that he wastes excellent grain, keeps the healthy young and lets the sick ones remain. Always good offspring is maintained, and if it is true that the best human is among humans, if it is true that some are better among humans, then it is also necessary that the offspring of the best human should remain more than others. All religions, namely Hindus, Buddhists, Christians, and Zoroastrians, believe that the soul remains after death. The belief in reincarnation can only be established when the permanence of the soul is accepted after death. It seems that all religions agree on the soul's continued existence and progress after a person's death, which means that this is the best thing and such a thing should be saved from perishing in the world. And it is clear that celibacy leads to perishing. If celibacy is a good thing, then it should be established as much as possible among people.
How beautiful are the creations of Allah Almighty. Even if they are rugged, they still exhibit a beauty. Rivers are not built with regularity like canals, but the delightful effect of nature is not achieved by going to the rivers. Mountains are not built according to human rules, but the joy that is obtained by seeing mountains is not achieved by going to gardens. How many people go to see gardens, and how many go to the mountains. In reality, the point is that the vastness of mountains and their ruggedness have also been proportioned by nature, and this proportion is in everything of nature, and this lesson has been taught that we should also consider it in our works. Therefore, when considering marriage, those principles should be kept in mind that can lead to the progress of both religion and the world. Since I have to read the Friday sermon after this, I will limit the sermon to this extent and want to announce that at this time, my daughters, Umme Rashid Begum and Umme Aziz Begum, are getting married. Umme Rashid's marriage has been proposed with Mian Abdul Rahim Ahmad. Her first name was Abdul Rab, but due to a consensus and a dream, her name has now been changed to Abdul Rahim. And since her father's name is Ali Ahmad, therefore Ahmad has also been added. Regarding this matter, the dream I mentioned is that when I was seeking guidance about this relationship, I saw a dream that a grand invitation is being arranged in the courtyard of Jamia Ahmadiyya. Many people are participating, chairs and carpets are laid out, and some are with me. Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I is also participating in the invitation, and the one who serves in this invitation, it is not known by what wisdom they are known to Brother Abdul Rahim Sahib. So, Brother Sahib is now very weak, his eyesight has also weakened somewhat, but at this time, he appears exactly as he is known, the age I am, which is 65 years. Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I addresses me and says, "Look, what a young man he is. I am amazed that he was almost 65 years old, but now how young he is. I understood the interpretation of this dream that since Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I is the grandfather of this girl
Therefore, these appearances indicate that this relationship is also favored by them. The fact that Brother Abdul Rahim Sahib's appearance is weak indicates that if Mian Abdul Rahim Ahmad Sahib's health is weak and frail, Allah Almighty has indicated that He can strengthen his physical health. It should be seen near me that the boy is righteous and religious. The interpretation of the grand invitation is that since the parents of this boy are poor, the father is ill, so there is no apparent way for the marriage. I thought that through the invitation, Allah Almighty has indicated that the sustenance is in His hands, and if He wills, He can make the poor rich and even take away the wealth of the rich. Some friends with whom I consulted suggested changing his name from Abdul Rab to Abdul Rahim, and according to the dream, Abdul Rahim was chosen. Therefore, his name is Abdul Rahim Ahmad. This relationship is outside our family, but if the offspring of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) grow, then eventually relationships will extend beyond the family. My daughter, Umme Rashid Begum, is the daughter of the late Umme Hali Begum. Her older sister's marriage took place last year with Mian Mazhar Ahmad Sahib. The second daughter, Umme Aziz, is getting married to Mian Hamid Ahmad Sahib, who are the sons of myself and Mirza Bashir Ahmad Sahib. The dowry for each is one thousand rupees. Mian Abdul Rahim Ahmad Sahib is the son of Professor Ali Ahmad Sahib of Bhagalpuri, and they are related to my late wife, Sarah Begum Sahiba. By the way, a joke came to mind. Some things happen in which Allah Almighty's strange favors are evident. Initially, when Mian Abdul Rahim Ahmad came to Qadian, he was very young, and there was another young boy with him. When these two came to meet me, I was in the room of the late Sarah Begum Sahiba, and at that time, I was having the same conversation with her that people from Bahar cannot speak Urdu correctly; they mix words. A few days ago, Chaudhry Shamsad Ali Sahib, who has passed away, came here, and I was mentioning that he had narrated several incidents of language change. In essence, I was telling the late Sarah Begum Sahiba that people from Bahar
Urdu village dialect is very different, and they were saying that people in cities and especially educated people do not speak like this. These were the discussions when these two children arrived. They laughed and said that these relationships are related to my grandfathers, but this matter was said softly, so I could not understand to whom these two are related. They stayed a little and then left. Mian Abdul Rahim Ahmad Sahib returned first, and the other boy was behind him. I asked softly, "Which of these boys is related to the grandfathers?" This matter was heard by the other boy who said, "They were the ones who left." I said to the late Sarah Begum Sahiba, "Look, my statement has been confirmed." Everyone has a desire to expand their relationships. It is a strange coincidence that what was perhaps said casually at that time is now coming true, and today I am announcing the marriage of my daughter, Umme Rashid Begum, with Mian Abdul Rahim Ahmad. They study in Ali Gadh. After this, the acceptance and approval were sought. When Mian Hamid Ahmad Sahib stood up, there were many garlands of flowers around his neck, but there was no one in Mian Abdul Rahim Ahmad Sahib's neighborhood. Hazrat addressed Mian Hamid Ahmad Sahib in Punjabi and said, "Put a garland around Mian Abdul Rahim Ahmad's neck too. There are no relatives here who can put a garland on him." This sentence had a great impact on the listeners. Mian Hamid Ahmad Sahib put his garland around his neck, and some other friends also did the same.
(Al-Fazl, March 24, 1940, Page 1)
(Al-Fazl, February 14, 1941, Pages 1-3)
Guidance given on April 19, 1940
After the Asr prayer on April 19, 1940, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Mirza Aziz Ahmad, son of Mirza Ataullah, Head Clerk, Director of Education Lahore, with a dowry of one thousand rupees to Umme Rashid Begum, daughter of respected Mirza Muhammad Shafi, Chief Accountant of the Ahmadiyya Association. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, it was stated:
I have been requested to announce while standing in this part of the mosque where the beginning was and I have accepted this request. But this is the last occasion in this color. I will not accept such a desire in the future. The rest of the mosque is also part of this, and Hazrat Masih Maud's presence is also here. Such subtleties slowly create innovations. Today, I have accepted this matter, but I will not accept it in the future. If at any time there is a taste matter, it is another matter, otherwise presenting such desires is not correct. With this mosque and with the other parts that will be joined, they will also be blessed, otherwise they will not be accepted. Hazrat Masih Maud's inspiration cannot be fulfilled from your wide space. Allah Almighty has promised with Hazrat Masih Maud that there will be no plague in your house. So, does this mean that if there is space in your house, it can be filled, or is it that the blessed part of the mosque with the Holy Prophet's mosque is not complete. Hazrat Masih Maud has a promise with Allah Almighty that there will be no plague in your house. So, does this mean that if there is space in your house, it can be filled, or is it that the part of the mosque that was built with the Holy Prophet's mosque is not blessed. In this mosque, wherever prayers are offered
The Mosque of Aqsa has now become very vast, but this does not mean that its first part is the original mosque and not the rest. So, this entire mosque is blessed by the grace of Allah Almighty, and as it continues to expand, its blessings and prayers will also increase. Due to my sore throat, I cannot elaborate further and will only announce the marriage.
(Al-Fazl, April 25, 1940, Page 2)
(Al-Fazl, April 21, 1940, Page 2)
Shah Tazkira, Page 53, Fourth Edition
(Delivered on September 7, 1940)
On September 7, 1940, after the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of respected Syeda Begum, daughter of Hazrat Mir Muhammad Ishaq Sahib, with a dowry of five thousand rupees to Mr. Malik Umar Ali Sahib, B.A., Principal of Multan. Since Hazrat Mir Muhammad Ishaq Sahib could not participate in this ceremony due to health reasons, therefore, on his request, the approval of this marriage was announced by Hazrat Mir Sahib. Following this, Hazrat performed the marriage of Molvi Abdul Mannan Sahib, son of late Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I, with a dowry of one thousand rupees to respected Umme Rahman Begum Sahib, daughter of respected Molvi Sher Ali Sahib B.T. Hazrat Molvi Rahmat Ali Sahib, former missionary in Sumatra and Java, married Rahmat-un-Nisa Begum with a dowry of one thousand rupees to Master Qamar-ud-Din Sahib, a teacher at Islamia High School.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, it was stated:
In this world, marriages take place, children are born, people fall ill, and people die. A corpse awaits burial in one corner of a house while a happy newlywed couple sits on the other side of the wall, waiting for their honeymoon. Then, after a few days, this situation changes. The house from which melodious songs were heard becomes a place of wailing and crying due to some new calamity, and the house from which sounds of joy were emanating now becomes a hub of screams and shouts.
At times, the melodies of songs are heard in a house due to a wedding celebration. An individual departs from this world, and his children are engrossed in their own affairs, thinking about who can dedicate their entire life to someone. But after a few days, the same individual becomes old, and the next generations start treating him the same way. Perhaps in those days, they might think that if they do not treat their parents well, their children will also not treat them well. But this cycle continues and continues. The Bible contains many incorrect things, but some truths are also present in it. One of these points is that your son will be influenced by a woman from outside the family and will completely change his behavior. How these scenes are witnessed daily in homes, how the child who was not willing to leave his mother's chest in childhood, who used to drink milk from her breasts, and whose milk was taken away due to some calamity, how he used to cry and demand, and how his entire focus and comfort were centered around his mother, how he used to cling to her all the time, and for a moment, he could not be separated from his mother. Then one day, he gets married, and we see that the same child who never left his mother's lap, who used to drink milk from her breasts, and whose milk was taken away, spends the whole day crying. When his eyesight weakens, he starts sneezing, and when his wife and children become the center of his happiness, he no longer pays attention to his parents. But his wife and children become the focus of his joy, and if someone advises him to serve his parents, and says, "Look, you should serve your parents," if he is noble, he says, "I also think so, but I don't save anything from the household expenses. After all, I have a wife and children, and it is my responsibility to take care of all their expenses. I will fulfill these expenses first, then serve someone else. It seems that those whom I nurtured in my lap are now considered outsiders from my home, and if I were dishonorable
He recites seven prayers and asks, "Shall I cut my children's stomachs?"
By the grace of Allah, I have been placed at my position since my youth, where I do not have the courage to speak such words to anyone, yet some people's phrases reach me, and I hear them. It has been said to me once that a young man was encouraged to serve his parents, and he said with great enthusiasm, "Shall I beat my children for the sake of my parents?" Saying this without realizing that he was raised by beating. So, where marriage brings great blessings to a person, there also come great trials with marriage, and a person's test actually happens with his marriage. Where marriage creates a new paradise for a person, it also deprives him of the first paradise. I am always amazed that the same thing happens, but people turn their faces away and sacrifice, and are considered criminals morally. Although there are still some who sacrifice for others, if this sacrifice were directed forward instead of backward, the world would still continue in the same way, but moral responsibilities would be fulfilled. If a father, instead of focusing on his children, paid attention to his parents, then his children would pay attention to him, and the world would continue in the same way, but moral responsibilities would be fulfilled. This is just like tying a bell behind a cart. Today, the world has indeed declared progress through this means that every father should pay attention to his children, but if everyone turned their faces towards their parents, the world would continue in the same way, only so that people would fulfill their moral responsibilities. Similarly, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "Paradise lies under the feet of mothers." There are other meanings of this Hadith, but one meaning is also that if people turn towards them, the world's trials and corruptions would be eliminated. If instead of thinking about the next generation, they thought about the previous generation, then first, grandfathers and grandmothers would not say without reason that the care of grandchildren should not be neglected, and if some people even said it, their offspring would start serving them. In any case, with marriage, human responsibilities increase, no doubt.
The comfort of marriage increases, the ease also increases, but if one abandons their previous responsibilities, sometimes they have to bear losses. Indeed, if a person reflects, they attain their honor from the previous people. Sometimes it happens that a person has good morals, but they gain respect because they belong to a good family. They say, "I am from such a noble family, the son of such noble parents." But isn't it strange that their respect is connected to their parents, yet they do not serve them, nor do they treat them well. Personhood is presented with good behavior. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has given guidance to bring a religious woman into your home; she will be helpful in fulfilling your responsibilities. Reflect and see, when a religious woman comes, she works in such a way that benefits religion. Religion is not just a name; it is the name of prayer, the name of fasting, the name of pilgrimage, the name of almsgiving, the name of hard work, the name of spirituality. The purpose of religion is the name of thousands of things. A professional who works hard in his profession is religious, a newcomer who works diligently in his job is religious, a laborer who works hard in labor is religious, a landlord who manages his land well is religious. The purpose of religiosity is the name of a vast thing. But the meaning of bringing a religious woman is that she herself fulfills her responsibilities and helps her husband in fulfilling his responsibilities. When this happens, surely trials and corruptions are eliminated. In the world, we see that every person demands only their right, but a religious person shows others their right. As I mentioned earlier, if a person serves his parents instead of his children, then his children will start serving him, and they will give others their rights instead of insisting on their own rights. In this way, if a person demonstrates the rights of others and does not insist on his own rights, rights are still obtained, but peace is established. If a husband tells his wife to serve his parents and the wife tells the husband to treat her parents well, if they both come from noble families, then the wife tells the husband
A mother will serve her parents, and a husband will serve his in-laws. However, if instead of the wife telling the husband to serve his parents and the husband telling the wife to serve her parents, they encourage each other to serve each other's parents, then the situation will remain the same, but the difference will be that personal interests will continue to diminish, and this encouragement will turn into goodness. Because this will not be a demand for one's right but a way to guide others towards goodness. In this way, even in this scenario, rights will be obtained in the same manner as before, but instead of people demanding their rights, they will strive to show others their rights. If people strive to show others their rights, they will obtain their own rights and establish peace in the world. The Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "The one who initiates a good deed will receive two rewards: one for the good deed itself and one for the person who follows that deed. Therefore, encourage others to fulfill their rights so that peace may prevail in the world. If a woman says to her husband, "Treat my parents well," and the husband says to the wife, "Serve my parents," then there will be a sense of selfishness in this, but if the husband tells the wife to serve his parents and the wife tells the husband to treat her parents well, then as a result, both sets of parents will continue to be served, but along with that, both parties will be inclined towards goodness and righteousness. So, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) directed attention towards bringing a religious woman into the household; she will be instrumental in understanding and fulfilling responsibilities. Therefore, seek a husband who understands his duties and responsibilities and a wife who comprehends her obligations. When both understand their respective duties and responsibilities, surely peace will prevail in the world, and when both comprehend their duties, they will also share in the rewards, as the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "The best house is one in which if the wife's eyes do not open in the morning, the husband splashes water on her face, and if the husband's eyes do not open, the wife splashes water on his face." This is as if the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) gave an example of reminding each other of their duties, and emphasized that both the husband and wife should be like this.
When getting married, every individual should strive to understand the responsibilities that come with it. Marriage should not be based on finding a woman who will serve me, but it should be based on the intention and desire to find a woman who, while fulfilling her own responsibilities, will draw my attention to my responsibilities, so that together we can fulfill the duties and obligations bestowed upon us by Allah Almighty. If marriages are conducted with this intention, surely corruption will be eradicated. A husband will never mistreat the relatives of his wife, and a wife will never mistreat the relatives of her husband; instead, they will assist each other. This is the means through which peace can be established in the world. As long as the relatives of a girl remain in the mindset that the boy should not serve his parents and the relatives of the boy remain in the mindset that the girl should not serve her parents, the world can never progress. Just as the head cannot gain comfort from the sight of the hand, similarly, the husband cannot find comfort from the wife's distress, nor can the wife find comfort from the husband's distress, and their distress will not bring comfort to their relatives. However, if this responsibility is understood and people pay attention to it, then there will be benefit for the world in this. But sometimes people act foolishly, as is famous about the person who was sitting in the sun and someone said to him, "Why are you sitting in the sun?" He replied, "If I come into the shade, what will you give me?" This also shows pain and suffering, but it does not come under the shade that the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has prepared. He said, "Marry a religious woman; she will be instrumental in understanding and fulfilling responsibilities." Therefore, it is essential to seek a woman who comprehends her duties and responsibilities and a man who understands his obligations. If this aspect is not considered and you wish for a girl who will only serve you or a boy who will only serve you, then you will encounter distress because a person who usurps the rights of others not only harms friends but also sows the seeds of injustice for himself. The example of rights is like a boy sometimes placing bricks in a line in fifteen.
When someone seizes the right of another, they inadvertently provoke others to seize their rights as well. Gradually, a cycle forms around them, where seizing rights is not considered a sin, and they themselves suffer losses. However, if they refrain from neglecting the rights of others and instead of seeking a wife who will serve them, they intend to find a wife who, while fulfilling her own duties, will remind them of their obligations as prescribed by Allah Almighty. When every individual understands their responsibilities and realizes the sacrifices needed for relatives, society, or religion, they will be inclined to sacrifice for others, ensuring that thoughts of personal comfort and benefit do not prevail. This becomes a means through which we can create paradise around us. Indeed, when the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) said, "Paradise lies under the feet of mothers," he was hinting towards serving one's parents to attain paradise instead of just focusing on one's children for it. Serve your parents so that when you grow old, your children will serve you. As long as you face forward, you will experience sorrow, but if you turn around and stand facing the past, your children will serve you, and the world's hell will transform into paradise. (Kanz al-Ummal, Volume 12, Page 46, Hadith Number 25439, Published in Halab 1977, Tirmidhi, Book of Marriage, Chapter: Qualities of a Spouse, Hadith 10, November 1960, Pages 3-5)
(Delivered on July 16, 1940)
On July 1, 1940, after the Maghrib prayer at the blessed mosque in Qadian, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II mentioned the marriage of Seth Abdullah Allah Deen Sahib's daughter, Umme Al-Hafiz Begum Sahiba, to Sher Ali Sahib, the son of Seth Ali Muhammad Bhai Sahib, with a dowry of three thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"The marriage I am standing here to announce is of the girl, Seth Abdullah Bhai Sahib's, who are residents of Sialkot. Today, I am suffering from sciatica pain, and even when the boy and girl's families are not present here, I am satisfied with the Arabic sermon alone because advice is for those who are absent. If they are not present, there is little benefit, but at this time, I have called the virtuous ones so that they may write the sermon and it may be published and reach them. And this is due to the relationships that I have with Seth Abdullah Sahib. When Seth Sahib was an Ahmadi, one of our delegations went to Hyderabad for preaching. Through some means, the members of the delegation came to know that in Sialkot, there is a person who is very sincere in religion, strictly observes the daily prayers and fasts. They also visited that friend and did preaching. Seth Sahib wrote four or five questions and said that answers should be given to them. If I am satisfied with them, I will become an Ahmadi."
It is also written that this gentleman is very noble and ethical, and he has great love for religion. I pray that he becomes an Ahmadi because if he becomes an Ahmadi, he will become a great means of preaching Ahmadiyyat in this area. I have also written the answers to his questions and prayed for him. In a dream, I saw that outside in the courtyard, a person was sitting, and I did not see Seth Sahib. Later, when I saw him, his appearance was similar to the person I saw in the dream. So, I understood that Allah Almighty will guide him and not only guide him but also make him beneficial for the community. I believe that perhaps my answers to his questions had not reached him when he made the pledge. After becoming an Ahmadi, his love increased, and he continued to offer great sacrifices and sacrifices of all kinds. In preaching, he is so enthusiastic that as mentioned in the Quran, "And by the dawn when it breathes" (Quran, 81:18), and "And by the night when it covers with darkness" (Quran, 81:17), and "And by the morning when it shines" (Quran, 93:1), so he was directed towards preaching. It is not that he has religious education in English because it is common in his community to write and read in English, so he reads and writes in it, otherwise, he has excelled in a special profession after receiving education in college. But in this enthusiasm to preach, they write books in Urdu, English, and Gujarati and continue to publish preaching literature. Their enthusiasm for publishing preaching literature is such that seeing their efforts, it is embarrassing that despite having so many missionaries in Qadian, the work they do is not done. They have come up with various ways of publishing preaching literature. They catch a poor and unemployed person, give him preaching literature, and say, "Go and sell it at the stations, and whatever income you get, keep it for yourself." In this way, they have published the 15th edition of their book. The purpose is to preach Ahmadiyyat through this work so that if a few more people do such work
By now, a significant task would have been accomplished. Although the communities are still small like schools, they have emerged due to their literature. They continue to advertise in newspapers, stating, "We have these books, if anyone wants to buy, they can purchase at a price, and if anyone wants to take for free, they can ask for free." In this way, people request and read their books. Even in preaching, there is a fervor that aims to instill faith and sincerity in a believer. They also desire the same for their children, that they remain active in preaching. They sent their elder son, Seth Ali Muhammad Sahib, for the pledge, and upon his return, the desire was expressed that he serves in the cause of religion. The same desire is for their younger son, that he becomes a servant of religion. Whenever they pray for their children, they say, "Pray that my children become servants of religion." This desire is also evident in the marriage I am delivering a sermon about. Seth Sahib himself is content by the grace of Allah, although the boy is not like that, but Seth Sahib wishes that when the girl goes and preaches, people will also embrace Ahmadiyyat. Seth Sahib's younger brother, Khan Bahadur Ahmad Sahib, remained behind when their father passed away. It is also a virtue of Seth Abdullah Sahib that he raised his younger brother and did not create separate assets but kept them jointly with his brother. They are the wheels of Seth Sahib, very sharp in their business, so sharp that they left Seth Sahib behind. They can earn a lot, keep earning, and continue to earn. Despite their significant progress in financial, social, administrative, and public aspects, the impact of Seth Sahib's conduct on them is such that just as a very good son respects his father, they also respect Seth Sahib. The same desire is for Seth Sahib that they pray to become Ahmadis. In fact, when I went to Hyderabad, at the time when both brothers were standing in front of me, Seth Sahib said, "Ahmad brother, you have earned a lot in the world. Now become an Ahmadi." So, they have the same fervor for preaching as found in them.
There are some missionaries whose sacrifices for serving the faith are not visible to everyone. I also consider it a favor from Allah Almighty that even among the business community, there are Ahmadis who can preach within their community. Seth Abdul Rahman Sahib became an Ahmadi during the time of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him). They had great sincerity and were excellent preachers. There is an incident related to them that Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) used to narrate with great pain, and whenever that incident comes to my mind, it moves me to pray for them. Initially, their financial situation was very good, and at that time, they made significant sacrifices for the faith. They used to send monthly contributions ranging from three hundred to five hundred rupees. Due to some wrong actions, their business suffered a severe setback, and their trade was completely ruined. This revelation was about them:
"He is capable of mending what is broken, and of breaking what is mended; none can fathom His secret plan."
When this revelation came, the first line was considered, and it was understood that Seth Sahib's business would be restored. And the second line, "He is capable of mending what is broken, and of breaking what is mended," was not understood to mean that work would first be done and then ruined, but it was considered a general principle. After Seth Sahib's business suffered a setback, his condition improved after two to three years, but then it deteriorated again to the extent that sometimes there was nothing even for their meals. One day, Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) mentioned them with great affection. He said, "Seth Abdul Rahman Haji Allah Rakha Sahib had so much sincerity. There was a sum of five hundred rupees that they had sent on one occasion. Seeing their difficulties, a friend gave them two to three thousand rupees to start a business or open a crockery shop. Out of that amount, they sent five hundred rupees to Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) and wrote, 'I have not been able to send contributions for a while. Now, my zeal did not allow me to give anything for the faith from the amount that Allah Almighty has sent me. Their sincerity for serving the faith had greatly increased. For a while, Sheikh Rehmatullah Sahib
Service to the faith was granted to them, but unfortunately, the outcome was not as favorable. Seth Abdul Rahman Sahib initiated his service from the time of Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I, then continued during my era, and even now, their daughters' offspring are not Ahmadis. However, it has been a period of one and a half years. There was a person named Muhammad Yaqoob in Madras, and one of Seth Sahib's brothers was married off there. A parcel of clothes arrived from them with a note saying, "I am not an Ahmadi, but my wife was the daughter of Seth Abdul Rahman Haji Allah Rakha Sahib. He had said that when I pass away, send my clothes to Qadian. Now, I am sending these clothes." It was a result of Seth Sahib's sincerity that even after such a long time, a woman from their family remembered Qadian. I never forget a joke of Seth Sahib. Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) praised them greatly, and people of that time know how much they valued Seth Sahib and also in the community. The term "Seth" was specific to Seth Abdul Rahman Sahib. Just saying "Seth" without a name was enough, and people understood that it referred to Seth Abdul Rahman Sahib. During the time of Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I, when the differences arose, both parties tried to have Seth Sahib on their side. Both parties sent them literature, and they became restless because they were in extreme poverty and couldn't come to Qadian. One of their friends was a millionaire. When he heard about Seth Sahib's restlessness, he gave them some money, around two to three thousand rupees, to start a business or open a crockery shop. Out of that amount, they sent five hundred rupees to Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him) and wrote, 'I have not been able to send contributions for a while. Now, my zeal did not allow me to give anything for the faith from the amount that Allah Almighty has sent me. Their sincerity for serving the faith had greatly increased. For a while, Sheikh Rehmatullah Sahib
It was necessary for you to have food repeatedly. I said the issue is that my wallet, which had cash and a ticket, got lost. He expressed regret and said, "You did not inform me. Since I am your companion, it is my duty to help you." Consequently, he forcefully took me to a hotel, arranged for food, and then accompanied me on the journey. Regarding the ticket, he said, "Do not worry, I will pay the previous fare, and for the future journey, I will buy the ticket." At a place where the car was being changed, mostly it was the Delhi station, when the trunk was lifted, the wallet fell out. Finally, Seth Sahib arrived there, and some friends went to him and started explaining. Here, Maulvi Muhammad Ali Sahib and others tried to attract him to their side. Since Seth Sahib had a sincere and loving connection with Ahmadiyyat, the apparent words did not seem to affect him. They were experienced individuals who did not let things become apparent. Both parties thought they were on their side. A meeting of the Ahmadiyya Association was held, and issues were presented. It was their habit that when they saw someone speaking on behalf of Maulvi Muhammad Ali Sahib, they would inquire about his opinion. Since they had many friends, there was no opportunity for us to speak. The confirmation of Maulvi Muhammad Ali Sahib's opinion was given by Dr. Muhammad Hussain Sahib, Sheikh Rehmatullah Sahib, Dr. Mirza Yaqoob Beg Sahib, and Khwaja Sahib. Initially, for a long time, Khalifa Rashid-ud-Din Sahib (may Allah have mercy on him) also stayed with them and had enthusiastic companions. Here, I was alone, or we were just two individuals, and no one paid attention to our opinion. Nawab Sahib had left the meeting, and Dr. Muhammad Ismail Sahib used to be outside, so the one who was supposed to go to the meeting was left behind. On that day, those individuals pressured Seth Sahib to give his opinion. Initially, he said, "What opinion can I give? I see you working." When pressured again, as the understanding of a businessman is quite sharp, they saw that these people had turned things around. Since they had transformed them into something else. As the same individuals were insistent on Seth Sahib, he initially said, "What opinion can I give? I see you working." When pressured again, as the understanding of a businessman is quite sharp, they saw that these people had turned things around. Since they had transformed them into something else. As the same individuals were insistent on Seth Sahib, he initially said, "What opinion can I give? I see you working." When pressured again, as the understanding of a businessman is quite sharp, they saw that these people had turned things around. Since they had transformed them into something else.
People ask them about their opinion, and when they express their opinion, they stick to it. They had seen this pattern two or three times when they were asked about a new issue, and they would say, "This is my opinion." This was the first time they had expressed their opinion, and then they stuck to it. Allah Almighty had also given the presence of Seth Sahib as a sign to Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him). They did not have religious education, but it was through them that the community was established, and their impact on others was excellent. I remember that for years, Seth Lal Ji Dal Ji sent a monthly contribution of three hundred rupees to Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (peace be upon him). He used to write that due to his weak financial condition, he was sending this amount for the reward. After some time, none of the big traders were left, and it was thought that some traders should become Ahmadis so that preaching could be done in that class. In Punjab, there was no big trader, they were ordinary, and it is a fact that Allah Almighty granted Seth Abdullah Sahib the caliphate, and he started preaching with great zeal. It has been about 22 to 23 years now, but there has been no difference in their preaching enthusiasm. Allah Almighty also favored them that they used to listen very attentively, putting a small piece on their ears and sitting far away, and as a person's age increases, this disease also worsens. At that time, they used to say, "Pray that my ears get better so that I can hear the speeches properly." Now Allah Almighty has favored them so much that even with their hands behind their ears, they can hear while sitting far away. Initially, their condition was such that they used to sit at the table, or with a piece attached to the table, they used to listen through the loudspeaker attached to their ears. I have also mentioned their sincerity and preaching services to our young workers so that they can learn a lesson from them and see how a person works even at an old age when it is time to rest. They have taken a pension from the shop's business, in which they work.
They do not have a separate room where they work on writing. Young people should learn a lesson from them. I have also mentioned that when one is aware of someone's services and sincerity, prayers are initiated for them. As I have mentioned, the financial condition of the boy is not like that of the girl. But the relationship that Seth Sahib has established by sending the girl to preach Ahmadiyyat in that family is significant. Pray that Allah Almighty fulfills the desire that Seth Sahib has initiated, that the girl in that family goes and preaches Ahmadiyyat. It is not a doubt that the people who understand religion have made significant sacrifices. They are well-off in making financial sacrifices, and they have been blessed by Allah Almighty in worldly aspects as well. They are considered to understand religion, although in reality, they are not wrong, for which they have made great sacrifices. Among our community, those who make a will give a tenth part, and the number of such people in the community is very few, but every preacher gives a tenth of their income. In the past, there was so much exaggeration about them that there was a person (the name is not mentioned) who had ordered that if the specified amount is not paid on time, throw it in the sea, and it will reach us. In fact, this was a way to enforce regular payments. Even if five percent of the amount was thrown into the sea, 95 percent would reach regularly. They used to do the same if they were going to the sea at the time of payment; they would throw it in the sea. If the people who understand religion spread Ahmadiyyat, it will have a very good impact in India. Seth Sahib's books have a far-reaching impact; through their literature, a big man's wife became an Ahmadi. I do not mention their name; they are very big people who go to big parties and governors' parties, and they come to their house. When Seth Sahib's wife read something about purdah in one of Seth Sahib's books, she started observing purdah and left going to parties. All the family members started calling her crazy, and she wrote to me saying, "I am perplexed about what to do. I am
Some women from a large family in the United States, after reading Seth Sahib's book, returned home and observed purdah. The impact of Seth Sahib's heartfelt words is profound, and it has a significant effect in Southwestern India. The desire for this relationship is noble, so I wanted to mention Seth Sahib's preaching services on this occasion to initiate prayers. Seth Sahib's daughter's name is Umme Hafiz Begum, and her cousin is a boy named Sher Ali, who has been made an Ahmadi through their efforts and has been an Ahmadi for many years. His name is Sher Ali, and he lives near a police station in Bombay. Both have signed the marriage contract, and they have appointed me as their legal representative. Therefore, I announce that the marriage of Seth Abdullah Ilahi Din Sahib's daughter, Umme Hafiz Begum, with Sher Ali, son of Ali Muhammad Sahib, has been agreed upon for a dowry of three thousand. I approve from both sides; pray that Allah Almighty blesses them.
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Two communities are like seeds thrown as pages
(Delivered on 15th September 1941)
On 15th September 1941, after the Asr prayer in the blessed mosque, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of the honorable daughter of Seth Muhammad Ghaus Sahib of Hyderabad Deccan, Umme Hafiz Begum Sahiba, with Muhammad Yunus Sahib, son of Abdul Aziz Sahib, residing in Ladowah, Karnal district, for a dowry of one thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"The tradition of Allah Almighty, which has been ongoing since ancient times regarding the affairs of the servants, has also spread our community in various regions. It is Allah Almighty's ancient tradition that communities are thrown like pages. Just as if we throw a seed from a height, it will spread far and wide, and if thrown from a high tower, it will fall far away, and if thrown from a high mountain, it will spread even further on the ground. Because the faith thrown by Allah Almighty from the sky spreads all over the world. Here, there, somewhere, everywhere, this thing apparently weakens the communities because those communities that are limited to a circle gain strength, but due to being confined within a circle, they eventually disappear. But those communities established far and wide. It seems as if their seed is thrown from the sky, so it spreads far and wide, and because of this, their circle is established far away, and it seems that their seed is thrown from the sky, so it spreads far and wide, and because of this, their circle is established far away.
Taqat shuru shuru mein kamzor nazar aati hai kyunkeh un ke afraad aik aik, do do, char char kar ke door door phelay hote hain. Agar shuru mein woh sab ikatthe hon to kafi taqatwar nazar aayin, maslan hamari Jamaat kayi lakh hai aur agar yeh saari ki saari Gordaspur ke ilaqe mein jama kar di jaye to yahan hamari numayaan tor par bartari aur taqat nazar aaye magar is waqt kyunkeh woh saari duniya mein pheli hui hai is liye hum kisi jagah bhi aise mahfooz aur taqatwar nazar nahi aate jitne agar saari Jamaat aik jagah hoti to nazar aasakte. Baaz dafa jab Allah ki Jamaaton ko aik jagah jama karna matloob hota hai to is ke liye hijrat karayi jati hai. Allah taala aisi Jamaat ko bhi phaila ta ta ke charon taraf hai magar phir kisi maslahat ke matehat unhein aik jagah jama hone ka hukm de deta hai jaise Rasool Kareem (SAW) ke zamane mein hijrat ka hukm hua aur tamam Yemeni, Najdi, Hijazi, Irani Musalmanon ko Madinah mein jama hone ka hukm de diya gaya aur is tarah woh baat bhi poori ho gayi ke eman charon taraf pohanch gaya aur phir Musalmanon ki taqat bhi aik jagah jama ho gayi. Jab aik Najd ka Musalman Madinah gaya to peechay us ke rishtedaar mojood thay, Irani Musalman Madinah aagaya magar us ke mutalliqeen Iran mein rahe aur jahan jahan bhi koi Musalman tha us ne Islam ka taaruf wahan kiya aur is tarah charon taraf ishaat ka samaan bhi ho gaya aur jitha bhi qaim ho gaya. Pas Allah ki Jamaaton ke mutalliq Allah taala ki sunnat yehi hai ke woh eman ko charon taraf phailata hai magar baaz dafa kisi maslahat ke matehat tamam eman lanay walon ko ikattha bhi kar deta hai magar is ka zariya hijrat hai. Hazrat Musa (AS) ke waqt mein bhi aisa hi hua. Misr ke mukhtalif maqamat par aap ke maanay walay thori thori tadad mein mojood thay magar phir un ko ikattha hone ka hukm de diya gaya aur phir eman ko phailane ke liye Kanaan ki taraf rawana kiya gaya ta woh mukhtalif qomoon aur girohon mein se guzarte hue un mein deen ko phelate jayein. Rasool Kareem (SAW) ke zamane mein Musalmanon ko hijrat kar ke Madinah jama hone ka hukm diya gaya is mein bhi maslahat thi. Yeh bhi to ho sakta tha ke sab ko Makkah mein hijrat kar ke jama hone ka hukm de diya jata aur is tarah sare Musalman agar Makkah mein ikatthe ho jate to is tarah bhi un ki aik taqat ban jati magar is tarah yeh ghareez poori nahi ho sakti thi ke Islam sare Arab mein phail jaye. Makkah se Madinah qareeban do sau mile ke faasle par hai aur Allah taala Rasool Kareem (SAW) ko Makkah se do sau mile ke faasle par le gaya.
When the regions are reached, the propagation of Islam can be possible. Our community is also established under the same tradition of Allah Almighty, and Ahmadis have spread to different regions. Since this era is not of wars, hence no command of migration has been given. Only this command is that those who are granted success should gather in Qadian. So that they can strengthen the system here. But this command is not obligatory for those who have the means and have already gathered here, and those who do not have the means do not come. In this division, people of different levels have emerged in different regions. In Afghanistan, Syed Abdul Latif Sahib, Naimatullah Sahib, and many martyrs emerged. Then many of them came to Qadian, and through them, preaching was done in all regions. Otherwise, preaching in India and preaching in Afghanistan for us was difficult on the borders, but it was Allah's will that those people crossed the borders and spread the message in all regions. Just today, I received a letter of allegiance from a Pathan. He wrote that some time ago, he heard about Ahmadiyyat from Maulvi Naimatullah Sahib and since then, he has been continuously researching. Meanwhile, I have left my home and have been traveling to different regions. And now I have been granted the opportunity for allegiance. And in the early days, Seth Abdul Rahman Haji Allah made Ahmadis in Madras. Some in Bihar, some in Bengal, and some in Uttar Pradesh were granted the opportunity for allegiance, and all of them started spreading Ahmadiyyat in their respective areas. One of them is the community of Hyderabad, which is about fifteen hundred miles away from here, in the middle of a long region where not even a single Ahmadi is present. The CP area is in the middle; in it, all the Ahmadis, even if they all come together, might not be equal to the city of Hyderabad's community. There are very few in Uttar Pradesh as well, and by crossing all these regions, Allah Almighty has established a community in Hyderabad, and there, such sincere companions were born who have made great sacrifices for Ahmadiyyat and worked with dedication. The community was established there through Maulvi Muhammad Saeed Sahib. In a village called Sambalpur in Odisha, everyone is an Ahmadi, and that too is actually a community born in Hyderabad. Syed Abdul Rahim Sahib went there, who was residing in Hyderabad, and there he met Maulvi Muhammad Saeed Sahib. Maulvi Sahib introduced him to the preaching and also gave him some books to study, through which he became an Ahmadi.
Chapter 551 has passed, and due to their influence, the entire village has become Ahmadi. At this moment, the one who is going to announce the marriage of his daughter is Seth Muhammad Ghaus from Hyderabad. They are also among those sincere individuals whose hearts are devoted to the service chain, and they have a deep sense of it. They were already Ahmadis, but when they became aware of their services, they started going for Hajj. This awareness occurred in 1912. Perhaps they knew that I was going or maybe they were there for trade purposes. In any case, my first meeting with them happened there, and then such relationships were established that it seemed as if a unique household had emerged, and even the relationships of the hidden matters were established among them. Abdul Hai Arab was also with me on the occasion of Hajj. When it was time to depart, Seth Sahib gave him some things, including a glass. He had told Abdul Hai Sahib that when you drink water from it, remember me, and in this way, you can initiate prayers for me. Seth Sahib is among the extremely sincere individuals. In terms of providing donations, maintaining unity and harmony in the community, they have done a great job. The result of their sincerity is that Allah Almighty has also blessed them with children. Some people are sincere themselves but their children lack that sincerity, but Seth Sahib's children are also sincere. Their eldest son, Muhammad Azam Sahib, has such sincerity that is found in few young individuals when it comes to preaching and training. I have seen that people generally fear preaching in states, and if there is any matter, they try to ensure that prominent individuals are not informed about it. But I have seen that Muhammad Azam Sahib has a passion for open preaching and propagation in the state. He keeps seeking advice from me and continues to inspire enthusiasm among the youth. The other son is Mu'een-ud-Din, who also actively participates in the activities of the service chain and puts a lot of effort into making the movement of working with hands popular. He also has a passion for establishing relationships with the girls. Then their elder daughter was associated with the late Ummat-ul-Hai. Then their younger daughter Khalil got married, who is a dedicated worker of the modern movement. The relationships of this girl with the late Ummat-ul-Qayyum are like those of sisters, and from the beginning until now, she has been
The family maintained such dedication and commitment that there was never any deficiency in it. Allah Almighty provides means for such sincere individuals, and their sons' marriages also took place in such households that are very sincere. The marriage of Muhammad Azam is with the daughter of Hakeem Muhammad Hussain Sahib Qureshi, a devoted and sacrificial companion of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him). Qureshi Sahib was also among the initial companions of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) and was so sincere that Allah Almighty saved him from every trial. When the first dispute of Khilafat arose, Khawaja Sahib and his companions gathered the Lahore Jama'at and said, "See how the system is falling apart." This was the time of the first Khilafat of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) when Mir Muhammad Ishaq Sahib had written some questions and you had sent them to the Jama'ats outside as well for answers. At that time, the entire Lahore Jama'at had agreed that they should send their signatures to the first Khalifa. This is not the responsibility of the Ahmadiyya Jama'at but the responsibility of the main body of the Jama'at. When everyone was confirming this matter, Qureshi Sahib remained silent and said that he would give his opinion last. Finally, when asked, he vehemently opposed this idea and said that it is disrespectful to define the powers of the Khalifa. We have given him our allegiance, so such matters are not permissible. He was the last person to express his opinion. Before him, everyone had already stated their opinions, but the result of his sincerity was that everyone understood this point, and only those who had special relationships with him remained. Similarly, in the early days of my Khilafat, they also participated with vigor in facing the non-pledged. The Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) used to send them requisitions from Lahore for provisions and other items, and through letters, he would send them to a person who would take them to Hakeem Sahib's place and he would buy all the items as if he were an agent of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him). The Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) also had a lot of affection for them. This mosque of Ahmadis in Lahore is also their achievement. What to say about others, I myself was against it because I thought it was such a burden that what was raised from the Lahore Jama'at would not be able to bear it. But they insisted, took permission from me, and with a heavy expenditure, established a central mosque in Lahore.
The marriage of Khan Sahib's second son with the daughter of Hafiz Ali Khan Sahib has taken place. Khan Sahib is also a very sincere individual, and although not very old, he has strengthened his ties with the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) and raised his sons in sincere households. The marriages of his daughters also took place in households known for their sincerity. The marriage of Muhammad Azam is with the daughter of Hakeem Muhammad Hussain Sahib Qureshi, a devoted and sacrificial companion of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him). Qureshi Sahib was also among the initial companions of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) and was so sincere that Allah Almighty saved him from every trial. When the first dispute of Khilafat arose, Khawaja Sahib and his companions gathered the Lahore Jama'at and said, "See how the system is falling apart." This was the time of the first Khilafat of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) when Mir Muhammad Ishaq Sahib had written some questions and you had sent them to the Jama'ats outside as well for answers. At that time, the entire Lahore Jama'at had agreed that they should send their signatures to the first Khalifa. This is not the responsibility of the Ahmadiyya Jama'at but the responsibility of the main body of the Jama'at. When everyone was confirming this matter, Qureshi Sahib remained silent and said that he would give his opinion last. Finally, when asked, he vehemently opposed this idea and said that it is disrespectful to define the powers of the Khalifa. We have given him our allegiance, so such matters are not permissible. He was the last person to express his opinion. Before him, everyone had already stated their opinions, but the result of his sincerity was that everyone understood this point, and only those who had special relationships with him remained. Similarly, in the early days of my Khilafat, they also participated with vigor in facing the non-pledged. The Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) used to send them requisitions from Lahore for provisions and other items, and through letters, he would send them to a person who would take them to Hakeem Sahib's place and he would buy all the items as if he were an agent of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him). The Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) also had a lot of affection for them. This mosque of Ahmadis in Lahore is also their achievement. What to say about others, I myself was against it because I thought it was such a burden that what was raised from the Lahore Jama'at would not be able to bear it. But they insisted, took permission from me, and with a heavy expenditure, established a central mosque in Lahore.
They used to teach and even received education in our area until a certain point. Among them was Malik Muhammad Hussain Sahib, whose daughter is getting married now. They were my childhood friends, and we stayed together for years. They went to Africa and became barristers, but now they have passed away. (Al-Fazl, 5th November 1941, page 473)
On 16th September 1941, page 2.
Actions are dependent on intentions
(Stated on September 2, 1942)
After the Zuhr prayer on September 2, 1942, Hazrat Musleh Maud announced the marriage of Naseera Begum, daughter of Hazrat Maulana Syed Muhammad Sarwar Shah Sahib, with a dowry of one thousand rupees to respected Abdul Rahim Sahib, son of Miyan Abdullah Khan Sahib from Afghanistan, and honorable Master Ahmad Hussain Sahib from Ferozepur, the late Hamidah Begum's daughter, with a dowry of seven hundred rupees to respected Syed Nazir Ahmad Sahib, son of Syed Muhammad Sahib from the late Amritsar.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"Regarding marriage, the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) began with the words of praise. He said, 'Al-hamdu lillah nahmadu' - From here, all praises belong to Allah, and we praise Him according to the ways He has taught us, or that all praises belong to Allah, and we praise Him for those attributes through which we have also benefited, among those who praise Allah are those who, as if, Allah has manifested His attributes of praise, and from whom we have also received a share. It is as if 'Al-hamdu lillah' has explained Allah's attributes in an intellectual color, but 'nahmadu' has put them into practical expression, and after seeing the manifestation of those attributes in ourselves, we cannot help but acknowledge that we are also compelled to praise Him, and it is obligatory for us to praise Him."
It is evident from these words that just as the Noble Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has given glad tidings and blessings for the believers for great deeds, and has emphasized making them a source of blessings and glad tidings, similarly, you have initiated the movement to make marriage a source of blessings and glad tidings. Because if marriage is not a source of blessings and glad tidings for us, then there is no meaning in saying Alhamdulillah at its beginning. And if marriage is not a source of blessings and glad tidings for us, then our mouths do not give praise at this occasion. There are thousands of people in the world who are afflicted with such wrong thoughts that marriages become a calamity. This is the case with girls as well as boys, especially in Europe and America where people do not marry for 40, 50, or even 50 years, and when asked why they do not marry, they say it is better to have freedom and comfort for as long as possible. This is the same situation with girls; they remain free until they are forty, fifty years old, and when asked, they say, firstly, we did not want to marry, and if we had to, we would have waited for as long as we could enjoy freedom. It seems as if the girls and boys in those regions consider marriage a prison. The other meaning of this is that they do not deserve to say Alhamdulillah at the marriage ceremony. And if they say it, they do it out of hypocrisy. Until a person does not truly believe in this belief and does not accept it wholeheartedly, he cannot say these words sincerely. Then the second part, which is "nahmadu"; that we praise, there are many people in the world who do not prepare for justice and love even when getting married. They get married, but sometimes they have to take revenge in their intentions and desires, sometimes they have to ignite the fire of discord and corruption, sometimes they have to bring a servant for household chores, and sometimes such vile and wicked thoughts are found in their hearts. Sometimes fulfilling minor needs becomes their purpose, sometimes corruption and mischief are ignited, sometimes bringing a servant for household chores becomes their purpose, and sometimes such vile and wicked thoughts are found in their hearts. Some people have the intention to fulfill minor needs, and sometimes they have to ignite the fire of discord and corruption, sometimes they have to bring a servant for household chores, and sometimes such vile and wicked thoughts are found in their hearts.
At times, a person attends a marriage ceremony with the intention of putting the yoke of slavery on someone's neck, and sometimes, they attend to express their hatred for their parents, loved ones, or relatives. A person who attends a marriage ceremony with such intentions can truly say "Alhamdulillah." They want to express their hatred, they want to disrupt the peace of homes, they come prepared to reject the commands of the Shariah, thinking that the complaints in their hearts cannot be forgiven. How can such a person praise sincerely or if they intend to put the yoke of slavery in someone's neck through marriage, or instead of making their wife their companion and travel partner, they bring her as a servant, how can they offer praise? If they can offer praise, then they can also say "Alhamdulillah" to a thief who takes out two or four rupees from someone's pocket, or if they can offer praise, then a burglar can also say "Alhamdulillah" who breaks into a house and carries away a trunk, saying on the way that "Alhamdulillah, I have succeeded in theft." If a person with such thoughts is able to offer praise, then the oppressor and tyrant king who ruins the lives of millions and destroys thousands and millions of households, who destroys the kingdoms of nations, who takes pride in trampling on people's corpses, can also say "Alhamdulillah, I have caused a hundred thousand people to die, I have turned four hundred thousand women into widows, I have made four lakh children orphans." Those who say such praise will be cursed, and their praise will be considered strange. They will say, "He should have sought forgiveness from Allah, but he continued with 'Alhamdulillah'." So, the verses of marriage starting with "Al-hamdu lillah nahmadu" - Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has advised us that our marriages should be based on praise, and if a person makes the intention, they also receive the grace from Allah to fulfill their intention. If they do not make the intention, they do not receive the grace. The example of intention is indeed like a person turning their face towards a direction. If someone turns their face towards the east, they will keep walking towards the east. If they turn their face towards the west, they will keep walking towards the west. It seems that whatever the intention will be, the action will be granted success accordingly. That is why the Noble Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has said...
It has been stated that actions are dependent on intentions, meaning that actions are based on intentions. If someone migrates for the sake of Allah and His Messenger, his migration is towards Allah and His Messenger. Such a person receives the grace from Allah after migration and his migration becomes for the sake of Allah and His Messenger. But if someone migrates for worldly gains or to marry a woman, then his migration is towards what he intended. So, his migration will be for what he intended. The Noble Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has advised us that a person's actions are based on his intentions. If he does not fulfill his intention or makes a low and incomplete intention, then low and incomplete actions will be issued as a result. And if he makes a noble intention, then noble deeds will be issued as a result of his intention. Now, migration is apparently one thing, but one migration can lead a person to Allah, another can make him worldly, and another can make him a servant and pet owner. Similarly, marriage is one thing, but there is a marriage that elevates a person's thoughts and spirits. Through it, peace is established, and the eradication of discord and corruption occurs. Sometimes, peace is established in kingdoms when marriages take place between the sons and daughters of different kings. Sometimes, as a result, fights between kingdoms cease, and peace is established. It seems that although a marriage is apparently between a man and a woman, peace is established in kingdoms. In the same way, sometimes peace and love are born as a result of marriages between two families, and disputes between them are resolved. But conversely, sometimes a marriage is between a man and a woman, but fights start in kingdoms. 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Marriages sometimes become the cause of generating envy and hatred in the hearts of millions and billions of people. In this way, at times, marriages take place within tribes, but instead of fostering love and affection between the man and the woman, they become the cause of discord and corruption within the tribes, leading to conflicts among them. And sometimes, even if there are no conflicts between two families, there is always discord between the man and the woman. Although the man attends the marriage ceremony directly and the woman accepts through her guardian that they will live together as husband and wife, both of them are the most disrespectful of this acceptance. They say in the gathering that they agree to live with love and affection, but during the day and night of this agreement, they continue to violate it. They do not say with their mouths that they are disobeying Muhammad, but they express it through their actions. In reality, the Noble Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) has started the words of marriage with praise, indicating that the foundation of your marriages should be based on generating praise so that you can stand at the station of sincere gratitude and that the praise of Allah remains elevated in your hearts at all times. (Al-Fazl, December 2, 1960, page 473)
(Al-Fazl, September 6, 1942)
Kitab al-Nikah, Chapter: The Sermon of Marriage
Sahih al-Bukhari, Book of Belief and Vows, Chapter: Actions are Dependent on Intentions and Accountability, and for every person is what he intended...
It is the promise of the Almighty that Qadian will progress greatly.
(Stated on September 9, 1942)
After the Asr prayer at the blessed Mosque in Qadian on September 9, 1942, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of respected Miyan Salahuddin, son of respected Maulvi Fazluddin, with the honorable Miss Iqbal Jahan Begum, daughter of Captain Umar Hayat Khan, a resident of Banoon, for a dowry of one thousand rupees. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"It is the power of Allah that people will be able to witness it, act upon it, and benefit from it, those who have seen the conditions of the early days of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) cannot estimate or compare what is to come. Qadian was a small village when Ahmadis were not even equal to a pinch of salt in that small village, when the entire Ahmadi population was confined to only three houses, our house, a part of the first Khalifa's residence, or the place where Maulvi Qutbuddin Sahib now practices medicine. Similarly, the current third building was the guest house, these were just four buildings at that time, the middle building, the joint building, the boarding house, and the school building, all are subsequent constructions. The house where the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) resided was very small, and many parts of it were not built at that time, so it was a small population that was called the Ahmadiyya Jama'at at that time. I remember I cannot say that it was the first gathering."
It is unlikely that this would be the second meeting because I remember the first meeting well, which took place in 1891 when I was very young, so this is likely to be the second meeting. I remember well that where the Ahmadiyya School is now, there was a platform built. Initially, it used to be a granary, which the government auctioned off, and Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) bought that piece. As far as I remember, this piece of land was bought for seventy rupees. Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I was present at that time when it was informed that Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) wanted to buy this land, you probably sent the money, and this land was bought with your money. At that time, there was a small platform here, which was narrower than the width of this blessed mosque but it was long. It started from the guest house and went up to the limits of Nawab Sahib's residences, and due to the collapse of the granary, a platform was built there. Some part of the second meeting or some part of the second meeting was held on this granary. I remember we did not have the strength to understand the purpose and goal of this meeting at that time. However, one thing I remember well, and I have also inquired about it from some old people, but no one gave me a correct answer, and that is that two small streams were flowing on this platform on which people used to sit. I still do not understand why at that time these streams were repeatedly lifted and the place was changed, and many times it happened that first, streams were laid out in one place, and when people sat down, after a while, those streams and the place were laid out again, whether it was due to the sun shining or something else. I cannot say anything for sure about it, and from that time until now, I have not found anyone who could explain the reason for it. I remember this scene well from my childhood, and it seemed like a spectacle that first people were sitting in one place and then suddenly stood up and sat in another place. The entire income of Ahmadiyyat at that time was on these two streams. Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) mentioned this number in his book "A'ina Kamalat Islam," and if you look at it, you can find out how many people were present at that meeting. Then, those whose names Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) mentioned in the publication are not all those who were present at the meeting at the same time.
And not all are elderly men, some are children, and some are those who joined a gathering and then left. Since the gathering lasted for three to four days, some stayed for one day and left, some stayed for two days and left, some stayed for three days and left. Therefore, Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) has mentioned in his book "A'ina Kamalat Islam" that the number of participants in the gathering was 327, not all of them were adults, and not all were present at the same time. As far as I understand, at one time, more than a hundred and fifty to two hundred people were part of the gathering, and some would come and go for a short while. This gathering was the second annual gathering of the Ahmadiyya Community, and if my memory serves me right, there were fewer people visible in this mosque than those seen now. Then Allah started gathering people from all sides, and the fulfillment of the revelation of Allah began: "People will come to you from every distant track, they will come from every deep valley." Those who have seen the conditions of Qadian in the early days cannot estimate or compare what is to come. Those who saw Qadian in 1900 feel a significant difference, but to us, Qadian in 1900 already appeared as a well-populated town. Then those who saw Qadian in 1907 also feel a considerable difference upon observing its current state, but in 1907, we felt that we had covered the whole world and now Qadian had become a well-populated city. In this way, in 1913, the situation of Qadian changed, and in 1914, it changed further. In 1917, more progress was made, and in 1940, the population increased even more. To the extent that some people who saw Qadian during my caliphate, when they did not visit Qadian for five to seven years, and then when they had the opportunity to visit Qadian, they mentioned that after five to seven years, we did not recognize Qadian. What a magnificent sign it is that Allah manifested regarding the truthfulness of Ahmadiyyat. Ignorant people say that the world...
Some cities and towns also grow, although the reasons for their growth were not there. Surely, they will continue to happen because God has promised that Qadian will never be deprived of these things.
Here also, businesses will flourish, and new factories will continue to open. However, from the early days of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) until two or three years ago, there was no material means for the progress of Qadian, yet God showed its growth and thus proved that Ahmadiyyat is a plant nurtured by His hands. Similarly, the coming together of individuals from different nations and regions in Qadian is also a great sign of God's greatness within their own beings. Perhaps in Qadian, where marriages take place between people of different nations and regions, even though the population of Qadian is only ten thousand, such marriages may not even occur in a city like Lahore with a population of nearly five hundred thousand. This is a significant sign that we witness with our own eyes. As long as people of that era remain alive, they will keep these signs fresh, but those who come later will only read about these signs in books and will not be able to enjoy what we experience. We always read in books that the disbelievers showed the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) this sorrow, that sorrow, and then after these sorrows, Allah made the disbelievers a target of His punishment. But we cannot experience what Hazrat Abu Bakr and other companions experienced, nor can the next generation experience the joy that we experience today by seeing the signs of Allah. Those who have seen the conditions know that among us, some are residents of Uttar Pradesh, some of CP, some of Bengal, some live on the border, some in Sindh, some in Punjab, and then through Ahmadiyyat, they are so united that they become one entity. Sometimes there are differences in customs, sometimes there are differences in rituals, sometimes there are differences in civilization, sometimes there are differences in language, yet they still unite in marriage. We have seen in Qadian that Punjabis marry Hindustanis. We have also seen in Qadian that a wife does not even know the Urdu word...
Neither can a Punjabi husband understand a single word of Pashto nor can a wife comprehend any word of Punjabi. We have seen in Qadian that husbands speak Pashto to their wives and laugh in Urdu, but then we have also witnessed wives spending the entire day in silence, while the husband has never tasted bread throughout his life. Such scenes we have often observed in Qadian.
(Al-Fazl, September 1942, page 201, Fourth Edition, 2970)
Every human being can see what he has sent forth for tomorrow.
(Stated on October 13, 1942)
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"It is the nature of human life that everyone connects their hopes and intentions with the future. They confine their actions and deeds to the present. If there are two horses of a carriage, and one is tied towards the back and the other towards the front, then surely the carriage will either break or fall. In this case, the carriage can move when both horses are on the same side, whether you take it towards the east or west, north or south, it doesn't matter; in any case, if you hitch both horses on one side, the carriage will move. Even if it goes in the wrong direction, it will still move, but if one horse is tied on one side and the other on the opposite side, then the carriage will not go anywhere; it will break. Human destinations also have two horses, and both horses are tied together for human progress. One is human actions, and the other is human desires and aspirations. Action enhances aspirations and aspirations increase actions, and thus every step taken by one horse becomes a means for the other to move forward. In the end, what is aspiration...
Hope is the essence of looking at one's present towards the future. There is always some connection between hope and reality; otherwise, every person has aspirations. But you call one hopeful person crazy and say about another hopeful person that he is very brave and intelligent. A student studies in college; he hopes to become a great philosopher one day. You see him and say, "This student may become a great philosopher; he seems very brave and intelligent." He is reading history and says, "I will become a great historian one day." You do not know whether he will become a historian or not, but you say, "This student may become a great historian one day." Because you see his actions and when it is evident that he is studying history well, you infer that his aspiration may also be correct, and it is possible that he may become a historian one day, although there is a significant difference between his aspiration and action at the moment. But since his aspiration aligns with his actions, it relates to the future, so regarding something that is not yet apparent but as he is moving in the direction where his actions are leading, you say he is very brave and intelligent. Similarly, another student is studying accounting in college and says, "I will become a great accountant one day." You see his obedience and compliance with the professors, you see the love that is generated through his study, and you see him writing various notes about accounting, and you say, "This student may become a great accountant; indeed, one day he will become an accountant." A person is reading books on jurisprudence, engrossed in their study, pondering over the teacher's words, writing various notes on jurisprudence, and says, "My intention is to become a great jurist one day." You do not call such a person crazy; instead, you say this person is becoming great, intelligent, and diligent because he is stepping in the direction of his destination, and his gaze is towards his future, and the gaze always looks ahead. But since he is stepping in the direction he intends to go, you say he is saying the right thing. Although there is a significant difference between his current position and the place where he intends to reach. In contrast, another person is wavering...
It happens and is often said, "I will become a great engineer one day," and you immediately declare that person crazy. What is the difference? His destination is far, and his destination is also far, but you call one crazy and the other hopeful and intelligent. The difference is that one is stepping towards the east, but he desires to go west, and the other is stepping towards the same direction he wants to go. It seems one's hope is moving in one direction, and his action is moving in the same direction, while the other's hope is moving towards the direction where his action is going. If his action is on one side and his hope on the other, you say, "This person is crazy." Not because his future is not visible, we do not call someone crazy because of their hope but because of the disparity between hope and action. In contrast, there is another person whose future does not seem apparent, just like the future of the past did not seem apparent, but we say he is of great courage, of great intentions. We say, "He is very hopeful and brave," as we affirm his emotions, appreciate his aspirations, and ourselves start having hopes about his future because we see wherever his step is taken, his hope is also moving. But a person who is wavering towards the river Beas and says, "I will reach the river Beas," we say, "This person is crazy." It seems we do not call someone crazy because of their hope but because of the disparity between hope and action. Allah Almighty advises us in the Holy Quran, "And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow." Every human should ponder over this and see what he has sent forth for tomorrow, what he has sent for betrayal, and whether his action aligns with his hope or not. Then He says, "And fear Allah. Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what you do." Have you ever thought about your future hopes and intentions and whether there is any alignment between those hopes and your actions or not? What is to come will only be born from what is sent forth; it will not be born out of nothing. What is the future? The future is the child of the present. If the present step and direction are taken, then surely the future will also be according to that present. A donkey's child will ultimately be a donkey; it will not be a lion, and a lion's cub can be a lioness but not a cow or a goat.
He said, "And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow." If someone does not have any aspirations or hopes related to progress in their heart, they are a lowly and ineffective being. If a person's actions are insufficient but despite that, they do not hold the hope that they will sustain themselves with their God tomorrow, then we will not say about them that they are virtuous; instead, we will say they are faithless. We call a person virtuous who, even though their actions are currently weak, still holds the hope that if they do not meet their God today, they will meet Him tomorrow. They offer prayers today, observe fasts, give alms, and participate in other good deeds, but even if they do not meet God today, they do not become despondent; instead, they say, "Tomorrow, I will reach my Lord." It seems that there is always a fresh hope and aspiration in their heart, and despite limited actions, the yearning to meet Allah remains present in their heart at all times. Such a person, we will undoubtedly say, is virtuous. But if this hope is not found in their heart, then we will not consider them good. Therefore, holding hopes for the future is a key to progress. A person who does not hold any hopes for the future cannot progress. Thus, the reality is that the intention of a believer is better than their action. It means that whatever work they do, they intend to do more in the future. If a person is walking on a path and looks at their feet, they will surely stumble. Similarly, if they look back, they will still stumble. Because the stumbling block is ahead, but one who looks ahead sees the obstacles before taking each step and says, "This is also a stumbling block, and that is also a stumbling block." And later, even if their eyes are looking in a different direction, behind their mind, the ongoing knowledge is telling them that there is a stumbling block at that distance, and when they reach that place, they will stabilize and be safe from stumbling. So, hope is a very crucial and essential thing for human progress. Yes, hopes that do not align with actions become the cause of a person's destruction. But how many people walk according to this principle? In the world, most people have such hopes...
There are individuals who do not act according to their intentions, or their hearts are filled with aspirations, but those aspirations do not align with their actions. Or there are individuals found whose hearts lack any aspirations, and thus they perish. Indeed, one who lacks aspirations can never succeed, and one whose aspirations do not match their actions can also never succeed. Therefore, Allah Almighty says, "And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow."
Abandon your hopes, but always hold onto the hopes for tomorrow and ensure that your actions also correspond to those hopes. If today you hold hopes and act accordingly, remember that Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what you do.
The future is not in your hands but in the hands of God. So, entrust your future to Him so that He may shape your future according to your hopes and desires. If you make God your own, then your aspirations and your actions will align. It will not be that your actions are going in one direction while your hopes are running in another. Such a situation cannot lead to any resolution.
It could not be determined which of the two parties was right. (Al-Hashr: 19)
(Al-Fazl, October 23, 1942, page 403)
(Delivered on April 10, 1944)
After the Asr prayer on April 10, 1943, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II officiated the marriage of Molvi Noor-ul-Haq with Safiya Siddiqa, daughter of Qazi Muhammad Rashid, for a dowry of five hundred rupees, and the marriage of Syed Muhammad Akmal with Saadiqa Begum, daughter of Mirza Qudratullah, for two thousand five hundred rupees.
Following the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"I do not wish to say much at this time because I also have to attend a supplication gathering, but regarding the announcement of these marriages, I want to mention two essential points. One is from the perspective of the community, and the other is from the perspective of those individuals who have prompted me to make this statement. Allah Almighty commands in the Holy Quran, 'And let there be [arising] from you a nation inviting to [all that is] good.' It is essential that one group among you should continuously be engaged in inviting others towards goodness. This group that is fundamentally associated with inviting towards good will not be able to obtain the worldly benefits that others acquire or attain the education that is prevalent nowadays. They will willingly sacrifice those means that bring wealth or the current standards for the sake of dedicating themselves to the religion and performing religious services. They will let go of those resources that bring wealth or the standards of today for the sake of dedicating themselves to the religion and performing religious services. It is necessary for them to sacrifice their hands for the cause of religion and engage in religious services, which they cannot obtain the worldly benefits that others acquire or attain the education that is prevalent nowadays."
Respect those who sacrifice for religion because nowadays, all respect is associated with wealth, and when they lose the standard through which wealth is earned, then it means they will not become wealthy. Even if they knew the means through which wealth could be earned, they still could not earn wealth. Indeed, Allah Almighty says, "And let there be [arising] from you a nation inviting to [all that is] good."
Because they will not have the time. Or in comparison to others, they will have very little time because in this era, all respect, progress, and dignity are associated with wealth, so naturally, people look down upon those individuals and think that giving their daughters to them will ruin their lives. Thus, whenever the question of a relationship arises, they look down on them based on their nature. Similarly, when they attend a gathering where prominent individuals are present, they do not show interest, and if they do, their interest is like the English men and women who show interest in their dogs. And when people apparently show respect and consideration, it is clear from their actions that they are humble either by choice, through charity and good deeds, or out of fear of the public, but they do not hold respect in their hearts. During the time of the Holy Prophet ﷺ or before that, this was less common because at that time, wealth was not as prevalent as it is today. Nowadays, all importance is given to wealth. It was present in the past as well, but to a certain extent. There is a famous anecdote of Sheikh Saadi (may Allah have mercy on him) that once while traveling, he arrived in a city where he learned that a great feast was arranged by a chief. At that time, there was more informality found among people, and such invitations were common. The host said, "We did not cook today because such and such wealthy person has invited us. You should also go there." Sheikh Saadi then got up from there and went to that place.
They went to the rich man's house because he was a great scholar. With courage, they went and sat near the President. In the meantime, a chief arrived for the invitation. A servant hurriedly came and said to them, "Sir, please move back; this place is not for you." They got up and went to another place. After a while, another chief came, and a different servant hurriedly came and asked him to move back as well. They got up and moved back. Some more chiefs arrived, and the servants told them to move back. Until they reached near the President. When the food was served, as they were Sufi ascetics and cared little for robes and honors, they twisted and dipped their coats, which were beautifully embroidered with pearls, into the soup bowl. Everyone was astonished at what they were doing. They thought perhaps he had gone mad, dipping such a valuable coat into the soup bowl. The host was also surprised and asked them, "What are you doing?" They replied, "Yesterday, I came, and I was pushed and shoved and made to sit in the shoes. But today, when the President arrived, I was also made to sit in a high place for his sake, so this invitation is for him, not for me, and I am opening this invitation to them." People recognized them and realized that they were Sheikh Saadi. Since their name had spread everywhere, the host apologized profusely, saying that the servants had acted foolishly and caused you unnecessary discomfort. But what foolishness did the servants need to do? In the world, the prevailing trend is that respect is given to wealth, not to knowledge, not to religion, not to nobility, not to piety and purity, except in that realm of piety and purity where...
Indeed, the command to rise and invite people towards Allah Almighty is issued, but people often eat the bread of angels without doing so themselves. I see this malady prevalent in our community as well. Whenever the movement towards life is initiated and the youth are asked to dedicate themselves to service, those born to the eating and drinking class do not come forward, and those who do come are looked upon with disdain by the rulers. It is considered a form of humiliation to talk to them or walk with them, otherwise, they are not worthy of our attention. Similarly, great difficulties arise in their marriages and dowries, and in my view, this matter is a significant sign of a great national decline. If it is indeed correct that "Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you,"
then we must give respect to those who are honored in the presence of Allah. Or we must understand that a person who is great in worldly terms is honored in the presence of God, and if this is not correct, then surely Allah Almighty will humble those whom He honors. It is not a false statement that has emerged in our community, and those who hold this view will surely face psychological consequences if they do not honor those who serve the cause. I am not saying that future generations will not dedicate their lives to the service of religion because this movement is spiritual, and Allah Almighty will continue to produce individuals who dedicate their lives to religion. But it will be necessary that those who are considered honorable will be humiliated by God Almighty. On the other hand, every action and reaction, that is, the chain of influence and impact, is a long series that is ongoing, and this chain of influence and impact now appears so vast that it has no limits. The lesson I have learned in my life and the action and reaction that I have seen since childhood...
I used to think that which I did not understand in my youth, but after experiencing it for a long time, I had to be convinced of one thing, that the reward for actions from Allah Almighty is a series that continues in such a subtle manner in this world that when a person studies this series, they are amazed, and sometimes it seems to them that forgiveness and reward are nothing. The reward for actions in this world is so intense and continues in such a fine and intricate manner, and it takes such a form that a person is bewildered and cannot understand what forgiveness and reward mean if this series continues in the world, then what is the meaning of forgiveness and reward.
The point is that people understand verbal forgiveness and repentance, and they consider that when they ask for forgiveness with their tongues and repent with their mouths, then God will forgive them as well. However, that which brings forgiveness is not verbal forgiveness but it is the repentance that pierces the heart and sheds blood. If a person has true repentance, they can be saved from the consequences of their actions, otherwise, in the ninetieth century, people are just like those who repent after committing sins, but their repentance is not true. Their repentance is not real, and they think that their sins have been forgiven, but step by step, they find the consequences of their actions in this world.
I have experienced this and seen it repeatedly. Sometimes a person is caught after ten or fifteen years. At that time, they do not understand why they were caught, but I remember an incident from ten or fifteen years ago, and I understand why they were caught. I have seen this and understood so much that it seems to me that in this world, there is no planning; it is all fate that is happening. Since all things in the world carry a long chain of influence and impact within them. Therefore, when a flaw is found in one part of the chain, that they look at those who sacrifice their lives for religion with disdain, then I say to the knowledgeable ones that they should also consider why this behavior is happening with them. Surely, they are knowledgeable about life, but I also see materialism in them. Let's assume that some in our community who are wealthy say, "Why should we give our daughter to someone who has nothing worldly?" Upon hearing this, those who are knowledgeable should also consider why this behavior is happening. Surely, they are knowledgeable about life, but I also see materialism in them. Let's assume that some in our community who are wealthy say, "Why should we give our daughter to someone who has nothing worldly?" Upon hearing this, those who are knowledgeable should also consider why this behavior is happening. Surely, they are knowledgeable about life, but I also see materialism in them.
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When you read, then certainly it guides you regarding the boys that if you find a relationship for them in a stranger's family, then surely take the relationship of a poor girl. Following one command and denying the other, where is the justice in that? The boys' parents also have a command that wherever Allah has destined a relationship for them, regardless of whether the girl is rich or poor, they should accept the relationship. And the parents of the girls also have a command that they should consider nobility and piety and form a relationship. And if they do not find any rich relationship, then they should give the poor one. So, I also see materialism in them. A person who says that he has dedicated his life for religion, why should I give him my daughter, and he looks at him with disdain and thinks that when he has dedicated his life to religion, where will he get his sustenance from? The meaning of this point of view is that the person who dedicates his life for God is humble, but the one who gives his life to the English is honored. The one who gives his life to the English and becomes a magistrate or a district officer is honored, but the one who dedicates his life for God is, God forbid, greatly humiliated. In other words, the question arises, who is more honored, the one who becomes a slave of the English or the one who leaves the service of the masters and starts serving God. In comparison, when a knowledgeable person feels this sentiment in his heart that my marriage should take place in the house of a certain wealthy person or my marriage should take place with the daughter of a certain eater and drinker, then it means that he says with his mouth that he has left the world but practically, he is a lover of the world. If in reality, he had left the world, and if in reality, he had submitted all his intentions and all his intentions to God, then in that case, if he had to marry a widow, he would have been ready for marriage happily and would have said that if God likes a widow for me, then I accept that widow. Allah Almighty decides for me a widow, then I accept that widow. That which can be needed is a wife who is educated and carries the civilization and culture that he himself carries. So if all these qualities are found in a girl, she is aware of religion, she is educated, she holds Islamic civilization
It is filled with civilization and all these things are found in it, so there is no reason for him to express displeasure about this relationship and say that I do not accept it because he is poor. Certainly, the Sharia has set a condition for acceptance. Certainly, the Sharia has made it permissible to consider your desire and then decide where you are willing to accept the relationship. This condition is for the Prophet as well as for others. If someone has fifteen proposals, no matter how humble they are, he has the right to choose one of the fifteen and it is necessary to consider what is pleasing to you. So, those who force someone and say that you must accept a certain relationship for my daughter, they are also ignorant. When Allah has said to marry what is pleasing to you, then who are you to force. Neither can the parents of boys be forced to accept a certain relationship nor can the parents of girls be forced to accept a certain relationship. The words of "what is pleasing to you" apply to both men and women. But as far as the question of civilization is concerned, there should be no concern whether the girl is poor or rich. And if he always wanders in search of someone above him, if he wants his marriage to be with a rich person, with someone who eats and drinks, and with an honorable person, if he rejects the proposal of marrying a poor person, then it means that there is still polytheism in his heart and he is a lover of the world. The only difference is that the other person worships the world more and does less but he will be worldly. Now, if a person can find a relationship where he can get what he needs
And what kind of relationship can fulfill my needs. For example, if a girl has religious education or she possesses piety and purity within her, then finding her in this state is sufficient. Yes, if there are ten proposals in front of her, then certainly she cannot be forced, and it cannot be said that take this relationship, it is her choice to like whom she wants. I have seen that some people become displeased due to their ignorance that why did not so-and-so take the relationship of our daughter even though it was his right to accept or reject whom he wanted. Similarly, the parents of the girl have the right to give the relationship to whom they wish and reject whom they dislike, except that rejecting the relationship based on religion is not that because he has dedicated his life for religion, we do not give him the relationship. If he does so, it means that the person who sacrifices his life for religion is humiliated, and this is something that no noble person can accept. Similarly, those who are aware, when presented with relationships of poor girls, reject them and are ready to raid the rich, their behavior is also explicitly wrong, and to accept the relationship of the pious and noble is found only among the wealthy, and this statement is also completely baseless. And if there is goodness and piety in the poor as well, if there is piety, education, and honesty in them, then rejecting the relationship of the poor does not make any sense, that they also harbor worldly thoughts within them. So, the way of both parties is completely against reason and reality. If a wealthy person says to break free from the past that the Sharia has indeed given precedence to religion and goodness, but I do not see religion in those religious people, I see religion in the worldly people, then think for yourself how unreasonable and far from reality this statement will be. If a person says that he does not see white threads among white threads or black threads among black threads, it is as absurd as that.
Or this statement is like someone saying, "I do not see any Hindus among Hindus, nor do I see any Muslims among Muslims." If someone says this, it will be a sign of their madness, not proof of their intellect, that they do not see any religious among the religious, but they see religious among the worldly. Similarly, choosing the path of life in such a way that when the relationships of poor girls are presented before them, they say that there is less goodness and piety in them, indicating that goodness is found in the nobles and not in the strangers. So, they acknowledge their falsehood, their lack of piety, and their polytheism, all the while looking at the world. This is a deficiency that needs to be corrected urgently. In our community, there are no millionaires or billionaires. Only a few people are included who eat well, drink well, and are among the nobles, but their mentality is such that if someone aware of life presents a relationship request in front of them due to their foolishness and ignorance, they think as if they have been put up for sale in the market. In contrast, those who are aware will find faults when presented with relationships of poor girls. Sometimes they will say that the level of piety is not high, sometimes they will say that education is not high, sometimes they will say that they lack affection, but when a relationship of someone who eats and drinks is presented before them, they will immediately say, "Yes, this is correct, this girl is good and religious." At that time, they will start seeing goodness, piety, and education, and they will be pleased with that relationship. So, the way of both parties is completely wrong, unjust, and against principles. Until both parties do not correct their ways, this deficiency cannot be removed. Remember, the world revolves around those people who leave the world completely. They leave the world for God and the state of the world becomes such that it chases after them, and a person becomes bewildered as to where to go. But as long as one keeps an eye on the world, the world keeps moving forward, and a person keeps running after it, yet still does not attain the world. This discourse was intended to announce the marriage of a knowledgeable person, so I
It has been stated to bring about the reform of the community and to correct its conditions. I have announced that besides my dear ones, I will not solemnize anyone's marriage. However, since they are aware of life and are included in my dear ones, I am announcing this marriage and based on this foundation, I will announce the marriage of another as well. Because when I stand to solemnize one marriage, I do not spend any extra time in announcing another marriage.
Al-Fazl (12 April 1942, Page 1)
Al-Imran: 105
Al-Hujurat: 14
An-Nisa: 4
Al-Fazl (22 June 1944, Pages 1-4)
Speech on the Occasion of the Marriage of Hazrat Sayyeda Mehr Aya
(Delivered on 24th July 1944)
On 24th July 1944, after the Asr prayer in the blessed mosque of Qadian, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Hazrat Sayyeda Bushra Begum Sahibah, the honorable daughter of respected Syed Azizullah Shah Sahib, with a dowry of one thousand rupees.
Some actions in the world appear to be different on the surface, while some actions proceed like links in a chain. The incident I am about to mention today is also a link in that chain. Thirty-eight years ago, an incident occurred here. We had a younger brother named Mubarak Ahmad, whose grave lies towards the east of the blessed mausoleum of Hazrat Masih Maud (as). He was very dear to Hazrat Masih Maud (as). I remember when we were young, we developed an interest in raising chickens. Some chickens were mine, some belonged to Mir Muhammad Ishaq Sahib (may Allah have mercy on him), and some were owned by Miyan Bashir Ahmad Sahib. According to our childhood interests, early in the morning, we would go, open the chicken coops, count the eggs, and then boastfully compete with each other, saying, "My hen has laid so many eggs, and mine has laid this many." Mubarak Ahmad (may Allah have mercy on him) also joined us in this hobby. Incidentally, he fell ill once, and the news of his illness was conveyed by a lady from Sialkot who was known as Dadi (paternal grandmother) by everyone, including us. We also called her Dadi, and so did others. Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I took great offense at being called Dadi.
They used to call him "Dadi" instead of recognizing him by any other means, so instead of "Dadi," they used to call him "Jag Dadi." When Mubarak Ahmad fell ill, Dadi said that he fell ill because he goes behind the hens. When Hazrat Masih Maud (as) heard this, he immediately said to Amman Jan, "Count the hens and give their value to the children and slaughter the hens." Hazrat Masih Maud (as) was very fond of Mubarak Ahmad. In 1907, he fell ill and was attacked by a severe form of typhoid. At that time, two doctors were present in Qadian. Dr. Khalifa Rashid-ud-Din (may Allah have mercy on him) had developed the idea in his heart that instead of working outside, we should serve in Qadian, and perhaps he was one of the first Ahmadis who left employment and came here. One was him, and the other was Dr. Syed Abdul Sattar Shah Sahib, who had come here on leave. Hazrat Khalifa I also used to treat Mubarak Ahmad fondly. During his illness, someone had a dream that Mubarak Ahmad was getting married, and interpreters wrote that if the marriage is with an unknown woman, it signifies death, but some interpreters also believe that if this dream is fulfilled in a visible form, sometimes this interpretation is realized. So when the dreamer narrated his dream to Hazrat Masih Maud (as), he said, "The interpreters have written that it signifies death, but when fulfilled in a visible form, sometimes this interpretation is realized, so let's have Mubarak Ahmad's marriage." It seemed that the boy who had no knowledge of marriage, Hazrat Masih Maud (as) thought about his marriage. When Hazrat (as) was discussing these matters, Dr. Syed Abdul Sattar Shah Sahib, who was here as a guest at the house of Dr. Sahib, appeared in the courtyard. Hazrat Masih Maud (as) called him and said, "We have decided to marry Mubarak Ahmad. Your daughter is Maryam. If you agree, then let's have Mubarak Ahmad's marriage with her." He said, "I have no objection, but if you give me some time, I will also ask Dr. Sahib." In those days, Dr. Sahib (may Allah have mercy on him) and his family used to live in the round room. They went downstairs, and as subsequent events revealed, it turned out that they were not there; they had gone out somewhere. They took some time.
When you waited, they arrived. When they arrived, they spoke in this manner that when one enters into the religion of Allah, sometimes their faith is tested. If Allah tests your faith, will you remain steadfast? At that time, two thoughts crossed their minds. One was that perhaps Dr. Sahib was hesitant to form this relationship due to two reasons. One was that before this, no girl from his family had been married to a non-Syed, and the other was that Mubarak Ahmad was suffering from a deadly disease, and Dr. Sahib himself was treating him and discussing at home that his condition was delicate, and because of this, they might think that this marriage is ninety percent risky, and there is a fear of a mark being left on the girl's forehead soon. And due to these reasons, the family members of Dr. Sahib thought that it should not happen that Dr. Sahib shows weakness and loses his faith, so they asked, "If Allah tests your faith, will you remain steadfast?" Dr. Sahib replied, "I hope that Allah will grant me steadfastness." Upon hearing this, the mother of Maryam Begum (may Allah have mercy on her) told them what had happened. She informed them that she had gone upstairs and overheard the conversation. At that time, Hazrat Masih Maud (as) said, "Let's marry Maryam to Mubarak Ahmad." Upon hearing this, Dr. Sahib said, "It is a good thing. If Hazrat Masih Maud (as) approves of this, then what objection can we have?" Upon hearing his response, the mother of the late Maryam Begum prayed that may Allah always elevate his status. She fell to the ground and tears flowed involuntarily from her eyes. Upon this, Dr. Sahib (may Allah have mercy on him) asked her, "What happened? Don't you like this?" She replied, "I like it." The point is that since Hazrat Masih Maud (as) had given the guidance for marriage, my heart was pounding, and I was afraid that perhaps your faith might be lost. And now, upon hearing your response, I couldn't stop my tears of joy. So, this marriage took place, and a few days later, that girl became a widow. Allah does not waste anyone's sincerity. Eventually, that girl came into the family of Hazrat Masih Maud (as) and was married by the Khalifa at the time. Despite being severely ill, Allah did not let her die until the revelation of the fulfillment of my prediction that was not disclosed to me, which was related to the progress of Islam and Ahmadiyyat by Hazrat Masih
Hazrat Promised Messiah (as) had stated, and I did not include those blessed women who were associated with Hazrat Promised Messiah (as) from eternity and were referred to as part of Hazrat Messiah's (as) entity. I understand this to be a reward from Allah Almighty for the faith that the late Maryam Begum's mother had shown. After the demise of Maryam Begum, for the first few days, one could not comprehend such a situation, but after a few days, I felt that the house was desolate in such a way that there was a mother but no father. A married person has the right to his living wives, and the nights that were divided into four parts are now divided into three parts. During the day, I could not go home due to work, and now I could not go to that house even at night. In this way, the children of the late Maryam Begum could not stay with me during the day or at night. After this feeling, I thought that I could entrust those children to another wife so that I could take care of her affairs and be aware of her situation. This thought came to me that my younger wife, Maryam Siddiqa, who could stay at the house of the late Maryam Begum and take care of her children with love. But along with this, I also thought that she lives with Hazrat (Amman Jan) and gets the opportunity to serve her. Secondly, I saw that the doctors also had the same opinion about her that she was also suffering from the same disease that afflicted the late Umme Tahira. After the birth of a girl, seven years have passed, and she has not had any children, and then her nature is such that for my satisfaction, when the children quarrel with each other, whether it is her daughter or another child, she punishes her daughter and gives her daughter the punishment so that there is no feeling in the hearts of other children or in my heart that she favors her daughter and because of being the daughter of the Prophet, she has a double relationship and therefore double love. Although the status of my late mother was not achieved by her, as the late Umme Tahira did not reject my statement even once in ten years of companionship. My doubt could not be greater that a more obedient wife could be other than her (although being the daughter of a teacher, if
When they used to compete with me, it was never surprising. So, I thought that it would be very unjust to put one child in pain when there is only one child, and apparently, the chances are low that we will lose hope in the mercy of Allah. This pain can be endured, and besides, based on the experience of the late Maryam Begum, I thought that taking care of another wife's children brings many trials, especially in a situation where the children under her care have relations with another family. I wrote an article titled "My Maryam," in which I wrote that when I entrusted the children of the late Umme Tahira to Um Tahira, it was not known to her or me that we were deciding her death because of this responsibility. This caused a lot of distress to both her family members and me. This incident happened in such a way that some family members of Um Tahira did not like that my children stay in my house but wanted them to be under the care of their maternal grandmother. But I decided that they should stay in my house and entrusted them to the late Maryam Begum. The result was that some family members of Um Tahira started using all their efforts against Um Tahira's family. (I leave this detail and matter to Allah Almighty. The conclusion is that in these situations, Maryam Begum's health deteriorated, and fainting episodes occurred, which caused internal organs to suffer damage. As a result, today I am in separate pain, and her children are experiencing separate sorrows. I pray to Allah to forgive us and forgive other people too so that after His grace, all calamities and worries turn into mercy and blessings.) In any case, entrusting those children to the late Maryam Begum became one of the reasons for her death. And I said in my heart that this cannot be repeated in the case of another Maryam. I could not see any other way. One day I was reading a reference that on February 18, 1907, according to the following revelations of Hazrat Promised Messiah (as):
Every victory is after a delay for him. The manifestation of truth and glory was that Allah descended from the heavens for him.
These revelations are: "I stand with the Messenger - and woe to those who stand against him." The revelation "Pious Attack" is regrettable news. On the 21st, the transition of thought occurred towards some friends in Lahore. However, this transition of thought occurred after awakening. Perhaps this revelation is also related to it. It would be better to proceed with another marriage. It is not known to whom this revelation pertains. The revelation of 18th February, "The manifestation of truth and glory was that Allah descended from the heavens for him," was related to the Promised Son before. When I read this revelation, it came to my mind that this prophecy is being reiterated, and it was surprising that the first prophecy was also made in February, and this revelation is also from February, so it is evident that when the time of the demise of the Promised Messiah (as) was near, i.e., a hundred years before his demise, Allah reiterated this prophecy. And then, he said, "Every victory is after a delay for him. The manifestation of truth and glory was that Allah descended from the heavens for him." Furthermore, in this series of revelations, it is mentioned that when this prophecy is fulfilled, enemies will attack from all sides. Therefore, when this revelation was revealed, people started opposing it vehemently, making various accusations, lies, and falsehoods. But Allah also revealed that the meaning of "Pious Attack" is the same as the Quranic verse "The group will be defeated, and they will turn their backs," meaning all enemies will gather to attack, but Allah will humiliate and disgrace them, and they will face defeat. This revelation is very similar to the other revelation related to the Promised Son, "The truth has come, and falsehood has vanished. Indeed, falsehood is bound to vanish." Falsehood has the ability to flee. Then, after this revelation, the revelation "Regrettable news came." Consequently, a month later, the demise of the late Umme Tahira occurred. Explaining this revelation, Hazrat Promised Messiah (as) said,
Peace be upon you. The transition of thought occurred towards some friends in Lahore. However, this transition of thought occurred mentally, but the incident revealed that this revelation was actually about the death of Mubarak Ahmad in Lahore. The revelations of Allah Almighty are not in vain. Giving empty news without any context that a regrettable news came without any clue as to whom it is related to or what kind of news it is becomes meaningless. But when we see that these series of revelations are about the Promised Son's appearance, then about the enemies' clamor and their failure, then about a regrettable news, which resulted in deciding that it would be better to proceed with another marriage, it becomes clear from these revelations that the regrettable news is about the death of someone's wife. Because the next revelation pertains to a man, saying that it would be better to get married. So, the regrettable news could be the death of the wife of the Promised Son. Since no other man is mentioned in these revelations except the Promised Son, it is also apparent that the deceased wife will be the wife of the Promised Son, who passed away in Lahore. After reading all these revelations and realizing that the revelation of the fulfillment of my prediction was revealed with full vigor against me, then the demise of Amman occurred, I understood that maybe my conclusion that entrusting the children to another wife was not correct, and it is better to get married. Then my mind turned towards the fact that another wife would also face misunderstanding from the children and the deceased's relatives would not be able to come to her, and thus they would not be able to see the children, which would result in those who are weak behaving with her in the same way as some of the relatives of the late Maryam Begum did with the late Umme Tahira's relatives. This led to the deterioration of Maryam Begum's health, and fainting episodes occurred, causing damage to internal organs. As a result, today I am in separate pain, and her children are experiencing separate sorrows. I pray to Allah to forgive us and forgive other people too so that after His grace, all calamities and worries turn into mercy and blessings. In any case, entrusting those children to the late Maryam Begum became one of the reasons for her death. And I said in my heart that this cannot be repeated in the case of another Maryam. I could not see any other way. One day I was reading a reference that on February 18, 1907, according to the following revelations of Hazrat Promised Messiah (as):
Every victory is after a delay for him. The manifestation of truth and glory was that Allah descended from the heavens for him.
Then the good news is about my niece. After that, I mentioned to some members of Maryam's family that we think there should be a prominent person in their family, and due to this reason, some of us believe that you should get married. So, it is good if it happens within our family, and in this way, taking care of the children will be easier. Then my mind turned towards the fact that there is also a girl in their family named Bushra, and it is a coincidence that due to some illnesses, her marriage could not take place until now, and she has grown older. Therefore, she will be able to take care of the children and manage them well. After this, I prayed Istikhara, and I saw a dream that was published on the 1st of June 1944. In the dream, I saw that someone presented a saddle in front of me, and instead of showing me any animal, they showed me a head which I understood to be a camel's head. They said, "Shall I prepare this for your ride?" and I said, "Certainly." But a special interest did not arise in my heart. I move forward, and they come running behind me and then show me the head of that feature and say, "Look, he is learning with great determination." After this, when I go to ride that teacher and complete my journey, I see that the animal is a female camel. This dream was published, but its interpretation was not published. Interpreters have written that seeing an animal in a dream signifies marriage with a woman who cannot have children, and I had knowledge about Bushra Begum Sahiba that doctors believe she cannot have children. But I thought that the animal I am riding in the dream is not a camel but a female camel, so it is possible that I will marry another woman. This thought made me start turning the pages of the interpretation book, and when I saw the interpretation of riding a female camel, it was written that marriage with such a woman is not possible. It was known to me that the doctors' opinion was that she cannot have children, but I thought that the animal I am riding is not a camel but a female camel, so it is possible that I will marry another woman. This thought made me start turning the pages of the interpretation book, and when I saw the interpretation of riding a female camel, it was written that marriage with such a woman is not possible. It was known to me that the doctors' opinion was that she cannot have children, but I thought that the animal I am riding is not a camel but a female camel, so it is possible that I will marry another woman.
Marriage with a woman who cannot have children. The feature is an animal that naturally creates some aversion, so instead of a camel, Allah Almighty showed a rooster's head, which indicates that Allah will correct the interpretation of this dream and turn it into a blessing and mercy. The purpose of this dream showed two different aspects of the same thing and indicated that initially, some bad things would happen, but later, good things would emerge. After this, I prayed Istikhara again, and I saw a dream that was not published. I saw that I went to a place where a person lived, and there were five or six children's shoes that belonged to his family members. He told me to stay there, saying this and left himself and did not return. I was standing there, and I saw that two or four shoes were scattered, and among them, I saw the sister of Bushra Begum lying down. From this, I understood that the interpretation of this dream is related to the same family. But this fact did not come to my understanding that the man had gone, so why did he not return? Later events clarified the interpretation because when a formal message was sent, they had gone on a trip, and I prayed Istikhara again, and I saw a dream that was published on June 20, 1944, and in it, I saw that I went to a place where I thought Hazrat Musa (as) had also sought refuge, and there I met Syed Wali Allah Shah Sahib twice. The first time, they left without presenting their work report, and the second time, they said that when I came, there were some mysteries besides my wife, and I left them. They took the name of their wife, Syeda Hikmat Sahiba, and the other name they took, which I had not mentioned, and only mentioned Ghulam Mirza, which had been published, but in reality, they had said Bushra Ghulam Mirza, but when narrating the dream, I omitted Bushra's name so that people do not know my intention yet. (It is surprising that some people still understood. It is not known how)
Perhaps some people read lines and understand, but still, I thought that the name Ghulam Mirza that appeared in the dream might refer to another woman, and Shah Sahib's words that "with me are the celestial bodies Bushra Ghulam Mirza" are not two but three women. Due to this reason, I continued Istikhara. During this time, Syed Wali Allah Shah Sahib also mentioned, and I told them that this mention is about the prophecy of Hazrat Messiah Maud (as). Then I shared my dream and asked them for their opinion. They said that it is very good if a marriage takes place, as Bushra can fulfill the responsibility well. Upon this, I wrote a letter to the father of Bushra Begum and told Syed Wali Allah Shah Sahib to take it to them, but also said that if you feel that they will not take it well, because after so many indications and signs from Allah Almighty, if they reject this matter, they may fall into God's grasp. I do not like that any of the relatives of the late Maryam Begum fall into any kind of punishment, so please inform me, and I do not send this letter. But they said that they will surely believe in that, and with their assurance, I gave them this letter. After this, I had another dream that a man met me, and we discussed some matters, but in signs, he talked to me without being clear, but I understand that they are advising me about marriage. The summary of their talk is that if something is presented to someone, and they do not want to do it, what should one do? In the dream, I think about giving them an answer that would dispel their doubts. So, when I give them an answer, they ask, "Okay, if someone agrees to do this work, should they do it quickly or delay it?" I told them that it depends on the nature of the work. If there is a benefit in doing the work quickly, then do it quickly, and if there is a benefit in delaying the work, then delay it. And from this dream, I understood that indeed, in this matter, there will be some ups and downs at first. So, when Syed Wali Allah Shah Sahib, who had gone with the message, returned, he told me that the father of the girl is satisfied, but the girl says, "I will not marry until
It was not acceptable that people were already saying that they had sent a sick woman to Hazrat Sahib's house. Now, if I go, the family will be disgraced, and people will say that another sick person has been sent, burdening the sick. When Shah Sahib came and told me about this, I told him that Allah Almighty had already informed me that there would be some difficulties during this period, and many people had seen dreams related to me and their families, indicating this matter. So, when I sent Syed Wali Allah Shah Sahib to meet Brother Syed Habibullah Shah in Lahore (they are my childhood friends and the uncle of Bushra Begum), when Syed Habibullah Shah met them, he was concerned that his wife was English and very clever. When he saw Syed Wali Allah Shah, he recognized that he had some concerns, and when he went to the bathroom to take a bath, he started pacing in front of the bathroom. When I came out, he asked what was the matter, and he told him that before coming out of the bath, he had a revelation that Bushra Begum was standing in white clothes in front of me, and he also saw that I was standing close by on one side. This was revealed that "Bushra Begum Sahiba is for Hazrat Amir-ul-Momineen, may Allah be pleased with him." Shah Sahib also told me that when I reached Jhelum after consulting Brother Habibullah Shah, as my arrival was sudden, Humaira Zahra Begum, the girl's mother, was very happy, and upon meeting, she said, "By God's oath, just a few hours ago, I saw in a dream that you had come, and you had honey in your hand, and you said that you had brought this honey for you in the city, and your parents (who are your paternal aunt and uncle) are also present in the room. My aunt also said that I also have a share in this honey; keep my share safe. Along with this, I saw that the bees of honey were flying behind us, and it seemed that they
They have flown from there once, and now they want to sit again. In this way, it seems that even the girl's relatives had received glad tidings from Allah Almighty regarding this relationship. But as per my dream, it happened that the girl said, "I am like spring, so I cannot bear this burden, and people will say that a sick person came to this house before, she passed away, and now another one has come." The girl wrote a very painful letter to her father, expressing her health condition, saying that we should not fall into punishment instead of reward, and may Allah Almighty not catch us in His grip, and the girl's father also had the same thought. During this time, the girl's mother explained to her and said that a lady doctor's opinion should be sought. Consequently, an opinion was taken from a lady doctor, who said that the girl is not such a patient that she cannot get married and fulfill responsibilities. This removed the girl's doubt, and her parents also agreed. Now, the part of the dream that was yet to be fulfilled was that if someone agrees, then whether they should do it quickly or delay it. Thus, it happened that when the mention of marriage and the mention of the departure occurred, Brother Syed Aziz Allah Shah Sahib told Brother Syed Wali Allah Shah Sahib that we cannot rush for the departure; we need time for preparation. We do not want that things are not done quickly, the girl's heart breaks, and she thinks that because she was sick, her parents are pushing her away. So, it seems that every part of the dream has been fulfilled. I consulted with my family members, and they also gave the same opinion that taking care of the children and marriage would be appropriate. My more casual advice came from my respected wife, who shared these inspirations with me and said that I wanted to tell you myself, but because I had a lot of love for the late Maryam Begum, and people knew that we had very close relations, I did not give you this advice earlier, that people would think that after her death, I immediately advised you to remarry. She also narrated a dream she had, which she saw in the late Umme Tahira's life, the interpretation of which is that there will be another marriage in this family. It is strange that the dream that the late Begum saw is the same dream that my brother Syed Wali Allah
Shah Sahib had also seen a dream in the life of the deceased, which he had narrated to his wife. Furthermore, other people had also seen dreams that later became clear. For example, a woman narrated a dream to Shah Sahib in which she saw that his marriage was taking place with Umme Tahira, who had passed away six or seven months ago. At that time, no one had any knowledge of this kind, and she said that she had seen that Hazrat Sahib's marriage was taking place with Bushra Begum, and there was no negative interpretation. Similarly, Professor Basharat Rahman Sahib M.A. mentioned that he saw in the illness of Um Zahra that your marriage has taken place with a woman named Bushra, and this dream was narrated to someone at that time, and the interpretation was that Um Zahra would recover, which was a good omen. Additionally, Syeda Lal Bibi Afghan saw in a dream during Um Zahra's life that my marriage is taking place. She said, "I said, let me also see the bride." When she saw the bride, it was Um Zahra. She said, "I was surprised that Hazrat Sahib has married Um Zahra again." She laughed and said, "Lal Pari, just as you are crazy, your desires are also crazy." I made a decision based on all these dreams, meaning those known at the time of this movement (in addition to these dreams, some half a dozen dreams and other people have also told about this matter, and based on these dreams, I finally decided that I should marry Bushra Begum (besides these dreams, there is also a dream of Chaudhry Abdul Latif Sahib M.A. who saw before the knowledge of this movement that my marriage is taking place and he said to his friend that the prophecy of Hazrat Messiah Maud (as) is that the Promised Reformer will marry seven wives. This dream was fulfilled at that time, and Sheikh Nasir Ahmad Sahib M.A. saw a dream three months ago, which he narrated to me at that time that my marriage has taken place with Um Nasfan. Nasfan is called the vessel that overflows, meaning either a woman who loves intensely or is generous, or has both qualities).
Some people ask questions, but there were many indications found. Similarly, some other people's desires were such that they were determined, and events also unfolded as indicated in dreams. Therefore, I reached the conclusion that these dreams and inspirations are meant for Syeda Bushra Begum, but despite this, one cannot say what the future holds. Sometimes a sign leads in one direction, but it is actually a test, and Allah Almighty wants to test His servant. In this regard, and also because there is a need to populate this house, there is a need for many prayers. Due to the love I had for the late Um Tahira, this step I am taking is not a source of ease and happiness for me but rather of sorrow and distress. I do not hope that Allah Almighty, according to His plan, will make this action a source of trouble for me. So, even if these desires are also for my trial, I still pray that when I have taken this weak step, may my Merciful and Gracious God turn it into a means of blessing. As I have mentioned before, many friends and Dr. Hashmatullah also saw in a dream that a person named Basharatullah was putting a necklace around my neck, and because I am doing this work under the command and plan of Allah, I hope that Allah Almighty will make it a source of goodness and blessings. Some people have also raised objections, and for this reason, I have explained all the events. Some friends have misunderstandings that need to be cleared up. Some have written that these people are deceiving you by forming this relationship, although as I have already mentioned, I first paid attention to the inspirations of Hazrat Messiah Maud (as) in this direction. Then I prayed Istikhara, consulted some family members, listened to the desires of others, and then moved forward myself. I initiated the movement and sent Syed Wali Allah Shah Sahib to move towards the girl's father. In these circumstances, to say that I am being deceived by entering into this marriage is not acceptable. As I have already mentioned, I first paid attention to the inspirations of Hazrat Messiah Maud (as) in this direction. Then I prayed Istikhara, consulted some family members, listened to the desires of others, and then moved forward myself. I initiated the movement and sent Syed Wali Allah Shah Sahib to move towards the girl's father.
It is a great injustice. If this is a deception, then whether it is from my God or from my own self, the matter of the girl's family is completely clear and objection-free. Some friends have written that you should marry a woman of older age. They are also unaware that due to illness, Bushra Begum has not yet been married. Otherwise, her age is 27 years, which is the age when a woman's intellect matures. The rest cannot be inferred that an older woman refers to a fifty-year-old woman. Bushra Begum is only about eleven years younger than her late aunt. All the children of Maryam Begum were born after two years had passed, and Bushra Begum's age is the same as Maryam Begum's at that time. So, I believe that if all these dreams and inspirations are related to this relationship, then Allah Almighty will grant them success to prove themselves to Ghulam Mirza and as I had seen in another dream that an angel was calling that "Mehr Apa, come, which means the one who loves has come." Allah will instill in them the feeling that by becoming a loving aunt for the children, they can not only obtain a general reward but also serve as a reward for a kind elder. Thus, the dreams and inspirations that have come in abundance in this matter seem to have no mistake apparent, but Allah Almighty knows best what the future holds. Sometimes signs lead in one direction, but it is actually a test, and we seek refuge in our rich God from trials. Due to the love I had for the late Um Tahira, this era I am going through is not a source of ease and joy for me but rather of sorrow and distress. I do not hope that Allah Almighty, according to His plan, will make this action a source of trouble for me. So, even if these desires are also for my trial, I still pray that when I have taken this weak step, may my Merciful and Gracious God turn it into a means of blessing. As I have mentioned before, many friends and Dr. Hashmatullah also saw in a dream that a person named Basharatullah was putting a necklace around my neck, and because I am doing this work under the command and plan of Allah, I hope that Allah Almighty will make it a source of goodness and blessings. Some people have also raised objections, and for this reason, I have explained all the events. Some friends have misunderstandings that need to be cleared up. Some have written that these people are deceiving you by forming this relationship, although as I have already mentioned, I first paid attention to the inspirations of Hazrat Messiah Maud (as) in this direction. Then I prayed Istikhara, consulted some family members, listened to the desires of others, and then moved forward myself. I initiated the movement and sent Syed Wali Allah Shah Sahib to move towards the girl's father. In these circumstances, to say that I am being deceived by entering into this marriage is not acceptable. As I have already mentioned, I first paid attention to the inspirations of Hazrat Messiah Maud (as) in this direction. Then I prayed Istikhara, consulted some family members, listened to the desires of others, and then moved forward myself. I initiated the movement and sent Syed Wali Allah Shah Sahib to move towards the girl's father.
While keeping in mind the responsibilities, I accept my marriage with Syeda Bushra Begum, daughter of Syed Aziz Allah Shah Sahib, with a dowry of one thousand rupees. I pray that she becomes a servant of this household, serves Islam and Ahmadiyyat, and achieves success in fulfilling the purpose that I have in mind, which is the care and upbringing of the children of the late [Maryam Begum], without engaging in conflicts with my other wives, being compassionate towards the poor and needy, and hospitable to guests. May she spend her life in the service of Islam and the community until her departure from this world, and may the angels of her Lord convey greetings to her soul upon its reception. Ameen. Dated 1st August 1944. Pages 1 to 8.
Page 1, dated 26th July 1944.
Refer to page 696, 4th Edition, Shuh al-Qamar: 46-496, 4th Edition.
Refer to page 197, Footnote, 4th Edition.
They are aware of my life like my children. (Stated on 20th September 1944)
On 20th September 1944, after the Asr prayer, an announcement was made by Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II for the marriage of Dr. Muhammad Ahmad, son of respected Dr. Hashmatullah Khan Sahib, with Aziza Umteh Latif Sahiba, daughter of Khan Muhammad Ashraf Sahib of the late Ferozepur, with a dowry of two thousand rupees, and for the marriage of Malik Muhammad Sadiq Sahib, son of Mahasha Fazl Hussain Sahib, with a dowry of one thousand rupees for Syed Mufti Azhar Hussain Sahib of Barailey's daughter, Feroz Jahan Begum. He said: "O those who are present, after the recitation of the sermon, I have made this announcement that except for my dear ones or those people whose relationships are such that they are considered close relatives, until my health is good, I will not perform any marriages. According to this announcement, I have read some marriages of those aware of the modern movement because:
A person dedicates his life, establishes such a relationship with religion and Islam that it seems as if he is the offspring of the movement. And whoever becomes the offspring of the movement cannot be less than our children in any way because his relationship is both religious and worldly. Even though the worldly relationship of relatives is also a religious one. Today, under the same principle, I stand to perform the marriage of Dr. Hashmatullah Sahib's son.
I have also announced that when I stand for the announcement of a marriage, if there are others present as well, then according to their marriages, the announcement of marriages cannot burden me. Some others have also come today, and I will announce their marriages as well. Dr. Hashmatullah Sahib is aware of his life. That is, he has dedicated his life to the movement. And for a long time, more than 25 years, he has devoted himself. Then his personal relationship with me is such that he deserves to be treated specially, and that's why I have come now; otherwise, I have such pain that it is difficult to prostrate and sit, and at this time, the pain was more than in the morning. Al-Fazl, 14th October 1944, Page 3.
Al-Fazl, 22nd September 1944, Page 1
What you have done in the past will bear fruit in the future. (Proclaimed on 14th December 1944)
On 14th December 1944, after the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Sheikh Muhammad Ishaq, son of respected Sheikh Mushtaq Hussain, with Shafaqat Khanum, daughter of Sheikh Abdul Hafeez Sahib of Sialkot, with a dowry of five thousand rupees. After the recitation of the sermon, he stated:
Human efforts and human plans are based on very close events and situations. At this moment, we who are sitting in the mosque can only assess the circumstances to the extent that we can speak, but we cannot see the future after a minute. In this world, there are thousands of events where many people die due to the heart stopping within a minute, although if they were asked a few minutes before their death what intentions they had for the future, each of them might have outlined their program for the next twenty, thirty, or forty years, stating their plans for the next year, five years later, and ten years later. A guardian appointed by God looks at them.
Listening to these things, one would be amazed that this person is about to die within a minute, but his intentions are so long. Human cannot recognize his future through his intellect and intentions; the true and complete means of knowing and understanding the future is only Allah Almighty, and the certain knowledge about the future is not obtained from current circumstances but from the command of Allah Almighty or from another aspect from which the future can be estimated. "That every soul may know what it has put forth for tomorrow." This means that every person's actions bear fruit, and that fruit is in accordance with his actions. So, if we estimate tomorrow based on today's circumstances, we cannot accurately estimate it from the present situation but can estimate the future from past situations. Allah Almighty says, "And every soul will know what it has sent ahead for tomorrow." Do not think that a person has millions of rupees, through which he will dominate the world tomorrow, but look at his past. If he has oppressed thousands and millions of people and has accumulated this money by sucking their blood, who can say that tomorrow the oppressed will not rebel against him and uproot him. So, do not estimate his future from the money he has, nor from the possessions he has acquired, but estimate his future from the hatred and animosity that has arisen in people's hearts as a result of his major actions. Similarly, do not estimate the future of another person from the empty box he has, which has no money in it, do not estimate it from his environment that his relatives are not powerful, but estimate his future from the infinite sincerity and love that has arisen in people's hearts due to his good deeds. If a person continues to deal with people in oppression, injustice, tyranny, lies, prayers, and deceit, then his filled treasures are not a certain sign of his future excellence. And if a person continues to treat people with justice and mercy, then do not estimate his future from his empty pockets that have no money, do not estimate it from his environment that his relatives are not powerful, but estimate his future from the sincerity and love that has arisen in people's hearts due to his good deeds.
And through love, which has arisen in people's hearts due to his good deeds
The Holy Prophet's relatives were generally against him until the conquest of Mecca. When the Battle of Badr took place, at that time, only Hazrat Ali was with you among your relatives who were with you and who were considered as children. When the Battle of Badr took place, at that time, only Hazrat Ali was with you among your relatives who were with you and who were considered as children. When the Battle of Badr took place, at that time, only Hazrat Ali was with you among your relatives who were with you and who were considered as children. When the Battle of Badr took place, at that time, only Hazrat Ali was with you among your relatives who were with you and who were considered as children. Hazrat Ali was the only one who was with you and who was considered as a child. When the Battle of Badr took place, at that time, only Hazrat Ali and Hazrat Hamza were with you. Hazrat Ali had another brother who also became a Muslim, but at that time, he was probably in Abyssinia. You had children, but only one was with you, and many of your children were Muslims, but only two were with you, and the rest were against you. In such a situation, when the people of Mecca attacked you, did any way of saving your family come to mind? What about the children who were against you, the uncles who were ready to fight against you, the distant relatives and close relatives who considered your death to be in their favor, what estimate could be made of their future? What worldly possessions could you rely on? So, your future could not be seen from the behavior of those relatives but could be seen through the sacrifice you were making for the sake of the world. In the Holy Quran, Allah Almighty says about you, "Perhaps you would kill yourself with grief that they are not believers." O Prophet Muhammad! How much concern you have for your people and how boundless love you have in your heart for your enemies that perhaps you will cut your vein to the extreme degree of grief that why are they not becoming Muslims. The one in whose heart there is so much pain about his enemies that he is ready to cut his vein to the extreme degree along with the knife of grief, the one whose sacrifice has reached the extreme limit for his enemies, how much love he has for his friends
And through love, which has arisen in people's hearts due to his good deeds
The Holy Prophet's relatives were generally against him until the conquest of Mecca. When the Battle of Badr took place, at that time, only Hazrat Ali was with you among your relatives who were with you and who were considered as children. Hazrat Ali was the only one who was with you and who was considered as a child. Hazrat Ali and Hazrat Hamza were with you. In such a situation, when the people of Mecca attacked you, did any way of saving your family come to mind? What about the children who were against you, the uncles who were ready to fight against you, the distant relatives and close relatives who considered your death to be in their favor, what estimate could be made of their future? So, your future could not be seen from the behavior of those relatives but could be seen through the sacrifice you were making for the sake of the world.
When the Prophet addressed the companions at the time of Badr and asked for their advice, the Muhajireen gave their opinion, and the Ansar remained silent because those who were related to them were considered close relatives of the Muhajireen. If the Prophet had said that they would fight, it might have seemed bad to the Muhajireen, so they should have been asked. The Muhajireen were giving advice, but the Prophet repeatedly said, "O people! Give me advice on what to do." Then an Ansari stood up and said, "O Messenger of Allah, the advice is coming to you late." Then you repeatedly said, "O people! Give me advice on what to do." An Ansari stood up and said, "O Messenger of Allah, the advice is coming to you late." Then you repeatedly said, "O people! Give me advice on what to do." The Ansari said, "O Messenger of Allah, perhaps you have in mind that when we made the agreement to bring you to Medina, we were present in Mecca at that time, and at that time, we made an agreement that if the enemy attacked you in Medina, we would be responsible for you, and that meant that if you had to fight outside Medina, we would not be responsible for it. But, O Messenger of Allah, at the time we made that agreement, we did not know what your status was. We only had superficial faith and were not aware of your virtues and goodness. But, O Messenger of Allah, when you came to us, we realized who you are. Now, this agreement does not affect us, and we do not consider it a reality. O Messenger of Allah, the decision is yours.
Whether to fight or not, if there is a fight, I want to offer from the Ansar's side that we will fight on your right and left, in front of you, and behind you, and the enemy will not reach you until they pass over our bodies. Who were these brothers, who were these lower ones, who were these paternal brothers, who were these blood relatives, whose relationship was only with one person, and that relationship was only from one family. The only means to read your future was your past deeds, from which infinite love had arisen in people's hearts. Whether the Ansar spoke or remained silent, the answer from their past conditions could have been given before time that your companions will sacrifice themselves for you. So, the only means to read a person's future is either God reveals it or the person can infer it from his past deeds. If he has planted a tree of paradise, then only fruits of paradise will be produced, grapes or apples will not be produced, nor will thorns and thistles be produced. So, if a person infers his future from his past deeds, his inference will be ninety percent correct. Therefore, there are only two ways to read the future: either God informs or the person can infer it from his past deeds. So, a person who is not accustomed to reading his past will be in sudden calamity, but if he is accustomed to reading his past, that my past is corrupt and I have to improve it, then he will be saved from calamity.
Whether it is good or bad, I have planted a good tree in my past, or it will happen that if one sees that I have planted a bad tree in the past that cannot bear good fruit, then he can uproot that bad tree. If he has planted a tree of mango instead of a tree of cake, and he gets the opportunity to study his past, then if not, at least he can uproot that mango tree. Similarly, if a person evaluates his past actions and if they are bad, he should repent and bow before God and seek forgiveness, then there is no doubt that changing his past actions is not in his control, but he can change the bad consequences of those actions by repenting and seeking forgiveness from God because God has the power to uproot thorns and replace them with fruitful and pleasant trees. So, a person should always focus on two things in his actions: reliance on Allah Almighty and seeking improvement for the future and secondly, evaluating his past actions so that he can be aware of his evil in time and by repenting and seeking forgiveness from God, he can change and improve. And when a person acts on these two things, he can have a certain level of confidence and trust in the goodness of his future. Al-Fazl, 15th December 1944, Page 1
Al-Hashr: 19
Al-Fazl, 26th February 1945, Page 403
Sahih al-Bukhari, Book of Military Expeditions, Chapter: The Prophet's Taking the Standard on the Day of the Conquest
Al-Shu'ara: 4
Sahih al-Bukhari, Book of Military Expeditions, Chapter: Allah's Saying: "If you ask for help, your Lord will help you..."
We are witnessing the sign of a distant generation.
(Proclaimed on 29th December 1944)
On 29th December 1944, the marriage of Miyan Abbas Ahmad Khan, son of Khan Muhammad Abdullah Khan, with Sajjadia Ummah Al-Bari, daughter of Hazrat Mirza Sharif Ahmad Sahib, with a dowry of fifteen thousand rupees was announced by Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II.
After the recitation of the sermon, he stated:
I want to start by announcing the marriages of a few individuals before commencing the Friday sermon. I have mentioned several times before that for some time, I will only solemnize marriages of those who are either dear to me or have connections with me like dedicating their lives for the sake of religion. Furthermore, I will only solemnize the marriage of another person in such a situation when a request is made that I am announcing the marriage of a dear one. Today, I want to announce the marriage of Miyan Abbas Ahmad, who is the son of my younger sister and Miyan Abdullah Khan Sahib, and the girl is the dear daughter of Hazrat Mirza Sharif Ahmad Sahib. It seems as if the boy is my nephew and the girl is my niece. Miyan Abbas Ahmad is one of the two boys in our family who is truly preparing to serve the religion and has dedicated his life for it. Thus, every one of us in our family is dedicating our lives for the religion, but some have a dedication of such an incomplete type that it cannot be utilized, and such
Things are not found that can be used, or either they do not acquire complete religious education or their lives are passing in such colors that we think they cannot bear hardships and difficulties that have to be endured for the service of religion, or they are engulfed in the love of the world, from which we cannot benefit. Firstly, in our family, dear Mirza Nasir Ahmad had dedicated himself, and he has maintained his dedication to his end. Now, secondly, dear Abbas Ahmad has dedicated himself for the service of religion and with this determination and intention, he is acquiring regular religious education to devote his life to the service of religion. Allah Almighty knows best who among our family members will be granted the opportunity to dedicate themselves in such a way that their dedication will be beneficial for the community, and whose conditions of dedication should match their own and the community's benefit so that they do not become a stumbling block for themselves and the community. Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) proclaimed sixty-seven years ago:
"Ma taraa naslan ba'eeda." By the grace of Allah Almighty, we are witnessing the sign of a distant generation, which is being fulfilled in such a way that day by day, the importance and greatness of this sign are increasing. Some signs are of such a nature that when they are proclaimed, they become grand, and their greatness increases, but as time passes, the greatness of that sign gradually decreases. However, some signs are of such a nature that they are small at the beginning, but with the passage of time, they grow bigger. As time passes, their greatness increases. Therefore, when Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) received this revelation, "Ma taraa naslan ba'eeda," at that time, Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) had only two sons. After that, by the grace of Allah Almighty, more sons and daughters were born to you, and then Allah Almighty expanded them. Now, these sons and daughters are getting married under the divine command, and the new proofs of "Ma taraa naslan ba'eeda" are being provided. Offspring are born in the world continuously; one objector can say that this is a common occurrence, offspring are born in the world for most people, but the question is how many people have offspring whose
Often, I feel proud of being associated and feel proud of being affiliated. Most people's generations are such that if asked about their grandfather's name, they do not know. The revelation of "Ma taraa naslan ba'eeda" is indicating that the offspring of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) will be associated with you, and people will raise their fingers and say that the offspring of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) is a sign of your truthfulness. So, in the prediction of distant generations, not only is it predicted that your descendants will be numerous, but also the greatness and status of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) are mentioned in this prediction that your status is so high and your greatness is such that for a moment, your descendants will not bear to be associated with you, and in being associated with you, their honor and greatness will increase. So, this prediction does not only mention that the offspring of Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) will be numerous but will continue to increase day by day. And even if they reach the highest positions and ranks, and even if they become kings, they will not try to please their grandfather. Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) explains this revelation:
"Perhaps you would kill yourself with grief that they are not believers." By the grace of Allah Almighty, we are witnessing the sign of a distant generation, which is being fulfilled in such a way that day by day, the importance and greatness of this sign are increasing. Some signs are of such a nature that when they are proclaimed, they become grand, and their greatness increases, but as time passes, the greatness of that sign gradually decreases. However, some signs are of such a nature that they are small at the beginning, but with the passage of time, they grow bigger. As time passes, their greatness increases. Therefore, when Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) received this revelation, "Ma taraa naslan ba'eeda," at that time, Hazrat Masih-e-Ma'ood (as) had only two sons. After that, by the grace of Allah Almighty, more sons and daughters were born to you, and then Allah Almighty expanded them. Now, these sons and daughters are getting married under the divine command, and the new proofs of "Ma taraa naslan ba'eeda" are being provided. Offspring are born in the world continuously; one objector can say that this is a common occurrence, offspring are born in the world for most people, but the question is how many people have offspring whose
When a person acknowledges his grandfather's greatness and honor, the world also acknowledges the greatness of this acknowledgment. Al-Fazl, 30th December 1944, Page 185 - Fourth Edition
Al-Fazl, 12th January 1945, Page 3
(Proclaimed on 30th March 1945)
On 30th March 1945, before the Friday sermon in Masjid Noor, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriages of his two sons and two daughters. The marriage of Prince Mirza Khalil Ahmad with Sajjadia Ummah Al-Majeed, daughter of Hazrat Mirza Bashir Ahmad Sahib, with a dowry of one thousand rupees, and the marriage of Prince Mirza Hafiz Ahmad with Syeda Tanveer-ul-Islam, daughter of respected Syed Abdul Salam Sahib from Sialkot, with a dowry of one thousand rupees. Additionally, the marriage of Princess Ummat-ul-Hakim with Syed Dawood Mazhar, son of Syed Mahmood Allah Shah Sahib, Headmaster of Taleem-ul-Islam High School, with a dowry of one thousand rupees, and the marriage of Princess Syeda Ummat-ul-Basit with Syed Dawood Ahmad, son of Hazrat Mir Muhammad Ishaq Sahib, with a dowry of one thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the sermon, he stated:
I want to start by announcing the marriages of a few individuals before commencing the Friday sermon. The most precious relationships in the world are those with the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him). With the passage of time and changing circumstances, things lose their importance that is associated with their presence and knowledge. When the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) was sent, the world's conditions were such that today's people cannot comprehend. If the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) had not been sent by Allah Almighty, then today in the world, the meaning of religion would have been understood as some people worshiped idols, graves, and stones. The law,
Character is not valued in the world, religion is not a social struggle, the creation of a relationship with God is completely impossible, rather such a relationship is considered irreligious and non-religious, the rights of different parts of human nature are not protected, women are living a life of slavery without rights, idols are being worshiped improperly, God Almighty is abandoned improperly, slavery is established improperly in the world, injustice and tyranny rule in transactions, the purpose of the world today is not what it is today. Some people, due to ignorance, think that the progress of the present era is inevitable, but they do not know that transferring and progressing a thing that is present and acquiring complete progress and a thing. Today, monotheism is found in all religions, but this monotheism is indebted to Islamic monotheism. If Islam did not introduce the concept of monotheism in the world, then monotheism could not have been established in the world. If the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) had not introduced this concept, then why was it not established before the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him)? If Islam did not establish the rights of women in this way, then the rights being given to them today would not have been given because if a person had proposed these rights in his mind, why were they not given earlier. If the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) did not establish ethics through it, then ethics would not have been emphasized today because if the world could move towards it without your guidance, then why was attention not paid to establishing ethics before you. So, present ethics and present monotheism, whether they are in the Christian community, the Jewish community, or any other community in the world, are indebted to the favors of the Holy Prophet and your guidance. But now that this thing exists, every person thinks that maybe we can progress without it, and the greatness of this thing cannot be established without seeing the conditions of that time, but the era of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) was such that those who saw it considered your existence so precious that they thought they could not live in the world without you. The statements and words that people lack in the world have reached the highest standard of honesty, which is the statement that Hassan made about the deficiency regarding the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him):
"You were the blackness for the onlookers, so the onlooker went blind. Whoever wanted after you, let him die, so be cautious. I was the guardian."
At the time of the demise of the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), Hazrat Hassan said:
"You were the blackness for the onlookers, so the onlooker went blind. Whoever wanted after you, let him die, so be cautious. I was the guardian."
The greatness of the meaning of this verse can be understood from the fact that people overlook its significance. If a sighted person had said the same verse, it would have been considered merely a poetic jest or literary humor. However, due to the utterance of this verse by a blind person, its reality completely changes. Hazrat Hassan claims in this verse that when the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was alive, even though I did not have physical eyesight, I could see. People misunderstood me as blind due to the absence of my physical eyes, but I did not consider myself blind because through the Holy Prophet's guidance, I could see the world, and even now, people think that I am the same even though I am not. Initially, I was blind, but now I have become blind. So, the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) was the most precious being in the world, but according to the law of Allah Almighty, you were also separated from the world one day. However, there are many who claim to be Muslims and express their faith in the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), but even after passing a hundred years, their faith remains stagnant. Sometimes up to a hundred years, but they do not feel the impact of the great event that occurred upon the demise of the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him). This is because they did not witness the era of the Holy Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him), and therefore, they do not perceive his existence in the same way as the companions did. Just as the companions suffered loss due to the absence, those who came later also suffered loss, but the companions felt it because they saw it with their own eyes, and the threat of your absence was also seen by them. However, later people, because they did not see this with their own eyes, even though they have faith in the Holy Prophet, and sincerity is found within them, still the demise of the Holy Prophet does not seem like a significant event in their lives. SubhanAllah - some of Allah's servants are such
There are those who have not seen the Noble Messenger (peace be upon him) but consider your demise as the tragedy of their lives. Their perception of your demise is as the companions felt when you were present before them. This, in reality, is a complete sign of true faith. I do not boast, but it is Allah's favor upon me that I always perceive your demise in a way that it seems as if you were alive in my life and in my life, you passed away. Nevertheless, the demise of the Noble Messenger (peace be upon him) is being understood as Hassan said, "Whoever wanted after you, let him die, so be cautious." It is becoming evident that no one has remained forever in this world, and after the demise of the Noble Messenger (peace be upon him), it is wrong for any Muslim to assume that Hazrat Isa is sitting alive in the heavens near me. This thought is so absurd that it cannot fit in any corner of reason, and a Muslim cannot accept for a moment that the Noble Messenger (peace be upon him) has passed away and Hazrat Isa is alive in the heavens. I understand that if this were the case, then the companions of the Noble Messenger (peace be upon him) would have witnessed the demise of all messengers before you, and similarly, you also passed away. Their hearts were healed, otherwise, they were perceiving themselves as if they were blind. If there is any exception, then surely the exception would be for the sake of the Noble Messenger of Allah. People come and go in the world, they are born and they die, there is no human in this world who remains forever, and there is no human in this world who is always alive. In this situation, the progress of a person depends on the establishment of those who depart. If the establishment of those who die is established, then the shock of the deceased is mitigated, and a person thinks that if the will of our Creator is this, then there is no reason to lament excessively or grieve beyond limits. This would be a sign of going against reason and madness.
As a child, I remember children have a fondness for games. Here is a friend; I don't take his name; he will understand. In childhood, when we told them there is a match, let's go see it, they replied, "Allah Almighty says in the Holy Quran that whatever a believer wishes for in paradise will be granted to him, so what is the need to watch the match?" Apparently, this is a joke, and we used to laugh at it, but the reality is that all human progress and all levels of greatness are connected to the afterlife, and when a person achieves the afterlife, he is protected from all kinds of destruction. This afterlife is of two types: one that comes after death, and the other is that when a person dies, his position remains standing, meaning that even after his death, his work continues, and this is life. Once, an Abbasid king went to meet a great scholar and saw that he was teaching his students. The king said, "Show me one of your students; I want to test him." He presented a student. The king asked him some questions, and he answered them in an excellent manner. Hearing this, the king said, "You were the blackness for the onlookers, so the onlooker went blind. Whoever wanted after you, let him die, so be cautious." The flesh of a human does not hold any value; the flesh is like that of a thief, and similarly, the flesh of a righteous person is the same; the bones are like that of a thief, and similarly, the bones of a righteous person are the same. The only difference is that his morals are bad, and his morals are of the highest degree. There is no spirituality within him, and the highest degree of spirituality is found within him. So, if his spirituality and high moral values remain in others, will this be a paradox? The flesh and skin in the grave are gone, which holds no reality, but spirituality remained in the world. So, all success lies in establishing good positions behind a person. This is what nations strive for. This is what if a nation achieves, it is a great reward. Until today, the world has never felt that all success is not in victories but in generations. If the next generation has high morals, then that nation never dies but remains alive.
And if the future generation is not good, then all its achievements are sold and futile. I am always amazed at what it is that causes the English to win and other nations to lose. The difference between the English and other nations is that the English nation gives importance to the future generation over the current one. Therefore, the English nation believes that if our elders pass away, then other great individuals will be born who will take their place. So, they do not fear that if our great elders pass away today, then tomorrow other great individuals will not be born. Instead, they know that if our great elders pass away today, then tomorrow other individuals will take their place. However, other nations do not have this hope. For example, in France, when Napoleon rose and tried to conquer all European countries in eight to ten years, this idea was born in his heart because he knew that if Napoleon died, then another Napoleon would not be born in France. If Hitler played a game, the reason was also the same because in Hitler's heart, there was the thought that if Hitler died, another Hitler would not be born in Germany. If Mussolini had to face humiliation, the reason was also the same because in Mussolini's heart, there was the thought that if Mussolini died, another Mussolini capable of ruling Italy would not be born. But every English person understands that if our era does not achieve victories, then the future generations will achieve them. They do not believe that if King George or Churchill dies today, then tomorrow another King George or Churchill will not be born. Instead, they know that in England, every day new King Georges and new Churchills will be born, so there is no reason for them to play games quickly. Therefore, the progress of nations depends on the progress of their future generations. So, our focus should be on leaving behind good positions for our future generations that are the guarantors of the progress of Islam and the future of Islam. Most importantly, this is achieved through marriage, and it is through marriages that new generations come into being. Therefore, marriage is the most important task of human life. This is why the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) has instructed to seek guidance in marriage, to take action with thought and consideration, and to refrain from following emotions. You have also stated that marriages should be conducted in such a way that righteous and sacrificing children are born. Then you said, "All corruption arises because children are neglected, and their upbringing is not given importance, and their pride."
The pride of lineage leads to the removal of the spirit of religion from within them. In the Holy Quran, Allah Almighty states that a person is not truly religious if they take pride in their offspring and do not keep them attached to religion. A truly religious person is one who keeps their offspring connected to religion. If a person keeps their offspring connected to religion, they will never let their lineage deteriorate because lineage deteriorates due to pride. The most important thing in Islamic life is marriage. Just as the foundation is dug and laid for a building, and it is then fortified, if the foundation is not strong, the building will collapse. Similarly, if marriage is not approached with thought, consideration, and prayer, then marriage will also lead to ruin, as the thing that brings happiness is actually a time of danger. Sometimes people are happy about marriages; waves of joy run through the house, thinking that they are preparing for prosperity. However, the angels in the heavens are weeping, as they are laying the foundation of destruction, not prosperity. So, a believer should always take cautious steps with fear.
Today, I am announcing the marriages of a few individuals, among them are the marriages of my four children. I have fulfilled the saying of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) by announcing a day of grief and four marriages. These four marriages are of my sons Khalil Ahmad, Hafiz Ahmad, Ummat-ul-Hakim, and Syeda Ummat-ul-Basit. Three of them have lost their mothers, and it is in the hands and decree of Allah Almighty that the grief of a day and four marriages have been shown to them. I have never considered in my children's marriages that they should be conducted among affluent and comfortable people. I have always advised the community that people should move towards relationships where there is more sacrifice and righteousness. We have found such relationships, but we have rejected them so that our standard remains intact. I have always advised the community to move towards relationships where there is more eating, drinking, and comfort. We have found such relationships, but we have rejected them to maintain our standard. I have rejected the same relationship multiple times to ensure that our standard remains intact.
What is the educated boy in our house to me, but for me, this is not a cause of joy. Muzaffar Ahmad is a high-ranking government employee, but there is always restlessness in my heart. I have taken the names of my children according to their ages. I want to announce marriages in the same order. By the grace of Allah, March 31, 1945, page 1, the book Diwan Hassan bin Thabit, page 94, published in Beirut in 1927.
Surah Al-Imran: 145
April 6, 1945, pages 1 to 3
Long, lengthy names are not preferred.
(Stated on June 28, 1945)
On June 28, 1945, after the Asr prayer on Thursday, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Ustad Hamidullah Fala'i, brother of Ustad Muhammad Abdul Qadir Khan, with the bride Sadar-ul-Jahan Begum, daughter of Janab Qasim Ali Khan Sahib Rampuri, with a dowry of five hundred rupees, and announced the marriage of Abdul Qadir Sahib, son of the late Hazrat Maulvi Muhammad Ismail Sahib, with the bride Begum Sahiba, daughter of Maulvi Chiragh Din Sahib of Qadian, with a dowry of one thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
"I have announced that besides my dear ones or those who are dear to me, or those whose relations with me are like my dear ones, I will not perform any marriage. Therefore, at this moment, the marriage for which the announcement is being made is that of the son of the late Maulvi Muhammad Ismail Sahib, Abdul Qadir Sahib, and my relations with the late Maulvi Sahib were such that based on them, my standing up for the announcement of this marriage is not against my announcement but exactly according to it. Firstly, Maulvi Sahib was my teacher. Secondly, you yourself were very fond of books and used to give many books as gifts to friends. Due to this, you were often busy. You had a love for buying books. You also gave me many books as gifts. Thirdly, the Tafsir Kabir, Volume Three, which has been published, its dictionary, translation, and editing mostly
The work was entrusted to them, and at the time of the final part, Maulvi Sahib had passed away, but the editing, glossary, and translation of the third volume that was published, they themselves did most of the work. After his demise, Maulvi Noor-ul-Haq Sahib undertook this work despite not having the scholarly foundation like Maulvi Muhammad Ismail Sahib. Yet, due to their understanding of my intentions and by the grace of Allah, they were able to work according to my intentions. Based on these three reasons, announcing the marriages of Maulvi Sahib's children is not only not against my intentions but exactly according to them. After this sermon, Huzoor announced the marriage of the son of the late Maulvi Muhammad Ismail Sahib, Abdul Qadir Sahib.
Huzoor said: "I have read the sermon, but I want to draw the attention of friends to one thing. Nowadays, there is a severe disease spreading that names are being elongated. If this trend continues, when taking names of the next generation, they will have to say their name and I will have to repeat it. In this very mosque, a similar incident occurred at a marriage ceremony. It so happened that Mufti Muhammad Sadiq Sahib was also sitting with me, and his son, Miyan Mansoor Ahmad Sahib, was engaged to the daughter of Syeda Aijaz Ali Sahib. During the announcement of the marriage, according to the protocol, I took Syed Sahib's name with respect, but when I took Syeda Sahiba's name, Miyan Sahib stood up with pride and said, 'My name is Syed Peer Mir Aijaz Ali Shah.' I took the name again in the same manner, but a part of the name was left out. Upon this, they knelt down and started to announce their name, and I kept repeating it. Everyone understood this joke, but they did not understand it and with great seriousness, they started saying, 'Syed Peer Mir Aijaz Ali Shah,' and I kept repeating it. It is a serious mistake to elongate names, like Syeda Akhtar Saeeda Anwar, and so on. This disease is present in both men and women. Salihah is a complete name, and there is no need to add anything more to it. Ummat-ul-Haq and Ummat-ul-Basit.
It is not said to elongate the name Rahim because it can only be said for Allah, not for anyone else. Similarly, Abdullah and Abdul Rahim are not elongated because Allah and Rahim cannot be said, so Abdul is added. Salihah Sadar-ul-Jahan Begum, this is a name of three parts. Nowadays, there is a wrong trend of keeping long names that should be eliminated. On this occasion, I instruct men and women to shorten their names. For example, Abu Bakr is a short name, but if Shams-ul-Huda's Badr-ud-Duja Abu Bakr is kept, it will become a cumbersome name. The name of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) is Muhammad, a short name, but where can the excellence found in this short name be in a cumbersome name? Lutf-ul-Fadl, July 3, 1945, page 8. Lutf (July 19, 1945, page 3).
On the occasion of marriage, instilling prayers with fear and humility
(Stated on September 27, 1946, after Maghrib prayer at 8 York Road, Delhi)
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"I have a headache at the moment, so I cannot speak much. I will read the sermon briefly. All the peace and security of the world is dependent on marriage. While this announcement may seem ordinary, in reality, all the politics, governance, and economic conditions of the world are dependent on marriage. And all the good deeds or trials that arise are based on marriage. Some people, seeing these trials, have spread the belief that marriages should not be conducted because all corruptions spread through them. Thus, the ways of Monk and Non have become prevalent, and people have adopted the path of monasticism so that no offspring are born and no corruptions spread. It seems as if they wanted to block the path of trial, but they did not think that what desire is placed within nature cannot be abandoned, and staying away from it is impossible for the world. Despite this, in the Christian world, there are thousands upon thousands of monks and nuns, but the population of the world has not decreased, and the doors of trials and corruptions have not closed. So, understanding that monasticism can bring peace to the world is entirely wrong, and neither can the world adopt it. Now the question arises, if this is a natural desire and humans are compelled to marry, and then through marriage, offspring are born, and corruptions spread due to the increase in offspring, then what should be done.
The answer to this is that the method of marriage should be adopted, which is beneficial for human nature and brings comfort and ease, and this is the original method presented by Islam. Islam states that if there is goodness and righteousness in your women, then this will also be present in your future generations, and they will not become a source of trial and corruption for the world but will become a means of peace for the world. And since children are born as a result of marriage, Islam has made it necessary that even on the occasion of marriage, husband and wife should be advised and counseled. Therefore, the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) always recited the verses that I have just recited on the occasion of marriage, which outline the responsibilities of parents and husband and wife. The custom of marriage is almost present in all communities. On this occasion, celebrations are held, meaning people play musical instruments and perform various customs. In Hindu traditions, dolls are made, and the couple is made to revolve. There is no doubt that this is a joyous occasion, but Islam has not only considered this occasion as a time of joy but has also commanded men and women to discuss it seriously and has stated that. The marriage you are entering into will result in children being born, from whom a thousand virtues or defects may arise, so while praying to Allah, put your efforts into this work. For example, look, even the prophets were born from women and were born as a result of marriages, and their enemies were also born from women and were born as a result of marriages, but there is a difference between heaven and earth. Pharaoh was in the time of Moses, that is, the one who was called Raameses, when his parents got married, how grand a celebration it must have been, how many lakhs of rupees must have been given as dowry, how many lamps must have been lit throughout the country that the prince was getting married, messages of congratulations must have come from every corner of the country, but no one knew that as a result of this grand marriage, a person would be born on whom curses would always befall, and when the parents of Hazrat Moses got married, how silent the marriage must have been, the parents of Hazrat Moses were poor people, they used to work in brick kilns, their happiness would have been that food would have been served to five to seven people. Throughout the country, not a single lamp was lit, not even in one city, not even in one village, but
In any village lane, such a grand celebration has never taken place, nor has it happened in their own house. But who could have said that as a result of this silent marriage, a person would be born on whom blessings from all corners of the world would be sent. On one side is that grand marriage from which a person is born upon whom all the curses of the world fall, and on the other side is the silent marriage from which a person is born upon whom blessings are sent morning and evening. Similarly, during the time of Hazrat Isa (Jesus), when the great Pharisees were born, the marriages of their parents must have been with such grandeur and noise that the whole country was stirred up that the prince of the world was getting married. But when Hazrat Isa (Jesus) was born, the Jewish scholars gave him severe troubles and denied his birth, slandering his mother that God forbid, this is an illegitimate child, and made extreme efforts to crucify Hazrat Isa (Jesus). They were successful in crucifying him, but Allah Almighty brought Hazrat Isa (Jesus) down alive from the cross and cursed those who followed the Jewish ways. Jews are cursed wherever they go. Hitler, Mussolini, and Franco have caused the deaths of millions of people. They have been cursed to such an extent that a hundred years have passed, and Jews have shed millions of blood, but that curse does not leave them. All this happened because they opposed Hazrat Isa (Jesus) and crucified him. Due to this behavior, Allah Almighty has given progress to the followers of Hazrat Isa (Jesus) to the extent that they have spread all over the world. This was the situation at the time of the birth of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him). When Abu Jahl was born, no one knows how many sacrifices were made and how many invitations were sent. At that time, people would say what a blessed child this is, for whom so many sacrifices have been made and so many poor people have been fed. But when the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him) was born, at that time, your parents had already passed away, and you came into this world as an orphan, but the child whom people thought was a great blessing, he went far away from his homeland, suffered a cursed death, and fell into the pit of disgrace forever, and today no one even likes to take his name. Even his own children did not like to take his name, but where there is no one present to take his name, there are those who take the name of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him).
Millions of people exist in the world even though you had no offspring. So, Allah Almighty says, "Let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow." For all these actions have significant consequences. Therefore, enter the house of Allah with righteousness and fear, and strive to live your life according to the commands of Allah. If you do not do so, dangerous consequences will arise for your future generations. Therefore, at the time of marriage, men and women should pray for other relatives that Allah Almighty may make this occasion a source of comfort and tranquility for them. When the house of Allah is left empty of righteousness, then marriages become a cause of destruction for the world. Europeans, because they marry solely for selfish desires, are facing negative consequences of their marriages, and all nations are at each other's throats, wanting to destroy one another, and one nation desires to ruin the other. Because it is Allah Almighty's law that whenever marriages are done for fulfilling selfish desires, their consequences turn out to be negative, and their offspring become a source of trial and corruption for their nation, and today we witness this scenario in Europe. Therefore, worldly conquests are not as important; the victory of a nation or the rise of a hand is not as crucial as the occurrence of marriages and the birth of children. Some people forget Allah Almighty on these occasions and act against the Sharia, even though this is an occasion where a person should immerse themselves in prayers with full humility so that Allah Almighty, forgiving their mistakes and stumbles, brings forth the good outcomes of marriage. Our community should especially consider that on occasions of marriages and unions, their actions and deeds should not be like those of others, and they should bow before Allah Almighty on this occasion so that Allah Almighty, by His grace, creates real marriages out of these ceremonies. Many things happen that a person is unaware of or cannot rectify on their own, and they are beyond their control. Prayer is the best tool for improvement in such situations. (Al-Fadl, December 1, 1960, page 3, 4) The division of the two groups could not be determined. Surah Al-Hashr: 19
The Real Honor Lies in Serving the Faith
(Delivered on April 26, 1947)
After the Maghrib prayer on April 26, 1947, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Malik Faizur Rahman Sahib, a student of Talim-ul-Islam College, with the honorable Miss Wasima Begum, daughter of respected Syed Waliullah Shah Sahib, the Superintendent of Public Affairs, for a dowry of three thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"Our community is a congregation established by Allah Almighty, and it should have the most profound realization of the importance and grandeur of faith. However, with regret, I have to say that a segment of the youth in the community is becoming increasingly unaware of this importance. Instead of considering the service of faith as a great blessing from Allah Almighty and comparing it with the highest honors of the world, they consider it completely insignificant and lowly. The pursuit of worldly gains is elevating them, and a kind of indifference to religious activities is emerging among them. I understand that a significant responsibility also falls on those who, in comparison to those who dedicate their lives to religious activities, give high status and distinction to those who lead worldly lives and maintain exclusive behavior towards them. The consequence of this is that the youth, who are currently unfamiliar with religious matters, begin to think that the real honor lies in earning worldly wealth and giving high status and respect to those who lead worldly lives in their gatherings. This results in young people, who are currently unaware of the essence of faith, starting to believe that the true honor lies in worldly earnings and in their
Developing a Sense of Elevated Position
I have often mentioned that the real reward for those who present themselves for the service of religion is with Allah Almighty. However, as far as the responsibility of the community is concerned, it can never be lightened until they do not eliminate the perception within themselves that a worldly official holds no real significance in comparison to those who dedicate themselves to the service of religion. If you maintain this perception, the zeal for serving religion will remain alive in your children, and you will always have people willing to sacrifice their lives for the sake of religion. But if you also start giving respect to those who seek worldly honors and when someone intends to lead a worldly life, relatives start saying, "Where will he eat from?" then the zeal for serving religion will disappear from the hearts of your future generations, and they will start saying, "Let us also walk the path where we can gain respect in this world." Undoubtedly, true honor is attained by a righteous person, and the real reward is what is granted by Allah Almighty. But nothing remains unaffected by its environment. So, I urge the community to bring about a change in this attitude and never let a question arise regarding those who serve religion, "Where will they eat from?" so that there will always be people available who are willing to sacrifice for the sake of religion. You can criticize Christians as much as you want, but their practice of establishing a system of priests and then giving them a place of respect has never been overlooked, as they have maintained the dignity of their religion. Their priest receives a salary from the government and is then seated with respect in every gathering, but a Muslim cleric wanders around asking for bread and then becomes humiliated and belittled in the eyes of his own followers. Now, how can a cleric be respected when he is dependent on others even for his daily bread? Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) used to say that there were two priests in Qadian who, despite their poverty, kept the system of priests running and then elevated them to a position of respect in their religion. Their priest asks for bread and moves around, becoming lowly and insignificant in the eyes of his own followers. Now, how can a cleric be respected when he is dependent on others even for his daily bread? Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) used to say that there were two priests in Qadian who, despite their poverty, kept the system of priests running and then elevated them to a position of respect in their religion. Their priest asks for bread and moves around, becoming lowly and insignificant in the eyes of his own followers. Now, how can a cleric be respected when he is dependent on others even for his daily bread? Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) used to say that there were two priests in Qadian who, despite their poverty, kept the system of priests running and then elevated them to a position of respect in their religion. Their priest asks for bread and moves around, becoming lowly and insignificant in the eyes of his own followers. Now, how can a cleric be respected when he is dependent on others even for his daily bread? Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) used to say that there were two priests in Qadian who, despite their poverty, kept the system of priests running and then elevated them to a position of respect in their religion. Their priest asks for bread and moves around, becoming lowly and insignificant in the eyes of his own followers. Now, how can a cleric be respected when he is dependent on others even for his daily bread? Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) used to say that there were two priests in Qadian who, despite their poverty, kept the system of priests running and then elevated them to a position of respect in their religion.
At times, disputes arose over the shroud of a deceased person, where one would say, "It's my right," and another would say, "It's my right." You used to say that upon witnessing these disputes, our elders in Qadian divided them into two parts to avoid conflict. But after two to three days, a weeping man came to the elders. The elders asked, "What's the matter?" He cried out, "Mirza Sahib, you did not do justice." The elders inquired, "What happened with you?" He tearfully replied, "The people you placed in my share are so short that even a small handkerchief cannot be made from the shroud. Now, imagine, where the morals of the people are so low, what hope can there be for progress? However, when Christians go to their priests, governments levy taxes on them and allocate a reasonable portion from these taxes for their priests. They do not live on handouts of bread and shrouds. This is why no one looks at them with disdain; instead, they are respected in every gathering and society, and wherever they go, they are seated with honor. You may criticize Christians as much as you want, but their respect for priests has never been overlooked. They maintain the dignity of their religion. Their priest receives a salary from the government and is then seated with respect in every gathering. But the situation of Muslims is such that if there is an invitation, the cleric, after everyone has eaten, arrives with an empty plate tucked under his arm, and the household members hand over broken pieces to him. In childhood, we heard a joke that a boy took a bowl filled with kheer (rice pudding) to his cleric and said, "Uncle, my mother has sent this kheer for you too." The cleric was initially incredulous and asked in amazement, "Kheer - the boy replied, "Yes, it's kheer." The cleric found the extraordinary generosity of the boy's mother unusual and began to ask the boy. "What happened today that she showed such kindness?" The boy replied, "Uncle, the real thing is that the kheer was kept cold to be served, but a dog came and ate it.
The dog ran away with the food, but the mother said, "Why waste the remaining kheer? Go and give it to Mullah Ji." So, I am bringing it to you. When Mullah Ji heard this, he became extremely upset and threw the plate far away, which fell and broke. Seeing this, the boy started crying. Mullah Ji said, "Unfortunate child, why are you crying over a broken plate? You brought kheer, and I did not refuse it; it's just an ordinary incident." The boy began to say, "It's ordinary, but my mother will beat me severely because this plate was not meant for food; it was meant for the toilet. Now, where will our end be if we have to sit on a plate?" Now, look at the situation of Muslims. In contrast, look at how priests are treated with respect, seated in high positions in significant gatherings, and honored. In recent days, when the British emperor was deposed, and rumors were rampant, the Christian priests in England protested against the beliefs contrary to Christianity, and to the extent that they said if this happened, they would not take any part in government positions. Consequently, when the prince did not heed their words, they were forced to step down from their throne. These are the things that have led to the progress of nations. Then, young people from prominent families come forward to dedicate their lives to service and are sent anywhere to work. This is not a doubt that our community is also advancing step by step in the system of dedication. However, I have often seen that when it comes to people who dedicate their lives to service, questions are raised by their relatives, "Where will they eat from?" This is a question that was not even raised by the polytheistic priests of the Christian nation after passing a century, and it never occurred to them to question where they would eat from. But it is regrettable to say that our community members have not allowed a century to pass, and this question has been raised. Think for a moment that when the roots are of this kind, what will be the condition of the tree ahead? If there is a reality of bread, there should also be a reality of serving religion. Is serving bread and curry more valuable than serving religion? A person who is sincerely dedicated to serving religion cannot have the thought in his heart of questioning where he will eat from because his heart cannot produce the idea that he will eat from
Putting Trust in Allah
Only a person who is familiar with the reality of serving religion can pledge such a commitment. Otherwise, a person who understands the essence of religion will be ashamed to ask such questions, and when such thoughts arise in the heart, they will feel remorseful and, acknowledging their mistake, will prostrate before Allah, saying, "O my God! This was my folly and ignorance that such thoughts arose in my heart. I sincerely pledge before You and am ready to serve the religion without any demands. Until these questions continue to arise in the hearts of our community members, or those who dedicate themselves to worldly pursuits, the prospects of progress and success will be impossible to achieve. This realization must be eradicated from within, and every individual in our community, whether young or old, man or woman, small or big, must fill their hearts with the belief that whatever exists is indeed the religion. Until this feeling is removed and the community members or those who dedicate themselves to worldly pursuits continue to raise such questions, progress and success will be unattainable. This realization must be eradicated from within, and every individual in our community, whether young or old, man or woman, small or big, must fill their hearts with the belief that whatever exists is indeed the religion. This realization must be eradicated from within, and every individual in our community, whether young or old, man or woman, small or big, must fill their hearts with the belief that whatever exists is indeed the religion. This realization must be eradicated from within, and every individual in our community, whether young or old, man or woman, small or big, must fill their hearts with the belief that whatever exists is indeed the religion. As long as this feeling is not eradicated, and every individual in our community, whether young or old, man or woman, small or big, does not fill their hearts with the belief that the essence of religion is the greatest, the highest, and the most exalted, the path to progress will be unattainable. Every individual in our community must understand this well, that the service of religion is the greatest, the highest, and the most exalted, and they must not allow questions like, "Where will they eat from?" to arise in their hearts, so that there will always be people available who are willing to sacrifice their lives for the sake of religion. This awareness must be instilled within the community, and every member must realize that serving religion is the greatest, the highest, and the most exalted, and they must never allow questions like, "Where will they eat from?" to arise in their hearts, so that there will always be people available who are willing to sacrifice their lives for the sake of religion. This awareness must be instilled within the community, and every member must realize that serving religion is the greatest, the highest, and the most exalted, and they must never allow questions like, "Where will they eat from?" to arise in their hearts, so that there will always be people available who are willing to sacrifice their lives for the sake of religion. This awareness must be instilled within the community, and every member must realize that serving religion is the greatest, the highest, and the most exalted, and they must never allow questions like, "Where will they eat from?" to arise in their hearts, so that there will always be people available who are willing to sacrifice their lives for the sake of religion.
Unattainable Progress without the Right Mindset
The progress we envision cannot be achieved until the greatest scholar, the greatest doctor, the greatest lawyer, the greatest merchant, and the greatest industrialist among us do not feel within themselves the joy and honor when they hear that someone has dedicated their life to serve religion and consider them more honorable than themselves. At this moment, we are dreaming of a dream that can never be expressed in embarrassment, and our saying that our community will conquer the whole world for the sake of Islam is just lip service. So, I draw the community's attention that it is not a trivial matter to not care about it, but you should engrave it in your hearts like a sheikh so deeply that every individual in the community is convinced of this and remains convinced until the Day of Judgment that the one who serves the religion is the most honorable. (Al-Fazl, April 28, 1937, Page 1; Al-Fazl, November 8, 1971, Page 32)
Clement Richard Attlee (1883-1967)Prime Minister of the First Majority Labour Government (1945-51)
Honorable Chaudhry Zahoor Ahmad Bajwa mentioned that he was the Imam of the London Mosque during those days. The sisters of Prime Minister Clement Attlee were missionaries in East Africa. But Bashir Ahmad Orchard met him at a meeting and invited him to the mosque. She was already acquainted with our missionaries in East Africa and had knowledge of Ahmadiyyat. Looking at Bashir Ahmad Orchard, she said:
"I have spent my life in East Africa but The light I see in your face I have not seen before."
The Position of Those Acquainted with Life
(Delivered on June 7, 1947)
On June 7, 1947, after the Maghrib prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of the dear Miss Aziza Begum, daughter of Hakim Rahmat Ali Sahib of Delhi, with Mr. Mirza Abdul Haq, a lawyer from Gordaspur, for a dowry of two thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"Regarding marriages, my general practice is to solemnize marriages of those acquainted with life or sometimes those with whom I have personal relations, and those relations are such that they deserve to have their marriages solemnized. However, it is not because I prioritize those acquainted with life over others or consider those acquainted with life honorable and others lowly. Rather, because the community has progressed by the grace of Allah Almighty, and business has expanded, it becomes very difficult to allocate time for such tasks. Yes, when a marriage that deserves to be solemnized by me takes place, sometimes other marriages are also included. Today, the marriage I am announcing, the groom may not be acquainted with life, but the bride's father, Hakim Abdul Haq Sahib, is acquainted with life, and we have not yet allocated time for such tasks."
Not Assigned to the Central Work
Hazrat Mahmud's speeches were not included in the series and they have been given permission to continue their work and also participate in some essential tasks of the community, but they dedicate enough time for the community's work and come to Qadian every Sunday. Additionally, their relationships with me are old and those relationships are such that they are dear to me, so I thought it appropriate to solemnize the marriage of their daughter. There is no doubt that the spirit of sacrifice is found in individuals of our community by the grace of Allah Almighty. Alhamdulillah, and they are all good. However, it is not doubted that some are better than others among these good people, and some are less good. The Holy Prophet ﷺ has said about all his companions, may Allah be pleased with them and they were pleased with Him, but there were also degrees among them, and some companions excelled over others due to their sacrifice, dedication, and sincerity. This is also the case with our community, so due to the religious sacrifices of some individuals in worldly tasks, some are preferred over others, and when work increases, limitations have to be imposed. There is a sickness within our community that was not present among the companions, and that is that every person in our community is in search of a new path through which they can work with the current Khalifa and every one of them wishes that some of their tasks be done by the current Khalifa. For example, if someone wants to build a house, they come to me and say, "Please lay the foundation bricks." I also understood that their wish would be fulfilled, so I did not refuse it, but when others saw that the current Khalifa had laid the foundation bricks of a certain person's house, then whoever wanted to build a house said, "Please lay the foundation bricks of my house too." In this way, a Khalifa should be required to lay the bricks of a house. Similarly, in Qadian, marriages and weddings continue to take place, and whenever someone's wedding takes place or someone invites their friends or dear ones, or invites for a meal, first one, then another, and then I saw that everyone started inviting me. Now, since it was not possible for me to accept one's request and reject the other's and because the one whose request was accepted was happy and the one whose request was not accepted felt hurt, I stopped this trend. A friend was typhoid sick the other day and one day they asked for water
A glass of water was also sent to me to be heated because of their old age and then because they were sick, it would be uncomfortable for them. I heated the water and gave it to them, but then the next day, the day after, and then the routine of sending water began, and I also continued to heat and give water. They were fine after that, but I remained in anticipation of when they would think of sending water to others. So, today, another friend also sent a glass of water to be heated. I thought now the trend of sending water should be stopped, and I should only be dedicated to heating water, leaving aside other tasks of the routine. Therefore, I returned the glass and said, "Let it be. I accepted one's request out of kindness, now I will not accept the request of another." The Holy Prophet ﷺ was once sitting in a gathering and mentioning the bounties bestowed by Allah Almighty upon the Prophets, and I have received abundant bounties from Allah Almighty. Upon hearing this, a companion stood up and requested, "O Messenger of Allah! Pray for me too that I may remain with you in Paradise." You prayed for him. Seeing this, others also stood up and began to request prayers. You said, "I have prayed for one, I cannot pray for others now." This is just one example, and there will be many such examples. The companions understood this well that since the Holy Prophet is a human being, and a human being is just a human being, and he cannot bring about the reformation of the whole world and also accomplish all our tasks, they did not burden you with their personal tasks. And the companions had such an understanding that Hazrat Abdur Rahman bin Auf, who was an extremely high-ranking companion and was also among the ten promised Paradise, and regarding whom the Holy Prophet ﷺ once said, "As long as Abdur Rahman bin Auf is alive, there will be no corruption in my Ummah." One day, Abdur Rahman bin Auf came to the Holy Prophet ﷺ, and there were some stains of dye on his clothes, and the stains were of the type that are commonly applied on clothes during weddings in the Arab culture. You said
Abdul Rahman, How Are These Stains on Your Clothes?
He said, "O Messenger of Allah! I have been married." How surprising it is that when the marriage of Hazrat Abdul Rahman bin Auf, who was such an esteemed companion, took place, the Holy Prophet ﷺ was not even aware of it. Who could have been more deserving of having their marriage solemnized by you than Hazrat Abdul Rahman bin Auf? But because the companions were so considerate of preserving your precious time and ensuring that you could fully serve the religion, they did not mention it to you. Then you inquired from Hazrat Abdul Rahman about whose marriage had taken place. He replied, "It was with such an elderly woman." You remarked, "It would have been better if you had married a young girl." The reason for my restrictions on marriages and other matters is not that I consider some people lowly and others honorable. It is simply because I am a human being, and the burden of the community's tasks weighs heavily on me, and I cannot attend every occasion. Therefore, I have imposed limitations understanding the situation, and I do not participate in tasks unless there is a specific reason. If I were to accept every request, it would become burdensome, and Allah Almighty has entrusted me with the task of serving the religion, which I cannot fulfill completely. (Al-Fazl, December 8, 1960, Page 43; Al-Fazl, June 1947)
Al-Mujadila: 23It is narrated in Sahih Bukhari, Book of Dress, Chapter: Seventy Thousand People Will Enter Paradise Without Reckoning.
It is narrated in Sahih Bukhari, Book of Marriage, Chapter: How to Invite a Married Couple.
Developing High-Quality Upbringing
(Delivered on April 2, 1948)
On April 2, 1948, after the Maghrib prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of the esteemed Mr. Abdul Khaliq, son of respected Bhai Abdul Rahman of Qadian, with the honorable Miss Imtiaz, daughter of Dr. Munir Amritsari for two thousand rupees, and Hafiz Ahmad Khan, son of Chaudhry Nazir Hussain, with another bride.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"In this world, people are born and die. Some grow up to be great, while others remain small even after growing up. Just like how a seed or grain produces vegetation, only a knowledgeable person who knows what will come out of it can say whether it will produce ordinary grass or a huge tree. Some grasses and small plants grow and develop into such large trees that hundreds of people can rest under their shade and sit comfortably. Initially, they all look the same, but in the end, they become different. Some vegetation grows in such a way that all its vigor fades away in a month and a half, and then it dries up like dry grass. Some plants grow into strong trees or small plants that last for hundreds of years. Some flowers that are planted in bungalows wither away in a day or two.
Development of Spiritual Education and Physical Growth
While grass dries up, a grapevine can live up to a thousand years, a fig tree can last for hundreds of years, and a banyan tree can survive for centuries. Similarly, children who are not born are like grass or vegetation. No one can predict how they will turn out. Will they wither after a few days of bloom, or will their ordinary appearance bring joy to the beholder? Just as grass grows and then provides sustenance to animals, this child will become the prey of rulers and oppressors. They will serve, work at stations, or be in a state similar to grass that grows and provides shade for hundreds of people. Some may not live beyond ten or fifty years, but others may live for two hundred, five hundred, or a thousand years. Some may not last more than five years materially, but spiritually, they may endure even more. The Holy Prophet Muhammad ﷺ was granted Prophethood 1300 years ago, yet his era has not ended and will continue until the world exists. Even after that, individuals who follow his teachings and act upon the divine law will attain a superior life in the next world. I believe there is a resemblance between spiritual education and physical growth. What is a human being? A blade of grass or vegetation that grows in the forests is eaten by oxen or goats, and from that grass, milk is produced. Consuming that grass, the ox produces offspring, the offspring grows and reproduces, and then the goat produces milk. Subsequently, humans drink that milk and eat the fruits of the trees. This same grass forms the body, creates blood, and builds bones. The essence of these things is called semen, from which humans are born. The purpose of these transformations is to achieve eternal life, everlasting life, and a life that never ends after following God's commandments and dying. Whatever enters the next world becomes the essence of the soul that thrives on trades and vegetation.
Attainment of Eternal Life
Directly, life is not obtained from grass, nor is eternal life obtained from the earth. The flesh of a human does not attain eternal life within itself but attains eternal life from the soul that emerges from it. This is the case of spiritual life. Just as material objects are part of the soul, spiritual progress is achieved through spiritual teachings. Those teachings do not bring life within themselves or lead to paradise within themselves, but by acting upon them, the soul progresses and attains eternal life and then enters paradise. Just as material grass, crops, fruits, and trees transform into paradise, similarly, by walking on the paths of sincerity and piety, a human adopts a new form. The only difference is that the material is visible in this world and the soul is hidden, while in the next world, the soul becomes visible, and the material becomes hidden. Just as a coat is turned inside out, strangers turn it back and wear it again. The cloth remains the same; only the inside becomes the outside and the outside becomes the inside. When the material works, angels turn it inside out. The material disappears, and eternal life is attained. We see that this process has always been happening. Birth occurs, and as a result, a human is born. Sometimes the example is like grass, and sometimes like a fruit-bearing tree. Deaths occur; the cycle has always been there. We should learn a lesson from this mentioned in the verses: "O you who have believed, fear Allah. And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow." (Al-Hashr: 18)
It is important to see what kind of world one will leave behind. If their offspring are religious, righteous, capable, sacrificial, and altruistic, if they prioritize religion over worldly matters, then it should be understood that their next world will be good. And if their offspring are not like this, not religious, not righteous, lacking in sacrifice and altruism, then it will be bad for them and their offspring and also for the world. We plant a mulberry tree or a neem tree or some other tree, and we think that our offspring and the world will benefit from it and eat its fruits. So, who is more foolish than us? If we plant seeds and kernels of excellent fruits that are sweet and refreshing to the tongue or mind-refreshing, then we will be happy, and after four or five years, we and our offspring will enjoy its fruits. The purpose of this verse is extremely important; destruction comes from neglecting it, which is not keeping it in view. A person sows seeds for the purpose that one day it will become a tree and bear fruit, people will benefit from it. If the upbringing of children is done with this perspective, the future of the world can be somewhat pleasant. And if the upbringing of children is not done with this perspective, the future of the world cannot be pleasant. Even a cat loves its kittens, they say they love their kittens. But they cannot hope that their world will be good. A cat also loves its offspring, a snake also loves its offspring, a scorpion also loves its offspring. This is a basic thing; what is the difference between a believer's love for their children and a snake's or scorpion's love for their offspring? The difference is that a snake does not love its offspring because it will grow up to bite someone and cause their death. A scorpion does not love its offspring because when it grows up, it will sting a person, and their life will be in danger. But a believer loves their children so that they can make them human, work for the advancement of religion, and work for the dominance of peace. They understand that if they do so, their child is mine, otherwise, it is a snake's offspring. Once Hazrat Hasan asked Hazrat Ali, "Father, do you love me?"
Love for God and His Creation
Hasan asked, "Do you love me, Father?" You replied, "Yes." Hasan further inquired, "Do you love God?" You answered, "Yes." Hasan then remarked, "You love me and you love God, but if my love clashes with God's love, what will you do?" Ali said, "I will cast it aside. As long as this soul does not fulfill its purpose and faith is not enough for the reformation of the world, even the faith of the greatest individual is not sufficient for the world's reformation. The faith of a Prophet is not enough for the reformation of the future world. Allah Almighty says, "Convey that which has been revealed to you, so that it may benefit the people for the future world." Otherwise, your existence will be beneficial for yourself, beneficial for this world, but not for others. However, if you preach and establish your standing, your light will shine throughout time. When this perspective is understood, and love for children is considered an entrustment, like sacrificial animals prepared for Eid. The sacrificial animal of Eid is not slaughtered for it to be kissed and desired. If children are raised with this perspective and brought into existence, it will undoubtedly lead to the progress of religion. If upbringing is not done in this manner, then nothing will happen. God Almighty has made humans comprehensive of all creations, including animals. A human's child can be likened to the offspring of angels. If actions are deserving, they can also be called the offspring of angels. (Al-Fazl, 1948, Page 4; Al-Fazl, 1948, Page 473)
Al-Jami' li Ahkam al-Qur'an by Al-Qurtubi, Volume 8, Page 373, Printed in Cairo, 1939Surah Al-Hashr: 19
Surah Al-Ma'idah: 68
Announcement of Marriage Before the Friday Sermon
(Delivered on July 23, 1948, at Yaar House, Quetta)
On July 23, 1948, before the Friday sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of the honorable Mr. Syed Sharif Ahmad, son of Syed Abdul Hai Sahib of Mansoori, with the esteemed Miss Atiyya Begum, daughter of Seth Muhammad Azam Sahib:
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"It is not my usual practice to announce marriages with the Friday sermon, but due to my travel commitments and the difficulty of gathering everyone except on Fridays, I have deemed it appropriate to make the announcement before the Friday sermon. Mr. Seth Muhammad Azam Sahib, with whom I am announcing the marriage of Miss Atiyya Begum, has familial relations with us to the extent that I wished to deliver a longer sermon on this occasion, but I confine myself to the Friday sermon. (Al-Fazl, July 28, 1948, Page 1)
Announcement of Chaudhry Saeed Ahmad's Marriage
(Delivered on April 10, 1950)
On April 10, 1950, after the Asr prayer in Rabwah, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Chaudhry Saeed Ahmad, son of Mr. Darwish of Qadian, with Tahira Begum, daughter of Sheikh Khairuddin of Lucknow, for a dowry of four thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"As our dear ones are aware, some of our people in Qadian are fulfilling the duty of protecting it. Some are residents there, while others went there during turbulent times for the purpose of protection and then decided to reside there permanently due to the closure of routes. Among the residents, there is a sincere young man, Chaudhry Saeed Ahmad, who is also a member of the Ahmadiyya Community's administrative body. He had received approval from the (E.A.C) here, but with utmost sincerity, he preferred to return after giving priority to residing there and declined to come back. He is the son of Chaudhry Faiz Ahmad, who is a prince of the family, a dedicated worker in the community, and his grandfather, Chaudhry Ghulam Muhammad, was a close companion of Hazrat Promised Messiah (peace be upon him), a great sincere companion, a respected and influential leader in his area."
Marriage Announcements
Currently, there are approximately 320 residents here, including young, elderly, and middle-aged individuals. Some have reached an age where they may depart in a few years. Due to the decreasing number of residents day by day and the difficulties in traveling from Pakistan to here, it has been deemed appropriate to allow marriages between the residents here and the residents of India. By doing so, the population will increase gradually. For example, if fifty marriages take place, it will lead to the addition of fifty individuals, and then, God willing, there will be a gradual increase in population. Therefore, the first marriage in Qadian took place in the past, and now the second marriage of Chaudhry Saeed Ahmad, son of Seth Khairuddin of Lucknow, has been proposed. Seth Sahib is a sincere, righteous, and sacrificial individual and also the president of the community. After the partition, when I initiated a movement to address financial difficulties for a few months, it was discovered that they have been consistently contributing a monthly donation ranging from - to Rs. 1000. Hence, it is hoped that this relationship will be blessed and prosperous for both parties. Seth Khairuddin Sahib has appointed Mufti Muhammad Sadiq Sahib as the guardian from his side, and Saeed Ahmad Sahib has appointed his father, Chaudhry Faiz Ahmad Sahib, who resides here, as the guardian. Therefore, I announce this marriage. (Al-Fazl, April 23, 1950, Page 173)
Along with this, an article by Hazrat Mirza Bashir Ahmad Sahib published in Al-Fazl on April 16, 1950, related to the marriage, is also included below:
On April 10, 1950, after the Asr prayer in Rabwah, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of Chaudhry Saeed Ahmad, son of Mr. Darwish of Qadian, with Tahira Begum, daughter of Sheikh Khairuddin of Lucknow, for a dowry of four thousand rupees. Hazrat expressed joy in his marriage sermon, mentioning the sincerity and service of both families and their religious devotion. Chaudhry Saeed Ahmad, son of Darwish of Qadian, was described by Hazrat as a descendant of Chaudhry Ghulam Muhammad Sahib, a resident of Pohla Maharaj, Sialkot District, who, besides being an old companion, was a great sincere companion of the Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) and a respected and influential leader in his area. Chaudhry Saeed Ahmad himself, while expressing his well wishes for his worldly progress (as he had been recommended for selection in the E.A.C.), gave precedence to his spiritual development (as he chose the ascetic life in Qadian) and his father, Chaudhry Faiz Ahmad Sahib, Inspector of Beit-ul-Mal Rabwah, also a dedicated worker. On the other hand, Seth
Regarding Seth Khairuddin Sahib of Lucknow
Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II mentioned about Seth Khairuddin Sahib, the president of the community in Lucknow, that he is a very righteous and sacrificial individual. After the partition, he committed to fulfilling his financial obligations with great sincerity. It is hoped that this relationship will be blessed and prosperous for both parties. Seth Khairuddin Sahib appointed Mufti Muhammad Sadiq Sahib as the guardian from his side, and Chaudhry Saeed Ahmad Sahib appointed his father, Chaudhry Faiz Ahmad Sahib, as the guardian.
Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II further stated during the sermon that due to the limited interaction between Qadian and Pakistan after the partition, it has been deemed appropriate to encourage relationships between the residents of Qadian and the residents of India for a better and progressive life in Qadian. This marriage is a result of that initiative, and previously, another marriage had taken place in Qadian.
Announcement of Some Marriages in Qadian
(Delivered on May 22, 1951)
On May 22, 1951, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriages of the honorable Mr. Younas Ahmad, son of Master Muhammad Shafi Sahib of Islamabad, and Mr. Muhammad Ibrahim Sahib, a tailor, with dowries of one thousand rupees each. The brides are esteemed daughters of Mr. Qureshi Habib Ahmad of Burewala, India. The announcement of these marriages was made at eleven o'clock in the morning at Hazrat's office in Rabwah. On this occasion, Hazrat also announced the marriage of Sheikh Nasiruddin Ahmad Sahib, son of Dr. Badruddin Ahmad Sahib of Rabwah, and the esteemed Miss Hamidah Sahibah, daughter of the late Mr. Abdul Hamid Khan Sahib of Rabwah, for a dowry of seven hundred fifty rupees:
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"Since the interaction between Qadian and Pakistan is delayed, Qadian is our sacred place, and it is our duty to protect it. Therefore, it was necessary for a part of our community to stay there and safeguard the sacred places and symbols of Allah. However, since it is difficult for the youth to remain unmarried for a long time, I suggested that the residents of Qadian should marry individuals from outside so that they can find peace and tranquility. In Arab countries, there is a tradition of marrying non-nationals, despite thirteen hundred years having passed, and"
Marriage and Cultural Exchange
Despite the thousands of flaws that have emerged in them, their dignity still remains intact to the extent that if a resident of any country goes to them and arranges the marriage of his daughter with them, they do not feel any hesitation. As a result, today, Arab girls are present among the Ethiopians, Chinese girls are present among the Arabs, and Arab girls are present among European Muslims. The purpose of Islamic brotherhood is such a fundamental thing that the Arabs have maintained it till now. I believe this is a great miracle of the Holy Prophet (peace be upon him), but it is unfortunate that the rest of the Muslims have abandoned its practice, and they feel hesitation in marrying their daughters to non-nationals, not even from a different province but from different districts. Nowadays, the condition of Muslims is such that just the other day, Mr. Khanz and Mr. Rashid Ahmed, Americans, we married them here. They are both non-nationals and are feeling cramped. Their daughters have certainly worked in unison. It is not a national sacrifice but merely an individual sacrifice. But even on these marriages, non-Ahmadis have started creating a stir that now non-nationals are being given our daughters. Now they will go out and spy. Apparently, they are objecting to the manifestation of Islamic spirit. They have objected to the manifestation of true Islamic spirit. However, this thing is extremely necessary for progress. In any case, when I initiated the movement to give the daughters of Ahmadi Qadianis from other provinces, twelve to fourteen marriages took place, and now slowly and gradually, marriages are taking place, and it is certain that after marriage, they will find a kind of peace, and due to living in a cramped place, the restlessness in their hearts will not remain the same. The relationship between husband and wife is such that without it, a person cannot lead a peaceful life for long. But when the wife and children are together, then even for years, a person does not feel the burdens. Our country's merchants go abroad, sometimes they are there for fifteen years. They go to Rawalpindi, Jalandhar, and stay outside for ten to fifteen years. Similarly, traders doing the Phiri's work stay outside for years, and they do not feel anxious because it has become a habit for their nation. Other people do not have this habit, so they feel restless without marriage.
Benefits of Marriage and Family Life
People feel anxious. If they get married and have their wives with them, they start bearing difficult situations with joy, and their parents also remain happy. Because they keep receiving news that now their son has been born, now their daughter has been born, they feel happy sitting far away with the thought that our lineage is continuing. Then not only do they achieve peace of mind, but this feeling also disappears that I have become a prisoner somewhere. A person sitting in one place sometimes gets anxious, but the benefit of marriages is that if someone gets anxious and his marriage, for example, has taken place in Meerut or Shahjahanpur, he will go to his in-laws for a month and thus can overcome his anxiety. On one hand, he will understand that he is not a prisoner, and on the other hand, his parents will feel the pain of his separation, but with the thought that their son's household is thriving, their shock will relatively decrease. (Al-Fazl, June 1, 1951, Page 372)
Announcement of the Marriage of an American Girl
(Delivered on June 26, 1951)
On June 26, 1951, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Chaudhry Shakur Elahi Sahib and Miyan Abdul Hai Sahib with Miss Bushra Saeed Sahibah and Ummatul Aziz Sahibah, daughter of Dr. Badruddin Ahmad Sahib. Hazrat delivered this announcement at ten o'clock in the morning at his office. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"These two marriages that I am announcing are both significant marriages. My health does not permit me to elaborate, but these marriages are such that I wish to say something on this occasion. One marriage is of Chaudhry Shakur Elahi Sahib with Saeedah Bushra Sahibah, who are among the first American white family members. Perhaps there have been other white American Ahmadis before, but this girl has some qualities that even those people who are not related to Islamic regions or Islamic education do not possess. When Saeedah embraced Islam, her parents were not pleased. There was no difficulty for them to pass because in Europe and America, boys and girls, when they reach youth, try to bear their own burden. It was not a concern for them to pass because in Europe and America, boys and girls, when they reach youth, try to bear their own burden. It is not like our country's people who, like children, remain dependent on their parents until the end of their lives. There, the situation is such that when the child reaches adolescence, they try to handle their own responsibilities. It is not like our country's people who, like children, remain dependent on their parents until the end of their lives. There, the situation is such that when the child reaches adolescence, they try to handle their own responsibilities."
Challenges Faced in Marriages
The question arises when it comes to past experiences. While the question itself was not difficult, various criticisms and objections had to be endured because the brides used to live with their parents and continue to do so, different occasions led to different kinds of criticisms and objections. Their bias was such that a relative of theirs complained of diabetes, and even Chaudhry Sahib was also complained to. When this complaint was mentioned to Chaudhry Sahib, he was advised to refer to a doctor who declined the Muslim's recommendation. Since becoming a Muslim, she has been actively involved in preaching, writing tracts, and distributing them. She has been very enthusiastic about the cause and recently even made a dedication and prepared to come here, but I stopped her as we do not have staff to train her. Along with this, I decided that a Muslim woman should marry a Muslim man, and I initiated this movement, which they accepted, and this marriage was settled with Chaudhry Shakur Elahi Sahib. The second marriage was settled with Miyan Abdul Hai Sahib and Ummatul Aziz Sahibah, daughter of Dr. Badruddin Ahmad Sahib. The arrival of Dr. Sahib is only essential for the needs of the mission. Abdul Hai Sahib is well-versed in life and is dedicated; his childhood was dedicated by his father. Initially, he was appointed in Malaya, and nowadays, he is working in Bali. (Al-Fazl, July 20, 1951, Page 2)
Permission for Mourning More Than Three Days Except for the Husband
(Delivered on June 27, 1951)
On June 27, 1951, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of respected Mrs. Amina Begum Sahibah, daughter of Malik Khuda Bakhsh Sahib of Lahore, with a dowry of five thousand rupees, to Mr. Naimatullah Khan Sahib, son of Babu Muhammad Alam Khan Sahib, late M.B.A., from Mombasa, Kenya.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"A month and a half ago, Malik Ata-ul-Mannan came to me for advice on this marriage. It is Allah's will that he has passed away, but there are various reasons for Allah's will that man does not understand. However, despite this shock, I considered it appropriate that the marriage should proceed according to the previous recommendation. The cycle of life and death is intertwined with human beings; no one can separate it by their own planning. Islam has not allowed women, besides the husband, to mourn more than three days, and when this matter was mentioned to me, I said that marriage should not be stopped for this reason, and I am happy that both parties have accepted my advice. May Allah Almighty make this occasion blessed in every way, turning it into a means of healing the wounds of the affected family and bless this relationship for both parties. The two young individuals of this family are engaged in Jihad. In this respect, they truly deserve your prayers."
Return of Malik Ata-ul-Mannan and Malik Ehsanullah
Beloved ones, it is pleasing to hear that Malik Ata-ul-Rahman Sahib and Malik Ehsanullah Sahib have received instructions for their return and will soon embark on their journey. May Allah bring them back in good health. (Al-Fazl, July 5, 1951, Page 4)
Respected Mrs. Amina Begum Sahibah, daughter of Malik Khuda Bakhsh Sahib of Lahore, and Mr. Malik Ata-ul-Mannan Sahib, former missionary to France, and Mr. Malik Ehsanullah Sahib, former missionary to West Africa, are siblings. (Al-Fazl, July 5, 1951)
Malik Ata-ul-Mannan Sahib, son of Malik Khuda Bakhsh Sahib, passed away at the age of 24 on June 13, 1951. (Al-Fazl, June 28, 1951)
Announcement of Two Marriages Before the Annual Session
(Delivered on December 26, 1951)
On December 26, 1951, before the annual session, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Prince Mirza Wasim Ahmad Sahib with Ummatul Qudus Begum Sahibah, daughter of Dr. Mir Muhammad Ismail Sahib, with a dowry of one thousand rupees, and the marriage of Peer Muinuddin Sahib with Sahibzadi Ummatul Nasir Begum Sahibah with a dowry of one thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"In some cases, I wish to announce two marriages before the start of the session. I did not make this matter clear earlier because many loved ones present their papers, and they take so much time that it affects the speech or the session. The two marriages I want to announce are, first, of my son Mirza Wasim Ahmad, who has been sitting in Qadian since the early days of migration. This marriage is with Ummatul Qudus Begum, who is the daughter of our late and forgiven uncle Mir Muhammad Ismail Sahib, with a dowry of one thousand rupees. On the girl's side, her paternal uncle is Syed Dawood Ahmad, and on the boy's side, the acceptance has come in my name. After this, I said to Syed Dawood Ahmad that you are being accepted by the real guardians of Ummatul Qudus and by Ummatul Qudus Begum herself, and the marriage has been settled with a dowry of one thousand rupees."
Announcement of Two Marriages Before the Annual Session
(Delivered on December 26, 1951)
On December 26, 1951, before the annual session, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Prince Mirza Wasim Ahmad Sahib with Ummatul Qudus Begum Sahibah, daughter of Dr. Mir Muhammad Ismail Sahib, with a dowry of one thousand rupees, and the marriage of Peer Muinuddin Sahib with Sahibzadi Ummatul Nasir Begum Sahibah with a dowry of one thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"I now announce on behalf of Mirza Wasim Ahmad that he has accepted the marriage proposal of Ummatul Qudus Begum, daughter of the late Dr. Mir Muhammad Ismail Sahib, with a dowry of one thousand rupees. The second marriage is of Ummatul Nasir Begum, my daughter, with Peer Muinuddin, with a dowry of one thousand rupees, son of the late Peer Akbar Ali Sahib. You will be aware that I am arranging the marriages of my daughters only with those who are well-versed in life, and in this relationship, my attraction was also that the boy is well-versed in life. I announce the acceptance of this marriage with a dowry of one thousand rupees from Peer Muinuddin, son of the late Peer Akbar Ali Sahib, to Ummatul Nasir Begum. After their acceptance, Hazrat said:
"Friends, now pray. Then the session will begin. So, all friends gathered together and offered a long prayer." (Al-Fazl, January 1, 1952, Page 1) (Al-Fazl, January 1, 1952, Page 3)
Seek Life and Allah's Blessings
(Delivered on July 14, 1952)
On July 14, 1952, after the Asr prayer at Masjid Mubarak, Rabwah, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of respected Mrs. Sarah Burgess Sahibah, daughter of Dr. Abdul Hameed Sahib of Chughtai Dar-ul-Salam, outside Delhi, with a dowry of one thousand rupees, to Mr. Haroon-ur-Rasheed Sahib, son of Mukarram Peer Mazhar-ul-Haq Sahib, Treasurer of the Ahmadiyya Association in Pakistan. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II said:
"Dr. Abdul Hameed Sahib Chughtai of Lahore belongs to an old sincere Ahmadi family. That is, they are from the family members who had sincere relations with Hazrat Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) from the beginning of the call. Mr. Chiragh-ud-Din Sahib, the late, whose grandson is Dr. Abdul Hameed Sahib, and the girl is his granddaughter, they had such old relations with Hazrat Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) that when I was born, my Aqiqah (sacrifice at birth) was also held in Lahore. Understand how old their relations were. At the time of my birth, Hazrat Promised Messiah (peace be upon him) also announced their allegiance. And they embraced the call of Christianity about a year and a half later. So, inviting them to my Aqiqah ceremony in Lahore could have been done in the same way when they were years ago. They have sincere relations. It seems that the age of their relations with this family is older than my age. Less
Understanding Relationships
If we understand that relationships from seven to eight years ago are proven, my birth took place in 1889. In this regard, it should be understood that their relationships with Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) date back to 1880, as if they are from the time of the signs or even before that. So, in this marriage, one party is from the family of Miyan Chiragh-ud-Din Sahib. The other party is also from such old relations, i.e., from the family of Peer Mazhar-ul-Haq Sahib, who is the father of the boy. This Peer Afzal Ahmad Sahib's sons are Peer Akbar Ali Sahib's sons, and Peer Akbar Ali Sahib was the cousin of Hazrat Khalifa I and the son of Sufi Ahmad Jan Sahib of Ludhiana. They had received the glad tidings even before the call of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) that one day they would be successful in the position of Christianity. So, they wrote in their letter even before the call of Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) that:
"We belong to the sick; you are the one who sees, you are the Messiah, you are the God. Until that time, Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) had not yet made the claim, but due to spirituality and piety, Allah Almighty revealed this to them. And when people started objecting even after the claim, Allah Almighty had already informed them before the claim that we are going to make it a reality. See how great the difference is between spiritual insight and physical sight. Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) was only one entity, not two. But after making a claim, despite not providing any evidence, showing all kinds of signs, the clerics still considered him a disbeliever. They heard the claim, listened to the evidence, saw the signs, witnessed the miracles, but still issued a fatwa that this person is a disbeliever. But the other man who was spiritual did not hear the claim, did not listen to the evidence, did not see the signs, did not witness the miracles, but his eyes sensed that the lights of Allah Almighty were descending upon him. And before that, he claimed that I confirm you. This is such a clear difference that is evident. One eye sees before the claim, and the other eye, even after hearing the claim and evidence, cannot see. The purpose of their relationship was based on extreme sincerity with Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him). And for this reason, when Hazrat Khalifa I was informed of the second.
The Importance of Marriage
When the need for marriage was felt, Hazrat Masih Maud (peace be upon him) preferred you to form a relationship at this place. Both families have old ties with Ahmadiyyat. However, the real truth is that old and new are all relative things. As long as the bond remains established, one deserves more blessings, and the world is less without it. But when future generations sever their ties, God considers the old, not the new. God Almighty's treatment is always based on relationships. Look in the world, when a friend treats you well, you present love and affection to them. And if they turn into enemies, you also become their enemy. It has never happened that you give an opportunity to any enemy to poison your food because they used to be your friend five years ago. When they become enemies, they will try to hurt you anyway, whether they were your friend for five years or ten years. When all interactions in the world are based on relationships, how can it be that God Almighty ignores it? When good families and old families maintain their relationships, God pays more attention to them. It is mentioned in hadiths that once the Holy Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was asked by the companions who are the most honorable families in Arabia. You said, those who were noble before, on the condition that they choose God's righteousness. If they choose righteousness, God Almighty will accept their sacrifices and grant them a share of His blessings due to the services of their fathers and grandfathers. And if they become weak, just because their fathers sacrificed, or their grandfather became a martyr, or their father was righteous or gave a lot in charity, they cannot be deserving of God's favors. What good comes from these things? The famous example is that someone asked, what is the reason for the jackals that roam and make noise at night? The answerer was a human being. He started saying, at night, a jackal stands on one side and another on the other. The jackal standing alone says, "My father was a king." Upon this, all jackals start making noise, saying, "Yours, yours, yours," meaning, what about you? What about you? If he was a king, he's already gone. What benefit do you have from his kingship now? This example is given to say that saying, "My father was like this, and my grandfather was like this," is of no use.
The Tale of Wolves
This is not a tale of wolves; wolves do not hunt themselves but rather feast on the prey killed by the lion. Similarly, some natural tendencies are so filthy that they do not work, and they keep narrating stories that our fathers did this and our grandfathers did that. If you have not done anything in your life, then your fathers, grandfathers, and forefathers' sacrifices cannot benefit you. They took what they had to take from Allah, and the deceased who had to take the recompense have passed away, and they have taken blessings from Allah for their progeny. They did not leave any blessings for their offspring, not even a penny. Now, what right do the children have to consider those sacrifices for themselves? If they made sacrifices in the event, and making sacrifices is a good thing, then make sacrifices yourself and achieve the position that your fathers and forefathers attained. In any case, when a person stands firm on righteousness, the righteousness of their fathers and forefathers benefits them to some extent. Therefore, the Quran states that God Almighty said: "Paradise is under the feet of mothers." It is a condition that they have faith and do good deeds. This does not mean that the strong will be paired with the weak; rather, the weak will be paired with the strong, and those of lower status will be united with those of higher status. So, even family ties provide some benefit, but the Quran tells us that this benefit can only be obtained when a person stands firm on faith and good deeds. Those who do not stand firm on faith and good deeds will not reap this benefit. In any case, these two families are known for their honor. But as I mentioned, true blessings can only be obtained when future generations also undergo a change within themselves. Miyan Chiragh-ud-Din Sahib did not take any pledge from Allah. If someone else makes sacrifices today and dedicates themselves as a child for the service of the community, then Allah will also elevate their name. He will honor them and create people who remember their deeds. God's doors are never closed. Unfortunately, humans close those doors and say, "Where can I attain that position which the previous people achieved?" Thus, they become hopeless of Allah's mercy.
The Tale of Wolves
This is not a tale of wolves; wolves do not hunt themselves but rather feast on the prey killed by the lion. Similarly, some natural tendencies are so filthy that they do not work, and they keep narrating stories that our fathers did this and our grandfathers did that. If you have not done anything in your life, then your fathers, grandfathers, and forefathers' sacrifices cannot benefit you. They took what they had to take from Allah, and the deceased who had to take the recompense have passed away, and they have taken blessings from Allah for their progeny. They did not leave any blessings for their offspring, not even a penny. Now, what right do the children have to consider those sacrifices for themselves? If they made sacrifices in the event, and making sacrifices is a good thing, then make sacrifices yourself and achieve the position that your fathers and forefathers attained. In any case, when a person stands firm on righteousness, the righteousness of their fathers and forefathers benefits them to some extent. Therefore, the Quran states that God Almighty said: "Paradise is under the feet of mothers." It is a condition that they have faith and do good deeds. This does not mean that the strong will be paired with the weak; rather, the weak will be paired with the strong, and those of lower status will be united with those of higher status. So, even family ties provide some benefit, but the Quran tells us that this benefit can only be obtained when a person stands firm on faith and good deeds. Those who do not stand firm on faith and good deeds will not reap this benefit. In any case, these two families are known for their honor. But as I mentioned, true blessings can only be obtained when future generations also undergo a change within themselves. Miyan Chiragh-ud-Din Sahib did not take any pledge from Allah. If someone else makes sacrifices today and dedicates themselves as a child for the service of the community, then Allah will also elevate their name. He will honor them and create people who remember their deeds. God's doors are never closed. Unfortunately, humans close those doors and say, "Where can I attain that position which the previous people achieved?" Thus, they become hopeless of Allah's mercy.
Al-Fazl, August 6, 1952(Delivered on December 26, 1952)
This is not a separate marriage sermon but a part of the Friday sermon in which Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of respected Prince Mirza Rafi Ahmad Sahib with Ummatul Qudus Begum Sahibah, daughter of Dr. Mir Muhammad Ismail Sahib, with a dowry of one thousand rupees. Additionally, Hazrat also announced the marriage of respected Qazi Mahmood Shaukat Sahib, son of Qazi Muhammad Hanif Sahib, with a dowry of three thousand rupees to respected Sahibzadi Ansa, daughter of Hazrat Peer Muhammad Ishaq Sahib. Regarding these marriages, Hazrat mentioned the following during the Friday sermon:
Many other friends wish to officiate marriages at this occasion. Their main purpose is for the members of the central community to participate in prayers. But along with that, they also wish that instead of coming twice, they have come for the annual session, so let's officiate the marriages as well. For this purpose, twenty people have finalized their marriages. Such friends wish that I announce their marriages. But since marriage announcements take about an hour and a half, and the annual session program cannot be delayed for so long, I have decided that on December 28, between Maghrib and Isha prayers, the announcements of marriages will be made.
Remember, on the evening of December 28, between Maghrib and Isha prayers, the announcements of marriages will be made. Friends who wish to officiate marriages with me should prepare their documents and arrive at the private secretary's office on December 28. Today, I announce marriages, but it takes so much time in preparation and acceptance that not only the sermon and prayers suffer but also some time is taken from the session, which should only be dedicated to it. Therefore, I did not announce marriages. If there were a few announcements, I would have included them with these marriage announcements. Such occasions are very valuable and scarce, so we should try to make the most of it.
Al-Fazl, January 18, 1953, Page 2(Delivered on November 1, 1953)
On November 1, 1953, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of respected Arif Naeem Sahib of Sipras with respected Khadija Begum Sahibah, daughter of honorable Mir Muhammad Ibrahim Sahib, with a dowry of one thousand rupees. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he stated:
Generally, people raise orphans as servants and treat them as such. However, the Quran emphasizes that the upbringing of orphans should be done with the same care as one's own children. The Quran has placed great emphasis on the upbringing of orphans. This is something that if found in a community, the individuals of that community become fearless of death. Because at the time of death, a person is not afraid of his own death; rather, he is concerned about what will happen to his widow and orphans after him. But if every person is observing around him that the community is not neglectful of its orphans and has the best arrangements for their orphans and widows, and every person is treating his sisters and children well, then he becomes fearless of death, and a community whose members are fearless of death cannot be eradicated. European nations are also not unaware of this fact that a nation whose individuals are not afraid of death cannot survive, but for this reason, they have given priority to drinking. This is the reason.
The Temptation of Alcohol in the Army
It is observed that soldiers in the army are enticed towards alcohol consumption, and the consumption of alcohol is increased during wartime so that they become heedless of the consequences and do not think about what will happen to their wives and children after their death. However, Islam adopts a natural approach and in reality, by ensuring the protection and upbringing of widows and orphans, it reassures the members of the community that they should not fear death for the sake of religion and country. But Europeans have chosen the path of increasing alcohol consumption and playing it abundantly so that they artificially veil the intelligence of their soldiers, making them fearless of death during the country's battles. (Al-Musleh, Karachi, September 7, 1953, Page 4)
On November 1, 1953, at half past nine in the morning, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of respected Arif Naeem Sahib of Sipras with respected Khadija Begum Sahibah, daughter of the honorable Mir Muhammad Ibrahim Sahib, with a dowry of one thousand rupees. On November 5, 1953, at half past nine in the morning, Hazrat Musleh Maud read the marriage sermon at the Caliphate Palace. The marriage sermon could not be concluded in its entirety and its summary was published in the words of respected Maulana Nazir Ahmad Ali Sahib, a missionary from West Africa. The sermon included the commendation of Khwaja Gul Muhammad Sahib of Chakwal, who presented a good example in the upbringing of an orphan girl under his care.
Al-Musleh, Karachi, December 17, 1953The Value of Sincerity Over Wealth
On December 14, 1953, after the Asr prayer at the blessed mosque, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of the former missionary of Borneo, Mirza Muhammad Idris Sahib, with Ummatul Aziz Sahibah, daughter of the honorable Hafiz Dr. Badr-ud-Din Ahmad Sahib of Borneo, with a dowry of one thousand rupees. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he stated:
Due to the pain in my throat, I could not deliver a lengthy sermon, but it is necessary to say something about this marriage. For several years, I have been receiving information that people avoid giving their daughters in marriage because they fear that by giving their daughters in marriage, they will have to bear the burden of their lives. If this information is correct and the speakers have not misunderstood, then I must say that the person who expresses such thoughts is completely devoid of reason and intellect. Because wealth is not just the name of rupees but the name of an ability and something that has a value in some market. For example, if someone has two to three grams of opium, and even if those who do not use it do not value it, but in the area of addicts or among those who use it, it is worth hundreds of rupees. Similarly, there are bhang, charas, and alcohol. If there are bottles of alcohol in a Muslim neighborhood, people will advise to throw them away. Perhaps a neighbor might turn out to be such that he himself goes and steals them.
Crush the Mushrooms. But for Americans and British, that same alcohol is a precious thing. Therefore, experts in economics have differentiated between wealth and money. Hence, Europeans often say that India is a wealthy country. But many Indians, seeing that the inhabitants of this country die of poverty and hunger, think that this statement is incorrect. Although the concept of wealth means that in this country's land, there is such hidden mineral and agricultural wealth that if fully utilized, it would be in great demand in many markets worldwide. There have been great scholars and philosophers in the world who, although poor in terms of money, possessed something that was valued by the rulers and kings of their time. In Greece, there is a philosopher named Diogenes who lived where once Alexander the Great passed by. Alexander also attended his meeting. Diogenes was sitting in the sun at that time because he believed, and this belief has now been confirmed by modern research, that the sun's rays are very beneficial for human beings. Alexander said that if he needed anything, he was ready to serve. Diogenes only said that you have taken me out of the sun. Therefore, leave the sun. Near Diogenes, the sun, which is generally considered an ordinary thing, was so precious that Alexander's offer of service was priceless. Nevertheless, despite Diogenes' poverty, he possessed something that was valued even in Alexander's heart. Similarly, there is the incident of Harun al-Rashid who sent his two sons to a scholar who had nothing in terms of material wealth and riches for education. One day, when the teacher took off his shoe to repair it, the two princes started fighting over it. Upon this, Harun al-Rashid said to him, "You are a person who cannot die. You possess something that will keep you alive even after death. Were Hazrat Moses, Hazrat Jesus, and the Holy Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon them, wealthy in terms of material wealth and riches? Certainly not. The condition of Hazrat Jesus, peace be upon him, was such that he said, "Foxes have holes and birds of the air have nests, but the Son of Man has nowhere to lay his head."
Not. The general situation was such that sometimes food was requested from a disciple, but despite that, they possessed something that was valued by Allah Almighty to the extent that some wealthy women would anoint their feet with perfume and dry their feet with their own hair. Similarly, the Holy Prophet lived in extreme poverty, but there was no prestigious tribe in Arabia whose daughter was not in the Prophet's house, and those people took pride in it. There was a companion of the Prophet who was extremely ugly due to a congenital defect and extremely poor as well. His body and clothes were dirty, yet he was selling something in the market that no one else was selling. He was sweating profusely, and people were rubbing their feet with his hair. The Prophet approached from behind and, as children play with their hands, closed his eyes with his hands. They recognized by touching that these were the hands of the Prophet because there were hardly any hairs on the Prophet's body or very few, and the body was extremely delicate, yet they began to rub their body with love. The Prophet put his hand on them and said, "This is my slave. Is there anyone who will buy him?" Upon this, their hearts were filled, and they said to the Prophet, "My master, this is a useless and worthless thing, who will buy it?" The Prophet said, "Certainly not, but in the sight of Allah, he is very valuable. Those who undervalue the servants of religion due to financial constraints are wrong. Is that thing valuable that Americans or Sikhs and Hindus buy, but that thing has no value that Allah Himself buys. Dr. Badr-ud-Din Ahmad Sahib has this quality, and it is his good fortune that he saw something that others do not see. He gave his first daughter to a servant of religion, that is, Sufi Matiur Rahman Sahib Bengali. Although they are doctors and earn thousands of rupees monthly, they are giving their daughter a knowledgeable life because in it, they see something that does not appear in themselves. I have called it good fortune because many people despite being servants of religion
Recognizing the Value and Price but Failing to Act. Now I pray that Allah Almighty blesses this marriage for both parties. (Al-Musleh, January 1, 1954, Page 4)
No scribe was present at the wedding ceremony, so the sermon was transcribed by respected Maulana Nazir Ahmad Ali Sahib, the former Head of Tabligh in West Africa, who wrote in his own words, "May Allah reward him best."
Diogenes, a Greek philosopher of the Cynic sect, praised self-sufficiency and despised social conventions.
Alexander the Great
Shah Asad al-Ghaba, Volume 2, Page 193, under the title "Zahir bin Haram," published in Beirut, Lebanon, 1977
(Delivered on January 25, 1954)
On January 25, 1954, after the Asr prayer, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II solemnized the marriage of respected Chaudhry Khizr Muballigh Safinah Sahib of Spain with Rukaiya Team Bashri, daughter of respected Master Muhammad Ishaq Sahib, Headmaster of Government High School Fort Abbas, Bahawalpur State, with a dowry of three thousand rupees. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he stated:
Marriages happen, but with these marriages, much more is associated. Sometimes, both the boy and girl's families are engrossed in the allure of piety. They give the name of piety to them, but in reality, they do not have a real connection with piety. For instance, there is a wealthy girl, and someone desires to marry her. Now, in their hearts, they think that by marrying this girl, wealth and riches will come into their hands, but when they talk to people, they talk in such a way that this girl is very pious, so they want this relationship to be established. It seems that only a pious wealthy girl can be found; a poor girl cannot be pious. This is the situation of those who think that if their daughter marries a certain boy, they will be at ease, but fearing the circumstances and being afraid that if they display worldliness, what will people say, they are in a dilemma.
Talking with a Hidden Agenda
People talk and say, "That boy is very pious, very sincere, so we want our daughter to be associated with him." Although a pious and religious boy can also be poor, what is the condition of wealth and piety? It is regrettable from the perspective of their circumstances, and I particularly detest those people who use religion for worldly purposes. If the girl's family says they want to marry their daughter to a wealthy boy or the boy's family says they want to bring a wealthy daughter-in-law into their house, no matter how much someone may criticize them, we will not consider it a sale of religion. Even though this desire may not be good, that someone says, "I want to marry my daughter to a wealthy boy," or "I want to bring a wealthy daughter-in-law into my house," at least they have openly expressed their desire. But when an attempt is made to bring wealth under the guise of piety, it is extremely regrettable. And then there are those people of a worse kind who belittle religion. A person who dedicates their life and devotes themselves to religion, and another person who is far from or not as close to Allah Almighty, how can it be that a believer seeking closeness to Allah is looked upon with disdain and a person distant from Allah is looked upon with greatness and respect? Look at the Holy Prophet, peace be upon him, he had not even proclaimed his prophethood yet when Hazrat Khadijah, who was a wealthy woman, expressed her desire to marry him. Hazrat Khadijah had wealth, and the Holy Prophet was poor, yet he did not express his desire to marry her because of her wealth, but it was Hazrat Khadijah herself who expressed her desire to marry the Holy Prophet. In the Arabs, there was not as much shame as in our country that their women did not speak directly, but still Arab women felt more shame in front of men.
Testing the Waters
They introduced their friend to her and asked her if she would agree to marry him. The Holy Prophet ﷺ had not yet achieved spiritual superiority; he had only attained moral excellence, and people considered him honest, truthful, and trustworthy. Although his relationship with Allah Almighty had not been expressed yet, but merely based on his honesty and trustworthiness, this wealthy woman from Mecca, who was one of the prominent wealthy women, initiated the proposal for marriage to him. It was not just an empty proposal for marriage because it could be possible for a wealthy woman to propose to a poor man, but in her heart, she had the intention that if she found a reasonable person willing to marry her, she would not need wealth. She thought, "I have money, and he will have intellect and understanding, and life will pass smoothly. This sentiment was not wrong in its place, but the sentiment of Hazrat Khadijah was very noble. When the marriage of the Holy Prophet ﷺ took place with her, she immediately realized that she had married a person who had a sense of honor. He had no money, and I have great wealth. If I put food in front of him, he will think it is given by his wife. If I make clothes for him, he will think his wife made them. If I give him money, he will think his wife gave it to him. He will not bear this. Hazrat Khadijah expressed after the marriage, "I want to give all my slaves to you." Since the Prophet did not like slavery, this statement also prompted him to accept Hazrat Khadijah's proposal. He said, "Khadijah! Understand well so that you do not regret later. I do not like to keep slaves. If you give me your slaves, I will not keep them."
(Delivered on February 2, 1954)
Immediately, I will free them. Hazrat Khadijah said, "I agree." So Hazrat Khadijah gave her headscarf and all her slaves to you, and at that moment, you freed all the slaves. When you said this, if you had given me your slaves, I would not have liked slavery, and I would have freed them. So Hazrat Khadijah understood that my wealth will not benefit me nor will it benefit them; this is just squandering wealth. When the Holy Prophet ﷺ received the first revelation, Hazrat Khadijah said, "You support the oppressed. You help those who are legally indebted and cannot bear the burden. You help them in repaying their debts, which they cannot bear. This means that you spend all your income in the way of Allah. After that, Hazrat Khadijah's life was not like that of the rich. Hazrat Khadijah not only married a poor person but also after marriage, she overlooked the fact that her wealth would bring comfort to her husband. She also referred him to her wealth, saying that he should spend it. This was something that deeply touched the heart of the Holy Prophet because of the immense love Hazrat Khadijah had for him. Even in her later life, Hazrat Khadijah was greatly respected and honored. About two to three years before the migration to Medina, Hazrat Khadijah passed away. After the migration, you married Hazrat Aisha, who was not only beautiful but also knowledgeable in religion. Your marriage took place in Mecca, but the separation occurred in Medina. Then you had other wives, who were also of noble lineage compared to Hazrat Khadijah, and their families had prestigious backgrounds, but despite that, Hazrat Khadijah's sacrifice always remained in your memory. When you married Hazrat Aisha, at that time, in the eyes of the world, you were not considered great, but in the eyes of the believers, you had indeed become the possessor of great honor. The claim of prophethood had been made, and the revelation of Allah Almighty had descended upon you. Therefore, Hazrat Abu Bakr did not give his daughter to any poor person but gave her to Muhammad, the Messenger of Allah, even though Hazrat Khadijah, despite being wealthy, married a poor person without any reason!
The marriage was accepted. There is a significant difference between the two. When you went to Medina, Allah Almighty also bestowed worldly honor upon you. In those times, women did not speak directly, but in Medina, the women with whom you were married had already established your external honor. However, Hazrat Khadijah agreed to marry you solely for the sake of religion. This was something that the Holy Prophet ﷺ could not forget throughout his life. Hazrat Aisha was young, beautiful, knowledgeable, and her father was your closest companion. Her dedication and understanding were superior to all other women. Even the Holy Prophet ﷺ had to say that half of the religion should be learned from Aisha. But there was never an opportunity where you could say that Aisha was like Khadijah. Aisha often thought that she was pious, knowledgeable, young, and dedicated, and her father was your closest companion. Even though she was young, beautiful, and knowledgeable, and her father was your closest companion, she had the highest dedication and understanding among all women. So much so that once Aisha asked in a challenging manner, "O Messenger of Allah! Why do you always mention Khadijah? Has Allah not given you wives better than her in beauty, youth, and service? You replied, 'Aisha, you do not know the goodness inside Khadijah and how she served me.' This was the reason that Hazrat Khadijah saw the light of the Holy Prophet when no one else could see it. She sacrificed all her wealth when no one else was willing to spend a penny for you. It is narrated in the traditions that once the Holy Prophet was sitting in a gathering and teaching women, and the voice of Khadijah was very similar to the voice of Hazrat Khadijah. Hazrat Khadijah had passed away before the migration to Medina, and you were giving sermons to the women in Medina, waiting for her to come. She did not say anything. Even though seven to eight years had passed since Hazrat Khadijah's demise, and according to the teachings of Islam, the dead do not return to this world, when you heard her voice, you felt as if someone had lost the world. You
Restless and Anxious
Restlessly, you said, "My Khadijah, my Khadijah." When she came before you, you realized she was the sister of Hazrat Khadijah. Then you said, "O my Allah, what has happened to me? She is just a woman." It seemed as if eight years after Hazrat Khadijah's demise, upon hearing her voice, the memories of her virtues were revived in your heart. These were the initial sacrifices of Hazrat Khadijah that were born in your heart. Therefore, marriages should be considered carefully. It is not just one party that should consider it but both parties should. The Holy Prophet ﷺ said, "Seek a religious woman. Fill your hands with soil." These are the words of endearment. Even in our country, women talk jokingly with their brothers. They say "black face." Here, "black face" is not used in the sense of unfortunate but is said out of affection. Similarly, in the Arabs, "fill your hands with soil" were words of love and affection. The Holy Prophet ﷺ also used these words in their meanings. He said, "Marry for the sake of religion." But it is necessary for both parties to do so, as I have mentioned. Some people take undue advantage of it, meaning their aim is to gain status. They say that the boy is religious or the girl is religious. Although can a poor boy or a poor girl not be religious? Look at the incident of Hazrat Khadijah. Here, a poor boy did not desire to marry a wealthy woman, but a wealthy woman desired to marry a poor boy. If a poor person desires to marry a wealthy person for the sake of piety and religion, it is considered good. But if an attempt is made to choose wealth under the guise of piety, it is extremely regrettable. The Holy Prophet ﷺ also used these words in their meanings. He said, "Marry for the sake of religion." But it is necessary for both parties to do so, as I have mentioned. Some people take undue advantage of it, meaning their aim is to gain status. They say that the boy is religious or the girl is religious. Although can a poor boy or a poor girl not be religious? Look at the incident of Hazrat Khadijah. Here, a poor boy did not desire to marry a wealthy woman, but a wealthy woman desired to marry a poor boy. If a poor person desires to marry a wealthy person for the sake of piety and religion, it is considered good. But if an attempt is made to choose wealth under the guise of piety, it is extremely regrettable.
This is the second marriage in which an attempt is made to establish relationships with a wealthy person. That is, the boy I want to announce the marriage of, Brother Abdul Rahim Sahib, is the same, and before him, despite being a wealthy person and earning an income of three thousand rupees, Dr. Badr-ud-Din Ahmad Sahib has chosen the dowry for his daughter. And the dowry is fifty-six rupees. Despite the current unfortunate circumstances, this is an extremely noble example shown by Dr. Badr-ud-Din Ahmad Sahib, and even in this situation, if it is relatively less significant, the desire to establish a relationship with a wealthy person is evident, and this is a good deed provided that other people also benefit from it and do not make marriages a means of concealing their materialism.
References: Sahih al-Bukhari, Book of Marriage, Chapter: Competence in Religion
(Delivered on December 26, 1955)
On December 26, 1955, before the commencement of the annual session, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of Syed Mir Mahmood Ahmad Sahib with Umme Mateen Sahibah, and the marriage of Prince Mirza Khurshid Ahmad Sahib with Umme Wahid Begum Sahibah. Additionally, the announcement of five more marriages was made:
After the recitation of the Nikah sermon, it is desired to announce a few marriages before the opening words and prayers. Normally, marriages take place on December 29, but there are exceptions in these marriages. Firstly, the marriage of my own daughter, Umme Mateen, has been fixed with Syed Mir Mahmood Ahmad, son of Mir Muhammad Ishaq Sahib. Secondly, the dear daughter of Chaudhry Zafarullah Khan Sahib, Umme Halee, has been engaged to Dr. Ijaz-ul-Haq Sahib from Lahore. Thirdly, Umme Wahid Begum, daughter of Mirza Sharif Ahmad Sahib, has been engaged to Prince Mirza Khurshid Ahmad, son of Mirza Aziz Ahmad Sahib. Fourthly, Umme Hafiz Sahibah, daughter of Chaudhry Asadullah Khan Sahib, has been engaged to Khawaja Sir Faraz Ahmad, son of Khawaja Abdul Rahman Sahib from Sialkot. Fifthly, this marriage also holds significance as a Pakistani girl is going to be married to an Indonesian national, meaning Umme Nasir Begum, daughter of Maulvi Muhammad Taqi Sahib, has been engaged to Saleh Shabibi, son of Sulaiman Shabibi from Indonesia.
Restless and Anxious
Restlessly, you said, "My Khadijah, my Khadijah." When she came before you, you realized she was the sister of Hazrat Khadijah. Then you said, "O my Allah, what has happened to me? She is just a woman." It seemed as if eight years after Hazrat Khadijah's demise, upon hearing her voice, the memories of her virtues were revived in your heart. These were the initial sacrifices of Hazrat Khadijah that were born in your heart. Therefore, marriages should be considered carefully. It is not just one party that should consider it but both parties should. The Holy Prophet ﷺ said, "Seek a religious woman. Fill your hands with soil." These are the words of endearment. Even in our country, women talk jokingly with their brothers. They say "black face." Here, "black face" is not used in the sense of unfortunate but is said out of affection. Similarly, in the Arabs, "fill your hands with soil" were words of love and affection. The Holy Prophet ﷺ also used these words in their meanings. He said, "Marry for the sake of religion." But it is necessary for both parties to do so, as I have mentioned. Some people take undue advantage of it, meaning their aim is to gain status. They say that the boy is religious or the girl is religious. Although can a poor boy or a poor girl not be religious? Look at the incident of Hazrat Khadijah. Here, a poor boy did not desire to marry a wealthy woman, but a wealthy woman desired to marry a poor boy. If a poor person desires to marry a wealthy person for the sake of piety and religion, it is considered good. But if an attempt is made to choose wealth under the guise of piety, it is extremely regrettable.
Now, I announce each of these marriages one by one:
References: Sahih al-Bukhari, Book of Marriage, Chapter: Competence in Religion
When you go there, it will be hidden on a good scale. The matter was quite reasonable, but my heart does not want that the treatise that Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as) started should be transferred to another region. As much as possible, we should try to produce good individuals and have them continue this treatise. If the second edition is also printed there, it will be beneficial. Some American newspapers have an edition that comes out in Canada and one in England. Now, without a doubt, these two editions should be printed, one from America and one from Pakistan. But my heart desires that it should be printed from our vicinity so that our hearts are reassured that the trust that Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as) had entrusted to us is being taken care of. This marriage of Umme Mateen Maryam Siddiqa with Syed Mir Mahmood Ahmad Sahib has been finalized because Syed Mir Mahmood Ahmad Sahib is in England, and he is the son of Mir Muhammad Ishaq Sahib. Therefore, he has the choice and acceptance from his side. I announce the acceptance from my daughter's side that Umme Mateen, who is my daughter, has accepted her marriage with Syed Mir Mahmood Ahmad, son of Mir Muhammad Ishaq Sahib, with a dowry of one thousand rupees. Mirza Aziz Ahmad Sahib, you may announce that the marriage proposal of Syed Mir Mahmood Ahmad Sahib with a dowry of one thousand rupees has been accepted by my daughter Umme Mateen. He has given his acceptance.
He will inaugurate that Allah Almighty may bless all these marriages both in terms of religion and worldly matters and through these marriages lay the foundation of strength and power for the future series. After these words, the Holy Prophet ﷺ made a lengthy supplication, including his loved ones.
References: Page 345, Fourth Edition, Al-Fazl, February 4, 1956, Page 473
(Delivered on March 8, 1956)
On March 8, 1956, on Thursday, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of his son, Mirza Azhar Ahmad Sahib, with Qaisarah Khanum Sahibah, daughter of Khan Saeed Ahmad Khan Sahib, with a dowry of one thousand rupees.
After the recitation of the Sunnah verses, he said: "Today, I stand here to announce the marriage of my son, Mirza Azhar Ahmad, who is the son of Colonel Usaf Ali Khan Sahib, with Qaisarah Khanum Saeed. Qaisarah Khanum Saeed was previously our distant relative, but now due to this marriage, her relationship with us has become closer. One aspect of her relationship is that she is the niece of Colonel Usaf Ali Khan Sahib, and Colonel Usaf Ali Khan Sahib was the brother-in-law and maternal uncle of Nawab Muhammad Ali Khan Sahib. It seems as if they are the relatives of the person to whom Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as) married his daughter, and later, during the time of the First Khalifa of the Promised Messiah, his son was married to your second daughter. The second relationship, based on an inspiration from Allah Almighty, is that they are the descendants of Khan Muhammad Khan Sahib of Kapurthala. Khan Muhammad Khan Sahib was a very old companion of Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as). Unfortunately, our community has become very forgetful in remembering its history.
Perhaps there is no other nation that is as negligent in remembering its history as our community. Christians, despite their historical significance, have not taken their history lightly, and Muslims have detailed the lives of the Companions to such an extent that some books consist of thousands of pages. However, despite emerging in an era of knowledge, our community is working with great carelessness in remembering its history. I have mentioned that Khan Muhammad Khan Sahib was an old companion of Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as) and had so much love for the lineage that when he passed away on January 1, 1904, the next day Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as) came to the mosque for the morning prayer and said, "Today, I have received an inspiration that someone from the Ahl-e-Bait has passed away."
The attendees said, "The Ahl-e-Bait are well by the grace of Allah Almighty." Then this inspiration was about whom. You said, "Khan Muhammad Khan Sahib of Kapurthala has passed away, and this inspiration was about him. It seems as if Allah Almighty has placed him among the Ahl-e-Bait through inspiration. Then this inspiration was also about their children, that "Kind treatment will be done with the children." In any case, offering condolences on his demise to Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as) and saying that someone from the Ahl-e-Bait has passed away indicates that in the eyes of Allah Almighty, they were included in the spiritual color of the Ahl-e-Bait. Qaisarah Khanum has this second relationship with us that she is the stepdaughter of a person whom Allah Almighty has placed among the Ahl-e-Bait. Then this inspiration was also about her that
Children should be treated kindly.
Regardless, offering condolences on his demise to Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as) and saying that someone from the Ahl-e-Bait has passed away indicates that in the eyes of Allah Almighty, they were included in the spiritual color of the Ahl-e-Bait. Qaisarah Khanum has this second relationship with us that she is the stepdaughter of a person whom Allah Almighty has placed among the Ahl-e-Bait. The girl's father had passed away in childhood, and later, her grandfather also passed away in Lahore. One of her brothers, whose name is Anis Ahmad, is employed in the Customs Department in Karachi, and the other brother, named Shahzad, is a lieutenant in the army. The Holy Prophet ﷺ said that
If the girl's father has passed away, then any brother who is present, even if he is of a young age, has the authority to marry off his sister. You yourself got married at that time when the woman's father had passed away, and there was only one brother who was 8-9 years old. You said, "He is enough."
Sharia has granted this right that in the absence of the father, the brother of the girl has the right to solemnize her marriage. The elder brother of Qaisarah Khanum was far away, and Lieutenant Shahzad gave permission for the marriage, but he could not come himself. Major Bashir Ahmad Sahib has written regarding this matter that as a guardian and caretaker, he approves the marriage of his niece and my sister, Qaisarah Khanum. It is our family tradition that whether it is a boy or a girl, their dowry is set at one thousand rupees. Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as) set the same dowry in his life, which I have also maintained later. Some relationships were also within the noble families, but I recommended the same amount of dowry so that no one could say that more was given for our daughters and less for theirs. There is no doubt that our respected Hamshira Mubarak Begum had a dowry of seven hundred and fifty rupees. But the reason was that in Malerkotla, it was common practice that the women of the noble families did not receive inheritance. Therefore, some said that the dowry is kept low because the woman does not inherit her husband's property. But according to the laws of the state of Malerkotla, a woman cannot inherit her husband's property; hence, it was necessary to keep the dowry higher. Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as) said,
If this situation arises, then the account of the property to be inherited should be calculated, and a dowry should be set accordingly.
So, in reality, the dowry for our respected Hamshira Mubarak Begum was also set higher because according to the laws of the state of Malerkotla, she could not be the heir to her husband's property. But where a woman can inherit her husband's property, we never set a dowry higher than one thousand rupees. There are people whose financial status is much lower than ours, and they set a dowry of eight to ten thousand rupees for their daughters. But since the boy accepts it, we also have to announce the marriage on this dowry. In fact, Islam has made the woman the heir to her husband's property, and when this is the case, what is the need for a higher dowry? If the husband has children, then the wife will receive the eighth share of his property, and if there are no children, she will be the heir to the fourth share of his property. So, as I have mentioned, in our family, the tradition is a dowry of one thousand. Only our Hamshira
Mubarak Begum had a higher dowry, and it was decided based on the movement of Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I, and then Nawab Mohammad Ali Khan also said that according to the state laws, since women do not inherit, a higher dowry should be set. Therefore, Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as) gave permission. If after the death of Nawab Sahib, Hamshira Mubarak Begum had received the eighth share of the property, it would have been certainly much higher, as the property values had increased later. The property that Hamshira left at that time was valued at fifty-seven thousand rupees, which is more than fifteen lakhs now. Perhaps at the time of the marriage, Nawab Sahib thought that Hamshira Mubarak Begum would benefit financially from their family, but the fact is that the properties we received from Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as) were much more valuable than Nawab Sahib's properties due to the growth of Qadian. When the marriage of Hamshira Mubarak Begum took place, we were the offspring of kings, and Nawab Mohammad Ali Khan was just a Nawab. But our family status was then buried in the ground, and their status was established. They thought we were Nawabs, but we did not give ourselves the status of landlords more than a peasant. So it was possible that at some point, Hamshira would be criticized for coming into a big house, so Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as) showed in a childhood dream that Mubarak Begum was saying, "No one can say that such a calamity befell me." So when Nawab Sahib's financial situation deteriorated due to his indebtedness, in the end, Hamshira and her children were the ones who provided money for Nawab Sahib's expenses. The purpose of Hamshira in her childhood and then at such a time when the status of Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as) was not more than a peasant, Allah Almighty inspired through the tongue of Hamshira Mubarak Begum that
No one can say that such a calamity befell me.
What a significant sign it is. Surely, they were married into a noble family, but Allah Almighty knew that a time would come when Nawab Sahib would face financial difficulties, and at that time, they themselves
This girl's property will be the means to eliminate the family's misfortunes. So, this was a divine plan that was mentioned in childhood and then it was fully realized with great dignity. In any case, these are all proofs of the unseen plan of Allah Almighty. Similarly, there are hundreds of prophecies that were fulfilled later and became evidence of the truthfulness of Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as). For example, your prophecy was about me that "He will be a man of complaint, greatness, and wealth." Now, you see how much property Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as) had in his life. You have challenged the opponents by presenting all my property, which was valued at ten thousand rupees. It seems that at that time your property was only worth ten thousand rupees, but now it has become worth lakhs. Where did this wealth come from? It is all by the grace of Allah Almighty; otherwise, I remember that after the demise of Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as), when Nana Jan returned the papers related to our lands, I felt so helpless that I was amazed at what to do. Sheikh Noor Ahmad Sahib coincidentally came to me and said that it is known to me that you need a servant, keep me. I said, "Where can I give you a salary from, I have neither money to pay a salary nor do I expect income from the property." He said, "Whatever small salary you want to give, give it, and then he himself said that you should just give me a monthly salary of ten rupees." So, I hired him as a servant, thinking that at least some income would come. But later, Allah Almighty bestowed such grace that as the city progressed, the value of that property also increased. When the question arose about publishing the first translation of the Holy Quran, I wanted our family to bear all the expenses of publishing this translation. At that time, I called Sheikh Noor Ahmad Sahib and said that I need two thousand rupees now, can this much money be provided? He said, "Give me permission to sell some land for housing, then as much money as you want will come." So, I allowed the sale of some land. This land was near about 50 canals and was located where later the neighborhood of Darul Fazl Abad was established. After a while, Sheikh Sahib returned
He came, and in his hands was a bag of money. He said, "This is two thousand rupees, and if you need ten thousand, that can also be arranged." I said, "At this moment, I only needed this much money." Consequently, the foundation of Darul Fazl Abad was laid, and that money was allocated for the publication of the Quran. Later, Allah Almighty blessed abundantly, and the income from lands reached up to two lakhs annually, excluding the income from gardens. I never tried to spend this income on myself but always dedicated most of it to the service of Islam. Afterward, I also bought land in Sindh, and its income was continuously spent on the activities of the community. By now, I have contributed two hundred and thirty thousand rupees to the modern movement. Similarly, Chaudhry Zafarullah Khan Sahib gifted me a land as a token of goodwill, which was worth one and a half lakh rupees, and I also donated it to the Ahmadiyya Association. In any case, it is Allah Almighty's grace that He preserved me from squandering wealth. Finally, I had a wife and children, and they desired that I create a comfortable situation for them, but I did not care for their comfort. Instead, I always spent the majority of my income on the propagation of Islam, and I have no pride in this favor of Allah Almighty, nor do I desire any praise or commendation. This is Allah Almighty's favor, for which no amount of gratitude is enough. Properties often become a source of trouble for people and lead to the ruin of families. However, if Allah Almighty grants someone wisdom, they can avoid these troubles. In any case, I wanted to mention how once Allah Almighty made a prophecy through the tongue of Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as) and then fulfilled it. In 1904, He inspired that a person was from the Ahl-e-Bait. It could have been considered just a casual remark, but who knew that his granddaughter would be married into a family where Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as) had married his son, and then, on the guidance of the first Khalifa, we also married our second sister into that family. Then, at that time, when the status of Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as) was no more than a peasant, Allah Almighty inspired through the tongue of that granddaughter that
No one can say that such a calamity befell me.
What a significant sign it is. Surely, they were married into a noble family, but Allah Almighty knew that a time would come when Nawab Sahib would face financial difficulties, and at that time, they themselves
The girl's daughter will come into the marriage of my son, and in this way, not only spiritually but also physically, they will be included in the Ahl-e-Bait of Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as). This is a great prophecy that Allah Almighty has fulfilled completely, thus clarifying the truthfulness of Hazrat Masih-e-Maud (as). On March 10, 1957, Page 1. September 14, 1935, Page 4.
From the women's book of marriage, Chapter: Marriage of the Son's Mother. Judgment June 10, 1903. November 23, 1970, Pages 2 to 4.
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(Delivered on September 28, 1957)
On Saturday, September 28, 1957, after the Asr prayer in the blessed mosque, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of respected Abdul Aziz Jumn Baksh Sahib of Suriname, America. This marriage took place with respected Ummat-ul-Hafiz Sahiba, daughter of late Sheikh Abdul Karim Sahib of Gujarat, with a dowry of four hundred pounds sterling. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
The girl's maternal uncle, Hafiz-ur-Rahman Sahib, had a long-standing desire that the relationship of his niece should be with someone well-versed in life. Allah Almighty has fulfilled this desire because Abdul Aziz Jumn Baksh Sahib had come here from America for education and is now returning as an educated individual to his country. Hazrat mentioned about the family of Hafiz-ur-Rahman Sahib that they are an old sincere family and, going a bit higher, this family is connected to the family of the first Khalifa. You also praised this family's sacrifice that they have preferred this distant relationship purely for the sake of religion. The girl's grandfather, Sheikh Rahim Baksh Sahib, and great-grandfather, Sheikh Ilahi Baksh Sahib, were also old companions.
(Al-Fazl, October 1, 1957, Page 8)
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Chapter 13
No one can say that such a calamity befell me.
Translation: In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious, the Most Merciful.
Translation: All praise is due to Allah, the Lord of all the worlds.
Translation: Change is inevitable.
(Delivered on September 28, 1957)
On Saturday, September 28, 1957, after the Asr prayer in the blessed mosque, Hazrat Khalifatul Masih II announced the marriage of respected Abdul Aziz Jumn Baksh Sahib of Suriname, America. This marriage took place with respected Ummat-ul-Hafiz Sahiba, daughter of late Sheikh Abdul Karim Sahib of Gujarat, with a dowry of four hundred pounds sterling. After the recitation of the Sunnah sermon, he said:
The girl's maternal uncle, Hafiz-ur-Rahman Sahib, had a long-standing desire that the relationship of his niece should be with someone well-versed in life. Allah Almighty has fulfilled this desire because Abdul Aziz Jumn Baksh Sahib had come here from America for education and is now returning as an educated individual to his country. Hazrat mentioned about the family of Hafiz-ur-Rahman Sahib that they are an old sincere family and, going a bit higher, this family is connected to the family of the first Khalifa. You also praised this family's sacrifice that they have preferred this distant relationship purely for the sake of religion. The girl's grandfather, Sheikh Rahim Baksh Sahib, and great-grandfather, Sheikh Ilahi Baksh Sahib, were also old companions.
(Al-Fazl, October 1, 1957, Page 8)
Translation: Respond to Allah and the Messenger when he calls you to that which gives you life. Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.
Believers, let there arise from among you a group of people inviting to all that is good, enjoining what is right, and forbidding what is wrong. Those are the successful ones. (Al-Imran, 3:104)
And never is your Lord forgetful. (Maryam, 19:64)
And We have not sent any messenger except to be obeyed by permission of Allah. (Nisa, 4:64)
Whoever intercedes for a good cause will have a share in it. (Nisa, 4:85)
We believe in some and disbelieve in others. (Baqarah, 2:151)
Translation: That they may dwell to it.
Translation: What did he say?
Translation: Corruption has appeared throughout the land and sea.
Translation: They hope for the meeting with Allah.
Translation: Indeed, prayer prohibits immorality and wrongdoing.
Translation: Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you.
Translation: And I did not create the jinn and mankind except to worship Me.
Translation: And let every soul look to what it has put forth for tomorrow.
Translation: I urged Adnan.
Translation: He will be defeated, and they will turn their backs [in retreat]. But the later ones will be victorious.
Translation: They feed the poor, the orphan, and the captive, [saying], "We feed you for the sake of Allah alone; we desire from you neither reward nor thanks."
Translation: Those who remained behind will say when you set out toward the war booty to take it, "Allow us to follow you." They wish to change the words of Allah. Allah says, "They will not follow you."
Translation: By the dawn; By the ten nights; And [by] the even [number] and the odd; And [by] the night when it passes; Is there [not] in [all] that an oath [sufficient] for one of perception? Have you not considered how your Lord dealt with 'Aad - [With] Iram - who had lofty pillars - The likes of whom had never been created in the land? And [with] Thamud, who carved out the rocks in the valley? And [with] Pharaoh, owner of the stakes? [All of] whom oppressed within the lands And increased therein the corruption. So your Lord poured upon them a scourge of punishment. Indeed, your Lord is in observation. And as for man, when his Lord tries him and [thus] is generous to him and favors him, he says, "My Lord has honored me." But when He tries him and restricts his provision, he says, "My Lord has humiliated me." No! But you do not honor the orphan. And you do not encourage one another to feed the poor. And you consume inheritance, devouring [it] altogether, And you love wealth with immense love. No! When the earth has been leveled - pounded and crushed - And your Lord has come and the angels, rank upon rank, And brought [within view], that Day, is Hell - that Day, man will remember, but what good to him will be the remembrance? He will say, "Oh, I wish I had sent ahead [some good] for my life." So on that Day, none will punish [as severely] as His punishment, And none will bind [as severely] as His binding [of the evildoers]. [To the righteous it will be said], "O reassured soul, Return to your Lord, well-pleased and pleasing [to Him], And enter among My [righteous] servants, And enter My Paradise."
Translation: The worst of creatures. (98:7)
Translation: So woe to those who pray [But] who are heedless of their prayer - Those who make show [of their deeds] And withhold [simple] assistance. (107:5-7)
Translation: Indeed, your enemy is the one cut off. (108:3)
Translation: Praise be to Allah, we praise Him.
Translation: Souls are like recruited soldiers.
Translation: Actions are judged by intentions.
Translation: Characterize yourselves with the qualities of Allah.
Translation: Embrace love and fertility.
Translation: Each one of you is a shepherd and is responsible for his flock.
Translation: The best of generations is my generation, then those who follow them, then those who follow them.
Translation: Those who love each other for the sake of Allah will be on thrones of light.
Translation: Hold firmly to the religion.
Translation: There is no fear in Islam.
Translation: No eye has seen, no ear has heard.
Translation: O Allah, keep us away from Satan and keep Your hands over us.
Translation: Go towards death and build.
Translation: Keep Satan away as much as you can.
Translation: Feed the poor, the orphan, and the captive, saying, "We feed you for the sake of Allah alone; we desire from you neither reward nor thanks."
Translation: Those who remained behind will say when you set out toward the war booty to take it, "Allow us to follow you." They wish to change the words of Allah. Allah says, "They will not follow you."
Translation: Respond to Allah and the Messenger when he calls you to that which gives you life. Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. But those [wives] from whom you fear arrogance - [first] advise them; [then if they persist], forsake them in bed; and [finally], strike them. But if they obey you [once more], seek no means against them. Indeed, Allah is ever Exalted and Grand.
Believers, let there arise from among you a group of people inviting to all that is good, enjoining what is right, and forbidding what is wrong. Those are the successful ones. (Al-Imran, 3:104)
And never is your Lord forgetful. (Maryam, 19:64)
And We have not sent any messenger except to be obeyed by permission of Allah. (Nisa, 4:64)
Whoever intercedes for a good cause will have a share in it. (Nisa, 4:85)
We believe in some and disbelieve in others. (Baqarah, 2:151)
One person constructed a building. For Dhuhr...184
They put a question mark
Those who work until Asr, Hazrat Aisha " while eating, Musailma said to her
He gave a dinar. From Dhuhr to Asr, people were crying and asking, saying that I have a hundred thousand soldiers
Also gave a dinar
During the time of the Holy Prophet, there was no good tongue and flour was being made thick
I only want from you that
After your caliphate, grant me 402
And a cunning person deceives me Abu Bakr's rank due to prayers, the people of Mecca came to Hazrat " and made a decision in their favor
He brought his share of birth to his house
No, it is because of the thing that is in their hearts
Come and say that our idols
Stop saying bad things
Who teaches his two daughters Hazrat Aisha had a headache Hazrat said that the best house is
And teaches manners He said for himself Hazrat said if the same headache in which Tahajjud time if the wife's paradise is built
If the eye does not open, the husband splashes water
And my death in my life
He will say, "Oh, I wish I had sent ahead some good for my life."
So on that day, none will punish as severely as His punishment
And none will bind as severely as His binding of the evildoers
To the righteous, it will be said, "O reassured soul, return to your Lord, well-pleased and pleasing [to Him], and enter among My [righteous] servants, and enter My Paradise."
It is narrated that they used to say, "O Allah, try to turn the riders back." Upon repeated insistence, a companion said to Abu Bakr, "Keep me with you." 332 And when they did not turn back, they said, "We will fight in front of you." Hazrat Abu Bakr and Hazrat Umar raised their necks. 344343 And they will fight behind you as well. Yor'yor
Disagreement led to an argument, and love increases with strife. 302 Hazrat settled a dispute between two companions, and it was decided in favor of one. Hazrat Abu Bakr got angry, and Hazrat Amr bin As said, "A guest said something." Only one person went to the house. Before accepting faith, there was resentment and human food. At mealtime, Hazrat said, "Do you people not leave me and Abu Bakr alone?" 332, 331 I could not see towards... 292
The wife also gave an excuse to avoid the upper floor. He was upset and both the husband and wife. Hazrat said, "People keep taking each other's praise." Hazrat Umar kept making noise. 172 Due to prayers, the people of Mecca came to Hazrat and made a decision in their favor. He brought his share of birth to his house. It is not because of the thing that is in their hearts. Come and say that our idols. Stop saying bad things. He who teaches his two daughters, Hazrat Aisha had a headache. Hazrat said that the best house is. And teaches manners. He said for himself, Hazrat said if the same headache in which Tahajjud time, if the wife's paradise is built. If the eye does not open, the husband splashes water. And my death in my life. He will say, "Oh, I wish I had sent ahead some good for my life." So on that day, none will punish as severely as His punishment. And none will bind as severely as His binding of the evildoers. To the righteous, it will be said, "O reassured soul, return to your Lord, well-pleased and pleasing [to Him], and enter among My [righteous] servants, and enter My Paradise."
Oh Allah! Regarding a person, Hazrat also said that when a girl's father, Hazrat, performed a marriage, he would say, "How can this be a sin?" He passed away, so his brother, whose father had passed away, was there? He said, "If the matter is not true, then whether he is present, even if he is of young age, he was just a brother whose age was 8-9. He has the choice to tell the truth. His sister was 7 years old. You said that only that is enough. Name-calling will be a lie. Marriage is done. Sharia has the right to it. Hazrat Khadijah gave all her wealth as a result of goodness. It is good as long as it is given to the slave of Hazrat." Keep it established forever. Given to everyone, Hazrat freed everyone at that time. Hazrat said, "As long as Abdul Rahman bin Awf is alive, there will be no corruption in my Ummah."
Arabic Inspirations:
Urdu Inspirations:
Collect wealth in the sky for yourself
Where neither insects spoil nor rust
Nor do thieves dig holes and steal
325 Footnote
Collect wealth in the sky for yourself
Where neither insects spoil...
315 Footnote
So Saul sent a messenger to the field
And called his son David who lives with the goats
Send him to me
491 Footnote
And the Lord said, "It is not good for Adam to be alone"
For him, a helper like him will be shown
238 Footnote
Christ, who became a curse for us
Took us, freeing us from the curse of the law...
504 Footnote
Numbering of Husbands (Spouses)
Sermon Page
Pirah Kabir Ali Sahib and distinguished lawyer Begum, daughter of Mirza Naseer Ali Sahib, lawyer
Qazi Abdul Haq Sahib, Muhammad Bibi, daughter of Jamaluddin Sahib
Munshi, son of Ali Sahib, daughter of Sheikh Abdul Rahim Sahib
Qazi Abdul Latif Sahib, Um Kulthum, daughter of Qazi Habibullah Lahore
Maulvi Ghulam Muhammad Sahib, Maimoona, daughter of Munshi Habib Ahmad Sahib
Sardar Begum, daughter of Miyan Gohar Ali Sahib
Sir Buland Khan Sahib
Master Sher Alam Sahib
...
Hamida Begum, Hamsheera, Babu Muhammad Hussain Sahib
Ahmad Sahib
Dani Sahiba
Jan Sahib
Muhammad Bibi Sahiba
Maula Bakhsh Sahib
Sakeena Sahiba
Muhammad Zareef Sahib
Bibi Fatima Jameela, daughter of Maulvi Muhammad Ehsanul Haq Sahib Bhagalpuri
Ghulam Qadir Sahib
...
Sughra Begum Sahiba
Dr. Ata-ud-Din Sahib, Nasrat Banu, daughter of Syed Azizur Rahman Sahib
Numbering of Husbands (Spouses)
Mirza Ghulam Muhammad Sahib, son of Mirza Raziya Begum Sahib, daughter of Dr. Khalifa Rashid
Nizamuddin Sahib
Al-Din Sahib
32
42
12
49
49
49
7 7
2 2 2
777
21
23
Yor'yor
22
24
25
26
Not mentioned
Imtiaz-ul-Aziz Sahib, daughter of Qazi Fazl Karim
Sahib Bheroi
Aziz Ahmad Sahib
Azima Begum Sahib
Mehr-ul-Din Sahib
Raisham Bibi Sahib
Babu Ghulam Rasool Sahib
Haleema Begum Sahib, daughter of Babu Faqir Ali Sahib
Roshan Deen Sahib
Amina Bibi Sahib
Ismaatullah Khan Sahib with Nasira Begum Sahib
Chaudhry Fazl Ahmed Khan Sahib
27 Sheikh Ghulam Fareed Sahib B.A. Nawab Begum Sahib Hamshira Sheikh Fazl Haq
28
29
i
31
Sahib Butalvi
Syed Mehdi Hussain Sahib, son of Syeda Raqiya Begum Sahib, daughter of Dr. Syed Ghulam Hussain
Walait Ali Shah Sahib
Sahib Hasar
Mir Ghulam Haider Sahib with Sakina Begum Sahib, daughter of Maulvi Ahmad Hasan
Pur Miri
Sahib Mazhar Nagar
Mian Inayatullah Sahib Qadiani Ghulam Fatima Sahib, daughter of Hakim Abdullah
Master Nazir Ahmad Sahib
Sahib Kapoor Thela
Muzammil Begum Sahib, daughter of Mirza Hussain Beg Sahib
Syed Zain-ul-Abideen Waliullah Shah Sahib with Mar Nisaa Begum Sahib, daughter of Amir Mohammad Khan Sahib
Dr. Syed Mohammad Hussain Shah Sahib Safia Begum Sahib Hamshira Sakina-tul-Nisaa Ahliya
Qazi Mohammad Akmal Sahib
Abdul Hameed Ahmadi Sahib with Karam Fazl Bibi Sahib, daughter of Maulvi Umar-ud-Din
Bakhsh Sahib Jalandhari Sahib Shamlovi
14
52
15
62
=
=
62
La
17
66
18
73
21
80
22
ΛΥ
23
35 Zahoor-ud-Din Sahib, son of Dharam Koi Khurshid Begum Sahib, daughter of Muhammad-ud-Din Sahib
36 Doctor Muhammad Aalam Sahib, Veterinary Feroza Begum Sahib, daughter of Babu Muhammad Umar Hayat
37 Khan Muhammad Ausaf Ali Khan Sahib, Umme Allah Salima Begum Sahib, daughter of Janab
38 Maulvi Zulfiqar Ali Khan Rampuri
39 Miyan Chiragh Sahib Peer Allah Ditta Sahib, Syeda Bibi Sahib, daughter of Muhammad Deen Sahib
40 Muhammad Ismail Sahib, Wald-e-Nizam Mariam Sahib, daughter of Muhammad Abdullah Sahib
41 Allah Khan Sahib
42 Malik Ahmad Hussain Sahib, Wald Malik Niaz Begum Sahib, daughter of Babu Abdul Rahim
43 Ghulam Hussain Sahib
44 Sahib Ahmadi
45 Sheikh Yousuf Ali Sahib Peer Sheikh Nawab Bibi Sahib, daughter of Miyan Ghulam Haider
46 Ya'qub Ali Sahib Editor Mukammal Sahib
47 Syed Sadiq Ali Sahib, son of Syeda Salma Bibi Sahib, daughter of Syed Mahboob Alam Sahib
48 Imdad Ali Sahib Ambina
49 Miyan Abdul Salam Sahib, son of Mahmooda Sahiba, daughter of Chaudhry Abu Al-Hashim Khan
50 His Holiness Khalifatul Masih I Sahib from Bengal
51 Miyan Muhammad Zahoor Sahib from Patiala, brother of Sakina Sahiba, daughter of Miyan Abdul Haq Sahib
52 Dr. Hashmatullah Khan Sahib from Mili Veterinary
53 Miyan Abdul Rahim Sahib, son of Miyan Muhammad Hussain Sahib, son of Sheikh Muhammad Hussain Sahib, the fair judge
54 Ghulam Muhammad Sahib from Amritsari Sharif
55 Sharif Ahmad Sahib, son of Rashida Sahiba, daughter of Miyan Abdul Rashid
56 Abdul Aziz Sahib
57 Sahib
58 Sheikh Yousuf Ali Sahib, Peer Sheikh Nawab Bibi Sahiba, daughter of Miyan Ghulam Haider
59 Ya'qub Ali Sahib, Editor Mukammal Sahib
60 Syed Sadiq Ali Sahib, son of Salma Bibi Sahiba, daughter of Syed Mahboob Alam Sahib
61 Imdad Ali Sahib Ambina
61 Abdul Aziz Sahib over and Meter Basharat Khatoon Sahib, daughter of Sheikh Mola Bakhsh
Gujranwala
Sahib
Syed Wazarat Hussain Sahib Sabira Begum Sahib, daughter of Maulvi Munir-ud-Din Sahib
Abdul Aziz Sahib son of Umar Din Masooda Begum Sahib, daughter of Maulvi Muhammad Ali Sahib Bad and Mili
Sahib Saraih
220
60
=
222
222
61
Fazl Rahman Sahib Samanwi Zahoor Sahib, daughter of Munshi Muhammad Mushtaqim 62
Sahib Sanur
Jamil Rahman Sahib Samanwi Rashid Sahib, daughter of Munshi Muhammad Mushtaqim 62
Sahib Sanur
Chaudhry Sardar Khan Sahib son of Aisha Begum Sahib, daughter of Chaudhry Chiragh Din 63
Asalat Khan Sahib
Sahib
Usaf Ali Khan Sahib Iqbal Begum Sahib, daughter of Chaudhry Naimat Khan 64
Sahib All Hajj
67 Chaudhry Fath Muhammad Sahib Sial Sadika Begum Sahib, daughter of Mirza Mahmood Beg Sahib
68 Sufi Ghulam Muhammad Sahib B.A. Astani Fatima Begum Sahib
69
ง
Lad
Mod
227
227
229
233
239
243
YY
246
Mian Abdul Salam Sahib son of Saeeda Begum Sahib, daughter of Hazrat Mufti Muhammad 67
Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I Sadiq Sahib
Sheikh Dawood Ahmad Sahib Peer Sheikh Bilqis Begum Sahib, daughter of Babu Feroz Ali
Yaqoob Ali Sahib Irfani Sahib
254
69
Maulvi Ali Muhammad Sahib Maulvi Aisha Begum Sahib, daughter of Bhai Abdul Rahim Ayy
AA
Fazl Ajmeri Sahib
Sahib
Mirza Aziz Ahmad Sahib Khalif Mirza Nasira Begum Sahib, daughter of Hazrat Mirza Muhammad Sultan Ahmad Sahib
Isaac Sahib
259
263
72
73 Maulvi Ghulam Muhammad Khan Sahib
Umteh Al-Aziz Begum Sahiba, daughter of Qazi
74 Abdul Rahim Sahib Bhatti
75 Muhammad Faqirullah Sahib, Inspector Schools
Mubarak Begum Sahiba, daughter of Dr. Zafar Hasan Sahib
76 Khwaja Ali Sahib
Bushra Begum Sahiba, daughter of Qazi Amir Hussain Sahib
77 Seth Muhammad Azam Sahib
Seth Aziz-un-Nisa Begum Sahiba, daughter of Hakim Muhammad
78 Muhammad Ghous Sahib, Hyderabad Deccan
Hussain Sahib Qureshi, Lahore
79 Hakim Khalil Ahmad Sahib, Zubeida Khatoon Sahiba, daughter of Khan Zulfiqar
Mongehri
Ali Khan Sahib
80 (Mostly Chaudhry Muhammad Hussain Sahib)
Hamsheera Hakim Fazl Rahman Sahib
ง
81 Seth Muhammad Ajmeri Sahib
82 Mirza Aziz Ahmad Sahib, Khalif Mirza Nasira Begum Sahiba, daughter of Hazrat Mirza Muhammad Sultan Ahmad Sahib
Isaac Sahib
83 Sheikh Dawood Ahmad Sahib
Peer Sheikh Bilqis Begum Sahiba, daughter of Babu Feroz Ali
84 Yaqoob Ali Sahib
Irfani Sahib
87 Prince Mirza Mansoor Ahmad Sahib, son of Princess Nasira Begum Sahiba, daughter of Hazrat Wali Mirza Sharif Ahmad, son of Hazrat Mirza Bashir-ud-Din Mahmood Ahmad, the Second Caliph
88 Nazir Hussain Sahib
Iqbal Begum Sahiba, daughter of Abu Muhammad Ismail Sahib
89 Chaudhry Fath Muhammad Sahib Sial
Sadiqa Begum Sahiba, daughter of Mirza Mahmood Beg Sahib
90 Hakim Khalil Ahmad Sahib
Zubeida Khatoon Sahiba, daughter of Khan Zulfiqar Mongehri
Ali Khan Sahib
91 Mostly Chaudhry Muhammad Hussain Sahib
Hamsheera Hakim Fazl Rahman Sahib
92 Seth Muhammad Ajmeri Sahib
93 Mirza Aziz Ahmad Sahib, Khalif Mirza Nasira Begum Sahiba, daughter of Hazrat Mirza Muhammad Sultan Ahmad Sahib
Isaac Sahib
94 Sheikh Dawood Ahmad Sahib
Peer Sheikh Bilqis Begum Sahiba, daughter of Babu Feroz Ali
95 Yaqoob Ali Sahib
Irfani Sahib
98 Malik Abdul Rahman Sahib, Khadim Zamani Begum Sahiba, daughter of Khan Bahadur Aasif
Gujrati
Zaman Khan Sahib Peli Bheit
Syed Maqbool Ahmad Sahib Hoshiyar Masooda Begum Sahiba, daughter of Syed Muhammad Ali Shah
Pur Sahib Qadian
Muhammad Rafiq Sahib Wald Sheikh Muhammad Nasira Begum Sahiba, daughter of Dr. Hashmatullah Ibrahim Sahib Kanpuri Khan Sahib
112 Mian Abdul Wahab Umar Khalif Hazrat Umteh Latif Begum Sahiba, daughter of Mufti Hakim
Maulvi Nooruddin Sahib Fazl Rahman Sahib
Khalifatul Masih I
Prince Mirza Mazhar Ahmad Sahib, son of Princess Umteh Qayyum Begum Sahiba, daughter of Hazrat Wali Mirza Sharif Ahmad, son of Hazrat Mirza Bashir-ud-Din Mahmood Ahmad, the Second Caliph
114 Chaudhry Khalil Ahmad Naseer Sahib Hamsheera Hakim Fazl Rahman Sahib
104 Seth Muhammad Ajmeri Sahib
105 Mirza Aziz Ahmad Sahib, Khalif Mirza Nasira Begum Sahiba, daughter of Hazrat Mirza Muhammad Sultan Ahmad Sahib
Isaac Sahib
106 Sheikh Dawood Ahmad Sahib Peer Sheikh Bilqis Begum Sahiba, daughter of Babu Feroz Ali
107 Yaqoob Ali Sahib Irfani Sahib
107 Miyan Abdul Rahman Ahmad Sahib, son of Sahibzadi Umteh Rashid Begum Sahiba, daughter of Professor Ali Ahmad Sahib, Hazrat Mirza Bashir-ud-Din Mahmood Ahmad Sahib
Bhagalpuri
Khalifatul Masih II
108 Sahibzada Mirza Hamid Ahmad Sahib, son of Sahibzadi Umteh Aziz Begum Sahiba
109 11+
112
113
དྭཱ
ᎫᏛ.۱۱۵
Wald Hazrat Mirza Bashir Ahmad Sahib, Hazrat Mirza Mahmood Ahmad Sahib, Khalifatul Masih II
523
118
118
S
523
530
119
Mirza Aziz Ahmad Sahib, son of Sahibzadi Umteh Rashid Begum Sahiba, daughter of Hazrat Mufti Muhammad
Hazrat Khalifatul Masih I Sadiq Sahib
Sheikh Dawood Ahmad Sahib, Peer Sheikh Bilqis Begum Sahiba, daughter of Babu Feroz Ali
114 Chaudhry Khalil Ahmad Naseer Sahib, Hamsheera Hakim Fazl Rahman Sahib
104 Seth Muhammad Ajmeri Sahib
105 Mirza Aziz Ahmad Sahib, Khalif Mirza Nasira Begum Sahiba, daughter of Hazrat Mirza Muhammad Sultan Ahmad Sahib
Isaac Sahib
106 Sheikh Dawood Ahmad Sahib, Peer Sheikh Bilqis Begum Sahiba, daughter of Babu Feroz Ali
107 Yaqoob Ali Sahib, Irfani Sahib
119
120
121
122
123
124
125
126 Name of Wife (Spouse) Sermon Number Page
Hazrat Mirza Bashir-ud-Din Mahmood Ahmad Hazrat Syeda Bashri Begum Sahiba, daughter of Syed Sahib Khalifatul Masih II
Dr. Muhammad Ahmad Sahib son of Dr. Umteh Latif Begum Sahiba, daughter of Khan Muhammad Ashraf 128
Hashmatullah Khan Sahib Sahib Ferozpur
Malik Muhammad Sadiq Sahib son of Feroz Jahan Begum Sahiba, daughter of Syed Mufti 128
Mahasha Fazl Hussain Sahib Azhar Hussain Sahib Bureli
Sheikh Muhammad Ishaq Sahib son of Sheikh Shafqat Khanum Sahiba, daughter of Sheikh Abdul Hafeez 129
Mushtaq Hussain Sahib Lahore Sahib Sialkot
Mian Abbas Ahmad Khan Sahib son of Sahibzadi Umteh Bari Begum Sahiba, daughter of Hazrat Nawab Muhammad Abdullah Khan Sahib Mirza Sharif Ahmad Sahib 130
Sahibzada Mirza Khalil Ahmad Sahib Sahibzadi Umteh Majid Begum Sahiba, daughter of Hazrat 131
Son of Hazrat Mirza Bashir-ud-Din Mahmood Mirza Bashir Ahmad Sahib
Ahmad Sahib Khalifatul Masih II
Sahibzada Mirza Hafiz Ahmad Sahib Syeda Tanveer-ul-Islam Sahiba, daughter of Syed
Son of Hazrat Mirza Bashir-ud-Din Mahmood Abdul Salam Sahib Sialkot
Ahmad Sahib Khalifatul Masih II
581
597
597
599
609
609
131
Syed Dawood Mazhar Sahib son of Syed Sahibzadi Umteh Hakim Sahiba, daughter of Hazrat 131
Mahmood Allah Shah Sahib
Mirza Bashir-ud-Din Mahmood Ahmad Sahib Khalifatul Masih II
Syed Dawood Ahmad Sahib son of Hazrat Sahibzadi Umteh Basit Sahiba, daughter of Hazrat
Mir Muhammad Ishaq Sahib
Mirza Bashir-ud-Din Mahmood Ahmad Sahib Khalifatul Masih II
132
127 Akhund Hameedullah Ghulzai Sahib brother Saleha Sadar-ul-Jahan Begum Sahiba, daughter of Qasim 132
Akhund Abdul Qadir Khan Sahib Ali Khan Sahib Rampuri
609
617
617
128
129
130
131
132
133
134
135 Name of Wife (Spouse) Sermon Number Page
Abdul Qadir Sahib son of Maulvi Muhammad Saleh Begum Sahiba, daughter of Maulvi Chiragh Din
Ismaeel Sahib
Qadian
Malik Faiz-ul-Rahman Sahib Faizi Wasima Begum Sahiba, daughter of Syed Waliullah Shah
Brother of Malik Abdul Rahman Sahib
Khadim Gujrati
Hyder Ali Sahib son of Hakim Rahmat Aziza Begum Sahiba, daughter of Mirza Abdul Haq
Lawyer Ferozpur
Ali Sahib and Ali
Abdul Khaliq Sahib Mehta son of Brother Mumtaz Ismat Sahiba, daughter of Dr. Munir
Abdul Rahman Sahib Qadiani Sahib Amritsari
Hafiz Ahmad Khan Sahib son of Name not mentioned
Chaudhry Nazeer Hussain Sahib
Syed Sharif Ahmad Sahib son of Syeda Atiyya Begum Sahiba, daughter of Seth Muhammad Azam
Abdul Hai Sahib of Mansoori
Saeed Ahmad Sahib Darwish son of Tahira Begum Sahiba, daughter of Seth Khair Din
Chaudhry Faiz Ahmad Sahib Sahib Lucknow
Younus Ahmad Sahib Darwish son of Umteh Salam Sahiba, daughter of Qureshi Habib Ahmad
Master Muhammad Shafi Sahib Islam Rabwah Sahib Bureli
Muhammad Ibrahim Sahib Darwish Tailor Umteh Qayyum Begum Sahiba, daughter of Qureshi Habib Ahmad
Master Wald Fazl Kareem Sahib Sahib Bureli
Sheikh Nasiruddin Ahmad Sahib son of Umteh Hameed Begum Sahiba, daughter of Abdul Hameed Khan
Dr. Badruddin Sahib Sahib
Chaudhry Shakrullah Sahib Bashri Saeed Sahib of America
Mian Abdul Hai Sahib Umteh Aziz Begum Sahiba, daughter of Dr. Badruddin Sahib
617
624
630
634
634
639
640
643
643
643
646
140
646
140
140
142
143
144
145
146
147
148 Name of Wife (Spouse) Sermon Number Page
Niamatullah Khan Sahib, son of Babu Muhammad Aminah Begum Sahiba, daughter of Malik Khuda Bakhsh
Alam Khan Sahib of Miyaseh Sahib
142 Prince Mirza Wasim Ahmad Sahib, son of Umteh Al-Qudus Begum Sahiba, daughter of Hazrat Mirza
Qadian
Muhammad Ismaeel Sahib
Pir Muin al-Din Sahib, son of Pir Sahibzadi Umteh Nasir Begum Sahiba, daughter of
Akbar Ali Sahib
Hazrat Mirza Bashir-ud-Din Mahmood Ahmad Sahib
Khalifatul Masih II
143 Pir Haroon al-Rashid Sahib, son of Pir Sarah Bar Jabeen Sahiba, daughter of Dr. Abdul Hameed
Mazhar-ul-Haq Sahib
Chughtai Sahib
Sahibzada Mirza Rafi Ahmad Sahib, son of Umteh Samee Begum Sahiba, daughter of Hazrat Mirza Muhammad
Wald Hazrat Mirza Bashir-ud-Din Mahmood Ismaeel Sahib
Ahmad Sahib, Khalifatul Masih II
144 Qazi Mahmood Shaukat Sahib, son of Syeda Ansa Sahiba, daughter of Hazrat Mirza Muhammad
Qazi Muhammad Haneef Sahib Isaac Sahib
145 Aarif Naeem Sahib of Cyprus Khadija Begum Sahiba, daughter of Muhammad Ibrahim Sahib
146
650
650
652
657
657
144
659
145
Mirza Muhammad Idris Sahib, preacher Umteh Aziz Begum Sahiba, daughter of Dr. Yadee-ud-Din Ahmad
Preacher Umteh, daughter of Dr. Eid
Borneo
Sahib
148 Chaudhry Kareem Ali Sahib Zafar Raqiya Hameem Bashri Sahiba, daughter of Master Muhammad Is-haq
149
Preacher Pain Sahib
Syed Mir Mahmood Naseer Sahib, son of Sahibzadi Umteh Mateen Begum Sahiba, daughter of Hazrat
Hazrat Mirza Muhammad Is-haq Sahib, Mirza Bashir-ud-Din Mahmood Ahmad Sahib
Khalifatul Masih II
661
665
672
27
150 Dr. Ijaz-ul-Haq Sahib Lahore Umteh Halee Sahibah, daughter of Chaudhry Muhammad
151
152 Zafarullah Khan Sahib
Mirza Khurshid Ahmad Sahib, son of Wald Sahibzadi Umteh Wahid Begum Sahibah, daughter of
Hazrat Mirza Aziz Ahmad Sahib, Hazrat Mirza Sharif Ahmad Sahib
Khwaja Sarfaraz Ahmad Sahib, son of Umteh Hafiz Sahibah, daughter of Chaudhry Asadullah
153 Khwaja Abdul Rahman Sahib Khan Sahib
Sialkot
154 Saleh Shabibi Sahib, son of Umteh Nasir Begum Sahibah, daughter of Maulvi Muhammad Taqi
Suleiman Shabibi Sahib Indonesia Sahib
155 Major Anwar Ahmad Sahib
Syeda Nasira Khatoon Sahibah, daughter of Dr. Syed
Anayatullah Sahib
156
157
Advocate
Masood Ahmad Sahib, son of Chaudhry Atiya Sahibah, daughter of Chaudhry Shakrullah Khan
Nazir Ahmad Sahib
158 Abdul Aziz Jamn Bukhsh Sahib of Umteh Hafiz Sahibah, daughter of Sheikh Abdul Karim
149 Sahibzada Mirza Azhar Ahmad Sahib Qaisera Khanum Sahibah, daughter of Khan Saeed Ahmad Khan
Wald Hazrat Mirza Bashir-ud-Din Mahmood Sahib
Ahmad Sahib Khalifatul Masih II
684